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Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail, SF Takes on Junk Food, and This Gay Week · The Karel Show

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  Speaker 4: The final week of twenty twenty five is finally here.
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  Speaker 4: Today is Monday, December twenty ninth. I hope you had
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  Speaker 4: an absolutely glorious Christmas. The last time we spoke it
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  Speaker 4: Christmas went. I hope it went really well. I had
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  Speaker 4: a lovely, lovely Christmas, low key but lovely, visited my
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  Speaker 4: a doctor's appointment on Christmas Eve where they really told
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  Speaker 4: is there anything in the blood work that told you
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  Speaker 4: All she could say is, well, it looks like you
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  Speaker 4: should be okay. See chat GPT told me that they
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  Speaker 4: were going to test for certain things, and that would
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  Speaker 4: have told them which part of my body responded to
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  Speaker 4: the Shingricks vaccine. Obviously chat GPT is a better immunologist
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  Speaker 4: than my immunologist. Uh, but you know, that's the way
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  Speaker 4: life is. One day, I seriously believe one day that
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  Speaker 4: one that AI will basically be the first I don't
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  Speaker 4: want to say be your doctor, but I think AI
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  Speaker 4: will be the first line of defense for medicine. You'll
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  Speaker 4: you'll go into an office and there'll be an AI there,
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  Speaker 4: a robot or something, and you'll tell or even before
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  Speaker 4: you go into the office, you'll speak to this AI
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  Speaker 4: and tell it all your symptoms, and then it will
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  Speaker 4: help the doctor formulate what's going on when you go in.
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  Speaker 4: I really believe that because I do it now with
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  Speaker 4: Chad g you can feed your You're not supposed to
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  Speaker 4: feed your lab results into chat GPT for a variety
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  Speaker 4: of reasons. I think one of them is you probably
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  Speaker 4: shouldn't have that information on a server because it does,
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  Speaker 4: in fact store these things that you put in it.
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  Speaker 4: So basically you're sharing your medical records and as we know,
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  Speaker 4: HIPPA and all of that. But if you like, if
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  Speaker 4: you get your lab work from quest or whatever and
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  Speaker 4: you upload it to chat GPT, it'll tell you everything.
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  Speaker 4: It'll break down everything, every bit of the lab. It'll
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  Speaker 4: tell you what's good, what's bad, all that. But it's
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  Speaker 4: not a doctor. It's just regurgitating information it knows, and
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  Speaker 4: if there is something wrong, it doesn't have the nuance
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  Speaker 4: to sit and have a conversation with you about what
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  Speaker 4: that means. Yet I think it will. I think we're
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  Speaker 4: headed that way. So I hope you have a lovely Christmas.
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  Speaker 4: It's over. Is your tree down? My tree is down.
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  Speaker 4: It is Monday, December twenty ninth, and Christmas is gone.
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  Speaker 4: My decorations outside a gone. My tree is down. I'm done.
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  Speaker 4: I am not one of these lingering. I know we're
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  Speaker 4: still in the twelve days of Christmas. I know we're
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  Speaker 4: still in Kwansa. I get it. But you know what,
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  Speaker 4: that tree has been since Black Friday, and as beautiful
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  Speaker 4: as it is or was, it was time for it
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  Speaker 4: to go go back into little box. See you next year,
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  Speaker 4: like that Neil Simon thing, Same time next year, See
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  Speaker 4: you next year. So I do hope you had a
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  Speaker 4: or bought it for yourself, or if you didn't celebrate
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  Speaker 4: or just had a low key day. I hope you
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  Speaker 4: Alrighty righty diedy then, So as you know what two
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  Speaker 4: days from now looking at a calendar is New Year's Eve.
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  Speaker 4: I know you're gonna be safe, insane. I hope you
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  Speaker 4: do an Irish New Year like me, where you do
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  Speaker 4: it at a pub at four o'clock and then you're
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  Speaker 4: home by five and you've had a New Year's even
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  Speaker 4: It's fabulous because that's what I do. I go to
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  Speaker 4: the pub at three o'clock, party until four. They do
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  Speaker 4: the countdown in Ireland at four we all do a toast,
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  Speaker 4: play a little music and men ember go home. Be
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  Speaker 4: doing that again this year. But you know, we all
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  Speaker 4: want to make New Year's resolutions, and whether it's healthy
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  Speaker 4: or not, we're gonna do it. We're gonna look ahead.
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  Speaker 4: But there is a psychology behind why resolutions fail. Let
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  Speaker 4: me share a little of what this article has to
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  Speaker 4: say about this. In many ways, the ritual of making
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  Speaker 4: resolutions on New Year's Eve as arbitrary. After all, we
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  Speaker 4: can set goals anytime. I think you should do it
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  Speaker 4: around your birthday, since that's your New Year's Eve. But
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  Speaker 4: what is it about the turning of the calendar that
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  Speaker 4: makes us especially likely to commit to these goals. Well,
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  Speaker 4: New Year's is an opportunity for reflection, says clinical psychologist
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  Speaker 4: Terry Bly of the Ely Mental Health and Institute in
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  Speaker 4: Mendota Heights, Minnesota. As a result, the coming of the
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  Speaker 4: new year may lead many of us to consider the
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  Speaker 4: changes we want to make or have been told to
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  Speaker 4: make in our lives. Then the ritual of making those
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  Speaker 4: resolutions can serve as a motivator for us to commit
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  Speaker 4: to making those changes. Jennifer Kowalski, a licensed professional counselor
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  Speaker 4: at Thrive Works in Cheshire, Connecticut, agrees with that assessment.
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  Speaker 4: She says a new year represents a fresh start, and
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  Speaker 4: people need something to single, a moment to refresh. When
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  Speaker 4: something comes to an end, it's an opening or a
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  Speaker 4: new beginning, and since everyone in the world experiences the
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  Speaker 4: new Year on the same day, it's a moment where
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  Speaker 4: many of the people around us are looking back on
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  Speaker 4: the old year and thinking about how it improve their
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  Speaker 4: lives in the new year. Consequently, the desire to make
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  Speaker 4: resolutions can be especially strong. Yet, even though so many
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  Speaker 4: of us make New Year's resolutions, we also regularly fail
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  Speaker 4: to keep them. So why do we even bother if
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  Speaker 4: we know our chances of success are pretty damn slim?
