Latest / The Scene Projects / Ian Palmer on Leadership, Coaching Coaches, and Building Championship Culture
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- 0:22Welcome in to Real Biz.
- 0:24I am your host, Bubba Starts, and with me today is leadership adviser, Ian Palmer.
- 0:29Ian, welcome to the show.
- 0:30Hey, Bubba.
- 0:31Good to see you.
- 0:32Thanks for having me on.
- 0:33Yeah.
- 0:34Absolute pleasure.
- 0:35Wanna thank you for your service off the top.
- 0:38I know we're gonna cover that, in your backstory a little bit and everything that
- 0:42you're doing now in the sports world.
- 0:44So it's a little hard to figure out where were we gonna put you, whether we were gonna do it
- 0:48on the sports network or here on RealBiz, but I think this platform provides a really great,
- 0:53you know, space for us to have a conversation really about your business, and we can always
- 0:58have you back on to talk sports and maybe about, you know, your your local UK wildcats
- 1:03anytime.
- 1:04Okay.
- 1:04Sounds great.
- 1:06Well, always like to start off with a little bit of that backstory, kinda get that
- 1:10established, and then we'll pick the conversation up from there.
- 1:13Yes.
- 1:14So I I grew up, born and raised north of Youngstown, Ohio, so I'm a North Northeast Ohio
- 1:19guy.
- 1:20From there, I went on an ROTC scholar army ROTC scholarship to University of Notre Dame where I
- 1:27did my four years there, met my wife, went immediately on to active duty into the army a
- 1:33week after graduation, actually.
- 1:35And from there, really, you know, as they say, travel the world in the army for twenty six
- 1:40years.
- 1:41Along the way, my wife and I had seven children, and we just had our first grandbaby
- 1:47back in May.
- 1:48So big family.
- 1:49Both my wife and I came from big family, so that's what we were used to, and we are truly
- 1:54blessed.
- 1:55I retired from the army at the end of two thousand twenty three, so just going on three
- 2:00years ago.
- 2:01And, from there, moved to, just outside of Lexington, Kentucky and worked for a leadership
- 2:08consulting company for two years.
- 2:10And almost exactly a year ago, branched out and started my own business, Ian Palmer Leadership,
- 2:17where I focus on developing the leadership of coaches and leaders within the athletics
- 2:22community.
- 2:25Yeah.
- 2:26And like I said, thank you for your service.
- 2:28Twenty six years serving your country and raising seven children.
- 2:32We didn't cover that in the discovery call.
- 2:34I was I was wondering as I said it.
- 2:35Yeah.
- 2:36And your wife, I have three, and I can't imagine doubling and then some, running and
- 2:42chasing around all of that.
- 2:43But, obviously, a a very joyful household, with you all there.
- 2:47Ian, were were you an athlete growing up?
- 2:50You know, what was the inclination into sports?
- 2:52And I know the the, you know, the the first company that you worked for after your military
- 2:56service was heavily focused on that coaching, but has there always been a natural inclination
- 3:00for you into athletics?
- 3:03Absolutely.
- 3:04I I played every sport I could, and you and I have talked about this, but the the year
- 3:11revolved around what season you know, what sports season's going on.
- 3:15So football, baseball, basketball.
- 3:18I played a lot of soccer, really anything.
- 3:21And that was such a foundational thing for me in terms of my own development into army
- 3:28leadership.
- 3:29So when I started my army service, I approached it very much like an athletics team because so
- 3:37many of the leaders as I was growing up were coaches, and they were such a great positive
- 3:43influence on me.
- 3:44That was what I took with me into the army.
- 3:46So when I retired, I wanted to get back into the athletics community.
- 3:52And I'll tell people, or when I had the conversation while I was still on active duty,
- 3:57people would ask, what would you be doing if you weren't in the army or if you were to get
- 4:03out?
- 4:03Was always I would be a coach.
- 4:06Specifically, I wanted to be a high school football coach.
- 4:08I love Friday night lights.
- 4:09And every fall, I would fire it back up.
- 4:11So I I have always viewed leadership through the lens of athletics and coaching.
