Latest / Live! with Fefe and Freddy / Hot with Clothes on, Rollback Healthcare, Current Events & More | S14 E8

Transcript

Hot with Clothes on, Rollback Healthcare, Current Events & More | S14 E8 · Live! with Fefe and Freddy

• 0:29
  Hey. Good evening, good evening, good
• 0:32
  evening. Welcome to live with Fifi and
• 0:36
  Freddy I'm. Yet another when it is day
• 0:42
  night. Yes, indeed.
• 0:48
  Welcome to your Wednesday night conversation.
• 0:51
  I am Felicia Fifi minor and over there looking like the guy from
• 0:59
  Savage Garden is. It's the hair.
• 1:04
  It's very like either like 90s. Do you remember like like in
• 1:08
  those videos, he would just be so you'd be like, oh, he must
• 1:14
  just really be that. I feel like, I feel like it's
• 1:18
  the hair. It's like it's got the like the
• 1:20
  90s like floppy hair or it's kind of anime.
• 1:23
  So it's a little bit, you know, a little bit from column A,
• 1:26
  little bit from column B. Some sort and I just realized
• 1:32
  the P mask is in my you know I when I start to get ready I just
• 1:45
  kind of push the mic over here 'cause I get ready in here now
• 1:49
  and so I just pulled it over and then just sat down and was like
• 1:54
  OK, let's go so. That's why I'm actually really
• 1:57
  glad that I can get ready like at my vanity 'cause I just, I
• 2:00
  have my routine down. I have like and I don't have to.
• 2:02
  But then the problem is that I have to bring everything out
• 2:04
  here and like tonight I was running a little bit behind
• 2:07
  schedule and I don't know why I was running behind schedule, but
• 2:10
  I was. Is Mercury in retrograde or
• 2:13
  something? It's.
• 2:14
  Somebody let me know. I don't know.
• 2:17
  It there's a lot of weird things happening and.
• 2:19
  I I feel like that's probably a thing, but yeah, I was like, I
• 2:24
  don't understand why I'm running so far behind.
• 2:27
  I don't know. I don't, I don't know but.
• 2:29
  Can I blame the holiday season? Yes, I think that's fair.
• 2:38
  Yeah, yeah, the holiday season fucks everything up.
• 2:40
  Everything. Happy and jolly and stressful.
• 2:44
  Welcome. Oh yes.
• 2:48
  Yes, yes, yes, yes. We have a show packed for you.
• 2:51
  Tonight. We're gonna talk about being hot
• 2:54
  with our clothes on. Yes, you heard that right.
• 2:58
  Hot with your clothes on. And not like temperature.
• 3:03
  Yeah, yeah. Like, yeah.
• 3:09
  Or as I hear often high school students say, period.
• 3:17
  Bat. Anyway, we'll also be talking
• 3:22
  about ways that we are feeling less human these days because
• 3:29
  especially on International Human Rights Day, we are rolling
• 3:33
  back human rights. Oh, it's National Human Rights
• 3:37
  Day. That's exciting.
• 3:38
  Not in America. This white man.
• 3:46
  This white man. Well, they're the only ones that
• 3:49
  really matter. I mean, if you're not sis white
• 3:53
  and like middle-aged with. You know, is that what it is?
• 3:57
  Income of you know at least what 200 K plus these days like I
• 4:03
  feel like. 200K is like poverty level for people I.
• 4:07
  Was being generous. So I.
• 4:10
  Was being generous. I need somebody that can make
• 4:15
  500 and more anyway. I just need to either a be
• 4:23
  independently wealthy so I can just retire and the fact that I
• 4:27
  haven't won the lottery yet I feel is extraordinarily
• 4:29
  transphobic, or I just need somebody to pay me to be trans,
• 4:34
  whatever that looks like. I need them to do that.
• 4:36
  Oh, those people already doing that?
• 4:39
  You haven't caught on. I'm, I don't think I'm hot
• 4:45
  enough, like I have to either be ripped, you know what I mean?
• 4:47
  Like so I can do those videos where it's like, oh, you want me
• 4:50
  in the women's restroom and they're flexing and shit.
• 4:53
  I they would just be like OK old hairy white dude with.
• 5:01
  With that being said, what are some of your favorite cold
• 5:06
  weather clothes or accessories that make you feel hot?
• 5:09
  You want me to go first? Enter in the chat.
• 5:18
  I feel like there's one person watching.
• 5:20
  Who are you? We have so many people that
• 5:23
  listen to the podcast. Should we just start making
• 5:26
  these for the podcast? Right.
• 5:30
  Anyway, so I think during the winter I have these fleece lined
• 5:45
  pants and they're like, they're like yoga pants, but they're not
• 5:52
  like they don't have that. Well, I have a butt so I don't
• 5:58
  know what it looks like back there, but you know what I'm
• 6:06
  talking about. Cause all year long I wonder,
• 6:09
  oh, yoga pants and they have it's, it's not and it's enough
• 6:20
  to keep you warm, but not enough to like burn you up.
• 6:26
  I love those. I also have like these Nike pads
• 6:30
  that I got at like off the rack or something.
• 6:33
  I looked them up and I think they're like more than I can
• 6:36
  afford regularly. So I like those two and they're
• 6:40
  red and they show off my back. I will, I will, I will people.
• 6:48
  I will talk about what I feel like when I like what I like.
• 6:52
  Later, later, oh, I also have other things, but those are the
• 6:59
  and I like sweaters and I live with sweater weather.
• 7:04
  So yes, we like to thank our patrons, our supporters, our
• 7:15
  exclusive club. Just kidding.
• 7:19
  Well, kind of, kind of. We like to think Bill, Brandon,
• 7:26
  Cassandra, Chris and Michelle D, Drake, Jensen and Michael, Casey
• 7:31
  Starr, Carrie and Corey, Joan, Laura, Madame Askew and the
• 7:37
  Grand Arbiter, Nicole, Patricia, Mason and Shannon.
• 7:42
  I saw that a couple of people join for free.
• 7:46
  The name that comes off the top of my head is I saw Abigail join
• 7:52
  for free. So welcome.
• 7:54
  Welcome to our Patreon. Once you join, you can never
• 7:59
  leave. It's.
• 8:01
  Like the Hotel California? It we also like to think Marissa
• 8:11
  of wigs of a kind for wigs like these or.
• 8:15
  Not this. This is not a wigs of a kind
• 8:19
  wig. This is something I found
• 8:22
  hanging around in my bedroom and decided to use tonight.
• 8:25
  You had wigs in your bedroom? I mean.
• 8:30
  I don't have wigs. I mean, do you want to talk
• 8:32
  about some of the other stuff I have in my bedroom?
• 8:34
  Because wigs are the least weird.
• 8:36
  I'm just saying like you want to, you want to, if you want to
• 8:40
  talk about, you know, shit in my bedroom, we can talk about the
• 8:43
  shit that's in my bedroom. I.
• 8:44
  Think we can find wigs to be the least like I'm just.
• 8:47
  Saying. I'm good, we already know.
• 8:57
  So yeah. Check out Wigs of a Kind on
• 9:00
  Facebook and Instagrams. She's doing a end of the year
• 9:06
  type deal and her wigs are affordable.
• 9:09
  I know that some people are like this is too good to be true.
• 9:14
  I've been wearing them for more than a decade.
• 9:18
  Most of anything that I wear, If you go, oh, I love that it's
• 9:23
  probably her 'cause I rarely. And my all of my like nicer not
• 9:29
  shitty wigs are marissa's so. Yeah, so every time you
• 9:35
  compliment me, you just know that I did.
• 9:38
  I didn't pay that much for it. Also, there are those people
• 9:48
  that like pay $400.00 and then the costume doesn't.
• 9:53
  But that's that's tea that I'm not ready to serve 'cause
• 9:56
  sometimes I could be put on the the rack to be served depending
• 10:03
  on the day or I just completely forget them.
• 10:06
  How was your weekend? My weekend was actually pretty
• 10:12
  full. Friday was Winterfest at my
• 10:18
  partner's work and, and she works at like a like childcare
• 10:22
  and and and things and it's always super cute, like all the,
• 10:27
  all the classrooms. Day of.
• 10:30
  That. Day 'cause we had Winterfest
• 10:32
  too. Like all the the classrooms like
• 10:36
  decorate like in a different theme or whatever.
• 10:38
  There's different activities for the kids.
• 10:40
  Santa's there they and every time when they go see Santa,
• 10:44
  they get like a book and a toy. It's super cute and it always
• 10:50
  blows my mind because we always end up.
• 10:53
  I think I've gone every year since she started working there
• 10:58
  and we always end up greeting people at the front as soon as
• 11:02
  they come in and direct them. You know, if you want to do
• 11:04
  crafts, crafts this way, Santa's this way, whatever.
• 11:07
  She knows the name of every fucking kid that comes in and
• 11:11
  there are well over 200 children, no?
• 11:16
  Way. She knows every single one of
• 11:18
  them and I'm like I can barely know the fucking names of the
• 11:21
  people that live in my house and there's only like 4 of us. 4 1/2
• 11:26
  like I, I do not under I I don't know how she does it.
• 11:30
  We all know that I am terrible with names.
• 11:32
  I can never remember anybody's name ever.
• 11:35
  And we can come in and she greets every single one of them
• 11:39
  by name and it blows my mind every single time.
• 11:46
  Blows my mind every single time. And I'm like.
• 11:48
  Tell me your secrets, please. How?
• 11:53
  How? How?
