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Ben Affleck & Jennifer Lopez’s kids are reportedly getting along ‘effortlessly.’ How William & Kate will celebrate their 1st Christmas without the Queen. A fan asked Oprah Winfrey what they should buy their mom and her $100 gift suggestion divided folks. · Naughty But Nice with Rob Shuter

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  Speaker 1: You're a perfectionist, Corey more so than I am. And
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  Speaker 1: you get more upset about this stuff than I do.
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  Speaker 1: You texted me and you were so upset you would
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  Speaker 1: get so fired me. Rob, You're here forever. Let's jump
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  Speaker 1: into the show. What time is it, my friend? It
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  Speaker 1: is t time. Really sweet story to sort of send
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  Speaker 1: us into the holidays, which I think we all want.
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  Speaker 1: So this we've been doing so much Royal drama, Brittany drama.
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  Speaker 1: This story popped up and I just love it. So
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  Speaker 1: Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopezi's kids are getting along effortlessly,
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  Speaker 1: isn't it nice? So blended families can be really challenging,
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  Speaker 1: especially around the holidays. If you're a member of a
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  Speaker 1: blended family, you really do know that. But it seems
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  Speaker 1: as if Santa at least has granted j Lo and
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  Speaker 1: Ben an early Christmas wish because their kids are getting along,
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  Speaker 1: quote effortlessly. The reportings coming from Entertainment Tonight, who were
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  Speaker 1: always the nice guys, like we're naughty, but nice. Entertainment
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  Speaker 1: Tonight are just nice, Like it's just always so nice.
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  Speaker 1: I love going to their website, but it's always very
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  Speaker 1: very Sometimes it's it's almost like press redies. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: a little bit. I just think did the publicist right herself?
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  Speaker 1: In my PR days, I used to say another publicist
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  Speaker 1: used to say, for clients guilty, if they do something
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  Speaker 1: terrible and they're guilty, you do entertainment tonight because they'll
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  Speaker 1: never ask about it. They're let think about what you're wearing,
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  Speaker 1: what color your shoes are, what's the inspiration for the
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  Speaker 1: new movie. But they'll never be like, oh, when you
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  Speaker 1: murdered somebody that they just never mentioned that. So entertainment tonight. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: they've known for for being really nice. But I want
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  Speaker 1: to believe this story. They're reporting that all the kids
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  Speaker 1: are getting along, and it's a lot of kids. It's
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  Speaker 1: jl is fourteen year old twins Emmy and Max fourteens
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  Speaker 1: of difficult age, isn't it When I was fourteen, I
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  Speaker 1: could be a bit of a brat. Also to Ben
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  Speaker 1: has he has Viola, who seventeen. She's like growing up now,
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  Speaker 1: isn't she. Violet went to the White House with her
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  Speaker 1: mom a couple of weeks ago. I know they're the
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  Speaker 1: perks of having really famous parents. Sara Fina is thirteen
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  Speaker 1: and Samuel is ten years old and they're all getting
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  Speaker 1: along great and insider added quote. They all have respect
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  Speaker 1: for each other and ends relationship with Ben's kids is natural,
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  Speaker 1: and the same goes for Ben's bonds with Jaylo's kids.
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  Speaker 1: So I hit the phones to figure all this out,
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  Speaker 1: and they said, that's the key to this. They're not
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  Speaker 1: trying too hard. They know there's going to be awkward moments.
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  Speaker 1: They know that this is unusual. Both parents are super,
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  Speaker 1: super famous, and Jennifer really respects the fact that Jennifer
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  Speaker 1: Gardner is the three kids mom, and Ben really respects
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  Speaker 1: the fact that Mark Antony are the twins the two
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  Speaker 1: kids dad, and I think they're not trying to be
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  Speaker 1: the new mom or the new dad. I like that
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  Speaker 1: this is working out and you would not sort of
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  Speaker 1: think this at first. Maybe you'd think Ben could pull
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  Speaker 1: it off. But Jaylo has such a reputation of being
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  Speaker 1: a diva or high maintenance and it's all an act.
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  Speaker 1: Some of it's an act. I used to work for her,
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  Speaker 1: so I can say that she's really caring and she's
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  Speaker 1: got a really mothering kind side to her. So although
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  Speaker 1: we see her on stage spinning around a strip of
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  Speaker 1: pole and the Super Bowl, she's not doing that at home.
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  Speaker 1: She's the jeans and a T shirt type of girl.
