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Ep268. Unleash Yourself, Part 2: Everybody Knows What They Don’t Want—But What Do You Actually Want? · The Inner Wealth Podcast

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  SPEAKER_03: If you if you checked out the podcast, whether it be on YouTube or Apple Podcasts, Spotify, whatever platform you check it out on, if you checked it out last week and listened to last week's episode, you you heard me share the introduction to my uh to my first day of my workshop.
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  SPEAKER_03: And if again, if I were going back and renaming that workshop, it would just be Unleas Yourself.
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  SPEAKER_03: And it's really all about shifting from playing defense in life to playing offense.
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  SPEAKER_03: And it's a really, really good session.
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  SPEAKER_03: And there's a lot of uh a lot of yeah, a lot of breakthroughs and a lot of impact in that workshop.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I'll be having more of those going forward.
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  SPEAKER_03: But if you haven't listened to that, yeah, uh keep going, keep keep listening to this, keep watching this.
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  SPEAKER_03: But if you haven't, I would definitely, if you haven't, go back and watch that.
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  SPEAKER_03: But also go back in two, two or three episodes ago, and there's an episode on what it's what it means to shift from defense to offense.
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  SPEAKER_03: It's episode 265, if if uh if you look at the uh the episode title.
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  SPEAKER_03: But anyway, last week we talked about going or playing defense and the impacts of the nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_03: And nervous system just trying to keep you alive.
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  SPEAKER_03: It tries to keep you alive by by keeping you in familiar circumstances.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that was all about day one.
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  SPEAKER_03: And most people, if you look in life, most people are are living playing defense.
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  SPEAKER_03: They're just trying to prevent negative consequences, negative circumstances.
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  SPEAKER_03: They're they're playing to not lose instead of to win.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's not that that's not a fun way to live.
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  SPEAKER_03: And most people are just trying to stay secure and stay safe until their very last breath, and then they then they exhale and they die.
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  SPEAKER_03: But today, and this and day two of the workshop was all about going on offense.
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  SPEAKER_03: So, this video that I'm gonna share, this audio that I'm gonna share, if you haven't, uh if you're only listening on an audio platform, I would encourage you to go to YouTube and because you can you can make out some of the some of the the voices and some of the, you know, um you can see me, first of all, but you can make it out a little better and kind of see, you know, there's there's just more sensory uh interacting.
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  SPEAKER_03: Uh, but anyway, would encourage you to go across platforms and and just like, subscribe, share, rate review, do all those good things to help me out.
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  SPEAKER_03: But uh definitely check out um this video and understand what going on offense means.
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  SPEAKER_03: And this is where life gets really fun.
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  SPEAKER_03: And listen to me this is the work that everybody gets excited to do.
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  SPEAKER_03: But last week's episode about going on defense, it's the one that creates the expansion in life.
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  SPEAKER_03: All right.
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  SPEAKER_03: But taking steps on offense first and foremost requires attaining a vision for your life, tapping into that dream that's inside of you.
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  SPEAKER_03: The your soul carries a dream, your mind creates, your body receives the receptivity and the reception and the body work and the defense is last week about the nervous system.
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  SPEAKER_03: But this today we tap into the expression of your soul and understanding what you came here to experience, getting clear with that, and really starting to dive into that vision and going on offense.
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  SPEAKER_03: Stop living a life where you're just trying to prevent negative consequences and go into offense, go on to offense where you're looking to expand your life, you're looking to experience more of life, and you're really looking to tap into the greatest parts of you.
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  SPEAKER_03: But it will require discomfort.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's what last week was about.
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  SPEAKER_03: It will require discomfort.
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  SPEAKER_03: And to avoid discomfort means avoiding growth because you can only have comfort or growth.
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  SPEAKER_03: You can't have both.
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  SPEAKER_03: Hope you enjoyed today's episode.
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  SPEAKER_03: Again, go back a couple episodes ago, grab, grab episode 265, watch last week, the defense after, after offense, watch defense, and I hope put it together.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then stay tuned for the next workshops that I launch.
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  SPEAKER_03: It'll some probably be somewhere in late fall.
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  SPEAKER_03: All right.
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  SPEAKER_03: Hope you have fun.
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  SPEAKER_03: I hope you enjoy yourself, and I hope you do make the shift from defense to offense in every aspect of your life.
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  SPEAKER_04: Do you ever wake up feeling like there's something missing in your life?
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  SPEAKER_04: Do you ever feel the need to escape your business?
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  SPEAKER_04: Are you running your life or is your life running your people?
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  SPEAKER_04: I'm like, you know, I'm helping design the thing that life is so authentic and aligned with who you really are.
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  SPEAKER_04: Do you feel exciting to wake up?
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  SPEAKER_04: How do you create the real wealth in freedom from the inside out?
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  SPEAKER_04: Welcome to the Inner Wealth Podcast, where we learn and choose to live inspired people every day.
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  SPEAKER_03: Alright, guys, let's talk clarity.
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  SPEAKER_03: Clarity is a very, very creative force in this world.
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  SPEAKER_03: What I've experienced with clarity is when I have extreme clarity, my energy goes up and momentum goes forward.
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  SPEAKER_03: But when I don't have clarity, it feels like kind of like momentum goes away and you kind of sit in neutral for a while.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's that's been my experience with clarity.
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  SPEAKER_03: And what there's a a great book, and I Nathan, I would write this one down, The Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T.
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  SPEAKER_03: Harbbecker, where it's the first time that I ever saw someone say or it said that everybody knows exactly what they don't want.
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  SPEAKER_03: Everybody.
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  SPEAKER_03: Everybody knows exactly what they wake up to avoid every single day.
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  SPEAKER_03: And for most people, that is their intention in life.
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  SPEAKER_03: They wake up every day to avoid the negative consequences that they don't want to experience.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's it.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's their life.
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  SPEAKER_03: They're in survival mode.
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  SPEAKER_03: That that's just survival mode.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's trying to survive, trying to be secure until you die, trying to keep the wheels on, trying to keep it all together.
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  SPEAKER_03: And everybody knows exactly what they don't want.
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  SPEAKER_03: Very, very few people know exactly what they want.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's one of the things that that Brian early on, he had those what sometimes when he's here, he draws his little five circles where he had the five real estate entities, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: And he said, Yep, and they're all going to feed each other.