• 11:54
  And like 90% of them all look the same 'cause they're toddlers
• 11:57
  and all the fucking toddlers look alike, you know, like
• 12:01
  little mushy gremlins. Like they all kind of look the
• 12:04
  same. I'm like, I don't know how the
• 12:06
  hell she does it. And it's I'm just like I, I
• 12:10
  don't remember most of her coworkers names even though I've
• 12:13
  been introduced to them, right? Like I've seen them regularly
• 12:16
  and I'm like. I feel like she's like, like
• 12:18
  she's one of those people that if she had had twins, she would
• 12:23
  be able to tell them apart right away.
• 12:25
  Probably. She's one of those people.
• 12:29
  Yeah, I would probably have to tattoo one on their forehead
• 12:31
  just to be sure I didn't fuck it up.
• 12:36
  Oh my God. Like I, it I.
• 12:41
  You enjoyed my best. But it was fun.
• 12:43
  It was cute like it's, it's always fun.
• 12:45
  Like the kids are, you know, one, one of them was came up and
• 12:50
  and looked at me and went who's that?
• 12:55
  He's like, like that's my husband.
• 12:57
  They're like, oh, I'm like, I'm sorry, I'm not that.
• 13:02
  Do they notice that you might be the gay friend too?
• 13:06
  Probably. They're probably like, OK, I can
• 13:10
  see. So Saturday was busy, got up and
• 13:14
  basically ran a bunch of errands 'cause I had to run all over the
• 13:16
  place to pick up prizes for Sunday.
• 13:19
  And we made our we made our daughter come with us.
• 13:22
  Does she need to get out of the fucking house and out of her
• 13:24
  fucking bedroom? Oh yeah, I understand that
• 13:28
  story. So we basically didn't give her
• 13:30
  a choice. There's.
• 13:32
  A hovering, sorry. Yeah, to leave your friends at
• 13:38
  the club next time. And we stopped at Shay Cheese
• 13:43
  first, which? I'm like, who are they?
• 13:46
  That was smart because we got cheese and stuff to snack on and
• 13:51
  my daughter loves cheese. Oh my God, it was so good.
• 13:54
  We got I don't even remember what the hell we got.
• 13:57
  There was a gouda that we tried that was really good.
• 14:01
  There was a was it garlic and chive or something?
• 14:05
  It was really good. There was one that was made with
• 14:08
  flowers that was really good. We had some really it was really
• 14:13
  good. Y'all need to go check out,
• 14:14
  check out Shea cheese if you haven't.
• 14:17
  It is at 32nd St. and Shea and in the Shaver hood and it's
• 14:24
  really, really good. Their sandwiches are good.
• 14:26
  Their cheese boards are good. Like they have all sorts of fun
• 14:28
  cheeses. So she was, she was happy that,
• 14:32
  you know, she got cheese. And then I had to drive all the
• 14:36
  way out to the east side 'cause I had to go to Spooky Swirls and
• 14:38
  the Toasted Mallow and. Just tell me.
• 14:46
  The folks at Spooky Squirrels were were super, super nice.
• 14:49
  They always donate stuff for our big Drag Story Hour fundraiser
• 14:58
  in February. They always donate stuff.
• 15:01
  We always end up getting cupcakes from there for the
• 15:03
  fundraiser, like all sorts of stuff.
• 15:05
  So they were super excited to be able to help out with this too.
• 15:12
  And I got some cupcakes and they were really yummy.
• 15:18
  And then over to the Toasted Mallow.
• 15:20
  I didn't get to chat with the owner.
• 15:22
  She's out of town. But for those of you that.
• 15:25
  Don't know that you met those are and didn't say hello.
• 15:29
  I was busy and she was out of town.
• 15:34
  But for those of the folks that don't know, Toasted Mallow is
• 15:37
  queer owned, Hand woman owned, so, you know, and it's out on
• 15:42
  the East side. So if you're in Gilbert, you
• 15:44
  know, go check them out 'cause they're really good, Will.
• 15:46
  Text me and say hello. Oh.
• 15:49
  My God their oatmeal cream pies are like the best.
• 15:55
  I end up getting marshmallow like all over my face.
• 15:58
  It gets stuck in my hair like I get.
• 16:00
  I've heard that before. I literally I'm like I didn't
• 16:03
  even like freaking marshmallow in my mustache for like an hour
• 16:06
  and I'm like y'all didn't want to tell me this cool thank you.
• 16:11
  And then we drove back home, dropped off our daughter and all
• 16:16
  the stuff in the car and then went to go pick up our trees.
• 16:19
  We'd go get a tree. We went to get the tree, brought
• 16:22
  the. Tree.
• 16:22
  You got a live tree? Yeah.
• 16:23
  Yeah, we always get a live tree. Let's get a live tree.
• 16:29
  And then Sunday was the sugar plum showdown, the Bake Off.
• 16:34
  What such I'm? Just kidding.
• 16:38
  I thought it was a cute little event it.
• 16:41
  Was. I, I think people like
• 16:47
  legitimately missed out. Like if they didn't go, like, I
• 16:50
  feel like it could have been a really, really cute event,
• 16:53
  especially since it was 18 and over.
• 16:56
  People are always like, there's nothing out here for people that
• 16:58
  are 18 and over, blah, blah, blah.
• 16:59
  Well, here was an event and yeah, didn't go.
• 17:06
  There's nothing out here for people that don't drink.
• 17:08
  Oh, here's an event that has no alcohol.
• 17:10
  That was good. You should put that recipe on
• 17:13
  there on Patreon. Yes, because I followed an exact
• 17:19
  recipe. Oh, just I don't.
• 17:22
  Know your business? You didn't even tell me, toasted
• 17:24
  Milo. I'm rude down the street.
• 17:32
  But it was, it was cute. It was a fun little event.
• 17:35
  And like the people that were there seemed to have fun.
• 17:39
  We had some yummy little goodies.
• 17:41
  Our judges were awesome. Like I said, it was kind of
• 17:44
  disappointing not to see more folks there just because it is
• 17:46
  literally shit that people have been asking for, you know?
• 17:52
  Oh, there's nothing. Like I said, they people are
• 17:53
  always bitching that there's nothing out here for people that
• 17:56
  are 18 and over. There's nothing out here for
• 17:57
  people that don't really drink. I was a little disappointed to
• 18:04
  not see more court folks there. I know a lot of people were in
• 18:09
  Vegas but there were plenty who weren't, including our other
• 18:15
  line member and our emperor. They were both in town and they
• 18:19
  didn't go to the event. And I will.
• 18:22
  I have no problem saying that on this because it's a thing like
• 18:27
  your your literal job, but you know, whatever.
• 18:32
  Not your literal job. It literally is, you know?
• 18:37
  So. That's it.
• 18:38
  It would have been, it would have been good to have our other
• 18:41
  line number there and you know, our emperor, but that's fine.
• 18:46
  It is what it is. Like I said, I think that it was
• 18:50
  a super fun event and I think that it could have been super
• 18:56
  fun for folks, but. I I thought you all did a
• 18:59
  wonderful job and I may have had more than one of each thing.
• 19:11
  The sick part that you're not including in any of us is there
• 19:16
  was a challenge that was involved and I was not aware
• 19:19
  that this challenge was gonna appear, but it was a Bake Off.
• 19:24
  Anything can happen Twist, plot twist.
• 19:31
  So then Freddy has this grin that he does that, you know,
• 19:37
  he's up to no good. And he's like, so we have one
• 19:39
  more thing and I'm like, uh oh, what is this thing?
• 19:45
  And he wanted us to build a gingerbread house in 6 minutes
• 19:54
  and. We had teams.
• 19:55
  Yeah, we had teams, but there was only two things of frosting
• 20:01
  and not that many pieces of the house and some of the pieces of
• 20:05
  the houses broke off. Look those that was like 2 kits
• 20:11
  and each kit supposedly could make 4 houses.
• 20:13
  So y'all, y'all weren't obviously you guys didn't do it
• 20:18
  right because it it should have been able to make at least.
• 20:21
  Mine was. 4 houses per kit. And ours was one of two standing
• 20:26
  by itself. Pretty much it was.
• 20:31
  And there was like 5 of us. Yeah, I should have.
• 20:34
  Actually, we literally watched the house fall.
• 20:37
  Yeah, it was just like, wow it. Was it went it was standing.
• 20:43
  As soon as it hit the table, it went.
• 20:45
  And then it just skipped. It was fun, though.
• 20:50
  It was pandemonium. It was, it was great.
• 20:53
  And we did end up raising like 200 bucks for dragstory hours.
• 20:55
  So, you know, I'm OK with that. So that was pretty much oh so a
• 21:04
  couple weeks ago I did like my pet.
• 21:06
  Petty peeve that. Of ugly plates.
• 21:09
  Yes, I have another one this week that I need to.
• 21:13
  I need to throw out that. Ugly plate though.
• 21:16
  It's actually ugly plate adjacent but not so these videos
• 21:25
  randomly. Like I get a lot of food videos
• 21:28
  on my feet and this so I sent Felicia one the other night,
• 21:37
  which I thought was fantastic. I I another one of his popped up
• 21:40
  and I'm like, Oh my God, this is amazing.
• 21:41
  This dude's awesome, but. IA peeve.
• 21:47
  No, I cannot stand the people on the social media who
• 21:52
  purposefully make shitty recipes that are never you're not going
• 21:56
  to eat them. What do you mean?
• 21:58
  So like the dude, there's one dude on there who makes like
• 22:02
  gross recipes from like the 50s, like the ones that are like
• 22:05
  gelatin or like aspic and shit. Like he makes that stuff and
• 22:10
  you're never gonna eat it like other casseroles and things that
• 22:14
  you're like you're, you know, you are not going to eat this.