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  Speaker 4: According to Bli, as humans, we do tend to be
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  Speaker 4: optimistic even in the face of evidence. So even if
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  Speaker 4: we know the success rate of resolutions is low, or
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  Speaker 4: that in the past we've failed to have our New
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  Speaker 4: Year's resolutions come to completion, each new year offers helpe
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  Speaker 4: that this time, this time, those resolutions will finally stick. Unfortunately,
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  Speaker 4: optimism alone won't result in the change that you actually
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  Speaker 4: want or need. The reality is that there are a
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  Speaker 4: number of things about the way that we make resolutions
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  Speaker 4: that set us up for failure before we start. So
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  Speaker 4: don't do this. First of all, don't think too big.
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  Speaker 4: All change is gradual, okay, So don't try to rein
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  Speaker 4: totally reinvent the wheel. You know, in order to change
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  Speaker 4: the behavior, you have to be uncomfortable, and nobody wants
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  Speaker 4: to be uncomfortable. So in order to see a lasting change,
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  Speaker 4: you have to be in a state of discomfort for
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  Speaker 4: a period of a long period of time. Now, some
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  Speaker 4: of us are we've been miserable a while, or fat
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  Speaker 4: a while, or whatever it might be. But where we
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  Speaker 4: go wrong, they say, is there's this idea that it's
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  Speaker 4: supposed to be some big sweeping change in your life.
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  Speaker 4: And yet as humans, we're not wired really to make
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  Speaker 4: big sweeping changes. So as a result, if we want
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  Speaker 4: to be able to meet our goal, like learning a language,
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  Speaker 4: we need to set smaller goals in ways to succeed.
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  Speaker 4: For instance, if your goal is to learn a language
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  Speaker 4: next year, start by signing up to Babbel, signing up
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  Speaker 4: to a language course. Start little, okay, start by signing
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  Speaker 4: up to something. Or if you're going to teach yourself,
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  Speaker 4: start with just a word or phrase a day. Don't
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  Speaker 4: try to master an entire soliloquy, you know, in one day.
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  Speaker 4: And we don't ask ourselves why change is hard and
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  Speaker 4: the pain of not changing has to be greater than
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  Speaker 4: the pain of us changing, or we won't do it.
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  Speaker 4: Many of our resolutions resolutions tend to involve things we
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  Speaker 4: feel we should do. But when we focus on what
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  Speaker 4: we should do. We're not focusing on what's in it
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  Speaker 4: for us. One way we're more likely to change is
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  Speaker 4: to get at the heart of our eternal reason for
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  Speaker 4: wanting to change. Usually, New Year's resolutions are optional things,
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  Speaker 4: and so if we hate doing it, any goal we
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  Speaker 4: set is just playing. It's just pain. Like you know,
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  Speaker 4: it hurts, and we're not really sure that the reward
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  Speaker 4: is going to be big enough, so we stop doing it.
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  Speaker 4: If our resolution is to go to the gym three
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  Speaker 4: times a week, but we hate going to the gym,
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  Speaker 4: we're not going to meet our goal. The pain of
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  Speaker 4: not changing has to be greater than the pain of changing.
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  Speaker 4: In other words, if you have to start going to
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  Speaker 4: the gym three days a week, or your doctor said
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  Speaker 4: you're gonna die, well, the pain of not going is
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  Speaker 4: greater death. You know, we need to know our personal
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  Speaker 4: reasons for our goal before you set the goal. You
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  Speaker 4: need to know, well, why am I setting it? For real?
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  Speaker 4: And another reason we don't make it is we're just
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  Speaker 4: not ready to change. You know, you gotta be ready
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  Speaker 4: to change. You know, first there's pre contemplay. You start
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  Speaker 4: to become aware that there may be something you need
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  Speaker 4: to change. Then there's contemplation you're thinking about making a change.
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  Speaker 4: Then there's preparation you start putting a plan together to
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  Speaker 4: make a change. And then there's the action you make
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  Speaker 4: that change. But then there's maintenance. You determine how to
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  Speaker 4: maintain the change. So those are the five things that
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  Speaker 4: go into making a change. And if the change is
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  Speaker 4: going to be lasting, you have to keep it up.
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  Speaker 4: You can't just stop. January is the number one, number
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  Speaker 4: one time for JIM signups, and guess what by April,
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  Speaker 4: fifty percent of those people drop out. Now, being obese,
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  Speaker 4: being overweight is one of the things that people want
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  Speaker 4: to change, and it often seems like we don't have
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  Speaker 4: much help because trying to lose weight. But society is
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  Speaker 4: out here giving us huge portions of food. The grocery
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  Speaker 4: store is filled with bad food, and so we want
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  Speaker 4: to lose weight, but we live in a society that's
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  Speaker 4: not set up to let us lose weight unless we
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  Speaker 4: take a shot. Well, in San Francisco, they're going to
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  Speaker 4: try to help you. San Francisco is going to sue
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  Speaker 4: the ultra processed food companies. The city Attorney accuses large
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  Speaker 4: manufacturers of causing disease that have burdened the governments and
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  Speaker 4: the public through their cost. So last week, the city
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  Speaker 4: attorney filed the nation's first governmental lawsuit against food manufacturers
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  Speaker 4: over ultra processed food, arguing that cities and counties have
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  Speaker 4: been burdened with the cost of treating disease that stems
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  Speaker 4: from their products. David Chu, the city attorney, told The
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  Speaker 4: New York Times that he will sue ten corporations that
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  Speaker 4: make some of the country's most popular food and drinks.
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  Speaker 4: Ultra Processed products now comprise seventy percent of the American
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  Speaker 4: food supply, which is why it's so hard for you
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  Speaker 4: to lose weight and filled grocery store shelves with a
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  Speaker 4: kaleidoscope of colorful package slim gym meat steaks, cool ranch doritos.
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  Speaker 4: But also there's the breads and sauces and granola bars
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  Speaker 4: that are marketed as healthy and they're really not. They're
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  Speaker 4: really not. Now it's very rare that liberal San Francisco
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  Speaker 4: is in line with the Trump administration, but they are.
