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100p X2 · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if you heard while you were gone,
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  Speaker 1: but Robbie made another jingle. Oh it's a scrubbing in
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  Speaker 1: life with my scrubbing and wife.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, it's beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you like it?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Do you? So?
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  Speaker 3: You say that?
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  Speaker 1: I would say it to you.
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  Speaker 2: So you say hello everybody, and I say we are
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  Speaker 2: scrubbing in and you say.
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  Speaker 1: It's that scrubbing in life with my scrubbing in wife.
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  Speaker 2: Wow?
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  Speaker 1: Do you like it?
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  Speaker 3: Sure? I'm up for anything that you're excited about.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited about it.
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  Speaker 3: Your joy is my joy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, thank you so much.
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  Speaker 2: I do appreciate Robbie filling in while Bolsta was gone.
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  Speaker 2: He's such a natural.
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  Speaker 3: He really is. Yeah, he's very good.
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  Speaker 2: It's really because Yeah, like I think that what we
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  Speaker 2: do in our conversation, like it's very conversational. We've been
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  Speaker 2: doing this for so long, like you're in radio, I've
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  Speaker 2: been trudge along doing this.
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  Speaker 3: With so much love and joy about them. But I'm
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  Speaker 3: just I'm saying, like.
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  Speaker 2: We're very familiar with this. This every the vibe of it, right,
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  Speaker 2: And I think we assume that people who are in
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  Speaker 2: this were like just talk, be normal. But when you
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  Speaker 2: put a microphone in someone's face, it can either be
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  Speaker 2: very intimidating or you thrive at it.
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  Speaker 3: And I think Robbie thrives.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate you saying that because it's so funny. I
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  Speaker 1: always I felt like this sense of like protectiveness in
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  Speaker 1: a weird way because I'm like, I want him to
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  Speaker 1: do well. I want you know what I mean like,
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  Speaker 1: and I do think like he does know there's a microphone.
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  Speaker 1: You know, He's not like one hundred percent. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like himself natural because like there's this, but I'd say
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  Speaker 1: he's like ninety five percent there. Yeah, And then like
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  Speaker 1: you talk, and then I'm like is it entertaining to people?
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  Speaker 2: You know?
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  Speaker 1: Because like I spent my whole life with him, so
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is just like a day, yeah, my husband.
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  Speaker 1: But then I got home and I was like, I
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  Speaker 1: hope people like it.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like people loved it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, y I forgot nice, nice messages, so that was nice.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like he does a great job.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so the winning the Pooh thing is crazy because
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  Speaker 2: I was prompted.
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  Speaker 1: You told me it was really Mark's fault.
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  Speaker 2: You you told everyone, So technically the point goes back,
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  Speaker 2: the blame goes back to you.
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  Speaker 1: But I can tell you guys stuff and it doesn't
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  Speaker 1: have to be on the podcast, like yeah, but it
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  Speaker 1: was telling Marnie telling Mark is the issue. I've learned
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  Speaker 1: that in my years, if you tell.
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  Speaker 3: Mark something that's of entertainment, yeah, he will bring it up. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I was just its like, I just I got the blame.
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  Speaker 1: Robbie said, I broke his heart, and I'm like, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: you know what's so funny. Mark's wife, Amy and Robbie
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  Speaker 1: were like going back and forth in the Facebook group
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  Speaker 1: about who to blame, and she was like, go back
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  Speaker 1: to this podcast. At this time, it was oh no,
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  Speaker 1: it was her.
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  Speaker 3: I saw that conversation. Wow, we should get her on.
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  Speaker 3: I need the skinny on Mark. We gets away with
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  Speaker 3: a lot.
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  Speaker 2: We don't know anything that we just have his take
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  Speaker 2: on everything.
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  Speaker 3: We need to get AMers in here.
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  Speaker 1: Do we totally do? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So thanks Robbie for holding the fort down.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks.
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy for you to take over whenever whenever I'm
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  Speaker 3: out And about which.
