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Episode 8 - You Minding Your Own Business When Comes To Going On A Spiritual Sabbatical. · You Minding Your Own Business

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Hey, everybody, how else doinge? Welcome to you Minding your Own Business.
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I'm your host goddess Osha Maria. I'm a thank you guys for joining
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me for this episode. If you guys wanna hear more of my podcast,
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please go to speaker dot com forward slash you Minding your Own Business. If
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you wanna hear all of my podcasts, please go to speak dot com,
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Florence. That's my name, A s H A dot M A R I
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A M A zero one at gmail dot com. I am a certified recovered
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life coach. It's all about helping people with their paths, their burnings,
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their purpose and their journeys to a new and better youth through self discovery.
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I'm all about helping people when it comes to minding your own business and focusing
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on yourself. This podcasts all about going from what everybody else has raised you
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to be and being with everybody else wants you to be, to you being
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the version of yourself that you want to be. Now, this original podcast
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was about financial and basically being successful when it comes to business, but I
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figured before I get into that, we got to work on you first personally
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before we start, you know, getting into you know all of that right
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now, I am currently in a sabbatical, Okay, a spiritual sabbatical,
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and a spiritual sabbatical is a time of rest. It's a time to reflect.
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It's a time to grow, evolve and change, elevate, learn,
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and just It's not only expand your mind, but expand your spirit, your
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financial, emotional, psychological. It's really a time where you're getting away from
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everybody and you're figuring out what we're for you. Now, my first two
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days now, before I did my sabbatical, I took two weeks to prep
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for it. I mean just resting and doing certain things. Now, let
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me break something down to y'all that I want you to understand about a sabbatical.
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You're gonna have to break a lot of habits. So when it comes
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to breaking habits or getting off drugs and alcohol or even codependency, you're gonna
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have to slow pace it because if you think that it's easy breaking habits,
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it's not. Because it's like today, I was on social media today and
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I said I wasn't so I already backslid already. But like I said,
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what you have to do is train yourself and get yourself adjusted off of it.
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So you have a lot lot of people that are addicted to being people
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pleasers. There are people that are addicted to being seat fillers. People is
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that addicted being captain saber holes and builder bears and builder dolls, and wanted
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to be love like, appreciated value, wanted and needed to be a part
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of something, to be validated, to be approved of, to be accepted,
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for someone to know your worth, and proving something to people. So
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there are other different things that also can cause an addiction, but most addictions
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come from influences, manipulation, pure pressure. So it's not just about the
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fact of someone just taking drugs. No, there had to been a reason
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why they took the drugs nine times out of ten year. At a party
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and there's marijuana going and everybody's pressing you to smoke, not understanding that it
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could be laced with heroin. So, like I said, when it comes
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to financial recovery, it can come from blowing your money on things that you
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don't need, or not putting money back in your business, or you lose
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your job and you end up homeless. So the reason why this is so
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important is because when you mind your own business and you're worried about yourself.
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And I'm not saying that in the way y'all think I mean it. What
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I mean by that is you need a moment to reflect, you need a
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moment to journal, You need a moment to write down your thoughts or even
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like me doing my podcast, this is actually my journal. So this is
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my journal in my way of reflecting on what I've been through and what I've
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had to deal with. Is it easy? No, Like I said today
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of the day that I was more so listening to social media than I was
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really watching it. But I wanted to hear about the Kamala, you know,
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Harris, about the potential of her being you know president. Now.
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I did maybe a couple videos, but like I said, it's okay if
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you the first couple of days or the first week or so, you might
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go back to bad habits. It's okay. It's normal because you've been doing
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it for so long. You've been doing the same thing for so long that
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it's hard to just convert to something else. So I always say slow pace
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it. And that's why journal is so important. So these podcasts during this
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sabbatical is going to be my journey. So every day. I'll be documenting
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my sabbatical through all of my podcasts every single day, so if you want
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to know about my sabbatical, it will be on every single one of my
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podcast. Day one was more so I wasn't really on social media at all.
