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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff You Should Know, a production of iHeartRadio.
- 0:11Speaker 2: Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh, and there's
- 0:13Speaker 2: Chuck and Jerry's here too, and this is Stuff you
- 0:16Speaker 2: Should Know, the Great Women in History edition.
- 0:21Speaker 3: That's right, one of the greatest.
- 0:25Speaker 2: Sure she's up there. Francis Perkins still gets my vote, though,
- 0:28Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah. Eleanor Roosevelt is amazing. It's just that
- 0:34Speaker 2: learning about her makes your head spin, like you could
- 0:37Speaker 2: do a ten part series on her.
- 0:39Speaker 1: Easy.
- 0:40Speaker 3: Yeah, at some point you just gotta, you know, do
- 0:43Speaker 3: the stuff you should know.
- 0:44Speaker 2: Thn right, and condense ten parts into forty five minutes.
- 0:49Speaker 3: That's right.
- 0:51Speaker 2: So I think I just let the cat out of
- 0:53Speaker 2: the bag, Chuck. We're talking today about Eleanor Roosevelt, and
- 0:57Speaker 2: she is the longest serving first Lady. She was called
- 1:01Speaker 2: the first Lady of the world as a matter of
- 1:03Speaker 2: fact by Harry Truman. Mayor La Guardia in New York
- 1:07Speaker 2: called her America's number one volunteer. And she was almost
- 1:12Speaker 2: universally liked, even if you couldn't stand her politics. She
- 1:15Speaker 2: was just so eloquent and graceful and kind and generous
- 1:19Speaker 2: and all the great things that you like you couldn't help,
- 1:23Speaker 2: but like her pretty much. It seems like only a
- 1:26Speaker 2: few members of her family are the ones that she
- 1:28Speaker 2: ever had a real beef with.
- 1:30Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. And you know, family's got a family, right.
- 1:34Speaker 2: Never trust family, that's right. So let's talk about her
- 1:38Speaker 2: family to start. She was born in eighteen eighty four.
- 1:41Speaker 2: I believe her full name was Anna Eleanor Roosevelt, but
- 1:44Speaker 2: everybody calls her Eleanor, and her father was Elliott Roosevelt,
- 1:48Speaker 2: who's Teddy Roosevelt's younger brother. And so, yes, she wasn't
- 1:52Speaker 2: just married as a Roosevelt. She was born a Roosevelt too.
- 1:57Speaker 3: Isn't that surprising that she married her cousin? That is
- 2:01Speaker 3: surprising to probably a lot of people.
- 2:03Speaker 2: Yeah, fifth cousin. Not a lot of genetic issues there,
- 2:08Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean I thought she became a Roosevelt
- 2:11Speaker 2: after Emerchan she was born of Roosevelt. Buddy, there's your
- 2:14Speaker 2: trivia question for this one.
- 2:15Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. She didn't have her parents around for long,
- 2:19Speaker 3: and while she did, it was not the best scene.
- 2:22Speaker 3: Apparently her mother was a pretty distant person, not the
- 2:26Speaker 3: greatest mom, and her dad was a pretty tough alcoholic.
- 2:30Speaker 3: But they died not too you know, they died when
- 2:34Speaker 3: she was a child. Basically, her mom Anna died in
- 2:36Speaker 3: eighteen ninety two of diphtheria, and her father, Eliot died
- 2:41Speaker 3: after he jumped out of a window because of alcoholic
- 2:47Speaker 3: trimmers basically delirium trim and so it was a pretty
- 2:51Speaker 3: rough go for her until she went to live with
- 2:53Speaker 3: her grandmother, where she had lived with her brothers Elliott Junior,
- 2:59Speaker 3: who actually he didn't live that long either, but her
- 3:02Speaker 3: brother Hall did and apparently she doted on him quite
- 3:06Speaker 3: a bit.
- 3:07Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, what a great sister.
- 3:09Speaker 1: Like.
- 3:10Speaker 2: They're both orphans, and so she's going to take on
- 3:12Speaker 2: the role of like being his mother figure essentially and
- 3:16Speaker 2: taking good care of him. So I think that's pretty
- 3:18Speaker 2: neat and that shows a lot about who she was,
- 3:21Speaker 2: because this is starting about age ten. And when she
- 3:24Speaker 2: went and lived with her grandmother, she was educated at home,
- 3:27Speaker 2: as very very wealthy people did at the time. And
- 3:32Speaker 2: when she was fifteen, she was sent to England and
- 3:35Speaker 2: that's where she her first brush, maybe even really her
- 3:39Speaker 2: only brush with education went. She was there for like
- 3:43Speaker 2: three years before her grandmother called her back and said
- 3:45Speaker 2: that's enough, let's do some debutante stuff, come back and
- 3:49Speaker 2: get fitted for a big frilly.
- 3:51Speaker 3: Dress, that's right. And that was in nineteen oh two,
- 3:54Speaker 3: and she wasn't you know, she didn't take to even
- 3:57Speaker 3: though she was born into in wealth and kind of
- 4:00Speaker 3: into that scene obviously as a Roosevelt, she didn't feel
- 4:03Speaker 3: like she really fit in in that elite sort of
- 4:07Speaker 3: sort of scene there. So early on she started volunteering,
- 4:10Speaker 3: and she thought, well, a good way to sort of
- 4:12Speaker 3: rid myself, or at least distance myself a bit from
- 4:14Speaker 3: that life would be to kind of, you know, see
- 4:18Speaker 3: what the common folks are up to and help them out.
- 4:21Speaker 3: And she started out doing that at a pretty young age,
- 4:24Speaker 3: initially at the Rivington Street Settlement House there on the
- 4:28Speaker 3: Lower East Side, where she was a dance teacher and
- 4:31Speaker 3: she taught classes to young immigrants, and then also finally
- 4:35Speaker 3: joining the National Consumers League, which was basically an organization
- 4:40Speaker 3: that tried to improve, you know, down in the garment
- 4:42Speaker 3: district what the workers were dealing with.
- 4:45Speaker 2: Right, trying to get worker's death from one hundred percent
- 4:49Speaker 2: down to something like eighty percent.
- 4:50Speaker 1: You know.
- 4:52Speaker 2: So she met her cousin, her fifth cousin, who she
- 4:55Speaker 2: married Franklin Delano Roosevelt when they were both very young.
- 4:59Speaker 2: I think they were at like a family gathering or
- 5:02Speaker 2: something like that, and he was giving her piggyback rides,
- 5:05Speaker 2: not teenage piggyback rides, like these were little kid piggyback rides.
- 5:09Speaker 2: And then they I guess, didn't keep in touch much.
- 5:12Speaker 2: But then when she was eighteen and got called back
- 5:15Speaker 2: for the whole debutante thing, they met again and they
- 5:19Speaker 2: were just like, I like you. I like you too.
- 5:22Speaker 2: Maybe we should get married, Maybe we should we're fifth cousins.
- 5:26Speaker 2: I think that's okay, let's do it. That was the conversation.
- 5:30Speaker 3: Let's a teenage piggyback.
- 5:33Speaker 2: It's a piggyback ride given by teenagers. It's much different
- 5:36Speaker 2: than like a little kid piggyback ride.
- 5:39Speaker 3: Can you explain the difference. I've never heard of this.
- 5:43Speaker 2: I think the guy giving the girl usually is how
- 5:47Speaker 2: it goes piggyback ride. The piggyback ride is hoping that
- 5:51Speaker 2: that will somehow turn into something much more than just
- 5:54Speaker 2: a piggyback ride, even if it's just someday.
