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Getting Feisty and Honest with Carson Higgins (Farmer Wants a Wife) · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody, It's Bob Getty here.
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  Speaker 3: We are back on a little bit famous, a subsidy
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  Speaker 3: of course, of the almost famous podcast brought to you
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  Speaker 3: by A Heart Radio, I Heart Podcast and Sugarman Media.
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  Speaker 3: Let's talk with my co host who's been through every
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  Speaker 3: step of the way with me on this one. We're talking,
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  Speaker 3: of course, a farmer wants a wife, and we're talking,
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  Speaker 3: of course about super producer to the stars. Who was
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  Speaker 3: wrong on this one, Heather Monday?
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  Speaker 1: Who is wrong?
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  Speaker 2: We are?
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  Speaker 1: This is the end of our journey with Farm Months
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  Speaker 1: of Life. Yeah, we've talked to, you know, some of
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  Speaker 1: our couples. We talked to you know, a runner up
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  Speaker 1: here and there, and now we're going to talk to
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  Speaker 1: another one. We're talking to Carson, runner up on Farmer
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  Speaker 1: Sean's Farm. You know, I had some opinions about Carson.
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  Speaker 1: I was good open about my thoughts that I thought
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  Speaker 1: she was kind of in it to win it and
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  Speaker 1: was more into the competition element than she was into Sean.
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  Speaker 1: And even though they had some chemistry for sure, some
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  Speaker 1: physical chemistry. So I'm excited because I don't hold back,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm going to get into that with her. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask her point blank, but excited to talk
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  Speaker 1: to her. So let's bring her in.
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  Speaker 2: Let's do it. I was so excited.
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  Speaker 1: Carson Higgins come on and no relation to Ben Higgins.
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  Speaker 2: Carson Man Higgins, Hi, Carson.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, how are you guys?
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  Speaker 1: Good? Great, exciting to have you on.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you for having me.
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  Speaker 3: Of course, Carson, I will say this, I feel like you.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I was flashback. I just got to go
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  Speaker 3: right to this point. It was a flashback for me
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  Speaker 3: back when I was a bachelor and I broke up
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  Speaker 3: with a woman named Kelly Kaharski Kelly Joe Higgins. Actually,
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  Speaker 3: oh my god, you might be related. Her name is Kelly,
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  Speaker 3: so many Higgs.
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  Speaker 2: Your married name is Kelly.
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  Speaker 3: Joe was much like you, very fiery, and when I
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  Speaker 3: was like, I'm sorry, you know, you're amazing, and but
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  Speaker 3: she literally and I watched you do it, literally pulled
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  Speaker 3: her hands down, were holding hands.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, I remember the moment. So you took me.
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  Speaker 3: There on this episode of the finale episode, I was like,
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  Speaker 3: oh boy, here we go.
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  Speaker 4: Flashbacks.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, sure was it, sure was. So how are you feeling?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure with some perspective and some time,
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  Speaker 3: you know, a lot has probably changed for you.
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  Speaker 5: I feel great. I mean, it's been seven months since
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  Speaker 5: that ending was filmed. I think it was seven months.
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  Speaker 5: I still kind of feel the same.
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  Speaker 4: Way I was not. I went into it.
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  Speaker 5: With a good mindset, so I really wasn't shocked, and
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  Speaker 5: I wanted Sean to do what was best for him,
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  Speaker 5: and I think that he really did because in the
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  Speaker 5: long run, him and Emily are a great match.
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  Speaker 4: I think they're a better match than me and Sean
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  Speaker 4: would be.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm just happy that he did what was best
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  Speaker 5: for him, because I mean, if he told me, probably
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  Speaker 5: wouldn't even be together because Emily was the better match.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, wait, we need to deep dive a little
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  Speaker 1: bit on that. So just to rewind a little, Sean
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  Speaker 1: is younger than you by a handful of years. Had
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  Speaker 1: you ever dated somebody younger than you?
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  Speaker 5: So right before the show, I had gone on dates
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  Speaker 5: with one person that was younger than me, and I
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  Speaker 5: think after all this, I've decided I'm just not doing younger.
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  Speaker 5: I think they're well well, Sean was great at communication,
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  Speaker 5: but what I've noticed with anyone younger is there is
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  Speaker 5: I over communicate, I think, and the younger they are.