- 4:16So it was a big influence on me throughout my career and then, obviously, since I've retired
- 4:21from the army.
- 4:23Yeah.
- 4:24And then making the coach from, or the jump rather from, maybe coaching a team to coaching
- 4:30coaches, What was that a very natural fit for you?
- 4:34And, obviously, with twenty six years in the military, you found yourself in that,
- 4:38especially with your ROTC background and moving in, you know, probably coming in in in in a
- 4:43position of leadership from jump street.
- 4:45So you've always been looked up to by others and by teams, but now you're really working
- 4:51with the leaders themselves and coaching them.
- 4:55Was that a natural fit for you kinda moving now into the private sector?
- 5:01Well, I have always viewed the first priority of any leader is to create more leaders.
- 5:07So I tried to do that while I was on active duty, so I was always heavily invested in
- 5:12leadership development of the people around me, subordinates.
- 5:16And when I decided to retire, part of me did wanna go into athletics coaching, but it it had
- 5:24been so long since I was it would just have been, from a tactical perspective, such a big
- 5:28jump for me.
- 5:29So I looked for the way that I could do it using my experience, using almost thirty years
- 5:35of leadership study and practice that it was a very natural fit for me to go into athletics
- 5:42and try to apply that leadership experience into the athletics world for coaches.
- 5:49And what is true in coaching as it is as it is in a lot of other professions, you get promoted
- 5:56into positions of responsibility for different skills than you need when you get into that
- 6:02position of responsibility.
- 6:03So what I'm finding in, in a lot of different professions in the corporate world that you get
- 6:09put in charge of people without necessarily being trained on how to do that, and it's a
- 6:14different skill set than the things that get valued early in your career.
- 6:18So if you're good at x's and o's, you're good at tactics, you'll you'll get promoted in
- 6:23positions where you're put in charge of other people, but that's not the same skill set that
- 6:27you need when you get there.
- 6:29Yeah.
- 6:30It's a constant learning process.
- 6:32Right?
- 6:32No matter whether you've been promoted to that position or not.
- 6:36And I know that a lot of the work that you're doing is working with, you know, assistant
- 6:42coaches or people that are farther down to help them build those skills, to be a head coach
- 6:47before they get there.
- 6:48Does that stem from your experience in the military and seeing exactly what you just spoke
- 6:53about?
- 6:54Absolutely.
- 6:55And there were different positions I held in the army where you can be very it it's a lot
- 7:03easier to judge a decision that someone else is making.
- 7:06It's a lot easier to critique or think about how you would do it differently when you're on
- 7:13the outside looking in.
- 7:14And what I tell coaches a lot is that the the view of the seat is different than the feeling
- 7:19within the seat.
- 7:20So when you're the one put in charge of driving the culture of developing others, of making the
- 7:24difficult decisions, it feels a lot different when you're doing it and when you're watching
- 7:29somebody else do it.
- 7:31So that jump from being an assistant to being a head coach for me in the army from being maybe
- 7:36an executive officer or second in command to being the commander, that's a big jump.
- 7:41So the more preparation you can do while you're waiting to take that position will close that
- 7:48gap a lot.
- 7:49It's still gonna be different, but the more preparation that you do, the more consideration
- 7:54about what's your co coaching philosophy going to be, how do you create a vision, how do you
- 7:59keep how do you hold people accountable.
- 8:01There are just so many things that you can develop while you're in those positions and
- 8:06still be focused on being the best assistant coach that you could be, doing those things in
- 8:11parallel in preparation for becoming a head coach are pretty valuable exercises to go
- 8:16through.
- 8:17Yeah.
- 8:18And exactly what you just touched on is why, you know, especially in a a league like the
- 8:23NFL, so many people that are really good offensive or defensive coordinators who then
- 8:28get their first head coaching job really stumble in that first because just because you
- 8:33know how to work with your players in a room and with a smaller group of people doesn't
- 8:39necessarily prepare you for working with everyone in the building and having the charge
- 8:44of not just the players on the field, but all of the coaches and their staffs underneath of
- 8:49them as well.