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  SPEAKER_03: And he had that vision 20 years ago.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's why, little by little, when with the law of process, little by little, he took one step after another and he built that.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then the funny thing was, right after it was all built, that's when he sold his, started selling them.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because that was like what he wanted to experience.
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  SPEAKER_03: He wanted to, he wanted to experience that just for the experience, not for insecurity, inadequacy, or insignificance.
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  SPEAKER_03: He was just trying to build something and put this thing together like a like like Lego house.
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  SPEAKER_03: And then when you put the Lego house together, hey, look, look, mom, dad, look at this.
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  SPEAKER_03: This is awesome.
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  SPEAKER_03: You know, and then you start building the next one.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's why he built his empire.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's how he built his empire, is just for the sake of the experience, not to prove anything to himself, not to try to feel anything, but just for the experience of building.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that is creation mode.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're in survival mode when you're driven by insecurity, inadequacy, insignificance, but you're in creation mode when you're driven by inspiration.
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  SPEAKER_03: And inspiration, clarity go hand in hand.
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  SPEAKER_03: And when sometimes when you're not inspired, it's because you're not clear.
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  SPEAKER_03: We talked about that yesterday.
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  SPEAKER_03: And sometimes when you're not clear, it's because you're not inspired.
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  SPEAKER_03: And those we and you can't make clarity happen.
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  SPEAKER_03: I want to be uh be clear about that.
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  SPEAKER_03: I want to be clear about that.
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  SPEAKER_03: You you can't make clarity happen.
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  SPEAKER_03: This is like a pond.
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  SPEAKER_03: And the more you walk around in the pond, the more sediment you kick up.
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  SPEAKER_03: And the more you just relax and allow clarity to come, the more the sediment drops, and the more clarity you'll get.
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  SPEAKER_03: So this requires some patience and contemplation and understanding and gradual tweaks over time because I don't think any clarity locks in and it's yours for the rest of your life.
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  SPEAKER_03: You just kind of, as we grow, our clarity evolves and what we want evolves and our vision evolves.
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  SPEAKER_03: But when we have that vision, then it energizes us.
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  SPEAKER_03: And we have something to wake up to create instead of just a whole bunch of stuff to avoid.
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  SPEAKER_03: Does that make sense?
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  SPEAKER_03: Back in 2017, 2018, Angie and I went to a uh uh a vision workshop and spent a couple days.
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  SPEAKER_03: It was 2017, and we were still trying to figure out who we were gonna be when we grew up, like in this in this world.
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  SPEAKER_03: And none, none of our vision, we didn't have a vision and we didn't even know the power of vision.
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  SPEAKER_03: But we went to this workshop, we spent two days getting trying to get clear about exactly what we wanted in life.
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  SPEAKER_03: And the the product of that, in some cases, were freaking vacation homes and and I'm exaggerating with Lambos and all the material stuff, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: You know, that that that's the when you start to design your vision, you throw this all this material stuff and this flash in there.
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  SPEAKER_03: But the and that eventually faded because I that wasn't really, that was just driven by those.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_03: But the one thing that held from that is I don't want to wake up to an alarm clock.
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  SPEAKER_03: I I want to, I want to own my time.
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  SPEAKER_03: I want to call my own shots.
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  SPEAKER_03: I want to say yes when I want to say yes and no when I want to say no.
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  SPEAKER_03: I don't want somebody else running my life.
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  SPEAKER_03: And if you don't own your time, my my perspective, if you don't own your time, you don't own your life.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's when I started getting really clear back in 2017 is oh, I can't go back into that old world because it's completely counter to what I really want to experience in life is that I am the owner of my life.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that has never ever left.
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  SPEAKER_03: The visions changed, the visions morphed, it's gotten bigger, smaller, it's it's shifted, it's pivoted.
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  SPEAKER_03: But that aspect of I want to own my life has never changed.
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  SPEAKER_03: And once I had that clarity, everything else started to make a lot more sense.
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  SPEAKER_03: Like why I hated my job so much, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: Why, why our marriage was so bad.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because I was saying yes because she wanted me to say yes, not because I wanted to say yes.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I had done that with everybody in my life, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: I turned over my personal power, my personal authority, my personal sovereignty to everybody else, and it gave everybody else a vote.
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  SPEAKER_03: And it was kind of in that vision workshop.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm like, got it.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's why the first 43 years sucked.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because that that soul that comes here with a destiny, that felt like what I was here to experience.
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  SPEAKER_03: And since then, because the soul comes here with a dream and the destiny, the mind creates and the body receives.
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  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_03: Does it make sense?
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  SPEAKER_03: I know, I know that's kind of esoteric, but court, the soul carries a dream.
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  SPEAKER_03: Okay, soul carries a dream into this lifetime.
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  SPEAKER_03: The mind is creative.
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  SPEAKER_03: Nothing that you've ever created didn't first start with a thought.
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  SPEAKER_03: So the mind is creative, and the body receives.
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  SPEAKER_03: We receive, we are on, we end up on the receiving end of life through the body.
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  SPEAKER_03: So and just go back to have you ever known somebody that had a lot of money that felt broke because they hadn't received the money in their body?
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  SPEAKER_03: It's in their bank account, it's sitting in there.
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  SPEAKER_03: But if we don't receive it in the bank, or if we don't receive it in our body, then we'll never feel what we have.
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  SPEAKER_03: And we wake up feeling who we are, and that's how we experience ourselves.
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  SPEAKER_03: Does it make sense?
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  SPEAKER_03: Is it confusing?
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  SPEAKER_03: I lost you.
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  SPEAKER_03: I can see the look on his face.
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  SPEAKER_03: I lost him.
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  SPEAKER_08: As you feel is desire.
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  SPEAKER_08: So as you say, as you fear is desire.
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  SPEAKER_08: That's what's coming into your life.
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  SPEAKER_08: Whether it's the insignificance, the bad things you say to yourself, the love media to yourself, accept as anything that as you feel it, that is what's desire and create.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yes.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I'm gonna say it slightly differently, but I'm gonna tack on to that.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm gonna build onto that.
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  SPEAKER_03: If she loves me and I don't feel it, then I'm not really loved.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because I exp you experience the world in here.
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  SPEAKER_03: You don't experience that out there.