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  Speaker 4: The less they communicate their feelings. And I think that's
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  Speaker 4: something you grow out of. I think I grew out
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  Speaker 4: of that, but I can't do that anymore. I think
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  Speaker 4: I'm I just turned twenty six.
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  Speaker 5: I'm out of that phase where we just don't communicate,
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  Speaker 5: and it's just like I'm gonna be Sidne.
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  Speaker 4: And that tells you how I feel. I can't do that.
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  Speaker 1: I hate to break it to you, Carson, and I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to sound jaded when I say this, but
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  Speaker 1: even when they're older, emotional intelligence and communication can still
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  Speaker 1: be difficult for men.
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  Speaker 4: So oh, I believe that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, ladies, Ladies present company excluded.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, the company excluded of it.
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  Speaker 2: Amazingly in depth communicator.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, it depends on the person, I think.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, definitely for sure. You really, I mean you
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  Speaker 3: came out of this show and honestly, it was like
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  Speaker 3: out of nowhere. You went from sort of someone who
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  Speaker 3: you know. Admittedly, I mean you said it yourself, You're like,
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  Speaker 3: you know, if I go home, I go home if
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  Speaker 3: I don't, you know, it was like you really I
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  Speaker 3: think was I don't think that was gamesmanship? I think
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  Speaker 3: that was truly how you felt, and it was like
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  Speaker 3: one of those things where in that But but you
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  Speaker 3: probably and obviously, and I said this a lot. Have
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  Speaker 3: you listen, if you've listened to our podcast, you know
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  Speaker 3: I've said this a bunch and we both said this,
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  Speaker 3: but not a single woman on the show was wanting
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  Speaker 3: for a date, right, And it's so you're all gorgeous,
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  Speaker 3: you all, I'm sure you know have your pick of
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  Speaker 3: guys and saying with the farmer guys. But I thought
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  Speaker 3: it was really interesting because you know, the minute you
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  Speaker 3: said that, it was like all of a sudden, he
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  Speaker 3: was like.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, what, no, right?
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  Speaker 5: And I think he said it challenged him, so I
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  Speaker 5: think that's kind of how he saw it.
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  Speaker 4: It was like, oh, this could be fun, and it was.
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  Speaker 5: But obviously I wasn't like that the whole time because
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  Speaker 5: I did grow a connection with him. But like you said,
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  Speaker 5: I was just being honest and either people don't like
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  Speaker 5: that or not. But I'm like, I just have to
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  Speaker 5: go in and say the truth because if I were
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  Speaker 5: sit there and be like, oh, yeah, I have a
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  Speaker 5: connection with you, I met you last week, but like
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  Speaker 5: I have an attachment, well I did, by the way
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  Speaker 5: I said attachment. A lot of people thought I said connection,
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  Speaker 5: and to me, connection and attachment are two different things.
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  Speaker 4: So an attachment to me is like I'm attached to
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  Speaker 4: my animals. I love my animals. I see them every day.
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  Speaker 5: I'm so used to them. I do not want to
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  Speaker 5: be away from them. But I had no show in
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  Speaker 5: a week. I'm not attached to the guy, So I said,
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  Speaker 5: I wasn't attachment. If I would have sat there and
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  Speaker 5: like I'm very attached to that would have been a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I appreciate that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that is honest. I did express when I was
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  Speaker 1: watching the season that because it was more of a
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  Speaker 1: slow burn and you kind of came out of nowhere
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  Speaker 1: towards the end, I thought with in terms of the
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  Speaker 1: physical connection, and then you kind of expressing how you
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  Speaker 1: were feeling about him. It did give me pause to
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  Speaker 1: wonder if you were really more so in it to
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  Speaker 1: win it, and the competitive side of you kind of
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  Speaker 1: kicked in towards the end. So looking back now in hindsight,
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  Speaker 1: tell me, were you in it to win it? Or
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  Speaker 1: did you really want Sean?
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  Speaker 2: For me?
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  Speaker 4: It was the complete opposite.
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  Speaker 5: It was I had so much love for the girls,
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  Speaker 5: there and it was so hard for me when either of.
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  Speaker 4: Them, anybody would get bothered off.
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  Speaker 5: I thought for sure I was leaving the night that
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  Speaker 5: Olivia left when it was top three. So to me,
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  Speaker 5: I was just there to find a genuine connection. I
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  Speaker 5: did not care like and I didn't like. Some people
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  Speaker 5: called it winning, and none of us girls did. But
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  Speaker 5: it's like, are you winning or are you just like
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  Speaker 5: ending up with him in the end. But I did
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  Speaker 5: not care about winning. I didn't even I liked experiencing it.
