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Stop Holding Back - Hypnosis to Increase Self-Worth, Wealth and Confidence · The Hypnotist

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  Welcome to The Hypnotist, the show that gives you inside
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  access to cutting edge hypnosis with real clients facing
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  genuine. Issues.
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  Brought to you by The Hypnotherapist, Demanded by
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  celebrities, CEOs and even royalty, Adam Cox.
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  These recordings took place live from Adam Smith in London's
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  world famous Harley Street. So get yourself comfortable and
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  enjoy today's episode of The Hypnotist.
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  Hi, it's Adam here and you're about to listen to a wealth
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  hypnosis session. All about.
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  Worthiness and. Self sabotage and.
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  Now I was working with a client that was very successful in the
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  world of recruitment and helping people to get high profile jobs
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  and promotions, working with a lot of CEOs.
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  But as a child and as a teenager and as a young adult experienced
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  a lot of resentment and jealousy from their parents.
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  And in the UK there's this thing called the tall poppy syndrome,
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  where if someone starts getting a bit too successful.
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  There's almost this. Unconscious desire to chop them
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  back down to size and a popular phrase will be who do.
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  You think you are, do you think? You're better than me.
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  Things like that. Which basically.
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  Say that it's OK to be. Successful, just not too
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  successful. And it's a very unpleasant.
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  Part of the. Cultural DNA in the UK.
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  But because. Of that, there are a lot of
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  people that hold themselves back and by holding themselves back
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  that might be financially they don't quite make the money they
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  could or strive to the level of success in their career that is
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  possible unless something happens and unless that thing is
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  that. Those feelings of being.
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  Disconnected either is given low priority and they just don't
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  care, or that rather than being perceived to be punished by
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  being successful, they actually have the opposite belief, which
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  is that they're being rewarded for being successful.
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  And any of those things that are a bit snarky or a bit resentful
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  are just evident that they are moving in the right direction.
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  So if you can resonate with this idea of holding back that you're
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  not tapping into what you're capable of financially or income
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  wise, I think you'll get some value from this.
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  Now part of this was linked to my course Hypnotic Wealth.
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  I've created a course which delves into all of the different
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  money blocks that get in the way of people being financially
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  successful. So there's a couple of.
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  Options right now. Other than just listening to
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  this? Session if.
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  You want to learn more about the course, have a look in the
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  description. And if you want to do 1 to one
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  sessions with me, specifically on areas of money or wealth or
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  financial blocks, book a free consultation call and we'll have
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  a chat on Zoom. For now, though, I want you to
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  find a quiet, comfortable place where you're not going to.
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  Be distracted or disturbed, relax and enjoy the session.
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  Take a deep breath in, and as you breathe in, imagine
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  breathing in pure worthiness. And as you exhale, give
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  permission to release any echoes of the past, particularly from
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  childhood. Anything related to being held
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  back, not being allowed to move forward, breathing in that
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  worthiness and exhaling any limitations, any restrictions.
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  And if worthiness had a colour, what colour would it have?
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  A solid colour, or perhaps a cocktail of colours.
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  Imagine breathing in whatever colour or colours of worthiness.
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  Imagine it going through your nose, into your lungs, and then
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  to every cell in your body. I want you to get a feeling that
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  as you breathe in that worthiness, imagine yourself
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  worth as a power bank and just imagine it has a percentage
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  telling you what your current self worth is.
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  But as you breathe in that worthiness and exhale echoes and
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  limitations, I want you to imagine that power Bank of
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  worthiness is slowly charging up each breath perhaps one extra
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  percent. That's it.
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  And therefore, the deeper you breathe, the more relaxed and
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  worthy you feel. And the longer you exhale, the
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  more limitations you're releasing, each breath taking
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  you deeper and deeper. Relaxed.
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  If you need to position your body to make yourself more
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  comfortable, do that now. And with your eyes closed,
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  notice how much easier it becomes to really focus on the
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  sound of my voice. Breathing in that worthiness,
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  exhaling out the limitations. And as you breathe, allow the
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  body to begin unwinding. Sometimes people can feel like a
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  coiled spring. All that tension, all that
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  pressure, most of it from the past.
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  But if every outward breath is release, perhaps you can notice
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  your shoulders relaxing, jaw softening, even the muscles
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  around the eyes releasing. Because when you breathe slowly,
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  particularly on the outward breath, it sends a signal to the
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  nervous system, a signal of safety.
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  And when the body feels safe, the mind becomes open to new
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  ideas, new perspective, new ways of thinking.
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  The deeper you breathe, the more relaxed you feel.
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  The more relaxed you feel, the deeper you breathe, and as your
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  body relaxes, your imagination awakens.
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  And as your mind becomes calm and receptive, you can start to
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  observe your own beliefs. And maybe there's a belief
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  buried deep from long ago, an idea that success leads to
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  punishment. In many parts of the world,
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  there's a tall poppy syndrome. People start moving forward.
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  Others around them try and knock them down to size with phrases
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  like who do you think you are? You think you're better than us.
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  I want you to connect perhaps with a memory of when you felt
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  that way, knowing that it's rational for a belief to be
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  formed if something you valued, like love, affection, approval
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  was withheld and in some cases given the opposite, mockery,
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  shame, disapproval. At a time when you did something
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  well, when you achieve something meaningful or stood out in some
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  way. And if things were as they
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  should have been, you should have received encouragement,
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  acknowledgement, support and approval.
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  But maybe back then you received something different.
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  Maybe it was criticism, mockery, withdrawal of warmth or
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  discomfort from others. And a young mind can easily form
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  a rule. A rule that says if I succeed,
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  if I start doing too well, something bad might happen.