- 5:57Speaker 3: Oh wow, all right, I never heard of that's.
- 6:01Speaker 2: A teenage piggyback ride.
- 6:02Speaker 3: Wow, I missed out.
- 6:03Speaker 1: I was.
- 6:03Speaker 3: I grew up a Baptist kid though, so I wasn't anoyed.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Well, I mean all of this was just completely me
- 6:08Speaker 2: making this up as I went along.
- 6:09Speaker 1: I don't think it's an actual thing.
- 6:11Speaker 3: I gotcha, all right. So they decided to get married.
- 6:14Speaker 3: That happened in nineteen oh five. They had kind of
- 6:17Speaker 3: a long, dish engagement for the time and apparently Sarah
- 6:22Speaker 3: Roosevelt Franklin's mom kind of didn't insist on that, but
- 6:26Speaker 3: she didn't love eleanor so I think it kind of
- 6:28Speaker 3: dragged out a bit. Yeah, but they did get married,
- 6:32Speaker 3: and boy was Sarah a part of their life. Like
- 6:35Speaker 3: talk about an intrusive mother in law, Sarah and her
- 6:38Speaker 3: son were very very tight. She did not want to
- 6:42Speaker 3: kind of completely give him up, so she accomplished this
- 6:46Speaker 3: by gifting them a brownstone that she had built for them,
- 6:51Speaker 3: and she had a matching brownstone built that were connected
- 6:55Speaker 3: by sliding doors, so essentially, you know, it was on
- 7:00Speaker 3: like one big place when she wanted it.
- 7:02Speaker 1: To be right.
- 7:03Speaker 2: And she kept this control not just by adoring her son,
- 7:06Speaker 2: which she genuinely did, or being adored by him, which
- 7:10Speaker 2: he genuinely did. She also kept everybody in the family
- 7:14Speaker 2: on a pretty short leash by controlling the family's finances.
- 7:18Speaker 2: She was the one who was in charge of the
- 7:20Speaker 2: family money, so she could threaten to cut you off
- 7:23Speaker 2: if you didn't do what she wanted, she could reward
- 7:26Speaker 2: you for doing what she wanted, and then she I
- 7:32Speaker 2: just can't really wrap my head around how overbearing Sarah
- 7:36Speaker 2: FDR's mom was. It's just mind boggling to me, because
- 7:41Speaker 2: not just controlling the finances and building a brownstone, it
- 7:43Speaker 2: gets worse as a matter of fact. And yet Eleanor
- 7:47Speaker 2: really wanted her approval. She loved FDR. She wanted FDR
- 7:51Speaker 2: to be happy, and at the same time, she was like,
- 7:53Speaker 2: you have to be kidding me about this. Still, she
- 7:56Speaker 2: managed to become pretty close with her mother in law.
- 7:59Speaker 2: Again all odds, yeah, for sure, Colin.
- 8:02Speaker 3: Said, that's right. So there was another pretty rough situation
- 8:07Speaker 3: not too long into their marriage. About nine years in,
- 8:09Speaker 3: Eleanor found out that her husband had been having a
- 8:14Speaker 3: fair like a year's long affair with her secretary, Lucy Mercer,
- 8:19Speaker 3: And this all came out, and you know, there were
- 8:21Speaker 3: love letters found, and they thought about getting divorced, but
- 8:26Speaker 3: you know, depending on who you read, they stayed together,
- 8:31Speaker 3: probably because he wanted to continue his career in politics
- 8:35Speaker 3: and that would not look very good. Other people say
- 8:39Speaker 3: that his mom, Sarah, had a threat to stop the
- 8:41Speaker 3: plow of money, kind of Arthur's style, so that might
- 8:45Speaker 3: be a reason too, But at any rate, they decided
- 8:48Speaker 3: to stay together to fight despite this infidelity, which I'm
- 8:51Speaker 3: sure was a huge disappointment for.
- 8:53Speaker 2: Sure, I think that hit her hard and if FDR
- 8:56Speaker 2: had any you know, second thoughts about staying together. Three
- 9:00Speaker 2: years later, he was stricken with polio which he probably
- 9:04Speaker 2: contracted as a younger child, but caught up with them
- 9:07Speaker 2: at age thirty nine, and he was partially paralyzed and
- 9:11Speaker 2: had had to recover and he never fully recovered full
- 9:15Speaker 2: range of motion and power. And he just happened to
- 9:19Speaker 2: be married to the perfect person to help him through that.
- 9:24Speaker 2: So I think that that really kind of helped reinforce
- 9:27Speaker 2: the bonds that they had and also helped reinforce the
- 9:30Speaker 2: character of the relationship. Where he had one mom, he
- 9:34Speaker 2: got another one. He also had a wife. He also
- 9:36Speaker 2: had a very smart, savvy adviser, so he had like
- 9:40Speaker 2: everything except maybe the love of his life in Eleanor,
- 9:45Speaker 2: and he was like, this is good, I can deal
- 9:48Speaker 2: with this.
- 9:48Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean she definitely stepped in and not only
- 9:51Speaker 3: cared for him but acted almost as a co president
- 9:55Speaker 3: like certainly more so than any other first lady that
- 9:59Speaker 3: we had ever seen. And we're going to go through,
- 10:01Speaker 3: you know, a lot of her first Lady first but
- 10:03Speaker 3: you know, when he couldn't get out there for any reason,
- 10:05Speaker 3: she was out there for him and would report back
- 10:08Speaker 3: to him. And I think everyone kind of understood and
- 10:12Speaker 3: you know, viewed her with a lot of respect. It
- 10:14Speaker 3: seems like for the most part.
- 10:16Speaker 2: Yeah, I think a lot of people were also like,
- 10:19Speaker 2: especially when she was first Lady, hey, overstep your bounds much,
- 10:23Speaker 2: but she just plugged on. One thing that you'll see
- 10:26Speaker 2: about her is that she was a very self conscious person.
- 10:31Speaker 2: She had kind of low self esteem in a lot
- 10:34Speaker 2: of ways, and yet she was willing to plow through it.
- 10:37Speaker 2: And she was also willing to plow through the disapproval
- 10:40Speaker 2: of her social peers, her friends sometimes the general public,
- 10:47Speaker 2: and just kind of follow her moral compass essentially, where
- 10:50Speaker 2: it led her to great effect. I mean, when you
- 10:53Speaker 2: put all of it together, she's one of the most
- 10:54Speaker 2: revered women in American history.
- 10:56Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, she had a lot of kids. She
- 10:59Speaker 3: gave her to six kids, but in a ten year
- 11:02Speaker 3: period between nineteen oh six and nineteen sixteen with Anna Eleanor,
- 11:06Speaker 3: James Frank Junior sadly passed away. But they would get
- 11:11Speaker 3: another shot at another Frank Junior, as we'll see, because
- 11:15Speaker 3: she'd then had Elliott, then another Frank Junior, and then John.
- 11:19Speaker 3: And you know, she was a mom who wasn't like
- 11:22Speaker 3: as close to her kids as she wanted to be
- 11:25Speaker 3: or thought she wanted to be. Sarah again, was sort
- 11:29Speaker 3: of always there and always stepping in as grandmother, plus
- 11:34Speaker 3: to the point where she would say things to the
- 11:36Speaker 3: kids like I'm your real mother. She just bore you
- 11:40Speaker 3: your mom Eleanor. So you know, again, Sarah's kind of there,
- 11:43Speaker 3: throwing a wrench into things, including like not separating, but
- 11:48Speaker 3: at least creating some sort of a divide between Eleanor
- 11:51Speaker 3: and her children.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think her children kind of didn't feel
- 11:56Speaker 2: very close to her and maybe even disliked her for
- 11:58Speaker 2: their childhood years. And it wasn't until they got older
- 12:03Speaker 2: before they started to get close with their mother. And
- 12:07Speaker 2: I'm imagining that that probably coincided with Sarah's death when
- 12:12Speaker 2: she was finally out of the picture.
