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The Love Patterns We Repeat: Understanding What’s Really Getting in the Way · A Capture Deep Vibs A Positive Space For Inspiration And Embracing Of Heart

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  Speaker 1: Segg's been going on dates for a while now, but
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  Speaker 1: somehow he just hasn't been able to find someone. He
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  Speaker 1: doesn't understand why. Their love seems so dreamy, faded almost,
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  Speaker 1: like it's meant to be. Yes, that's what I want.
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  Speaker 2: Where's a girl like that from me? Oh, where am I? Oh, hello.
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  Speaker 2: You're finally here. Welcome. I've been waiting for you. Now,
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  Speaker 2: let's find out your dating blind spot.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, you know me?
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  Speaker 2: But here's a short questionnaire. It helps reveal your dating patterns.
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  Speaker 2: Some blind spots you might not even notice.
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  Speaker 1: Ready?
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  Speaker 2: I guess so? Hmm.
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  Speaker 1: Hmm.
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  Speaker 2: Question number one. When you imagine your future partner, what's
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  Speaker 2: your first thought? One, someone dependable I can build a
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  Speaker 2: life with. Two, my one true soulmate. Three, someone who
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  Speaker 2: aligns with my criteria. Four, I'd like to grow a
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  Speaker 2: bit more before I start. Five, someone fun and exciting,
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  Speaker 2: even if it's short term. Question number two. After a
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  Speaker 2: good date, what's your first thought? 1. Could this realistically
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  Speaker 2: work long term? 2. Maybe this is my dream partner. 3.
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  Speaker 2: But what if there's something even better out there? 4.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if I'm truly ready for this. 5. That
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  Speaker 2: was fun. I'm curious about what's next. Question number 3.
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  Speaker 2: What frustrates you the most about dating? 1. Finding someone
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  Speaker 2: who shares my value. 2. Love doesn't always feel as
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  Speaker 2: magical as I hope. 3. I keep questioning my options. 4.
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel fully ready to dive in. 5. Others
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  Speaker 2: sometimes want more commitment than I do. Question number 4.
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  Speaker 2: How do you usually handle red flags? 1. I weigh
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  Speaker 2: them carefully and think things through. Two. I tend to
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  Speaker 2: give the benefit of the doubt. Love can work through challenges.
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  Speaker 1: Three.
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  Speaker 2: I wonder if someone else might be a better fit. Four.
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  Speaker 2: I step back if it feels uncertain. Five. I don't
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  Speaker 2: dwell much if it wasn't serious to begin with. Question
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  Speaker 2: number five. What role does fear play in your dating life?
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  Speaker 1: One.
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  Speaker 2: I manage it pretty well. 2. I worry about never
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  Speaker 2: finding my soulmate. 3. I worry about settling too soon. 4.
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  Speaker 2: I worry about rejection or not being enough. 5. I
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  Speaker 2: worry about losing freedom if things get too serious. Question
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  Speaker 2: number 6. How do you usually approach first dates? 1.
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  Speaker 2: Curious and grounded. 2. With butterflies and high hopes. 3.
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  Speaker 2: Like an interview, seeing if things match. 4. I've been nervous,
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  Speaker 2: not sure if I'm ready. 5. Like an adventure, a
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  Speaker 2: story to enjoy. Question number 7. When relationships end, what's
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  Speaker 2: your usual thought? 1. It wasn't the right fit. 2.
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  Speaker 2: I'll never find another love quite like this. 3. I
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  Speaker 2: sometimes wonder if I make the best choice. 4. This
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  Speaker 2: is why I wait until I'm more ready. 5. On
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  Speaker 2: to the next chapter of my life. Question number 8.
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  Speaker 2: How often do you think about your ideal type? 1.
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  Speaker 1: Rarely.
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  Speaker 2: I focus on compatibility. 2. Often. I'm searching for the one. 3.
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  Speaker 2: Quite a bit. I like having a clear checklist. 4. Sometimes.
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  Speaker 2: I think about it more when I'm ready. 5. Not much.
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  Speaker 2: I prefer to see where things go. Question number 9.
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  Speaker 2: What excites you most about dating? 1. Building a stable,
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  Speaker 2: supportive partnership. 2. The magical feeling of falling in love. 3.
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  Speaker 2: The challenge of finding the best fit. 4. The possibility
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  Speaker 2: of love in the future. 5. The thrill of novelty
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  Speaker 2: and fun experiences. Question number 10. Which feels most like you? 1.
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  Speaker 2: I can be very cautious and practical. 2. I expect
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  Speaker 2: love to feel like a fairy tale. 3. I sometimes
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  Speaker 2: wonder if someone else could be a better match. 4.
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  Speaker 2: I tend to wait until I feel fully ready. 5.
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  Speaker 2: I move forward quickly instead of settling down.
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  Speaker 1: You done? Uh-huh.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, good job, Sa. What does she mean by this? Sometimes,
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  Speaker 2: it's not that you're unlucky in love. It's that you
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  Speaker 2: keep repeating the same pattern without even realizing it. Hi.
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  Speaker 1: Hi. Psyche realized that love isn't something you find. It's
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  Speaker 1: something you build. Not with fireworks or perfect words, but
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  Speaker 1: with patience, curiosity, and the courage to stay.