- 8:50Right.
- 8:50When you when you're in charge of an entire program, that's different.
- 8:53I mean, you're when you're a coordinator, you can be very squarely focused on the defense or
- 8:58the offense or the special teams.
- 9:01And and, again, very focused on the x's and o's.
- 9:04You don't have a lot of program level or franchise level responsibilities.
- 9:09Well, as the head coach, you then are focused a lot more on the up and out, as we like to say,
- 9:15in the army, and you have to incorporate that while also still doing the x's and o's
- 9:19correctly.
- 9:20And I think the point your point about that transition from coordinator to head coach, I
- 9:25think it it spans across all sports.
- 9:29But what you see is first time head coaches in particular, one of the mistakes that are made
- 9:35pretty frequently is trying to be the coach that you worked under before you became the
- 9:41head coach rather than finding your own leadership voice, as I call it, and doing
- 9:46things the way that are gonna work for you and your leadership style.
- 9:49And that's one of the things that comes up a lot when I work with coaches is how do you find
- 9:52your own voice?
- 9:53How do you create your own culture?
- 9:55How do you create your own vision that's gonna work for you and your leadership style?
- 9:59Because we're we're all gonna lead differently because we're created differently.
- 10:03I'd like to dig into that a little bit, Ian, and how you kind of assess an individual.
- 10:08And I know that you do a lot of, you know, kind of workshops and working with larger groups.
- 10:13Do you have a system that you're able to kinda run all these people through so that you can
- 10:17identify, you know, what personality traits and and what that profile for their coaching looks
- 10:23like?
- 10:25I do.
- 10:26And first, I'll say that any team or program that I work with, the work that we do together
- 10:32gets tailored specifically to the needs of that program or that coach.
- 10:36So as as you and I did, I'll have a discovery or a series of discovery conversations just to
- 10:41get an appreciation for where they are as coaches or where the program is, what are the
- 10:47obstacles they're running into, what are the things that are working well, and then take
- 10:51that and advance it based off of our conversations together.
- 10:55How do we get you to next?
- 10:57How do we get you to just a little bit better tomorrow and and the day after and the day
- 11:00after that?
- 11:01So that's always the first priority for me is is just to get to know you and your program and
- 11:07then tailor the work that we do together specifically to meet the needs that you have.
- 11:11But I do have a a specific system, and and I call it creating championship culture.
- 11:18That's the that's the overall program.
- 11:20So it's a an accumulation of different perspectives on aspects of culture and
- 11:27leadership that that I've gathered over years and years, and how do you apply those things to
- 11:32an athletics program.
- 11:34And what we're what we're seeking by using that program is we want you to achieve competitive
- 11:39greatness.
- 11:39And I I took that from John Wooden's pyramid of success where the top block in that pyramid is
- 11:47competitive greatness.
- 11:48And why I love that so much is because nowhere on John Wooden who did a lot of winning,
- 11:54nowhere do you see the word win in his pyramid of success.
- 11:57It's about focusing on developing people, being good people, having good systems and processes,
- 12:05being the best version of yourself, and the output is competitive greatness, which means if
- 12:09you've given your all, if you've done everything you can do, paid attention to all
- 12:13the details, given your best effort, you're gonna be the best situated to win, and the wins
- 12:18are gonna follow.
- 12:19So it's really process oriented.
- 12:21It's really focused on internal things that you can control because you can't control whether
- 12:26you win or lose.
- 12:27So the competitive greatness, formula is based off of those same things.
- 12:35How do you live well?
- 12:36How do you lead well?
- 12:37How do you treat your people well?
- 12:38How do you create positive culture?
- 12:40And you set the conditions that will most likely produce wins.
- 12:44Yeah.
- 12:45Winning is a result and not necessarily the goal starting out.
- 12:50Right.
- 12:50Right.
- 12:51So if you can make it not about the result, then and that's how I again, back pointing back
- 12:56to my army career, my leaders my personal leadership philosophy was all about that.