• 22:16
  This is not going to eat be eaten.
• 22:19
  But what pisses me off about it is especially right now, I'm
• 22:24
  like, OK, it's great that you have that much disposable income
• 22:28
  that you can waste that much food, but there are people who
• 22:32
  are literally struggling to feed their family while you're
• 22:34
  wasting 30 to $50.00 worth of food.
• 22:39
  Like I, I cannot stand it. Or the people like the, you
• 22:44
  know, they're like, oh, look, this is the best way to eat such
• 22:46
  and such thing. And they just, they buy it, they
• 22:48
  put on a plate and then they immediately put it in the trash.
• 22:49
  And I'm like, why are you wasting food?
• 22:57
  OK, that's like my biggest thing.
• 23:00
  Like I always wonder, as much as I love baking shows, I know that
• 23:07
  there's only three three judges and there's like 6 cakes.
• 23:13
  They all eat it. It all gets it all gets no, it
• 23:17
  all gets like shared and the crew, I guess get to eat it and
• 23:20
  and all those things like I hope.
• 23:22
  So yeah. But like this shit, like it, it
• 23:26
  pisses me off. I'm like, you just wasted like
• 23:31
  broth and protein and all of like vegetables and things.
• 23:35
  Like you just wasted all of this because you insisted on making
• 23:40
  this recipe that you know is going to be inedible.
• 23:43
  Like, and that's the whole shtick is that you're making
• 23:45
  these disgusting recipes. Well, that's probably how he's
• 23:49
  making us money. Right by wasting food, which
• 23:54
  drives me bat shit crazy, especially right now, especially
• 23:57
  with people struggling like, you know, and I'm like the, the
• 24:03
  amount of privilege that goes into this shit and I'm like
• 24:08
  super cute, great. I no, I'm like, I, I can't, I
• 24:16
  can't support it. I can't.
• 24:19
  Like it is not OK to do this shit right now and like,
• 24:26
  alright, you want to do stuff for entertainment, do something
• 24:29
  that doesn't waste something that people are struggling to
• 24:33
  have right now. Like that shit just it's gross.
• 24:37
  It is gross and it reeks of privilege and I hate it.
• 24:40
  And it's almost always white people.
• 24:46
  Well, I'll tell you, my mom would probably get on the plane
• 24:48
  to whip my butt if she saw me throwing food in the trash on
• 24:53
  purpose. Right, like you're gonna.
• 24:57
  You're literally. Squeak and I'm looking at this
• 24:59
  and I'm like, it doesn't seem like a lot, but it starts adding
• 25:02
  up like 30 bucks barely gets you like a basket of groceries now.
• 25:07
  So it's like I see what's going, the ingredients that are going
• 25:10
  into these things and I'm like that's easy.
• 25:11
  Third, easily 30 to $50.00 worth of food that you're wasting.
• 25:17
  Like, I don't know, it's just AI don't know.
• 25:21
  I, I think it's gross and privileged and people need to, I
• 25:26
  don't know, I don't like. It I think it's gross.
• 25:29
  How was your weekend? I haven't thrown any food away
• 25:34
  so that's good. So we had winter fest at our.
• 25:41
  I'm sure it's not as big as y'all's school or daycare but
• 25:51
  the kids had fun. People were selling baked goods.
• 25:56
  A little disappointed in like the food and beverage but I'm
• 26:03
  OK. I didn't have to pay to get in
• 26:06
  or anything so that's fine. But the kids had the most fun
• 26:15
  because they brought this. It's not snow.
• 26:19
  But I know I can't get these things without money.
• 26:27
  And I'm sure the parents would not want to spend more money
• 26:30
  'cause they already charge you for everything.
• 26:34
  But anyhow, it was like soap. I think it's soap or some kind
• 26:40
  of formula that it makes it look like snow is.
• 26:43
  Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's the same thing they do with
• 26:45
  like the zoo and and. Yeah.
• 26:47
  Yeah, it's basically unsaved snow.
• 26:50
  Yeah, and so Lily got it pretty much all over her being and
• 27:00
  yeah, couldn't leave there until they turned it off 'cause that's
• 27:05
  the interaction. Sometimes parenting is great,
• 27:12
  but sometimes parenting is hard because you're like, we got to
• 27:17
  go now. So then I'm like trying to find
• 27:20
  somebody. Can you turn that off?
• 27:22
  Turn that off so I can leave without having to fight a child.
• 27:27
  Oh my God, yeah, no, that. I'm glad we don't have to deal
• 27:30
  with that shit. Oh my, no.
• 27:32
  Well, your kids are older and they can drive themselves.
• 27:37
  You're like, you don't want to leave, that's fine.
• 27:38
  You can either Uber or drive yourself home, I don't care.
• 27:40
  Yeah. At this point, it's it's we live
• 27:44
  close enough so you want to walk home, but I feel like the older
• 27:49
  one would do something like, no, I'll just go stay at somebody's
• 27:52
  house and I'll be like, no. And then I don't remember what
• 28:02
  we did on Saturday. Fart, fart anyway.
• 28:09
  And then I thought Sunday was very fun.
• 28:15
  Wore one of my favorite dresses 'cause it looks like a sweater,
• 28:19
  but it's not a sweater. And then I loved getting to talk
• 28:27
  to folks who are the two gentlemen.
• 28:31
  Now I'm not remembering names. I spoke to OH.
• 28:38
  They made the blondies. Did they make the blondies?
• 28:40
  Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 28:41
  They're the, they're the my pool.
• 28:43
  Boys, is that the yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what it is, OK.
• 28:46
  Joshua and fuck. We don't remember names here.
• 28:52
  Josh and Derek. I I barely pronounce them Josh
• 28:56
  and Derek and so yeah, just great talking to people.
• 29:07
  I will tell you that we had a so we got a lift home.
• 29:16
  Me and a friend of ours got where?
• 29:23
  The fuck did the balloons? Come from.
• 29:33
  Where did that? What?
• 29:54
  We got a lift home. Was that what I said?
• 29:57
  And then all the sudden the balloons came up.
• 29:59
  I. Don't know what you must have
• 30:02
  done something that made them. I didn't do anything,
• 30:17
  so when we got the lift, the lift driver was very
• 30:25
  interesting. Oh.
• 30:29
  So to speak that Amber is great at redirecting.
• 30:35
  Let's say that 'cause he started talking about childhood traumas.
• 30:41
  Oh dear God, what the hell. Right off the bat.
• 30:46
  OK. Then we were both looking at
• 30:50
  each other like what the fuck is happening?
• 30:56
  No way. And so then he was talking about
• 31:06
  how his parents were wrong and they should have never had kids
• 31:10
  and Jesus Christ. It.
• 31:13
  It went on to something that I had never imagined discussing
• 31:19
  with an Uber driver that I was like.
• 31:21
  Why? Why?
• 31:23
  Why? So I just have words of wisdom
• 31:29
  for Uber and Lyft drivers. We don't deserve your whole
• 31:34
  story. Don't trauma dump on your
• 31:37
  passengers. The fuck?
• 31:41
  It was so interesting. And she's so positive that she
• 31:46
  was like, yeah. And but I was like, Oh, my God.
• 31:52
  And we had split it. So then she gets out of the car
• 31:55
  and I have to, like, ride the rest of the way.
• 31:58
  And he continues. Poor guy.
• 32:03
  I did encourage therapy, though. We are not a product of our
• 32:08
  traumas, but we can learn from them to be better people.
• 32:13
  That is how I feel after that. Yeah.
• 32:18
  And now I need my certificate in therapy.
• 32:22
  Did I earn it? Yeah.
• 32:23
  I spent like 45 minutes in a car being a therapist.
• 32:28
  It's wonderful. God, another skill.
• 32:36
  Oh God. So yeah, it's just been and the
• 32:42
  week has been just oddly weird in general.
• 32:47
  I don't know if you've felt that way, but.
• 32:49
  Yeah, no, I it has been and I think it's, I think it's because
• 32:55
  we're on that like slope into the holidays and people are
• 33:01
  stressing about. Money.
• 33:05
  Money and gifts and all this shit that comes along with all
• 33:10
  of the shit. So yeah, that doesn't.
• 33:14
  And I feel like everybody's trying to get everything done by
• 33:16
  the holidays and. Oh, 100%.
• 33:20
  I'm like, oh, but I have AI have a case study open and I, I can't
• 33:26
  like I, I can't really rush it. So could you do that?
• 33:30
  No, there's no such thing as can you hurry up and do it?
• 33:34
  No, sorry, no, durations don't end because you ended right.
• 33:43
  That's not that's not how that works.
• 33:46
  This is this is like the the so fucking Co workers.
• 33:53
  So we were before Thanksgiving, like at our morning meetings and
• 34:00
  stuff, which thank God or not on camera, but like people are
• 34:04
  talking about like, you know, what kind of pies do people
• 34:06
  make? Whatever, blah, blah, blah.
• 34:08
  You put it in the chat and I put it in my Maple bourbon pumpkin
• 34:12
  pie. And one of my Co workers was
• 34:15
  like, oh, you should send me the recipe.
• 34:17
  I'd love to make this for Thanksgiving.
• 34:18
  And I'm like, uh huh, sure, whatever.
• 34:20
  This is the dude that I can't stand by the way.
• 34:21
  I don't like him at all. How does?
• 34:24
  He stand. This I don't know.
• 34:26
  Every once in awhile he tries to move to a different department.
• 34:29
  But. They don't like him or he
• 34:31
  decides that it was much easier over with us.
• 34:34
  So he comes back. I'm like, why do you keep
• 34:36
  letting him back? But I was busy and I never had a
• 34:40
  chance to type out because the the fucking it's a long.