- 12:14Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a pretty good bed.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 12:17Speaker 3: But it was during I guess, sort of the beginning
- 12:21Speaker 3: of the child bearing decade when she became a political
- 12:25Speaker 3: wife for the first time, when Franklin was elected to
- 12:28Speaker 3: New York State Senate, and that's when she really kind of,
- 12:31Speaker 3: you know, jumped in there. She got really active and
- 12:34Speaker 3: acted as you know, a host, you know, to dinners
- 12:38Speaker 3: and of course stuff like that. She would sit in
- 12:41Speaker 3: on meetings when she was allowed to. When FDR when
- 12:46Speaker 3: they had to move to DC, when she was appointed
- 12:48Speaker 3: or I guess he was appointed Woodrow Wilson's Assistant Secretary
- 12:51Speaker 3: of the Navy. That's when she found herself in the
- 12:53Speaker 3: middle of the like sort of the DC politics for
- 12:55Speaker 3: the first time, and she really took to it. It seems
- 12:58Speaker 3: like she did.
- 12:59Speaker 2: At first she was basically following like the traditional political
- 13:02Speaker 2: wife handbook, right, But then as FDR's political career kind
- 13:09Speaker 2: of rose and rose and rose, she started to become
- 13:12Speaker 2: more and more involved in a much less traditional sense,
- 13:15Speaker 2: like much more pioneering sense. For example, she helped him
- 13:20Speaker 2: write speeches, she helped him strategize, especially when he ran
- 13:24Speaker 2: for vice president in nineteen twenty and she became much
- 13:29Speaker 2: more of a collaborator than the average political wife at
- 13:33Speaker 2: the time. Like this is when it became clear to
- 13:36Speaker 2: FDR if it wasn't already that she was invaluable in
- 13:42Speaker 2: the same way that inflammable still means flammable, right, this
- 13:46Speaker 2: means that she was super valuable.
- 13:48Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. And they kind of lived all over
- 13:50Speaker 3: depending on what his job was politically, because he was
- 13:53Speaker 3: governor of New York for a while in nineteen twenty eight,
- 13:57Speaker 3: and so you know, they certainly their home was in
- 13:59Speaker 3: New York. When in New York, I think they lived
- 14:02Speaker 3: on the Upper East Side, and she also, as we'll see,
- 14:04Speaker 3: would later have a place in like near Washington Square Park.
- 14:08Speaker 3: But they also obviously lived in DC when they need
- 14:10Speaker 3: to and Hyde Park, New York. But you know, she
- 14:15Speaker 3: liked she liked New York City.
- 14:18Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, who doesn't, especially now the next one. God,
- 14:23Speaker 2: we're gonna just dated this episode. Huh.
- 14:26Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right.
- 14:27Speaker 2: So something I didn't know about Eleanor that is at
- 14:31Speaker 2: first tough to swallow until you stop and kind of
- 14:34Speaker 2: think about how much that means she changed her views
- 14:38Speaker 2: early on. Again, she was just kind of following the
- 14:40Speaker 2: standard handbook of her social class or social circle to
- 14:45Speaker 2: the people around her, including her mother in law. So
- 14:48Speaker 2: she from her early letter she was a prolific letter
- 14:51Speaker 2: writer throughout her life. From her early letters, like she
- 14:55Speaker 2: didn't know anything about politics. She wasn't paying attention to
- 14:57Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. She didn't care about it. She
- 15:00Speaker 2: was just doing the society thing. Apparently she adopted her
- 15:04Speaker 2: mother in law, her mother in law's anti semitism, She
- 15:08Speaker 2: didn't think very highly of her black servants, Like she
- 15:14Speaker 2: was not a great person at that point, and a
- 15:19Speaker 2: lot of it from everything I've seen, people are like
- 15:21Speaker 2: she was straight up a product of her culture, right.
- 15:26Speaker 3: Seems to be.
- 15:27Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:28Speaker 2: And so the idea that she went from anti semitism
- 15:31Speaker 2: to lobbying for America opening its stors to Jewish people
- 15:38Speaker 2: who were fleeing the Holocaust, from disparaging her black servants
- 15:43Speaker 2: to tirelessly working for civil rights for Black Americans, and
- 15:50Speaker 2: also just kind of showing disdain for the suffrage movement
- 15:54Speaker 2: becoming a champion for women's rights, It really kind of
- 15:57Speaker 2: shows like she didn't go from a neutral place to
- 15:59Speaker 2: these amazing heights. She came from the bottom and then
- 16:04Speaker 2: got to neutral and then got to those heights. And
- 16:06Speaker 2: it's pretty impressive how much she changed, and I mean
- 16:09Speaker 2: just how willing she was to change her views because
- 16:11Speaker 2: a lot of people aren't.
- 16:13Speaker 3: Oh for sure, absolutely. Is that a good time for
- 16:17Speaker 3: a break?
- 16:18Speaker 1: I think so? Sure.
- 16:19Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna come back and continue with I
- 16:22Speaker 3: bet you're never gonna guess eleanor Roosevelt learn and stuff
- 16:36Speaker 3: with Joshua John stuff. You shut up, all right, so
- 16:56Speaker 3: we're back. We talked a little bit about her early
- 16:59Speaker 3: volunteer that kind of stopped for a while when she
- 17:03Speaker 3: became a political wife, but she always had that volunteer Jones.
- 17:09Speaker 3: I guess, so once she had more opportunity, she turned
- 17:13Speaker 3: that into more volunteerism. She was a volunteer for the
- 17:16Speaker 3: Red Cross in DC during World War One. In nineteen eighteen,
- 17:21Speaker 3: when she went to Europe with her husband, she toured
- 17:24Speaker 3: war hospitals in the battlefield And it feels like all
- 17:27Speaker 3: this sort of inspired her to really kind of get
- 17:30Speaker 3: busy and put her her time where her heart was.
- 17:35Speaker 3: Because she volunteered as a translator, she spoke French as
- 17:39Speaker 3: well as English. So she was volunteered as a translator
- 17:42Speaker 3: at a lot of different events, one of which was
- 17:44Speaker 3: the International Conference of Working Women at the Paris Peace Conference.
- 17:49Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 17:50Speaker 2: In addition to volunteering, she also became an activist. She
- 17:54Speaker 2: was very, very active with organizations that promoted women's right. Now,
- 18:00Speaker 2: she finally kind of got on board with the suffrage movement.
- 18:04Speaker 2: She became a part of the League of Women Voters.
- 18:07Speaker 2: And one of the things about her that you'll notice
- 18:10Speaker 2: is she'll join an organization and then you like blink
- 18:13Speaker 2: a couple times and now she's like vice president of
- 18:15Speaker 2: it or something like that. She was a really great
- 18:18Speaker 2: asset to your organization if she showed up, because that
- 18:21Speaker 2: meant she really believed in what you were doing and
- 18:23Speaker 2: she wanted to help.
