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Episode #285: Stay Aligned During Chaotic Energy · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Tea Time with Amy and Bett.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, sister, what's up?
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  Speaker 2: I'm hanging over here. It was the opposite.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on vacation. Hold on, I'm gonna turn off
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  Speaker 1: my sound because people are texting me. Rude, right, I know, Like, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I'm recording Tea Time here. Don't be interrupting us.
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  Speaker 2: Are you having a good time?
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  Speaker 1: I am. I'm in Florida. So my mother in law
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  Speaker 1: got married and I had the privilege of officiating the wedding. Nice. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it's been kind of a little bit of a
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  Speaker 1: family reunion from my husband's side because his sisters and
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  Speaker 1: cousins and nieces and nephews have been here. So it's
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  Speaker 1: been good. It's been really good. Nice. What have you
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  Speaker 1: been doing.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I've been taking care of a little Friday her
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  Speaker 2: own one ish twoish, I think one. I've lost track
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  Speaker 2: of time. It's a full time. I don't think I
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  Speaker 2: could be a mom again. Oh my god, Now to start?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I and I had thought about it, because
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  Speaker 2: I really have. It's really crossed my mind because I
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  Speaker 2: know that I'm in a different place I can bring
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  Speaker 2: forward such a different feel of different information and help
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  Speaker 2: really to just let that child have all the experience,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the same thing that most grandparents do, because
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  Speaker 2: I just had another experiences. But they do worry you
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  Speaker 2: out a little bit because they just they want to
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  Speaker 2: go and this one wanted to be outside the whole time,
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  Speaker 2: running and walking and stuff like that. So I probably
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  Speaker 2: need to sleep for two weeks afterwards, but.
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  Speaker 1: Like, okay, it's time for me to have a time out.
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  Speaker 2: It really is, It really is. But it's also learning
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  Speaker 2: boundaries too. It's like learning what am I willing not
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  Speaker 2: it's what am I willing to do? But it's not
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  Speaker 2: just about what am I willing to do? Because I
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  Speaker 2: can do so many things, but how am I serving
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  Speaker 2: myself in a lot of these times? Like how am
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  Speaker 2: I giving myself time?
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  Speaker 1: And all this?
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  Speaker 2: I just will tell my younger version and every mom
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  Speaker 2: that's out there or anybody that's trying to, you know,
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  Speaker 2: maneuver life with kids and and jobs and everything else.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's a lot. They're they're a big distraction. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: So it's quite the journey.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it makes you, of course appreciate what you've
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  Speaker 1: already been through as a mom and with you when
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  Speaker 1: yours a little same for me, and just noticing the time,
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  Speaker 1: the changes of time and the different dynamics now. And
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  Speaker 1: you know, just when you see that mom in the
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  Speaker 1: grocery store tugging on a kid or two, it's like
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  Speaker 1: just sending her well wishes and knowing, you know, she's
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  Speaker 1: going to get through it. But yeah, I'm with you.
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  Speaker 1: The wedding there, the wedding event itself, the whole thing
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  Speaker 1: was all adults, and it was like, and it's not
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  Speaker 1: that I don't like kids, but I just want to
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  Speaker 1: tell you, it was like a relief to me that
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  Speaker 1: it was an adult party, to be.
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  Speaker 2: Honest, because you don't have to worry about them getting hurt.
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  Speaker 2: People not There's so much that goes along with that
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  Speaker 2: because it's even though they're your kids, we still have
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  Speaker 2: a watchful eye on the kids.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, and it could be a stranger's kids and
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  Speaker 1: you're still just yeah, really, you know, keeping an eye
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  Speaker 1: on them. So I'm with you. I I wasn't much
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  Speaker 1: of a kid person, even when I had my own son.
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  Speaker 1: I really struggled as a as a mom in the beginning,
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  Speaker 1: and I it's just not yeah, it's not my thing.
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  Speaker 1: I do a lot better with adults with forty plus
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  Speaker 1: forty years old plus typically.
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  Speaker 2: It's there's a lot less that I have to do
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  Speaker 2: with adults, and that's so for me, it's it's there
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  Speaker 2: is a lot of freedom with that. There really is.
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  Speaker 2: But I all appreciate them when they're around. But it's
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  Speaker 2: like it's having good, healthy boundaries of what's what's good
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  Speaker 2: for me, and it's not what's just good for me,
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  Speaker 2: it's what's good for them too. But it's there's got
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  Speaker 2: to be a good harmony and balance with the whole situation. Really,
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  Speaker 2: And it's so, yeah, I'm that you had sent me
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  Speaker 2: a voice message earlier. I was like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: I was just so happy to hear your boys. It
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  Speaker 2: was the craziest thing ever. And it's like, why am
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  Speaker 2: I so crazy about this right now? Because I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy to hear your voice and everything. But it's
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  Speaker 2: like it really like I really wanted to talk to you.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like it's just nice to hear your voice.