• 34:44
  It's like it's not a short, you know, throw some pumpkin in a
• 34:47
  pie thing like it's a, it's a process, right?
• 34:51
  So. Try to type like.
• 34:54
  Typing out the fucking recipe is not something that I can do in
• 34:58
  like 2 minutes. It's it's a process.
• 35:00
  So I never got around to it before Thanksgiving.
• 35:03
  And he was like, you never sent this to me.
• 35:04
  And I'm like, sorry, I was fucking busy.
• 35:05
  Fuck off. Like I don't know what to tell
• 35:07
  you. He's like, well maybe I can make
• 35:09
  it for Christmas. And I'm like, Oh my God.
• 35:11
  So the other day I finally had a a minute.
• 35:13
  So I decided to go ahead and just type out the fucking recipe
• 35:15
  and I sent. It to him.
• 35:17
  He in in because in in the DM, like right before I sent him the
• 35:23
  recipe, he replied to his earlier comment, well, maybe I
• 35:28
  can make this for Christmas. And he said and replied to it
• 35:31
  and it was like, well, maybe. And I was like, really
• 35:34
  motherfucker. And that was right as I was
• 35:36
  sending him the. Recipe and I.
• 35:41
  I should because motherfucker never even said thank you.
• 35:43
  Never nothing. And I was like, you know what?
• 35:45
  Fuck you. Never the fuck again.
• 35:48
  And if I ever do it like again and like somebody's like send me
• 35:51
  the recipe. I'm going to be like, no, you
• 35:53
  didn't thank me for the last one.
• 35:54
  I sent you so fuck you. You don't get my recipes.
• 35:59
  I hate this guy so much. I I like I'm like, no, you're a
• 36:02
  Jackass. I don't ever do.
• 36:03
  This go back to the slack message and delete it it.
• 36:06
  Should it's on teams? Oh, I'll.
• 36:10
  I know, stupid slack is annoying.
• 36:15
  Who is I? Don't like any of it, it's all
• 36:18
  annoying. But it means I don't have to
• 36:22
  actually. Like it means I don't have to
• 36:23
  interact with people so it works for me.
• 36:26
  Let's talk about less annoying things, OK?
• 36:44
  OK, so for my tip tonight I want to talk about like feeling hot
• 36:51
  with your clothes on. You know winter cold weather is
• 36:56
  all about layering, and depending on where you're at and
• 37:00
  how many layers you're wearing, sometimes you can feel more like
• 37:03
  an overstuffed pillow than. I'm sexy.
• 37:08
  You were gross and you like, you add on to that like the general
• 37:15
  sort of overeating that tends to happen around the holidays and
• 37:18
  sometimes your self esteem and body image can really take a
• 37:20
  beating. And of course then you throw on
• 37:24
  top of that body dysmorphia, dysphoria, and all the other
• 37:27
  things that can can contribute to not feeling awesome about
• 37:30
  yourself physically. Scrolling through Instagram.
• 37:37
  Like I know personally, especially lately, I definitely
• 37:42
  feel hotter with my clothes on these days than off for a
• 37:46
  variety of reasons. So I want to just talk about
• 37:49
  like what makes you feel hot with your clothes on?
• 37:55
  Like accessories or a certain like piece of clothing or type
• 38:02
  of clothing or even like sexy underwear, like our fun
• 38:08
  underwear or something that like you know, you're wearing this
• 38:13
  item of clothing and in this item of clothing you feel sexy.
• 38:21
  So like I actually think I look super cute dressed for colder
• 38:27
  weather. I love me a good like cowl neck
• 38:30
  sweater. So like the big.
• 38:32
  Oh. Like.
• 38:34
  OK, now see 'cause I read this earlier and then I was like what
• 38:38
  the hell is that? And a cowl neck is like.
• 38:40
  The yeah, the the you know the either the you know, it's a
• 38:44
  bigger necks on the on the sweater.
• 38:48
  I love a good cowl neck sweater and since my head now gets cold.
• 38:59
  Like driver's caps with like the flat caps.
• 39:03
  I like using those as accessories if I can match them
• 39:07
  like color coordinate with my outfit.
• 39:10
  And those are not the same as the people that ruined America.
• 39:17
  They're different, right? People that ruined America.
• 39:22
  Red hats. Oh, no, no, no, not a baseball
• 39:25
  cap. The Yeah.
• 39:28
  No, no, no, no. I mean, I will wear baseball
• 39:31
  caps, but no, these are, these are like the driver's caps or
• 39:34
  the flat caps. They're like it's into your
• 39:37
  head. They're they're, you know,
• 39:39
  Boston's galley company. Yeah.
• 39:42
  They're, that's why they're, they're called like driver's
• 39:43
  caps. And I also love a nice coat.
• 39:51
  I have a couple nice coats like a like a pea coat or like a
• 39:54
  longer coat double breasted. It's too warm here.
• 40:02
  I've never seen you wear. I know I never see me that
• 40:06
  layered up. Maybe a sweater, maybe if it
• 40:09
  gets really chilly or I'm out later and I'm not in drags.
• 40:14
  I don't want to get makeup all over my shit.
• 40:18
  Maybe. I am no Brandon McGill, but I do
• 40:22
  like to add a scarf if I'm somewhere to like.
• 40:24
  It was fun being in San Francisco last January because I
• 40:29
  got. To wear.
• 40:30
  I got to wear all my layers. I got to wear my coats and my
• 40:33
  sweaters and scarves and hats and gloves and all the things.
• 40:37
  And I had my beard still on purpose because I wanna make
• 40:41
  sure my face stayed warm. So like that, that for me is
• 40:48
  like I, like I said, I think I look cute dressed in for colder
• 40:51
  weather. Like it's fine and like shorts
• 40:55
  and T-shirts and things, but I, I always like the way I look and
• 41:01
  the way that I feel when I am dressed for colder weather.
• 41:07
  Like when I'm, when I'm more dressy as opposed to just like
• 41:13
  casual. Like I can like casual is like
• 41:16
  fine if I'm just wearing like a long sleeve T-shirt or whatever,
• 41:18
  but the more sort of dressy, little more stylish like I think
• 41:22
  I would. Like yes, so I described mine
• 41:29
  earlier. But you did, yes.
• 41:31
  But I've I've run kind of hot and I have the weirdest time
• 41:40
  being. Oh.
• 41:43
  Is it this? It's this.
• 41:47
  No, I'm not. Doing this for when we were
• 41:57
  talking about the lift. I think you were 'cause you have
• 42:00
  a tendency to do this anyway, I you, you, you gesture like this
• 42:03
  a lot. So I think that that is what.
• 42:07
  My fingers finally came apart. And you paused for just long
• 42:11
  enough for it to pick it up. And.
• 42:16
  This is even worse. I'm dressed as the Grinch.
• 42:18
  Hey you. Got balloons.
• 42:21
  It's been giving you thumbs up like you sit there like this and
• 42:25
  it sees your thumb and you're not even like necessarily out
• 42:28
  like this, but you've been sitting like you.
• 42:29
  You sit like this sometimes even if I'm just sort of and it'll
• 42:32
  see it just enough. It's been popping up thumbs up
• 42:35
  all night too. Random thumbs up, friend.
• 42:37
  Oh. My God.
• 42:43
  No, I am not on a Mac so it doesn't do that for me folks.
• 42:47
  That's why Felicia is the only one with the weird.
• 42:50
  AI is going to rule the world, they say.
• 42:52
  And. I'm like mine, mine doesn't do
• 42:56
  mine doesn't do that. So I don't, I don't have fun
• 43:00
  balloons and shit and. I I love that the.
• 43:08
  Person that pops up. Is like the, is like the the red
• 43:11
  1 is like the like when the red one comes up first 'cause it's
• 43:14
  it's very Pennywise, it's very it.
• 43:22
  We're having a party over here, no one's invited.
• 43:27
  But when like I, I know a lot of people will like enjoy wearing
• 43:35
  like fun underwear, even lingerie underneath their
• 43:38
  layers, things that you know, which and not necessarily in
• 43:43
  sort of the kinky way because folks will do that as well.
• 43:47
  But more in the like, I feel good in, you know, this lingerie
• 43:54
  piece or I feel really good in these like fun little underwear
• 43:59
  or whatever. So they'll wear that like
• 44:02
  underneath all their stuff, 'cause they know that they may
• 44:05
  not and nobody else may know, but they know and it's enough to
• 44:08
  give them that self-confidence. What I was gonna say is socks.
• 44:14
  Socks. Socks.
• 44:15
  Socks. I don't.
• 44:17
  I don't own any socks. Shot.
• 44:21
  Oh yeah, it became a topic at the friends giving of how much
• 44:27
  socks and I was like, I don't hey, ease up.
• 44:29
  I have like 300 pairs of socks too.
• 44:32
  I don't. I don't own any socks and you
• 44:34
  know those of you. That if you're judging me, go
• 44:38
  ahead, buy me socks and send them to me.
• 44:40
  I don't like just any socks though.
• 44:44
  They have to be like funny, decorative.
• 44:51
  Don't. I don't want plain socks.
• 44:52
  Like my socks. I think somebody misunderstood
• 44:56
  me one time and gave me dress socks and I was like, why'd you
• 45:00
  give me dress? I will, you love.
• 45:02
  Socks. And I was like.
• 45:03
  And I love doing that where like if I have to wear something
• 45:06
  that's like business casual, I will wear business casual and
• 45:09
  then throw on a pair of my fun socks like my Mr. Potato Head or
• 45:12
  something just because like, why the fuck why?
• 45:16
  Not. And if you're looking at my
• 45:18
  socks. Whoa.