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  SPEAKER_03: When we were at the Outer Banks for our retreat, and we're sitting in this beautiful mansion, and there's windows, and the ocean's out there, and one of the first questions I asked at that retreat is where do we experience that ocean?
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  SPEAKER_03: And nobody got it.
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  SPEAKER_03: It's one of those questions that nobody's gonna nobody's gonna get it right.
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  SPEAKER_03: I know that.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_03: We we we experience it in our body.
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  SPEAKER_03: We experience everything in our body.
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  SPEAKER_03: That looking at that beach, you feel something.
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  SPEAKER_03: You feel something.
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  SPEAKER_03: You go on vacation, you feel something.
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  SPEAKER_03: You make money, you feel something, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: You experience life in in our body.
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  SPEAKER_03: And feeling is the way we exper really truly experience life.
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  SPEAKER_03: Sit with this for a second, play with this idea, because if you are loved but don't feel loved, really you're not experiencing love.
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  SPEAKER_03: If you are successful, but you don't feel successful, you're not really experiencing your success.
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  SPEAKER_03: If I'm running a$350 million operation and I've got hundreds of people, you said 116 or 119.
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  SPEAKER_03: If I'm managing a$350 million operation and I'm managing throngs of people and I feel like a fraud, then I'm experiencing life as being a fraud.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm not experiencing what's really happening.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm experiencing what's happening in my body.
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  SPEAKER_03: Nathan is struggling.
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  SPEAKER_03: Here's what's gonna happen.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're gonna sit with this, you're gonna logic this thing out, it's gonna connect, the dots are gonna connect in Nathan's way, and suddenly it's gonna make sense.
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  SPEAKER_03: But the way I explain it and the way you receive it and the way you comprehend it are different.
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  SPEAKER_03: But when you sit with this and you contemplate it, at some point it'll click because I the way I communicate and the way you receive it are different.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's what happened yesterday.
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  SPEAKER_03: When you got it, you got it.
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  SPEAKER_03: But it didn't come from me.
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  SPEAKER_03: It came when you were ready, when you put it together.
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  SPEAKER_03: Right?
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  SPEAKER_03: Until then, he's gonna go.
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  SPEAKER_03: I love you, man.
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  SPEAKER_03: I love you.
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  SPEAKER_03: Guys, do you do you understand this?
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  SPEAKER_03: What I'm trying to explain.
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  SPEAKER_03: Where where are we struggling with that?
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  SPEAKER_03: Besides Nathan.
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  SPEAKER_03: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because that that is why that is why this thing is called built to give, rebuilt to receive.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because we're we're here to learn how to receive that too.
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  SPEAKER_03: Core.
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  SPEAKER_07: Is there a specific order?
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  SPEAKER_07: Because you're reading that soul, Mary's dream, mind there's a certain order under that.
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  SPEAKER_03: They all just need to be working together.
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  SPEAKER_03: If you don't understand the dream, then you're just flailing through life.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're creating.
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  SPEAKER_03: The mind's gonna create stuff, but you're just flailing through life.
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  SPEAKER_01: So I guess until we figure out what that soul is dreaming, it's playing it out until we survival mode.
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  SPEAKER_03: Waking up every day to avoid what you don't want because you don't know what you want.
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  SPEAKER_03: So, how can you create what you want when you're just trying to avoid what you don't want?
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  SPEAKER_03: You don't know what you really want.
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  SPEAKER_03: You just don't want to struggle with money, right, Isaiah?
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  SPEAKER_03: There you go.
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  SPEAKER_03: You you don't know how much you want.
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  SPEAKER_03: Maybe.
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  SPEAKER_03: And you don't know what you fully want to do with it.
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  SPEAKER_03: You're not completely clear how you want to deploy it and utilize it and invest, and you're not completely clear with all that, but you do know you just don't want to struggle with money.
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  unknown: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's that's why you wake up every day just trying to avoid struggling with money.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because that's what you're clear about.
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  SPEAKER_08: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_03: Awesome.
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  SPEAKER_03: All right.
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  SPEAKER_03: That is a very, very important concept, is that we experience life in our body, not in our mind.
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  SPEAKER_03: You don't experience reality by thinking about it.
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  SPEAKER_03: You experience reality by feeling about it.
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  SPEAKER_03: And that's what the imposter syndrome is about.
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  SPEAKER_03: If I'm feeling like an imposter, then really in that moment, I'm experiencing being an apot imposter.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm not experiencing the authority and the success that I have.
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  SPEAKER_03: And this is why somebody can get wildly wealthy and still feel broke.
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  SPEAKER_03: Because in that, in that moment, in that experience, they are experiencing being broke.
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  SPEAKER_03: Soul carries a dream, mind creates, body received.
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  SPEAKER_08: So is it an imposter syndrome?
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  SPEAKER_08: Is it a pipe so it's like you're basically you don't really know what you can suck into?
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  SPEAKER_08: I mean, is that is that a dip type imposter syndrome because you really don't know what you're doing, and it's legit imposter versus and the illusion of being an imposter because you just so check this out, Brad.
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  SPEAKER_03: I was in Oregon working for a small company called Stanley Blackendecker.
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  SPEAKER_03: Pretty big deal.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, pretty big deal.
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  SPEAKER_03: Managing, plant manager of a$65 million enterprise at 34 years old.
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  SPEAKER_03: Right?
• 18:42
  SPEAKER_03: Here's the keys.
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  SPEAKER_03: Don't I was given I was given one order.
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  SPEAKER_03: Here's the keys, don't hurt anybody.
• 18:47
  SPEAKER_03: It it's it's it's going south, and we're gonna we're gonna have to sell it or get rid of it if if we don't turn it around.
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  SPEAKER_03: Here's the keys, don't hurt anybody, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: Because I'm a transformation guy.
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  SPEAKER_03: I'm a transformation guy here.
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  SPEAKER_03: That's why I was so good at that, because I'm a transformation guy, gave me the keys, but I started getting recruiter calls, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: Because I was a high potential, I was on the high potential list, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: I was I was an I was a future leader, future C-suite guy, right, on the track of being groomed into higher levels of executive level leadership.
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  SPEAKER_03: And once once you're on something like that, and that's not the first list that I was on, but you start recruiters know who you are and they start calling you, okay, because they're looking to poach your talent.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I started getting recruiter calls, and there's this company across across the river called Sun Coke Energy.
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  SPEAKER_03: And they called and they they talked about the organization.