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  Speaker 1: That adult conversation, I guess.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, we can have a child conversation. I'm good
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  Speaker 2: with that too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, is stay here in jibber jabber, you know, gibberish
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  Speaker 1: for the next ten minutes or something.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's interesting. So it's all been a learning, right,
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  Speaker 2: it's all been a learning and we can't it's not
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  Speaker 2: our job. I've had so many people come into my
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  Speaker 2: experience here recently and they're wanting to help others and
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  Speaker 2: wanting to do for others, and then the others aren't
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  Speaker 2: wanting that help, or they're not wanting that guidance, or
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  Speaker 2: they're not wanting whatever. So it's like how you said
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  Speaker 2: it really good just a few minutes ago. The best
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  Speaker 2: way that we can really kind of be there for
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  Speaker 2: everybody is to be there for ourselves. You didn't say
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  Speaker 2: it exactly like that. But when we're focused, when we're
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  Speaker 2: focused on our energy and we're in this place, we're
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  Speaker 2: in a different space. We're in a difference. We're more
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  Speaker 2: at ease and more calm, we're more beneficial for everybody.
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  Speaker 2: But if we can stay in a space where we
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  Speaker 2: raise our vibrational frequency as high as we can take it,
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  Speaker 2: and then from there, then talk to people. But don't
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  Speaker 2: do it before you talk to the people, because we
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  Speaker 2: got we gotta honor ourselves and give ourselves that time
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  Speaker 2: and that energy take the breaths and then focus. For me,
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  Speaker 2: it's focusing on the third eye in the crown area.
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  Speaker 2: So then I'm completely opened up and then I'm seeing
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  Speaker 2: what does life look like through those senses? I was
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  Speaker 2: gonna say through eyes, but it's not really, it's just
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  Speaker 2: more senses and stuff whatever I pick up or feel.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and being around all these family members, remembering the
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  Speaker 1: tools like remembering to ground myself, remembering to be attentive
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  Speaker 1: to my energy because I know my energy affects the collective, right,
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  Speaker 1: and remember that if I get caught up in the
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  Speaker 1: heightened emotion, because there was a moment of discord, nothing
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  Speaker 1: like extreme, but it was enough that everybody was affected.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody in the room was affected by it, and everybody's
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  Speaker 1: trying to maintain them calmness. And it was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: how can I how can I maintain my energy? Well?
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  Speaker 1: Get up and go outside with one like just get up,
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  Speaker 1: walk away, go outside. Interesting enough, you go outside, other
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  Speaker 1: people follow you. So I'd stand out there for a moment,
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  Speaker 1: catch my breath, kind of feel the breeze and the coolness,
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  Speaker 1: and then as people came out, I went hang out
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  Speaker 1: for a little bit and then as a certain person can.
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  Speaker 1: Then I would go back inside and be like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: just remember to be calm, you know, and just sending
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  Speaker 1: the love I did. There was a couple of times
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  Speaker 1: I really got in my heart center and was sending
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  Speaker 1: love into the room and just maintaining my calmness was
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  Speaker 1: I think the biggest piece, because the conversation was directed
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  Speaker 1: towards me for interaction that was unnecessary conversation, and I
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  Speaker 1: had a little bit of sternness in my voice, but
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  Speaker 1: maintained my calmness and just laid the facts right, not
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  Speaker 1: like an opinion or anything. Just stick with the facts.
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  Speaker 1: This is the way it is. So I'm talking to
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  Speaker 1: myself through this and things calm down. Conversation ended like
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  Speaker 1: so it's really just keep practicing the self awareness and
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  Speaker 1: so beneficial.
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  Speaker 2: And I would I agree with you. I mean to
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  Speaker 2: agree with you anyways, but I mean, I agree with
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  Speaker 2: you about this self awareness stuff. It's because I've I've
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  Speaker 2: been in a few heightened moments recently, and I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know where it comes from. I don't energetically,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know is it coming from outside of me?
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  Speaker 2: Is it coming from inside of me? Like all this
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  Speaker 2: different stuff I've been noticing. But I have to be
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  Speaker 2: an awareness, honestly, because if I'm not. There's been a
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  Speaker 2: few times that I've been kind of emotionally triggered. I'm
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  Speaker 2: I'm ready to be like get into it and like
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  Speaker 2: really say some stuff. And it's like because, but you
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  Speaker 2: can't take the stuff back once you say it said,
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  Speaker 2: it's done, And that's what stops me and helps me
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  Speaker 2: think about what are you saying right now? And it's
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  Speaker 2: like worry. But my whole thing is my inner child.