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I really just rested all day, got out clean my bathrooms and did
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a little cleaning, and then I went and made some naked made a dish
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for dinner, and then today I had for breakfast, I had just some
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yogurt and some cereal, and then for lunch I had some rice and then
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I had some muffins that I had, so I probably went a little bit
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over. And then I'm about to drink some tea before i go to bed
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to him for my throat. But I did have some time to reflect,
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and then I have this book called The Power of Powerful Prayers for Women,
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and so I read a little bit of that, and I also did my
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prayers this afternoon, so now it's when I first wake up in the morning.
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I did do a prayer in the morning, but I always have a
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scripture and a s actual prayer that I have and then something that describes that
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particular scripture that I read. So I do that every day. But now
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tomorrow I'm gonna exercise. I had issues with my next so I wasn't gonna
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take the risk of exercising today. But I am gonna exercise tomorrow and definitely
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do that. But what I've learned so far in my sabbatical is that I
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don't wanna be the person that's going through hoops and bounds just to be loved,
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to like, to appreciate it, value want it needed to be a
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part of something, to be validated, to be approved of, to be
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a part of something, to be accepted, for someone to know my worth,
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and then you know, proving some of the people and also being a
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people pleaser. Captain Saberhole, builde bear, build a dolls and a seat
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filler. I definitely don't wanna be that. So my goal in this sabbatical
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is to work on not only journaling my podcasts, you know, journaling the
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sabbatical through my podcast, but also building my life coaching business. And by
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doing this sabbatical, I'm gonna be helping other people through their sabbaticals, cause
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I'll be with them on the journey. I'm doing this by myself, so
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I have nobody here while I'm going through this now. Let me tell you
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there will be a very dark time like in the Never Ending Story when Matteo
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looked in that m looked at that mirror, so that little boy sitting on
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the other side there was reading the book. Now, you will have to
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go through that phase of spacely seeing yourself without the makeup, without the fake
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hair, and accepting yourself for what you are. And once you do,
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there is no going back to that, going back from that. Now.
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Don't get me wrong. If my hair is not cut, then yes I
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will wear a wig. But for the most part my hair is cutball,
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so I do basically don't wear a wig. So'm I accept myself for who
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I am. But I know what it could have my friends and family.
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That's a whole nother situation. But the journey is not easy. It's a
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lot of work that goes into it. The reason why you minding your own
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business is so important is because you're not focused on everybody else. You're focused
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on yourself. Now, should you see what's going on in the world and
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how things affect you? Yes, I remember I was strolling and I said,
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dang, it ain't nothing known. I was trying to find some educational
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to listen to or to watch, and I was like, there's nothing on.
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So I realized I rather listen to podcasts than listen to to, you
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know, YouTube. You know, if I had cable, i'd be watching
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a Hallmark channel or the Cooking channel, so that's pretty much what I would
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be doing. I thought about actually seeing about getting some type of cable so
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I'll be able to watch cable and be able to watch television. So I
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am stirely thinking about that. But what I want people to understand is that
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when it comes down to you know, what you feel is best for you,
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it's not about everybody else. It's about what you think is best for
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yourself. And once you get through with this particular sabbatical, you will not
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be the same person that you were. The way you look at things are
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gonna be very different. It's a lot of stuff you just not gonna put
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up with and you're not gonna accept There're gonna be a lot of things you
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gonna say, I don't want no parts of I don't want nothing to do
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with, and I'm just not even gonna bother. It's gonna be to the
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point that you're not worried about whether you're married, whether you're in a relationship
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or not. You're not worried about what everybody else got going on and what
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everybody else is doing. You are primarily focusing on yourself and what it is
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that you need to do. You're not worried about whether or not you know
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you got a bunch of friends or not. You're not worried about whether you're
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not you're not leaving you know, you're not living up to other people's expectations.
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You're living up to your own expectations, and you're not looking back.
