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If I Identify as Black Can I Say The N Word?? feat. @NyemiahSupreme (part one) · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, if
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, due, so shameless, if you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, so samous, so shameless, so so
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  Speaker 1: so sumless.
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  Speaker 2: If you know what I'm saying, so.
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  Speaker 1: Shameless, if you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so shame.
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  Speaker 3: It is that happened, You didn't happen. You saw the
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  Speaker 3: silver in your shirt, that's not what happened.
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  Speaker 4: With the silver on the pants.
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  Speaker 5: That's actually not what happened. But okay, I have heels
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  Speaker 5: in my bag that are white, and I just didn't
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  Speaker 5: feel like where it hills.
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  Speaker 2: I literally picked up whatever sneakers was in the doorway. Right,
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  Speaker 2: Why do you like this?
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  Speaker 6: Right?
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  Speaker 5: You don't like them because you want to be Matchie MATCHI,
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  Speaker 5: and you don't have to be MATCHI, MATCHI.
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  Speaker 2: It's fine, you look fine.
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  Speaker 4: I like matching.
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  Speaker 2: At some point, it is matching. Where's the match?
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  Speaker 5: The red, the white, the black, the green is a
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  Speaker 5: pop you have to have a pop color.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. That's from this that's from the X clan.
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  Speaker 3: The red, the black, you had to be there. You
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  Speaker 3: had to be there. Do you remember that x Clan
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  Speaker 3: your hip hop? You don't remember x Clan?
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  Speaker 7: No, I don't, but we're also in our third age thing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: Like I was gonna say, how old or what time
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  Speaker 7: frame is the x Clan? See how I changed that?
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  Speaker 7: What time frame are they from?
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  Speaker 2: It was nineteen ninety when I was like six months old,
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  Speaker 2: nineteen ninety.
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  Speaker 6: But it's hip hop.
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  Speaker 4: There's probably other hip hop that you've listened to that
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  Speaker 4: you wasn't really around for.
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  Speaker 7: What's the x Clan song Biggie?
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  Speaker 4: You don't listen to Biggie?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: But when he died I was like five, I was
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  Speaker 5: seven eight, he was eight. He got in ninety seven, right, okay?
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  Speaker 7: And listen is like you heard it on the radio
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  Speaker 7: pop in the album?
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  Speaker 2: Who's x Clam? Who was like the leader x Klan.
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  Speaker 4: Was a super pro black militant, like the public enemy exactly?
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  Speaker 7: What's the song?
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  Speaker 4: I don't remember?
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  Speaker 6: Nice? Do you not remember?
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  Speaker 4: I don't think there was that day we had like
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  Speaker 4: a super crazy dope song.
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  Speaker 6: It was just a movement, you hand, it was a movement. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: it's a movie.
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  Speaker 2: It's the Pan Africa Niggas something like that.
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  Speaker 5: They were walking around with like the fucking the level
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  Speaker 5: African like that Africa country, continent.
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  Speaker 6: Artifacts exactly exactly. I got you.
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  Speaker 4: How's everybody doing in here? Welcome back to so shameless?
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  Speaker 6: Were good? Yes, sir, we're good, amazing.
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  Speaker 4: We got naive and supreme in here.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, sir.
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  Speaker 4: We don't know where we found the supreme.
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  Speaker 2: She was lost where.
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  Speaker 7: I may have been lost. He was on the side
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  Speaker 7: of the milk cart end, haven't I've been here? Like
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  Speaker 7: you know, if if you could find me, you could
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  Speaker 7: find me. But a lot of people ask me that,
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  Speaker 7: like where have you been? Like like I didn't die.
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  Speaker 7: I just search my name, search search you search anybody name,
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  Speaker 7: you can find them, like Google a yellow Book.
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  Speaker 6: As she said, she said Google.
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  Speaker 2: They ain't not wrong with it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm seeing you online. You're doing a lot of content creation.
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  Speaker 3: What is your brand? Like, what are you doing now?
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  Speaker 7: My brand is like resurfacing. I guess talking more. I'm
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  Speaker 7: like an introvert only child person, so I don't really
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  Speaker 7: like feel they need to talk to people, but I
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  Speaker 7: think it's necessary shot only children. I have stuff to
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  Speaker 7: talk about that I've been holding in. I guess, so,
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  Speaker 7: like what just career tribulations, like what happened to me
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  Speaker 7: that maybe at one point I might have felt like
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  Speaker 7: embarrassed to talk about or like like shame of that.
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  Speaker 7: I just put under the rug and kept moving all
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  Speaker 7: my life. So like now I feel like, oh, like
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  Speaker 7: this is this is stuff that people should know, like
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  Speaker 7: people who want to do what I did should know,
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  Speaker 7: or just me myself, I should let it out. So
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  Speaker 7: maybe it doesn't like make me sick or crazy, so
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  Speaker 7: maybe I'm at a healed point from it all. So
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  Speaker 7: I'm just talking a lot creating music. I'm a creative
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  Speaker 7: so I have to be making something, whether it's painting crochet,
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  Speaker 7: and I've been crocheting a lot. That's what I do.
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  Speaker 3: Like oh you old now, Oh wait, I'm offensive for here?
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  Speaker 6: Did you not know?
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  Speaker 7: It's okay? No, no, I look amazing, But I do crochet.
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  Speaker 7: That was like I made a business out of crochet
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  Speaker 7: in so that was I feel like that was healing
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  Speaker 7: too for me, like to get back into something else
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  Speaker 7: creative and to see like the outcome of it be financial,
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  Speaker 7: So like that was good too. But I love music
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  Speaker 7: and I don't know where I want to be in
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  Speaker 7: it because it's like a fucked up, weird industry. Shit
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  Speaker 7: happened right now, Like I don't even know how people
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  Speaker 7: are doing it, but I still want to make it.
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  Speaker 7: I still want to put it out and feel good
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  Speaker 7: about it for myself. So that's what I'm on.
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  Speaker 3: You are a music artist that was I loved you
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  Speaker 3: in the what is it two thousand and fifteen.
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  Speaker 7: Ten years sixteen?
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  Speaker 6: Like that You're I would have loved.
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  Speaker 3: To say that you was Brooklyn with I mean I
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  Speaker 3: found out you from Queen.
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  Speaker 7: I'm Queen south Side, Jamaica.
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  Speaker 4: Queens south Side, Jamaica. Suchan yes, oh say boy, like
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  Speaker 4: the colossee shit like that over there?
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  Speaker 7: Did Jay train not by It's it's in the same area,
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  Speaker 7: like you got to take the It's around the corner
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  Speaker 7: the Dollar cab up to that ab.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, you were on a TV show?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 6: Did you know?
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  Speaker 4: I was gonna ask you all these questions?
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  Speaker 7: I was like, is this an interview?
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  Speaker 4: No, it's not just like this that people know who
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  Speaker 4: you are.
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  Speaker 7: But yeah, I would say, I'm like.
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  Speaker 4: Do you not want me to do it?
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  Speaker 2: I don't have to know.
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  Speaker 4: I like to, you know, get it out.
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  Speaker 7: I was going to see TV show sister Hood of
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  Speaker 7: hip hop. That show was fun twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen,
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  Speaker 7: Like the Villa, I was made out to be the villain.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know, I'm such a nice girl.
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  Speaker 6: You know what happened? What is it?
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  Speaker 4: Girls being girls? They hated on you.
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  Speaker 7: No, it wasn't even the girls. I think it was
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  Speaker 7: production like that one whatever, quiet maybe or not over compensating,
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  Speaker 7: not to say anybody else was. But you know, I'm
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  Speaker 7: just like whatever. I came to do what I do.
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  Speaker 7: So I just was very like nonchalant and just pop
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  Speaker 7: out when I need to. But somehow I became the villain,
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  Speaker 7: probably because I don't care. I'm a New Yorker, so
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  Speaker 7: we don't We're not gonna kiss your ass and be
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  Speaker 7: like ah, like I'm her being her, like what's next?
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  Speaker 7: And so when it came to other people maybe who
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  Speaker 7: they felt they were, I wasn't so excited and maybe
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  Speaker 7: that that was a good storyline to sprout right, which
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  Speaker 7: but I hated that like being a storyline. I really
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  Speaker 7: I feel like a little trick. Like I went on
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  Speaker 7: the show to be like I'm a rapper on my
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  Speaker 7: journey and documented and it turned into like Bad Girls
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  Speaker 7: Club a little bit and I'm not like I'm not drama,
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  Speaker 7: I'm not instigator or like let me talk about this
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  Speaker 7: bitch like I'm nothing of that. Like I'm like, let
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  Speaker 7: me write my lyrics in my book and go to
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  Speaker 7: the microphone, you know. So like I'm like Ja Cole
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  Speaker 7: weird like that, like I'm only artists, nothing else. And
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  Speaker 7: so it made it made the experience kind of weird,
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  Speaker 7: like paranoid after a while, like like are people talking
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  Speaker 7: to me or people setting up storylines or like so
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  Speaker 7: that production, yeah, it was a production, and it became
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  Speaker 7: like you know when you feel like inside like something
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  Speaker 7: like just eating at you, like, oh, I gotta stop
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  Speaker 7: doing this, like I don't I don't like this part
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  Speaker 7: of it. It's making me sick. So that was like
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  Speaker 7: two years. I did the first season in the second season,
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  Speaker 7: and then after I wouldn't like do their fighting or
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  Speaker 7: stuff like that. I feel like they got rid of
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  Speaker 7: me and they went on to do their third season.
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  Speaker 7: But like at that time, I kind of felt like
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  Speaker 7: a little like like slighted, like damn, now what, I'm
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  Speaker 7: gonna go home and tell everybody, you know, like I'm
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  Speaker 7: on the show no more?
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  Speaker 6: Was that like embarrassing for you.
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  Speaker 7: It felt embarrassing to me, but I feel like when
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  Speaker 7: it happen, nobody cared like once I was off it,
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  Speaker 7: whoever was invested in it because of me, they just
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  Speaker 7: stopped watching it. So it was like a half and half.
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  Speaker 7: So but I felt like, well, damn, like I don't
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  Speaker 7: have no other opportunities lined up, like so what am
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  Speaker 7: I gonna do next? Or so that that kind of
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  Speaker 7: ate me up inside.
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  Speaker 8: I have a question, how did you Was it hard
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  Speaker 8: for you to go back to the music after that,
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  Speaker 8: because I know, after when you're doing two different things, right,
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  Speaker 8: to go back into the music and perform right, How
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  Speaker 8: was that?
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  Speaker 7: I guess I never stopped with the TV show. It
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  Speaker 7: was about the music, so like after a filmed, I
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  Speaker 7: think I had a single at the time. It was
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  Speaker 7: no questions with k Camp, So I was doing music,
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  Speaker 7: but like I wasn't I always say, because the show
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  Speaker 7: was so big, I feel like nobody else could help
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  Speaker 7: me get any bigger, right, So I wasn't like either
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  Speaker 7: I wasn't getting booked for shows. Nobody really wanted to
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  Speaker 7: sign me to a label, maybe assuming that I was
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  Speaker 7: already signed to Timberland or like you know, there was
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  Speaker 7: just a lot of assumptions of what I was, and
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  Speaker 7: so I wasn't getting other opportunities because of what everybody
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  Speaker 7: thought I was was. So there was no shows. There
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  Speaker 7: was no other opportunities really came after that. I had
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  Speaker 7: like a Toyota commercial, and then I had like another
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  Speaker 7: opportunity to write like a jingle for a Juicy Could
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  Speaker 7: Tour commercial, but nothing like nobody approached me to take
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  Speaker 7: it to the next place. So going to tour or
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  Speaker 7: like anything, it just kind of like stopped them. It
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  Speaker 7: was very weird. So yeah, like I never wanted to
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  Speaker 7: come out of music, but no, no other opportunities came
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  Speaker 7: after that.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, it sucks.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you had a whole movement. Yes on Twitter like
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  Speaker 3: she was, she was doing her thing. Man, you were,
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  Speaker 3: really I was. I was excited to be a fan
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  Speaker 3: in MYND. That's why I hit you the other day.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, I'm still a fan. You can still
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  Speaker 3: get your shit going.