- 13:01I I didn't I I knew that the results would come if you do the things every day that are gonna
- 13:07produce a winning culture, a positive culture, a healthy command climate.
- 13:12The wins are gonna come.
- 13:13But if you focus on winning, then there's a lot of different avenues to get there, and not all
- 13:18of those are great.
- 13:21Now you've been out on your own, for the last year.
- 13:25You you've worked with a lot of different coaches and different levels of coaches.
- 13:29Do you feel like you've really found a niche where your impact is felt the most, whether it
- 13:34be maybe, you know, high school coaches, college coaches, maybe some professional
- 13:39programs.
- 13:40Is there a certain area where you feel like your impact is felt the most?
- 13:46Yeah.
- 13:46You mentioned it earlier.
- 13:47I think the impact in the first year has been greatest with assistant coaches.
- 13:53And the reason I say that is be is for for all the reasons I described that assistant coaches
- 14:01haven't always put in the work to determine how they would lead or how they are leading.
- 14:06I mean, because assistant coaches are leaders as well.
- 14:09So we're not we're not just focused on assistant coaches to create head coaches.
- 14:12We're we're focused on assistant coaches to help create better leaders who may someday
- 14:17become a head coach.
- 14:18So we we talk about followership, but the the curiosity and the hunger and the and the growth
- 14:26mindset and the assistant coaches seems to be just a little bit greater than than with the
- 14:31head coaches from observations in the first year.
- 14:35But it's, it's about reflection and defining your leadership voice in a way that's gonna
- 14:41make you a better assistant coach and probably someday a head coach.
- 14:46And I'm curious as to how you're meeting some of these people.
- 14:50Right?
- 14:51I I you could spend a ton of time cold calling and connecting with people on LinkedIn similar
- 14:56to how I do it, is a huge lift to get out and do.
- 15:01But are there other avenues that you've been finding or or maybe a little bit more
- 15:06successful for you to get out and in front of a a larger group of coaches?
- 15:11It it's for me, it's all about relationships.
- 15:14So in a similar way that you and I met, we met through, you know, Tim Nyman, and he made the
- 15:18recommendation that that we connect.
- 15:20And that's the way most of these things have happened, and that's the way I prefer.
- 15:25I'm not a cold call guy.
- 15:27And to be honest, the the cold calls aren't really effective in in in what I do because
- 15:34it's those it's gotta be based on a trusted relationship.
- 15:38So if you were to say to a coach that you know, hey.
- 15:41I've worked with Ian.
- 15:44It's been really valuable.
- 15:46I think you'll benefit from this relationship.
- 15:48That's much more powerful than me sending you a cold LinkedIn message that we all get so many
- 15:55of that don't really have the same, I guess, genuine quality to it or authenticity as you
- 16:04might get from relationship to relationship.
- 16:06So that's really been my approach is take a strong trusted relationship that I've already
- 16:11made, and, that will lead to another coach or two or three, and that opens up opportunities.
- 16:17And that's exactly what's been happening.
- 16:20Well and here, reflecting a little bit on the year that was, do you feel like, you're seeing
- 16:27not only short term success, but long term success engaging this out?
- 16:31I know how passionate you are about creating more leaders.
- 16:35Do you see in a short in a rather small sample size yet with only, you know, eleven, twelve
- 16:41months under your belt that this is something that you can continue doing till you don't want
- 16:47to do it anymore.
- 16:48Oh, for sure.
- 16:49And and I do it again because I have a passion for leadership.
- 16:55I have a passion for athletics.
- 16:56I want coaches to give to their other coaches and players the same thing that I got through
- 17:03good coach leadership, you know, when I when I was growing up and and when I was an athlete.
- 17:08So that the giving back of my experience and the things that I've learned over the years is
- 17:15why I do this.
- 17:16And I I don't think there's a time when that won't be true.
- 17:20Now, you know, somewhere down the road, Missy and I might decide to buy an RV just so we can
- 17:24drive all over the country and visit grandkids, but I don't think that that'll eliminate the
- 17:29same passion that I have for for giving to others.
- 17:31So, the gifts I've been given, I wanna pass on to other people.