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  Speaker 1: I hope is not a lot, which we hope is
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  Speaker 1: not off. I don't like doing the podcast without you.
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  Speaker 1: Even with Robbie. I love doing it with him, like
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  Speaker 1: I do, I really do, like I love doing it
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  Speaker 1: with him, and I'm so grateful. But like, to me,
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  Speaker 1: it's I don't know, like this is something that I
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  Speaker 1: enjoy doing with you.
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  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I mean it's our podcast.
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  Speaker 2: That would be it would be a little sad if
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  Speaker 2: you felt the same level of comfort enjoy doing it
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  Speaker 2: with anyone else.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, could you imagine I was like, yeah, take more
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  Speaker 1: vacation problem.
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  Speaker 2: I think it msould be less affected by that than
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  Speaker 2: you would if I did that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I'd be I'd be spiraling.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm back.
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  Speaker 2: I got back yesterday and so I'm on Japan's eighteen
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  Speaker 2: hours ahead.
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  Speaker 3: It's in the future.
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  Speaker 1: So do you like beat the jet lag because it's
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  Speaker 1: so many hours.
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  Speaker 2: You would think, you know, because it's right there of
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  Speaker 2: twenty four, but the six hours that my friend does.
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  Speaker 3: Certainly make a difference. Yeah, So it's I.
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  Speaker 2: Don't know late where I'm more. My time mentally is
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  Speaker 2: a middle of the night for me.
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  Speaker 4: But you're here three fifteen am.
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  Speaker 3: That's I kind of feel that a little bit. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I feel a little.
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  Speaker 2: Three fifteen ish, got bright lights in my face right now,
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  Speaker 2: studio lighting.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, A little something happened over the weekend. Well actually
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  Speaker 1: not over the weekend, you know, like we live our
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  Speaker 1: lives ago and this little tiny thing, yeah happened.
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  Speaker 2: I made. I had some plans going into this trip,
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  Speaker 2: and I kept it pretty low key.
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  Speaker 1: Beyond like I am shook at how well you lie
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  Speaker 1: or like keep things to yourself. Yeah, like it's kind
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  Speaker 1: of scary.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So what happened was I've told you that I
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  Speaker 2: wasn't gonna tell anyone until I did it.
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  Speaker 1: I was, when I say, I was like completely shocked,
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  Speaker 1: Like I couldn't have been more shocked, because I also
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  Speaker 1: thought that you would tell me when you got the ring,
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  Speaker 1: because you were you were like asking me how to
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  Speaker 1: like how do I get her to try things on?
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  Speaker 1: So I was like in it with you, like I
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  Speaker 1: thought I was in it with you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I did do a good job at like keeping
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  Speaker 2: you at least at bay with questions.
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  Speaker 3: You know, though, we are gonna I want to.
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  Speaker 2: Talk about the whole thing because there's a lot to
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  Speaker 2: talk about because it was it was a big thing.
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  Speaker 1: And it was a mastermind, Like this was Taylor Swift level.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I learned. I learned from the best.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but what did you?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like, what were you doing? We're going to
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  Speaker 3: get to that, so.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry, but what it will get there. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like you.
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  Speaker 2: Did a lot while I was gone. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: a lot over the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: You were at Oh my god.
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  Speaker 3: You are at a party of Selena gummn At.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I did so much this weekend, Like
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  Speaker 1: I went to Disneyland. I like I had one of
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  Speaker 1: our kids winter recitals. I had two Honka parties in
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  Speaker 1: a day. Your girl is.
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  Speaker 3: Tired, Yeah that makes sense.
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  Speaker 1: She's tired. Yeah, but you know what, she's alive and thriving.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, alive and thriving.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I still have been decorated for Christmas.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I hate to break it to you, but like, well.
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  Speaker 3: I know that I left on the second, and.
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  Speaker 1: Like we had the week before, but we did.