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  Speaker 7: I appreciate it. After like making the videos I made
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  Speaker 7: on like TikTok, Instagram, plethora of people like views I've
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  Speaker 7: never gotten on videos, two hundred thirty thousand videos Facebook
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  Speaker 7: stuff like that, and I'm like, wow, how come, y'all
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  Speaker 7: can see this, and y'all can't see anything else that
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  Speaker 7: I'm posting, you know, so that that part of it
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  Speaker 7: is frustrating. Of like you said you were a shadow man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: it's a shadow band. Like I don't know why when
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  Speaker 7: I promote my music, say, if I post a story
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  Speaker 7: with my family, my man is something two thousand views
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  Speaker 7: in the story Instagram music, I'm capping at ninety views.
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  Speaker 7: Damn anything with a beat lyric, look like I invested
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  Speaker 7: some money into it, cut it, and this has just
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  Speaker 7: been happening for years. So it's discouraging when you spend
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  Speaker 7: money on that stuff. Let's get a project, or people
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  Speaker 7: invest in you financially to put something out, and when
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  Speaker 7: it's time to release that product and you're relying on
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  Speaker 7: Instagram whatever, it's stuck or it's like it's a dud.
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  Speaker 7: So it's kind of like, all right, what are we doing?
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  Speaker 7: What are we spending?
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  Speaker 5: That's actually really true because when to Hold started and
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  Speaker 5: he said, like where have you been? I understand that
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  Speaker 5: thought process because I did not see you, like I've
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  Speaker 5: been following you for years, I haven't seen anything at all,
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  Speaker 5: but I did see the video right when you came out,
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  Speaker 5: you started talking about the industry, you started talking about.
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  Speaker 2: The things like, yeah, I'm shadow band. I'm like, oh what,
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  Speaker 2: I actually makes sense because I haven't seen you at all.
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  Speaker 7: Every comment said where have you been? And it's people
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  Speaker 7: who follow me, and I'm like, that does not make
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  Speaker 7: any sense.
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  Speaker 4: You know, Damn that's crazy.
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  Speaker 6: That rhythm is crazy. Bro. They'll put you in a
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  Speaker 6: shadow very.
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  Speaker 4: Nasty, absolutely absolutely nasty.
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  Speaker 6: Well are you.
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  Speaker 4: Ready for so shameless?
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  Speaker 7: I am?
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  Speaker 4: You know how you watch our clips? You get me
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  Speaker 4: a lot. Are you ready for the crowd, the people,
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  Speaker 4: the backlash?
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  Speaker 7: Listen, I got nothing to lose.
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  Speaker 3: The intels shout out to my intel following. No matter
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  Speaker 3: what I say, they like, He's.
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  Speaker 7: Right, what's the intel?
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  Speaker 2: Bitch ass niggas.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know how this happened.
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  Speaker 3: I will say the worst thing in the world and
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  Speaker 3: they'd be like, that bitch is dumb.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the stupidest bit in the world. I got the degrees.
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand.
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  Speaker 4: I'm the one.
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  Speaker 2: Tony, but the niggas is like, she the stupidest bitch
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  Speaker 2: in the world, dumb she.
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  Speaker 5: I'll be like, okay, and I'll be talking about the niggas.
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  Speaker 6: Can't win.
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  Speaker 2: I can't win, cannot win when I do. Nobody from
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  Speaker 2: two clips back never said nothing right. I've been watching
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  Speaker 2: this for you, like, all right, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: If your friend let me.
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  Speaker 5: See this, I know what he's gonna say and whatever, listen,
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna say this right now.
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  Speaker 2: For purpose is by saying this, nigga's a op.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, whatever he pull out, I'm just like he's a
• 12:43
  Speaker 5: he's being offy.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead, pull up the convo. I'll be trying to
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  Speaker 2: be a good friend.
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  Speaker 4: And if a person reaches out to you, your friend.
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  Speaker 5: You're setting it up wrong already, Well, didn't set it up. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: this is my friend.
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  Speaker 2: We've been friends for a very long time. We had
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  Speaker 2: a conversation. We had a key. It was it was
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  Speaker 2: it was a real key.
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  Speaker 7: We hate.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, we had a key key and we had a
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  Speaker 5: conversation and we was just talking about a lot of ship.
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  Speaker 5: It was it was some hot ship too, back and forth.
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  Speaker 5: I but like, it wasn't us, it was other niggas
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  Speaker 5: you feel me. So we had a key randomly randomly,
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  Speaker 5: like I'm home and I think about my friend and
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  Speaker 5: I just was wondering if he was good because after
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  Speaker 5: the key, I'm just like, oh, is.
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  Speaker 2: He so I hate him? I'm like, how many days past?
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  Speaker 2: It was like two days, two days past the key? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: two days past the key.
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  Speaker 7: This is your friend you hit and the friend with Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: it was me and.
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  Speaker 2: All we had a key right and afterwards, you know,
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  Speaker 2: like the key was it was a little juicy.
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  Speaker 4: So I was nothing to do with us.
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  Speaker 2: No, it had nothing to do with us and nothing
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  Speaker 2: to do with us. It was other niggas.
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  Speaker 5: So I got to pull up the conversation because so
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  Speaker 5: I said to him.
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  Speaker 2: High friend. I said, high friend, mad eyes, high friend?
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  Speaker 2: You good. The nigga said, wow, what happened? I said, nada,
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  Speaker 2: just checking in? What on? What? What the fuck? And
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  Speaker 2: I was like, on you punk ass nigga. He was like,
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  Speaker 2: why wouldn't I be good? I said, this is why.
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  Speaker 2: This is why I'm not nice. L o, l this
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  Speaker 2: is why I'm not nice.
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  Speaker 4: So the nigga called me.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, why are you asking me if I'm good?
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  Speaker 2: You know something I don't know. And I'm just like, yo,
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  Speaker 2: my nigga, I was just I was just asking are
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  Speaker 2: you good?
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  Speaker 9: Like he.
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  Speaker 4: Means something happened you good? It means something.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't no tone. He found the tone you hear
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  Speaker 2: you good? You good?
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  Speaker 4: If something that happened in a plane.
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  Speaker 2: Crash police, my tone was high, like, Hi, you good?
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  Speaker 4: What is you good? Why wouldn't I be good? Why
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  Speaker 4: wouldn't that be good?
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  Speaker 7: So you forgot about the conversation?
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  Speaker 4: Would I be not good? A lot of people.
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  Speaker 2: It was just it was a heavy conversation. It was
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  Speaker 2: a key at the end of the day, but it
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  Speaker 2: was still some heavy ship. I just wanted to good.
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  Speaker 4: You know you're good? You're good?
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  Speaker 2: Could mean a fight?
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  Speaker 4: Are you good? Are you bugging you? Are you good?
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  Speaker 4: But do I wanna?
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  Speaker 7: Did you assume that she was talking about what you
• 15:35
  Speaker 7: talked about previously?
• 15:36
  Speaker 4: No, I have no idea what I said. I don't
• 15:38
  Speaker 4: know what is you good?
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: I would not be good? He was like, He's like,
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: what is the niggas outside by door?
• 15:44
  Speaker 4: What you mean?
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Why am I not? Am I not good?
• 15:46
  Speaker 5: And I'm just like, yo, bro, I was just I'm
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: just me and Tahoe. I want to preface this by
• 15:51
  Speaker 5: saying it's me and Tahoe. For the last couple of weeks,
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: we've been locked in a little bit more than we
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: have been yeah, like calling checking up, checking in like
• 16:00
  Speaker 5: he knows that I've been going through some things, some
• 16:02
  Speaker 5: stressful things with like working, like life or whatever, and
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: we've been checking in on each other. So me after
• 16:09
  Speaker 5: the key, I'm sitting here just thinking and we have
• 16:13
  Speaker 5: not been checking in for a while. I'm literally just
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: thinking about my friend. And I'm like, oh, I wonder
• 16:17
  Speaker 5: if I like.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: Hi, you're doing a lot of sauce.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: Okay, there's no meat, mad sauce meat.
• 16:27
  Speaker 4: If somebody asks you, are you.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Why are you saying? Somebody like we're not friends?
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: Niggas like we're not real friends, like you wasn't at
• 16:33
  Speaker 5: my whole wedding.
• 16:35
  Speaker 7: I can't ask you what I'm gonna be like, wow,
• 16:37
  Speaker 7: what happened? For sure? Did something happened? Did you hear
• 16:41
  Speaker 7: something about me?
• 16:42
  Speaker 6: Right? Y'all?
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: Niggas gotta check my Twitter?
• 16:48
  Speaker 10: Viral?
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: No?
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: No, no, because if it was viral, you know what I
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: would have did. I would have sent the picture first, like, yo,
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: is this nigga good? Like I did? Hello. It's not.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: It's two different things. It's all right. I said, I'm sorry.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: I said, I give up. I'm never checking on you again,
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: am I? And my bugget or is she come on,
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: I think Dodge.
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: I think you gotta read the room, Dodge.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: I think you got I don't know if I had
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: to read the wrong.
• 17:13
  Speaker 6: I'm sorry in the culture.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Right now, it's okay. And I said, never checking on
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: this nig again.
• 17:17
  Speaker 7: It felt like he was a little too aggressive.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: I was actually laughing, but he was actually tight and
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: he's like, but you mean, I'm like, I'm just wasn't
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: really made to my friend and trying to just I'm
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: just checking in.
• 17:30
  Speaker 8: Maybe you start him though, I start, I did startle you.
• 17:34
  Speaker 8: I'm just gonna let y'all know that starting.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Oh, now I'm a liar.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: I go to my Facebook after that, right Facebook, I've
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: been I've been wilding my homeboy. Yep, my whole boy
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: turned mag on Mells happened now all of a sudden,
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: he talking about how Trump is the King. Trump been
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: saving us, all us black people, is disillusioned with the Democrats, and.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: I'm I been seeing his mom Donnie hate, but I
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: haven't been seeing all of that Trump.
• 18:03
  Speaker 4: Yes, all of this he's posting. White politicians get.
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: The fut of I don't pay the niggas. No, I
• 18:10
  Speaker 5: pay niggas, no mine.
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: He's calling women bitches all up and down the page.
• 18:16
  Speaker 6: I'm like, Facebook, that's the nasty.
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: I actually called him like, Yo, this ain't even good
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: for your brand, bro, this is.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: What did you ask him if he was good?
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: Had you? Because now are you good? Are you good?
• 18:35
  Speaker 7: Good? Good?
• 18:39
  Speaker 6: Come on? That's a fact though.
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: So I'm seeing it, and I'm watching him morph into
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: Uncle Ruckus.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Right, he's too light to be Uncle Ruckus.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: I'm watching it.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: He already, my man.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: I love him, I love him. I know him too long, understand.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: So I posted, Yo, I'm on your ass, boy, Magna nigga,
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: I'm on your ass.
• 19:05
  Speaker 6: Whole exchange is crazy.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: Facebook is crazy. So then I is my boring, like
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: when I'm bored to death, Like, let me see what
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: these niggas are talking about.
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: The boy post. I see the boy post under the page.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: I said, Yo, pack him up.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: He got two dollars and turned magot, I'm on your
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: ass boy. He posts under that the leader of the
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: LGBT community is on my ass.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: I'm seriously worried.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: You the leader.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: The leader's funny?
• 19:36
  Speaker 7: Are you the leader?
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: He's just an ally, he'd just be tryings of the
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: community is crazy trying to do the.
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: Right side of history. The people that's actually standing up
• 19:49
  Speaker 4: for black people, black women. You know what I'm saying,
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: talking about the toxic niggas need to change. What what's
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: wrong with that?
• 19:57
  Speaker 6: I don't care? You know what I mean?
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: What here under the under his comment looks She's like
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: why you look?
• 20:02
  Speaker 6: Why you the leader?
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: Nothing you mentioned Q neither.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: I'm like, nothing, That's.
• 20:09
  Speaker 6: What's going on.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: I think there's anything wrong with that.
