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- 0:00Dave Hamilton: Business Brain, episode 768 for Wednesday, July 8th, National Blueberry Day, 2026.
- 0:09Dave Hamilton: Welcome to Business Brain. I know. I love blueberries.
- 0:12Shannon Jean: I'm a big fan of them.
- 0:13Dave Hamilton: I've been obsessed with blueberries for like the last two and a half years,
- 0:17Dave Hamilton: to the point where like I started to wonder, is there something that blueberries
- 0:22Dave Hamilton: give me that like I'm craving and missing?
- 0:24Shannon Jean: Antioxidants, right?
- 0:25Dave Hamilton: Yeah, but like, did your body crave antioxidants? I don't know.
- 0:28Dave Hamilton: Maybe it does. I don't know. Sure, yeah.
- 0:31Shannon Jean: It craves sugar.
- 0:32Dave Hamilton: Well, my body craves sugar for sure, yeah.
- 0:35Shannon Jean: So does mine.
- 0:37Dave Hamilton: Welcome to Business Brain, everybody. The show where we take some ideas,
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- 1:12Dave Hamilton: For now, here in Durham, New Hampshire, I'm Dave Hamilton.
- 1:15Shannon Jean: And this is Shannon Jean. I'm still out here in Northern California.
- 1:18Shannon Jean: Love it. And yeah, happy to be here.
- 1:21Dave Hamilton: Yeah, man.
- 1:22Shannon Jean: Post-4th of July weekend. Post- Good stuff.
- 1:25Dave Hamilton: Yeah. Yeah. I actually, I was over in Maine. Uh, I mean, Maine itself is about
- 1:30Dave Hamilton: 12 minutes from my house.
- 1:32Dave Hamilton: Uh, but we were about, we were on mid coast Maine in Booth Bay Harbor where
- 1:36Dave Hamilton: my family has a lot of land.
- 1:38Dave Hamilton: I think I've talked about it on the show. How my great grandfather really had
- 1:41Dave Hamilton: this vision of, of the family sort of having a home base there.
- 1:45Dave Hamilton: And somehow magically he, he, he, like it still exists.
- 1:49Dave Hamilton: Amazing. Yeah. That's awesome. The family didn't like fight it out.
- 1:52Shannon Jean: That's difficult. Yeah.
- 1:54Dave Hamilton: He instilled...
- 1:56Dave Hamilton: The value of family in, in, in like all of us in a way that, that persists, which I.
- 2:04Shannon Jean: That's a wonderful man.
- 2:06Dave Hamilton: Yeah.
- 2:06Shannon Jean: That's generational wealth right there.
- 2:08Dave Hamilton: That is general. I agree. I agree. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's really great.
- 2:12Dave Hamilton: There is an exponential timeline to that, Shannon. And you know what.
- 2:16Shannon Jean: Though, I, I think I might call an audible here. Okay. And because you started
- 2:20Shannon Jean: talking about, we, or I brought up fourth of july and yeah i i thought that
- 2:25Shannon Jean: there's a lot of posts about the the you know the american the experiment right
- 2:30Shannon Jean: which is a huge thing i really believe in it 250 years amazing
- 2:34Shannon Jean: and i think that you know we got a lot of things right and it got a lot you
- 2:38Shannon Jean: know we get stuff wrong and we adjust all the time which is great but one of the things that
- 2:43Shannon Jean: i i that's why i'm going to call it audible because um i think one of the things
- 2:47Shannon Jean: we really got right that america got right our culture is how we handle failure
- 2:53Shannon Jean: and how we perceive failure.
- 2:56Shannon Jean: Yeah. And I actually did a post about it on X and I talked about the,
- 3:04Shannon Jean: you know, I always say we're surrounded by opportunities and,
- 3:07Shannon Jean: but we also say mistakes are tuition, right?
- 3:10Dave Hamilton: And so- Both are true.
- 3:11Shannon Jean: Yes. Both are true. And I think America is the only place in the world
- 3:20Shannon Jean: failure is baked into the process. And you're almost encouraged,
- 3:26Shannon Jean: at least in my world, my entrepreneurial world and the people I read about and all that kind of stuff is
- 3:32Shannon Jean: that, you know, we're encouraged to fail,
- 3:35Shannon Jean: to learn and to grow and to fail on small levels, right? As you grow up.