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  Speaker 1: She pulls her hair back in a ponytail, and I
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  Speaker 1: love that all this is working at What do you think, Well,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I do think it's still difficult because just
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  Speaker 1: a year ago, I mean, it was a Rod's kids,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I mean, so it's it's
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  Speaker 1: I know that we want to say it's all like
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  Speaker 1: rose colored glasses, but at one point the kids have
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  Speaker 1: to almost have to ask, Okay, well, whose kids are
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  Speaker 1: going to get used to this year? Mom? You know
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  Speaker 1: it's right. It was fast. It was a very fast
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  Speaker 1: transition with that. So um, I do wish them well.
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  Speaker 1: They seem happy. I've seen Instagram videos of them singing
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  Speaker 1: holiday songs now rush the marshmallows and things, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: hoping for the best for them. You'd make a good point, though,
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  Speaker 1: what do a Rod's kids think, Like she got close
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  Speaker 1: to them and so did her twin. Do you think
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  Speaker 1: they still talk or do you think the twins email
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  Speaker 1: them or tax them? I don't think you can. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: it's awkward, But at the same time time to think
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  Speaker 1: that she just would like shut them off two is
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  Speaker 1: also awkward. That's also awkward. Yeah, I have no idea.
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  Speaker 1: What do you do? It's almost like when you fall
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  Speaker 1: out with an X but you still want to be
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  Speaker 1: friends with their friends. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, it's so tricky.
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  Speaker 1: Which is so tricky. I do like, though, that this
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  Speaker 1: seems to be working out just lovely, which brings us
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  Speaker 1: to our pole question of the day. Ben Affleck and
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  Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopeg's kids are getting along effortlessly. I love that word.
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  Speaker 1: I never use it effortlessly. I love that word. Will
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  Speaker 1: they have more kids? That's a little bit of a
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  Speaker 1: right turn there of our pop question. Goodness, do you
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  Speaker 1: think they'll have more kids? What do they have? Three? Four? Five? There?
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  Speaker 1: a show on Monday, so I know it's Christmas, but
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  Speaker 1: I love doing this and for twenty minutes while the
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  Speaker 1: house is all asleep at my be a solo show.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if Garrett is around because he has
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  Speaker 1: children and he's technically off from work, and so I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if he wants to pull out a microphone.
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  Speaker 1: But I don't consider this work. I considered this having
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  Speaker 1: coffee with my friends each connect with everyone on christ
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  Speaker 1: does miss It's like the Sex of the City girls.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like we're all sitting around in the cafe
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  Speaker 1: and instead of cosmos, I'm doing coffee. And if I
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  Speaker 1: take it a little later in the day, I definitely
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  Speaker 1: would do like I have a shot of sambuga or something.
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  Speaker 1: I'll have a piece of Christmas cake that's left over,
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  Speaker 1: so I'll be eating all the cookies that we did
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  Speaker 1: eat the day before. But I'll see you back on Monday.
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  Speaker 1: So don't forget to vote. Hey Corey Love, what are
• 8:39
  Speaker 1: you working on? Yes? Well, John Mayor just cleared up
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  Speaker 1: the rumors about who inspired his big hit song Your
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: Body Is a Wonderland, and it was not his famous
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  Speaker 1: X after all. So in John Mayor's iconic two thousand
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  Speaker 1: one love song Your Body Is a Wonderland, actress Jennifer
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  Speaker 1: Love Hewitt, whom he was dating at the time. Now,
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  Speaker 1: she was long believed to be the muse behind that song. Yeah, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: and she does have this amazing body. She was kind
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  Speaker 1: of known. She was known for this amazing body, so
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  Speaker 1: it made sense that that might be who she was
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  Speaker 1: who he was referring to. But now many years later,
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  Speaker 1: Mayor is finally addressing the rumors and denying that it
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  Speaker 1: was hewittt at all. He says, that was my first
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  Speaker 1: girlfriend I wrote that about. You know, he says, I
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  Speaker 1: was twenty one when I wrote that song, and I
• 9:23
  Speaker 1: was nostalgic for being sixteen. Mayor, who's dated other A
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: list celebs, including Katy Perry, Jennifer Aniston and of course
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: Taylor switch Ylist and Jennifer and I forgot about that.
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: My goodness, Jessica too. Wow, he went through some of
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: those A listers. Um. Well, you know, he's acknowledged a
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: long standing rumor about the song, though he says it's
• 9:45
  Speaker 1: one of those things where people just sort of formed
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: an idea about it and it gets reinforced over the years,
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  Speaker 1: he said. But truthfully, he says he had never even
• 9:53
  Speaker 1: met a celebrity at the time he wrote that song
• 9:55
  Speaker 1: because he was he was, like, you know, he was
• 9:57
  Speaker 1: not quite famous yet himself, so he was still a kid.