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  SPEAKER_03: I didn't care what the organization was, but they said this big number.
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  SPEAKER_03: And I'm like, holy shit, let's fucking go.
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  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
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  SPEAKER_03: And the benefit package was really nice.
• 19:50
  SPEAKER_03: But let's fucking go.
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  SPEAKER_03: So I went and interviewed up in Chicago and came here and did all this stuff, right?
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  SPEAKER_03: And then they sent us out here after I interviewed.
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  SPEAKER_03: I got an offer.
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  SPEAKER_03: I said, I need four days or a couple days to come out with my family to see if they like the area.
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  SPEAKER_03: So they put us up at the freaking in the Grand Renaissance downtown in the presidential suite, my kids ordering freaking uh uh room service all the time, and they had a ball.
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  SPEAKER_03: They had a ball, and and then you know, we went home and whatever.
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  SPEAKER_03: We decided we wanted to move here and and all that stuff.
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  SPEAKER_03: Was I successful?
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  SPEAKER_03: In general, in general, was I successful?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we're calling him.
• 20:34
  SPEAKER_00: I'd say no.
• 20:38
  SPEAKER_03: But I didn't feel successful.
• 20:40
  SPEAKER_03: But but but but let's back up.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_03: I was recruited by companies all over the country.
• 20:48
  SPEAKER_03: Was I successful?
• 20:49
  SPEAKER_03: I was a very successful man.
• 20:52
  SPEAKER_03: I didn't feel successful, but I was a very successful man.
• 20:57
  SPEAKER_03: We would I interviewed in uh New Hampshire and Southern California and Chicago and here and we were being pulled in a couple of different directions to go places and for me to manage operations.
• 21:10
  SPEAKER_03: I was a very successful man, but I didn't feel successful because I I didn't I didn't like didn't know how to feel successful.
• 21:20
  SPEAKER_01: Oh, that's achievement.
• 21:21
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, I didn't know how to receive it.
• 21:23
  SPEAKER_03: I didn't know how to receive the success.
• 21:25
  SPEAKER_03: I was still trying to prove things, I was still trying to feel safe, I was trying to become somebody, I was trying to be seen somehow.
• 21:34
  SPEAKER_03: It was all about everything on the outside of me.
• 21:37
  SPEAKER_03: And nothing in here felt successful.
• 21:41
  SPEAKER_03: Because we receive in our body.
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_03: We feel the feelings of circumstances in our bodies.
• 21:49
  SPEAKER_03: And what we're really looking for is the emotional payoff.
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_03: I know this is a little different take on life, but through everything that you want, you want the emotional payoff of it.
• 22:00
  SPEAKER_03: You don't, Isaiah, let me be honest, you don't care about the money.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_03: You want to feel secure.
• 22:06
  unknown: I do, yeah.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_03: You don't care about money.
• 22:09
  SPEAKER_03: It's just paper and numbers.
• 22:11
  SPEAKER_03: You want the freaking experiences and the feeling of being free that comes that you've assigned to that money.
• 22:18
  SPEAKER_03: So it's all about the emotional payoff that you want.
• 22:21
  SPEAKER_03: That's what we're looking for, the emotional payoff.
• 22:23
  SPEAKER_03: But if we don't allow ourselves to receive the emotional payoff, we're never really going to experience what we have, right?
• 22:31
  SPEAKER_03: So that's the receiving, being on the receiving end of life.
• 22:34
  SPEAKER_03: It's letting yourself feel what you want to feel instead of what you don't want to feel, which you're waking up every day to avoid feeling.
• 22:42
  SPEAKER_03: And your nervous system has one job and one job only.
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_03: What is it?
• 22:46
  SPEAKER_03: Keep you alive, try to keep you alive by keeping you familiar.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_03: Circumstances.
• 22:49
  SPEAKER_03: So when you feel like a fraud, what is your nervous system trying to do?
• 22:54
  SPEAKER_03: Keep you keep keep you feeling like a fraud.
• 22:57
  SPEAKER_03: And you've got to retrain it.
• 22:59
  SPEAKER_03: You got to learn how to receive without permission, without justification, without the need for something to change for you to feel this thing.
• 23:10
  SPEAKER_03: My wife can love me, but I don't feel loved because I haven't allowed myself to feel love.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_03: Has nothing to do with her.
• 23:18
  SPEAKER_03: If I feel unlovable, there's nothing she can do to change that.
• 23:22
  SPEAKER_03: Because I won't receive the love in my body.
• 23:25
  SPEAKER_03: Because this is where we experience life.
• 23:29
  SPEAKER_03: Somebody looks at something and says it's ugly.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_03: Somebody looks at the same thing and says it's beautiful.
• 23:34
  SPEAKER_03: Because they're experiencing that thing in their body.
• 23:37
  SPEAKER_03: Has nothing to do with the thing.
• 23:39
  SPEAKER_03: A piece of art.
• 23:40
  SPEAKER_03: That's fucking awful.
• 23:41
  SPEAKER_03: Because they're experiencing it in here.
• 23:43
  SPEAKER_03: Somebody looks at that and goes, Oh my god, that's an expression.
• 23:46
  SPEAKER_03: That's a beautiful rendering of because they're experiencing it in here.
• 23:52
  SPEAKER_03: Two different perceptions of the same thing.
• 23:54
  SPEAKER_03: Because it has nothing to do with up with what's up there.
• 23:58
  SPEAKER_03: It's the interaction and the experience of what's happening in here that interprets that thing.
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_03: Because this is where we experience life.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_05: So where's the greatest disconnect that I'm having right now, Mike, with what you're explaining?
• 24:10
  SPEAKER_05: Perception.
• 24:12
  SPEAKER_05: Because one person, for instance, the beach and out, Cato or Dave.
• 24:18
  SPEAKER_05: One person sitting on the beach may love it.
• 24:20
  SPEAKER_05: 100%.
• 24:24
  unknown: Right.
• 24:24
  SPEAKER_03: So are you really experiencing the beach?
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_06: Is the reception visa.
• 24:32
  SPEAKER_03: So two people.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_03: One person would wants to extend their vacation so they stay on the beach.
• 24:38
  SPEAKER_03: And the next person wants to get home so they can get to their mountain trip because they hate the beach and they want to go to the mountains.