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  Speaker 3: Thanksgiving twice that weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Like I that was kind of a crazy weekend for
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  Speaker 2: us because we had to postpone Thanksgiving and then and
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  Speaker 2: then I didn't have my I was trying to decide
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  Speaker 2: if we wanted to do a real tree or.
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  Speaker 3: Fake tree, so I ordered our fake tree. So we
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  Speaker 3: have a fake tree.
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  Speaker 1: Up, but it has the lights.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, ornaments today.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, I just decided because we got a fake
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  Speaker 2: tree that I'm going to decorate today or tomorrow, whatever
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  Speaker 2: I have energy for, and then we'll just leave it
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  Speaker 2: up as long as we want.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't have to rush to take it
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  Speaker 3: down because it's not dying. Ah.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Well, you see, there gets to be a point
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  Speaker 1: in like January where like I think it hits a
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  Speaker 1: like if you have the tree up at a certain
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  Speaker 1: point in January, Yeah, it starts to feel weird. February
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  Speaker 1: one year, I left it up like it's like January
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  Speaker 1: twenty something, and I was like, it's starting.
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  Speaker 3: Because you start yours like Halloween.
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  Speaker 1: I like to have it in there. Yeah, I like
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  Speaker 1: to have it.
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  Speaker 2: I understand by January you're probably ready to clear the
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  Speaker 2: clear it out. Yeah, so I'm going to do that today.
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  Speaker 2: But how was Disneyland during these times?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so it was crowded, but I want to say
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't like so bad. We didn't wait more than
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  Speaker 1: forty five minutes wow, per ride, which I know sounds
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  Speaker 1: like a long time, but like once you're in it,
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  Speaker 1: it's really not that bad, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: And I like the line, Yeah, I was gonna that
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  Speaker 2: was so Tanya.
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  Speaker 1: I knew it was gonna be a hot take. But like,
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  Speaker 1: well were the responses somebody Like a couple of people
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  Speaker 1: agreed with me, and then a couple of people were like,
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  Speaker 1: are you crying? Okay, but I hear. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: as our kids are getting older, and like we have
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  Speaker 1: a teenager who's very into his phone. He left his
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  Speaker 1: phone in the car because he was just not because
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  Speaker 1: he didn't want it, but because he was like I
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  Speaker 1: just want to worry about it on the rides and
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  Speaker 1: don't want to like you know, like they wear these
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  Speaker 1: baggy pants, you know, you don't want anything falling out. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And so Robbie's like, just leave it in the cards safer,
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  Speaker 1: it's better, and we're like okay, yeah. And so it's
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  Speaker 1: like you have this, you have these forty five minutes
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  Speaker 1: of just talking and bonding and I know it sounds
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  Speaker 1: so silly, but like you don't get that so much.
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  Speaker 1: You know, like when we're all at home, we're kind
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  Speaker 1: of doing our own things, and yeah, we have like
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  Speaker 1: our meals together and stuff, But I don't know. There
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  Speaker 1: was something about all just like being there, being present,
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  Speaker 1: super present, that was really special.
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  Speaker 3: I think that makes sense though.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's I think it's beautiful that you recognized
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  Speaker 2: that moment and that the gift of like being present.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't realize it until we got home, Like I
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  Speaker 1: was like, wow, Like that was a lot of quality time,
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  Speaker 1: Like we had a full day of quality time with them,
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  Speaker 1: and it was like really nice.
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  Speaker 2: He just writes in his journal, I got to have
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  Speaker 2: so much quality time talking with Tanya in line today.
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  Speaker 3: It was the best. Yeah, exactly, Yeah, yeah, that's really fun.
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  Speaker 3: I was just talking.
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  Speaker 2: I was just seeing this thing about how this guy
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  Speaker 2: his mom was on a plane and she was like,
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  Speaker 2: this person was not on their phone the whole time
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  Speaker 2: on the plane, and I just thought that was the
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  Speaker 2: weirdest thing. And he goes, isn't it weird that that
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  Speaker 2: is perceived as weird, like someone not being on their
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  Speaker 2: phone as opposed to someone being present and like striking
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  Speaker 2: up a conversation with the next person. And she was like, well,
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  Speaker 2: if you're not looking at your phone, people might try
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  Speaker 2: to start a conversation with you, which is like, which
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  Speaker 2: is like the worst case scenario.