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  Speaker 4: They have also targeted ultra processed foods as part of
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  Speaker 4: its make America Healthy Again mantra. So yeah, mister Choo's lawsuit,
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  Speaker 4: which has been filed in San Francisco's Superior Court on
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  Speaker 4: behalf of the state of California, seeks unspecified damages for
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  Speaker 4: the costs that local government bear treating residents whose health
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  Speaker 4: has been harmed by ultra processed food. The city accuses
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  Speaker 4: the company of unfair and deceptive acts in how they
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  Speaker 4: market and sell their food, arguing that such practices violate
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  Speaker 4: the state's unfair competition law and public nuisance statues. They
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  Speaker 4: also argue that the companies know that the that their
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  Speaker 4: food makes people sick, and they sell it anyway. Now
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  Speaker 4: there's no clue how successful it will be. In August,
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  Speaker 4: a federal judge in Philadelphia dismissed one of the nation's
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  Speaker 4: first private lawsuits over ultra processed food, filed by a
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  Speaker 4: young consumer who was diagnosed with type two diabetes and
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  Speaker 4: non alcoholic fatty liver at age sixteen. The judge was
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  Speaker 4: appointed by Joe Biden, ruled that plaintiffs claimed lack specifics
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  Speaker 4: about which products he had consumed and when. But the
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  Speaker 4: San Francisco City Attorney's Office has had success as a
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  Speaker 4: ground baking public agency on other health matters. As you recall,
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  Speaker 4: they won five hundred and thirty nine million dollars from
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  Speaker 4: tobacco companies and twenty one million from lead men factorers,
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  Speaker 4: which you never saw a dione dim of. And in
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  Speaker 4: twenty eighteen they sued the opioid manufacturers and they did
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  Speaker 4: in fact win that. So they say, look, the attorney
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  Speaker 4: picked up a box of lunchables and said, look, it's
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  Speaker 4: supposed to contain pepperoni, pizza, fruit punch flavored capricea and
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  Speaker 4: Nestli crunched chocolate bar. But when you try to read
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  Speaker 4: what's in it, you can't. The ingredients you can't even
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  Speaker 4: pronounce at all. Diglyceride xanthem gum, calcium proprionate, cellulose powder,
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  Speaker 4: modified foodstotch, potassium sor bait. He said, it makes me
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  Speaker 4: sick that generations of kids and parents are being deceived
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  Speaker 4: into buying food like lunchables, and it's not even food,
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  Speaker 4: it's basically chemicals. Okay, okay, I could go on with
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  Speaker 4: the story. But you know, in twenty ten, San Francisco
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  Speaker 4: ban fast food restaurants from giving away free toys because
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  Speaker 4: they said that it you know, it made kids think
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  Speaker 4: that they were, you know, getting something fabulous. So I
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  Speaker 4: have an interesting how do I say this? I feel
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  Speaker 4: split on this because I've been a fat person basically
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  Speaker 4: my entire life, and you have to wonder at what point,
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  Speaker 4: you know, is it the person's responsibility. I like, you
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  Speaker 4: live in a sea of poisonous food, but I don't
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  Speaker 4: eat it. You know, I don't eat it, and I
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  Speaker 4: tend to think that, you know, just because the food
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  Speaker 4: is there doesn't mean you have to eat it. Now,
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  Speaker 4: if only seventy if seventy percent of everything is ultra
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  Speaker 4: process and there's only thirty percent of food that isn't,
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  Speaker 4: then yeah, there is a problem. But again, that food
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  Speaker 4: would disappear from the shelves if people stop buying it.
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  Speaker 4: You know, we do live in a country of supply
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  Speaker 4: and demand, and so if we all stopped eating it,
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  Speaker 4: then it wouldn't fill the shelves anymore. They would put
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  Speaker 4: more food that you're buying, and more types of food
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  Speaker 4: that you're buying. So it's sort of a split, double
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  Speaker 4: ed sword for me. I think it's great that cities
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  Speaker 4: and governments are trying to hold food manufacturers accountable for
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  Speaker 4: the junk that they give us. Just like last week
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  Speaker 4: when we talked about people are filing wrongful death lawsuits
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  Speaker 4: against insurance companies. I think that's great. But at the
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  Speaker 4: same time, on this week of New Year's where many
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  Speaker 4: of you are saying you want to eat better food,
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  Speaker 4: it's not that hard to do. I mean I never
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  Speaker 4: barely ever go into the center of the grocery store.
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  Speaker 4: Barely ever. I will go to the bean and rice isle,
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  Speaker 4: the international food isle, and the canned ale for things
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  Speaker 4: like canned tomatoes and stuff like that. But that's about it.
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  Speaker 4: There are if there's thirty aisles in a grocery store,
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  Speaker 4: or let's say twenty, I don't go on seventeen of them.
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  Speaker 4: I go to the outside of the store, the produce section,
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  Speaker 4: and then the little vegan section, which is often in
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  Speaker 4: the produce section, sometimes the frozen section, because I do
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  Speaker 4: like an occasional frozen veggie burger or whatever because they're quick.
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  Speaker 4: But that's about it. That's and then again the canned
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: section and the rice and beans. But that's it. I
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: don't go tow on the chip aisle, the candy ale.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: I don't go. I don't even know what all those
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: they have aisles that are just all bad drinks, like
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: energy drinks and power aids, And it's like, are you
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: freaking kidding me, you know, So they stalk a lot
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: of stuff that's terrible. I never see it. I don't
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: even see it. I don't mean I don't even know
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: where it is or what it is. The fact that
• 20:23
  Speaker 4: the grocery store has half an aisle or a whole
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: isle of chips and snacks, that's the problem. And but
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: I it's not a problem for me because I don't
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: go down those aisles. And it's not just because I
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: don't eat that food. Oreos are vegan, fig newtons are vegan.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: I love fig newtons. I love oreos. So I don't
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: go down those aisles because I might be tempted to
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: put them in the in the basket or in the
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: wagon because I have a wagon, because Ember's in my wagon.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: So it it's a matter of is it the chicken
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: or the egg. Is it that the food companies are
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: only giving us processed food and therefore they're making us
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: sick and we should see that. Or is it that
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: we're only turning to processed foods because it's easy. That
• 21:18
  Speaker 4: the other ostens are there, but we're just not choosing
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: to use it. Do we really have to have all
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: bad things out of our reach?
• 21:28
  Speaker 7: I do stay.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: No it show side.
• 22:00
  Speaker 4: You know that's powerful what I just said. As much
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: willpower as I have in the grocery store, I don't
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: have it at home. For instance, after I had my
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: tea party with the girls and I had leftover mini
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: muffins and Chef Kenny tarts. The next day afterwards, I
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: ate some of them and I was eating too much,
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: so I put them in the composter, and I know
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: I should have given them to the homeless people at
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: the park. I felt bad after that, but I put
• 22:27
  Speaker 4: them in the composter because I thought, you're gonna eat
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: these and with an LDL of one hundred, you can't.