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  Speaker 2: That kid inside of me feels all these emotions, and
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  Speaker 2: that little kid wants to have a reaction. It wants
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  Speaker 2: to do it wants to feel good, and the best
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  Speaker 2: way to feel good in that moment is to get
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  Speaker 2: rid of that shit. Well, for me, the best way
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  Speaker 2: to do it is to not do it that way,
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  Speaker 2: because I've you burn bridges, you burn homes, you burn
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  Speaker 2: cities down, but I'd rather not be that way. So
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  Speaker 2: so I've caught myself in that awareness and been in
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  Speaker 2: that space and I'm having the conversations inside of myself
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  Speaker 2: because I don't want to keep feeling like this, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: when this stuf kind of comes up, I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to feel like something else has to control over me.
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  Speaker 2: And so I've got to see where my work. What
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  Speaker 2: did I put my hooks out into that I got
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  Speaker 2: hooked into that. Now I'm feeding this drum or, this
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  Speaker 2: something that's there already that's familiar with whatever that energy
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  Speaker 2: is that coming in right now, because it's been everything
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  Speaker 2: will be fine. Then all of a sudden boom, there
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  Speaker 2: it is. And if you don't, if I don't stop
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  Speaker 2: and slow down right now, being awareness of that, holy crap,
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  Speaker 2: it's not a good show. It's not.
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  Speaker 1: And if you and if you're if you forget about
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  Speaker 1: the self awareness as well, which I do tend to
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  Speaker 1: do that once in a while, depending on what's going
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  Speaker 1: on and how I'm feeling. And and it's uh, I
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  Speaker 1: kind of lost my train of thought for a second. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: that just came and went like that.
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  Speaker 2: I totally understand that. I feel like I'm rubbing off
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  Speaker 2: on you just a bit. It's okay, so we'll just go.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you know, if you're you're lacking that self awareness,
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  Speaker 1: then you end up matching that person's energy who's having discord,
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  Speaker 1: feeling aggressive, feeling out of swords, like you start matching
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  Speaker 1: their energy and then there's no it turns, it gets
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  Speaker 1: from bad to worse, and because then you just lose
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  Speaker 1: that train of thought of how you're feeling, for one,
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  Speaker 1: like how is how is the stress feeling in your body?
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  Speaker 1: What's your body doing? And then the words that you
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  Speaker 1: say and the thoughts you think, and it's like you
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  Speaker 1: just get all discombobulated and and then it just turns
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  Speaker 1: into a really uncomfortable situation. But but I noticed having
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  Speaker 1: that self awareness, I wasn't matching the energy, and so
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  Speaker 1: the energy could keep growing with me because I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: allowing it.
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  Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, it's true. It's a good message
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  Speaker 2: for everybody listening. It really is. And we struggle with
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  Speaker 2: it too at times, but it's really it's really to
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  Speaker 2: do even set yourself up ahead of time before you
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  Speaker 2: even go into these environments. It's you know, we've talked
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  Speaker 2: about it's been a while, but we've talked about that too,
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  Speaker 2: like setting our intentions that like no matter what, no
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  Speaker 2: matter what, I'm gonna stay grounded, I'm going to stay centered,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to stand in my power. I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: feel you know, the love and the light. How whatever
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  Speaker 2: your terminology is, the conversations you have with yourself as
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  Speaker 2: you set yourself up, through your through your activities. But
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  Speaker 2: it is which we've been leading up to. We've been
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  Speaker 2: talking about that a lot, even recently. It's really paying
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  Speaker 2: attention to what we're putting out there because we're going
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  Speaker 2: to get it back and being careful, like you're saying,
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  Speaker 2: being in that awareness so that we're not matching the
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  Speaker 2: energy that's around us, because that's easy to do. We've
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  Speaker 2: been doing it our whole lives so easily that we
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  Speaker 2: don't even recognize when we're doing it. I do now
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  Speaker 2: I recognize a lot of things that I do know
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  Speaker 2: that it's like, holy crap, you can do this. It's
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  Speaker 2: time to stop.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, and I don't want to. I want the
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  Speaker 1: people listening that when we say match energy, typically it's
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  Speaker 1: the aggressive energy that we're talking about. People come at
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  Speaker 1: you with who are upset, who just they just point
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  Speaker 1: everything negative out to you that they can see, like
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  Speaker 1: that type of energy as we're really talking about. However,
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  Speaker 1: there's also the flip side of the matching the energy
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  Speaker 1: of the good stuff and having wonderful things happen. And
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  Speaker 1: when you have a higher vibrational frequency, then amazing things happen.