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  Speaker 4: I went to a restaurant with Allison once in my
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  Speaker 4: phone was dead, and she went up and went to
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  Speaker 4: the bathroom. She wasn't gone very long, but I was
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  Speaker 4: just like kind of like sitting around, just like looking around,
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  Speaker 4: and I was like, I look crazy, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: this is how every day yea many many years, you know,
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  Speaker 4: Like I just like read the back of the ketchup bottles,
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  Speaker 4: I know, I think about.
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  Speaker 1: So we're watching Stranger Things right now, and like it's
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  Speaker 1: in the eighties, and I'm like, wow, I could not
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  Speaker 1: imagine like they had to go to a payphone to
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  Speaker 1: call nine to one one. I mean, we did live
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  Speaker 1: in those times, but I was so young, Like I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't even have a phone even at that age if
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  Speaker 1: they existed, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but for I think I was sixteen
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  Speaker 2: when I got a phone, so I had sixteen years
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  Speaker 2: of pure childhood childhood. And also even when I had
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  Speaker 2: a phone, I had to be aware of my minutes
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  Speaker 2: and it wasn't like I was scrolling.
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  Speaker 3: I just would.
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  Speaker 1: Right right, right right, So it.
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  Speaker 2: Is crazy I do the same thing if I'm alone
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, gosh, do I look so weird?
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  Speaker 1: You know it's called raw dogging? Yeah, okay, are we
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  Speaker 1: allowed to say that on the podcast?
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  Speaker 3: We've said a lot worse.
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  Speaker 1: I said raw dogging before. Yeah, okay, but this is
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  Speaker 1: like an innocent one.
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  Speaker 2: Well yeah, I think normally when we're talking about it,
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  Speaker 2: we're not using it and the way it really is
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  Speaker 2: supposed to be us. We always use that as a version.
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  Speaker 2: We are a PG podcast. But yeah, So I went
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  Speaker 2: to Japan because I wanted to propose to Haley, and
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  Speaker 2: I want to tell you all about it when we
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  Speaker 2: come back.
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  Speaker 1: We're back.
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  Speaker 3: We are love. She always tries to need me, Tom.
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  Speaker 2: We're back.
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  Speaker 1: What is who's voice? Listen, We're back. We're back. Don't worry,
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  Speaker 1: We're back.
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  Speaker 2: So I a lot of people had They were like, wait,
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  Speaker 2: I thought you were already engaged.
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  Speaker 3: We are engaged. We got engaged in July and Mayorca, Spain.
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  Speaker 2: But the plan was always that I was also going
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  Speaker 2: to I actually thought I was going to propose to Haley.
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  Speaker 3: First. She surprised me. So I always had the plan.
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  Speaker 1: That I wis she really Yeah, surprise shocked us.
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  Speaker 3: All she did. She shocked us all.
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  Speaker 2: So I was thinking, how now that she knows it's coming,
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  Speaker 2: how am I going to plan something where I'm able
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  Speaker 2: to surprise her?
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  Speaker 3: Because you know I love a surprise. Yeah, I love
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  Speaker 3: a surprise.
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  Speaker 2: So at Tanya's birthday party back in July, I was
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  Speaker 2: talking to Robbie's cousin Sabrina, and.
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  Speaker 3: I was telling she was like, so, what is the plan?
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  Speaker 2: Or talked about wedding planning, and I was like, well,
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  Speaker 2: I want to propose to her too, but I have
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  Speaker 2: to figure it out because her dream place is to
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  Speaker 2: get engaged in Japan. But if I just book a
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  Speaker 2: trip to Japan, She's going to know it's coming. So
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  Speaker 2: she kind of planted this idea of maybe I have
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  Speaker 2: a work trip or something, or she has a work
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  Speaker 2: trip and then like I show up. She kind of
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  Speaker 2: just planted the seed of coming up with an idea.