• 20:13
  Speaker 6: I didn't know. Maybe you didn't know.
• 20:15
  Speaker 7: I didn't know.
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: There's nothing to know. There's nothing in that.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: I knew here my third day, third.
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: Under his comment, Dajah bell Ryo, please crying, crying, crying.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: He will say his name, that nigga. No, because I
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: didn't understand the beef. I didn't understand what made him
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: mega or what made this this.
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: I hadn't seen this.
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: This is what the text was about.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: No.
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: After this, No never responded. I didn't know.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: I don't be on face the same day, bro.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: It was the next day.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: It was the next day after I said you good.
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: No, you posted this and then the next day you
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: text me, Hey, you good. I went back because I
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: went to I went to Facebook after maybe that night.
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: M hm.
• 21:10
  Speaker 8: So you thought she was checking like you're good? After
• 21:14
  Speaker 8: I said I seen her, I seen her? You up,
• 21:16
  Speaker 8: you're good? Oh that's filthy.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: If there's one place niggas is safe, it's face.
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: I am never checking on you to see if you're
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: good on Facebook. Bro, you're out of your rabbit ass mine.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: That's not what happened.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: I mean, timeline fits. The timeline fits. Now I know
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: why you I hit her on the phone.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: No answer, mm hmm, oh that's what you call me.
• 21:40
  Speaker 6: Not really but still, so what the are you.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: Bringing it up?
• 21:44
  Speaker 6: To bring it up?
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: You was gonna bring up the fact that you called
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: me any answer.
• 21:49
  Speaker 6: I was gonna bring up a few things.
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: Yeah, wait, hold on, I have to. I have to
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: fact check this because you like to lie at the times. Yeah,
• 21:56
  Speaker 5: I got to look.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: At the time. Seven a how many four days ago?
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Was what day of the weekday?
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: Today? Saturdays?
• 22:04
  Speaker 6: Thursday?
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: It was Thursday?
• 22:07
  Speaker 6: Wednesday?
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: It was Wednesday or Thursday?
• 22:09
  Speaker 7: Tuesdays?
• 22:09
  Speaker 6: The first today Saturday.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: She sent that message on Tuesday, and Wednesday is when
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: you post is when you call me asked me if
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: I'm good?
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: So two things? Ain't had nothing to do with each other.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: I just want to see what do you mean. You
• 22:26
  Speaker 4: sent the message on Facebook on Tuesday when.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: And I text you on Wednesday, but then we talk
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: on Tuesday, also because we had the key.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: You're doing a lot of trying. Yeah, you did what
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: you did, and.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: Monday we had the key, Tuesday was Facebook Wednesday.
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: I asked him if he was good. None of these
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: things are are connected. But okay, it's all right, It's okay.
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: I said what I said. Right, I'm never checking on
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: you again.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: By the way, that was a lie. I've been checking
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: on you, you have. It hasn't been the We've been
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: checking on each other. The first time you.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Checked you said, I've been checking on each other. You
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: checked on me, and I thought about you when I
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: went to check on you, and you attacked me. So
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: now I'm not checking on you no more.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: I'm checking We got a lot, We got a lot
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: to talk about. We got a lot to talk about.
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: We have a lot to talk about. We have a superstar.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: We have a superstar in.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: The room, right, not even supreme. When you was in
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: the game, seriously, in the game, seriously in the game, right, seriously,
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: and did you have men? Uh inappropriately, inappropriately trying to
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: holler older men, men that were like in the industry
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: ship like that.
• 23:45
  Speaker 7: No, thankfully, but I was very standoffish.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: And good New Yorker.
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: I guess some people call me stush and like unapproachable.
• 23:57
  Speaker 7: So I've never really gave this space.
• 23:59
  Speaker 6: Why do you like that?
• 24:02
  Speaker 7: I know how men are. I started off in a
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: as an assistant for a rapper, and so I already
• 24:11
  Speaker 7: saw how that environment was when you were a new
• 24:13
  Speaker 7: piece of meat, you know, on a Like you.
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: Said, you like that because you're a only child.
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: I'm stand offish because I'm an only child. But I
• 24:21
  Speaker 7: am like non conversational with men because of what I've
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: seen in the industry or just in life, but industry
• 24:29
  Speaker 7: as well or even you know, I just I just
• 24:31
  Speaker 7: know how it goes. So I just made myself very
• 24:34
  Speaker 7: like half unapproachable, half shy too, Like there's certain instances
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: where I could have like spoke to people who had conversations,
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: but because.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Super random. Then they have you on a date with
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: mac Wilde's on that show.
• 24:47
  Speaker 7: Yes they did that should just pay dating storyline?
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, another that they had said that that ship was
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: random as fuck.
• 24:58
  Speaker 7: It was random. It was for I can fit.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I remember, like, yo, this should look mad, uncomfortable.
• 25:03
  Speaker 7: You had to fight for your life to keep your
• 25:04
  Speaker 7: storyline on TV. So you had to bring somebody in
• 25:09
  Speaker 7: a namesake, a relationship, a song, a fight, a drama.
• 25:14
  Speaker 7: You had to bring something to be interesting on TV.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: I'm asking this because I'm assuming Brandy didn't need that
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: kind of help.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: Jesus Christ's outside.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Wow, I heard the weekend. I didn't just want to know.
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: All I just want to know, is ye bunked.
• 25:35
  Speaker 7: Out for dating her when she was sixteen?
• 25:39
  Speaker 6: When she was sixteen?
• 25:39
  Speaker 7: Absolutely, yes, yes, that's creepy.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Not not not not back then for them niggas, they
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: thought that she.
• 25:45
  Speaker 7: Was normal, Like in your brain you got to say
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: like I'm whatever years old, and yo, this is sixteen
• 25:51
  Speaker 7: year old chick.
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: They wasn't thinking about it like that. They was thinking about,
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: you're mature for your age. You're an artist, so it's different.
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: What makes you think that that was just the thing
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: niggas was doing because they were before niggas the same
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: time niggas is doing it now is the same name
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: was doing it then. That wasn't fucking with no sixteen
• 26:08
  Speaker 4: year old. When I was twenty one, twenty two. Never
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: what makes you think that that was a time period
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: that niggas just fucking with.
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: Sixty year old I can tell you that it was
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: a time period because I remember being of that age,
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: and I remember the niggas that was trying to talk
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: to me or my friends of that age at that time.
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: And them too.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: But we were young and stupid.
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: But it's the same thing niggas is doing now. It's
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: the same thing. It's all nasty workgas. Niggas do not
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: be having morals. It's not a eighties when I look.
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: At it, two thousand, But now maybe people are more
• 26:40
  Speaker 7: reprimanded for not having morals than before. Like before you
• 26:43
  Speaker 7: could just be like because man being a man, or
• 26:46
  Speaker 7: you know, she she fast for her age. She you
• 26:48
  Speaker 7: know she's gonna learn. Now it's a little bit more
• 26:50
  Speaker 7: like you're supposed to know better, yeah, Or you're supposed
• 26:53
  Speaker 7: to control yourself if that's your urge, all the pedophile,
• 26:57
  Speaker 7: you're supposed to control your urges.
• 27:00
  Speaker 6: No.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: But I remember specifically having friends, a friend in middle
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: school that was dating a nigga. I was like twenty
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: years old, And when I think about it, in hindsight,
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: our stupid asses, or I would send to myself my
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: stupid ass. I swear to God that was my friend
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: because he lived on my block, so like he would
• 27:21
  Speaker 5: come sit on my stoop, him and his brother, like
• 27:23
  Speaker 5: we used to all chill and talk or whatever the
• 27:25
  Speaker 5: case may be. So then when he started meeting my
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: friends and he took a liking to one of my friends,
• 27:30
  Speaker 5: in my head, his.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Age was never a thing.
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: But I'm also thirteen fourteen, so I'm not thinking about
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: it the way that I should be thinking about it.
• 27:39
  Speaker 5: But then when I think about the fact that they
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: were together for years, the fact that he used to
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: spend a night at her house, the fact that he
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: used to spend a night at her house and her
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: mother was in the house and allowed it, like it
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: was a lot of shifty shit that was going on,
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: and she was like, well, as long as he's in
• 27:54
  Speaker 5: my house and I know him, and da da da dah. Like,
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: But when I'm thinking about it now as a full
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: grown ass adult, in a full grown ass adult that
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: got full grown ass kids, I'm just like, was niggas, Okay.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: I remember my first girlfriend. I will never forget this.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: I was fifteen when I met her, she was twenty
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: by the time she turned twenty one, she was Her
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: birthday was in June, so she turned twenty one before
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: I turned sixteen, and I remember having a conversation about
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: finally making it official or whatever whatever, and she was like,
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: you're young.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: So you have to at least be sixteen.
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: So my sixteenth birthday happened the day after she asked
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: me to be her girlfriend. In hindsight, I didn't think
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: that anything was wrong with it. I thought that I
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: was lit, like, oh, yeah, my bitch is in college, da,
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: da da, and I'm going to her dorm and all
• 28:38
  Speaker 5: the rest of this other shit. But then when I
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: think about it and thinking about the demise of that relationship,
• 28:43
  Speaker 5: it was you couldn't get a bit your age because
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: bitches your age didn't want to fuck with you. And
• 28:48
  Speaker 5: I didn't realize that you was a lame until I
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: found out that you was a lame. So then I
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: had to reckon with myself, like, yo, I really was
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: walking around arm in arm with a whack bitch and
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: I didn't know that she was a whack bitch.
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: How dare I disgusting?
• 29:03
  Speaker 6: That happened to me too?
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I've looked at my choices from the past, like, yeah,
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: I blew that. I was wowd bro, when did I
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Facebook showed me a mess of memory like uh.
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: Ad friend and it was my ex and I went
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: and looked.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: Like, yeah, what was I doing?
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but when you're young, like your perception is different,
• 29:27
  Speaker 5: Like my perception and reality were like two completely different
• 29:31
  Speaker 5: things at that time.
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: It wasn't a thing.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: What do you mean It wasn't a nigga wa bitch.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: You had a whack older bitch too.
• 29:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a whack older bitch, but she was
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: a whack bitch and that's the reason why she went
• 29:40
  Speaker 5: for a younger bitch because she couldn't get a bitch her.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: It wasn't just it was, Oh you mean like a
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: man thing. Oh yeah, No, it wasn't. I think it.
• 29:48
  Speaker 5: I think it's a generational thing. I think it's like
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: whack niggas.
• 29:52
  Speaker 6: He's saying that you just get whack people in general.
• 29:54
  Speaker 6: I think that's what he's.
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: No, I understand that I said, it's not just the
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: nigga thing. I think it's a generational thing. This is
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like whack niggas.
• 30:02
  Speaker 6: He's saying, like you're a track wacky.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: That's what are you saying?
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: What are you doing?
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: That's what he's doing.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: What are you doing? I'm not necessarily I'm not even
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: bothering you.
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: Are we on the same side of against because we
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: against each other? Do you want to be against each other?
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: Would you like to be against each other?
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: This episode? You want to be pressed.
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: It's called a soft press.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: That's what I just want to know.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: That's the energy of feeling. She's pressing you.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: No, it wasn't soft. I just had to I had
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: to clarify.
• 30:30
  Speaker 8: Clarification, clarification, classification, never pressed, arm, clarification, press.
• 30:37
  Speaker 4: I didn't.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: I didn't know what type of time was.
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: It was a point towards you.
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: I just didn't know what type of time we was doing.
• 30:45
  Speaker 5: I just you can't. You can't judge me about about
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: sixteen year old.
• 30:48
  Speaker 6: Me, the nigga.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: The nigga was dating her brandy that twenty two like
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: trying to hide it, purposely trying to hide it.
• 30:57
  Speaker 7: So when you try to hide it, you know you're wrong.
• 30:59
  Speaker 7: People's blatant, and there's people who's sneaking around because they
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: know I'm not supposed to be dating this sixteen year
• 31:05
  Speaker 7: old and maybe her parents were you know, like church religious,
• 31:08
  Speaker 7: so maybe it was both of them wanted to hide it,
• 31:10
  Speaker 7: but definitely weird. I wonder what made her just now,
• 31:16
  Speaker 7: I know she has.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: A book she wrote as a book it's coming out.