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: You can't. You got to get the LDL down to
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: below seventy. So I thought, well, at a thirty at night,
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: after you've had two Edible's child, you don't eat the
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: mini cupcake. You must say, well, it's just a mini cupcake,
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: it's only one hundred. Then you're going to shove four
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: of them in your pow hole. So I got rid
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: of them. So there is something to be said that
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: if those items that San Francisco is suing over or
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: not on the shelves, if there wasn't an entire aisle
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: of energy drinks, they're an entire aisle of chips and
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: sodas and snacks. Then you wouldn't be able to buy them,
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: or you would be at certain places, but it wouldn't
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: be easy to buy them. Humans tend to go for
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: what's easiest, and that's just a human trait. We tend
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: to go for what's easiest. If it's easy to buy
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: a box of lunchables instead of prepping your kid's lunch
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: with whole foods because you're so busy in the morning,
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: it's easy, whatever it might be, then that's what we're
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: gonna do. Even if it's bad, we're gonna do it.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: And so if lunchables weren't there, or if they were
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: forced to make them better, although you can't. It's processed meats.
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: It's no one should eat lunchables unless they just got
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: carrots and you know, fruits and vegetables and you know,
• 24:02
  Speaker 4: maybe a protein that is not meat, then don't eat them.
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: But people do and they are filled with count And
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: that's the other thing. You might be eating food that
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: you think is good for you and then you read
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: the label and it's like I said about peanut butter.
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: The only ingredient in peanut butter should be peanuts. All
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: you have to do is take your food process or
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: put in two cups of peanuts after you roast them
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: for four or five minutes, and guess what you get
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: roasted peanut butter. No ingredients. I mean, sprinkle a little
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: salt in there if you want, go and read most
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: peanut butters in the store they have other oils added,
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: they have sugar added. They like Skippy. Skippy don't even
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: say it's peanut butter anymore. It says spread. So they
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: take good food nowadays and actually make it bad, and
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: they should be stopped from doing that if you're buying
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: food like granola. Now, granola's not a health food. It's not.
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: It's just lots of sugar and oats and nuts and stuff.
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: There's good stuff in granola, but when you buy it
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: in the store, it is so filled with sugar and
• 25:17
  Speaker 4: sometimes fat. Oil. Make your own granola, you know. Add
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: the other night I made cookies and I thought, I
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: can't use oil, so I use pumpkin pure instead. It
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: cut out an entire eight hundred calories from the recipe
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: just to substitute in pumpkin pure instead of oil, and
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: they tasted fine. They were peanut butter cookies. They were delicious.
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: So as you look ahead to the new year, San
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: Francisco's trying to help you out by getting some of
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: the bad food off the shelf. But remember it's all
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: personal choice, and don't make don't swing at windmills for
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: your resolutions. You know, I'm gonna learn a language, I'm
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: gonna lose fifty pounds, find a husband, and go to Greece. Yeah,
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: probably not. Don't set yourself up to fail. But when
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: it comes to food or anything in life, ultimately you're
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: responsible and can say yes or no. That's the hardest
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: part of life is actually taking responsibility for your own
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: I would like to lose twenty five pounds, or let's
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: say twenty six. That's it's twenty twenty six. I would
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: like to lose twenty six pounds next year. This next year,
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: we're three days away. Will I I'm gonna try. I
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: know I have the knowledge as to how will I
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: be able to We'll see. I'm not gonna beat myself
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: up if I don't. But given that the sleep apnea
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: would get better, my blood pressure would get better, the
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: strain on my Orda would less and even more, It's
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: just a win win for me. And this goes back
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: to does the benefit outweigh the pain? In my case,
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: it does the benefit of losing twenty five or twenty
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: six pounds for twenty twenty six outweighs my love of
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: oreos at eight thirty at night. So I'm going to
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: have to find a way this year that I can
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: live with to successfully cut back on the calories during
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: the day so I can in fact lose this twenty
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: six pounds. If I don't, I'm not going to beat
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: myself up. I'll just keep trying or I'll finally let
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: them give me the zetbound throwing the towel. Oh god. Okay,
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: So a week and a half ago, Scott and I,
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: Scott Jacobson and I did our this Gay Week and
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: he had spotty Internet, but we covered some good stuff.
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: So I want you to see that up next. A
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: lot of interesting stories, So that'll be coming up next,
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: And again I want you to think about the upcoming year.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: You know, we have to be as strong as we
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: can because Trump and politics and just the world in
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: general is gonna be throwing some monumental shit at us.
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: And then in your personal life, I'd like to say
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: many of you are not gonna lose loved ones. You may.
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: I'd like to say all of our pets are gonna
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: make it through the year. They might not, So I'd
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: like to say we're all gonna make it through the year.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: Maybe some of you listening won't, maybe I won't. The
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: world is gonna throw stuff at us, and our stamina,
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: our resilience, our health is our shield. That's how we
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: help protect ourselves. So on the show this year, I'm
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: gonna try to help you develop up some good habits.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: We're gonna cook this week some healthy stuff, and then
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: the week after we're gonna talk more about movement and
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: getting you going and getting you out in the world
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: a little bit more. Because if we are strong, and
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: we are stronger together, as my song said, then you
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: love the music show last week. Many of you may
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: not have thought I love doing it, But if we
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: are strong, it can be our shield. All right, we
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: come back this Gay Week with me and the handsome
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: journalist from Canada, Scott Jacobson. He does a feature called
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: his Gay Week for the good Man Project. I am
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: his guest every week. I decided to start sharing what
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: we talk about. So it's coming up.
• 29:44
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• 30:00
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• 30:09
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• 30:12
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• 30:15
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• 30:29
  Speaker 4: You know, my entire career, I was told on commercial
• 30:32
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• 30:35
  Speaker 4: now that the gays are under attack and I have
• 30:38
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• 30:41
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• 31:00
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• 31:03
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• 31:06
  Speaker 4: are the gay topic. But you know what, we are
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: going backwards across the globe in gay and lesbian rights,
• 31:14
  Speaker 4: and so once or twice a week we're gonna spend
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: a half hour on the show talking about him. Because
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: I know all of you are allies or gay or
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: bye or lesbian or trance. Scott Jacobson's a very handsome
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: journalist out from Canada. I do an interview with him
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: every week for his column in The good Man Project
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: called This Gay Week, and here is part one. All right,
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: it is This Gay Week again with Scott Jacobson in
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: Canada and Corell here in beautiful Las Vegas, where it
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: was thirty seven degrees this morning. All right, We're gonna
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: start with eight heads, a subject near and dear to
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: my heart since I survived the crisis, and tomorrow, the
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: sixth of December, I have a new single coming out
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: called I Dance because with twelve remixes count them. And
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: it was written because I have lost so many friends
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: to HIV AIDS that every time I dance to oldies,
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: I cry because I remember all of those that I
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: have lost, And so I was looking up some ads info.
