Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS HOUR 2 | Paying Rent at Home, Comedy & Kountry Wayne
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- 0:02Speaker 1: It is the other deal. You goually show your twenty
- 0:04Speaker 1: twenty six this Remember if you wanted to.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Be in Raleigh, North Carolina, We're going to be at
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- 0:12Speaker 2: down limit for the DL and DL tour.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Anything goes to her.
- 0:16Speaker 2: Then the following day we're gonna be in Cleveland a
- 0:17Speaker 2: playoff square. So the third will be going to be
- 0:22Speaker 2: in Raleigh, and the fourth we're going to be in Cleveland.
- 0:24Speaker 1: So come check us out. If you're take a notion,
- 0:26Speaker 1: take a listen to this.
- 0:27Speaker 3: Your twenty nine year old son and his twenty seven
- 0:30Speaker 3: year old girlfriend comes to you and your husband and act, y'all,
- 0:33Speaker 3: could they come and stay at the house with y'all.
- 0:36Speaker 3: They paid thirty seven hundred dollars a month in rent
- 0:39Speaker 3: and they've been doing this for the last three years,
- 0:41Speaker 3: but now they need a little break and they needed
- 0:43Speaker 3: a downsize and their payment, so they're going to be
- 0:45Speaker 3: looking for something different, so they didn't want to renew
- 0:47Speaker 3: their least, so you and your husband talked about it,
- 0:49Speaker 3: and y'all came back and said, that's fine. How long
- 0:52Speaker 3: are y'all planning to stay your son and his girlfriend response,
- 0:56Speaker 3: and it should be no more than a year. So
- 0:58Speaker 3: y'all said, okay, cool. For the first month, y'all don't
- 1:02Speaker 3: have to pay anything because y'all might be out of
- 1:03Speaker 3: here within the first month. But after that you have
- 1:06Speaker 3: to pay six hundred dollars a month. You have to
- 1:08Speaker 3: contribute six hundred dollars a month towards the household bills.
- 1:11Speaker 3: So the girlfriend says, what's the purpose of coming home
- 1:15Speaker 3: if you have to pay your parents' rent.
- 1:17Speaker 4: You respond by saying you can go live with your mother.
- 1:21Speaker 3: She says, my mother doesn't have a house, And you
- 1:24Speaker 3: said exactly, but you got to pay for when you late.
- 1:27Speaker 3: And y'all look grown, y'all, I'm not children anymore.
- 1:30Speaker 2: A man moves back in with his now on hisself,
- 1:32Speaker 2: but his wife, y'all gonna look dumb as hell being married,
- 1:35Speaker 2: sleeping on those batman.
- 1:36Speaker 5: She's but okay, but we get some good sleep.
- 1:39Speaker 6: Though.
- 1:42Speaker 1: Should should they pay rent? Or is that just part
- 1:44Speaker 1: of parenting? What do you think?
- 1:46Speaker 4: Said?
- 1:46Speaker 5: I think they should pay something. They may not have
- 1:48Speaker 5: to pay total rent, but I think you know you're
- 1:51Speaker 5: there now, you're an adult, and you brought a companion.
- 1:54Speaker 5: You know, I think it's only fair that you pay
- 1:56Speaker 5: a little something.
- 1:57Speaker 1: You know, you have five on it something she can't.
- 2:00Speaker 5: Yeah, a little bit because guess what, Now more water
- 2:03Speaker 5: will be used, So the water grill is going to
- 2:05Speaker 5: go up, more electricity, electricity rell.
- 2:07Speaker 3: Is going to go up.
- 2:08Speaker 5: Somebody's going to be eat up a lot of food
- 2:10Speaker 5: in the house, right because you tend to just go
- 2:12Speaker 5: in the refrigerator and just eat. You don't think about
- 2:15Speaker 5: who bought it or whose it is. So, yeah, you
- 2:16Speaker 5: should kick in something.
- 2:17Speaker 1: You're not a kid, no more, get out, that's right.
- 2:21Speaker 2: So what do you think We're going to ask that
- 2:23Speaker 2: question for you to think it should pay rent or
- 2:25Speaker 2: should That's just part of parenting. That's what we're going
- 2:27Speaker 2: to post you eight seven seven two for two two
- 2:30Speaker 2: six hugli. All right, what do you think do you
- 2:34Speaker 2: think that they shap should pay rent?
- 2:37Speaker 1: Junius? Do you think they should?
- 2:38Speaker 7: Definitely? I mean, you got to contribute to the household.