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: I don't know if that is like tasteless though, what.
• 31:27
  Speaker 5: To tell the story of my life? It's my life
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: now because you promoted a book, yeah, just.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: Wave or whatever, and all of these rumors have been
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: coming out for all of this time. Why now to
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: promote it to make bread off of it?
• 31:40
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: I just don't know.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: I don't know that would be the smart, strategic thing
• 31:44
  Speaker 7: to do, But then it looks strategic as well, like
• 31:46
  Speaker 7: you're not really trying to reckon with it, yeah, or.
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: Maybe now that you're heeled and you need to you
• 31:52
  Speaker 5: you're at a point in your life where you can
• 31:54
  Speaker 5: make money off of your story or traumas.
• 31:57
  Speaker 7: She said that about the like the Shan thing too,
• 31:59
  Speaker 7: like I'm about to start telling all the true stories
• 32:01
  Speaker 7: that you have in telling about me.
• 32:04
  Speaker 6: And that's another thing too.
• 32:04
  Speaker 8: I feel like people have talked about her a lot
• 32:06
  Speaker 8: for over the years, and she's never really commented back
• 32:09
  Speaker 8: She wasn't a big commented backer, you know what I'm saying.
• 32:11
  Speaker 6: So I feel like she tried.
• 32:13
  Speaker 8: She wasn't going to the bunk all of every room
• 32:15
  Speaker 8: and we heard everything we heard.
• 32:17
  Speaker 6: She kind of just kind of let fly, you know
• 32:18
  Speaker 6: what I'm saying.
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: But it wasn't like loud with her actions either, like
• 32:21
  Speaker 7: you know when you do something and you like out
• 32:23
  Speaker 7: and about. Like she's very like close to the myself.
• 32:28
  Speaker 8: But she probably at a point now where she's like, Yo,
• 32:29
  Speaker 8: you know what, Nah, I fuck that I've been quiet
• 32:32
  Speaker 8: for but twenty years for real.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: I can't wait till I get big enough for somebody
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: to care to read my memoir because that shit canna
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: be lit.
• 32:41
  Speaker 6: Sorry, I got to add something. What have a memory?
• 32:45
  Speaker 10: Hell?
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no I have.
• 32:47
  Speaker 5: I have two books in my head, brewing one. I
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: think I've mentioned it before. It's about when I when
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: I finally move out of education. I have a book
• 32:57
  Speaker 5: that I'm going to write about the things that I've
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: seen and I've experience in sin thelized decade in these
• 33:01
  Speaker 5: schools with you people's children. And yeah, I don't know
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: if niggas gonna read it, because you know, literacy crisis,
• 33:07
  Speaker 5: you know, I might have to turn into a movie read.
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: Bro nasty work.
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to remember some ship, some other ship that's
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: going on right now.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: If you don't remember, it's not important.
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: Besides, Gucci man is supposed to be a snitching.
• 33:30
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: Did he get kidnapped by pooshisty in the group chat chat?
• 33:34
  Speaker 5: Being that, I was like the and I just went
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: on by my day.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: There was some other ship, but I forgot all right,
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: y'all ready to get into all of the men women bullshit? No,
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: because I had Hope here last week and she dragged
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: us for about an hour, two hours, dragged the fuck
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: out of the room.
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: I had to ask if she wants some warter. At
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: one point.
• 33:57
  Speaker 7: It's like a woman men bashing each other segment show.
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, basically okay, I used to.
• 34:03
  Speaker 7: Be like that too.
• 34:04
  Speaker 6: You love it?
• 34:05
  Speaker 7: Maybe I could go back.
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: In are you a massandris?
• 34:08
  Speaker 7: Excuse me?
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: Miss Andre? The opposite of misogony.
• 34:12
  Speaker 7: That's the new vocabulary word for me. I used to
• 34:14
  Speaker 7: be a man hater. I might still hate men, but
• 34:18
  Speaker 7: like I don't like carry it around with me all day.
• 34:24
  Speaker 7: I hate the decisions they make the way they make
• 34:26
  Speaker 7: decisions and just probably being scarred from like like teenage
• 34:33
  Speaker 7: relationships and things like that.
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: I had like a oh, you're still carrying it around.
• 34:37
  Speaker 7: No, but at one point I was. That's why I said,
• 34:40
  Speaker 7: like maybe I could go back in for this episode.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: That's okay, that's all right, that's all right. I got you,
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: and I'm not nothing.
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: I'm just noticing that with the Wanya ship, it turned
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: into a girl that was also dating her when she
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: was young, right, me saying I've been having baggage for
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: when I.
• 35:01
  Speaker 6: Was younger dealing with women.
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: Naima has baggage from when she was younger dating men.
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: You always try to make it seem like this is
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: a nigga thing. Yeah, I think women go through the
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: same ship. Women do the same toxic ship somehow, Like
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: I said, so we always misses.
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: No, it's just the fact.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: That but not equal.
• 35:20
  Speaker 6: We all need to heal.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: But y'all so busy trying to get men to y'all
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: get to sweep all the ship that y'all do under
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: the ruck.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: That's not true because I've healed. We already have that conversation.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: I said three years a monolith. I'm not a monolith.
• 35:35
  Speaker 6: Women are not a monolitht.
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: But she just said that she's not a man a
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: man hater anymore. Women, she's not a man hater anymore.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: She said she might be.
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: She said she could dig for it and we're gonna
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: find it.
• 35:44
  Speaker 6: Might be.
• 35:45
  Speaker 7: Still I said that, know I still do. I just
• 35:54
  Speaker 7: don't put any energy into like you, just like.
• 35:57
  Speaker 6: You still do.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: I understand that. Still, I guess it's the two of
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: them worth something I.
• 36:03
  Speaker 6: Was about to happen just too.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: I have a bunch of random stuff. Let me see
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: how to be more feminine leader of the LGBT community.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Taking the leader crazy.
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: The leader, Bro, I'm pretty sure they don't want to
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: hear me say that.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: I'm sure they don't.
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: They're gonna put you right on on on gay magazine,
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: right on the Instagram, like this nigga acting like he
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: one of us.
• 36:39
  Speaker 6: Let me see I'm not doing that. First, I'm doing this.
• 36:46
  Speaker 10: White people should be able to say, I I'm gonna
• 36:48
  Speaker 10: tell you why, because no one when you really stopped
• 36:52
  Speaker 10: giving a fuck about stupid dumb ass words, will stop
• 36:56
  Speaker 10: killing each other.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: And Nick, it's very different.
• 37:00
  Speaker 10: You know, if somebody it says the hard are and
• 37:03
  Speaker 10: they're pointing at you, It's very different than rap lyrics
• 37:07
  Speaker 10: or saying, oh that's my nigga, that's my homie. You know,
• 37:10
  Speaker 10: somebody's using a term as a derogatory chist. But you
• 37:14
  Speaker 10: know the difference between somebody just say, we're all smart
• 37:17
  Speaker 10: enough to know what's right and what's wrong, So why
• 37:22
  Speaker 10: are we putting so much damage? And hay behind. I
• 37:25
  Speaker 10: let my kids curse. They have freedom of speech. Why
• 37:29
  Speaker 10: live in America if you don't have freedom of speech?
• 37:31
  Speaker 7: And I let my kids do that.
• 37:33
  Speaker 10: Now do they say mommy fuck you? No?
• 37:36
  Speaker 6: They be not.
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: Did they say mommy, you're a bitch.
• 37:39
  Speaker 7: No?
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: They know what's right and wrong. So you just went
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: back to the mega.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: That's what I was going with. I forgot that was
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: the SEG, but I missed. What do you think about?
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: This is bros? And U Nick Cannon off their rocker?
• 38:03
  Speaker 7: What happened with Nick Cannon? I've been seeing people say
• 38:06
  Speaker 7: that was him that she.
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: Was talking to, so basically saying he was kind of agreeing, Well,
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: if not shutting it down, it seems like an agree
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: when it comes to something like that.
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: To me, what do y'all think Dodge's processing?
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I'm not processing. It's dumb.
• 38:22
  Speaker 5: I don't like to talk to half breed people about
• 38:26
  Speaker 5: nigga issues if you ain't pick a side, Like why
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: am I even having this discussion with you? I need
• 38:34
  Speaker 5: to talk to full niggas about nigga shit and about
• 38:36
  Speaker 5: how we feel we need to nigga coalition together, and
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: then we can have a conversation about who can and
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: who cannot say. And the last time I checked, the
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: last time that I was in a room full of
• 38:47
  Speaker 5: full breed niggas, we all decided that no, that it
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: was a no. A half breed cannot start intersecting the
• 38:55
  Speaker 5: half of their side and say like, oh no, it's
• 38:57
  Speaker 5: okay as long as it's not the hard r. You
• 39:00
  Speaker 5: need full breed niggas in this discussion. You your card
• 39:04
  Speaker 5: is like an oreo. It's like black one side, white
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: on the other. You don't have a full black card,
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: so you gotta shut the fuck up.
• 39:09
  Speaker 7: And just where she stands in general, like all all
• 39:11
  Speaker 7: the Trump shits, she been doing like nothing. She can't
• 39:14
  Speaker 7: say nothing about black culture or nigga nigger or anything.
• 39:18
  Speaker 7: It doesn't matter if your kid is black or anything
• 39:19
  Speaker 7: like that. She as herself, she's not like I feel
• 39:23
  Speaker 7: like at one point it would be like ambergos, like
• 39:25
  Speaker 7: we fucked her for a little while. Now it's like, nah,
• 39:27
  Speaker 7: you're you're done, so please like don't make any comments.
• 39:30
  Speaker 5: Jocelyn her Nandas was right, Yes, that's all I gotta say.
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: Yeah, she can't beat the nigga police.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: She not.
• 39:38
  Speaker 5: Deputy half her answer she looks or.
• 39:43
  Speaker 4: Is because of where she stands.
• 39:44
  Speaker 7: Both where she stands, where she stands.
• 39:47
  Speaker 8: I'm gonna say it's how she looks because obviously that
• 39:50
  Speaker 8: because obviously when we're talking about nigga shit, right, like
• 39:53
  Speaker 8: you've abandoned nigga shit with your you know, your latest tobacco.
• 39:56
  Speaker 8: So I don't want to hear you talk about like
• 39:59
  Speaker 8: the culture, right, Like go stand back over there with
• 40:03
  Speaker 8: other people.
• 40:04
  Speaker 7: They say, like, no matter how many black dicks you had,
• 40:06
  Speaker 7: you know, doesn't mean you get to say have a say.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: You don't have to say.
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: If a person is.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: Presents white but has a black parent grew up interracially,
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: do y'all give them a pass?
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: It depends on who's the parent.
• 40:27
  Speaker 7: Why are you saying it? Like you know, like.
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: Something, there's a guy that I work with, Nama right,
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: grew up in Harlem, super black neighborhood.
• 40:37
  Speaker 4: Only white kid, black.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Parent, right black parent how like a I don't know.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: No, he's one parent is black, the other parent is white.
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: The other there's a black parent one hundred percent black
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: or they half. Because once you start getting into the
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: once you start getting into the quarters, to get a
• 40:56
  Speaker 5: little shifty, I feel.
• 40:57
  Speaker 7: Like like people sometimes in that situation, like they're saying
• 41:01
  Speaker 7: nigga for no reason, like there's not even any reason
• 41:04
  Speaker 7: to having in a conversation, Like they're just saying it
• 41:06
  Speaker 7: because it's like an extra like stripe, like like it's
• 41:10
  Speaker 7: no reason. Like as a black person, I don't say
• 41:12
  Speaker 7: nigga ever, like in a conversation with somebody like nigga,
• 41:15
  Speaker 7: Like it's just the unnecessary word. So for people who
• 41:17
  Speaker 7: like over compensate and have to say it and have
• 41:19
  Speaker 7: to say it already says something like are you trying
• 41:21
  Speaker 7: to prove that you can that you can or you black,
• 41:23
  Speaker 7: that you got your extra blackness? Like nobody, it's not
• 41:27
  Speaker 7: that serious to use the work.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: When Puerto Ricans.
