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- Lucas: There's a moment in almost every sales conversation that determines whether you close at full price or end up giving away margin. And most salespeople handle it completely wrong. Luna: Let me guess — the moment after you say the price? Lucas: Exactly. You state your number, and then there's this silence. The buyer is processing. And the rep's instinct is to fill that silence with justification, or a discount, or some nervous chatter that signals weakness. Luna: I've done it. I remember quoting a five-figure annual subscription and immediately following it with, 'but we can be flexible.' I basically handed them the discount before they even asked. Lucas: Right, and that's exactly what we're going to unpack today. The strategic pause — how long to hold it, what to do with your body language, and when it can actually lose you the deal if you do it wrong. Luna: Is there research on this, or is it more of a practiced art? Lucas: There's actual data. A study from the University of Michigan looked at negotiation timing and found that pauses of three seconds or longer increased the likelihood of a favorable outcome by nearly 40 percent. But here's the catch — the pause has to feel deliberate, not awkward. Luna: Three seconds sounds like an eternity in a live conversation. Lucas: It does. But I've timed some of the best closers I know. They routinely hold four to seven seconds after stating their price. And the buyer almost never interrupts — they're waiting for the rep to say something, and when the rep doesn't, the buyer starts to justify the price to themselves. Luna: So the silence forces them to process the value, not the cost. Lucas: Exactly. There's a cognitive effect called the 'deliberation pause.' When you let the number hang, the buyer's brain shifts from 'can I afford this?' to 'can I justify this?' And that's a much more productive frame for you. Luna: I want to hear a specific example. Give me a real deal where this worked. Lucas: Sure. I worked with a rep at a SaaS company selling project management software to mid-market firms. Their average deal was around $40,000 annually. This rep — let's call him Mark — was trained to state the price and then shut up. He told me about a call with a VP of operations at a logistics company. Luna: Tough buyer, I'm guessing. Lucas: Very. The VP had been through three demos with competitors. Mark gave his standard presentation, built value, then said, 'The investment for your team is $42,000 per year.' And then he counted silently to twelve — he told me he counted one-Mississippi up to twelve. Luna: Twelve seconds? That's double what you said was typical. Lucas: It was. But Mark said the VP just stared at him, then looked down at his notepad, then back up. Finally he said, 'Well, that's more than I budgeted, but I've seen what your platform does for scheduling. If you can guarantee the implementation timeline we discussed, I'll find the money.' And he did. No discount. No pushback on price. Luna: Wow. So the silence made the VP sell himself on the value. Lucas: That's exactly it. But here's the nuance — Mark told me that if he had broken the silence at second five or six, he would have likely said something like 'of course, we can work on the pricing.' He would have caved. The extra seven seconds gave the buyer time to arrive at his own conclusion. Luna: But what about buyers who are trained to out-wait you? Procurement professionals, for example. They use silence as a tactic too. Lucas: Great point. And that's where the pause can backfire if you're not reading the room. With procurement, they may sit in silence for thirty seconds deliberately, trying to make you uncomfortable. In that case, you need a different move — maybe a gentle reframe like, 'I'm happy to give you a moment to think. While you do, let me clarify what's included.' Luna: So you're not competing on who can hold silence longer. You're using it as a tool, not a contest. Lucas: Exactly. The pause has to be calibrated to the buyer's style. For a decisive, action-oriented VP, a seven-second silence might feel like an insult — they want you to keep moving. For a more analytical CFO, the silence gives them space to compute. You have to know your audience. Luna: How do you practice this without making it feel robotic? Because if you're counting seconds in your head, you're not fully present. Lucas: That's the hardest part. I recommend role-playing with a timer. Have a colleague state a price, then you sit in silence while they time you. Start with three seconds, work up to six. You'll feel the urge to talk around second two. Train yourself to breathe instead. Eventually it becomes natural. Luna: And what about your body language during the pause? If you're looking down or fidgeting, you're undermining the silence. Lucas: Absolutely. Maintain eye contact, nod slightly, keep your hands still. You want to project confidence and patience. If you break eye contact, the buyer thinks you're unsure. If you smile too much, it looks like you're hiding something. Neutral, attentive, calm. Luna: So the pause is a signal: 'I believe in my price, and I trust you to see the value.' Lucas: That's the message. And it's surprisingly rare. Most reps are so eager to close that they can't stand the quiet. They start talking about payment terms, or implementation timelines, or — worst of all — they ask 'does that work for you?' which invites objection. Luna: I've done that too. 'So, how does that sound?' — and then they say 'it sounds expensive.' Lucas: Exactly. You've handed them the script. Instead, after the pause, if they haven't spoken, you can ask a different question: 'What questions do you have about the investment?' — which assumes they're considering it, not rejecting it. Luna: That's a subtle but powerful reframe. 'Investment' vs 'price.' 'Questions' vs 'does that work.' Lucas: Right. And one more thing — the pause works even better over video calls. On Zoom, the slight delay makes silence feel even more loaded. I've seen reps close deals just by sitting still after their quote while the buyer stares at the screen. Luna: I want to try this in my next call. But I'm also curious — are there situations where you should never pause? Lucas: Yes. If the buyer is clearly confused or overwhelmed, a pause can increase anxiety. You need to gauge their emotional state. Also, if you're in a competitive bidding situation where they've asked for a final offer by a deadline, pausing too long can seem like you're hesitating. Context matters. Luna: So it's not a one-size-fits-all technique. But when used right, it's a lever. Lucas: It's one of the few levers that costs nothing and can save you thousands in discounts. And it works across industries — I've seen it in enterprise software, consulting, even car sales. Luna: On that note, we've actually been able to keep this show ad-free and independent precisely because listeners like you support it. If these conversations have helped you think differently about your own deals, buying us a coffee is a small but real way to keep them going. It's buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo. No pressure, just if it's added value. Lucas: Yeah, that's what keeps the lights on. And honestly, even a couple of dollars a month adds up. So thank you to anyone who's chipped in. Now back to the pause — one more practical tip: try recording your own sales calls and counting how long you actually pause after stating your price. Most people are shocked to find they pause less than a second. Luna: I'm going to do that. And I bet I'll find I'm filling the silence with all sorts of nervous filler words. Lucas: You will. But the good news is, it's fixable. Start with three seconds this week. Just three. You'll probably close at least one deal with better terms. Luna: Alright, challenge accepted. Thanks Lucas. And thanks to everyone listening. See you next time.