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  Speaker 1: So I'll just case in point I did this segment intending.
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  Speaker 1: So on our way to the airport, I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: my gosh, it'd be so great if we just get in,
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  Speaker 1: get our get ourselves checked. Well I checked in, but
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: Drop your luggage and all the things, like there's.
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  Speaker 1: No line, there's we get right through security on the plane.
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  Speaker 1: I love I love it when there's an extra empty
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  Speaker 1: seat in our row. So uh so I was thinking, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's just so wonderful that there's space in our row
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  Speaker 1: and we can spread out because my husband's kind of
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  Speaker 1: a big dude, and uh so I just was singing
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  Speaker 1: that right like how easy and how wonderful our flight was.
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  Speaker 1: Guess what happened. Got our tags for our bags, went
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  Speaker 1: right up to the front of the line, turned in
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  Speaker 1: our bags went, and then the other thing. Because our
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  Speaker 1: flight was so freaking early in the morning, or we
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  Speaker 1: had to be there so early in the morning, we
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  Speaker 1: weren't sure if there would be any like any place
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  Speaker 1: to eat that early we got up there, what are
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  Speaker 1: the places just open? So we had time to eat
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  Speaker 1: because we had two hours to wait. We get on
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  Speaker 1: the plane. There is hardly anybody on this plane, so
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  Speaker 1: we were able to spread out like. It was just
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  Speaker 1: so good connecting, flight was on time. We even arrived
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  Speaker 1: early to our desk to our first layover. So anyway,
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  Speaker 1: that type of energy, I loved it. I had a
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  Speaker 1: great time with it all day. Even though I was exhausted,
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  Speaker 1: I was just like, Okay, the next flight is just
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  Speaker 1: as amazing. It was a full flight, but it still
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  Speaker 1: was amazing. It was easy, it was quiet, and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the whole the whole trip's been great.
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  Speaker 2: Nice. I like it. I like it, and it's good.
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  Speaker 2: Remember reminders you I haven't talked about the Kaylee going
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  Speaker 2: or whatever. I don't know if you. Yeah, and that's
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  Speaker 2: like kind of like going along the same thing that
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  Speaker 2: you said. It's really kind of setting yourself up. I
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  Speaker 2: mean in obviously a broader terms, but you can do
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  Speaker 2: it with short stuff like that too. You know that
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  Speaker 2: you're you're getting ready to take off right now. It's
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  Speaker 2: it's a it doesn't have to be so far into
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  Speaker 2: the future. So you're having a good time creating because
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  Speaker 2: you are creating. And I remember hearing efther Hicks. If
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  Speaker 2: you're in a space, so talking about energies, right there's
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  Speaker 2: obviously there's a time if you're in an energy and
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  Speaker 2: they're in a bar room and there's a brawl going on,
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  Speaker 2: obviously don't want to wrap into that energy. Hopefully you're
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  Speaker 2: ting out the barroom, because we don't really do that.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm just saying it's just a it's a possibility. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that and that's what she would say. Yeah, And then she
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  Speaker 2: would say, that's when you wouldn't want to take on
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  Speaker 2: any of the energy. But when you're in a space
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  Speaker 2: that feels so good, absorb it, soak it in, like
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  Speaker 2: tune into it, and it's like it How fun is
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  Speaker 2: that to even have that opportunity to even practice doing that,
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  Speaker 2: to have an awareness of that and practice playing with that,
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  Speaker 2: that's awesome.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, it's been fun. I just sit this, just
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  Speaker 1: to sit and really get into your heart space when
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  Speaker 1: all these people are here, like there's probably at one
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  Speaker 1: point there's probably good fifteen of us in a room
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  Speaker 1: in a house that's a fairly small house. And having
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  Speaker 1: all that energy in there, when you play with it
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  Speaker 1: and you're you're aware of it and you're acknowledging it,
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  Speaker 1: like how do I how do I shift my energy?
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  Speaker 1: Which will shift the energy collectively and not get caught
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  Speaker 1: up in everybody's thoughts and emotions right now right. So
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  Speaker 1: it's been fun to play with that for sure, on
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  Speaker 1: both sides, the discord side and I. And even though
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  Speaker 1: it happened, it was like, Okay, well that was cool
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  Speaker 1: because it's still fizzled out because there was no matching
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  Speaker 1: of the energy, like it was just like no, we're
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  Speaker 1: not I'm not doing this, so and then a lot
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  Speaker 1: of playful stuf up on the other end. It's just
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  Speaker 1: been really good, nice.