• 41:29
  Speaker 8: Said, you have seen a group of like all Asian
• 41:31
  Speaker 8: people like fighting and ship, all you hear is my nigga,
• 41:34
  Speaker 8: My nigga, everybody say my nigga.
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: Every culture.
• 41:36
  Speaker 8: If you see a group of like any other culture,
• 41:38
  Speaker 8: that everybody's saying my nigga.
• 41:40
  Speaker 6: So you're just looking, like.
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: Discussing.
• 41:45
  Speaker 7: It's like you want to correct them a little bit.
• 41:46
  Speaker 8: Not one, not one black person in sight, but everybody
• 41:49
  Speaker 8: screaming my nigga. So you're like, what are we doing?
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: Do you correct them?
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what to make it is right
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: now because it's not one nigga. I don't even know
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: what I'm doing.
• 42:02
  Speaker 7: So you like, all right, but I don't care.
• 42:09
  Speaker 5: I don't care how much you like my culture. You
• 42:11
  Speaker 5: don't have to cause play in my culture. My thing
• 42:13
  Speaker 5: is if I see a group of people that are
• 42:15
  Speaker 5: not black saying it, I am like, my body jerks
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: a little.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: I immediately get it.
• 42:21
  Speaker 5: But it also is not my responsibility to go and
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: roll up on people and be like I'm not I'm
• 42:27
  Speaker 5: not finna do that either. Just know that if you
• 42:31
  Speaker 5: ever find yourself in this niggas circle.
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: You could get up.
• 42:37
  Speaker 5: That ship will fly like I'm not. It's like that
• 42:42
  Speaker 5: like front back, Oh my bad. I don't want to
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: give trouble.
• 42:49
  Speaker 7: That was a real slap.
• 42:52
  Speaker 6: Something wrong with.
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: It.
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: Do you every time that somebody says the N word
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: around you? Do you depress them every time?
• 43:08
  Speaker 2: Did you hear what I just said?
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: Ready to go there?
• 43:18
  Speaker 6: Every time?
• 43:19
  Speaker 5: If you're in my circle, yeah, Like if you're in
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: my vicinity, if you're in my vicinity, if you're having
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: a conversation with me saying it to you and you're
• 43:26
  Speaker 5: saying it in conversation with me.
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: If they're over there, so you didn't hear what I
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: just said?
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: What if they over there?
• 43:34
  Speaker 7: Having no If they over there, I'm not I'm not
• 43:40
  Speaker 7: going over there, especially with the dumb the way people
• 43:44
  Speaker 7: are these days. You go to say something to somebody,
• 43:46
  Speaker 7: now either you dead or I'm slapped because I'm telling
• 43:50
  Speaker 7: them don't say nigga, you know, but on my own
• 43:52
  Speaker 7: so I stay out of that and they'll they'll find
• 43:54
  Speaker 7: their way into the wrong person. So if they say
• 43:57
  Speaker 7: it to you, if they say it to me, it's
• 44:00
  Speaker 7: be a problem. I don't know if I'm a physically
• 44:01
  Speaker 7: slap someone, but it's going to be a problem.
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: She's not physically slapping nothing, okay, she's talking. She's talking, okay.
• 44:10
  Speaker 5: Because it's the same person that got mad at me
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: when I almost beat up the white boy at the Barclays.
• 44:14
  Speaker 6: That was ten years ago.
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: It was ten years ago, eight years ago.
• 44:17
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: He was a drunk white boy in my vicinity and
• 44:20
  Speaker 5: he was too close to me and she was pregnant.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. He was too close to me. You
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: being drunk? Yeah?
• 44:25
  Speaker 5: Like he like he was just mad drunk like on me, Like, ayo,
• 44:30
  Speaker 5: bro back the fuck, I don't even know you somegnant.
• 44:33
  Speaker 6: No.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: I didn't beat him up.
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: I almost beat him up, and Tahoe was mad at me, like, oh,
• 44:39
  Speaker 5: you can't be doing that that.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: I don't like. I barely don't even like them type
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: of people around me. But you can't be drunk.
• 44:48
  Speaker 8: You fall into on me, bro, So what the play
• 44:51
  Speaker 8: was you about to go to? Blows him pregnant? That
• 44:53
  Speaker 8: was the play.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: I don't see the problem. I don't see though.
• 44:58
  Speaker 6: She was in the hallway.
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: You was at your seat.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: I was no, y'all was at the seat. I was
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: in the hallway.
• 45:03
  Speaker 6: He was in the hallway. He wasn't on.
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: How you all on somebody in the hallway? What do
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: you mean you wasn't there?
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: You wasn't there.
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: You're making this.
• 45:10
  Speaker 3: She loves to paint a picture as it's like easily
• 45:13
  Speaker 3: to walk away from a nigga in the garden or
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: the barclade.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: It is easy the way she was all on, so.
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: She wasn't trying to press drunk white boy.
• 45:24
  Speaker 5: I did, I did, and I did, But I thought
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: I was pussy though that's what you just try to
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: make it seem like.
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: I never cared way to bring it back.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I just don't understand, like, am I pussy or am
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: I not pussy?
• 45:37
  Speaker 6: You didn't do it.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: I didn't have to.
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: I was gonna, yeah, that was gonna do a bunch
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: of Oh. I was gonna, but.
• 45:44
  Speaker 6: I heard that.
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: Brownsville bitches was there, and so I didn't have to.
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: You understand, I was gonna, interjected, and Tyler was still.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Mad at me. I didn't even get a chance to swing.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: It's not nice.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: You was stug or you was gonna. Both used to
• 46:03
  Speaker 4: be a usage waiting.
• 46:05
  Speaker 6: That was ill. I see what you did.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: I see what you did. It was cute. I don't
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: know why you want me to be the person that
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: I used to be so bad.
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: No, I want you to be real. You're not just
• 46:16
  Speaker 4: smacking somebody for doing that.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: I do you think I'm not.
• 46:18
  Speaker 5: You think somebody is gonna walk up to me and
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: say nigga to my face and I'm not going to react.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: My question, that's what you really think about me.
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: If they grew up in the projects, in the hood,
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: they grew up around, They've always said it, Why wouldn't
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: they feel that ownership of the word.
• 46:34
  Speaker 5: Why would you feel the owner? First of all, why
• 46:37
  Speaker 5: is that something that you want ownership of?
• 46:38
  Speaker 6: That's how they grew up.
• 46:39
  Speaker 7: They grew up in the in the hood, so card
• 46:42
  Speaker 7: for some reason, it's like their cool card. I can
• 46:44
  Speaker 7: say it. I know the niggas. I grew up with
• 46:46
  Speaker 7: black people. I grew up in the projects.
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: The favor that's that's corny.
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: Ship stay to your culture, say that, say the derogatory
• 46:53
  Speaker 5: term of your culture. Say that, ship to your people.
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: But if they say I'm black, this is why I don't.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: Talk to this is this is exactly. I don't go
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: outside and I don't talk to new.
• 47:04
  Speaker 5: Niggas because I don't even have This is not even
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: something that would pass my purview because I'm not even
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: a round niggas that would even do that.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: All my niggas is real niggas.
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: Mom is black, but he looks white and he says,
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: I'm black. I'm supposed to be like, no, you're not.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: That's different.
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: That's what I just said.
• 47:22
  Speaker 7: I got a check.
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: But his mom is black and he grew up in
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: the hood, and he says I'm black. Is it okay
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: for him to say? That's what I'm asking you.
• 47:33
  Speaker 5: The conversation that I would have with this young man
• 47:36
  Speaker 5: is why do you want to put yourself in a
• 47:41
  Speaker 5: position where you have to verify who you are all
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: the time just by saying something that you know you
• 47:47
  Speaker 5: probably shouldn't say, because you could be whatever the fuck
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: you want to be. I'm asking that would be the question.
• 47:54
  Speaker 5: The question is why do you need to say this
• 47:56
  Speaker 5: so bad that now you gotta go and walk around
• 47:58
  Speaker 5: with your mom's baby picture and like, oh, this is
• 48:01
  Speaker 5: my mother. I'm black, y'all, so I can say it,
• 48:03
  Speaker 5: Like why would you even put yourself in a position
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: where you can just shut the fuck up?
• 48:08
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 48:08
  Speaker 8: No, I feel that I don't know me personally, like
• 48:11
  Speaker 8: I'm not going to say nothing, like I feel like
• 48:14
  Speaker 8: all that extra like police in the words, like I
• 48:17
  Speaker 8: feel like I'm black. I say whatever I want, like
• 48:19
  Speaker 8: so like you am I about.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: To like you don't you don't say whatever you want?
• 48:24
  Speaker 5: I say the Jewish slur right now for what?
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: He don't have a reason Spanish. I will say, but
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: but but why won't you?
• 48:37
  Speaker 8: I don't have any disrespect on my heart towards there's
• 48:40
  Speaker 8: no need for at this moment.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: But you understand you do you get my point?
• 48:44
  Speaker 6: No? I get it.
• 48:45
  Speaker 8: No, that's why I said, I understand you. I started
• 48:47
  Speaker 8: with that. I said, I get it, but I think
• 48:49
  Speaker 8: overall changing the.
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: Context everything he's he's I just asked the question and
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: he's not Jewish.
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: I just asked the question, and.
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: He doesn't have a half Spanish mom or I have Jewish.
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: He also said I'm black and I can say whatever
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: I want.
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: There are certain things that we do.
• 49:04
  Speaker 6: He doesn't want to.
• 49:05
  Speaker 5: Say no, but there are certain things that we don't
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: say because we understand that it is disrespectful.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: We can say whatever the fuck.
• 49:13
  Speaker 5: Anybody can say whatever they want to say, white, black, whatever,
• 49:15
  Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, we understand that
• 49:17
  Speaker 5: there are people that are going to be affected and
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: disrespected by saying this, So we don't have to say
• 49:23
  Speaker 5: it because we are not the type of people that
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: have to walk around and disrespecting people. If I'm telling
• 49:28
  Speaker 5: you that you're a Caucasian, you Caucasian presented and saying
• 49:31
  Speaker 5: that is disrespectful to me. And you come back with
• 49:33
  Speaker 5: it's just the word. I can say whatever I want
• 49:35
  Speaker 5: to say. You a piece of ship.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: And that's the difference between us and that.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: But you half gay?
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: Who half gay? My child is on the can you?
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: I don't know why you want a child here?
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: This is crazy, my baby and you.
• 50:00
  Speaker 4: The leader, And I'd be like, yo, you can't say that.
• 50:03
  Speaker 4: You're like, oh, I'm LGBT.
• 50:06
  Speaker 6: You can't claim how am I half?
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: Get what the letters mean? Shut up saying what do
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: you mean?
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: Leader?
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: Saying?
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Leader?
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: Leader?
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: What's the L? What's L? What's the L? What's the L?
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: What does L mean? In your community? My nigga, you're
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: the leader? What is B? B?
• 50:30
  Speaker 6: The L?
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: B L?
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: What is the B? My nigga?
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: Bye?
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: You're half half gay?
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: Half straight?
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: Where are we at?
• 50:44
  Speaker 7: Where are everywhere?
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: We're everywhere?
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: If she could claim it half the time, but.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: I don't claim it. She wants to time when.
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: She wants to disrespect, drop whatever she wants. You can't
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: say that. She goes something.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: I've heard her say that before.
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: Word.
• 51:04
  Speaker 6: I've heard you say things and be like I can
• 51:05
  Speaker 6: say that, because yeah, I can.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: But I didn't never say.
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: The word the name of Pete Game.
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: I'm complex. I'm also only child. I understand why my brain.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: Work diabolic doing it here diabolically.
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: She's doing what she's saying. Half three quote unquote three
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: black people can't do.
• 51:21
  Speaker 7: No, I'm not, she said, and like waiting until part
• 51:28
  Speaker 7: of that nigga holds it in his I said, a
• 51:31
  Speaker 7: diabolical dickhead, That's what I said.