- 3:41Shannon Jean: And I think it's worth recognizing and talking about for a few
- 3:44Dave Hamilton: Minutes no it's true and and taking you know my like my great-grandfather's vision of things,
- 3:52Dave Hamilton: i know that what exists today the specifics of it right have nothing,
- 3:58Dave Hamilton: are not what his vision was but the general gist of it is a hundred percent
- 4:05Dave Hamilton: of what his vision was and got it but like that's And you know what?
- 4:10Dave Hamilton: That could be said of America.
- 4:14Dave Hamilton: Our founding fathers, the fact that the laws, the guidelines, the
- 4:21Dave Hamilton: ethos that they put into place 250 years ago
- 4:27Dave Hamilton: still, for the most part, work with today's environment where there's computers
- 4:33Dave Hamilton: and AI and things that they couldn't possibly have known about or even possibly predicted.
- 4:38Dave Hamilton: With any degree of accuracy.
- 4:40Shannon Jean: Yeah, exactly.
- 4:41Dave Hamilton: And yet, these laws still work. I think our founding fathers are some of the
- 4:45Dave Hamilton: most brilliant people on the planet because they made things the right balance
- 4:50Dave Hamilton: of specific and general to work,
- 4:54Dave Hamilton: beyond that which they could comprehend.
- 4:57Dave Hamilton: Yeah. And have there been failures? Of course. Oh, of course.
- 5:01Dave Hamilton: They baked failures into the process.
- 5:05Shannon Jean: That proves, to me, it just reinforces the point.
- 5:08Dave Hamilton: Exactly.
- 5:08Shannon Jean: Is that, you know,
- 5:12Shannon Jean: And speaking of like the founding fathers and everything, one day I realized, you know,
- 5:18Shannon Jean: people at different times of their lives think about these things,
- 5:20Shannon Jean: but when I realized that like the political part or Congress and,
- 5:25Shannon Jean: you know, being deadlocked and all this stuff, and I'm just like, you know what?
- 5:28Shannon Jean: I think that's on purpose to try to keep them from doing too much, right?
- 5:33Dave Hamilton: It intentionally keeps things moving slowly.
- 5:36Shannon Jean: Yes, and I was like, these guys are just brilliant, you know?
- 5:39Dave Hamilton: They were so brilliant.
- 5:40Shannon Jean: Yeah. And I think that it's not,
- 5:43Dave Hamilton: It's not perfect, but it works.
- 5:45Shannon Jean: But none of it, and we've learned in our society that,
- 5:50Shannon Jean: you know, this, this failures and starting and fits and starts and failing and
- 5:56Shannon Jean: then growing and then finally succeeding is, is just a path that works.
- 6:02Shannon Jean: And for many other countries, I think most European countries,
- 6:06Shannon Jean: if you fail or you go, there's no, the bankruptcy, like, let's talk about bankruptcy,
- 6:10Shannon Jean: right? Sure. That's a big one. If you really screw up and you have to reorganize or, you know,
- 6:17Shannon Jean: you get to restart. You get to be like, okay, we've got to restructure our debt.
- 6:22Shannon Jean: We've got to figure out a plan. We need an independent third party to come in
- 6:26Shannon Jean: and help us with our creditors or whatever.
- 6:29Shannon Jean: You can do that here. And, of course, that's a very extreme example.
- 6:33Shannon Jean: Sure, sure. But your failures
- 6:37Dave Hamilton: Don't stick with you. Bankruptcy isn't the end of the world here.
- 6:39Shannon Jean: Correct, correct. It's just sometimes part of the process. And I think in many
- 6:43Shannon Jean: European countries and Asian companies, those business failures stay with you for life.
- 6:50Dave Hamilton: Yes.
- 6:51Shannon Jean: And that is.
- 6:56Shannon Jean: It's just everything, because, you know, I failed so many times,
- 6:59Shannon Jean: but powered through those adversity, powering through those adversities are
- 7:04Shannon Jean: what allowed me to succeed later down the road. Right.
- 7:07Dave Hamilton: Yeah. No, like this concept that business failures can be outlived is huge.
- 7:16Dave Hamilton: Yeah. And I don't know that it's unique to America here, but it is definitely part of America.
- 7:23Dave Hamilton: It is a huge part of what works here and why it works here. Yeah.
- 7:29Shannon Jean: That's right. Yeah. And even like if you take like the whole venture capital concept,
- 7:33Dave Hamilton: Right? That's all it is.
- 7:34Shannon Jean: Eight out of 10, if we're lucky, are going to fail.