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The past is pretty much what it is. The past now the past is
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more, And so if I go back, it's gonna be because something may
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seem familiar to me. It's gonna be easier for you to leave people alone.
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It's gonna be easier for you to let people go. It's gonna be
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easier for you to let go of the feelings towards that person. It's gonna
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be easier for you to say goodbye to people that ain't worth you. It's
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gonna be easier for you to spot when people are not worth you. So
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it's gonna be a lot easier for you to tell who's there and who's not.
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It's gonna be its easier for you to be able to confront your parents
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and say, look, I don't appreciate this and this and this and this
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here. This is when when it comes to your family, this is when
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you're gonna be able to say, you know what, no, m we
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ain't doing that day, we ain't doing nothing. This is when you have
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the right to pretty much speak on whatever it is you choose speaking. Nobody
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can't sinying about it. This is when you do things and say things and
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you're not gonna be apologetic for it. This is when you put yourself bird
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first and build whatever it is you're gonna build as far as business and becoming
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successful. And this is when you move in silence and nobody knows what you
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do. This is when everybody thinks you're the same person, when in all
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actuality, you're not. You're a completely different person. But in the eyes
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of the world you're still the same person. But in real life you're actually
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different. Why because you choose to be different. You choose to be a
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different person, So there's nothing wrong with that. So when you minding your
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own business, that means that you're not on social media trolling people or on
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social media blatantly disrespecting people. You're pretty much on social media because you want
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to learn something, or you want to help other people, or you just
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want to buy something off of Apple, whatever the case may be. Other
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than that, that's pretty much about it. But you're gonna have people that's
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gonna say to you, Oh, you don't deserve this, you don't deserve
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that. Excuse basic one. Who how are you gonna tell me what I
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don't have the right to deserve? Not only that, God is the one
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that determines what I have and what I don't have. God determines what my
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bless my blessings, and what it is that's meant for me. So when
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you go into sabbatical, it means that you're giving your life to the higher
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power. You have been out here in the world. You're tired of being
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out here in the world. You're tired of going through what you're going through,
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and you want something different and you want something more, and there's nothing
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wrong with that. Nothing. So you have everybody to have whatever it is
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you wanna have. But at the same time, you gotta understand that you
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are gonna be dealing with people. But now it's gonna be easier for you
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to distinguish people that are shady and people that are no good. It's gonna
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be easier for you to say no when you get done to sabbatical, it's
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gonna be easier cause now you have courses, now you have business. Then
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you have everything that you have done, and now your business is thriving and
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nobody knows about it. This is when you have a house that nobody know
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about and didn't want everybody know about. This is when you said to yourself,
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you know what, I'm not worried about fair with the friends. I'm
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not worried about people who come and go. I'm just focusing on myself.
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I am doing for myself. I'm doing what makes me happy, and that's
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pretty much it. So your attitude is gonna be completely different you. You're
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you're gonna be able to tell immediately if somebody is full of it. You're
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gonna be able to get past that siren phase because you gonna know whether or
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not this person is a siren or not. It's gonna be easier for you
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to figure out things that you probably wouldn't have figured out before. Because you
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didn't take the time to figure out why it happened. While you're in a
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sabbatical, you're gonna be looking at your whole entire life and you're gonna be
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accepting the person that you are. So when you do, you look completely
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different and it's nothing wrong with that. So I get it. But like
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I said, you have the right to be happy, and you have the
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right to do what, in in honesty, is what's best for you.
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And people may not like your choices, but again, these are your choices
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that you have the right to make. So even though somebody they saying,
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well, I don't think you should do this, who are you to tell
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somebody what they should and should not do. Now, you also gonna know
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the difference between people who got your back and people who don't. Anybody that
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got you doing anything negative, those are not people that are your friends,
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to be real, those are your enemies. You'll be amazed how the people
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think of your friends are actually your enemies. So I just want people to
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be, you know, mindful of that. You're gonna have people that's gonna
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like you, you gonna have people that's gonna hate you, and that's just
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the way it is you're gonna have people that's gonna wanna see your downfall,
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and you're gonnanna ad people that's gonna want to see you rise and see you
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to be successful. So it goes both ways, honestly, it really does.