- 18:24Speaker 3: Yeah. Like if my read from all of this is like,
- 18:27Speaker 3: you know, certainly being a prominent political wife had something
- 18:32Speaker 3: to do with it, But it wasn't just that, because
- 18:34Speaker 3: that didn't happen to everybody's wife at the time in politics.
- 18:39Speaker 3: So she clearly just showed the stuff you know that
- 18:42Speaker 3: people you know had clear leadership qualities for sure.
- 18:47Speaker 2: Definitely. Oh, she was also asked too by the DNC
- 18:50Speaker 2: the Democratic National Convention to basically chair a committee on
- 18:55Speaker 2: women's issues to help them come up with whatever plank
- 18:58Speaker 2: in their platform they were going to have for women's suffrage.
- 19:01Speaker 2: And they were like, great, thanks Dahl and took her
- 19:04Speaker 2: ideas and shut the door and the all male committee
- 19:09Speaker 2: deliberated on it without her in the room.
- 19:11Speaker 3: Yeah. So she definitely faced stuff like that obviously at
- 19:15Speaker 3: the time, which really stinks because she had a lot
- 19:17Speaker 3: of great ideas for sure.
- 19:20Speaker 2: Another great idea too, I thought this was super cool.
- 19:23Speaker 2: She co founded a furniture factory that was a nonprofit
- 19:27Speaker 2: furniture factory. I have the impression that was a collective
- 19:30Speaker 2: chuck which we've talked about before. They called vow Kill
- 19:33Speaker 2: Industries and they made colonial furniture reproductions impewter.
- 19:39Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind of nice.
- 19:41Speaker 1: Sure, what else did she do?
- 19:44Speaker 3: She joined the Women's Trade Union League. This is kind
- 19:48Speaker 3: of part of her advocating for labor. That's when that
- 19:52Speaker 3: came into the picture, you know, working conditions for women
- 19:55Speaker 3: and children at the time, of course, because kids were
- 19:57Speaker 3: working and you know capacity that they don't work now,
- 20:01Speaker 3: if at all. It's always fun to talk to kids
- 20:04Speaker 3: who have teenagers about you know, them getting jobs and stuff.
- 20:07Speaker 3: I feel like that's happening a lot here and there,
- 20:10Speaker 3: but not like when we were kids, which was basically
- 20:12Speaker 3: still child favor for sure.
- 20:14Speaker 1: It really was.
- 20:15Speaker 3: Whenever I tell like my teenage my friend's teenage kids
- 20:19Speaker 3: that I was like a bus boy when I was thirteen,
- 20:21Speaker 3: They're all just like, are you serious? Yeah, it's like, yeah,
- 20:25Speaker 3: like every one of my friends worked as well. It
- 20:27Speaker 3: was weird.
- 20:28Speaker 2: Yeah, it kind of is weird in retrospect. I had
- 20:30Speaker 2: like a paper route when I was ten or something
- 20:32Speaker 2: like that.
- 20:33Speaker 3: Never had a paper out. I was always jealous of
- 20:35Speaker 3: this man.
- 20:36Speaker 2: The smell of a stack of newspapers at like four
- 20:40Speaker 2: in the morning.
- 20:41Speaker 3: Yeah, it is.
- 20:43Speaker 2: It's a specific experience, and it can be really great
- 20:46Speaker 2: or it can be like, what am I doing with
- 20:47Speaker 2: my life?
- 20:48Speaker 3: What?
- 20:48Speaker 1: Uh?
- 20:48Speaker 3: Do you get paid per paper? Is that the deal?
- 20:51Speaker 2: I don't remember I was ten. I'm not even sure
- 20:53Speaker 2: I was directly paid. I don't remember. I don't remember
- 20:58Speaker 2: being thirty something.
- 20:59Speaker 3: With your dad just funneling, funneling money.
- 21:03Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, when did you start smoking cigars?
- 21:06Speaker 3: Exactly? These look like good ones too.
- 21:09Speaker 2: So all the stuff we've been talking about this is
- 21:12Speaker 2: just the nineteen twenties. She hadn't even become first Lady yet.
- 21:15Speaker 2: And when FDR was elected in nineteen thirty two, like
- 21:19Speaker 2: we said, she became a first Lady of a lot
- 21:22Speaker 2: of different first some of which have never been replicated since.
- 21:26Speaker 1: You know.
- 21:26Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean she's definitely I think not many
- 21:29Speaker 3: people would argue that she wasn't the most active first
- 21:32Speaker 3: Lady of all time. Probably she was the first first
- 21:36Speaker 3: lady to hold a press conference or multiple press conferences
- 21:40Speaker 3: and apparently only allowed women reporters to attend her press conferences. Yeah,
- 21:45Speaker 3: it's kind of cool. She is the first to write
- 21:47Speaker 3: a daily newspaper column and a host a radio show.
- 21:52Speaker 3: She's the first lady to travel to an active war
- 21:54Speaker 3: zone and just really sort of open the door on
- 21:59Speaker 3: what the whole title of first Lady could be, not
- 22:02Speaker 3: necessarily had to be, because as we've seen over the years,
- 22:04Speaker 3: there's been just so say, lots of different kinds of
- 22:08Speaker 3: first ladies for sure.
- 22:11Speaker 2: Yeah, some more active than others, having different interests when
- 22:15Speaker 2: they were active. She just basically did it all. And
- 22:18Speaker 2: again this was the kind of thing that made her
- 22:20Speaker 2: a target, like what are you doing? You're a first lady,
- 22:23Speaker 2: you're not supposed to be this active. I mean, one
- 22:25Speaker 2: of the things that she did that really made her
- 22:27Speaker 2: a target, Chuck, was she was she became assistant director
- 22:32Speaker 2: of Civilian Defense in World War Two.
- 22:36Speaker 3: Yeah, and they later direct her even.
- 22:38Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and that's a public office, right, She's the
- 22:42Speaker 2: first first lady ever. She's the only first lady to
- 22:46Speaker 2: have held public office while her husband was in office
- 22:50Speaker 2: as president. Right, And people were like, what is this? Like,
- 22:53Speaker 2: I don't know how I feel about this, and some
- 22:56Speaker 2: people were like this is They accused her of cronyism,
- 22:59Speaker 2: they accused her of frivolous spending. And it actually was
- 23:02Speaker 2: so bad that she stepped down after a year because
- 23:05Speaker 2: she didn't want to keep drawing like negative attention to
- 23:08Speaker 2: the work the Civilian Defense Agency was doing.
- 23:11Speaker 3: Totally, man, I mean, that's the worst. She's trying to
- 23:15Speaker 3: do good work. She's getting disparaged and she has to
- 23:17Speaker 3: quit making a difference in doing the thing she loves
- 23:20Speaker 3: to make that thing better.
- 23:22Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, just because her husband had political enemies,
- 23:27Speaker 2: you know, I mean, that's and that's just politics, I guess,
- 23:30Speaker 2: you know.
- 23:30Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure, she her code name for secret service
- 23:34Speaker 3: was Rover and the you know, everyone's best guess is
- 23:38Speaker 3: because she was always all over the place she was traveling.
- 23:41Speaker 3: I think there was another nickname that she had, which
- 23:44Speaker 3: was eleanor Everywhere, because starting very early in her career,
- 23:49Speaker 3: she would hit the road. She was very famous for
- 23:52Speaker 3: driving a blue roadster saying secret Service, I'll smell you later,
- 23:57Speaker 3: and hit the road. And I think between nineteen twenty
- 23:59Speaker 3: three in nineteen forty she traveled over three hundred thousand
- 24:02Speaker 3: miles yeah, and visited in person every state except South Dakota.