- 7:40Dave Hamilton: Oh, yeah. Right. That's if you're really good.
- 7:42Shannon Jean: Correct. And when founders fail,
- 7:48Shannon Jean: that's almost like on their resume in Silicon Valley where venture capital really
- 7:52Shannon Jean: started. It's like, well, they invest.
- 7:56Shannon Jean: Let me cancel this. Didn't need to go on D&D here.
- 7:59Shannon Jean: They invest in people, right? Yes. So it's like, well, so-and-so,
- 8:06Shannon Jean: Dave, we invested in Dave Hamilton.
- 8:08Shannon Jean: This business didn't go anywhere. What's Dave doing next?
- 8:12Shannon Jean: Right. Yes. That we can invest in because we believe in him.
- 8:15Shannon Jean: Yes. And so, and his team and, you know.
- 8:17Dave Hamilton: Yeah, whatever. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, it's absolutely right.
- 8:20Dave Hamilton: Yeah. Yeah. Early stage investments are not in your idea. They are in you.
- 8:26Dave Hamilton: Yeah. If you're going to get the, if you're going out attempting to get funding,
- 8:32Dave Hamilton: you need to know that. You will learn that eventually, very quickly. Correct. Yes.
- 8:36Shannon Jean: Yeah. And when I was doing some research for this post I did about failure,
- 8:40Shannon Jean: one of the things that came up with, I found really interesting was that the
- 8:45Shannon Jean: power of at-will employment...
- 8:49Shannon Jean: And I hadn't really thought about it. And I wrote, it's like, it's easy to quit.
- 8:54Shannon Jean: It's easy to hire, easy to try something and come back. Low switching costs
- 8:58Shannon Jean: means low experimentation costs.
- 9:02Shannon Jean: And I thought that was an interesting frame that we know if we hire somebody
- 9:06Shannon Jean: for our business and it doesn't quite work out, yes, we always say it's management's
- 9:12Shannon Jean: failure when you have to hire somebody.
- 9:14Dave Hamilton: But we are permitted to let them go.
- 9:16Shannon Jean: Yes. You don't have to clear it with some committee or some board of the city
- 9:22Shannon Jean: or whatever, this kind of thing.
- 9:23Shannon Jean: As well, if somebody goes to work for a company and it sucks and they don't
- 9:29Shannon Jean: live up to whatever expectation, they can say, hey, guys, I'm out.
- 9:32Shannon Jean: And there's no penalties and you can go start the next day at another company
- 9:37Shannon Jean: because they're not going to say, oh, you left, you, whatever.
- 9:40Dave Hamilton: There's no, this is a whole other topic, but it just dawned on me.
- 9:44Dave Hamilton: You know, if I hire somebody, right, or you hire somebody, same thing,
- 9:48Dave Hamilton: and I let them go, there's a world where, in fact, most of the time they can file for unemployment.
- 9:57Dave Hamilton: Correct. And I effectively have to pay for that.
- 10:00Dave Hamilton: And I have nothing against that.
- 10:03Dave Hamilton: I don't like paying it. It's part of our social safety net.
- 10:06Shannon Jean: I get it.
- 10:07Dave Hamilton: But it's the same at will, both parties, as you've articulated,
- 10:11Dave Hamilton: which means when the employee leaves, we don't get anything.
- 10:15Dave Hamilton: We don't get like, because it costs us too.
- 10:18Shannon Jean: Yes, it does. When someone leaves. We have to have employee insurance instead
- 10:23Shannon Jean: of unemployment insurance.
- 10:24Dave Hamilton: It doesn't work that way. No, it does not. But you know what? But you know what?
- 10:29Dave Hamilton: But we could, and this is perhaps the way to sum up this conversation.
- 10:33Dave Hamilton: You and I, if we believed we could make it work successfully,
- 10:38Dave Hamilton: could start a company that offered employee insurance for businesses.
- 10:44Dave Hamilton: If your employee leaves, we will pay you X of whatever to offset your costs
- 10:49Dave Hamilton: in replacing that employee, whatever that means.
- 10:52Dave Hamilton: I don't know that we could. I don't know that there's no business there.
- 10:55Shannon Jean: You have that freedom and you know that if it, and so many companies have started that have,
- 11:02Shannon Jean: failed at what they, especially like originally were set up to do.
- 11:05Dave Hamilton: The pivot.