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 3: So I just been Sabrina, you gotta give credit where
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  Speaker 3: credit is she?
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  Speaker 1: Actually I saw her at the Hanaka party around this
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  Speaker 1: weekend and she was like, I feel like I maybe
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  Speaker 1: gave her this idea. Actually did I know?
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  Speaker 2: I know? And so I had been thinking, how am
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  Speaker 2: I going to get Hayley to Japan without me there,
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  Speaker 2: but have me there when she arrives.
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  Speaker 1: How would one do that? Like, how does one?
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  Speaker 3: Dude?
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know. I'd be like, this is too hard,
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  Speaker 1: I'm out quit.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just doing it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna do it right here in.
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  Speaker 3: So we I have a friend or she's a friend. Now.
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  Speaker 2: At first she was an acquaintance and her name is
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  Speaker 2: Sinnem and she owns a company called s S Gold.
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  Speaker 3: Tanya actually planned your trip to Greece.
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  Speaker 1: With her, Yeah, which she did our trip to Grease
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  Speaker 1: and it was amazing.
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  Speaker 2: And I met her after that just by coincidence of
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  Speaker 2: being We both go see Tawny for our hair. So
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  Speaker 2: I just happened to be there and she was like,
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  Speaker 2: oh wait, TAWNI was like, do you know Snem? Tania
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  Speaker 2: just worked with her, and so we started talking. Sonyays
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  Speaker 2: I had her email, but we hadn't worked together or anything.
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  Speaker 2: So in September, I was like, I just had this
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  Speaker 2: idea and I'm like, I'm going to reach out to
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  Speaker 2: Sinem and see if this would be something she'd want
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  Speaker 2: to help me with planning this whole proposal trip. So
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  Speaker 2: I email her and I was like I have this
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  Speaker 2: crazy idea. Do you have any time for a phone call?
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  Speaker 2: So I called her. She was like, I'm so in
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  Speaker 2: let's go. So the plan was that she was.
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  Speaker 1: So crazy, it's so crazy.
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  Speaker 2: So the plan was that she was going to send
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  Speaker 2: an email to Hailey's management team and basically present an
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  Speaker 2: opportunity to go to Japan and go to the Four
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  Speaker 2: Seasons Kyoto, which is a very special place for us.
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  Speaker 2: We went in twenty nineteen and there was a moment
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  Speaker 2: while we were at the hotel that Hailey told me
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  Speaker 2: she looked over at me and she had this moment
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  Speaker 2: where she was like, I'm going to marry her one day.
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  Speaker 3: So I always saw it. I have to do it.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: I have to get us to Four Seasons in Kyoto.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: So Sinem sends an email to Haley's management team and
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: it's basically like, we want to offer a trip with
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: a collaboration between s S Gold, which is Sinem's travel agency,
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: and then four Seasons Kyoto and you'll get a five
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: nights stay and.
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: You basically have to do posts.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: It's basically what an influencer trip looks like, like the
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: same amount of posts. It wasn't anything suspicious honestly easiest
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: deal ever. So I was like, she's gonna say yes, absolutely.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: So my plan of why I wasn't able to go
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: was that I had a work trip.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, she already proposed the dates, like she was gonna say,
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: it has to be like these dates.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: So she was going to send the dates. And then
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: I knew that Haley was going to ask me to
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: come as a plus one.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: That's why I was like, how did she not get
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: you to be the plus one?
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: So she was gonna ask me to be a plus
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: one and I was, unfortunately gonna have a work trip
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: on those dates, and so I was So it went.
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: Exactly as I thought.
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Hayley goes, oh my gosh, I just got a deal
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: with to go to the Four.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: Seasons Kyoto with this travel agency. Like this feels fake.
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: What did you? She goes, did you do this?