• 32:13
  Speaker 4: First of all, we got to remember that AIDS the
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: United States refused this December first to participate in World
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: Aid's Day, which Madonna has denounced and called reprehensible and ridiculous,
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: as did many people in the world. We have to
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: remember that every two hours in the United States and
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: every or every forty five minutes globally, somebody still dies
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: of HIV AIDS, so it is not cured. Proteus inhibitors
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: are a great advancement that are saving lives, but they
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: are not a cure and prep is great, but a
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: getting it to people now with Donald Trump's cuts has
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: been horrible and b again, it is not one hundred percent.
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: So the first big news about AIDS this week was that,
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: for the first time since the inception of World Aid's Day,
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: the United States did not participate in it, once again
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: showing the homophobia and the power of Project twenty twenty
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: five that it has on the White House. It was
• 33:10
  Speaker 4: denounced by many people, including Madonna, as cruel and ridiculous
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: or unnecessary, but of course this is a White House
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: that doesn't care. Meanwhile, the rest of the world did
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: care and does care, and they commemorated those we have lost.
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: In Australia, it was very powerful. They read the names
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: of Australian's lost to AIDS. It was a very impactful
• 33:34
  Speaker 4: and powerful movement. They did this on their national television.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: It wasn't just at some little event, and so that
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: was very powerful. But also there was news out yesterday
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: from the University of California and San Francisco about long
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: term HIV control and they're looking into ex visting immunotherapies
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: and combinations. And one of the things that AI is
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: really doing for us is allowing us to make different
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: existing therapies for things that we might have never thought
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: of combining. But AI thinks of it and does and
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: something comes out of it. So we are hoping again
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: that this would just be a long term treatment, not
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: a cure. I mean, we were hoping for a cure,
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: but this is not a cure. But on December first,
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: World's a Day in Nature, they did publish this trial
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: which relied on a collaboration with a dozen pharmaceutical companies
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: and other partners in their HIV research, and they offered
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: a proof of concept the approach could work, and that
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: approaches combining experimental immunotherapy agents as well as existing ones,
• 34:42
  Speaker 4: and seven out of ten participants kept the virus at
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: undetectable levels, because that is what we are hoping for
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: in treatments for at least six months after the trial,
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: which is prom mis seeing news as we know their
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: problem or maybe you don't know, but the problem with
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: HIV therapies is the blood brain barrier, as it is
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: with a lot of therapies. We have to cross that
• 35:09
  Speaker 4: barrier because HIV hides out in the organs, and so
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: they can cleanse the blood of it, but it's still
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: going to be there in the brain and the kidney
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: and the liver. So they have to make sure they
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: have a drug that can actually break the blood brain
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: or traverse the blood brain barrier. They think these immuno
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: retrovirals are you know, a good way to do that.
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: We'll see where that research goes, but it is promising
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: that even though Donald Trump has cut so much in
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: AGE research, that other countries are still pouring money, resources
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: and time into it and they are making some advances
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: like this trial which has came out on weld age
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: date Ecember first. It's probably primit of medicine that you
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: see SF San Francisco and was presented at the World
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: AIDS Conference in Australia. Well, that is very, very exciting
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: from the world of age. You again with Scott Jacobson.
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• 36:30
  Speaker 4: Okay. So I feel sorry for gen Z as I'm
• 36:33
  Speaker 4: here talking to Scott Jacobson and he's talking to me
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: him for the good Man Project, which I really want
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: him to tell us about one day as he traveled.
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: He's traversing the world for his journalistic endeavors, and I'm
• 36:44
  Speaker 4: a little jealous. When I was a journalist, we had
• 36:45
  Speaker 4: no budget to go anywhere except in the coffee room.
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: But he's in DC as we speak. So you're not
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: gen Z. So what are you, jen Y gen X?
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: You're not Jen're You're a millennial Jesus, I have shoes
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: older than you. But anyway, so they did a survey
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: and this this is a great segue from an aide story,
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: because when ages came around, it was really like the
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: music stopped. Okay, So suddenly those of us who were
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: out going to bath houses going home with people whose
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: names we might have gotten before we left the house,
• 37:20
  Speaker 4: maybe not. You know, I can't tell you how many
• 37:23
  Speaker 4: times I would be like, oh, yeah, that's with this
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: hot guy. What's his name, well, Jack Daniels, I don't know.
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: So now because of the lockdown to Trump presidencies, because
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: of you know, COVID and monkey pocks and everything else,
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: gen Z is grappling with love dating in the bedroom.
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: They're having fewer one night stands. They are taking to
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: AI lovers. I don't know how that even works. But okay,
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: CHADGPT as many things, but not sexy. So politicians and
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: parents have influences whose are all asking about the love
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: life of gen Z and basically what they're getting back
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: in today's day and age. And this is across the world,
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: by the way, It's not just the United States. If
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: that young people aren't having much sex, and that's very interesting.
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: Birth rates are declining, so this isn't just a gay thing.
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: But I will tell you the notion or the stereotype
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: of the gay man as promiscuous that has really died
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: with my generation gen X and baby Boomer because the
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: new generations, Millennials, gen Y, gen Z, they be in hosts.
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: You know, they are really not going out and having
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: as much sex as we did. I feel sorry for them.
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: As George Michael said, sex is natural, Sex is good.
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: Not everybody doesn't, but everybody should, you know, not that
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: I've had it recently. I'm sixty three, who's you know what.