- 2:40Speaker 7: I mean, especially if you're two grown people and you
- 2:44Speaker 7: got a job and y'all back in the house. Of
- 2:46Speaker 7: course you're going to contribute. Old baby girl did not
- 2:49Speaker 7: pay rent. She was good and grown when she moved out,
- 2:51Speaker 7: she did before, and she did it of all volition.
- 2:54Speaker 1: Which was yeah, okay, you took it, but.
- 2:57Speaker 7: Yeah, we saved it. And then when she was ready
- 2:59Speaker 7: to more, she got it back and that was her
- 3:01Speaker 7: down payment.
- 3:02Speaker 1: So but you didn't then she didn't pay rent.
- 3:05Speaker 5: Oh if she got it back.
- 3:08Speaker 7: But in this scenario, she never left. You're talking about
- 3:12Speaker 7: somebody who came back.
- 3:13Speaker 1: She was.
- 3:14Speaker 7: She came back after college. No, she never left. She
- 3:19Speaker 7: she live at home when she went to college.
- 3:20Speaker 5: Yeah, bring up, does she have a friend living there too?
- 3:24Speaker 7: No, she didn't do that. Okay, she ain't got a
- 3:26Speaker 7: friend now. So once she need a friend.
- 3:29Speaker 8: For Daddy pay for everything, you don't drop by.
- 3:33Speaker 7: When she got a paper she was I mean she contributed.
- 3:37Speaker 7: I respected her for that.
- 3:39Speaker 2: Well, you gave her money back, so yeah, come on,
- 3:43Speaker 2: just it was just money.
- 3:44Speaker 1: She didn't have to borrow from you. Was what happened.
- 3:46Speaker 7: The bank of Daddy likes the bank of Daddy.
- 3:50Speaker 1: Everybody does.
- 3:51Speaker 7: I don't, Daddy don't.
- 3:54Speaker 1: Not at all.
- 3:56Speaker 2: So we got to get to your calls in a
- 3:57Speaker 2: bit more So, this is the your.
- 4:00Speaker 3: Twenty nine year old son and his twenty seven year
- 4:03Speaker 3: old girlfriend comes to you and your husband and asks
- 4:05Speaker 3: y'all could they come and stay at the house with y'all.
- 4:09Speaker 4: They paid thirty seven hundred.
- 4:11Speaker 3: Dollars a month in rent, and they've been doing this
- 4:13Speaker 3: for the last three years, but now they need a
- 4:15Speaker 3: little break and they needed a downsize and their payment,
- 4:18Speaker 3: so they're going to be looking for something different, so
- 4:19Speaker 3: they didn't want to renew their least. So you and
- 4:21Speaker 3: your husband talked about it, and y'all came back and said,
- 4:24Speaker 3: that's fine. How long are y'all planning to stay? Your
- 4:27Speaker 3: son and his girlfriend response and it should be no
- 4:30Speaker 3: more than a year, So y'all said, okay, cool. For
- 4:33Speaker 3: the first month, y'all don't have to pay anything because
- 4:36Speaker 3: y'all might be out of here within the first month.
- 4:38Speaker 3: But after that you have to pay six hundred dollars
- 4:41Speaker 3: a month. You have to contribute six hundred dollars a
- 4:43Speaker 3: month towards the household bills. So the girlfriend says, what's
- 4:47Speaker 3: the purpose of coming home if you have to pay
- 4:49Speaker 3: your parents' rent.
- 4:51Speaker 4: You respond by saying you can go live with your mother.
- 4:54Speaker 3: She says, my mother doesn't have a house, and you
- 4:57Speaker 3: said exactly, but you got to pay for you late
- 5:00Speaker 3: and y'all are grown, y'all, I'm not children anymore.
- 5:03Speaker 2: Do you think she had a point? Should they pay rent?
- 5:06Speaker 2: Or is that just part of the parent even going
- 5:07Speaker 2: to write to the phone.
- 5:08Speaker 9: If it was my kids, they would definitely be paying
- 5:11Speaker 9: because everything, like Bille said, we already did that part.
- 5:16Speaker 10: They are adult. Now is their time to pay?
- 5:19Speaker 11: Be a dope?
- 5:20Speaker 12: I'm gonna I forgot all the way back on this one.