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: I'm not a half, I'm not a half nothing. I'm
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: a fool. What the fuck I am? And I am?
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: What the fun I am? And I'm present my question
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: presenting picture. You're game presenting right, guy to you, my guys,
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: let me bow to my leader.
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: Thank you.
• 51:53
  Speaker 5: You're not even really you you new to this, You're
• 51:55
  Speaker 5: not even true to this. She was not outside with.
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: Us, all right.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: I don't know what you trying to put on, but.
• 52:00
  Speaker 5: What you're saying, is what you're trying to say is
• 52:02
  Speaker 5: I can't claim who I am who I've been literally
• 52:07
  Speaker 5: been outside, been in the trenches, been in the community.
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: I'm telling you about this guy. He grew up in
• 52:14
  Speaker 4: the projects.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: But why you're saying why.
• 52:23
  Speaker 5: I'm not saying anything that's disrespectful to the community.
• 52:26
  Speaker 6: You have.
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: Name it fine now you.
• 52:30
  Speaker 6: Asked him to snitch, just crazyitch.
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: You said you've said words that a derogatory and said,
• 52:37
  Speaker 3: I can say it, because what are.
• 52:39
  Speaker 5: The derogatory Because I've never said that. I have definitely
• 52:42
  Speaker 5: said because I can, I can say that that is true.
• 52:47
  Speaker 5: But that's not derogatory. As a queer woman to call
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: a dyke a dike, it is derogatory for you to
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: call a dyke a dike.
• 52:55
  Speaker 7: I was gonna say, like to be called some of.
• 52:57
  Speaker 6: Them the goal posts, the.
• 53:00
  Speaker 5: H it's not DHL because I am a part of
• 53:04
  Speaker 5: the community that is different. What like what part of
• 53:08
  Speaker 5: this aren't you all understanding? It's all right, y'all want
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: to say it?
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: You want to say it?
• 53:14
  Speaker 2: Do you want to say it? What are we talking about?
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: Dyke?
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: That's that's the way he's talking about.
• 53:19
  Speaker 5: That's the that's because I've said on this podcast that
• 53:25
  Speaker 5: there are things that they cannot say. I am trying
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: my best, and I have been trying my best to
• 53:30
  Speaker 5: help my friends understand allieship.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: I don't want to say there's nothing to do with me.
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: What are you doing?
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: What you said?
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: I'm talking about a man that grew up in a
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: black neighborhood.
• 53:43
  Speaker 6: His mom's is black.
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: And he's white's white presenting. And I said this. I
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: did not say that presenting. That's I never said that.
• 53:53
  Speaker 5: I said, why are you so gun hole on saying
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: this when you have to continuously explain that this is
• 54:00
  Speaker 5: your lineage because you understand that you are white presenting.
• 54:04
  Speaker 5: Those are two different things. I never said you can't
• 54:06
  Speaker 5: say it. I'm saying, why do you want to say it?
• 54:08
  Speaker 5: Because every time you say it you have to explain it.
• 54:10
  Speaker 6: Please help us here. What do you think?
• 54:12
  Speaker 7: I'm going to say?
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: What do you think?
• 54:13
  Speaker 6: What do I think?
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he'll have a thought, he don't have a thought.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: He liked, he liked to do the he like to
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: fight it.
• 54:24
  Speaker 6: What do I think can I take?
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: If I knew it made the room uncomfortable, I wouldn't
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: do it me personally, unless there are some people that's
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: me me personally.
• 54:35
  Speaker 4: That's where I stand.
• 54:36
  Speaker 6: Uh.
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: There are some people that like making the room uncomfortable,
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: and that's just who they are then they don't give
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: a fuck, especially if they feel like that's who they are.
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: I can't speak from another person's.
• 54:48
  Speaker 4: Experience. I don't know what it was like for him
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: growing up like that.
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: I don't know how many fights he had to have.
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: I don't know what the fuck he'd been through to
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: feel like he fought for his right to say whatever
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: and identify the way he wanted to identify. I don't know,
• 55:01
  Speaker 3: but I do know how it makes me feel when
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: I hear it and I'm like, yo, oh, no, i'm
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: black where my mom's black?
• 55:11
  Speaker 7: Not enough, not enough dropped in you.
• 55:13
  Speaker 4: I can't why because he looks a certain way, yes,
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: but he says I'm black.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: He says I'm black and my mom's black.
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: Now, remember years ago at my Spanish dude, nigga, my nigga,
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: my nigga, but you trump.
• 55:30
  Speaker 4: Maga press Yo. I don't want to hear it coming
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: from you, bro, because that's not your lifestyle. You're not
• 55:36
  Speaker 4: living that lifestyle. You go live over there, you out
• 55:39
  Speaker 4: in Bay Ridge with the white boys. So when you're
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: around me that any word, we're not doing that. But
• 55:45
  Speaker 4: I was ready to do whatever with what.
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: If his Spanish side, But if he's like then what.
• 55:51
  Speaker 4: I don't even know what it means, but it sounds
• 55:52
  Speaker 4: moreno like.
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: What I like.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: Know.
• 55:56
  Speaker 5: What I'm saying is what if he's Spanish but one
• 55:59
  Speaker 5: of his size is a Latina and the other one
• 56:01
  Speaker 5: is white person, and then he got an argument to make,
• 56:03
  Speaker 5: You're gonna let him.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: Make the argument.
• 56:06
  Speaker 5: You're gonna let him make the argument saying that you
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: want to let him make according to your according to
• 56:11
  Speaker 5: what you're saying, because if you see a picture of
• 56:14
  Speaker 5: his mama, she could look black as fuck, but she
• 56:16
  Speaker 5: just Spanish.
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: Go off of how I feel in these certains, in
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: these institutes.
• 56:20
  Speaker 5: And that's the problem because I'm not going off of
• 56:23
  Speaker 5: feelings that looks.
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: I'm not going off of looks. I'm going off.
• 56:27
  Speaker 5: Of are you Why are you so okay with making
• 56:31
  Speaker 5: other people uncomfortable?
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: And you have to justify so hard to say this
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: when you know what you look like in the mirror.
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: But that's just the logic of it speak.
• 56:40
  Speaker 6: I'm not see this whole argument is crazy.
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: But you'll let a white person say niggas that's all
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: he's saying.
• 56:46
  Speaker 8: Me personally, like I said I would because I'm not
• 56:49
  Speaker 8: going to because for me, I feel like to deal
• 56:51
  Speaker 8: with it means that I'll have to fight every person
• 56:53
  Speaker 8: that I feel like is not other culture to say nigga.
• 56:55
  Speaker 8: And I can't pick and choose what like, I don't
• 56:57
  Speaker 8: have time to go and vet every person like it's
• 57:01
  Speaker 8: either I'm gonna fight everybody or I'm not unless to me,
• 57:04
  Speaker 8: that's picking and choosing. And also to my actual point
• 57:06
  Speaker 8: was I think us, as the culture and the people
• 57:10
  Speaker 8: like we would spend a lot of time and energy
• 57:12
  Speaker 8: on this, right. So if a person of the white
• 57:14
  Speaker 8: boy right, if he said nigga, we would spend a
• 57:17
  Speaker 8: lot of energy trying to figure out whether or not
• 57:18
  Speaker 8: we should fuck them up or not. But somebody who
• 57:20
  Speaker 8: looks just like us, if they're doing something to the community,
• 57:23
  Speaker 8: shooting up the block, doing some funny shit, we say nothing.
• 57:27
  Speaker 8: We're not throwing hands, we're not slack boxing, we're not
• 57:30
  Speaker 8: having a conversation.
• 57:32
  Speaker 6: This is not the goal post. This is this is
• 57:34
  Speaker 6: the whole thing.
• 57:35
  Speaker 8: Because we're talking about if a white person says nigga,
• 57:37
  Speaker 8: and it happens, and we have white people who live
• 57:39
  Speaker 8: in the hood, and these conversations come up, and there's
• 57:42
  Speaker 8: always a level of they can't do this, but the
• 57:45
  Speaker 8: people that look like us get to do whatever they want.
• 57:47
  Speaker 8: That's why I don't really like these conversations, because it's
• 57:49
  Speaker 8: too much talk about the white person saying nigga and
• 57:51
  Speaker 8: not enough about the other shit. Yeah, niggas doing niggas
• 57:55
  Speaker 8: all the time, but we like no, but the white
• 57:56
  Speaker 8: person say, that's what we gotta stop.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: That's the thing.
• 58:00
  Speaker 6: That's the thing.
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: That's to save the last dance. Bitch home to Thanksgiving
• 58:05
  Speaker 2: And she could say nigga around your family because.
• 58:06
  Speaker 8: She grew up around I don't think that's around She
• 58:09
  Speaker 8: went to high school, niggas nowhere.
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: Doing a hip hop ballerina dances with niggas and that's okay.
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: So she decided to spit it out.
• 58:17
  Speaker 8: You can't create the perfect scenario just to ask the question.
• 58:21
  Speaker 8: That's like, I would not let that happen.
• 58:24
  Speaker 2: You kind of that's lovely.
• 58:27
  Speaker 7: No, No, I don't think.
• 58:32
  Speaker 8: It sounds it's not a matter. I just think that sometimes.
• 58:34
  Speaker 8: And again, because I'm from the culture, I can speak
• 58:36
  Speaker 8: to the culture. I feel like it's just contradictory sometimes
• 58:39
  Speaker 8: from the conversation.
• 58:39
  Speaker 7: To hold our own people more accountable, then yeah, like.
• 58:41
  Speaker 8: We spend a lot of time and energy on that,
• 58:44
  Speaker 8: and it's like, I don't care what they I don't
• 58:46
  Speaker 8: care what they say. I don't I'm not even listening
• 58:48
  Speaker 8: to I'm not even listening to white honest with you,
• 58:50
  Speaker 8: I don't care about what they're talking about going on.
• 58:52
  Speaker 6: I care about what my people have going on.
• 58:54
  Speaker 8: So that's what I'm more focused on, not the white
• 58:56
  Speaker 8: guys saying nigga that I'm not going to see it again.
• 58:59
  Speaker 5: The fact of the matter is, I care about who's
• 59:01
  Speaker 5: in my circle. I care about who's around me and
• 59:03
  Speaker 5: who's in my proximity and who is an arm's length away,
• 59:07
  Speaker 5: and I don't want no fuck shit around me.
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: And that's it.
• 59:10
  Speaker 5: Anybody can say whatever they want to say, but if
• 59:12
  Speaker 5: you see me standing there, please watch your mouth. Have
• 59:15
  Speaker 5: some type of decorum, act like somebody raised you. Please,
• 59:19
  Speaker 5: for the sake.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: Of everybody, I don't like the answer at all.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: That's your family.
• 59:25
  Speaker 4: I do know that he bringing.
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: Her to dinner.
• 59:28
  Speaker 6: No, it's cool.
• 59:29
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to demonize you.
• 59:31
  Speaker 6: But I'm not hanging around those people.
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: So it's like, I just don't like the answer because,
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: for one, the shit that white people did, like own
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: that y'all know that you don't get to come and
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: just do it again and do it again, like that's
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: some shit that is hundreds of years old. The shit
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: that's going on in our neighborhood is kind of done
• 59:50
  Speaker 3: to us. That is socioeconomic, that is, it's some shit
• 59:56
  Speaker 3: that's happened to our community, purposely done to our commun and.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 4: Still being done to our communities. And it's also.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: You know, once you get a certain amount of money
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: and education, you're not doing that shit no more so.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 6: It's definitely tied to what.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: Happened to your family and what happened to your community
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: that keeps you there doing that shit that you're saying
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: niggas shouldn't do. Right, I'm not giving that. I'm not
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 4: giving that look to white people that do that. I'm
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: not giving that.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 8: But to your context, you're not talking about and just
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 8: a regular white person. You're talking about a white person
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 8: that is born and inducted into the neighborhood. That's what
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 8: you were speaking to. In fact, that's what I'm speaking to.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 8: I'm saying that person. I'm not going to question that.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 8: You know, I'm saying that person that you're talking about,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 8: I wouldn't question that person because again, they're from the neighborhood,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 8: so it's different than somebody just coming here and being
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 8: dropped here and saying that's different. But to your point, no,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 8: I wouldn't have a person with that person saying.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: It yeah, because I'm pressing a white person, somebody that
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: just moved on the block saying is different.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 6: I don't know if I'm doing that.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: You're right, I probably won't, But the white I'm pressing.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 6: That, Yeah, that's that's that's what I think. It's my job.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 8: If you grew up, if you grew up here your
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 8: whole life, can I tell you to not.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 6: Not even what are you thinking?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 7: I see it the energy what of like oppressing people
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 7: who just want to be ignorant.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, but I'm doing that. Yeah, I'm doing that.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying somebody else shit. I know me personally,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 3: that ship wells up in my spirit and I can't
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: even you know what I mean, I can't function.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 6: I'm doing that.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 2: I just want ready to watch their mouth.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 4: You don't, I don't have to exactly.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 5: I truly believe that there are not a lot of
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 5: people in this world that could beat my ass. And
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 5: because I really believe that in my heart and soul.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care. Do you have a list of the
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: people that can beat my ass?