• 45:20
  I actually, I, I, I think it's hysterical when I'm, I am
• 45:24
  wearing fun socks and I'm in more like a, you know, like if
• 45:27
  I'm doing a conference or something or whatever and
• 45:29
  someone notices like if I'm sitting with my legs crossed or
• 45:32
  something up on a, up on a chair and that, you know, my sock is
• 45:35
  visible and they're like, Oh my God, you're wearing like Peter
• 45:38
  Pan socks. And I'm like, yes, I.
• 45:41
  Am you're right? Yes, I am.
• 45:43
  You're welcome. Get it?
• 45:45
  You're welcome. I also a couple years back
• 45:52
  discover like men's lingerie that is the ticket cause some of
• 46:00
  them can be warm. But what I was going to say
• 46:05
  before I was interrupted, it doesn't do it with this hand.
• 46:09
  Oh OK. Anyway, was that I have a
• 46:14
  problem with people running the heat and so like I easily get
• 46:20
  more and so like I'll find like the they have some sweaters, but
• 46:30
  it's usually like a a cotton knit that has, you know, just
• 46:34
  enough to be comfortable and then the sleeves are all like
• 46:38
  transparent or sheer. Those saved my life because like
• 46:46
  my husband runs the heat at like 80 in the car.
• 46:49
  Oh Jesus, no. No, no, no, no.
• 46:51
  Oh. My God, I know we missed
• 46:53
  something but. I like, I don't like being too
• 46:58
  warm either. Like in the car if I get in and
• 47:00
  it's like if it's chilly when I first get in, especially like at
• 47:04
  night, I will, I may put the heater on slightly and may put
• 47:10
  like what I'll do is I'll get myself warm.
• 47:11
  So I'll put like my, my 'cause my steering wheel heats up and
• 47:14
  my seat heats up. So I'll like turn the heater on
• 47:18
  and say maybe 5 minutes and then I'm like, OK, everything's off
• 47:22
  in our bedroom at night, gets a little bit chilly.
• 47:25
  So like while we're showering, we have a little space heater.
• 47:28
  So we'll turn the space heater on for just a few minutes to get
• 47:30
  it warm and then it goes off and then the fans go on because it's
• 47:36
  fucking hot. I can't do it.
• 47:38
  I can't do it. It gets, you know, Meanwhile,
• 47:40
  my, my partner though, has no problem.
• 47:42
  Like if she could sit in a heater 24/7, Oh my God, Her side
• 47:45
  of the car, because it can be independently controlled.
• 47:49
  Her side of the car is like cranked all the way up.
• 47:51
  And like the other night I had to switch places 'cause I was
• 47:54
  trying to do something and she was driving home and I sat and
• 47:57
  I'm like, yeah, like it is hot over here.
• 48:01
  This is gross. We have independent but it still
• 48:07
  gets. I don't know how to describe it.
• 48:09
  I can still feel the warmth from.
• 48:11
  No, I get it. If it's if it's too warm, it's
• 48:13
  like so about like men's lingerie.
• 48:19
  It's the only time and it's not necessarily for me, it's not
• 48:23
  necessarily dysphoria. It's an aesthetic thing, but
• 48:28
  it's the only time that I don't like not having a penis because
• 48:38
  men's, most men's underwear and men's lingerie and stuff like
• 48:42
  that, they're designed with like a pouch and I don't like not
• 48:49
  being able to fill out the pouch unless I'm packing and I don't
• 48:55
  pack all the time. They don't want to pack.
• 48:57
  But that's the only thing that bugs me is that I is and it's
• 49:02
  purely for aesthetics because when it's if you're wearing
• 49:07
  depending on the pouch, a lot of times you're wearing men's
• 49:09
  underwear and you don't fill out that pouch.
• 49:11
  It just looks. I wonder if brands like Tomboy
• 49:17
  or what's the other one? There's a few different brands
• 49:23
  out there, but they don't really have like.
• 49:25
  They don't have something that's kind of like meet you in the
• 49:29
  middle. I mean they.
• 49:30
  Literally and figuratively. Kind of, but nothing that like
• 49:34
  I'm like, oh, those are really cute.
• 49:36
  They're just like, it's not like like it nothing has like you
• 49:41
  know how like like Andrew Christian has like super fun
• 49:43
  like prints and and things. A lot of other places have like
• 49:46
  super fun prints. They almost all have some sort
• 49:49
  of pouch and the other like for some reason the companies that
• 49:58
  like are designed for, you know, trans folks or gender non
• 50:03
  conforming or whatever. Like they'll have like gender
• 50:05
  neutral undies, but nothing that's like super, super cute or
• 50:10
  like, you know what I mean? So it's just like.
• 50:12
  Oh. Yeah, nothing that I would be
• 50:14
  like, oh, I'm gonna feel, you know, I'm gonna feel cute in
• 50:17
  these. It's like they're, they're more
• 50:19
  functional than cute. You know what I mean to.
• 50:22
  Design your own underwear. I could, but then I would have
• 50:25
  to either find somebody to make them or something that's a pain
• 50:29
  in my ass. It's a lot of effort.
• 50:37
  I hear what you're saying, 'cause I have a sewing machine
• 50:40
  in here. Do I use it?
• 50:43
  No. I need one of the kids.
• 50:47
  I I need the kids to move out of the house because we.
• 50:50
  We are you gonna make one of them in into a crafter?
• 50:55
  Yes, this will be like this will be almost exclusively like drag
• 50:59
  and like the costumes and then being able to work on crafts
• 51:02
  will be in that room. But I need if the I think the
• 51:07
  boys are the closest, if I can get the oldest to just admit
• 51:11
  that he is living with his girlfriend and then his brother
• 51:14
  will be moving out and living on campus.
• 51:17
  He breaks up with. Not my problem, he's a big boy.
• 51:23
  And then the the his brother will be moving out and living on
• 51:26
  campus next year. So if I can get that to happen,
• 51:31
  less than that, less than that. I like 6 months.
• 51:37
  Six months, if that. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 51:38
  So I need that to happen. And then we can repurpose that
• 51:41
  room into like a craft room. Like we can move like the
• 51:46
  cricket and stuff in there. So it's easier to deal with.
• 51:51
  You know, all of that stuff can be in here.
• 51:52
  And then we can just use this space for like, the actual
• 51:55
  costumes and props and stuff and not have to worry about trying
• 51:58
  to organize so that we can use stuff.
• 52:00
  Well, not not lately, but yeah, so that's, that's I just need
• 52:07
  the kids to move out so I can do that.
• 52:08
  And then maybe I can learn how to make my own underwear.
• 52:12
  So you have 6 months. Six months, hopefully, anyway.
• 52:19
  What's happening in the world of news?
• 52:40
  In the world of news, we have a lot of what the fuck going on.
• 52:49
  I feel like sometimes I'm not sure what the actual fuck.
• 52:57
  And I still have notes still saved on my phone, so bear with
• 53:02
  me. So I actually want to say to
• 53:08
  AT&T, what the fuck? Because AT&T says it will end
• 53:15
  its DEI programs in a bid to please the FCC and the dump
• 53:21
  truck administration. And so if if everybody's got
• 53:25
  AT&T, time to jump ship, Although I don't know at at this
• 53:31
  point, it's all just shit. Like there's no.
• 53:35
  Like everybody, like I'll say I'm doing something and somebody
• 53:40
  was like, well, you need to boycott that.
• 53:42
  And I'm like, you know what? I think that no matter where I
• 53:47
  go, I'm going to run into something I'm going to run into.
• 53:51
  It's like. It's, it's the whole, there's no
• 53:53
  like ethics in, there's no consumerism because it's like
• 53:58
  everything is shit. So it's like, yes, I mean, and
• 54:04
  some things are easier to boycott than others.
• 54:05
  Some things are easier to, you know what I mean?
• 54:07
  It's like, and sometimes it's like, if this thing over here,
• 54:14
  like, I don't know, it's, it's there's, it's tricky because you
• 54:18
  can't, you literally, otherwise we're literally just gonna end
• 54:20
  up boycotting everything and you literally cannot boycott
• 54:23
  everything. Yeah, and I'm like, don't go to
• 54:26
  the store. And how do I get things shipped
• 54:30
  to my house? Right.
• 54:32
  Like it's literally not, damn it.
• 54:34
  It's literally not feasible, you know?
• 54:37
  So it's like do what you can avoid, you know, the, the big
• 54:43
  issues like the big companies that are problematic as much as
• 54:46
  you can, you know, and. I'm like, Oh my gosh, they are
• 54:51
  at it again. Still no response to Costco, by
• 54:56
  the way. But you know that will never
• 55:02
  ever happen on time because who the fuck cares?
• 55:12
  What else did I see? So in politics, is this the same
• 55:28
  the Democrats are moving to? I think are they?
• 55:33
  Have they officially done it or are they still talking about it?
• 55:37
  No, they formally filed. I was sorry I was waiting for
• 55:40
  the Internet to load. House Democrats formally have
• 55:49
  filed articles of impeachment against RFK Junior and the guy
• 55:57
  that keeps sending signal messages about her defense.
• 56:06
  So. Think about that.
• 56:12
  I mean, fine, great, whatever. But the the problem with
• 56:15
  impeachment is it doesn't do anything.
• 56:18
  It doesn't remove them right? No, it doesn't do shit.
• 56:21
  Trump was impeached. Clinton was.
• 56:25
  Impeached. They have to be removed, but it
• 56:29
  just means that it's like a, it's like a oh, you have a
• 56:31
  strike against your name, but it doesn't do anything.
