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Officiating your exes wedding 2 · Scott & Ally on Demand

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  SPEAKER_01: I can't believe we're gonna have like almost eighty today.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean half that by the time we get to Saturday, but almost eighty.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so you better soak it up while you can.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not gonna be around that much longer.
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  SPEAKER_01: By the way, I wanna really thank Mother Nature for something in a big way.
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  SPEAKER_01: And it's not the uh raging, throbbing toothache that I have, which is now throbbing even worse now.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I'm wondering Oh, I'm sure your meds are wearing off a little bit.
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  SPEAKER_01: Took them at four this morning, so it was like, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: Excuse me, one minute.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh, but that being said I did offer you to stay home.
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  SPEAKER_01: No, you did?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I put it in the text.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't think I got that text.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'd have been the hell out of here.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm just kidding.
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  SPEAKER_00: I because I I said to you after you had texted, I knew you had a toothache last night you had mentioned it on the phone.
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  SPEAKER_01: Oh, it's been going since Saturday.
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  SPEAKER_00: Excuse me.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then this morning you were telling uh Wendy, which is our OM, Wendy, about having a toothache and that you were gonna call the dentist.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so then I said, Well, if you and you had said you had broken sleep, and I said, Well, if you want to stay home and try to catch up on some sleep, feel free to.
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  SPEAKER_00: And she she even responded with, yeah, talking with a toothache would suck or something like that.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh none of those came in.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's so weird.
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  SPEAKER_01: So that's how uh that's how you got me here.
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  SPEAKER_01: No, I was gonna come in anyway.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, there's just no sense in laying around, and that's the damnedest thing.
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  SPEAKER_01: I put my head down, can't sleep through.
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  SPEAKER_01: I'm like, well, well, anyway, back to what we were talking about here.
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  SPEAKER_01: I found this one a little weird.
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  SPEAKER_01: Now, now don't get me wrong.
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  SPEAKER_01: I know every situation's a little bit different.
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  SPEAKER_01: Okay, you you have a a breakup, things you know go different directions, this and that.
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  SPEAKER_01: Sometimes they're very nasty and and they never really heal themselves.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_01: But for Toby Maguire to be officiating his ex-wife's new wedding, um, wow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Good for you that he that he can.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think the only reason is because they have kids.
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  SPEAKER_01: Well, I know that it's good for you, but their kids are grown.
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  SPEAKER_01: If you're not trying to keep that face of decency up at a young age where it's like they're adults now, they know like they're adults now, but the you even said she started seeing that guy in 2013.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: And which means 2013.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, look at that.
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  SPEAKER_00: You said 2013, which means they were probably teenagers or you know, whatever, whenever they started dating.
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  SPEAKER_00: No, they've only been together since 2023.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, I thought you said 2013.
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  SPEAKER_01: No, so Toby and her were married twenty uh oh seven to sixteen, and then there was the break, and then she was seeing this guy twenty-three, and then uh had a kid with him in twenty-four.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay, okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: So they're they're pretty close to adults by that point.
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  SPEAKER_01: Either way, yeah, it's just it's one of those things something you couldn't do.
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  SPEAKER_01: I don't think that it would be well, one, I can feel real weird about it if I was officiating an ex's wedding.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's very healthy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Healthy or just that one's does that feel one step too far?
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  SPEAKER_00: No, I like it.
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  SPEAKER_01: It's not something that is Would you really well one of your exes doing it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Um uh I have a pretty good relationship with most of my exes.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like when I see them, I will hug them and you know, hey, how are you doing?
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  SPEAKER_00: Blah blah blah.
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  SPEAKER_01: But maybe because it wasn't a wedding, it would be different if they're just you know right, right, right.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think for a long time, I kind of I don't want to say hung on too long, but made it cordial too long.
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  SPEAKER_00: But then I got a little bit older and I'm like, I really don't need to talk to them anymore.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't need and we all have moved on in relationships, so there's nothing that's keeping us together to talk.
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  SPEAKER_00: If there's kids, then we're still talking.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, sure.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, yes, again, it's the to me, the officiating the wedding is a lot, but not for everybody.
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  SPEAKER_01: Listen to this one.
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  SPEAKER_01: This one came from 0136.
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  SPEAKER_01: My ex-husband's new wife is going to be my maid of honor at my wedding.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wow.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's amazing.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's funny.