• 10:01
  Speaker 1: But you know, I say, he's so fun. Um, but
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: he's you know, he's been a little controversial because of
• 10:06
  Speaker 1: his dating history. But I worked at Sony Music Sony
• 10:09
  Speaker 1: b MG when this album came out, his debuts, I
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: worked up it. I worked on the marketing for it.
• 10:14
  Speaker 1: So I think he was good to deal with. He
• 10:17
  Speaker 1: really was. You know, people in the office loved him,
• 10:18
  Speaker 1: women had women all had crushes on him. He did
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: like live things inside the studio before for us, and um,
• 10:25
  Speaker 1: yeah it was a big deal. He was like, he
• 10:27
  Speaker 1: just came out of the box swinging this album. Yea,
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: yeah he did. Maybe super talented, super talented. I have
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: a really mixed history with him because I was working
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: for Jessica when he dated her, so I saw him
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: at his worse. He made her cry, he didn't turn
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: up on time. I remember for her birthday he said
• 10:44
  Speaker 1: he a DVD of him live in concert. Oh my gosh.
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: I mean she watched, but she watched it. She thought
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: it was a great gift. I was like, what where's it?
• 10:56
  Speaker 1: Whe's where's the guy? But where's all the fabulous like
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: bags shoes? He sent her a DVD of himself. So
• 11:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not a fan of John Maya and we sort
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: of have a little bit of beef, Like if we
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: saw each other would probably hiss like it'd be awkward,
• 11:10
  Speaker 1: like if I saw him, Yeah, we'd hiss it to
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  Speaker 1: each other, like if I saw him blood and he'd
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: probably the same towards me. Because I'm teamed Jessica here,
• 11:16
  Speaker 1: so I'm not a fan. I should point out to
• 11:19
  Speaker 1: that he didn't ever damper down the rumors that it
• 11:23
  Speaker 1: was Jennifer Love because that helped the song. So now
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: years later, that's song. You're such a hit, it doesn't
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: need any rumors anymore. But I do love when we
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: try to figure out whose songs are about. Who's Lola
• 11:38
  Speaker 1: in Copacabana? My husband wrote that song. I love that stuff.
• 11:41
  Speaker 1: And you're so vain Carly Simon, who was that was?
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: It wasn't the Jagger because he's actually mc jaggery. I
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: know what about your songs, Corey. You you're super successful
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: and you've had several big hits. Do you base your
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: songs on past lovers or you're fantastic guy you were with?
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: Do um? You know what it's been both, it's been
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: all the above and music. When I was in New
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: York City, you know, on my own and had a
• 12:08
  Speaker 1: painful breakup, it was just me and my guitar. I
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: was Taylor Swift, the black gay man version of Taylor
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: Swift in Brooklyn, and I was just writing my heart
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: out that all the it's therapeutic. It's really therapy. I
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: got a bottino and drink when my heart was broken,
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: I'd reach vodka. I know. I wish I was talented
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: enough to reach for a guitar. I really really do. Hey,
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: we found out what William and Kate are going to
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: be doing for their first Christmas without Queen Elizabeth. So
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: in a brief statement, Buckingham Palace announced that the royal
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: family will be celebrating Christmas at Sandrington Castle. This is
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: the first time in three years because of COVID, and
• 12:49
  Speaker 1: it's the first time the royal family will be celebrating
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: after the death of Queen Elizabeth. So William, Kate, also
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: to George I love him, Charlotte and Louis, who might
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: be my favorite, Naught they all are going to be there.
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: But sources say that this year the younger royals want
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: to spend time with their own families. They want to
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: start a little bit of a new traditions. They might
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: spend two or three days at sand Drinkham Castle and
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: then they probably will head back to their own homes.
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: I get that, Like when I get to see my
• 13:24
  Speaker 1: mom and dad for the holidays, I'm not going this year.
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: My sister was just in town, so it was lovely
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: to see her, but you know, three or four days,
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: I'm done like that. I want to go and do
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: my own sort of holiday traditions with my friends and
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: and people that I hang out with. What's your traditions, Colly? Well,
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: you know, my grandmother was such a big part of that.
• 13:44
  Speaker 1: She drove so much of that. She's been gone out
• 13:46
  Speaker 1: twenty years, passed away, Oh gosh. Well, so just a
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: lot of a lot of families and lots of cousins,
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: lots of little cousins, and we all would come over
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: to my grandparents house when my grandmother would have been
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: cooking for three days. You know, she began her fruit
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: cake three days before Christmas, and you know, soaking the
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: cake and rum like two days beforehand, and all the preparations.