- 5:23Speaker 12: I recall that Adam was given a house a job
- 5:28Speaker 12: before he got e right, so if it was good
- 5:33Speaker 12: for Adam, it should probably be good for my child too,
- 5:37Speaker 12: my son especially now, have he worked and got in
- 5:42Speaker 12: a house and had a job, he might have made
- 5:46Speaker 12: a better selection than a woman who could appreciate those things.
- 5:51Speaker 12: And therefore, when I understand that there is no free
- 5:53Speaker 12: ticket in this.
- 5:54Speaker 9: Life, now you want to come home and live up
- 5:56Speaker 9: on me and my man I did the right things,
- 5:59Speaker 9: he did the right thing, the answer simply is no.
- 6:03Speaker 11: Well, first of all, from the description to girlfriend's wife
- 6:07Speaker 11: or whoever she is, sounds really entitled. Second of all,
- 6:12Speaker 11: I'm fifty nine years old. I moved back into my
- 6:16Speaker 11: grandmother's house at twenty five years old without a girlfriend,
- 6:20Speaker 11: and or a mate. I had to pay three hundred
- 6:23Speaker 11: dollars in rent of my plus pitch in on utilities
- 6:29Speaker 11: and food. Where does she think she gonna let her
- 6:32Speaker 11: head at free? And her mama ain't got no house.
- 6:37Speaker 11: So if she thinks she gonna let her head there free,
- 6:40Speaker 11: go to her mama house. Evidently her mama ain't got
- 6:43Speaker 11: no house. Like I said, the entitlement of this girl
- 6:47Speaker 11: is kind of out language. You gotta pay where you
- 6:50Speaker 11: lay point blank, period. Or she needed to find make
- 6:54Speaker 11: other arrangements.
- 6:55Speaker 9: I have a twenty six year old daughter who moved
- 6:58Speaker 9: back home for a college so that's fine. But if
- 7:01Speaker 9: you have come back home with a husband, absolutely not.
- 7:04Speaker 9: I would not let them two grown adults live in
- 7:07Speaker 9: my house rent free. And y'all couple, no, absolutely not.
- 7:12Speaker 6: I said, absolutely they should have to pay rent. I
- 7:15Speaker 6: have two adults daughters that have come back home, and
- 7:19Speaker 6: both of them had to pay rent and contribute to
- 7:23Speaker 6: the household cleaning more.
- 7:25Speaker 1: Your calls come out kiss today a huge So here's
- 7:27Speaker 1: the idea.
- 7:27Speaker 3: Your twenty nine year old son and his twenty seven
- 7:30Speaker 3: year old girlfriend comes to you and your husband and
- 7:33Speaker 3: act y'all could they come and stay at the house
- 7:35Speaker 3: with y'all. They paid thirty seven hundred dollars a month
- 7:39Speaker 3: in rent, and they've been doing this for the last
- 7:41Speaker 3: three years. But now they need a little break and
- 7:43Speaker 3: they needed a downsize and their payment, so they're going
- 7:45Speaker 3: to be looking for something different, So they didn't want
- 7:47Speaker 3: to renew their least, So you and your husband talked
- 7:50Speaker 3: about it, and y'all came back and said, that's fine.
- 7:52Speaker 3: How long are y'all planning to stay? Your son and
- 7:55Speaker 3: his girlfriend response, and it should be no more than
- 7:58Speaker 3: a year. So y'all said, okay, cool. For the first month,
- 8:02Speaker 3: y'all don't have to pay anything because y'all might be
- 8:04Speaker 3: out of here within the first month. But after that
- 8:06Speaker 3: you have to pay six hundred dollars a month. You
- 8:09Speaker 3: have to contribute six hundred dollars a month towards the
- 8:10Speaker 3: household bills. So the girlfriend says, what's the purpose of
- 8:15Speaker 3: coming home if you have to pay your parents' rent.
- 8:18Speaker 3: You respond by saying you can go live.
- 8:20Speaker 4: With your mother.
- 8:22Speaker 3: She says, my mother doesn't have a house, and you
- 8:25Speaker 3: said exactly, but you got to pay for where you
- 8:27Speaker 3: late and y'all are grown, y'all, I'm not children.
- 8:30Speaker 4: Anymore.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Do you think that that you pay rent or is
- 8:33Speaker 1: that just part of parently go and write to the phones.
- 8:35Speaker 13: And it's funny because I literally just had this conversation
- 8:38Speaker 13: with my twenty one year ould last night. I think
- 8:42Speaker 13: we should and I wish that I started this earlier
- 8:46Speaker 13: when they were fresh out and working for her. We
- 8:50Speaker 13: came up with a plan. You know, it's hard out
- 8:53Speaker 13: here to live on your own. It is. It's hard.