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait, First of all, I like froze
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: because that was her first question, and I was like,
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: how would I do that? Right? And so then her
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: her manager sends her the official email, which so Nim
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: and I drafted on chat GPT and she's like, oh
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: my gosh, this is a real thing, and she was like,
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: I get a plus one, like we're going to the
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: four season's Kyoto and I was like, this is crazy.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: What of the dates?
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: So she tells me the dates and I go, that's
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: my So. I did a Starbucks Ambassador program this year.
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: I was an ambassador for them and it ended in
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: like September.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: But she didn't know. Now she didn't know.
• 17:48
  Speaker 4: I still have diplomatic duties.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I had to go to London to headquarters.
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Quite the trip for Starbucks.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: Now in a second Starbucks would send me to London,
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: but I was like, it's the final trip and all
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: the ambassadors are going together and we're going to I
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: just hoped that they had a big store there that
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: if she needed to look it up, it was there.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: So I go, I can't do those dates. Can you
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: ask them if they can move those dates?
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: It's great?
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Great, So she's like, okay, I'll ask and they were like, unfortunately,
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: these are the dates locked in and basically like, let
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: us know if you if you're not able to do it,
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: just so we can we need to fill the slot.
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: She's like, I'm going.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: I'm like you need to go, whether you just go
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: with yourself or you invite a plus one I'll meet
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: you after London.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: So that was the plan.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: She invited Marla, her best friend, and I was going
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: to London two days before.
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: So we're going back and forth.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: She's like negotiating with the Sinnam like trying to get
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: like can we.
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: Get an extra night at the Moon?
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: No? And I'm basically telling Sinem like just say yes,
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: but make it in a way that's like believable, yeah,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: like could we add a post or an extra story whatever.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Then she she wanted to see if there was a
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: car to go to this like fishing village in Japan,
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: and so Snem calls.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: I'm like just saying yes.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Like sponsoring a full trip, and Hailey's like, yeah, I
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: feel like and then she was like yeah, there's gonna
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: be a tea ceremony, a kimono experience, and Snem's like,
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I'm just making all this stuff up so that she
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: feels like it's like all the things are slotted, and
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: I'm like that's fine, do whatever.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: So one night.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Haley goes, how do you how do I know that?
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: She kept asking, like she kept saying, my dream place
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: is to get proposed to in Japan. She's like, are
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: you going to propose and I go, no, like I
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: really think I want to just do it on my own,
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: like I want to plan.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: I don't want to do it on like a free
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: trip that you got. I want to play. Yeah, I
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: want to do my.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Own thing and just do it how I want. And
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: I was like, would you be disappointed if it's not
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: in Japan?
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: She was like, I don't think so.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, but I mean, I'll obviously
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: make it amazing. It's gonna be great, but you know,
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I just I need to know before we start doing
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: this if you're gonna be bummed, because I need to
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: figure it out. And she's like, no, Like I understand,
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: you want to do it the way you want to
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: do it. So for two months of having to keep
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: up this. By the way, I did not tell a
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: single person.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: By the way, I don't know if I told it
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: on the story on the podcast about my scam, My
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: cool Kuya scam. I think I did. I think I
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: told it on the podcast. Now did Hey? This short
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: version I got majorly scammed through email with this like
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: fake Kolkaya representative. I'm on the phone with Becca and
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Haley's the background listening to the whole story, and Haley's like,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: I just got invited on this trip to Japan, Like
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: is my whole thing a scam? I was like, yeah,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: that's a freaking scam.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: You should check in.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: On that, like that's for sure. Shut up, shut up.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I had no idea, Like, I literally had no idea.
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: But I just had to roll with it. I was like, yeah,
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: like if it was.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: I was like Tanya worked with CM like it's a
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: real and then Tony's like, put is it from her
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: a real email? Yeah?