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So when you are minding your own business, that means you working on
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you. It's not about what everybody else thinks about you. It's about what
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you think about yourself and how you feel about yourself, and what you feel
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is best for you, what your standards are, what it is that you
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you expect from the people that's coming into your life. If you feel like
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you don't want to be intimate, then you ain't gotta be intimate. You
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ain't gotta do nothing if you don't wanna be. If you somebody that don't
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want to be going certain places and doing certain things just because your friends go
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does not mean you have to go, because you don't have to go if
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you don't want to. If you feel as though that you would rather stay
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home and rather watch a movie and rather cut it up by yourself, hey
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you got the right to do that. Some people do not want to go
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through the pain they've been through with all the people in they pass. They
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don't want to go through another situation where they're going through the same thing and
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getting the same result. So now it's easier for you to tell a man
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that, look, I'm not trying to be a notch on your belt.
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I ain't trying to be some chick that you just being intimate with, and
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then you're gonna toss me to the side and act like you don't know me.
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I ain't got time for that. I ain't got time for men that
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are out here that's doing all these crazy things. I just had a patience
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and I do not have time for it. So there's nothing wrong with you
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saying that that's what you want. There's nothing wrong with you're saying that you
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want somebody that has just as much, if not close to, if not
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more than once. You already have none wrong did at all. You got
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every right to say what it is that you want. And some people may
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say, oh, that's being how you just go and you know, put
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your standards up so high. Why shouldn't this person have high standards considering everything
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they've been through. Give me a second, okay, y'all, So considering
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everything this person has had to deal with in their life, Why should they
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have to settle because of what they look like. So a good example of
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this. You may be a person that might be considered attractive, but as
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there may be a lot of people that may not check for you like that.
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But he know, at the end of the day, that's okay because
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when you get yourself where you need to be, then it's gonna be a
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whole different thing. So when you were doing something that's gonna basically help yourself,
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and let's say you're bettering, you're bettering yourself. Let's say you have
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a good job. Now, so now that you've been by yourself and you've
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been alone, you have now built a business, You now built a brand,
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and now you're being successful. You have all these good things coming in
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your life. And now here come all the people, all the name sayers
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that didn't believe in you, all the people that thought you weren't gonna make
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it, thought you wasn't gonna be the best version of yourself, now coming
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with their hands out talking about I knew you could do it. Did you
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know that I could do it? You sure about that? Because from what
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I could tell, I didn't think you thought I could do it. So
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That's why I'm saying it's important that you understand that when you make it and
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when you get on your feet, he'll come all the people that's gonna come
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in your life and suck the life out of you until they can get whatever
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they can get from you. Hold on one second, I had to put
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some water on the thing I didn't want to, you know, do that
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with y'all. But you may have a situation where you may have somebody that
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you ain't talked to, excuse me, in years, that all of a
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sudden is coming around you, and you be like, why is this person
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all of a sudden, you know what I'm saying, coming around me,
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all of a sudden, calling me all of a sudden, wanting to talk
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all of a sudden. This person didn't wanna talk to me when I was
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going through what I was going through. When I was dealing with what I
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was dealing with, this person didn't want no parts of me. Now the
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sudden, they do want parts of me, all of a sudden. The
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guy that turns you down, the guy that told you he didn't want to
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date you, all of a sudden, is now in your DMS, and
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you don't understand how in the world is this person in your DMS that was
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really never paying no attention to you in the first place. Your ex boyfriend
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who dumped you for a whole different person, or ex girlfriend who dumped you
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because you lost everything, or because they met somebody else. And now you
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done got your body right, you done lost forty pounds, you look good,
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and now here come the person that never wanted you in the first place.
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Now a sudden wants you. Now a sudden wants to deal with you.