• 24:43
  SPEAKER_03: So there are are both of them really experiencing the ocean.
• 24:47
  SPEAKER_03: No.
• 24:48
  SPEAKER_03: They're experiencing the feelings that they're interacting with the emotion with the ocean while they're there.
• 24:55
  SPEAKER_03: They're interpreting the ocean and it's causing this stuff, and this is what they're experiencing.
• 25:00
  SPEAKER_03: Well, I can't wait to get home.
• 25:01
  SPEAKER_03: I hate I hate being on the ocean.
• 25:03
  SPEAKER_03: I love hot.
• 25:04
  SPEAKER_03: She loves like, well, she hates hot.
• 25:08
  SPEAKER_03: It's the same temperature.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_03: I love it.
• 25:10
  SPEAKER_03: She hates it.
• 25:11
  SPEAKER_03: It's not the thing, it's the perception of what's happening.
• 25:14
  SPEAKER_05: Are those perceptions choices?
• 25:16
  SPEAKER_03: I believe so.
• 25:17
  SPEAKER_05: Preferences.
• 25:18
  SPEAKER_08: Yeah.
• 25:19
  SPEAKER_08: All those things are preferences on the outside are conditions you put on.
• 25:23
  SPEAKER_08: So then happy, peaceful when you can have that anytime you wear.
• 25:28
  SPEAKER_08: It's all these preferences.
• 25:30
  SPEAKER_08: You I'd be in the beach with the drink in my hand, the toes up with my good book, whatever.
• 25:36
  SPEAKER_08: All these preferences for me in order for me to be okay, you know, the security, you know, vacation, all those things.
• 25:44
  SPEAKER_08: Yeah, cuz these insecurities, insignificance, and the conditions and the things you have to have on the outside preferences in order to be happy, but you can find that peace within you without moving anywhere.
• 25:57
  SPEAKER_05: It's just feel do you change your preferences?
• 26:02
  SPEAKER_03: I think your preferences can change, sure.
• 26:04
  SPEAKER_05: So one person sitting on the beach is unhappy.
• 26:07
  SPEAKER_05: You can just change your preferences, and now they can be happy.
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_03: How about it?
• 26:10
  SPEAKER_03: How about if they just gave up the resistance to being on the beach?
• 26:14
  SPEAKER_03: Let go of the resistance of being on the beach.
• 26:16
  SPEAKER_03: Would they enjoy the experience more?
• 26:19
  SPEAKER_03: Has the ocean changed?
• 26:21
  SPEAKER_05: So they're not so this is this is the conflict that I'm working through, so they're not they're not receiving the experience in their body.
• 26:34
  SPEAKER_05: They're receiving the experience through the perception and their body is reactive.
• 26:41
  SPEAKER_03: But they're still but they're still experiencing the perception that they have instead of the actual ocean.
• 26:47
  SPEAKER_08: Which is a choice.
• 26:48
  SPEAKER_03: Which is a choice.
• 26:50
  SPEAKER_08: They have preferences because they think they have problems, but really there are other problems in you can be okay anytime.
• 26:58
  SPEAKER_08: If you're you're saying, Oh, I I prefer I need to have it this way, you know, then there's a problem that I have to have it a certain way.
• 27:05
  SPEAKER_08: When you say it's okay no matter what, then that's life this perfect earth with all creations from a you know microbe to astrology, you know, the great creation we're living in and everything is perfect on it.
• 27:23
  SPEAKER_08: We were just living with all these imperfect people and mind and experiences and possible, you know, that we get to deal with.
• 27:32
  SPEAKER_03: There's a there's a teacher, Michael Singer, and a lot of us in here have studied some Michael Singer, and and he I had to laugh when I read this.
• 27:42
  SPEAKER_03: He says God had this vision, and it involved multiple universes and stars and life and heat and cold and dark and light and oceans and mountains and beauty and rocks and planets and all asteroids and all the God rainforest.
• 28:06
  SPEAKER_03: God had this vision, all of it, and He put it into motion and started the started the process, and and the evolution's happening, and fish are becoming freaking amphibians and shit, like all like God's got all this stuff in motion, and it's all happening, and you weren't a part of any of it.
• 28:29
  SPEAKER_03: And now the earth is 14 billion years old, and you there's nothing you do to make light happen, there's nothing you do to make dark happen.
• 28:38
  SPEAKER_03: It's all beautiful, seasons change, leaves, leaves fall, leaves grow, flowers, and then it's gonna rain, and you say, I don't like it.
• 28:47
  SPEAKER_04: Who the fuck are you?
• 28:53
  SPEAKER_04: Who the fuck are you to say you don't like the rain?
• 28:56
  SPEAKER_04: You bet.
• 28:58
  SPEAKER_04: This has been in the making for billions and billions of years.
• 29:01
  SPEAKER_04: Who the fuck are you to decide that you don't like something?
• 29:04
  SPEAKER_04: It's rain, and you haven't done anything to create.
• 29:09
  SPEAKER_04: That that's like none of your business.
• 29:11
  SPEAKER_04: Just mind your own business and just enjoy the rain.
• 29:15
  SPEAKER_07: I've got a real life scenario with regards to the beepship product 15 years ago when I was like in the trenches of building the business, it's all I focused on.
• 29:24
  SPEAKER_07: Wife and I went to vacation in Borta.
• 29:26
  SPEAKER_07: I was depressed, miserable, worried about work.
• 29:29
  SPEAKER_07: I could not break loose.
• 29:30
  SPEAKER_07: She kept saying, Did you see the palm trees?
• 29:33
  SPEAKER_07: And I was like, What about send me a fucking boost puck?
• 29:37
  SPEAKER_07: No, I just did, I could not appreciate it.
• 29:39
  SPEAKER_07: I'm like, I was just in this rough that I could not the whole trip.
• 29:45
  SPEAKER_07: I just battled that.
• 29:46
  SPEAKER_07: All I could think about at home, business.
• 29:49
  SPEAKER_07: Shit's not getting done because I'm here.
• 29:52
  SPEAKER_07: I just could not exorb it.
• 29:54
  SPEAKER_07: I will never forget the feeling of that.
• 29:56
  SPEAKER_07: Frustrating me.
• 29:56
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
• 29:57
  SPEAKER_03: And we can keep going down this rabbit hole.
• 29:59
  SPEAKER_03: That's a great point.