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't hear it. Can I hear it? Can I
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 6: get like three lists? People up the list?
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: Why would he raise his hand?
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 6: I mean, I know he's on the list.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: I mean I do that he's on the list. My
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: daddy's on the list. Okay, just like my uncles.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 6: I'm solid. Are there any other women on the list?
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 5: My aunt maybe she? I think she still got hands.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: My sister one, my little sister m interesting. I think
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: my little sister might fuck me up. I might even
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: gonna hold you.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: Hell yeah, hell yeah, yeah, that little bit crazy. I'm
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: not that crazy no more.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 5: You taught her that, now, Harlem taught her that. Okay,
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 5: it was It wasn't me, it was Harlem. She she
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 5: definitely got She got more fights in her than I did.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: So I really believe.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 6: Shout out to Harlem and my little sister.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: That judahs crazy.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm falls in love.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 9: Is a very important conversation, and I'm glad that we're
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 9: having it. However, the girls are being a little disingenuous here,
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 9: and I don't like that. Because the men are saying
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 9: that they were taught from a young age that love
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 9: is conditional and that they have to become, achieve, become
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 9: a man, a protector or provider in order to be loved,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 9: and that they never thought that these women would just
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 9: love them for being them. And there's a lot of
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 9: women in the comment section saying, yes, I would I do. However,
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 9: if a successful man and a broke man had the
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 9: same personality, morals, ethics, a lot of y'all are not
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 9: choosing that broke man, and you know.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 2: That the data shows us that.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 9: So they do indeed need to become a little something
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 9: in order to be loved to an extent. A lot
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 9: of men know this, and most of them are okay
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 9: with it, to be honest, even though it is hard.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 9: But y'all can't have this conversation about how men deserve
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 9: to be loved too while simultaneously having the conversation about
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 9: how men don't have enough testosterone and they don't have
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 9: Adams apples and deep enough voices and they're not tall
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 9: enough for you. So you all are keeping up the patriarchy.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 9: We are enforcing the fact that men have to become
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 9: and achieve in order to receive love while women get
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 9: to exist. We uphold that, not them. M.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: I don't like the face you made. Why'd you make
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 4: a face?
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: I just made a face?
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 4: Do you agree?
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: Sure?
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 7: It was a lot?
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 4: Why do you think it's a lot?
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: Sure?
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 7: That just felt the video was long.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: Because with women talking shit about other women, it feels like,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: especially when it pertains to men, feels like it's.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 7: Going against girl call I would say, like, no, not
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 7: at all. Everybody got their opinions. When she says that
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 7: men are like taught that they're they won't be loved unconditionally,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 7: I'm wondering, like, who's who's teaching that. I don't I
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 7: don't know anybody who's teaching that to men like they.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 7: I feel like they might assume it or like compare
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 7: it to other people's situations. But I don't think anybody's
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 7: directly saying no one's gonna love you.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: I think we see that, Yeah, I think it's seen.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 4: I think we I think You're gonna say society. Society
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 4: teaches you that.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 6: Do you learn that.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: From being from young when you don't have no money,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: and when you.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 4: Don't have money, when you don't have gear, when you
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 4: don't have clothes. When you don't have you know, certain
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 4: things that prop you up. When you have it, you get.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: More love, more girls, more friends, more attention. When you
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 3: don't have it, you don't Men don't get to just
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 3: be like, oh he's cool because he's him. I remember
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 3: I had this girl. Remember I had the girl who
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: I was telling weed and she was bad. I was
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: in love with her and she was, no, not that one.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 6: Why do you do that?
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: That's that's the one that popped in my head.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 4: You had to do you trying to bass me in
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 4: mixed company.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 7: You start asking if you remember, I.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 2: Don't know, I just the one I asked her.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 4: You know, I wanted her to be my girl, and
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 4: she was like, yo, you know I.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 3: Would, but you know I like things and you know
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 3: you can't afford those things. And I was like, cause
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: I said weed, you know my friends. You're doing that
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: because my friends, because they so crack. And she was like,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: so why you don't sell crack?
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: Why day.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 6: Like this?
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 4: You kind of said this this. I thought you liked me.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: I gotta go do felony more Like what the.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 5: Fuck I'm just saying, like, if you're selling weed and
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 5: you're hanging out around with niggas that sell crack, you
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 5: might as well sell crack.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: Selling weed wasn't like a felony.
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 6: Yo, this is what exactly you know? I see what's happening.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 7: I mean the video was right, don't I don't know
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 7: what you want me to say.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 4: She's right exactly. Women up the patriarchy.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 7: No, you know what we want just like everybody else.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 7: We like what we like, we want what we want.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I think I'm gonna have to be the
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 5: contrarian here because, like, there is a point in time
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 5: between teenagers to like your mid twenties, where everybody's broke
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 5: for the most part, unless you was like scamming drug dealing,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 5: unless you like, like a.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: Big part, like like we all did broke shit together.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 5: I think that that is your window of opportunity to
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 5: find that unconditional love.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: But when you wait and try to be with.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 5: Somebody that has accomplished so much more than what you have,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 5: you can't be mad at them for saying hmm, right person,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 5: wrong time. And I think that that's the disparaging the
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 5: disparity there. I think that there is a small window
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 5: of time when women will take a man that has
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 5: all of the great qualities that might not have the
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 5: money because we don't have the money yet either. But
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 5: if we start building and growing together, that makes a
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 5: little bit more sense. But I think that men have
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 5: this thing in their head like I can't take anybody
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 5: seriously till I get to this point. But then in
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 5: the midst of you got mad skeletons and mad broken
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 5: hearts that probably would have rocked with you all the.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: Way to the top.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 5: But in your brain you're like, no, I can't settle
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 5: down yet. I don't have enough money yet. I don't
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 5: have this yet. I don't have that yet. But y'all
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 5: don't do that and just sit on your hands and
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 5: just hustle. Y'all still date, still talk to people, still
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 5: fuck with people, might have a baby or two. All
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 5: these things are still happening in progression, and you won't
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 5: just settle down with the person that loves you for
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 5: you right now.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: So I don't I don't know if I fully agree
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: with that.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 5: I think that it's it's cute for some people, but
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 5: I don't know if that's the whole picture, because there's
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: still a lot of broke niggas that got bitches broken
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 5: niggas get bitches all the time. They get a lot
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 5: of unconditional love, they get a lot of respects, they
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 5: get a lot of.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 7: Happen because it could be the majority. You know what
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 7: I'm saying.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: I actually think that was the greatest load of bullshit
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: I've ever heard from you.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: I love it that.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 3: Ship, Like I was sitting here just like I cannot
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 3: even believe you're so smart and so intelligent that I'm
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 3: going to use that to create these dumb ass scenarios
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: that you think people can't see through.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 6: Don't.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 5: Okay, First of all, so when you was broke, you
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 5: didn't fuck with nobody. You ain't have bitches that loved
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 5: you unconditionally while you was that broke.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 6: Though he said, here, been broken thirty years.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's been. It's been a long long
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 3: time that I can't remember that.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: You can't and know.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 3: When I was young, sixteen through twenty, I was trying
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: to find myself period.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 6: I'm not.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 4: I'm you said, there's a small window between teenage and
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 4: mid twenties.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 6: Yeah, mid twenties.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, in that time, I'm literally trying to find myself period.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to find myself married.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 3: There's other things that I'm dealing with, like even trying
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: to get out my mother's house. You know what I'm saying, Like,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 3: there's a I'm not a bit at that time to
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: a relationship.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 5: Did you have bitches at that time? Yes, bitches that
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 5: loved you and I was with them in a relationship.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 2: So what are we talking about?
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 4: You just thinking shit?
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 3: Do you think that people should be serious about dating
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 3: in their twenty one twenty two years? It depends think
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: that people should marry and be in there because we've
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 3: had this conversation.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 2: It depends.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 4: No, you can't. Don't change it just because we're here
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 4: right now. No, I'm not changing grade that those years
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 4: are are not super locking for life. You're not just
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 4: trying to find yourself.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 7: They're not so black for men, but maybe for women
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 7: they are.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 4: You know, like, no, I don't it's going to be
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 4: she's twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 6: Anyway.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 4: I think we're all trying to find ourselves.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 7: In early years, So why are we having kids in
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 7: ours and the timeframe for women to have kids is
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 7: much different.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: Sucks to be all, it does. It's not everybody's fault
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 4: that y'all clocks is going through it. I'm sorry, plan better.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 7: They we are, plan better, clear, get younger.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 2: This is crazy, like it's like it's because.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: Niggas.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 6: It's not our fault.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: What do you talk?
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 6: So your body, it's your mondy.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 3: You're having babies because you're not protecting your womb. It's
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 3: not because just because the nigga. It's your body.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 2: Oh you're doing that thing that you do.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 4: It's your body. Don't just jump in you roar because
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 4: it feels good and you believe him. If you don't
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 4: know for a fact, if you ain't got a ring
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 4: on your finger, it's your body, your choice.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 2: Let me ask you.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 5: Fifty years to put a ring on somebody's fingers. So
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 5: what the fuck are you talking about?
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 6: When I was one yo?
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: Crazy years and three possible babies and you want to
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: sit here and this is the hell you want to
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 2: die on? Okay, absolutely, you got it. You gotta playboy.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 6: I don't know what you mean about possible, forget it possible.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about?
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 6: I don't.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: I said three and im possible.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 6: No, that was what when that DNA test?
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I said the three and you had three.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 4: That's hurtful you bring it up. I thought somebody was
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 4: my kid. I'm fifty one.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 6: Not that it.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 4: Matters, but why you had to throw Why did you ask?
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 6: Why did you ask?
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 7: Why did I ask?
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 6: How you?
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 7: Because you guys are saying one to fifty, So enough
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 7: it was a joke.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 6: At the end of the day.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 3: I don't think that dating in those early years to
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 3: your point, the reason I said is bullshit? Is dating
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 3: in those early years? I don't think that that's a
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 3: really great idea. Yeah, not not that, not not for
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: a serious, serious marriage for life equation. I don't think
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 3: that that math works because you find yourself so many
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: times since then.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: Are you're supposed to find that person that you can
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: grow with.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 4: You need experience, and you need the experience you need
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 4: to know what not to do. So all of those
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 4: things you talk about skeletons and might as we all
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 4: do it.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 3: Women do it, men do it. It's not a man thing.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: Women find a guy and they think they like them.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 3: They've realized yo, I wasn't even myself then and I
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 3: thought I liked it that and like, we all do it,
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: and then we apply what we learned in those early
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 3: years to have successful relationships when we're really ready and cooked.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 2: Is that the way it's supposed to be, though?
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 4: I don't.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 5: Are we supposed to have so many experiences and so
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 5: many dating experiences and so many I don't know if
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 5: it was supposed to be that way.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 6: What do you think it is supposed to be?
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 6: On this planet?