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Now a sudden wants to have a conversation with you. Now a sudden
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wants to spend time with you. But before they never wanted to do that,
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never want to take you out. Just like Let's say, for example,
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you met somebody and even though you were even though you were good and
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doing very well for yourself, this person sucked everything from you, put you
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in debt, and messed around and left you high and dry. Let's say
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you put something in your name for somebody and they turn around and they don't
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pay for it. Now you're stuck with and now they're they're asking you for
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payments for something you're not even using. This is why I created the channel,
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this podcast for it because I want people to understand you're not responsible for
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adults. The way that you are there for people is not bout giving up
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your blessings. I need people to understand that your blessings are yours. You
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can help people without destroying yourself, and that is something that we use.
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Godly people got to learn to do how to go about helping people without losing
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ourselves or without you know, going through situations that we shouldn't have to go
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through because somebody else wants to drag us through the god for second mud put
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us through a bunch of stuff that we don't even need to go through.
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Let me find my spiritual book for a minute. I'm gonna read something right
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quick that I hope will give you inspiration. It's a woman's prayer book,
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but this can basically be for anybody what I'm getting ready to read. So
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give me one second, let me fine what I wanna read. What I
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wanna read the y'all, and then i'm'a read it to you. So,
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like I said, it's okay if you fall down a slope or you're unsteady,
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that's okay. It's to be expected. Now, this is what I
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wanna read God, when I feel unsteady, You alone provide a firm ground
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beneath my feet, illuminating my past so that I can so that I'm always
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living in Your will and not from my own limits. Ego limited, ego.
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Show me how to be the best that I can be under all circumstances,
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good or bad. And then it's this one here is when the world
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rocks you off your center, hold fast to God to bring you back to
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the harmony and balance. And when life pulls the rug from up under you,
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jump and land square on the foundation of God's love for you. When
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all seems lost, God will help you find your way again. So this
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particular scripture is all about holding steady. And then this one says, Dear
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Lord, help me find my foot again. I feel really shaky lately,
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and I long for insurance that I never truly walk alonge. I ask for
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the courage to move past these scary times and the fortitude to keep going even
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when I feel like giving in on myself or on everything and everyone around me.
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Lord, I know that you will never give up on me. Help
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me walk the straight and narrow path again. Now what that means is basically
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this a lot of us have gotten off our paths from when we were kids
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to do things that we should never did in the first place. And the
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only reason we did them was because our parents want us to do them or
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because we were taught to do it. But is it something that we really
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should have done. Probably not. A lot of parents raise their kids based
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on what everybody else thinks. Like a lot of kids who are really intelligent,
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that's their identity. When truly speaking, a lot of people end up
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miserable when they put that much. You know, put that much as far
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as putting a kid on a pedestal, You don't never want to put a
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kid on a pedestal, or when they find out you got a talent and
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they want to put you in the industry. So it goes when you doing
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something you love and doing something based upon obligation. So I just feel like,
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no, I feel like it's just important that you let a child be
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a child. It's no different than this. Everybody goes to a time where
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things don't seem steady, where things feel kind of wobbling, like you feel
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like you gonna fall, but yet you haven't failed. And then when you
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finally do fail, finally do fall. You have no idea what you're falling
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to. All you know is you fail, But you don't know exactly how
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you feel. You don't even know how you got in the situation in the
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first place. After a while, you do it because you keep making the
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same mistake over and over and over again. So the question is when is
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it gonna stop? When are you gonna stop going through the same thing that
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you've been going through twenty thirty years ago. So that's why I said I
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bought this book because this book is something thing I really needed. So as
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I'm going through my journey, I will continue to read this every day.
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So that's why it's it's important. So even when you say just for a
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day, Dear God, I can use a steady hand. Today my life
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seems like a roller coaster fill with so many ups and downs it makes my
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head spind. I could use a a four or two courage today. I
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am being dealt with so many lousy cards to play. Help me keep the
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faith God, Stay God, and stay with your will for me. Amen.