- 17:35So I I could continue to do this for the foreseeable future for sure.
- 17:40And I think what you just test touched on there is something that anyone in any field, can take
- 17:47away.
- 17:48It is that you have gifts.
- 17:50We all have certain gifts.
- 17:52How do you share them?
- 17:53How do you teach others and build a legacy of that education building up whether it's new
- 18:00leaders or or whatever knowledge you may have?
- 18:02We all have something to share, and I think that's why I'm as passionate as I am about
- 18:07podcasting is building a platform for people to have an opportunity like this, Ian, has become
- 18:13a passion of mine, and I can't see, ever really doing anything different.
- 18:18I think it may take different forms as we evolve and maybe we'll do more in person and
- 18:23maybe one day have a studio to do these and have these conversations in.
- 18:28Mhmm.
- 18:28But I don't ever see myself getting away from that.
- 18:31And and along the same veins now, teaching people how to do the things that that I've
- 18:37learned how to do that now I can turn around and teach them.
- 18:40So I think there's a lot of power in what you just said there.
- 18:44Yeah.
- 18:44And I think it, what has been one of the more valuable things for me in this in this year
- 18:49that I've been running, you know, my own company is it's forced me to memorialize a lot
- 18:57of the stories and lessons that I learned.
- 19:00So through the work, I have captured some things that I I might not have shared with
- 19:05other people before.
- 19:07And it I write a blog every couple weeks.
- 19:10I do a newsletter, videos, and stuff like that to to share to share those things and give a
- 19:16sampling of of the work that I'm doing with coaches.
- 19:19But more important to that is capturing things that I I wouldn't have otherwise.
- 19:24So it's forced me to write things down, to organize my thoughts, to kinda take a look at
- 19:30how I view leadership, both from what I was taught coming up through the army and through
- 19:35ROTC and all that, and then how that was applied in my experience.
- 19:40So how did the theory meet the practice, or how did the science meet the art, and what would
- 19:45what was the result?
- 19:46So I've had to reflect on a lot of those things, capture them, record them, and then I'm
- 19:50offering those that to other people.
- 19:52And that's where a lot of the the models and things that I've developed in in this year have
- 19:56come from.
- 19:57Is just starting with stories and starting with memories and okay.
- 20:01How did we get there?
- 20:03And how does that apply to leadership theory?
- 20:06And what was the result of that thing?
- 20:09And how did this story impact my life in the way I led in the future?
- 20:13And and all those those different things.
- 20:15It's just been a really good journey to sit down and and capture those things and record
- 20:21them so I can give them to other people.
- 20:24Yeah.
- 20:25I think there's a tremendous power in that, and and that may be the number one reason, that I I
- 20:31fell in love with podcasting early on is because I was able to share my story, and it
- 20:35was kind of forcing me into, you know, that reflection and and why why am I like I am and
- 20:42and how does that impact the life that I'm living now and how can that impact the lives
- 20:48around me.
- 20:49So I think there's, some really good tidbits there for people listening, that are, you know,
- 20:54just thinking about their own life and maybe don't understand what it is that they have to
- 20:58offer yet.
- 20:59But to start to tell these stories and whether you're doing it in a blog or you're, you know,
- 21:04coming on a podcast or you start a podcast of your own or social media content, however
- 21:08you're doing it, I think we all learn more about ourselves maybe in that process than we
- 21:14ever thought was possible.
- 21:16And I'm glad you brought that up because you asked about the process that I that I I take
- 21:20coaches through when I work with them.
- 21:23If I'm doing a one on one relationship, that that's exactly where we start.
- 21:27We start with reflection on how did you get here?
- 21:31What happened in your life, good and bad, that shaped you in a way that kind of helps you
- 21:36create the person that you are today?
- 21:39And then how do you overlay that on how you lead?
- 21:42How can you take that and communicate your values?
- 21:44And so we we run through all of that, but it all starts with our stories because I'm such a
- 21:49believer.
- 21:50It was one of my favorite things to do in the army was to to go around and meet new meet
- 21:55different soldiers, these young kids that are coming up, and they come from everywhere.