• 56:33
  It doesn't. It doesn't preclude you from
• 56:36
  from holding office, obviously. Yeah, you could be if that were
• 56:41
  the case. Clinton would have been.
• 56:43
  Like Clinton would have been ousted, you know, Trump never
• 56:47
  would have been allowed to to run again like there like it
• 56:50
  wouldn't. So impeachment, I'm like of.
• 56:54
  Cancel culture. This is the weirdest.
• 56:57
  And impeachment is the dumbest shit.
• 57:01
  Like I, I, I don't know what, honestly, I honestly do not know
• 57:06
  what purpose it serves because it doesn't do anything.
• 57:09
  It does nothing. It doesn't stop you from holding
• 57:11
  office. It doesn't remove you from your
• 57:13
  position. All it does is go, oh, you were
• 57:16
  impeached, Niner, niner niner. It's like, OK, but who the fuck
• 57:19
  cares? It does nothing.
• 57:22
  It does nothing. Like if, if being impeached
• 57:26
  meant that you were removed from office and you're not allowed to
• 57:30
  hold office again, then I'd be all for it.
• 57:32
  But it doesn't do that. It doesn't do Jack shit,
• 57:36
  honestly. So when people are like, oh,
• 57:38
  they're going to impeach Trump, I'm like, who the fuck cares?
• 57:39
  He's already been impeached. Nick, go ahead and try to file.
• 57:46
  Impeach. What did they do to Nixon?
• 57:50
  Nixon. He was impeached, Yeah, but he
• 57:55
  wasn't out then, no. He, Nixon, ended up removing
• 58:02
  himself because of all the shit that was going to come out.
• 58:04
  So he was like, Nope, I'm out. Oh, so he had to remove himself?
• 58:10
  Well, he didn't necessarily have to, I don't think, but he.
• 58:13
  Took it upon himself not to be an ounce and make us suffer
• 58:17
  through all of it, or suffer it through all of it himself.
• 58:22
  So the impeachment process against Richard Nixon was
• 58:27
  initiated by the United States House of Representatives on
• 58:30
  October 30th, 1973 during the course of the Watergate scandal.
• 58:38
  It was they were introduced immediately following the series
• 58:41
  of high level resignations. And it was like as soon as they
• 58:46
  began like an official investigation of the president's
• 58:49
  role in Watergate. That was basically when he was
• 58:54
  like, let me go ahead and. Let me go ahead and exit out
• 58:59
  right here real quick. You don't need to say all that
• 59:01
  stuff out loud. Let me just like.
• 59:04
  He refused to comply with a subpoena from the prosecutor.
• 59:08
  Like there were a lot of shit like.
• 59:10
  That sounds familiar. Yeah.
• 59:17
  So we would have to find something very, very, very
• 59:20
  dirty, like the obscene files. But even then the impeachment it
• 59:24
  like even if it won't do anything, he would have to be
• 59:28
  removed but. So there's nothing that there's
• 59:33
  not that I'm speaking anarchy, but there's nothing that removes
• 59:39
  the president when the president has done wrong.
• 59:42
  Let. Me.
• 59:44
  See you go on. I'm going to.
• 59:46
  Google real quick. That is the weird.
• 59:49
  OK, whoa, gross. So if he just did whatever he
• 59:57
  wanted, who cares, right? Anyway, some shining star
• 1:00:04
  moments. There was a whole bunch of
• 1:00:11
  things that were nominated for Golden Globes.
• 1:00:17
  Oh, here we go. First time actors like Michael B
• 1:00:22
  Jordan and there was another name but I didn't type it in
• 1:00:29
  here. But also the movie Sinners and
• 1:00:32
  some nominees for Wicked including Cynthia Erivo who has
• 1:00:43
  been nominated. This will be her second time I
• 1:00:45
  think. I think so.
• 1:00:50
  Give her the award. Just stop nominating great
• 1:00:57
  actresses and actors and then not giving them awards for like
• 1:01:03
  40 years. What does it say?
• 1:01:08
  So in the Constitution, Article 2, Section 4, the President,
• 1:01:17
  Vice President and all civil officers of the United States
• 1:01:19
  shall be removed from Office on Impeachment 4 and Conviction of
• 1:01:24
  treason, bribery or other high crimes and misdemeanors.
• 1:01:29
  The Constitution gives Congress the authority to impeach and
• 1:01:31
  remove the President, Vice President, all federal civil
• 1:01:33
  officers for treason, bribery for other high crimes and
• 1:01:36
  misdemeanors as tools inherited from English practice in which
• 1:01:39
  Parliament impeached and convicted ministers and
• 1:01:41
  favourites of the Crown in a struggle to rein in the Crown's
• 1:01:43
  power so. So he could be impeached for the
• 1:01:47
  crimes he's already committed. I don't think so.
• 1:01:50
  I think it has to be crimes committed while in office.
• 1:01:57
  But that's why like, like you like like Clinton was impeached
• 1:02:05
  but didn't really. Wasn't found guilt.
• 1:02:10
  He wasn't found, He wasn't convicted of treason, bribery or
• 1:02:13
  other high crimes and misdemeanors.
• 1:02:15
  So he wasn't removed. So you have to.
• 1:02:19
  He was. Just being.
• 1:02:21
  I don't know. I mean, the January 6th thing
• 1:02:26
  you'd think would be enough to be able to get him the fuck out,
• 1:02:29
  yeah. Whatever happened to that?
• 1:02:30
  Why did that fade into the darkness?
• 1:02:34
  Look who's in power. All those people that they said
• 1:02:38
  they were going to put in jail or some.
• 1:02:42
  Yeah, well, they did put in jail and that they, they, they were
• 1:02:44
  in jail. They've all been pardoned and a
• 1:02:46
  lot of them subsequently rearrested for other various
• 1:02:49
  crimes. Isn't that funny?
• 1:02:56
  Wow. OK, fuck, fuck, fuck.
• 1:03:01
  Including the great fuck the fuck, fuck, fuck that's
• 1:03:04
  happening here. Let's see.
• 1:03:09
  Illinois Governor Pritzker. Pritzker has signed a law
• 1:03:15
  prohibiting ICE from kidnapping people near courthouses, in
• 1:03:20
  hospitals or on college campuses or in daycare facilities.
• 1:03:24
  Which they were going after heavy.
• 1:03:26
  Yep. They were literally just waiting
• 1:03:29
  outside places. They're just waiting outside
• 1:03:32
  places. I saw a video on social media
• 1:03:35
  that I was like, what? The actual no.
• 1:03:39
  The law goes into effect immediately and provides legal
• 1:03:43
  steps for people whose constitutional rights have
• 1:03:46
  already been violated, including the people that were snatched
• 1:03:54
  off the streets in Chicago that were black people.
• 1:04:03
  Just saying. Dropping your kid off at
• 1:04:05
  daycare, going to the doctor or attending your classes should
• 1:04:09
  not feel life altering or should not be a life altering risk.
• 1:04:14
  Illinois is Illinois, in the face of cruelty and
• 1:04:20
  intimidation, has chosen solidarity and support.
• 1:04:26
  Yeah, 'cause this president. I wish more governors would put
• 1:04:34
  that should be like, no, you can't just hover outside of
• 1:04:37
  places that people have to go to be able to like, like kidnap
• 1:04:41
  them. You can't.
• 1:04:42
  It's bullshit. Jasmine Crockett, Is that her
• 1:04:45
  name? It is.
• 1:04:52
  I know a lot of people were not excited, excited, not excited
• 1:04:56
  excited, but basically she had the heart.
• 1:05:05
  So Jasmine Crockett is the one that basically told the green
• 1:05:12
  lady, not me, the green lady, not to assault her and basically
• 1:05:19
  started a pop culture moment with Butch.
• 1:05:22
  What was it? Butch Beach, Butch Body or
• 1:05:27
  something? Anyhow, she's running for Senate
• 1:05:34
  because she's a state representative at the moment.
• 1:05:38
  And so that would be spicy. That would be.
• 1:05:44
  I'd be here for it. On top of I read earlier that
• 1:05:49
  somebody got elected and knocked out one of the candidates.
• 1:05:59
  I know that Miami has a Democratic mayor for the first
• 1:06:02
  time in 30 years. Female too, right?
• 1:06:07
  I believe so like. Look at be the change you want
• 1:06:17
  to see, folks anyway. So good, so good.
• 1:06:26
  So just when you don't think that you can make a difference,
• 1:06:30
  there's out people get mad. That's how I know that change is
• 1:06:35
  coming when people get mad, right?
• 1:06:40
  Kiss of the Spider Woman is getting a movie makeover.
• 1:06:44
  When does that come out? Did it come out already?
• 1:06:46
  I saw. I don't think so.
• 1:06:48
  I think it's next year. Oh, she's already showing off
• 1:06:52
  about it, I thought. I'm doing premieres and things
• 1:06:57
  with Jennifer Lopez, Diego Luna and breakout star Police I
• 1:07:04
  think. It's Tanatia.
• 1:07:08
  OK, bringing the Broadway musical to the big screen.
• 1:07:14
  So fun fact, I'm I'm mildly excited about this.
• 1:07:20
  We'll see. The 1976 book by Manuel Puig is
• 1:07:25
  actually one of my favorite books ever.
• 1:07:28
  Ever. The 1983 film adaptation of the
• 1:07:33
  book had Raul Julia in it and it was so good, so good.
• 1:07:39
  My thing is I I'm not, I'm excited, but I am very sketchy
• 1:07:50
  about Jennifer Lopez sometimes 'cause sometimes she does good
• 1:07:54
  and then sometimes. I know I'm hoping so.
• 1:08:00
  And it has nothing to do with her singing word.