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: I don't want to sleep with a raisin because that's
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: what men my age look like to me, a little
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: rippled up raisins. And it's really, you know, nothing more
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: cliche than a sixty three year old man with a
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: thirty five year old So unless if I were rich,
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: should perhaps it's the Donna or fair Yeah, oh yes,
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: I'd be screwing every dancer around. But they're not. That
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: gen Z is not. And the other thing about gen
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: Z that's very interesting is they're not classifying their sex
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: as gay or straight. If you parse out some of
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: the details of the article, it shows that they're a
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: little more fluid with their identification of who they're having
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: sex with. Thirty two percent in twenty twenty three of
• 39:43
  Speaker 4: high schoolers said they had had sex. That is compared
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: to forty seven percent in twenty thirteen. So back in
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: twenty thirteen, almost half of high schoolers had said, oh, yeah,
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: I've had sex, and how many of those lied we
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: don't know, But now it's down to thirty two, so
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: less than one This would be, you know, nice news
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: for parents. Less than one third of high schoolers have
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: said they've had sex. A survey conducted by the Kinsey
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: Institute in partnership with the sexual wellness brand Love Honey
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: Loube found that one in four Gen Z adults aged
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: eighteen to twenty four have not had partnered sex yet.
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: Now I don't know what they're saying partnered. I'm not
• 40:24
  Speaker 4: really sure, like, how do you have sex without a partner?
• 40:27
  Speaker 4: So you know, I but maybe you could enlighten me
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: on that, mister millennial, how do you have sex without
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: a partner?
• 40:34
  Speaker 9: I mean, my guess is that they mean they're in
• 40:36
  Speaker 9: some type of good relationship rather than rather in the
• 40:39
  Speaker 9: sense of there has to be a body there, right,
• 40:42
  Speaker 9: it would be once more, it would be logical possibility.
• 40:45
  Speaker 9: Over do you think part of this is tied to
• 40:47
  Speaker 9: social media technology and.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: So you're in and that is yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: and thank you for bringing that up. In the era
• 41:00
  Speaker 4: of more connection, I read a remarkable article last a
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: night about how we are in trouble. We're in big trouble,
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: and it said, welcome to the age of anti social media.
• 41:09
  Speaker 4: And what the article was about is the more we
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: gravitate online, the less we are doing human interaction, and that, yes,
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: you got to have human interaction to have sex, at
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: least my day you did. Maybe you can enlighten me
• 41:29
  Speaker 4: about that. But there's also a lot of angry guys
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: out there. And if you look at the statistics that
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: eighteen to twenty four, one in three gen Z men
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: eighteen to twenty four have reported not having sex. So
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: if thirty three percent of men eighteen to twenty four
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: aren't having sex, it explains a lot of the upset
• 41:47
  Speaker 4: people on the internet. And I really don't want to
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: equate this, but I kind of am. It also explains
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: some of the mass shootings, you know, because let's be real,
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: young men, when you're eighteen to twenty four, you are
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: meant to have sex. Your hormones are raging, and if
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: you're not having sex, those hormones are gonna manifest some
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: other way. Explains the Andrew Tates of the world. That
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: explains this toxic.
• 42:20
  Speaker 6: Yes, I'm looking at two parts of the state.
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: I mean, I think it explains the toxic masculinity that
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: is out there right now, because.
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: Right it's a little bit of a time be layer think.
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: Now with gen Z women, Yeah, there is a time delay.
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: It's like I'm doing a live network with you know,
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: with Europe, and I'm waiting for the host to answer
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: me very hard. Woman under thirty are more likely to
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: be in a relationship than men under thirty. That's also yeah, yeah, yeah, no,
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: I'm here, Bob, ask me anything. It's amazing that women
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: under thirty are It's amazing that women under thirty are
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: more apt to be in a relationship than men under
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: thirty because I wonder who those women are the relationships with,
• 43:07
  Speaker 4: maybe other women thirty.
• 43:10
  Speaker 9: One, the women, the speculations, and they're be dating older
• 43:16
  Speaker 9: that that's been widely speculator one speculation I haven't heard.
• 43:19
  Speaker 9: I mean it's two second one dating older to their
• 43:21
  Speaker 9: dating other women. Three they could be sharing men.
• 43:29
  Speaker 4: Well, I don't share my man, so I would do
• 43:32
  Speaker 4: to your point about other women, h twenty percent of
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: women gen Z who are Republican, twenty percent of women,
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: thirty eight percent of men. However, gen Z that identify
• 43:44
  Speaker 4: as LGBTQ, the number between men and women is remarkable.
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: Thirty two percent of women identify as somewhere on that
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: spectrum queer, lesbian, bisexual, whatever it might be. Eighteen percent
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: of gen Z males say that they're LGBTQ. That's a
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: large number, by the way. Back in my day it
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: was like one two percent. But it's amazing the gender
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: gap that thirty two percent, like one third of women
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: admit that, yeah, I could be with a woman eighteen
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: percent of men in this survey that I'm reading, which
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: is from which let's state our source here. This is
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: from The Guardian. Though sixty three percent of men under
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: thirty are single. That's compared with only thirty four percent
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: of women under the age of thirty. So you're right,
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: they've got to be dating someone or doing something, because
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: if sixty three percent of men are single under thirty
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: and thirty four percent on women, they're obviously dating someone.
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: Thirty one percent of women identify somewhere on the gay spectrum,
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: of only eighteen percent of men, which might explain the
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: difference in the relationship gap. I think women are opening
• 44:57
  Speaker 4: themselves up to relationships with other women more than men
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: are opening themselves up to relationship with other men. Conservative
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: policies lead to the fear of sex. Some women's sex
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: lives have been adversely affected by recent conservative political triumphs
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: on social media. The raw emotion of Trump selection soon
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: made itself clear. Talk of a four B movement, which
• 45:23
  Speaker 4: I'm not quite sure what that is. I'll have to
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: look that up. Maybe you know what the four B
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: movement is. I don't know.
• 45:27
  Speaker 6: Yeah, four be.
• 45:30
  Speaker 9: It's there's four bees in Korean language that ulster would
• 45:34
  Speaker 9: be and it means something to the effect of no marriage, men,
• 45:39
  Speaker 9: no children, no sex as long so Korean would.
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: There should be a fifth thing there, no fun there
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: should be there should be a fifth thing. It should well,
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: there should be a fifth thing there no fund should
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: be number five. It's like you know, uh, so politics
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: are affecting the sex lives of gen Z there and
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: particularly conservative politics. Non Monogamy is on the table, but
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: gen Z does not seem to be taken with it
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: as other generations, which is very interesting. Gen Z are
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: most likely to say they prefer monogamy as a relationship
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: style twenty three percent of them, Boomers twelve percent, So
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: my generation is a little more open to being open
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: as opposed to the younger people. I'm not one of those.