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I was like check the email, check the phone numbers. Yeah.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: So then we're like trying to plan dates back because
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: she was like I got them to extend our flight trip.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: I'm like that's amazing.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Whoa So, I mean, while you're getting the bill on
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: the other.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: End, just like, okay, this is racking up. And the
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: plan was that, you know, me, Haley, and Marla were
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: all gonna share a room, but I got two rooms
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: so that everyone had their space. And so as it's
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: getting closer, one night, I had gardened and Haley goes,
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: how do I know this isn't you doing this whole
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: thing and that you don't actually have a work trip
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: with Starbucks? And I like was taking the pillows off
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: the bed and I was turned away from her, and
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: I was like, you have to lock in, Like you
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: have to lock in and be like the best liar
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: you've ever been. And I was like that would be genius.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: I was like, but I really, you know, I really
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: want to just propose to you the way that I
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: want to. And she's like, Okay, I'm gonna stop asking
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: because I don't even I don't want to ruin my
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: own proposal. And I was like, that would be great,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: thanks so much. So after that she stopped like kind
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: of asking questions about it. I just kept having to
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: be like, I have stuff in London. I can't wait
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: to do this in London. Oh my, one of my
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: favorite people that's part of the ambassadorship, isn't I No,
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: I wasn't.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Able to go.
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: I'm so yeah.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I planned a fake trip to New Zealand in January,
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: saying that I got an opportunity to go there, thinking
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: that she would think that's where I'm going to propose.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: You got an opportunity to go there?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: No, Like, I got a work thing in Australia and
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: then I was like we could maybe extend it and
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: go to New Zealand because she's we wanted to go
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: to New Zealand, and I thought that would be somewhere
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: where she would go. Okay, she's going to propose a
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: New Zealand. So it's a fake trip that I had
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: her mark off.
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: Like a week in January for.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: This. By the way, lying like this, I was just
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: throwing stuff out there to see what would to Dick,
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: Like what what is she.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Going to believe? And that is sick, I know.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I just I had to commit, and so I didn't
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: tell anybody. And I because I wanted everything to be
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: really clean. I didn't want any I didn't want to
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: have to like protect my stories or anything.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: So clean, well, you would tell people the truth.
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: I know. But I can't arrest that anyone wasn't an ax.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: I couldn't.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: It was too risky. It was such a big thing,
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: a big plan that like I really couldn't risk someone slipping.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: I would have been like, I can't talk to you
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: for a weaver. So I was leaving Tuesday night. She
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: thinks I'm going to London and I'm going to the airport.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Because my whole thing leading up to this was what
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: am I going to do about my shared location. I'm like,
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: we share locations. And then I thought, I'm just gonna
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: turn it off. And I thought, when you turn it off,
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: it doesn't tell anybody. It does well, apparently when you
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: only turn off one person's it notifies them. So I'm
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: on the way to the airport and she goes, hey, babe,
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: did you mean to stop sharing your location with me?
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: And I go, uugh, no, I was like, I did
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: something on my computer before I left. I was like,
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: I just got the same frantic message from Tanya and
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: and I just turned it right back on. I like,
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: didn't make a big deal of it. I just turned
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: it back on. So then she called me and she's like, hey,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: I I still can't see your location because I ended
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: up turning it off on the app, which doesn't let
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: anyone know, by the way, And I go, when you
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: get home, will you check my computer and change the
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: settings on the my location settings?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: So that turns to have her going into your computer
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: with like text messages.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: I changed my password, so she was never going to
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: be able to get into my computer, so she said,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: because I was just going to be like tell her
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: the password and she was going to keep trying and
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: be like it's not working, and I'm like, oh my god,
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: I don't know what I did.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: Block your computer.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so she said, she said in hindsight, as soon
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: as I said, like, just go to my computer and
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: check it, she didn't think anything of it, because she
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: was like, you were so nonchalant about it that I
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: just was like, for I guess I don't care whatever.
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: So I get to panic. I get to the airport,
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: she called me, and I fake. I'm sitting by myself.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: There's barely anyone sitting around me, and I fake a
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: conversation like I'm seeing someone from Starbucks.