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  SPEAKER_01: You say wow! I say wow.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, no, it's great because I think you guys do in a funny way, I'm sure, make fun of the guy.
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  SPEAKER_00: The the the comments.
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  SPEAKER_00: Is that healthy?
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, yeah, it's a little like, oh my gosh, does he still leave his underwear right next to the hamper?
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  SPEAKER_00: Really can't make it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Is that smart?
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  SPEAKER_00: I think that makes it funny, fun, and no, I think you're lacing my new relationship with your problems.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, no, I think that you a leopard doesn't change its spots.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's probably the same problems.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, so it's what you can tolerate versus Yes, exactly.
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  SPEAKER_00: I couldn't tolerate, or maybe they're a little bit different, but they still leave their underwear right next to the hamper.
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  SPEAKER_00: They just can't quite make it in.
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  SPEAKER_01: I I I'm having a hard time with this one.
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  SPEAKER_01: I really am.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh.
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  SPEAKER_00: And then wait, this one.
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  SPEAKER_01: Um but but and don't get me wrong, I don't hate my ex-wife.
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  SPEAKER_01: I mean, I just I know what you don't want her officiating your wedding.
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  SPEAKER_01: I would not.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: I Tiffany definitely wouldn't want that either.
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  SPEAKER_01: Not that we're gonna have to worry about a wedding, but nonetheless, I don't think that's well, no, just in general, we both neither one of us want to get married.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_01: Also, that's something that happens too sometimes, but Oh yeah, for sure.
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  SPEAKER_00: But you know I'm gonna give you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So speaking of couples, I'm gonna give you a you can only pick two, okay?
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  SPEAKER_00: And you guys can text us your two as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: So get on our app, see where there is the little notepad or the microphone.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can talk it, or you can write it out.
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  SPEAKER_00: Either way, it doesn't matter.
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  SPEAKER_00: All right, couples, you can only pick two.
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  SPEAKER_00: Number one, never argue again, weekly date nights, lifetime of financial freedom, a strong community of married friends, amazing communication, and uh 50 more healthy years together.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can only pick two.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh easy.
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  SPEAKER_01: Uh, I will take never fight again and uh financial security.
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  SPEAKER_01: I knew you were gonna pick financial security.
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  SPEAKER_00: Lock them in.
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  SPEAKER_00: Think about that.
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  SPEAKER_01: Because that'll eliminate a lot of the fighting.
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  SPEAKER_01: So that's good.
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  SPEAKER_01: We're covered there.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's why I wouldn't pick those two.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you pick one, then I think you're gonna be so like like let's say you pick financial freedom, then you probably are gonna risk it.
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  SPEAKER_01: Financial security.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yeah, no, um, not necessarily because what if somebody still w wants well if the fight was about this, what if someone still wants to spend over and then the financial security starts to get a little wobbly?
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  SPEAKER_01: You know what I mean?
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  SPEAKER_01: No, I just I don't I don't feel like fighting.
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  SPEAKER_01: And the other thing is is I don't want the strain of of uh financial security.
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  SPEAKER_00: I I definitely am picking amazing communication because I have it now and it is so freeing.
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  SPEAKER_00: And okay, let me think about this one.
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I don't like arguing either.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna have to go with never argue again.
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  SPEAKER_00: I hate arguing.
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  SPEAKER_01: Which I could say the same argument to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do I like to rile it up a little bit?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yes, I do.
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  SPEAKER_01: Yes, you do.
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  SPEAKER_01: But I could say the same thing to you in regards to the the two you picked.
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  SPEAKER_00: Amazing communication means we're really not arguing.
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  SPEAKER_01: You're not arguing.
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  SPEAKER_01: You could, but you're right.
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  SPEAKER_00: So maybe I should pick financial freedom, amazing communication.
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  SPEAKER_00: Those are my two are my two.
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  SPEAKER_01: I isn't that nice?
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  SPEAKER_01: And funny, you didn't pick the date night thing, but I think that can just happen naturally.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you have amazing communication, doesn't every day, night at dinner feel like a date night?
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  SPEAKER_01: What uh give it the choices again so people can pick two.
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: It is never argue again, weekly date nights, lifetime of financial freedom, a strong community of married friends, amazing communication, and fifty more healthy years together.
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  SPEAKER_01: You guys decide.