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Why Your Twin Flame Runs (And How to Stop It) · Twin Flame Guides

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  If you're on the twin flame journey, you might have heard
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  that detachment is very important, but why is that and
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  why is it a key to achieve twin flame union?
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  I'm Julia, the other half of twin flame guides.
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  We are twin flames in union helping other twin flames to
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  union like yourself. So make sure to subscribe.
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  So detachment on the twin flame journey is one of those things
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  that is much easier said than done because this is literally
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  the other half of your soul. You were once the same soul and
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  you share the same oversoul. So how can you you just detach
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  and go on with your life when you know that they are here on
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  earth this lifetime, and you've even met them?
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  You feel like your heart is being pulled out of your chest
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  every time you check your phone and see no message.
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  You're stuck in a cycle of obsessing, wondering what
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  they're doing, and feeling like your life is on hold until they
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  return. But this desperate, clinging
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  energy is actually the very thing pushing your twin flame
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  further away because it creates a wall of resistance.
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  And I want to clarify something. Detachment doesn't mean that
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  you're giving up on them. You no longer love them.
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  It's that you stop needing a specific result to be OK.
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  You need to truly be OK with that.
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  You might not be destined to unite with your twin flame this
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  lifetime. Now, since we're approaching new
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  Earth, more and more twin flames are getting together into union
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  like me and my twin flame. But not every single twin flame
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  on earth is meant to be with their twin flame.
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  But know that on higher dimensions, you are permanently
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  husband and wife. And when you become OK with
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  this, then you shift from obsessing to focusing on
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  yourself. Healing stepping into your dream
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  life, self-care and this makes you energetically magnetic to
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  your twin flame to anchor this shift.
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  I want you to type in the comments.
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  I am whole, I am love because the truth is you've got to be
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  whole on the inside before you can unite.
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  So external twin flame union, like we always say on this
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  channel, twin flame union is an inside job.
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  So let's talk a bit about the mirror effect because this
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  explains why the detachment is so important.
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  So you might have heard that your twin flame is, it's also
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  called your mirror soul. They basically hold up a mirror
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  in front of you when you meet them and reflect back your own
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  inner state. So if you are in the state of
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  lack and desperation, they will reflect that by staying distant
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  or running. So the key to reunion is to
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  achieve inner marriage. So your feminine energy balance
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  and your masculine energy balance to be as balanced as
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  possible. This is also called heroes
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  gamos. And when you're balanced within,
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  you don't need them to complete you.
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  They're just a cherry on top of the delicious stream life you
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  already have. And in our programme, twin flame
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  Reunion Fast Track, which teach you grounded simple exercises
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  that you can do to achieve heroes gamos to magnetise your
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  twin flame. Check it out in the description.
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  Another part of twin flame detachment is focusing on your
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  own purpose rather than postponing your life until
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  union. You live your life now.
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  You follow your calling, whatever that is.
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  Is it being an energy healer? Is it joining a volunteer
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  programme for a 'cause that you're interested in?
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  Maybe you've always wanted to start a vegan restaurant?
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  Whatever that calling is, start with that.
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  Because when you're in your purpose, you are on your core
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  frequency, which is what will attract your twin flame.
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  Your purpose precedes your partner and the universe can't
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  move a steel car, so you must start taking action on your own
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  sole mission. Stop waiting for the perfect
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  conditions and take messy action towards your calling.
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  Living your purpose makes you radiant and grounds you in your
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  own sovereignty. And if you're like Julia, I
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  actually have no idea what my purpose is, then don't worry
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  because in the description I've put down a link to our free PDF
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  on how to find your purpose in five simple steps.
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  Now here are three things that will help you step into
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  detachment and surrender. Step one is to practise
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  mindfulness. This will help you stop
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  replaying the past or chasing a future that hasn't happened yet.
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  My favourite form of mindfulness is meditation.
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  It's so easy, you can do it anytime and one little hack that
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  I found is to use a frequency device, specifically 174 Hertz.
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  I use this one by Energy Muse. When you put it on, it creates
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  this field around the room of 174 Hertz, which is a very
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  grounding frequency. So your nervous system feels
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  like like I can relax. When I first started using it, I
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  felt how my crown checker was expanding.
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  And the reason for this is because I was so in my body and
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  no longer in my mind. I've popped it in the
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  description of where you can buy this.
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  Step 2. Recognise your attachment.
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  Be honest about where you're trying to control the timeline
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  or the how of your reunion. And I find a good way to create
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  more awareness is to journal daily.
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  Have a journal, preferably physical, so you can write with
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  pen and paper and see what comes through.
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  Step three, let go of the outcome.
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  Trust that what is divinely yours cannot be kept from you
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  once you are in alignment. And one last thing that I needed
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  to mention because this is so important.
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  Twin flames can be a little bit toxic sometimes, so if they are
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  being disrespectful to you or are hurting you, really channel
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  your inner black cat. It's super important, especially
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  for twin flames to hold your standards, hold your boundaries,
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  not let them disrespect you just because they are the other half
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  of your soul. The higher version of them don't
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  want you to just let yourself be walked all over.
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  So prioritise your own needs and stop the codependent spiral.
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  Focus on your own joy and mission.
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  Your twin flame will energetically feel that shift
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  and be naturally drawn back to your light.
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  Let me know if this resonated. What are your thoughts?
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  Love you so much and see you in the next episode.