- 24:08Speaker 3: Just traveling all over the place, like checking on projects
- 24:11Speaker 3: that were going on, talking to everyday Americans, just you know,
- 24:16Speaker 3: kind of hitting the beat as as someone checking on
- 24:19Speaker 3: the health of America.
- 24:21Speaker 2: Yeah, and reporting back to FDR like you couldn't keep
- 24:24Speaker 2: it a secret. No, it wasn't like a media blitzer,
- 24:27Speaker 2: like a charm charm offensive. That's what I'm thinking of,
- 24:30Speaker 2: like shit, oh yeah, definitely taking this information back to
- 24:34Speaker 2: use for strategizing, for adjusting policy, all that stuff, like
- 24:37Speaker 2: it was really important. The first year she was First
- 24:39Speaker 2: Lady alone, she traveled forty thousand miles in her Buick.
- 24:45Speaker 2: And she also little known fact was the first person
- 24:49Speaker 2: to popularize those mudflaps with Yosemite Sam on them.
- 24:52Speaker 3: That's back off, back off. Yeah, I think she created
- 24:55Speaker 3: Yosemite Sam.
- 24:56Speaker 2: In fact, probably I hadn't read that, but you're probably right.
- 25:00Speaker 3: It was also in one of these road trips that
- 25:02Speaker 3: she well, we can't say with absolute one percent certainty,
- 25:08Speaker 3: but it's pretty well known that she had a love
- 25:11Speaker 3: affair with a woman. It was a road trip in
- 25:14Speaker 3: nineteen thirty three to New England and Quebec, shortly after
- 25:18Speaker 3: FDR was inaugurated the first time. And there was an
- 25:21Speaker 3: AP journalist named Lorena Hiccock or Hicck, who was a
- 25:26Speaker 3: very you know, just sort of a woman doing her
- 25:29Speaker 3: own thing at the time. She would like chomp on cigars,
- 25:33Speaker 3: and she was kind of kind of tough talking, and
- 25:36Speaker 3: she wore bright scarves and loved like big dinners and
- 25:39Speaker 3: rich foods. And it was a very kind of well known,
- 25:42Speaker 3: high paid AP reporter. And they met when hick was
- 25:47Speaker 3: covering FDR's gubernatorial campaign in nineteen twenty eight, and then
- 25:51Speaker 3: she was assigned to cover Eleanor and it sounds like
- 25:53Speaker 3: she covered Eleanor for sure.
- 25:57Speaker 2: They went everywhere together as a matter of fact, and
- 26:01Speaker 2: historians at first were like no, no, and then they're
- 26:07Speaker 2: now kind of like, well maybe, and most of them
- 26:10Speaker 2: are like, yes, they probably did become lovers. And that's
- 26:14Speaker 2: just kind of supported by some of the stuff that
- 26:17Speaker 2: they wrote to one another in letters. And again, like
- 26:20Speaker 2: you said, they were never caught in flagorante delecado, and
- 26:25Speaker 2: you know, Danny DeVito didn't snap a picture with one
- 26:28Speaker 2: of those big flash bulbs or anything like that. But
- 26:32Speaker 2: you know, if you interpret some of the stuff like
- 26:35Speaker 2: any sensible person, it definitely does seem like their letters
- 26:39Speaker 2: do suggest that, yes, they definitely had a romantic relationship.
- 26:43Speaker 3: Yeah. And you know, I mean, should we read a selection.
- 26:49Speaker 1: I think that that.
- 26:50Speaker 2: Yes, I think that will help everybody make up their
- 26:53Speaker 2: own mind.
- 26:53Speaker 3: Yeah. It's not salacious or anything.
- 26:55Speaker 2: It's like, no, no, no, they were having an affair.
- 26:57Speaker 3: Good for them, except for you know, the cheating part.
- 27:00Speaker 3: But you know FDR did the same thing, so we're
- 27:05Speaker 3: not going to hold her to a different standard than
- 27:06Speaker 3: her husband.
- 27:07Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, well, put, I was gonna say, even Stephen.
- 27:12Speaker 3: Here's the selection from Hick to Eleanor. I've been trying
- 27:15Speaker 3: today to bring back your face and the feeling of
- 27:18Speaker 3: that soft spot just northeast of the corner of your
- 27:21Speaker 3: mouth against my lips. So, I mean, come on, they
- 27:24Speaker 3: were having an affair right exactly.
- 27:27Speaker 2: Even if they discovered or Hick discovered that that soft
- 27:31Speaker 2: spot on the northeast corner, well they were both eating
- 27:34Speaker 2: a shared piece of spaghetti, that still suggests that they
- 27:38Speaker 2: had a romantic relationship.
- 27:39Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, we know it was going on the
- 27:41Speaker 3: lady in the tramp right.
- 27:42Speaker 2: Right, So none of this matters, if anything, to me,
- 27:47Speaker 2: This says like, oh, she's kind of open minded because
- 27:49Speaker 2: she does not seem to have been a straight up lesbian.
- 27:52Speaker 2: She is, we'll see, considered to have probably had an
- 27:57Speaker 2: affair with a very close male companion too at some point.
- 28:00Speaker 2: So I think she was just like, I'm into you,
- 28:03Speaker 2: I love you, I don't care who you are. Let's
- 28:07Speaker 2: get it on.
- 28:08Speaker 3: Yeah, like Marvin Kay said, Yeah, I mean, you know
- 28:14Speaker 3: her husband had an affair kind of what seven eight
- 28:17Speaker 3: years after they got married, for at least four years,
- 28:21Speaker 3: and the only reason it stopped is because he got caught.
- 28:24Speaker 1: So it seem his mother told him to study.
- 28:26Speaker 3: Yes, my im told him to stop. So it seems
- 28:28Speaker 3: like it may have been one of those marriages where
- 28:30Speaker 3: they had a lot of love for each other but
- 28:32Speaker 3: probably stayed together because of his role and all the
- 28:37Speaker 3: good that she was able to do. So, you know,
- 28:39Speaker 3: it was at a time where people just didn't get
- 28:41Speaker 3: divorced over that stuff. They had affairs, you know.
- 28:44Speaker 2: Right, right, So back to those road trips, right, Remember
- 28:48Speaker 2: she's like doing recon as well as having trysts with Hick.
- 28:53Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 28:55Speaker 2: One of the places that she went was through Scott's Run,
- 28:58Speaker 2: West Virginia on one of these trips, I think it
- 29:00Speaker 2: was actually that New England trip, which it's news to
- 29:03Speaker 2: me that West Virginia's New England, but hey, who's to judge.
- 29:07Speaker 2: And she came across the basically these coal miners. The
- 29:11Speaker 2: whole town of Scott's Run, West Virginia was coal miners,
- 29:13Speaker 2: and they were all out of work. This is the Depression.
- 29:17Speaker 2: And she was so moved by just how impoverished and
- 29:19Speaker 2: how hard their life was that she came up with
- 29:22Speaker 2: this idea to basically have the federal government foot the
- 29:25Speaker 2: bill for building towns that were out of the box great,
- 29:31Speaker 2: and you would move imps, impoverished coal miners into them
- 29:35Speaker 2: and basically give them a head start at a really
- 29:38Speaker 2: great good life that they could take over and make
- 29:40Speaker 2: for themselves in a close knit community that they built together.