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 3: You said zero to fifty, we're this planet for a
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 3: one hundred years. You think we should marry at twenty
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 3: and stay with that same person for the next eighty years.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 5: I think that it's a beautiful thing when you are there.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 5: I think that I think that it is a beautiful thing.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 5: I think it is a magical thing, and I think
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 5: that very rare. I think that it's rare because a
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 5: lot of people are not honest. And I think that
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 5: it's rare because a lot of people are not used
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 5: to having the tough conversations, and when it comes to
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 5: things like therapy, they go too late. I think that
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 5: that whole your lover and your best friend thing is
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 5: really important because I think that there are a lot
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 5: of conversations that need to be had, and as you
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 5: are growing and changing, it should be an honest conversation.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 5: As you are growing and changing because you have made
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 5: this commitment to be with each other through all of
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 5: these different things.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: You can only be honest if you know, And at
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 4: twenty you don't know.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: You don't know what you know, you don't know, but
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 2: you know you see changes. You see when you like.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: Nobody just changes overnight.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 5: It starts to build, It starts with an idea, It
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 5: starts with a see starts that much.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 3: Different things presence of self, knowledge of self at twenty
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 3: twenty one to really be able to evaluate that.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 5: But when you're twenty one, No, by the time you're
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 5: twenty five, you can look back and see the difference
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 5: between twenty one and twenty five.
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: I don't think that they're who doesn't have that.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 4: Twenty five year olds are literally just coming of age
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 4: where they're not in school, maybe have their first job,
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 4: second job. They're not, They're they're becoming self reliant. All
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 4: of those years before that kinda is just a bunch
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 4: of jumble fuck jump bay yaya, bullshit.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: How did it work for so many He's not how
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: did it work for so many centuries before?
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 5: And now all of a sudden, now that we have
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 5: these generations, I'm going to start it from like the
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 5: late seventies, eighties, nineties, that now all of a sudden,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 5: this thing that has worked for years doesn't work anymore.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 7: Why is it a way that it wasn't an option
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 7: for women if it worked or not? Just in America,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 7: I don't know. I feel like globally women don't have
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 7: a say. You know, once you locked in, you locked in,
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: and you might not be able to get divorced or
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 7: leave or do anything. You have no saying that even
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 7: if people are changing, those could be married from when
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 7: they was teenagers all the way to eighty and they
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 7: just kind of this is my life. Oh I got
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 7: I can't go, I can't leave. I have to be
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 7: this and so now since we don't have to be that,
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 7: I think like relationship standards change women having a choice
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  Speaker 7: to choose I want to stay here, I don't want
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 7: to be here no more, I don't want to be married,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 7: I don't want to have kids. It changes the dynamic.
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  Speaker 5: I think that that's a pre colonial like like a postcolonialism,
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 5: a post like colonization thought process, because I don't believe
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 5: that before, when we were in the continent, when we
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 5: were in different places, that that was the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: I think this is that.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 5: After slavery forced Christianity and now we're in this misogynistic
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 5: bubble of da DA. I don't really believe that that's
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 5: how it was before we were here. I believe in
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 5: what we know from just literature and studying. We know
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 5: that women were warriors. We know that they were kings,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 5: we know that they were queens. We know that they
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 5: made decisions. We know that they were the matriarchy was
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 5: really important in the household. It wasn't a patriarchy. It
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 5: was a matriarchy until it wasn't. So I think that
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 5: this is us living in the effects of colonization. But
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  Speaker 5: I don't believe as strong as women are and have
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: always been, especially Black women, because I'm only ever talking
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 5: about Black women, I.
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  Speaker 2: Don't believe that we were ever subdued.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think that we were ever just like these
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  Speaker 5: silent voices and we didn't speak up for like that
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 5: is not even a part of our DNA. Like black
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 5: men and black women, we understand each other and we
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 5: we we spar with each other, we bring ideas like
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 5: we we check each other when we need to be checked.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 5: I don't think that that's a new thing. I think
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 5: that that's always been a thing. So I don't know
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 5: how how we got to this point, but I think
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 5: that I could start with these damn phones. But I'm
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 5: not gonna take it there. I think that there's too
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 5: much freedom, there's too much choice, there's too much. I
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 5: could be with you, but I could be here, I
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 5: could be there, I could be that this one and
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 5: that one and that, and then we never settled down,
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 5: and we never take it take family, and take things seriously,
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 5: and we make it seem like, oh, I can never
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 5: have a family, or I can never have somebody that's
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 5: gonna love me unconditionally until I have.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 2: All this money.
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  Speaker 5: That's not fucking true. It wasn't always like that. Our
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 5: grandparents had nothing and married each other.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't get the longest point, how fuck am I
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 3: supposed to say anything?
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 4: You supposed for seven minutes. You couldn't say that in
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 4: like nineteen wordsless.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: You can't count yo.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry I said.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 3: You disagreed what I'm saying because I got a disagreement
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 3: for her.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 4: But I want you to be disagree with me.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 3: I forgot, I'm I forgot what you're saying. I said
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 3: that before twenty five is Jimbalaya and you said that, Yeah,
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 3: you said it was jam laying. I think cause you
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 3: were saying that before twenty five, you feel like people
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 3: didn't really like know theirselves and they didn't really have
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 3: much experience, right, I said, there's a lot of experience,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 3: but it's all to form where you at. You're not
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 3: super into your adult years when you're actually able to
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: start planning your life until you get through certain points.
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  Speaker 6: Right. Yeah, well, yeah, no, I agree with I agree
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 6: with that, but I agree with with.
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  Speaker 8: Your overall point that I think marriage young, I feel
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 8: like that's always really hard because I feel like you
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 8: don't really know yourself, so to make that type of
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 8: commitment that young and still have to grow with your person,
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 8: like it can. It can go both ways, right, It
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 8: can go good. You can grow together and you can
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 8: grow apart.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 8: But I don't think there it's like set in stone
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 8: which way it goes. I just think it really depends
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 8: on the people. So that's why I don't think it's
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 8: a good idea.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 4: Sought part of me. I think, thank you for that.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 3: Point before nineteen I want to say eighty for crack,
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 3: so it starts to crack bro Crack the crime bill,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 3: welfare laws, all of these things that broke these families apart.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 3: Just remember that we're living through that now, but beyond
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 3: all of this social media, because I think you had
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 3: a point with that too, the fact that a lot
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 3: of us did not grow up with mother father, father
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 3: dedicated to this one woman, even though he might have
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 3: had Miss Lorella down the block.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 6: He was taking care of his kids, he.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 4: Was trying to pay bills in the house, Him and
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 4: his wife were a team one way, shape or form.
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 3: You hear from the Grammars that JP he put his
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 3: money on the table. He put the money, put the
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 3: bill money on the table.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 6: And you know what I'm saying, it was what it
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 6: was right.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 4: I'm wondering to your point instead of trying to disagree
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 4: with you.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 6: To your point, if.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 3: That crack, crime bill, welfare, kicking men out the house, whatever,
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 3: if all of that kind of shaped the way we
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: are now.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 4: And now you have a lot of information sharing, a
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 4: lot of niggas ain't shit talking women empowerment movements and
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 4: things like that. Not that there's wrong, but they're all clashing,
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 4: especially with the fact that they didn't grow up with
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 4: a dad or grew up with a two family home. Yes,
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 4: people are trying to find themselves in their early twenties,
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 4: is what I'm saying.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: You're trying to find yourself. You're trying to keep up
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 2: with the Joneses and have experience exactly, mother, father exactly.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 4: So that's not going to be your thing to run to.
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 3: You don't have that, and that's not what society is
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 3: doing right now because of everything that I just said.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 2: If you don't have it, you don't have an example
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 2: of it. You need to stop having kids.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 4: Just do that.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: Make it real simple.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 5: Just stop stop procreating, stop making families, and for the
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 5: sake of making families.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 4: Yo, mother and father in the crib, don't have no kids.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: Is that what I said? That's what you just said.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 2: It's not what I said, that's what you What.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 6: Did you hear?
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: She getting further and further away from you every time
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 4: she moved face. He's trying to push the counting, but
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 4: so big.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 7: I mean, I heard, you know, stop having kids for sure,
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 7: And I wonder like it's that. I feel like that's
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 7: like a talking point a lot of people use, like
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 7: people shouldn't be out here having babies, Like people are
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 7: fucking whether they're in relationships or not. Like it's it's
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 7: like it's like an easy to say thing, but it's like,
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 7: this is the point of life and the point of
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 7: why anybody's doing anything making money to be presentable. People
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 7: are just trying to keep having sex every five minutes
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 7: for no reason. So it's like it's that it sounds good,
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 7: but that's like the number one addiction.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 4: I feel like fucking.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: I mean, I get that, but.
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 7: However, and nobody can't make no choices when they want
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 7: to from whatever, Like, no good choices will be made
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 7: from there.
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 4: No, I said, sugar, sugar, sugar, and.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 6: Fucking and attention tension is a hell of a drug, bro.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 5: But that's part of the problem. I think part of
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 5: the problem is we don't have real morals and values anymore.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 5: Everything that we do is moved on emotion and just
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 5: how we feel in the day and in the moment.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 5: Like nobody is like disciplined anymore. And when I say
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 5: don't have kids, I don't mean like you understand, Like
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 5: it's not that, it's just a fact. It's just the
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 5: fact that we're we're creating and perpetuating more broken homes
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 5: because of the fact that we're in a situation. We're
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 5: in a fucking simulation at this point. Let me put
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 5: my little conspiracy theory had on. We're in a simulation,
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 5: and we're looking at these phones, and we're looking at
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 5: what society is telling us what should be and what
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 5: shouldn't be. We're still trying to find ourselves in our twenties,
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 5: because you're comparing yourself to something that somethingbody else is
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 5: doing or something that you've seen, instead of just standing
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 5: in your own lane. If you haven't found yourself in
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 5: your twenties to even be able to settle down with somebody,
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 5: then why we finding ourselves enough to create more children
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 5: and then fucking them up because we don't have the
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 5: right exactly. That's why I was pushing the conversation forward
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 5: and not. It wasn't a mic drop moment. It was
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 5: a if we understand this point, then we have to
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 5: also understand this point.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 3: I don't think I do agree what you're saying. I
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 3: agree with what you're saying. I don't think most of
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 3: them children that people are having before twenty five they
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 3: meant to have. I think there's be a lot of
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 3: pregnancy and fucking and at some point and trying to
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 3: keep a nigga's next to you and trying to keep
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: it here.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 5: This nigga is a bollau. Bro Y, smack your father, bro.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 5: It's okay.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 6: We are in love. I'm pregnant.
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 4: I'm having a baby. The nigga likes how how how
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 4: are we.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 6: Going to take care of this? Yo?
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 3: I don't want to have a baby. I don't want to.
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 3: Oh well, I'm pregnant now. I don't want to get
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 3: rid of it.
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 2: Huh, God will provide, provide sure.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 3: I think it's a lot of a lot of the
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 3: lower income population.
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 6: That's what happens.
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 2: It's bad.
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 6: Whose choice is that? All right?
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: Don't make me say bad things because I've said bad things.
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 6: Don't touch that.
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 3: We could discuss that at some point, but we're at
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 3: the end of part one. I think Naimi needs another
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 3: something to drink.
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 7: That should I've been looking at it.
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 4: It's just empty.
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 6: So stay like that.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. We will be back on Thursday.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 3: Y'all already know. Go over the patreons you when hit
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 3: the whole ship. But where can people find you?
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 2: Matter of fact?
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 7: Oh you know Instagram name of Supreme TikTok name of
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 7: Supreme with too eat.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're not going to be able to find you.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 7: They can find me. Just write me and keep watching
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 7: my stories every day, and then I'm gonna.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 4: Be it's not spelled, Oh you mean spell it.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 7: I think y'all do the thing y'all put at the bottom.
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 6: You know I do. I do, But they might just
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 6: be hearing it.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 7: N y E M I A h. Supreme, there's an
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 7: I in there. There was a debate, but not even Supreme.
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 7: TikTok and Grandma'll be on air d M me. I
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 7: might answer depending on who DM, chance.
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 4: Of my DM.
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 6: I'm cool, cool, We'll be back Chrishames m hm