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: I can't do the open marriages or open relationships. I
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: dated a bye guy once and I tried to not
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: get jealous about the women he went with, and I
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: got jealous. So you know, and they're not they're not
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: having Yeah, I did say a boy to the buy guy.
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: First date sex can be a known of with Gen
• 46:48
  Speaker 4: Z as well, more so than Gen X or millennials
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: or boomers. And of course, if you're a gay man,
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: you have sex before the date because you don't want
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: to waste a good date on someone you're not going
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: to get laid by. That's really the truth. I mean,
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: older gay men dating is great. Well yeah, I mean
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: with older gay men that was the way. But it
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: appears that younger gay people are opting for a different way.
• 47:16
  Speaker 4: They're opting for get to know you first and then
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: have sex, which might explain why they're not having enough
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: sex because you know. Meanwhile, in good entertainment news, there
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: is a movie coming out that I just can't wait
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: for because I'm a biker. I'm a motorcyclist, I have
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: been for almost thirty years, and it's called Pillion. Well,
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: the Baptists, which are the British Film Awards, have a
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: cousin called the beefas the IFAs. Those are the British
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: Independent Film Academy Awards and Pillion is the name of
• 47:48
  Speaker 4: the movie. And it cleaned up at the beefas it
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: won like almost every major award. Alexander'scard's guard, the hunk
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: from True Blood and others. He is in the movie
• 48:02
  Speaker 4: and it's it's kind of a comedy but not and
• 48:06
  Speaker 4: it's about gay bikers into the SNM. Now, how they're
• 48:10
  Speaker 4: going to release this in polite culture, I don't know,
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: but they are and it's getting huge, huge award at
• 48:19
  Speaker 4: the British Independent Film Awards, like it swept basically and
• 48:25
  Speaker 4: it took everybody by surprise. It won Best Film at
• 48:30
  Speaker 4: the Bypass in Britain, so that was just really stunning
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: for a film about gay bikers and BDSM. It's adapted
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: from the Adam mars Jones novel Box Hill. It picked
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: up for Best Debut Screenwriter for Harry Lytton, Best Costume,
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: Best Hair, Best Makeup, Best Film. It's gotten four star
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: reviews from the Guardian and from almost every other European
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: media outlet that has reviewed it. So that's a piece
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: of good news. We have a gay film about gay
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: bdsm uh and it's actually cleaning up. We have yet
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: to see what it will do in America. America tends
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: to be a little more prudish, but we'll see, you know.
• 49:13
  Speaker 4: The last film we had that came out kind of
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: centering on the gaze that created a huge amount of
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: controversy was al Pacino's Cruising, of which there is a
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: new Russell Tovey movie out by the way, which sort
• 49:27
  Speaker 4: of is almost like Cruising by al Pacino and is
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: also winning awards. Another fun piece of news out of Ireland.
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: So bears, for those of you that don't know, are
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: basically gay harry men who have not seen ozempic, you
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: know who stay away from ozempic. It appears that Ireland
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: has the highest percentage of bears in the world. So
• 49:54
  Speaker 4: if you want to go or something this, according to Grinder, don't.
• 50:00
  Speaker 4: I I would not have looked. I would not have
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: thought Ireland, and that, you know. I would have thought
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: maybe some cold nation like Scotland where the men are
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: bearded and you know, burly men, you know. But but no,
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: it is Ireland, according to Grinder. It just Grinder did
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: an unwrapped And I know a lot of people are
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: getting their music. Did you get your music unwrapped? To
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: you do you stream the music? How do you listen
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: to music?
• 50:28
  Speaker 6: I stream it on Spotify, but I don't know the
• 50:30
  Speaker 6: unwrapped option.
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: But as I go, well, you should beginning it. If
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: you're a Spotify member, they send it to everybody that's
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: signed up and it's basically your ear in music, it's
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: what you listened to. Last year, I listened to ninety
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: two thousand minutes of music and in the United States
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: I was European superstar Emily Sonde's top five percent of listeners. So,
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: based on anonymous and aggregated data from users to grind,
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: under Unwrapped report for twenty twenty five says that there's
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: more Bears in Ireland than any other country. And of
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: course the Bears are a subculture in our culture. It's
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: really weird how gays split up. There's bear bars and
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: twin bars and pretty boy bars. We call them circuit
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: bars or circuit queens because of the party's circuit, the
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: white parties. You know, there's a party circuit, Provincetown, all
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: of that Peatown.
• 51:29
  Speaker 7: Okay, so I do subspact state.
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: Now it's show side.
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: And so bear are actually, you know, a subculture, but
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: they have really and truly caught on. So I guess
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: I have to stop making my joke that bears are
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: just gay men who have given up on hygiene and
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: won't use thozenbic because it appears they're very popular. So
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: all right, we've got a couple more stories. Hurries to
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: go here from your coffee shop, per called on just
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: a second that time or seven minutes and thirty seconds.
• 52:33
  Speaker 4: Here is something good out of the UK, which is
• 52:36
  Speaker 4: that there will be free health and well being kit
• 52:39
  Speaker 4: for trans and non binary people launched in the UK.
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: So as we see governments pulling back on supporting trans
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: it is so nice to see that in the UK
• 52:48
  Speaker 4: they're offering free health and well being kits for trans
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: and non binary people because you know, it's there's a
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: war going on with trans people and it's into an
• 52:59
  Speaker 4: international war. As we know in many African nations, they're
• 53:02
  Speaker 4: killing trans people, they are out law trans people, they
• 53:06
  Speaker 4: are jailing trans people. So it's nice that you know,
• 53:11
  Speaker 4: we're seeing the UK is actually saying no, we're we
• 53:14
  Speaker 4: are going to help trans people with a health kit.
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: A toolkit created by an an an e. It focuses
• 53:24
  Speaker 4: on UK specific healthcare Ireland's house system is also lacking
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: when it comes to trans inclusivity, resources and funding, and
• 53:32
  Speaker 4: so they are members of the UK who are trans
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: healthcare Form members are trying to bring this kit to
• 53:38
  Speaker 4: Ireland as well and other nations so that trans people
• 53:42
  Speaker 4: can have some resources to help them either a transition
• 53:48
  Speaker 4: or help them after they have transitioned. So that's some
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: good news.
• 53:55
  Speaker 6: So it's not Superio. Second, laborers, have you heard the Durnam?
• 54:02
  Speaker 9: Have you heard the ya the jurnam?