- 21:59I mean, they and they don't all all come from the Continental United States, and they come
- 22:04from Puerto Rico and Guam and all these different places.
- 22:06And they come to or they came to the army to better their lives and their families' lives
- 22:13through hard work, and they're taking advantage.
- 22:15And would I just love to hear where you came from stories.
- 22:18And it was just such a because it creates so much of our foundation for how we see the
- 22:23world, for better or worse in a lot of cases, but it it all is.
- 22:27Right?
- 22:27So whatever it is, it is, and that's gonna shape how you see the world and how you lead.
- 22:32Yeah.
- 22:32The the perception is what makes it good or bad or or better or worse.
- 22:37Right?
- 22:37It's all data that we're we're intaking, and that's why, you know, the thousand interviews
- 22:42that I've done in the last few years have been extremely impactful on my life.
- 22:47And not only sharing my story with others, but hearing so many stories.
- 22:51And everyone comes from a different point.
- 22:53Even if you're sitting in the same chair or at a same level, we've both taken very different
- 22:59paths to get there.
- 23:00And I think that, that's something that's a little bit lacking, in this world and in this
- 23:06digital age as, you know, most people are spending so much time just kinda scrolling
- 23:10through and maybe seeing the highlights of that.
- 23:13I think that's why podcasting, was so attractive to me, especially early on and
- 23:18remains so because of that, the deeper relationships, the deeper conversations that
- 23:23we're able to have.
- 23:24And I think that's why the the podcast is now having the success that it is.
- 23:29Right?
- 23:29We've gone from, 1,600 downloads a month ago to over 7,800 this thirty days.
- 23:36So there's obviously some momentum, and people are attracted to the conversations that I'm
- 23:41having, and I'm very blessed to be able to do so as I know you feel about the work that
- 23:46you're doing with these coaches.
- 23:47Ian, how are people able to kinda start this process with you?
- 23:51Say I'm a assistant coach at a a local, you know, division three college, but I wanna
- 23:57improve my leadership qualities.
- 23:59How can people reach out to you and begin that process?
- 24:03Well, on the scroll, you you'll that you'll see the website, and that's where I encourage
- 24:07everybody to start.
- 24:07It's it's very simply ianpalmerleadership.com.
- 24:11On my website, there's a link to schedule a call that you know, I I don't charge anybody
- 24:18for for a call.
- 24:19So I love to hear, again, their stories, kinda where they're at, what they're struggling with.
- 24:22So it all starts with a conversation.
- 24:24And if you're not ready for a call, there are links to all the my different social media
- 24:29platforms.
- 24:30But I do encourage people, if you're if you're not ready or just want a sampling of what I do
- 24:36with coaches and what my experience is and you wanna hear stories, that's what I put out every
- 24:42week in the newsletter.
- 24:43And that's ian palmer leadership dot com slash newsletter is the sign up.
- 24:48So there's multiple methods, but they all start with the website at ianpalmerleadership.com.
- 24:52And from there, I'm I'm easily, contacted.
- 24:56I answer every platform.
- 24:57So if you reach out to me on Instagram, you know, I'll I'll answer.
- 25:01But, I do encourage people to start at the website.
- 25:04Fantastic, Ian.
- 25:05Well, I've had a blast, getting to know you over the course of our last few conversations.
- 25:09I look forward to, continuing to deepen those relationships with you over the course of the
- 25:15rest of our lives as well and, to watch as you grow, you know, your business and as you have
- 25:21more and more leaders and really that community of leaders that you're building.
- 25:26I'm really excited to see what comes from that as we extrapolate it over the next twelve to
- 25:31thirty six to, you know, ten years, hopefully.
- 25:35And, hopefully, there there's a lot of impact that's going to be had from this, and I know
- 25:39that for certain.
- 25:40Ian, thank you so much for joining me today on RealBiz, and thank you for being part of the
- 25:45scene.
- 25:46Thanks, Bubba.
- 25:47I appreciate it, and I've, I've enjoyed getting to know you as well.