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  Speaker 2: And then so for me, one of the things that
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  Speaker 2: I've been doing a lot lately is listening to comedians.
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  Speaker 2: I have been laughing, like that's my focus. So that's
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  Speaker 2: been one of the things to do right now. It's
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  Speaker 2: just finding whatever makes me laugh. And yeah, so that's
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  Speaker 2: why I'm doing it all the time, all day long.
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  Speaker 2: The s it shifts the energy, it shifts everything. But
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  Speaker 2: we forget to laugh. I was looking to I was
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  Speaker 2: listening to it the other day and I'm at the
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  Speaker 2: gym and then and I'm a person now, mind you.
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  Speaker 2: I remember when the movie Ted came out, when I
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  Speaker 2: and anybody that has you know, you have to have
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  Speaker 2: a certain hypes sense of humor to watch that movie.
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  Speaker 2: But I had watched it, and I remember being at
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: the theater and laughing out loud, and I was like,
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: oh god, someone could hear me, Like, you know, they
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: shouldn't hear me do that. I'm at the gym the
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: other day, I'm listening to a comedian. I'm doing the
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: like press and all of a sudden, I because I
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: got earbudget and I can in that place I'm at.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: It's like so and I didn't even care.
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a gauge.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: That's a gauge letting me know, Hey, I'm going to
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: a certain point where I'm not caring about That's another
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: level of people pleasing sitting off of me. It's another
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: thing of not trying to rock the boat or disrupt
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: things or or all these things. And so it's like,
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: so that's been fun. It's been fun just doing that
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: kind of stuff, just having the.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Live people start looking around like what is she laughing at? Right?
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: But it also gets a smile on their face. Sometimes
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: it just makes other people laugh or at least smile.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: So yeah, just by doing that is shifts it shifts
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: the energy the frequency of actually yeah, yeah, people go
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: into the gym, and a lot of times people use
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: it to shift their aggressive energy, right because they have
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: no other outlet, and so they might be in there
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: just really getting that, like their brow furrowed and just
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: concentrating on on their weights or whatever they're doing, and
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: then they hear somebody laughing in a gym. It's like
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: it's a In hypnosis, they call it a pattern interrupter.
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: So we're having a conversation and you're you're really deep
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: into your story of how bad it is, and and
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: I just dropped my pen and I'm like, oh, sorry
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: about that, And I go to that was a pattern interrupter.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: It stops them from continuing with that, and I have
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: an opportunity now to change the conversation, the direction of
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: the conversation.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So so maybe it's they're they're talking and I
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: just clap my hands and they're like, right, it's a pattern.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: You just do something to just stop for them to
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: just go wait, what just happened? And a lot of
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: times people will lose their train of thought too. Yeah. Right,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: So that is a technique in hypnosis, but it's not
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: not even necessarily when you when they're in a hypnotic state.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: It you'd be well, we're wide awake, but you get
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: actually in a hypnotic state when you are carrying on
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: a conversation about your history, your experience, your situation, and
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: you're just in it and you're just so focused in it,
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: like you're you're almost hypnotized by the conversation itself.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: Wow, and if'izing yourself again.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and so so if the hypnotist or a person
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: who is trained in hypnosis or is aware of these things,
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: they can do a pattern interruptor and and to get
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: you out of that thought process for a moment, just enough,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: like I said, to stop your train of thought or
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: give the the other person the opportunity to redirect the
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: conversation or right. So, yeah, it's a it's a cool
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: tool to have.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: That's good. I've never even I hadn't heard that because
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I've done hypnosis too, and it's like I haven't I
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: haven't heard that for the from the teacher that I
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: had listened to. So that's that's good for every day
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: because most of the time the conversation goes to like
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: what were we talking about? Like what were we saying?
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: I don't remember even though you did right, oh I remember, no,
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: dang it the room and then ask did that work?
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Or it's simple as you can be. You can be
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: deep in your your story or whatever, and I'll just
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, you know what, you have some really
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: pretty blue eyes. And then and then it just makes
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: them stop and think, well, what does that have to
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: do with what I'm talking? Right, They're just like, wait
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: what I like it?
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: I like it.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's kind of fun to play with sometimes.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's funny.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: So yeah, it's been a Yeah, it's been a good trip.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Some interesting things, nothing crazy, though, it's been good. I
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: like it doing it. Do you learn a lot from
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: you from your little Oh? Yeah?
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because then I can see how mom is
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: all the time and how they just blow my mind.