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: Well, have you heard the herd the dirt? Have you
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: heard the dirt about Eurovision? No? So the Games have
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: claimed Eurovision as our own because let's be real, it's
• 54:18
  Speaker 4: pretty gay. It's it's it's the you know, competition that
• 54:21
  Speaker 4: gave us Abba. So you know, so Ireland and several
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: other nations are not going to compete in Eurovision because
• 54:28
  Speaker 4: Israel is being permitted to compete. There are those that
• 54:32
  Speaker 4: feel Israel is continuing a genocide against the Palestinian people
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: and they should suffer some repercussion. And so Ireland and
• 54:43
  Speaker 4: three other nations have said they are not going to
• 54:48
  Speaker 4: compete in the Eurovision twenty twenty six not because of
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: a stance on LGBTQ issues, but because Israel has been
• 54:57
  Speaker 4: allowed to participate and they really feel that the biggest
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: violator of human rights right now is in fact Israel,
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: and so that's that's very very interesting. Also, Hugh Wallace
• 55:09
  Speaker 4: from Ireland passed away. I saw and met mister Wallace.
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: He was a gay presenter there in Ireland, very very
• 55:18
  Speaker 4: well known, and he passed away and I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
• 55:24
  Speaker 4: He was an architect who was also a TV star.
• 55:27
  Speaker 4: He let's not negate his you know what. He had
• 55:29
  Speaker 4: has degree in but he was open to gay and
• 55:33
  Speaker 4: he passed away and the tributes from across the UK
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: are pouring in. He did like Home of the Year,
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: the Great House Revival, my Bungalow Bliss. So he was
• 55:42
  Speaker 4: like their property brothers here in the United States. And
• 55:45
  Speaker 4: he's passed away and the world is out pouring love
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: to him. And that's again another positive story. That's nice
• 55:50
  Speaker 4: to see because he was very beloved and the tributes
• 55:54
  Speaker 4: are showing and their worldwide tributes are coming in from
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: all and many other countries, and it's nice to see
• 56:00
  Speaker 4: that he has in fact been so beloved. Let's see,
• 56:05
  Speaker 4: I had a Russia story. Did did was it you
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: that sent me the rest? I had a Russia story.
• 56:09
  Speaker 4: I don't know where it went to.
• 56:12
  Speaker 9: Uh it was under you said, this was under LGBT
• 56:15
  Speaker 9: Communation report blocks children's gaming platform world block providing antig
• 56:20
  Speaker 9: example walk And that's actually interesting too because the war context,
• 56:25
  Speaker 9: there's one systematic state policy stuff put on using video
• 56:30
  Speaker 9: games as a very subtle and easily accepted forms of
• 56:36
  Speaker 9: delivery for variouspression coup agenda.
• 56:39
  Speaker 6: But in university b TQ one this is.
• 56:41
  Speaker 9: I think would be for the writing the line with
• 56:43
  Speaker 9: that in terms of their antiopp. I think said, of
• 56:46
  Speaker 9: course some other stories where their model was being taken
• 56:50
  Speaker 9: into account for other countries that you wish to not
• 56:54
  Speaker 9: necessarily line of rotor was aligned with their state policy on.
• 57:00
  Speaker 6: When they're in the artists, well, you.
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: Know, Russia's going rogue. They're trying to distance themselves from China,
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: which is why Plutin is in India, and they're really
• 57:10
  Speaker 4: trying to become a the world superpower, and so they're
• 57:12
  Speaker 4: trying to get away from their reliance on China and
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: other countries. So they're kind of going rogue, but certainly
• 57:20
  Speaker 4: they are tripling down on their anti gay rhetoric, and
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: it is dangerous because it might influence game makers and
• 57:28
  Speaker 4: their decisions. I was playing a game. I used to
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: play games. Do you are you a gamer?
• 57:33
  Speaker 6: Used to be a gamer? But it's great times.
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I used to be a gamer. I'm not anymore.
• 57:39
  Speaker 4: But there was a game, and I forget. It was
• 57:42
  Speaker 4: a very very popular game, and it was one of
• 57:46
  Speaker 4: those games where you could make choices, like at the
• 57:51
  Speaker 4: end of a scene, you could choose to go this way,
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: or choose to go that way, or choose to go
• 57:56
  Speaker 4: with this person, or choose to go with that person.
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: There was a in the game where your hero goes
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: to a bar. He's a male hero and he goes
• 58:04
  Speaker 4: to a bar, and you can choose to go home
• 58:07
  Speaker 4: home with another man or another woman. You can choose
• 58:13
  Speaker 4: you don't, And so they built it in the game
• 58:15
  Speaker 4: where you can choose to go home with the bartender
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: or whatever. And I found that very it was very cool,
• 58:22
  Speaker 4: and he was hot for a video game. And I'm
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: just worried that with Russia doing this that game manufacturers
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: who have now been very pro LGBTQ in like you say,
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: subtly putting it in their games, not being overly overt,
• 58:37
  Speaker 4: but putting it in there kind of in a subtle way.
• 58:41
  Speaker 4: They may decide to pull back because I imagine Russia
• 58:43
  Speaker 4: is a pretty big market for gaming, so they you know,
• 58:47
  Speaker 4: so we'll see or maybe they'll do two different versions
• 58:49
  Speaker 4: of a game. I don't know, but I do know
• 58:53
  Speaker 4: that it's in linement that Russia is trying to do,
• 58:55
  Speaker 4: which is Russia. In Vladimir Putin's mind, if you make
• 59:01
  Speaker 4: all these laws, if you stop disseminating information, if you
• 59:05
  Speaker 4: take all the gays off TV, if you take them
• 59:08
  Speaker 4: out a video game, in his mind, then you won't
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: have any gays. And of course we know that Vladimir
• 59:15
  Speaker 4: Putin is completely wrong about that. All right, I am Corell.
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: I want you to be who you want to be.
• 59:19
  Speaker 4: Son to hurt anybody tomorrow. Eric Dane, he has als
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: and I was lucky enough to view a press conference
• 59:28
  Speaker 4: he did. They gave me access to that. I'm going
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: to play it here because people with disabilities deserve to
• 59:34
  Speaker 4: be hurt as well. We'll see you tomorrow. Have a
• 59:38
  Speaker 4: happy December twenty ninth, and a happy New Year's week,
• 59:42
  Speaker 4: and yeah, I'll be here with you all week.
• 59:44
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