• 30:00
  SPEAKER_03: But this is what, you know, when you it's eckertole, I'm throwing out a lot of teachers, but echertolle, the the power of now, in the power, in in the now, there is no judgment.
• 30:12
  SPEAKER_03: Judgment's in the past and in the future.
• 30:14
  SPEAKER_03: There's no judgment of the present moment.
• 30:16
  SPEAKER_03: If you are truly present with this second, then judgment goes away.
• 30:20
  SPEAKER_03: And you just you are just fully embracing and accepting exactly what's happening, exactly how it is.
• 30:27
  SPEAKER_03: But if you go into the past or go into the future in that mind in that scenario, Court, if I don't do this, this is gonna happen XYZ in the future, blah, blah, blah.
• 30:36
  SPEAKER_03: Or this customer was pissed, and I can't let him get pissed anymore.
• 30:39
  SPEAKER_03: So you're in a past and in your future, and you're not present.
• 30:41
  SPEAKER_03: Your wife's like, be here now.
• 30:44
  SPEAKER_03: You're like, I can't be here now because I'm here and I'm here.
• 30:47
  SPEAKER_03: And she's trying to bring you back to the present moment, and you're you're just trying to avoid consequences, right?
• 30:52
  SPEAKER_03: That's that's that's what all that is, right there.
• 30:59
  SPEAKER_03: What's your problem?
• 31:01
  SPEAKER_08: I have a problem about it.
• 31:16
  SPEAKER_03: So the point being to all of this is we experience life in our body.
• 31:21
  SPEAKER_03: That's where we really experience.
• 31:22
  SPEAKER_03: We this is this is where we take everything in.
• 31:25
  SPEAKER_03: Um I did one, I'm gonna I'm gonna move this thing forward quickly.
• 31:29
  SPEAKER_03: But I did this one, I think, I think Angie was there.
• 31:33
  SPEAKER_03: No, you know what it was.
• 31:34
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, you weren't there.
• 31:36
  SPEAKER_03: Um, but it was a room full of people, and I had a rock.
• 31:39
  SPEAKER_03: And I took two people and I asked for two volunteers, and two people stood up, and I had one person go out of the room, and and I just asked the other person, I said, Hey, describe this rock to me.
• 31:52
  SPEAKER_03: And it's a beautiful rock.
• 31:56
  SPEAKER_03: There's what it's got some color here, it's beautiful.
• 32:00
  SPEAKER_03: You know, it's got some chips and it's got a little bit of damage.
• 32:04
  SPEAKER_03: It's a beautiful rock, though.
• 32:06
  SPEAKER_03: This rock is probably really, really old, and it's seen a lot.
• 32:12
  SPEAKER_03: It's seen a lot in the world, and it is like things have come and go, uh things have come and gone, but this rock was right there, and it just keeps like just being a rock.
• 32:22
  SPEAKER_03: And it's describing this thing.
• 32:24
  SPEAKER_03: It was beautiful the way he described it.
• 32:26
  SPEAKER_03: I was kind of blown away.
• 32:28
  SPEAKER_03: And he could he sat down and went and got the other person that gave it the rock, and then he just went.
• 32:35
  SPEAKER_03: It's just an average rock.
• 32:39
  SPEAKER_03: Nothing special about it.
• 32:41
  SPEAKER_03: It's kind of ugly.
• 32:44
  SPEAKER_03: And he just started describing a rock, and it was a completely different interpretation of this rock.
• 32:49
  SPEAKER_03: You know what they were describing?
• 32:54
  SPEAKER_03: They were describing how they feel about themselves.
• 32:58
  SPEAKER_03: Isn't that crazy?
• 33:00
  SPEAKER_03: It's just an average rock, nothing special.
• 33:03
  SPEAKER_03: It's kind of ugly.
• 33:04
  SPEAKER_03: Like I'm listening going, we should.
• 33:11
  SPEAKER_03: But we experience the world, we experience ourselves inside.
• 33:15
  SPEAKER_03: We don't experience it in the real world.
• 33:16
  SPEAKER_03: We weren't experiencing the rock.
• 33:18
  SPEAKER_03: They were experiencing what, how, with their interpretation and how they connected.
• 33:22
  SPEAKER_03: And we experience the world through our experiences, our beliefs, our perspectives, our judgment, our expectations.
• 33:28
  SPEAKER_03: That's how we experience the world.
• 33:30
  SPEAKER_03: So I'm gonna have a different experience than Angie will with something because she's filtering it through who she is, and I'm filtering it through who I am, and I love it, and she hates it, or she loves it, and I hate it.
• 33:41
  SPEAKER_03: And it has nothing to do with the it.
• 33:42
  SPEAKER_03: It has everything to do with her filter system and my filter system.
• 33:46
  SPEAKER_03: Because we experience the world inside.
• 33:48
  SPEAKER_03: We don't experience it outside.
• 33:50
  SPEAKER_09: And and especially you talk about weather and stuff like that, we we ex we filter it through our gill and our body filter it, but then we completely let it affect our being.
• 34:03
  SPEAKER_03: Because we don't like it.
• 34:04
  SPEAKER_10: Because we don't like it, because it's not doesn't suit our preferences.
• 34:07
  SPEAKER_10: And I mean, and the weather is one of that.
• 34:12
  SPEAKER_10: If you ever fucking snow, we'll go move somewhere else.
• 34:16
  SPEAKER_10: There's places that don't have snow.
• 34:18
  SPEAKER_10: I was that person with the heat, like, and I I can't stand when it's like 100% humidity and 100 degrees outside, and I usually let it completely ruin an entire summer.
• 34:28
  SPEAKER_10: I was like, no, I could just go inside and be cold, but not allow that to make me miserable.
• 34:40
  SPEAKER_03: And now she's a summer widow.
• 34:41
  SPEAKER_03: When it's hot else when I go outside, she's inside.
• 34:49
  SPEAKER_10: He smells hot.
• 34:52
  SPEAKER_10: Smells like you don't just he smells like a cat.
• 34:56
  SPEAKER_10: It's just something, gate skin, but he so she gets like hot dogs.
• 35:07
  SPEAKER_10: Like those things would just completely ruin my mood or ruin how my experience, like how I allowed myself to enjoy the present moment.
• 35:16
  SPEAKER_10: And now uh if it's too bummed outside, if chip the bugs outside, I'm sitting inside with my animals, and he's sitting outside, and then we reconvene in some point.