• 1:08:04
  I don't know. I haven't seen, oh, I haven't
• 1:08:07
  seen the stage musical, but. I already compare it to.
• 1:08:13
  I I don't, but I already know that a lot of the book gets
• 1:08:17
  removed because they focus on one.
• 1:08:21
  There's so many things that you can't.
• 1:08:24
  I mean, they actually know there's a lot of things that
• 1:08:26
  they could do, but they just chose not to and they chose to
• 1:08:28
  focus with one thing on one thing, one part of the book.
• 1:08:32
  So if you're if you're not familiar with with with the
• 1:08:35
  book, it takes place during it. It's in Argentina and it's two
• 1:08:42
  men in prison. One of them has been arrested
• 1:08:47
  for like basically being a terrorist and the other one has
• 1:08:53
  been arrested for basically being gay.
• 1:08:58
  And they end up in a cell together and the, the prison is
• 1:09:07
  trying to use the gay guy to basically get information from
• 1:09:14
  his cellmate regarding, you know, when are they like, right.
• 1:09:20
  So they're gonna try and, and use them to, to get information
• 1:09:23
  on like the terrorist cell, whatever, blah, blah, blah,
• 1:09:25
  people that are involved, yada, yada.
• 1:09:30
  And it's, it's actually, it's actually a, a kind of a
• 1:09:34
  beautiful love story because they end up, they end up falling
• 1:09:41
  in love, even though the, the, the he's not, I wouldn't, he's
• 1:09:46
  not actually a terrorist. They've labeled him a terrorist.
• 1:09:48
  Valentin he, he's straight, but he becomes attached to Molina
• 1:09:55
  basically. But the way that they pass the
• 1:09:59
  time is Molina recounts different movies, 'cause he
• 1:10:06
  loves going to the movies. That's, that was his things.
• 1:10:08
  He loved going to the movies. And he would basically retell
• 1:10:13
  these movies in great detail to be able to sort of pass the time
• 1:10:20
  and, you know, distract them from all the bullshit and the,
• 1:10:23
  you know, the place that, you know, they're at this
• 1:10:24
  Argentinian prison. And he goes through several
• 1:10:29
  different movies. Like one of them is cat people,
• 1:10:34
  which is it's an old film, it's a black and white film, but
• 1:10:36
  it's, it's a woman that can turn into a cat.
• 1:10:38
  And it's got a long history. Like it's a, it's a good film,
• 1:10:40
  but there's that one, there's a couple other films I'm trying to
• 1:10:45
  remember now. And then there's one in
• 1:10:47
  particular that is like a, a woman who acts like a spy for
• 1:10:51
  the Nazis or against the Nazis or something.
• 1:10:54
  And I think that is the one that they end up focusing on in the
• 1:10:57
  musical because she, like, she works in, she's like a singer in
• 1:11:02
  like a, a, like a, a bar kind of thing where she kind of reels in
• 1:11:07
  like the Nazi officer and, and, you know, is able to get
• 1:11:10
  information that way. And I think that that is the,
• 1:11:16
  that is what they focus on. So I don't know if how they're
• 1:11:23
  like, 'cause it's not a main character.
• 1:11:25
  It's not really a, it's not even a main plot line.
• 1:11:28
  It's a subplot. So if they do it right, Jennifer
• 1:11:31
  Lopez shouldn't even be necessarily a main character.
• 1:11:35
  She's just sort of a subplot, that of a story that gets told
• 1:11:38
  while they're in prison, you know what I mean?
• 1:11:39
  While the. Other No, you watch the I don't
• 1:11:41
  know, you watch the trailer, right?
• 1:11:44
  I haven't. No, I haven't.
• 1:11:45
  No, not. Yet watch the trailer and tell
• 1:11:48
  me if they make it seem like she is the main character.
• 1:11:52
  I hate that. God, I wish they wouldn't do
• 1:11:54
  that. But you know why they do that?
• 1:11:57
  They do it. I know why they do that.
• 1:11:59
  I know I just it it if they do that, if that's what they've
• 1:12:03
  done with the musical, like if that's what they've done for the
• 1:12:05
  with the with the stage play, I would be so mad because that's
• 1:12:08
  not. As a toured we should go see it.
• 1:12:14
  Because that's not what the The thing is about.
• 1:12:17
  Like, it's literally these. It's it's.
• 1:12:19
  So the play would just totally turn this if this is not right.
• 1:12:25
  Yeah, 'cause it's not supposed to be about the woman.
• 1:12:29
  It is about. These two men and their
• 1:12:31
  relationship in prison. The book is written in a very
• 1:12:37
  interesting way I do not get. From.
• 1:12:41
  The the book is so good, The book is so good.
• 1:12:44
  There's no real, like, prose. You know, how a book is written
• 1:12:48
  where it's like, and in the cell, blah, blah, blah, blah,
• 1:12:51
  blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, said this
• 1:12:53
  person. Well, blah, blah, blah, blah,
• 1:12:54
  said this person, blah, blah. You know what I mean?
• 1:12:57
  The book is written. It's purely dialogue.
• 1:12:59
  There's not even any, like, this person says this, this person
• 1:13:04
  says this. So it's literally this, this,
• 1:13:08
  this, this, this all the way down.
• 1:13:10
  But there's no prose to go along with it.
• 1:13:12
  Kind of, yeah. Yeah, but there's who said what.
• 1:13:17
  You don't. You don't have to you you can
• 1:13:19
  tell who says what based on the what's being said.
• 1:13:25
  Oh. The only prose is when Molina
• 1:13:29
  goes to talk to the warden, because he's basically he's
• 1:13:34
  manipulated. The warden's trying to get
• 1:13:36
  information. Molina is manipulating the
• 1:13:39
  warden to get things that he wants to bribe Valentin so that
• 1:13:43
  he'll loosen up and talk to him about stuff.
• 1:13:47
  So there's. This way though.
• 1:13:49
  It's this whole thing. It's really good.
• 1:13:51
  The book is really good. I don't know.
• 1:13:53
  The movie is really good. Yep.
• 1:13:55
  Kiss the Spider Woman. I I don't.
• 1:14:00
  Is this not audiobook? It might be, but if you can find
• 1:14:06
  the original movie anywhere, go watch it because Raul Julia is
• 1:14:10
  just amazing anyway. But it's so good.
• 1:14:14
  So go find that if you're able to.
• 1:14:16
  And again, I don't know about the stage musical.
• 1:14:20
  I'm I'm glad that they're using Latino actors.
• 1:14:26
  Yes. I think that that is important.
• 1:14:32
  'Cause we have not done that before, like people playing
• 1:14:35
  Cleopatra. So I mean, there's that.
• 1:14:39
  That is a good thing. I like that they're doing that.
• 1:14:41
  But again, I not having seen the stage play, I am, I don't know.
• 1:14:47
  I don't know. And the I'm gonna type in tour.
• 1:14:53
  OK, in the. UK, it's going on tour, it says.
• 1:15:01
  It does not say U.S. states. Probably not, Probably too high
• 1:15:05
  brow for people. How come we never get the good
• 1:15:10
  stuff? It'll come here eventually, I'm
• 1:15:12
  sure That'll start touring. Is it even on Broadway?
• 1:15:16
  It must be me. Spider Woman.
• 1:15:22
  I didn't look to see if it was on Broadway, I looked to see if
• 1:15:25
  it was touring, 'cause sometimes musicals with not a lot of play
• 1:15:34
  come here, but they're not announced.
• 1:15:37
  And so like, sometimes I'll look up stuff and I'll be like, oh, I
• 1:15:40
  didn't know they were coming, you know, I don't know.
• 1:15:49
  Anyhow, while you look that up, I'm gonna look up later if it's
• 1:15:58
  an audio audio book. Wow, my brain was like audio
• 1:16:06
  there as well. Oh.
• 1:16:06
  I guess it was released here already, but I never saw
• 1:16:10
  anything about it anywhere. Whoopi.
• 1:16:16
  Never saw anything of it anywhere.
• 1:16:18
  I wonder if it's streaming. Like literally I it popped up on
• 1:16:21
  my thing I'm like oh I figured this was new.
• 1:16:23
  Nope, apparently not. It didn't go straight to DVD,
• 1:16:26
  did it? For folks that are young,
• 1:16:30
  straight to DVD means straight to streaming now.
• 1:16:37
  I had no idea. Well shit, let me see if it's
• 1:16:40
  streaming anywhere. Anyway, carry on.
• 1:16:43
  Anyway, in health news, more than 20 hospitals and health
• 1:16:48
  systems have temporarily or indefinitely rolled back
• 1:16:52
  transgender care for youth and some young adults due to threats
• 1:16:56
  of lost funding from the dump truck administration.
• 1:17:04
  I don't know what trans people did to the dump truck, but he is
• 1:17:09
  not letting it go. He is not letting it go. 12 have
• 1:17:17
  announced that that they have discontinued puberty blockers
• 1:17:20
  and hormone therapy for trans patients younger than 19.
• 1:17:24
  Keep in mind, you're legally an adult at 18. 4 announced they
• 1:17:32
  are no longer providing transition related surgeries to
• 1:17:35
  those patients. Like even the people that have
• 1:17:42
  already signed up for them. Wow.
• 1:17:49
  One said it discontinued gender affirming care for teens.
• 1:17:53
  Is that for all teens? Yes.
• 1:18:00
  I have questions. Four said they temporarily
• 1:18:07
  stopped trans care for those under 19 after an Ed came out.