- 29:44Speaker 3: Yeah, there was supposed to be like a hundred of
- 29:47Speaker 3: these planned communities all across the United States, but the
- 29:51Speaker 3: first one was that one in West Virginia, arthur Dale,
- 29:55Speaker 3: about twenty five miles south of Scott's Run. It was
- 29:58Speaker 3: called Eleanor's Little Villa times. But she was really active
- 30:02Speaker 3: in this building of the first one, Like every home
- 30:05Speaker 3: had to have which was a big luxury at the time,
- 30:07Speaker 3: like modern appliances and electricity, especially in rural West Virginia
- 30:11Speaker 3: at the time. Yeah, and the rent was based on
- 30:14Speaker 3: what people could afford, which was about twenty bucks a month.
- 30:17Speaker 3: And like people made fun of these projects sometimes that
- 30:21Speaker 3: she was involved in this one in particular, but you know,
- 30:25Speaker 3: it worked out pretty well. Like arthur Dale became a
- 30:29Speaker 3: very kind of thriving community and there are still people
- 30:33Speaker 3: like from that first community that live there today.
- 30:36Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
- 30:37Speaker 2: And the US government was like, Okay, we're not going
- 30:40Speaker 2: to oversee arthur Dale anymore in nineteen forty seven, but
- 30:43Speaker 2: Eleanor kept visiting until nineteen sixty. I think was her
- 30:47Speaker 2: last visit two years before her death, and all told,
- 30:50Speaker 2: she visited arthur Dale thirty three different times, long after
- 30:53Speaker 2: she was no longer First Lady. From nineteen thirty five
- 30:57Speaker 2: to nineteen forty four, she attended every single high school
- 31:00Speaker 2: graduation of arthur Dale's well high school.
- 31:04Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think FDR went to one and is
- 31:08Speaker 3: still the only president to actually give actually give a
- 31:11Speaker 3: commencement speech at a high school graduation.
- 31:13Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty cool.
- 31:14Speaker 2: Yeah, she helped those graduates like find jobs, like she
- 31:19Speaker 2: really took an interest. She apparently used to buy Christmas
- 31:22Speaker 2: presents and bring them to the kids at arthur Dale
- 31:25Speaker 2: like it was a she was really involved in this.
- 31:27Speaker 2: It wasn't like a good idea. She helped to get
- 31:29Speaker 2: going and then forgot about it and moved on to
- 31:31Speaker 2: something else, Like she really cared.
- 31:33Speaker 3: Yeah for sure.
- 31:34Speaker 2: Uh what do you say about a break?
- 31:37Speaker 1: All right?
- 31:37Speaker 3: I mean we never need them, We just have to
- 31:39Speaker 3: do it. But we're going to do it now because
- 31:41Speaker 3: we're supposed to.
- 31:42Speaker 1: They make us.
- 31:42Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well we're going to do that then with
- 31:58Speaker 2: Josh job stuff.
- 32:01Speaker 1: Should okay, Chuck, we're back.
- 32:19Speaker 2: And one of the things that you may know about
- 32:22Speaker 2: Eleanor Roosevelt if you're you know, somewhat familiar with her.
- 32:26Speaker 2: In her life's work, she became virulantly anti racist. She
- 32:33Speaker 2: was a champion of the civil rights movement long before
- 32:38Speaker 2: there was a civil rights movement, decades before it. She
- 32:42Speaker 2: helped kind of get civil rights recognized, I think among
- 32:48Speaker 2: white America and in a lot of quarters.
- 32:51Speaker 1: That meant that.
- 32:52Speaker 2: People started to hate her, especially in the South. And
- 32:55Speaker 2: like I said before, like she didn't let that slow
- 32:57Speaker 2: her down. She just kind of kept at it.
- 32:59Speaker 3: Yeah, she joined THEACP in nineteen thirty four. She was
- 33:04Speaker 3: very much a lobbyist for anti lynching legislation. She was
- 33:09Speaker 3: a very early proponent kind of sounding the horn against segregation.
- 33:15Speaker 3: She quit in nineteen thirty nine and the Daughters of
- 33:17Speaker 3: the American Revolution because they said, We're not going to
- 33:21Speaker 3: let this black performer or Marian Anderson perform at Constitution
- 33:25Speaker 3: Hall in Washington, DC. So she was like, all right,
- 33:28Speaker 3: so longsuckers, I'm out of here. And then later helped
- 33:31Speaker 3: organize a concert for her on the steps of the
- 33:34Speaker 3: Lincoln Memorial.
- 33:36Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a free public concert on Easter Sunday
- 33:39Speaker 2: of nineteen thirty nine and seventy five thousand people showed up.
- 33:43Speaker 2: It's considered one of the key moments in the early
- 33:46Speaker 2: civil rights struggle.
- 33:48Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure.
- 33:50Speaker 2: She also this is such a great anecdote about her.
- 33:54Speaker 2: She attended a meeting, this Southern Conference for Human Welfare
- 33:58Speaker 2: in Birmingham, Alabama, with Mary McLeod Batun, who was a
- 34:02Speaker 2: famous black educator, And because this was in Birmingham, they
- 34:06Speaker 2: weren't allowed to sit together. It was like local law
- 34:10Speaker 2: that black people had to sit on one side of
- 34:12Speaker 2: the main aisle, white people had to sit on the
- 34:14Speaker 2: other side of the main aisle. This does not sit
- 34:16Speaker 2: very well with missus Roosevelt.
- 34:18Speaker 3: No, so she as very much like like she probably
- 34:22Speaker 3: could have insisted she sit on the other side, but
- 34:24Speaker 3: I think it made even more of a statement that
- 34:27Speaker 3: she said, you know what, then put my chair right
- 34:29Speaker 3: in the middle of the aisle and that's where I'm
- 34:30Speaker 3: going to sit.
- 34:31Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 34:31Speaker 2: Pretty cool. Oh and then one other thing that she
- 34:35Speaker 2: did in World War Two, too, Chuck, was that she
- 34:38Speaker 2: visited a Japanese American internment camp. Remember I think we
- 34:41Speaker 2: did an episode on that alone.
- 34:44Speaker 3: Yeah, and a long time ago.
- 34:46Speaker 2: Yeah, And she came out of this internment camp and
- 34:49Speaker 2: was like, we should not be doing this. We need
- 34:51Speaker 2: to shut these down, which is ironic or heurageous something,
- 34:57Speaker 2: because the internment camps existed by executive order that her
- 35:01Speaker 2: husband had issued.
- 35:02Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.
- 35:04Speaker 2: Yeah, and we did shut him down, And some people
- 35:06Speaker 2: credit her lobbying for it for helping get that started
- 35:09Speaker 2: sooner than later.
- 35:11Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like, but you know what, he cheated
- 35:13Speaker 3: on me early on in our marriage, so I don't
- 35:15Speaker 3: owe him anything, right, I don't have to do anything,
- 35:17Speaker 3: he said me. Right. She was a prolific writer, you said,
- 35:22Speaker 3: A prolific letter writer, but kind of just write a writer.
- 35:27Speaker 3: She was writing a newspaper column beginning in nineteen thirty
- 35:30Speaker 3: five called My Day, and she did that five days
- 35:32Speaker 3: a week. In nineteen forty one, she did a monthly
- 35:37Speaker 3: advice column for Ladies Home Journal called If You Ask Me.
- 35:41Speaker 3: And then she also just wrote all kinds of op eds.
- 35:44Speaker 3: And she wrote memoirs, She wrote an autobiography, she wrote
- 35:48Speaker 3: nonfiction books. Like she just wrote and wrote and wrote.
- 35:52Speaker 3: It was one of her great passions and she was
- 35:54Speaker 3: good at Yeah.