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: And so my mom has has carried on some of them.
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: But my mother is getting up there in age now,
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: so it's a bit more scaled back now. I just go.
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: She and I have a nice time. But my aunt
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: or my or Joey will join us. So, um, you know,
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: traditions do change. Everyone have to be tie yourself to
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: traditions that don't serve you anymore. If you're not capable
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: and you don't want to even spend four days cooking, don't.
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: I'm a terrible cook and I don't enjoy it. I
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: know I'm not good at it, and I don't enjoy it,
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: so I order in So yeah, I've ordered Jewish. I
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: know on Christmas Day we're going to do straw open
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: honey on that day, so it's going to be lecious. Hey,
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: some some some concerning news. Tori Spelling has been hospitalized
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: scoring yes, yes, you know. And I just love Tori Spelling.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: Let me just that I think she's a really great gal.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: So but so, Toriy, she's been hospitalized with a hard
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: time of breathing and you know what she describes as
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: crazy dizziness. So she shared a sense deleted Instagram story
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: selfie from a hospital bed on a Wednesday. She was
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: flashing the peace sign and smiling at the camera and
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: she says, here, I am in the hospital since late
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: last night. The Beverly Hills nine O two and O
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: A lum roped and she noted that she was experiencing
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: high blood pressure and crazy dizziness. That's a cool and
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: the doctors are running a battery of tests now Tory
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: who also everyone knows from Tori and Dean that reality show.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: She went on to slam her haters who quote gas
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: lit her when she fell too sick to work this week.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: She says, how about next time you take someone at
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: face value and show kindness instead of doubtfulness, spelling, and
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: remember for people like me not working as a nightmare,
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: I'm a hustler and a workaholic. I always choose to work. Yeah,
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: she she really is. And you know, I think that
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: she's always had such a bad rap because of her
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: father being so famous, that nightmare mother of her. That's rights. No,
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: it's all been a little much for her. Hey, we
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: hope you get out soon, Tory, and we're sending you
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: all I love. We're going to take a quick break
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  Speaker 1: and we will be right back where we come back
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: to the naughty but nice shooting with our dear friend
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Corey Andrew. Hey, Corey, let's get to the polls. Thank you, darling.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Look at you leaning gear. I saw it. Yeah, you
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: know how to use a microphone. That's why you got
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: so upset when it didn't work. Because of all the
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: hosts of this show. You know how to use a
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: microphone better. When you sing those high notes, do you
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: pull it away from your face like you're Judy Garland?
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: I do, you know, But there's a technical reason for
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: that too. I just say, because you don't have the
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  Speaker 1: mic to distort. So it's also strategic. But it looks
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  Speaker 1: fabulous too when you do it. You know, you have
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: to perform live in the New Year, and we all
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  Speaker 1: have to come, all the naughties have to come. We'd
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  Speaker 1: have to Oh, what would be so much fun. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like doing live stuff. So once a friend of
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  Speaker 1: radio personality, tailor streker. She's great and she does also
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  Speaker 1: and all of her all of her listeners came. Lots
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  Speaker 1: of her listeners came, and so did the co host,
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  Speaker 1: and she dragged us up on stage, and I was miserable.
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  Speaker 1: I like to sit at a table and drink of okasda.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a stage person. Well, we should plan something
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  Speaker 1: in the new year. We should plan something. We can
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  Speaker 1: all sit there and sing along and you can get
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  Speaker 1: up to want invite all the naughties. Okay, let's get
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  Speaker 1: to this pole dot. Brittany Spiers reached out to her
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  Speaker 1: a strange mommy, Lynspias, and said, let's have coffee. Now
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  Speaker 1: an olive branch? Percent said Shade. And the reason I
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  Speaker 1: our nicest Yes well. Hugh Jackman says therapy is helping
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  Speaker 1: Grace McNeil, leaving when he was just eight years old.
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  Speaker 1: He says, I just started it recently. It helped me
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  Speaker 1: removed from your world can really be helpful. Most importantly
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  Speaker 1: I went to therapy for the exact same reason, childhood
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  Speaker 1: trauma unresolved, and it was the best decision of my life.
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  Speaker 1: a hundred dollars to Oprah isn't very much. And she
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  Speaker 1: it's very tricky, isn't it When people ask you what
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  Speaker 1: don't know people's money. It's something we never talk about.
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  Speaker 1: But watch Oprah's reaction when this person. It's so funny,
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