- 11:06Shannon Jean: And then turned into something. Yeah, the pivot.
- 11:08Dave Hamilton: The pivot is revered.
- 11:10Shannon Jean: Yeah, and it's, I, of course, I'm very, you know, American-centric because that's all I know, right?
- 11:16Shannon Jean: Yeah, yeah, of course. And I think there are very entrepreneurial countries out there.
- 11:19Shannon Jean: There are. That, you know, Israel is very entrepreneurial. Korea,
- 11:22Shannon Jean: South Korea, all these kinds of things. I think, you know, I think European
- 11:26Shannon Jean: countries are a little less entrepreneurial. I agree with that.
- 11:29Shannon Jean: Less rewarding of entrepreneurship.
- 11:33Shannon Jean: But a lot of it is uniquely American. It's just baked into the system.
- 11:39Shannon Jean: And that just in society and people talking, it's never, I just don't think
- 11:46Shannon Jean: the failures are looked down upon as they are here. Now, if you have a successive,
- 11:50Shannon Jean: you know, successive failures over and over and over and you never get something
- 11:53Shannon Jean: launched, that's a pattern.
- 11:55Dave Hamilton: Yeah, that's different. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 11:57Shannon Jean: So, but I just thought it was a good time I'm talking about it around the 4th
- 12:01Shannon Jean: and celebrating what makes a country great.
- 12:03Shannon Jean: Certainly not perfect. And that's another thing that makes it great is that
- 12:06Shannon Jean: we always can adapt and we change.
- 12:08Dave Hamilton: We continue to. Yeah, it will never end. I love it.
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- 15:25Dave Hamilton: So I promised I had a crazy idea, but I, this actually exists in,
- 15:31Dave Hamilton: in a variety of different ways.
- 15:34Dave Hamilton: I would love to pay for a silent haircut.
- 15:38Shannon Jean: I know talking.
- 15:39Dave Hamilton: No. I mean, I'm fine going in and like, let's talk about what we're going to do here.
- 15:44Dave Hamilton: Like the initial conversation, but the small talk, my gosh, it's sometimes it
- 15:49Dave Hamilton: is so freaking exhausting to just like have to engage this person just because
- 15:56Dave Hamilton: they're cutting my hair.
- 15:57Dave Hamilton: Now, I mean, I've had my hair cut many, many times by in many different places.
- 16:01Dave Hamilton: I've been to salons. I've been to barbershops. You know, I've had my son cut
- 16:04Dave Hamilton: my hair. I had my daughter cut my hair during covid.
- 16:08Dave Hamilton: It is an intimate experience in that some other human is very close to you and
- 16:13Dave Hamilton: touching you, in fact. Right. Yeah.
- 16:14Dave Hamilton: Yeah. So I get why.
- 16:18Dave Hamilton: The awkwardness of silence has essentially become like ruling that out has become the default.
- 16:27Dave Hamilton: Like we're going to talk because we're so close to each other and like I'm cutting
- 16:30Dave Hamilton: your head and I'm touching your face and all that stuff. I get it.
- 16:35Dave Hamilton: But my goodness, it is exhausting to have to go and have that conversation every
- 16:40Dave Hamilton: time. Now, I am an introvert.
- 16:43Dave Hamilton: And I say that using the current definition, perhaps not the classic definition,
- 16:49Dave Hamilton: but the current definition of introvert versus extrovert, which is we introverts recharge,
- 16:56Dave Hamilton: alone and extroverts recharge interacting with other people. Right.
- 17:01Dave Hamilton: And the world is full of both. And I love that. Yes. Clearly,
- 17:05Dave Hamilton: I am an introvert that has learned how not to be shy.
- 17:08Dave Hamilton: It doesn't mean that I it be being amongst people exhaust me.
- 17:12Dave Hamilton: Like I'm going to a conference next week.
- 17:14Dave Hamilton: Uh, maybe this week, actually it's this week. Crap. Um, and I,
- 17:18Dave Hamilton: I will absolutely thoroughly love every single individual conversation that I have.
- 17:24Dave Hamilton: But by the end of it, the series of them in a row will make me come home and
- 17:29Dave Hamilton: like shrivel up into a ball on my couch and hide from the world.
- 17:32Shannon Jean: Detox. Yeah.