- 35:55Speaker 2: She also wrote a treatment for what eventually became the
- 35:58Speaker 2: script for Pulp Fiction that Tarantino made in nineteen ninety four.
- 36:02Speaker 3: It's fantastic, isn't that something? Yeah?
- 36:04Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 36:05Speaker 2: She was also not shy of going on to TV
- 36:09Speaker 2: appearing on the radio. I think, like you said, she
- 36:11Speaker 2: hosted radio programs with one with her one of her daughters,
- 36:16Speaker 2: one with a son.
- 36:17Speaker 3: Yeah, so cute.
- 36:18Speaker 2: Yeah, it is super cute, especially considering that they weren't
- 36:21Speaker 2: close when those the kids were younger. I think that's
- 36:23Speaker 2: just heartwarming. She had a couple of shows on NBC.
- 36:27Speaker 2: These are like public information or public what's the word
- 36:31Speaker 2: I'm looking for, for.
- 36:35Speaker 3: The good of the public, that kind of Yeah.
- 36:36Speaker 1: We'll just call it that.
- 36:37Speaker 2: Yes, she had a couple of those shows on NBC.
- 36:41Speaker 2: She had another one I think it was on PBS
- 36:44Speaker 2: Prospects of Mankind, where she interviewed like activists, intellectuals. She
- 36:47Speaker 2: basically shone a light on these, you know, things that
- 36:52Speaker 2: were going on in the US and around the world
- 36:54Speaker 2: that people weren't really paying attention to. And again, just
- 36:57Speaker 2: remind yourself when she's doing all this stuff, she she
- 37:00Speaker 2: is pretty self conscious. She didn't consider herself photogenic, she
- 37:04Speaker 2: didn't like her own voice, and yet she'll go on
- 37:08Speaker 2: any media op that you can offer her with a
- 37:11Speaker 2: big enough audience to basically tell people about the stuff
- 37:17Speaker 2: that she feels passionate about. That's really that's dedication.
- 37:21Speaker 3: Boy, could you imagine if she was around during the
- 37:24Speaker 3: podcast era, she would have been on everything for sure.
- 37:29Speaker 2: Look Out who's number one right now? Look out Kelsey Brothers,
- 37:33Speaker 2: eleanor Roosevelt.
- 37:34Speaker 3: Here the Travis kelcey. Okay, good for those guys. Sure,
- 37:41Speaker 3: I don't even know. I don't. I used to look
- 37:42Speaker 3: at the podcast rankings a lot early on, and then
- 37:46Speaker 3: I stopped at a certain point, many many many years ago,
- 37:49Speaker 3: and I don't think I've looked one time since then.
- 37:51Speaker 3: So I have no idea who's out there in crushing it.
- 37:55Speaker 2: I used to look at them so much, Chuck, that
- 37:57Speaker 2: I would go change countries for the iTunes things and
- 38:01Speaker 2: see where we were in other countries as well.
- 38:04Speaker 3: Ay, Australia has always been our guys. We were number
- 38:07Speaker 3: one in Australia for a while.
- 38:10Speaker 1: And Canada has always loved us.
- 38:11Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why we toured Australia in Canada.
- 38:15Speaker 2: Yeah, step it up. Rest of the world.
- 38:17Speaker 3: We don't go to where people don't like us. Why
- 38:18Speaker 3: would you do that?
- 38:20Speaker 1: Why would everybody come just to boo.
- 38:24Speaker 3: So while she was doing all this you know, volunteerism
- 38:27Speaker 3: and like lending her time to every body under the sun,
- 38:31Speaker 3: she also made some very good friends with women who
- 38:36Speaker 3: were probably in the gay community, would be my guest,
- 38:40Speaker 3: and I think this is where her sort of her
- 38:42Speaker 3: advocacy for gender rights and stuff like that would come
- 38:46Speaker 3: into play, is just her exposure to these people. So
- 38:50Speaker 3: through the League of Women Voters, she met a co founder,
- 38:53Speaker 3: a woman named Esther Everett late and her partner Elizabeth
- 38:57Speaker 3: Fisher Reid, who would be her financial adviser later on.
- 39:01Speaker 3: But they were like a great trio and they were
- 39:04Speaker 3: really really close, really good friends. Eventually they would rent
- 39:10Speaker 3: that when I said she lived near Washington Square Park,
- 39:13Speaker 3: they would rent apartments right on top of one another,
- 39:17Speaker 3: and you know a lot of other women. She became
- 39:20Speaker 3: partners with Mary and Dickerman and Nancy Cook, and that's
- 39:23Speaker 3: who she founded that vow Kill Industries with the furniture business.
- 39:27Speaker 2: She became friends with them and they were partners. Yeah,
- 39:29Speaker 2: oh yeah, I guess she became partners with them too. Yeah,
- 39:32Speaker 2: she became partners with those partners.
- 39:35Speaker 3: That's right. And I think like after like one of
- 39:39Speaker 3: the cottages that val Kill built that she I think
- 39:42Speaker 3: she ended up even moving into one of those as
- 39:44Speaker 3: a residence.
- 39:46Speaker 2: Eventually she did, but first Maryan Dickerman and Nancy Cook did.
- 39:50Speaker 2: I think they lived there for like three decades too. Yeah,
- 39:53Speaker 2: and then finally she was like, I need.
- 39:54Speaker 3: The place, beat it right, yeah, scram so.
- 39:59Speaker 2: Yeah, these, I mean, it's just a plain fact that.
- 40:02Speaker 2: Another expression of how open her mind was is that
- 40:06Speaker 2: a lot of her friends were gay women. Again, this
- 40:09Speaker 2: is the thirties, forties families at most the early sixties
- 40:15Speaker 2: people did not talk about this kind of stuff, and
- 40:19Speaker 2: I'm sure a lot of people avoided gay people and
- 40:22Speaker 2: she just was it was Again, I think she judged
- 40:25Speaker 2: people on generally a case by case basis.
- 40:27Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. You know you mentioned early on she
- 40:30Speaker 3: probably had other affairs. I know that her bodyguard, Earl Miller,
- 40:34Speaker 3: is someone that they everyone is a historians kind of
- 40:37Speaker 3: suspect that she had an affair with, including her son.
- 40:40Speaker 3: One of her sons. Was pretty much like, yeah, I
- 40:44Speaker 3: think Earl Miller had an affair with her. They were
- 40:47Speaker 3: super tight, and I think he was the one that
- 40:48Speaker 3: gave her the I don't think we mentioned insisted that
- 40:51Speaker 3: she carry a pistol with her on these car road
- 40:54Speaker 3: trips since she issued secret service.
- 40:57Speaker 1: Yeah, and she used.
- 40:58Speaker 2: It's a great effect too, Like if you were doing
- 41:00Speaker 2: what she wanted you to, you know, like passing an
- 41:04Speaker 2: anti lynching law, she would just pull her gun out
- 41:07Speaker 2: and just set it on the desk, just let it
- 41:09Speaker 2: sit there and make its own statement.
- 41:11Speaker 3: Well, she was not popular with racist because she received
- 41:14Speaker 3: death threats a lot because of her promotion of racial
- 41:17Speaker 3: equality in the nineteen fifties. Apparently the Klan had a
- 41:21Speaker 3: twenty five thousand dollars bounty on her head for sure.
- 41:25Speaker 2: One other thing too about Earl Miller is that he
- 41:29Speaker 2: was actually credited as the one who gave her her
- 41:32Speaker 2: self esteem and her courage to face the media and
- 41:37Speaker 2: just basically be a public figure despite how you know,
- 41:40Speaker 2: debilitating her fear of that.