• 35:26
  SPEAKER_10: But like I excel the how it's bro.
• 35:30
  unknown: Yep.
• 35:31
  SPEAKER_02: I saw a thing that said that if you ever want to understand why some of these bad reviews just go to the Egypt page and look at the you know, for all the pyramids, and you'll see awful experience, very sandy here.
• 35:44
  SPEAKER_02: One star.
• 35:45
  SPEAKER_02: They were nearly as big as I thought.
• 35:56
  SPEAKER_01: No, no, no, the pair of like literally the Egyptian year on like one star.
• 36:03
  SPEAKER_07: Unbelievable.
• 36:08
  SPEAKER_03: It's a real there there is no, and this is a little woo and esoteric, there is no one real, you know, or one reality.
• 36:16
  SPEAKER_03: Everybody is interpreting everything differently.
• 36:20
  SPEAKER_03: So there's a there's a mean that has a number six or a number nine, whatever you want, the the the right, or depending on what side.
• 36:29
  SPEAKER_03: There's one one person over here pointing saying it's a six, and there's one person over here pointing and saying it's a nine, and they're also saying you're wrong.
• 36:37
  SPEAKER_03: But they're looking at things there from their perspective, and they're both telling each other they're wrong because there's no one reality.
• 36:43
  SPEAKER_03: We're all looking at things differently, but also through our beliefs and our perspectives and our experiences and and our preferences and all that stuff.
• 36:50
  SPEAKER_03: And that's what we're using to decode the world, and we're experiencing all that in here, not out there.
• 36:56
  SPEAKER_03: Has nothing to do with that.
• 36:56
  SPEAKER_03: And they were both right, and they were both right.
• 37:00
  SPEAKER_03: Yeah, they were both those guys looking at the rock, they were both right.
• 37:04
  SPEAKER_03: It was the same rock, it had nothing to do with the rock, but they were both right.
• 37:08
  SPEAKER_03: And they fight you to the death to preserve their perspective that no, I'm right.
• 37:12
  SPEAKER_03: Look at this thing, it's ugly.
• 37:14
  SPEAKER_03: Well, look at it, it's got some color here, it's beautiful.
• 37:16
  SPEAKER_03: They'll fight to the death to preserve their freaking beliefs because they they hold those sacred, right?
• 37:22
  SPEAKER_03: Or their perspectives.
• 37:23
  SPEAKER_05: The way they hold their perspectives is different.
• 37:25
  SPEAKER_05: But there is, there could be a true depending on how the creator made that sex or not.
• 37:32
  SPEAKER_05: If the creator had an intention of that thing as sex, you might see it as a nine, but the creator still made it as a six, correct?
• 37:42
  SPEAKER_05: So perceptions, perceptions are what you're describing, not necessarily true.
• 37:46
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe the creator wanted to make something that could be multifaceted.
• 37:49
  SPEAKER_01: Right.
• 37:50
  SPEAKER_01: It's the intention don't right, yeah.
• 37:52
  SPEAKER_01: It's don't check in on what I'm like, maybe a math equation.
• 37:55
  SPEAKER_01: That would make sense.
• 37:56
  SPEAKER_01: The intent was to be a six, and if it wasn't that you all leave or what otherwise.
• 38:01
  SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
• 38:02
  SPEAKER_03: Or maybe somebody just got lazy creating numbers and flipped it around.
• 38:05
  SPEAKER_03: I'm tired of creating more numbers.
• 38:07
  SPEAKER_01: I love it.
• 38:08
  SPEAKER_01: Just flipped it.
• 38:12
  SPEAKER_01: All right.
• 38:13
  SPEAKER_05: So it tell me to stay in the whole experience thing in your body.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_05: Yeah.
• 38:17
  SPEAKER_05: Because there's there is a tree, but the perceptions that we're having are what's causing us to have the feelings of acting a certain way.
• 38:27
  SPEAKER_03: Yes.
• 38:28
  SPEAKER_03: All of it.
• 38:31
  SPEAKER_08: Maybe just a ruler laying on the ground.
• 38:34
  SPEAKER_08: That's just how we do it, sir.
• 38:36
  SPEAKER_08: Act like in your car if you're driving, right?
• 38:38
  SPEAKER_08: You didn't have any contact, touch, donate the person anything, but all these fury should come up with them about somebody outside of your car that you have no contact or touch or may not even make the eye contact for anything, but all that's your own experience, your own will, your thoughts, your own direction.
• 38:58
  SPEAKER_08: And that's what we're upsetting and diving into and drilling at our haps and what we get to choose to change.
• 39:08
  SPEAKER_03: You just reminded me of a story, real quick.
• 39:10
  SPEAKER_03: We're gonna go into some vision work here soon.
• 39:13
  SPEAKER_03: Trying to get to it.
• 39:14
  SPEAKER_03: Um, we were in Sedona, Arizona.
• 39:16
  SPEAKER_03: It was my 50th birthday, and me and Angie asked me where I wanted to go.
• 39:21
  SPEAKER_03: I said Sedona, but I wanted to take some friends.
• 39:23
  SPEAKER_03: So me, Angie, Brian, our friend Jordan, and Keith all went out there.
• 39:28
  SPEAKER_03: And Angie got us an Airbnb, and Brian's RS7 was out there.
• 39:32
  SPEAKER_03: And we're driving.
• 39:33
  SPEAKER_03: Angie is a huge tool fan.
• 39:35
  SPEAKER_03: You know the band Tool?
• 39:36
  SPEAKER_03: She's a huge tool fan.
• 39:38
  SPEAKER_03: So we're going up to Jerome, Arizona, to go and see Maynard's vineyard and his shop, his record shop.
• 39:44
  SPEAKER_03: And we're on this, we're on this straightaway.
• 39:47
  SPEAKER_03: And Brian pulls over and says, Well, this is actually when we were coming home, wasn't it?
• 39:52
  SPEAKER_03: But either way, on there.
• 39:55
  SPEAKER_03: Oh, the that's right.
• 39:56
  SPEAKER_03: But anyway, pulls over, they switch, switch seats, right?
• 40:00
  SPEAKER_03: Angie and Brian.
• 40:01
  SPEAKER_03: And Angie gets in and he and and Brian's like, hit it.