- 17:34Dave Hamilton: And it's fine. Like I, that's not a complaint. It's just not,
- 17:36Dave Hamilton: it's an acknowledgement of who I am as a human. Yeah. Uh, and yeah,
- 17:41Dave Hamilton: Having to have a conversation with somebody while I'm just because I need a
- 17:46Dave Hamilton: haircut seems so counterintuitive to who I am that like every time it's like,
- 17:53Dave Hamilton: crap, I can't believe I'm going to have to pay this person like, you know, 50 bucks,
- 17:57Dave Hamilton: to just have them cut my hair and then have to talk with them.
- 18:01Dave Hamilton: Like, I feel like I should get a discount for that. They're there. Yeah.
- 18:05Shannon Jean: So I have questions. Okay.
- 18:08Dave Hamilton: Yeah. Okay.
- 18:09Shannon Jean: Have you been getting your haircut at the same place for a reasonable amount
- 18:13Shannon Jean: of time or you just go to a random person?
- 18:17Dave Hamilton: I have gotten.
- 18:17Shannon Jean: That's very different.
- 18:19Dave Hamilton: Yes, I agree with that. Kind of.
- 18:22Dave Hamilton: Although, although I will say it's it's it's not the first conversation that I have with them.
- 18:31Dave Hamilton: That's a problem because I can have like a very top level superficial conversation
- 18:37Dave Hamilton: without really thinking about it.
- 18:38Dave Hamilton: But when I go to the same person for years and I have to talk to them and they're
- 18:42Dave Hamilton: like, oh, I want to know about this and your family and all this stuff.
- 18:45Dave Hamilton: And it's like, I just don't want to talk to you about that today.
- 18:48Dave Hamilton: Like we're not actually as close as you think we are.
- 18:52Dave Hamilton: That's that's the thing i like yeah i.
- 18:54Shannon Jean: Get it and i think there could be a uh a uh you know a demand for
- 19:00Dave Hamilton: Yeah there are silent salons yeah the northeastern college uh northeastern university did a study
- 19:07Dave Hamilton: about two years ago where they found a bunch of these here in the northeast
- 19:11Dave Hamilton: um that probably elsewhere but northeastern is in boston so it doesn't surprise
- 19:15Dave Hamilton: me that they focused on the ones like in massachusetts and new york and sure
- 19:19Dave Hamilton: that sort of thing but they do exist or at least this the,
- 19:22Dave Hamilton: the service exists it might not be an entirely silent salon but you can kind of request yeah.
- 19:27Shannon Jean: It kind of reminds me if you've ever seen those those restaurants you go to
- 19:30Shannon Jean: and it's completely dark
- 19:32Dave Hamilton: I've been to i've been to one in in las vegas it's,
- 19:36Dave Hamilton: it's how was that actually so that's a completely different business model what's
- 19:40Dave Hamilton: the name of it black blackout in las vegas okay yeah that's a really interesting
- 19:44Dave Hamilton: experience because there you're obviously your eyes are effectively useless,
- 19:50Dave Hamilton: while you're in there. The waiters wear...
- 19:54Shannon Jean: How do they see?
- 19:55Dave Hamilton: They wear night vision goggles. Oh, that's awesome. But what's really cool...
- 19:59Shannon Jean: I'm going to go. I want to go.
- 20:00Dave Hamilton: Yeah, it's...
- 20:03Dave Hamilton: It's not the kind of place I would go every week, you know, or even once a month.
- 20:06Dave Hamilton: Like it's a once in a lifetime thing. Or maybe like I, Lisa and I went a couple
- 20:11Dave Hamilton: of years ago to blackout in Las Vegas.
- 20:13Dave Hamilton: If, if like you, me, Lisa and Renee wound up in Vegas together,
- 20:17Dave Hamilton: like it would be fun to do again with you.
- 20:21Dave Hamilton: Yeah. You know, we're all having an experience together, but it,
- 20:23Dave Hamilton: it's very cool because you, your hearing becomes quite heightened.
- 20:28Shannon Jean: And your sense of smell, right?
- 20:29Dave Hamilton: Your sense of smell. What you realize very quickly is something most chefs will
- 20:36Dave Hamilton: say, which is you eat with your eyes first.
- 20:40Dave Hamilton: And that doesn't happen. Like the food is brought to the table and the waiter
- 20:44Dave Hamilton: will tell you something like, okay, for this course, you will be using a spoon,
- 20:52Dave Hamilton: for something that's in front of you and make sure to hold your mouth over,
- 20:56Dave Hamilton: where you find the food.