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: It's going on the trip and I'm like.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, hey, like how are you? And I'm
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: like I overpack so much, like it's gonna be so
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: cold and rainy, like I'm not prepared. And then I'm
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: like the person like walked away allegedly, and I go,
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: oh my god, I feel so bad.
• 26:26
  Speaker 3: I can't remember her name.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: It's like diabolical.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: It's diabolical. So I get on the plane. I'm like,
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I just have to try the plant. The flight time
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: from LA to London was like a similar flight time
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: to Tokyo, so I was like the time, She's not
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: gonna question you know, why am I still on the plane?
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: So I was like, I told her it was delayed
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: an hour or something, so that the length felt more accurate.
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: By the way, these are all things that like she
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: could check. She didn't even think about, right, but she
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: could have cheme about everything. Yeah, I could have checked.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you said my fight's delayed, like that's something
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: Robbie would do, he would like go on the like
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: website and it was like, look, oh I would never
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: if he was like my fights lay now, I'm like, okay,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: cool text to me, LAMB.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: That's why it's fun to surprise y'all and prank you.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Because it's just easy.
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: So I get there and I land and.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: By the time I think I got there, it was
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: nighttime here or something. There was a I had a
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: break or she was I don't know what happened.
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: She was busy.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: I got to the hotel I had to, like, I
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: got to I got to the I landed, I got
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: off the plane. A guy Snam really helped me, Like
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: she set up like my car service and everything, like.
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: She's literally my hero. I got there, the guy.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Picked me up, got took me to the train, got
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: my train to get and put me in my seat
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: on the train, Otherwise I would probably still be at
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: the train station. I was so overwhelmed and like it
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: is so overstimulating and like navigating that system and nothing
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: being and everyone's super helpful, but nothing being familiar to me.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: I was so grateful for him.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: I had a two hour train ride, so I'm just like, oh,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: I'm waiting.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: To get off the plane. It's taking forever. My bag
• 28:20
  Speaker 3: y to just stom I get to the hotel.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: I tell the girls that meet me. They were like amazing,
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: the girls at four season. They were in on everything,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: so they knew about it. They were so excited. And
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: I was like, I got to go to my room
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: and I need to close the blinds because it's supposed
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: to be dark in London. London was like the worst
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: choice I could have made, because the opposite day and
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: night made it so hard trying to like lie FaceTime, Yeah,
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: because I just had to FaceTime from the room and
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: have my drapes shut.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because it would be like bright daylight.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: And I'd be like, all right, I'm going to bed.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: I'm so tired. I feel jet lagged and then I
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: go to bed and then go eat breakfast and have
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: my day. So the first day I got there, I
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: called her and I was like, I'm literally sick.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: I'm so tired, I have to go to sleep. I
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: love you so much.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: We FaceTime and then went had breakfast and got a
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: massage at the hotel, like just talk to the girls
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: about the plan, scouted the location of where I was
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: going to do it, and that was the That was
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: two days before and they were flying in the next day,
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: and so I was like, I need to call all
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: the people I need to call. I wanted to call
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: and ask her parents for their blessing because I was
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: going to do it at Thanksgiving, but I was just
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: worried that she would walk in or they might say something.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: So I just waited till the day before to call
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: them and tell them. And then I called you to
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: tell you. I called her parents and it was like
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: really sweet and emotional and it was it was like
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: really special and I'm so glad. I had that time
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: in my room just chilling because I was able to
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: kind of process what I needed to do and pick
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: out my outfit and all the things. But I called
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: Tanya and Robbie and I want to talk about that,
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: but we're going to do it.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Yes, because I have so much to say. I have
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: so much to say because I just getting a FaceTime
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: from Becca is very alarming because she never face times me.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: So I was like, the whole the whole thing was crazy.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: But we're going to do it on our next episode.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Yes. So too much to get to.
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: Be continued on the next episode of Scribbing in
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Love You love It