• 40:05
  unknown: Cool.
• 40:06
  SPEAKER_10: Okay, really.
• 40:07
  SPEAKER_10: And this play does the pattern to you the story.
• 40:09
  SPEAKER_10: But what was really cool is Brian said, So you give pool for gonna be on the radio.
• 40:14
  SPEAKER_03: Let me let's get to that after this.
• 40:17
  SPEAKER_03: Brian just looks at her while he's in the passenger, so he's like, nail it.
• 40:21
  SPEAKER_03: And she did.
• 40:22
  SPEAKER_03: Boom! 150 miles an hour.
• 40:24
  SPEAKER_03: It was like we went to like 150 in like three or four seconds.
• 40:27
  SPEAKER_03: It felt like a fucking rocking ship.
• 40:29
  SPEAKER_03: And she she hit it and she wasn't letting no, she kept going.
• 40:32
  SPEAKER_03: Doom, she was gone.
• 40:34
  SPEAKER_03: We're all having a good time.
• 40:35
  SPEAKER_03: I'm enjoying the hell out of it.
• 40:37
  SPEAKER_03: I'm in I'm riding bitch.
• 40:38
  SPEAKER_03: I'm in the middle, and Keith is over here, and Jordan's here.
• 40:41
  SPEAKER_03: I'm riding bitch.
• 40:42
  SPEAKER_03: I'm enjoying the hell out of that.
• 40:44
  SPEAKER_03: I'm watching Angie have the time of her life.
• 40:46
  SPEAKER_03: She's freaking floored, and she's going straight away and she's just letting her rip.
• 40:50
  SPEAKER_03: I look over, and Jordan's got a hold of the handrail, and Jordan is shitting his pants.
• 40:59
  SPEAKER_04: He is he is holding on for near life, and it looks like he is about to die.
• 41:06
  SPEAKER_03: Same speed, same experience, two complete or same, same thing, two different, completely different experiences about what that meant.
• 41:16
  SPEAKER_03: Two completely different interpretations.
• 41:18
  SPEAKER_03: And and when when Angie was done, Brian's like, You want to do it again?
• 41:23
  SPEAKER_03: And then Keith said, No, I do.
• 41:24
  SPEAKER_03: And Keith got up there and hit it.
• 41:26
  SPEAKER_03: Jordan's like, oh shit.
• 41:30
  SPEAKER_03: But they're they're interpreting it through their experiences and through their through their everything, through their belief system, their perspectives, their their all of it, their preferences.
• 41:39
  SPEAKER_03: But it's the same 150 miles an hour or whatever.
• 41:43
  SPEAKER_03: Makes sense.
• 41:44
  SPEAKER_03: Now you want to tell the story?
• 41:45
  SPEAKER_10: No, that was the but it was just funny.
• 41:47
  SPEAKER_10: It was it just felt like one of those moments to me where it was just one of those manifested moments going out there and going to Jerome and Zeno Bryan saying, uh, it told us anything on the radio white station.
• 42:00
  SPEAKER_10: I said, Turbo and serious XM.
• 42:03
  SPEAKER_10: I said turbo.
• 42:03
  SPEAKER_10: And he turned turbo on, I'll be damned from his phone to come on right away.
• 42:08
  SPEAKER_10: What it was like the song came on, and that's when I was like, and it was like and things are friggin' rocking there.
• 42:16
  SPEAKER_10: It was I yeah, and that's why I draw energy because if I have masked top of the thing on bell.
• 42:23
  SPEAKER_03: So go down to we're gonna we're gonna do some exercises, but I want you to the the underlying premise of this, just like just like these things, right?
• 42:36
  SPEAKER_03: These constructs, the underlying understanding of this concept is we're always experiencing life and reality in our body.
• 42:44
  SPEAKER_03: We don't experience what really is.
• 42:47
  SPEAKER_03: We're interpreting it, okay?
• 42:49
  SPEAKER_03: So when we start to do the work, what we're gonna do is rewire how we experience ourselves.
• 42:59
  SPEAKER_03: That's the goal.
• 43:00
  SPEAKER_03: That's being on the receiving end of life.
• 43:03
  SPEAKER_03: Rewiring how we experience ourselves.
• 43:06
  SPEAKER_03: So that'll be later.
• 43:07
  SPEAKER_03: For now, what I want you guys to do is I can make this really complicated or really simple, and I'm gonna keep it simple for the sake of time.
• 43:16
  SPEAKER_03: I want you to pretend for a second that you have nothing in life, it's all gone and you're rebuilding.
• 43:28
  SPEAKER_03: Your health, your relationships, your wealth, the impact businesses, wipe all the slate clean.
• 43:38
  SPEAKER_03: When Angie and I, the the the vision that Angie and I created was so far different than what we had ever lived, it was almost it was almost like, Ken, is this even possible?
• 43:55
  SPEAKER_03: And that's what we want to get to.
• 43:58
  SPEAKER_03: Is that if if you had to do all over again, what would you do different?
• 44:03
  SPEAKER_03: And Joe, I know where I what you just said the other day, right?
• 44:06
  SPEAKER_03: You're in the zone and you freaking love what you do.
• 44:08
  SPEAKER_03: There's another guy here, Josh Wilson, that was in this room.
• 44:12
  SPEAKER_03: And he said, Mike, is it okay for me to like be in the zone right now?
• 44:15
  SPEAKER_03: I was like, Yeah, that's what we're all after.
• 44:19
  SPEAKER_03: So if you're in the zone, you're in the zone.
• 44:21
  SPEAKER_03: Like, love it, live it.
• 44:23
  SPEAKER_03: Don't try to change it, adjust it, amend it, whatever.
• 44:27
  SPEAKER_03: Maybe it's bigger, whatever.
• 44:28
  SPEAKER_03: It doesn't matter.
• 44:29
  SPEAKER_03: But this isn't, hey, pretend that you don't want what you want, or don't pretend that you wanted what you have and and and and whatever.
• 44:36
  SPEAKER_03: But if you feel like you're settling in life in some way, if you still feel like you're living through insecurity, inadequacy, insignificance, if if you feel like the overall makeup of your life isn't working for you, then let's start getting clear about what it would look like to wake up, what your life would look like to wake up to excited every day, on fire for your life, not trying to avoid those internal conflicts, but to feel the inspiration of your life.com promote gold,