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: She's she'll be she's four, she'll be five in November,
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: and it's like just so crazy how smart they are,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: and how I really love it that she did want
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: to the outside. So every morning she'd be like, kind
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: of outside, Yeah, we live out here in the middle
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: of nowhere. You can you can run around, And so
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: she'd go out and run around the house and she
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: always had a dog with her and stuff, and it
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: was interesting to see how she kind of expanded on herself. Really,
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: she really was more focused and more ground than she
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: loves it out here. So it's cool that kids are
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: not always sitting behind a device or in front of
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: a game or a TV and stuff. So she loves
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: to go out and run around and play. But yeah,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: there was just really they're they're really awesome when they
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: say things. Instead of before I would always assume what
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: they were saying. I asked them what they're talking about?
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: What does that mean? What does that mean? So because
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: she'll say really, and I'll say why, and then I'll
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: say yeah, really and she's like really, I'm like yeah really,
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: but really it's just funny communications.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: And they're simple, very so simple. But we we, like
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: you said, we assume we know and it's completely off
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: of whatever they're thinking or whatever they're yeah, conversations.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Which is what I found. I've I have found that
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: with the kids. And then they take things so literal,
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: like when we say things. We have been raised a
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: lot in a society that doesn't keep their words, so
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: words don't matter as much someone says something. When someone
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: says I'm going to do that, you may not necessarily
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: believe that person's gonna do that because their words haven't.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: They haven't matched their words. You know, there was nothing
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: to back it up. And so but when you say
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: things when you've been raising that kind of a life
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: or you know, uh, with that kind of awareness, with
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: those kind of tools, if you want to call them tools,
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: it got me this far, I guess. But it's like
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: you recognize there's where we can grow more, where we
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: could use more information. And so when I stop and
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: ask them questions and when I say things or when
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: I say things and they're like literally taking this information
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: and they look at me and they're like, well I
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: never thought that. Or I'd say, well, we're going to
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: do this, but it's not. It has nothing to do
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: with because I love you and I love you. Oh
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: I didn't know that was even in the question. I mean,
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: this is the kids talking to me about because I
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: have been raised differently. I have been raised with conditions,
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: and so being raised with conditions, I'm making sure that
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: they understand that I still love them no matter what
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: because of conditions. Because of my conditions, they already know
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: their love no matter what. And so it's just crazy
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: when we have these ideas these thoughts that come in
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: our mind, it is good for us to ask what
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: they're really meaning, and it's that that's missful in every relationship.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Nice.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: Just because I have a you know, a templative experiences
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: that I've had that I'm grabbing from with my next
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: experiences doesn't mean that it's true and accurate to what
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: the person's bringing to the table. Doesn't It doesn't mean
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: that it's true that that's what they're meaning when they
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: say those words yea, even to the.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Point do it. So we'll go back to our conversation,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: not necessarily this conversation, but previous conversations of it's about perspective.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: You have a perspective based on your history of how
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: this conversation is going. But their perspective is like, I
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because I'll say some things and he'll be like,
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: where did that I even come from? Why would you?
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Why would you even feel that way? But this is
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: because I felt like I had to defend myself so
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: much during childhood. There's so many things that I picked
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: up that we don't even realize.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: That we do.
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: And the only way we can get there is through awareness.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: We just don't even we don't even have we I don't.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: I'm just amazed at how long it took me to
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: get to this point. Honestly, I really do. I really
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: am It's like, how did I like myself? I don't
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: think I liked myself this whole time? Honestly, How could
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: I have liked myself to just show up the way
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: that I I hadn't At times if I feel.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, we had a lot of years of not
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: liking ourselves.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: And still you know, going to that point, but recognizing
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: that some whole another recording, we're not our bodies, We're
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: not this. It's just when you get into your truck
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: outside or your car outside, you don't sit there and think, oh, yeah,
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: oh look at the body on me right now, look
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: at there's a being over there. We don't do that
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: stuff with our vehicles, right I don't know. We get
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: so tied up in these vehicles that we're traveling, our
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: avatars that we travel around with that I think we
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: lose sight of a lot of things, and we can
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: get caught up in the worldly things. I guess.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's just again, as we say, your body
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: is your indicator of how you feel. How you feel
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: is how your energy is, and how your energy is
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: what you're going to tract. That's been. That's been. Another
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: thing is just listening to the conversations and their experiences
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: that they're talking about and all the things and them
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: just like wow. I don't say it out loud, but
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: in my head, I'm thinking, Hmmm, have you looked at
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: yourself lately? Have you tuned into yourself lately? I can
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: teach you how, right, but it's not mine to fixed
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: and I don't have the time to nor the energy
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: right now. Uh to have those conversations with so many exactly,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: and I totally understand that. So I'm like, they're they're
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: here for their own spiritual growth and it's their journey
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: and it's okay, and it's not mine too. But in
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I can plant seats like we've talked about so many
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: times before and let it be, and.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: That's that's what we're I feel like, that's what we're
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: supposed to do. Nothing more. We're supposed to be that
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: person driving down the road listening to something laughing out loud.