- 8:56Speaker 13: So instead of you moving right out on your own, yes, rent,
- 9:00Speaker 13: pay eight hundred dollars a month, four hundred to the rent,
- 9:03Speaker 13: four hundred to your savings, and in a year to
- 9:08Speaker 13: two years take that money, go buy a piece of land,
- 9:11Speaker 13: go put a house, or buy your own house so
- 9:13Speaker 13: that you didn't have something for yourself. That is what
- 9:17Speaker 13: I think that we should do for our children. They
- 9:20Speaker 13: have to learn responsibility. We're not going to be here
- 9:23Speaker 13: forever to provide for them, and they have to learn
- 9:27Speaker 13: that if you just throw them out there when you're
- 9:29Speaker 13: no longer able to do it, how are they going
- 9:31Speaker 13: to strive and survive.
- 9:33Speaker 14: They need to have just a clear understanding. The parents
- 9:38Speaker 14: are asking for six hundred dollars and they were paying
- 9:42Speaker 14: thirty seven hundred. They need to let them know that
- 9:44Speaker 14: this is an exercise and you're getting back on your feet.
- 9:47Speaker 14: This is not an exercise where I'm fixing your life.
- 9:50Speaker 14: So if you only have to pay six hundred dollars,
- 9:53Speaker 14: that gives you all the money that you were going
- 9:55Speaker 14: to pay to get your life together getting on your feet.
- 9:59Speaker 14: Give them sea, give them two seasons. If they move
- 10:02Speaker 14: in in the winter after the spring, they need to
- 10:05Speaker 14: be gone in the summer. They move in in the summer,
- 10:07Speaker 14: they need to be gone after two seasons. Don't come
- 10:10Speaker 14: in the winter and then the snow melts and then
- 10:12Speaker 14: you come back and snow it's falling again. No, I'm
- 10:14Speaker 14: fixing your life now. So that is one of those
- 10:17Speaker 14: things where if they understand, they can take it or
- 10:20Speaker 14: leave it. You're here for six months. You can contribute
- 10:23Speaker 14: if you have money coming in. If they work, it
- 10:25Speaker 14: would be considered of them to want to contribute. They
- 10:27Speaker 14: shouldn't want to live off it, and you know fact
- 10:30Speaker 14: like they're entitled. So the parents that need to let
- 10:32Speaker 14: them know I'm trying to help you out and contribute
- 10:35Speaker 14: where you can, even if it's not six hundred, contribute,
- 10:38Speaker 14: but in sixty days or in two seasons. You need
- 10:41Speaker 14: to be on your feet because you're gonna have to exit.
- 10:44Speaker 10: Look, everybody's situation is different. Parents, grandparents, whoever it is.
- 10:48Speaker 10: Let these kids, children's sister, brother, whoever it is, live
- 10:52Speaker 10: with you. A couple of months have raised that line,
- 10:54Speaker 10: that boundary. Look after this amount of times, you gotta
- 10:57Speaker 10: pay some bills in here, electric course, mob it to now,
- 11:00Speaker 10: food of course, mortgage payments, all call payments. You gotta
- 11:05Speaker 10: pay something. You can't live here free. Bama help you out,
- 11:08Speaker 10: but you're gonna pay something.
- 11:10Speaker 15: The boy is their child, but you it's one thing
- 11:13Speaker 15: you bring in your the son coming home, but you
- 11:15Speaker 15: bringing somebody else with you. So there has to be
- 11:18Speaker 15: a level responsibility that falls on him because again like
- 11:21Speaker 15: he like they said, we were dealing with two grown people.
- 11:25Speaker 15: I'm sure if those people was rich and had a
- 11:27Speaker 15: bunch of money, they wouldn't say a word. But that's
- 11:30Speaker 15: probably not the cater They probably working at nine to five.
- 11:32Speaker 15: So it's only right for the son and his wife
- 11:35Speaker 15: to pay bills, pay rent. You can't live anywhere free,
- 11:41Speaker 15: you know. So I agree with the parents. I agree
- 11:44Speaker 15: with the mom. They should make them pay rent. They
- 11:48Speaker 15: should make them pay bills, because here's an incentive to
- 11:51Speaker 15: get out and leave my house earlier. Because if you
- 11:54Speaker 15: don't allow them to pay anything, what's the incentdate to move?
- 11:57Speaker 13: All right?
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