• 1:18:13
  What is the Ed? Oh executive direct whatever
• 1:18:19
  came down from dump truck but resumed after a judge blocked
• 1:18:25
  part of the order in March. Though a lot of those back and
• 1:18:30
  forth between blocking orders. I'm not going to listen to you.
• 1:18:34
  Doesn't make a lot of sense to me. 5 removed web pages
• 1:18:39
  dedicated to Transcare for minors from their websites and
• 1:18:44
  that goes along the code of the White House.
• 1:18:48
  Removed a lot of things that was LGBTQ plus and some stuff is
• 1:18:55
  still starting to go missing on the CDC website.
• 1:19:00
  A Health Center in Iowa stopped providing Hormone therapy to
• 1:19:05
  trans adults due to dump trucks. Order that prohibits federal
• 1:19:10
  funds from being used to promote gender ideology. the VA has
• 1:19:18
  limited all trans care coverage for trans veterans.
• 1:19:26
  So these are people that served our country.
• 1:19:29
  Yep. Again with the bullshit.
• 1:19:39
  You're sure there's nothing we could do about this?
• 1:19:41
  This is weird. So get to your midterms, get to
• 1:19:47
  your special elections if. I mean, look, things can things
• 1:19:52
  can flip, things can flip. So look at the mayors start at
• 1:19:57
  your city level. Mayors, governors, other seats
• 1:20:01
  like things can totally flip. Awesome.
• 1:20:07
  But we do have some good news. I'll say it after this.
• 1:20:15
  Is that Quinlan? Quinlan.
• 1:20:18
  Quinlan I. Think Blackwell was named CN NS
• 1:20:22
  Hero of the Year. The founder of Chicago's
• 1:20:25
  Southside Blooms was recognized for transforming vacant lots
• 1:20:29
  into flower farms that employed and trained at this youth in his
• 1:20:34
  community known. His nonprofit provides skills in
• 1:20:41
  growing, arranging and selling flowers and has received
• 1:20:45
  $100,000 to help expand. Oh, just when you think that
• 1:20:55
  there's bad news, it's there's some good news out there.
• 1:20:59
  He, you know he. He like, he trains like the at
• 1:21:02
  risk youth to like, and I mean, it puts them in, you know, they
• 1:21:05
  can go work in other retail stores.
• 1:21:09
  There's it's skills that are, you know, usable.
• 1:21:12
  So that's like, you know, and they could go work pretty much
• 1:21:16
  anywhere with the skill set that he's, you know, they're teaching
• 1:21:19
  them, which is awesome. There was somebody that just
• 1:21:28
  signed the Crown Act into, but it looks to me that this is not
• 1:21:36
  big news, but I thought I saw a news article that said that.
• 1:21:46
  I think it was Illinois that did the Crown Act, or was it
• 1:21:50
  Pennsylvania? No idea.
• 1:21:54
  The Crown Act has been signed by 25 states.
• 1:21:57
  Cause I've been now corrected by the machine, which is the act of
• 1:22:07
  if we have not if if you don't remember us talking about it is
• 1:22:11
  that there were people that were literally like newscasters
• 1:22:15
  getting pulled off the air because their hair.
• 1:22:17
  They were told their hair was not professional.
• 1:22:21
  They were getting kicked out of school because they were told
• 1:22:24
  that their hair is not professional or kept clean.
• 1:22:28
  Not my words others. And and these were like
• 1:22:34
  hairstyles that have been around since I know I was a kid.
• 1:22:39
  And so and other forms of microaggressions and
• 1:22:47
  discrimination that people will say like, you can't have box
• 1:22:50
  braids. Those are so unprofessional,
• 1:22:52
  right? What?
• 1:22:55
  Like unprofessional for whom? But you can wear extensions
• 1:22:59
  until they fall out, and that's professional.
• 1:23:02
  OK, Excuse me. So there's 25 states that now
• 1:23:08
  have signed the CROWN Act. I don't think that Arizona is
• 1:23:12
  one of them. I probably not.
• 1:23:14
  Should probably look but I don't think so and California was the
• 1:23:19
  first one to sign it if anybody cares.
• 1:23:23
  What have we got coming up? Oh, tomorrow we have.
• 1:23:28
  Sex trivia. Sex trivia is coming up tomorrow
• 1:23:31
  at Gracie's. We're gonna start at 8:00 PM.
• 1:23:36
  Get there early though 'cause we fill up it gets busy, but come
• 1:23:40
  and grab some. Like grab some food, grab some
• 1:23:42
  cheese curds or chopped cheese sandwich or something along
• 1:23:45
  those lines. Grab a good seat, have some sex
• 1:23:49
  on the beach. Have sex on the beach.
• 1:23:53
  No, don't, don't have sex on the beach.
• 1:23:54
  I do not recommend that. I don't recommend that.
• 1:23:57
  That is not comfortable. You will get sand in places that
• 1:24:00
  shouldn't, but it's free to play.
• 1:24:04
  We do a few rounds. That was a good time.
• 1:24:06
  We got some good prizes, all sorts of fun stuff.
• 1:24:10
  OK, so the Crown Act is not statewide.
• 1:24:14
  It doesn't look like I have to do further research, but.
• 1:24:20
  Where did my background go? The what?
• 1:24:24
  Or background. It's still there for me.
• 1:24:27
  I. Don't see it on mine.
• 1:24:28
  That's weird. Interesting.
• 1:24:31
  Never mind. Tempe is listed on the Crown Act
• 1:24:36
  website. So it's certain cities that.
• 1:24:40
  It's. Weird.
• 1:24:42
  And also on Sunday I will be at Brick Road Coffee doing Drug
• 1:24:47
  story hour, a holiday version. So come do.
• 1:24:50
  That what time? 10:30 in the morning, yeah.
• 1:24:59
  OK OK I'll wrap myself up for that.
• 1:25:06
  And it's good enough time cause the kids get up at like 5 or 6
• 1:25:10
  on the weekends. Get them home in time for a nap.
• 1:25:14
  Me too, but get there for that. We're gonna do holiday stories.
• 1:25:21
  You guys get coffee and pastries stuff?
• 1:25:26
  And since they have now posted it, January 9th is the first
• 1:25:34
  Drag Bingo of the season of 2026.
• 1:25:42
  Drag Bingo and Cats tickets are available.
• 1:25:48
  And what do we always say? The tickets will go fast.
• 1:25:52
  So get the tickets now. Yep, before you spend all your
• 1:25:57
  holiday money. Yep, And then you don't have to
• 1:26:01
  worry if you bought them or not, or buy them as a gift.
• 1:26:06
  We sell out. We sell out every fucking time.
• 1:26:10
  And then we always get messages or comments that say save me a
• 1:26:14
  seat, no. No, that's not how that works,
• 1:26:17
  but thank you. No.
• 1:26:21
  And there's still time if you have like office parties or
• 1:26:24
  anything going on and you want like entertainment or hosts or
• 1:26:28
  MCS or whatever, we are available.
• 1:26:31
  I don't know about entertainment, but I could at
• 1:26:32
  least host. I mean, there's that we can, we
• 1:26:36
  can do all manner. Things I attempt to be
• 1:26:39
  entertaining, but that's about the level I can give you.
• 1:26:48
  I'm not high energy at all. No, that's.
• 1:26:57
  Fine. I did not do any closing words
• 1:26:59
  because I felt like I will say a number of folks are
• 1:27:12
  experiencing. This is why I think I said it
• 1:27:16
  feels weird because like there was somebody that like got in a
• 1:27:21
  car accident. Luckily they're still alive and
• 1:27:25
  survived. Sounds like it's gonna work out
• 1:27:28
  in their favor anyway 'cause they wanted a new car.
• 1:27:30
  But yeah, I mean, you know they're making light of it,
• 1:27:34
  right? Somebody lost a friend.
• 1:27:40
  I see that like people are losing relatives or close
• 1:27:46
  friends. This is like a weird time of
• 1:27:51
  year. Like you're supposed to be jolly
• 1:27:54
  and happy and then some bad things happen and you know,
• 1:27:57
  like, that's what I mean. Like it's just so much going on.
• 1:28:01
  You got work going on and everybody's trying to close up
• 1:28:03
  before the holidays or you work retail and people are not as
• 1:28:07
  kind as they they could be. Just remember somewhere in
• 1:28:15
  there, take care of yourself and it's it's not always going to be
• 1:28:19
  a bubble bath. It's not always going to be a
• 1:28:22
  facial. It's not always going to be, you
• 1:28:24
  know, getting your hair done or whatever that may be.
• 1:28:27
  But excuse me, I think it's important to like look in on
• 1:28:36
  yourself, especially when there's a lot of outside
• 1:28:41
  validations not going to come from here.
• 1:28:43
  It needs to come from in here and so many things that I read
• 1:28:49
  today that people are are feeling it.
• 1:28:53
  It's not just me I'm feeling it. I know Freddie's feeling it.
• 1:28:58
  It just know that you're not alone.
• 1:29:01
  If you need to talk to us. I have had people come in my
• 1:29:05
  inbox before. As long as you're respectful,
• 1:29:09
  'cause I can't help you unless you're respectful.
• 1:29:14
  Keep that in mind. Also I'm not a therapist but my
• 1:29:19
  Lyft driver thinks I am so just be easy with yourself.
• 1:29:26
  That is my my closing for the week.
• 1:29:29
  Just don't. Trauma dump on strangers.
• 1:29:32
  Yeah, yeah, that took me a couple of days to.
• 1:29:35
  Go. I am definitely empathic.
• 1:29:40
  I was like why Y universe? But anyhow, with that being
• 1:29:45
  said, take care of yourselves and we'll see you next week for
• 1:29:48
  your Wednesday night conversation.
• 1:29:50
  Good night.