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  Speaker 5: But I said this while we were filming and everything.
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  Speaker 5: I hated that it was going to be on TV.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, I would love to do all of
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  Speaker 5: this without cameras.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you would love to share a guy with nine women,
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  Speaker 1: but not be on camera doing it weirdly.
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  Speaker 4: Weirdly if it was the same group of girls, yes.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it was so much fun.
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  Speaker 3: I do love that the girls got along so well,
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  Speaker 3: and you could tell that the guys also got along
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  Speaker 3: really well.
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  Speaker 2: I thought that was some of.
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  Speaker 1: The girls got along on her farm, not all of them.
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  Speaker 2: That's not true of them, that is true, But.
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  Speaker 1: For the most part, it looked like a big kumbaya
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  Speaker 1: between all of you. Guys, we do have to talk
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  Speaker 1: about the drama on the farm because it was taking
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  Speaker 1: over a couple of episodes for sure. You know, the
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  Speaker 1: rumor was that Emily expressed off camera to some people
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  Speaker 1: that she that Sean told her she was going to
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  Speaker 1: be the final pick, and then it kind of got
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  Speaker 1: tangled again and later was said that Sean said this,
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  Speaker 1: not not Emily, like Emily you know, maybe alluded to it.
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  Speaker 1: So tell us what happened on the.
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  Speaker 3: Farm or then also I felt like it was it
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  Speaker 3: was kind of portrayed that Rihanna.
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  Speaker 2: I felt watching it that Rihanna.
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  Speaker 3: Was stirring up the pot, right, and she was saying this,
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  Speaker 3: and that's what you and I talked about, Heather was.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, now, Rihanna was just trying to make
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  Speaker 3: you know, a the mass here. I'm like, that's what
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  Speaker 3: she's doing. Because the way it kind of spread, it
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  Speaker 3: was like the worst game of telephone I've ever seen
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  Speaker 3: in my life, where it's like Rihanna is the one
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  Speaker 3: who says it, but then it said then everyone's saying, well,
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  Speaker 3: Emily said it, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I felt like it wasn't yeah, So what was going on?
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  Speaker 1: So tell us what happened?
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  Speaker 5: Well, so I think this is I think because I
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  Speaker 5: never heard anything come from anybody's mouth that the rumor
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  Speaker 5: was that Sean told Emily you're my final pick, and
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  Speaker 5: then Emily had communicated that to Rihanna, and then Rihanna
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  Speaker 5: had communicated that to Macy. So when Macy's sending herself home,
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  Speaker 5: I'm like a wreck because I was like, I was
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  Speaker 5: so confused because I think that this all went on
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  Speaker 5: during a time that I was at, like in a
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  Speaker 5: morning time when I was asleep, So I woke up.
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  Speaker 5: Every people are mad, and I'm like, what is going on?
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  Speaker 5: Macy sitting herself home? I was blindsided. I still don't
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  Speaker 5: know about any of that, but I do know that
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  Speaker 5: the scene where we're all at the fire and Rihanna
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  Speaker 5: comes and tells us that that was not a conversation
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  Speaker 5: like that was not It was a lot of things
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  Speaker 5: clipped and edited where that's not what she was saying to.
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  Speaker 2: Us, a franken edit.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, Rihanna, I was upset that she got edited a
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  Speaker 5: little bit to look crazy or something like that. I
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  Speaker 5: saw a lot of homes saying that she's not. She
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  Speaker 5: truly was a genuine person. She came there for the
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  Speaker 5: right reasons. I mean, his family obviously saw something in her,
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  Speaker 5: and I think that it was unfair that right when
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  Speaker 5: she got there, Sean had made that decision I'm not
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  Speaker 5: going to take her to the farm, and then he
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  Speaker 5: changed his mind.
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  Speaker 4: I had a soft spot for her because that had
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  Speaker 4: to be such a.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know how to phrase it, but that position
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  Speaker 5: we put, and that would give myself that would not
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  Speaker 5: feel good to.
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  Speaker 4: Hear right now, the girl's telling you, like, oh, he
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  Speaker 4: wasn't even going to pick you anyway.
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  Speaker 1: That was kind of harsh that the other girls said
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  Speaker 1: that to her. You'd think that they would just have
• 10:28
  Speaker 1: their grievance with him, right.