- 41:42Speaker 3: Stuff was Yeah, pretty cool.
- 41:44Speaker 2: Yeah, So FDR passed away, let's see, seventeen years before
- 41:50Speaker 2: she did. He died in nineteen forty five. This is
- 41:54Speaker 2: when she moved to Valkill call Cottage. Yeah, and she
- 41:59Speaker 2: was like, I'm done with politics. And everybody's like, no,
- 42:02Speaker 2: come back being politics. She said, no, I'm done. I'm
- 42:05Speaker 2: just going to go be a private citizen. And it
- 42:07Speaker 2: turns out that President Harry Truman, a few months after
- 42:11Speaker 2: FDR died and Eleanor said she was just becoming a
- 42:14Speaker 2: civilian again, said no, I need you to go to
- 42:17Speaker 2: the UN. They're doing some pretty neat stuff there. Go
- 42:20Speaker 2: see what's going on and just become part of the
- 42:24Speaker 2: American delegation to the United Nations.
- 42:27Speaker 3: Yeah. So she answered the call, and from nineteen forty
- 42:30Speaker 3: five to nineteen fifty two she held that position at
- 42:32Speaker 3: the UN. All of her colleagues were men, obviously at
- 42:37Speaker 3: the time, and they were dismissive of her, and they said,
- 42:41Speaker 3: you know, let's put her on Committee three, like they
- 42:43Speaker 3: don't do much, it's like humanitarian issues. But how wrong
- 42:48Speaker 3: they were, because Committee three turned out to be pretty
- 42:50Speaker 3: important and somewhat controversial when they were tasked with determining
- 42:57Speaker 3: whether post war refugees had to go back home they
- 43:01Speaker 3: had to be like made to be go back home,
- 43:04Speaker 3: And she said no, She was like, I'm going to
- 43:07Speaker 3: take this up with the General Assembly, and she convinced
- 43:09Speaker 3: them to vote against forced repatriation.
- 43:13Speaker 2: Yeah. Those male colleagues who forced her onto Committee three
- 43:18Speaker 2: because they thought it wasn't going to amount too much.
- 43:20Speaker 2: They kept the Committee for Planning the Future for men
- 43:23Speaker 2: wearing hats everywhere for themselves.
- 43:26Speaker 1: That's right, Like this this has got legs. Yeah, even more.
- 43:29Speaker 2: To the point, aside from getting repatriation off the table,
- 43:34Speaker 2: she helped author the UN Declaration of Human Rights. Yeah,
- 43:39Speaker 2: one of the most important documents, even though toothless, but
- 43:42Speaker 2: still one of the most important documents humanity has ever
- 43:45Speaker 2: come together and created, which is pretty great.
- 43:47Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, you said toothless. That was the
- 43:49Speaker 3: one things that really upset her was that they did
- 43:51Speaker 3: this great thing, and then she was upset that there
- 43:54Speaker 3: was there were no teeth, and that they didn't do
- 43:57Speaker 3: anything to really make sure it was enforced.
- 44:00Speaker 2: Right, And I'm not sure what they could do. I
- 44:02Speaker 2: think now the International Criminal Court is capable of doing stuff,
- 44:09Speaker 2: but I think even their STEMI toothless, depending on how
- 44:13Speaker 2: big and tough the country is, you.
- 44:14Speaker 3: Know, Yeah, good point.
- 44:17Speaker 2: So, Yes, she passed away in nineteen sixty two. She
- 44:20Speaker 2: was in the hospital. She was not feeling very well,
- 44:23Speaker 2: and she checked herself out and said, I want to
- 44:24Speaker 2: dine at home, and she went and died in I
- 44:28Speaker 2: think Greenwich village, is that correct?
- 44:31Speaker 3: Upper East side by that point, same thing. She was
- 44:34Speaker 3: seventy eight, she had you know, it was heart failure,
- 44:38Speaker 3: it was tuberculosis, it was a plastic innemia. She was
- 44:41Speaker 3: in rough shape at that point. But you know she
- 44:44Speaker 3: got to dining her home like she wished, and she
- 44:47Speaker 3: left a legacy behind that. I mean, good luck who
- 44:51Speaker 3: came right after her, like good luck filling those shoes
- 44:53Speaker 3: as a first lady.
- 44:55Speaker 2: Mamie Truman, Yeah, I know, Mamie Eisenhower.
- 45:00Speaker 3: Maybe as an hour I think some maymi.
- 45:03Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 45:05Speaker 2: One other thing, chuck that she was the first at
- 45:08Speaker 2: and technically she made FDR the first. She lobbied for
- 45:12Speaker 2: him to include a woman in his cabinet, specifically our
- 45:17Speaker 2: beloved Francis Perkins, who was made Secretary of Labor under FDR,
- 45:21Speaker 2: the first woman cabinet member ever.
- 45:24Speaker 3: That's right, and we talked about that in our Francis
- 45:26Speaker 3: Perkins episode and I highly recommend that, And that was
- 45:29Speaker 3: a good one. That's Josh's I think favorite modern woman.
- 45:34Speaker 2: Well, I mean you mean's my favorite modern woman, but
- 45:36Speaker 2: you I get your point. Yeah, and Mary Tyler Moore
- 45:41Speaker 2: don't forget her.
- 45:41Speaker 3: Oh sure, we need to do an episode on her.
- 45:43Speaker 3: And let's do one on you me too.
- 45:45Speaker 2: Not all right, I'm sure you We would love that.
- 45:48Speaker 2: We'll sit down an interviewer for twenty thirty hours.
- 45:50Speaker 3: And so that'd be fun.
- 45:52Speaker 1: Okay, Well, while we.
- 45:53Speaker 2: Go interview you me for twenty to thirty hours, I
- 45:56Speaker 2: think we should insert listener mail here first.
- 46:02Speaker 3: That's right. This is from Alex. Hey, guys, this is
- 46:05Speaker 3: from a Selects episode about the fairness doctrine. During the episode,
- 46:09Speaker 3: you mentioned that the owner of WJIMTV built a TV
- 46:13Speaker 3: studio with a pool in case he needed to convert
- 46:16Speaker 3: it to a motel as a fallback business. And guys,
- 46:19Speaker 3: that building is still a TV studio under the call
- 46:21Speaker 3: signs WNS, a local CBS affiliate, and they kept that pool.
- 46:26Speaker 3: He sent a video in fact, of meteorologists Katie Nikolau
- 46:30Speaker 3: giving a weather report from the pool. I guess semi recently,
- 46:34Speaker 3: and he said, I passed this TV station countless times,
- 46:36Speaker 3: always wonder why it looks so swanky, and now it
- 46:38Speaker 3: makes total sense that I know it was built like
- 46:40Speaker 3: a nineteen fifties motel. Thanks for the show, guys. Always
- 46:43Speaker 3: fun when an episode hits close to home.
- 46:46Speaker 1: Yeah, who is that?
- 46:47Speaker 3: That's Alex?
- 46:48Speaker 1: Thanks a lot, Alex, that was a great one.
- 46:50Speaker 2: I've always been fascinated by that TV station with the
- 46:52Speaker 2: pool too, So yep, thanks for calling it out. If
- 46:56Speaker 2: you want to be like Alex and say, hey, I
- 46:58Speaker 2: know just what you guys are talking about because I
- 47:00Speaker 2: live by this thing, let me tell you about it. Well,
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