- 20:57Dave Hamilton: Or whatever yeah and maybe they're describing soup they won't say soup because
- 21:01Dave Hamilton: they want you to sort of experience it um sure and and it's very very interesting
- 21:06Dave Hamilton: at the end when you find out what you've actually eaten yeah they do cater to all,
- 21:13Dave Hamilton: um like all dietary preferences that's right sure yep.
- 21:16Shannon Jean: Um so i i think that's i don't know it's kind of similar in the sense that uh
- 21:21Shannon Jean: like when i go i go to the same guy i've gone to for a number of years i haven't
- 21:27Shannon Jean: state, I've gone to different barbers over time.
- 21:29Shannon Jean: And I will say there are some that you're like, uh, I dread talking to this person.
- 21:36Shannon Jean: So I would change. I would go to a different barber.
- 21:38Dave Hamilton: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 21:38Shannon Jean: Right now I have my barber, Pat, who I go to and we just chill and talk him.
- 21:45Shannon Jean: How are your kids? He's got a bunch of little kids and he's there playing baseball.
- 21:49Shannon Jean: And we talked about this and he's buying him wants to buy a rental property.
- 21:51Shannon Jean: And we talked about real estate and we talk about this and it's pretty chill.
- 21:56Shannon Jean: And so I don't mind it, but I definitely have been in that same spot where they're either not a great
- 22:03Shannon Jean: I don't know. It's hard to have a good conversation.
- 22:06Dave Hamilton: But I guess I guess it really I've I've had the bad hairdresser before.
- 22:12Dave Hamilton: Yeah. It's like, oh, my God, I can't wait to get out of here.
- 22:14Dave Hamilton: But also, even with the people that I like to talk with, sometimes I just don't want to talk.
- 22:19Dave Hamilton: And in the last eight months, like I've had this throat thing that similar to
- 22:23Dave Hamilton: what you've had going on.
- 22:24Dave Hamilton: And it like sometimes it's like, dude, I just can't like not right now.
- 22:29Dave Hamilton: But that I can actually use as an excuse. Like, I shredded my throat this morning.
- 22:34Dave Hamilton: I can't really talk. And then, you know, and then it's fine. But, yeah. Yeah.
- 22:38Shannon Jean: I don't know. I still have that thing where I feel I get this uncomfortable
- 22:43Shannon Jean: when there's, like, no talking.
- 22:46Shannon Jean: And I'd sit there and be like, hmm.
- 22:49Dave Hamilton: Okay. I really like it. But, like, we're not exactly the same person. No, of course not.
- 22:56Shannon Jean: That's part of the thing. Yeah, that's part of the thing. So it's interesting.
- 22:59Shannon Jean: Well, we'd love your take on it. Feedback at businessbrain.show.
- 23:04Dave Hamilton: Speaking of takes, what's this episode's big takeaway?
- 23:07Dave Hamilton: So we talked about how we perceive failure here in the U.S. and that evolved.
- 23:12Dave Hamilton: And then we talked about silence in customer experiences and that.
- 23:18Dave Hamilton: So where are you leaning?
- 23:19Shannon Jean: I think to me is the recovering from failure or that...
- 23:26Dave Hamilton: Embracing. failure.
- 23:27Shannon Jean: Embracing failure it's not a punishment i think that's a distinction i think
- 23:31Shannon Jean: that for me is the big takeaway
- 23:33Dave Hamilton: Yeah i this episode i think um we said it before you know that the fact that
- 23:38Dave Hamilton: business failures can be outlived,
- 23:41Dave Hamilton: uh yeah yeah is the uh is the big one yeah and i know it's something that we've
- 23:45Dave Hamilton: talked about before but uh obviously you know it's uh yeah we.
- 23:49Shannon Jean: Talk about all the time it's a very important part of it
- 23:51Dave Hamilton: So so there you go that's the big takeaway yeah thanks for hanging out everybody,
- 23:56Dave Hamilton: Make sure that you go to businessbrain.show slash blueprints and you can download
- 24:04Dave Hamilton: the full expansion, the business plan, if you will, of the big takeaway.
- 24:10Dave Hamilton: And you can download it not just for this episode, but for every episode that
- 24:14Dave Hamilton: we've done in the last couple of months. So, yeah.
- 24:19Dave Hamilton: Thanks for hanging out, folks. We will see you on Friday.
- 24:22Shannon Jean: Friday.
- 24:22Dave Hamilton: Keep living that charm life.