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  Speaker 5: This is what I say in real life, And sorry,
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  Speaker 5: Bob always blamed the guy. The girls always in the right.
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  Speaker 5: The girl's always in the right, and none of that
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  Speaker 5: was her fault. She had just showed up, had a
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  Speaker 5: conversation with her, and I felt so bad for her
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  Speaker 5: because that was kind of when all that drama broke
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  Speaker 5: and she was in the most fragile state because it
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  Speaker 5: was like, what's going We had no idea what was
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  Speaker 5: going on until he cleared the air.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually I actually agree with you.
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  Speaker 3: I think you know, in that moment, the only person
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  Speaker 3: to blame was Sean, because first of all, he's like
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  Speaker 3: walking around saying like it's fat, right, And then it
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  Speaker 3: made him look kind of wishy washy, you know, because
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  Speaker 3: then all of a sudden he's like, actually, I think
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  Speaker 3: I want you to come back.
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  Speaker 2: I remember watching that episode. I think I might have
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, what the hell's going on here? I'm losing
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  Speaker 2: my mind, you know.
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  Speaker 3: But I think I think right there though, I think
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  Speaker 3: that is an example of someone's emotional maturity, right, Like
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  Speaker 3: he he felt like he had to say this big
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  Speaker 3: statement to make you all know how important you were.
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  Speaker 2: But in fact, what he really did was created a
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  Speaker 2: show for himself, right.
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  Speaker 3: Because now he's got to go back and unwind everything
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  Speaker 3: he said.
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  Speaker 2: He looks like he can't tell the truth.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 2: It was like a bunch of thinges.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: And I think that night where that happened is when
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  Speaker 5: a lot of us kind of pulled back a little
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  Speaker 5: bit and our guards were up, I mean, especially Macie,
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  Speaker 5: as you could see. And I think that happens in
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  Speaker 5: real life with men and me in general, if they
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  Speaker 5: do one little thing and I'm like, are you going
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  Speaker 5: to be like that in a marriage, like is a
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  Speaker 5: lie You're going to change your mind.
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  Speaker 4: Like that in a marriage.
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  Speaker 5: It did give me a little bit of hesitation, but
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  Speaker 5: it also gives Sean a lot of grace because I
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  Speaker 5: kept thinking, okay, put myself in his shoes?
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  Speaker 4: Am I doing that? Or worse?
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  Speaker 5: Like, I don't know what I would be saying trying
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  Speaker 5: to please five ladies. He was probably like his mind
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  Speaker 5: was poispinning.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, we said he was in a kid in a
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  Speaker 1: candy store. There's got to be something happening to a
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  Speaker 1: man when all of a sudden he's plopped into a
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  Speaker 1: universe where he has zero competition with other men and
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  Speaker 1: all eyes are on him for the first time probably
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  Speaker 1: in his life. That's that's a man's dream, right there.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, hold on though, as someone who had thirty
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  Speaker 3: women on my season, yeah, it's a bit of a
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  Speaker 3: dream and a bit of a nightmare all at the
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  Speaker 3: same time.
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  Speaker 1: Sure, but Bob, you also weren't twenty two when you
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  Speaker 1: did it. That's true, so that's like it literal. I
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  Speaker 1: think at twenty two, that's a man's dream. I'm going
• 12:57
  Speaker 1: to ask you something that we spated on about farmer
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  Speaker 1: Seawan as well. Uh, he was very much a kissing
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  Speaker 1: bandit on this season. He really did lay out the kisses,
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  Speaker 1: which we are totally fine with.
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  Speaker 2: I'm one hundred percent in on that.
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  Speaker 1: We're one hundred percent in on that. We wish there
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  Speaker 1: was a little less hot action and we got to
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: see more lip to lip, but that's just us personally.
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  Speaker 1: We kind of got virgin vibes from Sean. Was that
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  Speaker 1: ever brought up or discussed or thought about it?
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  Speaker 5: It is so funny because before we met him, we're
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  Speaker 5: all in a room and I remember asking Emily. I
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  Speaker 5: was like, do you think I had never met him?
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, do you think? Like just I
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  Speaker 5: just it's so funny because I got that vibe too.
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  Speaker 5: But from in person, I just think that I don't
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  Speaker 5: want to call him a lover boy.