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  But you are not your past, and you can see that for what it
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  really was, projection. Perhaps they were projecting
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  their own insecurities, their own internal resentments and
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  disappointments onto you, and a quick thought experiment can
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  easily verify that. If they had been as successful
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  as they could have been, if they were thriving, if they had
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  abundance, would they have given you the same reaction?
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  You already know the answer. You were not being punished.
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  You were simply a scapegoat for their own dissatisfaction.
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  You now know with absolute certainty those reactions were
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  never punishment. They were insecurity projected
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  onto you. Other people responding to their
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  own limitations, their own fears, their own comparison.
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  And I want you to go back to those moments again, moments
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  when someone reacts with jealousy or resentment, still is
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  an observer. But I want you to interpret that
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  signal differently now. Not as punishment, but as
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  evidence. Irrefutable evidence that you
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  are moving forward, Evidence that you are capable, that you
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  are growing. Evidence that you are stepping
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  into something powerful. People rarely react strongly to
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  someone who is staying small or achieving less than they are.
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  Insecure people react when someone is rising, when they're
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  living their dreams, their mission, their purpose.
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  So from this moment forward, those reactions become
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  confirmation. Confirmation that you are moving
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  in exactly the right direction and your mind can also recognize
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  something logical. That real punishment is very
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  different. Real punishment is physical
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  harm. Real punishment is imprisonment.
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  Real punishment is isolation. And you being successful is none
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  of those things. And the more you think about it,
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  the truer it becomes, until it becomes impossible to hold that
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  old belief that success leads to punishment.
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  When you define punishment accurately, and when you look at
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  what actually happened in the past, you weren't punished.
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  You just triggered insecurity in others because you know with
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  certainty that success leads to freedom.
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  Freedom of choice, freedom of time, freedom of opportunity.
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  Success is rewarded with financial reward, professional
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  respect, expanded possibilities. And I wonder if that belief is
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  already dissolving that old absurd belief that success is
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  punishment. In fact, try.
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  Try to believe that. And the harder you try, the more
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  elusive that old belief becomes, because the mind now understands
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  something simple and true. Success is a stepping stone to
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  abundance, stepping stone to reward.
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  Now imagine your beliefs about money as if they were written on
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  an old school blackboard. Perhaps some old messages are
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  still there. Messages like I shouldn't charge
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  too much. People won't pay that.
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  I shouldn't ask for what I'm worth.
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  And I want you to remember an old board rubber.
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  You know, the ones to wipe the board clean and just stare.
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  Stare at those words that aren't true anymore and just wipe that
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  board clean. Replacing those ideas with new
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  principles. Principles based on truth.
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  Value deserves compensation. Expertise deserves recognition,
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  transformation deserves reward. And when someone benefits from
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  your work, you deserve to be rewarded.
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  And it becomes completely natural for that value to be
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  reflected financially. And I wonder if you could
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  imagine a future version, not too far in the future, just a
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  few months. A version of you already living
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  without those old limitations. A version of you that trusts
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  their own value. A version of you who speaks
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  clearly about the impact you create.
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  A version of you but sets their prices with calm confidence, not
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  because they are forcing anything, but because you know
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  the value you provide. And I want you to notice how
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  that version of you responds. Perhaps when presenting a price
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  or an offer, when responding to an e-mail or a message about
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  costs, I want you to see a version of you that is relaxed.
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  Certain self. Respecting that version of you
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  does not hold back. That version of you allows self
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  to test what you are capable of. You allow yourself to play at
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  the next level up, working with ever more influential clients,
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  negotiating meaningful outcomes, creating financial abundance for
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  them and you. Because a martyr is someone that
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  helps others at the expense of themself.
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  You're no martyr. As your clients benefit, you
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  benefit. And the more you benefit others,
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  the more credibility you have, the more people seek you out,
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  and the more comfortable you feel being completely visible.
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  Other people don't like it. It's their issue, not yours, and
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  I want you to allow that future version of you to give the
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  present version of you permission.
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  Permission to stop holding back. Permission to charge
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  appropriately. Permission to close
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  opportunities before the window closes itself.
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  Permission to succeed without guilt or shame.
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  And if you're willing to take that permission from yourself to
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  yourself because no one else will give it to you, let me
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  know. By nodding your head, That's it.
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  When you succeed, you are not taking anything from anyone.
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  You are creating value. Some people believe the
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  financial success is a reflection of how much value you
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  create for the world, which means the more financially
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  successful you are, the more evidence that you have that
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  you're doing something meaningful, important and
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  valuable, and abundance flows naturally from that.
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  And then step into that future identity now.
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  Someone who is. Financially worthy.
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  Someone with recognition of their own expertise.
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  Someone who just expects abundance as a natural outcome
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  of contribution. And if that old belief tries to
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  appear like a bad smell or an old echo, your mind simply
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  smiles because you now know the truth.
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  Success is not punishment, and it never was.
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  It's reward, it's freedom, it's abundance, and it's these ideas
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  and new beliefs settle and take root deep into your mind.
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  You may already notice a shift, a quiet sense of confidence, a
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  sense of expansion, a willingness to step forward.
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  And so from now on, each opportunity become become
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  something you can evaluate and seek out calmly.
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  And each success becomes evidence of your worthiness, not
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  a reason to step back from it. Allow all of these new thoughts,
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  ideas and feelings to integrate, assimilate and resonate as it's
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  time to return. Take a deep breath in through
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  your nose and out through your nose.
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  Just wiggle your fingers and wiggle your toes as you connect
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  and calibrate into the here and the now as I now count from 1:00
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  to 10:00 to awaken you. Starting to count 123 waking up
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  456 more alert 7-8. Open your eyes.
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  Open your eyes 910 Wide awake, Wide awake.
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  Wide awake. Thank you so much for joining me
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