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So basically, what basically this is saying is that there are days you
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do feel like you're falling off the path. Now you're falling off your journey
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and you're like, well, I'm doing good, but then you do something
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that brings you thirty steps. So it's like two step forward thirty steps back
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because you keep going back because you keep doing the same things over and over
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and over again. And eventually, if the people around you don't change,
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that means you have to change. You gotta grow, you gotta evolve,
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you gotta elevate, you gotta be the best version of yourself. And that's
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just something that is like very extremely important that you yourself, find what your
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happiness is, what your morals, values, principles, and ethics are,
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find out what you stand for, what you believe in, cause those things
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are important. So I'm gonna read one more thing and then I'm gonna end
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this podcast. And it says, Dear God, thank you for giving me
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the power for foundation of faith in my life. For this foundation, I
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am able to build so so much peace, harmony, happiness just by trusting
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in you and in your uncensing guidance, unseeing guidance. I walk with gratitude
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daily for the miraculous way having faith in your will seems to work no matter
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what it is that's going on around me. I stand in faith, I
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stay strong. I pray that I will always have distrust in You, in
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your will to depend on, especially when my own will lead me astray.
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I pray that my life is a testimy will be a testament to others of
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the wonders that happen when they put our faith in you, God, where
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it belongs. Amen. So how much what that means all in all,
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is that by you going through your journey, and let's say you write a
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book about it, or like me, I'm doing a podcast, so every
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day I'm journaling my pot I'm journaling my sabbatical through my podcast, and I'm
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also gonna be writing it down as well. So let's say, for example,
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somebody hears it and they decide to contact me and say, you know
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what, I would love to basically have you help me with my with my
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sabbatical, but I promise you recover. We recovery would be definitely different if
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you had a sabbatical. So, like I said, it is a sabbatical
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easy. No, it's hard, but it's worth it when you see the
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changes, when you see how much weight you lost, when you see that
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you're not in pain, pain anymore when you see that you're doing well for
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yourself. But it's not easy. The journey of being in a spiritual sabbatical
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is not easy because it's actually about not only a rest period, but it's
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also a discovery period. It's a learning period. It's a looking back in
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your past and finding out where you went wrong in your life from when you
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were a kid to now. And excuse me, why did you keep going
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off that path and that purpose and that journey? What is it that keeps
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you from being the best version of your health self. You don't want to
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wait to my age to all of a sudden say well, now I want
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to do this, and now I want to do that. I'm fifty now,
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and I wish I'd have had this mentality a long time ago. But
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see, I was still in that phase. Even though I came to the
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realization, I was still a people pleaser. I thought the way of being
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a god was by trying to bring everybody to my level. The problem is
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I was trying to bring the wrong people to my level. That was never
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gonna be on my level in the first place. You can't you can't take
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a war, you can't take a camel or a anything to drink. No,
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you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make a drink
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because you can't make a drink, just like you can't make people that have
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no ambition, no drive, and the seven daily cent of sloths can't make
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them drink. You just can't. So no matter how much you want to
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try to bring people to your level, as even though you want to lower
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yourself to lift somebody up, if you gotta lower yourself to lift somebody up,
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then I don't suggest you do it at all. But if you are
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interested in one on one coaching, or you want to be on my podcast,
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or if you want to send me their OSHA letters and tell me about
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something you're going through, please go to a s h A s h A
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dot M A r I A M A zero one at gmail dot com.
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That's a s H A dot M A r I A M A zero one
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at gmail dot com. So, like I said, I'm gonna end this
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by saying this, once you start minding your own business and focusing on yourself,
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the only time that you will be dealing with people is if there's a
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need to deal with them or they proven that there's there are people that you
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can depend on it, that you can trust, if not leaving with it
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at because they ain't gonna do number bring you through a bunch of chaos,
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because as I always say, negative and negative will always equal negative, Negative
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and positive will always equal negative. Positive and positive will always equal positive.
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So with that being said, thank God so much. I'll teach you later. Bye.