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: We're supposed to be those people. Yeah, permission, it's you know,
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: I need the permission. From that from somebody else to
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: be free like that with themselves in order for me
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: to think that was a okay for myself. I'm kind
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: of tripping over my mouth today for some reason.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: I know, I feel you. And there's the the laughing
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: out loud genuinely authentically, and there is the I would say,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: laughing out loud in a way of I need your attention.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: That's true, right, Like you're laughing loud in the gym
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: was because something made you mate was funny to you,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: and you were just like, oh, this is super funny.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: But then there are other things that people will say
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: or do for the attention. Yeah, like you're in your
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: own world, just doing your thing, laughing, not even concerned
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: about anybody around you, but other people, you know, it's
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: like I need to do something to get the attention.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: So people like that fixer type of thing. But anyway
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: saying it's a whole nother recording and conversation, but just
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: it's you know, we do things that are just out
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: of out of our programming because of our history, and
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: it's just I'm learning that. And and I'll say, I
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: mean I think I shared this before what things I
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: do quite frequently at night when I'm going to bed,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: is listening. I listen to subliminals. So like right now
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: I'm listening to one. It says like wake up happy
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: and refresh or something like that. And so it's just
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: these affirmations that are said, but they're at such a
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: high rate of speed. They're playing at such a high
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: rate of speed that sounds like rain and iceless of
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: those as I'm going to sleep. And so there's you
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: could just listen. You could just look up because I
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: use YouTube for it. So I look up YouTube and
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: whatever it is I want to focus on, then I'll
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: just put in subliminals for and whatever title could be
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: money mindset, it could be Millionaire mindset, be uh, you know,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: self love or weight loss or whatever. You just plug
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: it in and you know they'll pop up. So one
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: thing I will do before I go to sleep and
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: listening to one is I go into the comments, not
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: the comments, but the description section and see what affirmations
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: that they are saying, and if their affirmations are not listened,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: I will not listen to it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, so that's really important.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely check what affirmations are being said.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very important, and.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Huh, I was gonna say, And for a while I
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: was listening to him for about confidence.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Nice. Well that's a good one too. I'm just writing
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: down the stuff that you're saying because it's in And
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, how when you listen to the
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: one about being happy and when you wake up in
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: the morning, are you finding that you're waking up in
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: the morning happy? What are you noticing?
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm finding that my my demeanor is different because
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of times I've been waking up not grouchy,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: but just like give me a little bit to wake
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: up and don't talk to me type of thing. Now
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: I'm now, I'm I'm better. And I just know it's
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: just been old programming over several years, a lot of
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: it having to do with the change of life of
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: you know, my body changing and menopause and all that,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: and not sleeping well and being exhausted, and it's just like, okay,
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: just I am exhausted. I don't want to talk to
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: anybody this morning. Just leave me the efhaloe, right, And
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: that's all shifting. So yeah, nice, Because I used to
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: say years ago, I'd get up at five am in
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: the morning, I'd be good and get up and ready,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: and I was good. But man, because of life changes
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: and our maturing bodies, it's it's been rough for a while.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: And and you know, I've we're going into a whole
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: nother conversation. But because I've you know, got my hormones
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: checked and I'm I'm working on that and my vitamin
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: levels and all that, there's still your brain and body
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: still talk to each other. And it's like, oh, it's morning,
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: we're not awake yet, or it's morning and we don't
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: want to talk to anybody yet, Like it's programmed in there,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: like that's how you're operating. So I'm changing that that
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: it within me.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: I know we're getting close to wrapping this up. And
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: it's like you talked about the programming, and it's like
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: that takes on a whole other conversation because it's like, yeah,
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: I have recognized any set of comment a few minutes
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: ago too, about laughing to be seen, right, wanting wanting
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: to be seen. Basically, you didn't say it exactly like that,
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: but perspectively, I have caught numerous things that I would
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: do for the attention, Like I can't even give an
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: example right this minute, but I've caught certain behaviors within myself.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: I've seen them recently, and that's programming. That's programming that
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: we learned from childhood. Which brings me to the conversation
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: many moons ago you had made a comment during one
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: of the get togethers up in the Wall of Ice
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: that we had all had. You had made a comment
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: about programming that we're basically operating off the same tools
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: that we were given when we were kids at five
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: years old or whatever, and we've walked our whole lives.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: That five year old has been able to walk through
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: this body, this whole life with that same attitude about
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: whatever affected them at that five year old level. And
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: so I recognize that when you say programming, I have
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: recognized that. I've seen a lot of stuff come to
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: the service lately, and I've let go of a lot
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: of things, and I'm still let go of a lot
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: of things. But it's interesting when that's up comes up,
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: because it's like I'm having a conversation, I'm like why,
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: like why, why why would what do you need right now?
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: It's not up to because we were trained outside of
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: ourselves for that attention.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, which is I mean, it still ties into our
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: conversation as we began is recognizing that the people around
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: me in this family gathering, whom are an extension of
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: my husband. Right, But it doesn't matter that just being
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: around people that that's what they're doing too. Only I've
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: taken it upon myself to do personal development, mindset shifting
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: and energy shifting and all the things they haven't. And
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: it's everyone. Once in a while I say something and
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: it's like, oh, yeah, you're right, I've heard that, and
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: of course my mindset is okay, Well, if you've heard it,
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: then freaking do something about it. If you want your
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: life to change, do something, right, But it's the same
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: with the littles there are operating from what they're learning
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: from their parents and all the things, and so you're
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: seeing them as an adult at their age. And my
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: statement and of course is out of humor kind of
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: but not really. Here's my card and when you turn eighteen,
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: call me then I can help you.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm no kidding, no kidding.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: So anyway, we should probably wrap this up. And yeah,
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: there's been a lot of good points. Shout out to
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: the moms out there who are raising kids and doing
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: all the things we hear you, we see you, we
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: love you, and you're doing great, and we want you
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: to just keep going. And those kids are gonna there's
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  Speaker 1: kids are going to turn out in a way that
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  Speaker 1: is specific for their spiritual journey and know that it's
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  Speaker 1: okay and you're okay, and just just keep going. You're
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  Speaker 1: doing great. Well.
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  Speaker 2: Include top of them there too, because the dads sometimes
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  Speaker 2: end up being the ones sometimes that take care of
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  Speaker 2: the kids sometimes, so we don't know, and then they
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  Speaker 2: have a better understanding about the moms that actually do
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  Speaker 2: take care of the kids too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then there's also the parents. I know a
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  Speaker 1: couple right now that I think they have three littles
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  Speaker 1: and they're running it and then they're running their business
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  Speaker 1: and then well they're running two businesses that I know of,
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  Speaker 1: and so they they're motivated, they're going and it's hard
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  Speaker 1: for them. I mean, I hate using that word, but
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  Speaker 1: it is. They have these dreams, goals and desires. They
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  Speaker 1: want their kids to have a better life and they're
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  Speaker 1: doing what they can do right now and they're making
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  Speaker 1: the most of it and they keep showing up.
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  Speaker 2: So I will add to that because I've only seen
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  Speaker 2: it like once or twice, if we can find more
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  Speaker 2: and more of those parents that are including their kids
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  Speaker 2: in their work, not like slave labor, that including a minute.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I've seen some podcasts and stuff. Well there
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  Speaker 2: we have the kids in there. I mean, they're they're
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  Speaker 2: part of the They're just part of the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: So if we can for me, because I don't know
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  Speaker 2: how to do that, I would have to watch somebody
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  Speaker 2: else that is doing that kind of stuff and then
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  Speaker 2: see how how could that work? How could that work
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  Speaker 2: in my environment? So it's like there's so much possibility
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  Speaker 2: out there, and it's for them to be included and
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  Speaker 2: not feel like that they're that it's hard, and so
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  Speaker 2: that's that's for us to be help, you know, teach
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  Speaker 2: us different ways, and so that's what we're all here for.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: So yeah, and I'm right their way to you because
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  Speaker 1: there's things I would need to learn myself. As I
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  Speaker 1: said earlier, being around littles is it my thing, But
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  Speaker 1: so I would definitely have to be in that space
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  Speaker 1: of habit. How do you learn how do you incorporate kids?
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  Speaker 1: So obviously that's not my niche and I'm not going
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  Speaker 1: to teach people how to do it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the same same, even though I have I
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  Speaker 2: love the littles my mind. I really don't know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do when I grow up. People, I really do, don't.
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  Speaker 2: I really do not because I wrong. Go open up
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  Speaker 2: a school, I'll do, go do this. I can do
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  Speaker 2: all these things. I don't know if I want to.
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  Speaker 2: That's that doesn't seem like something that's yeah, that's something
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  Speaker 2: that I could do, but it's not my passion. I
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  Speaker 2: have phone for a while. Yeah, I'll set it up
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  Speaker 2: and then you guys could take it over see you later.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll work on the adults so then the adults
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  Speaker 1: can now be affected littles.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: And that's well, yeah, because it's a lot.
• 40:29
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