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  Speaker 4: But when he felt something, he acted on it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, And like again, we're in our early twenties, well
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  Speaker 5: he's in his early twenties, and it's kind of like
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  Speaker 5: the self control was hard in those in those scenes
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  Speaker 5: and in those moments, and I think that he really
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  Speaker 5: did have feelings for a few of us.
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  Speaker 4: He was acting on that.
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  Speaker 5: But I will say I think kissing is I think
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  Speaker 5: some people watch shows like this, and if they think
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  Speaker 5: kissing is bad, I don't think they should watch shows
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  Speaker 5: like this.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you a great agreed.
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  Speaker 3: You're not gonna if you're supposed to end this show
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  Speaker 3: with dating or a proposal or whatever, You're for sure
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  Speaker 3: gonna want to know if you have physical and sexual
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  Speaker 3: chemistry with.
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  Speaker 2: That person, so you gotta kiss them, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean.
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  Speaker 3: And and to be fair, you guys are all absolutely
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  Speaker 3: beautiful women, and there's not a guy out there who
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: wouldn't be like, oh my god, she looks so I
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: mean your date, the Tantric yoga date. I was like,
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: I literally almost had to pull my car over.
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: Do you watch that bat Carson and think spicy or
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: cringey now watching it?
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  Speaker 4: I did not watch it. I mean I was I
• 14:48
  Speaker 4: probably would say cringey. I didn't even want.
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  Speaker 5: I was like this because I was a facetiming Olivia
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  Speaker 5: because she's in Italy and so she couldn't watch it,
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  Speaker 5: and I was just fa.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, don't tell me, and I was letting
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  Speaker 4: her watch it. I was not looking. That was so
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: that was tough. That was tough, and we had to
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: do that. I think twice to get more comfortable, you know,
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: so they're like, all right, do this again. I'm like again, Like.
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: It was awesome. I gotta be honest, I thought that
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: was such a great date idea.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: You looked like a pro for somebody, Like if you
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: didn't watch it, we will tell you this. You look
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: like a pro. You were like super comfortable. You were
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: like Okay, yeah, now let's do this move. Now, let's
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: do this move like you seemed, and you kind of
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: seem like this the whole season, which is why I
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: felt that in It to Win It vibes, because you
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: just felt like, yeah, this is me. I'm here, I'm cool,
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: I'm the cool girl. Like I'm laid back, I'm sarcastic.
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: Didn't you feel when we met her family though, Like
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: I was like, this makes perfect sense.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: When we saw your dad, I was like, this is
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: where she gets it.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: I love your dad, you know.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: And he's like, yeah, well he's gonna have something to
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: do with I just was like, oh my god, I
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: love that guy.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: But the way you handle yourself, I just think that's
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: who you are. I think you're just some I.
• 16:01
  Speaker 5: Think going back to the end to Win It thing,
• 16:04
  Speaker 5: I think that depending.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: On who's doing it.
• 16:07
  Speaker 5: From outside perspective, I think my confidence came off as
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: I was just acting with Sean because I wanted to
• 16:15
  Speaker 5: end the whole thing. But in reality, I'm not a
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: surey person. I'm not an awkward person. So I just
• 16:21
  Speaker 5: show up. I'll kiss him, I'll do the yoga, I'll flir,
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: I'll I'll do all the banters. So it looks like,
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: oh my gosh, this girl hasn't know know how this long,
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: how she I like that with him, That's just like,
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: that's just how I show up.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Well, to be fair, I didn't think you were acting.
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: I did think that there was chemistry between you two.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: We couldn't deny that. I thought that. He kept saying
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: you surprised him, which was so funny because it was
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: obvious when he said that that like your personality, your
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: forwardness is not something he'd ever dated before, Like Emily
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: is very reserved and on the quiet side. It seemed like,
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: is that safe to say.
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, That's why I thought they were
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: a great match.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, I don't know, but I almost
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: felt like I was too.
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: I've had exes in the past that I felt like
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: I was too much for them, and like they wanted
• 17:11
  Speaker 5: me to just like quiet down and I never felt
• 17:15
  Speaker 5: that way with Sean and he never made me feel
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: that way. But I did feel like he was more
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: on that quiet reserve side with Emily, so they're a
• 17:23
  Speaker 5: great match.
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: But at the same time, he was allowing me to
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: feel so comfortable, so I was like, I could end
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: up with him and be very happy.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: That's why I was told, well, opposites attract.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: I mean, in those moments too, he's he's got maybe
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: you know, maybe he was more used to dating someone
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: like Emily, and then you're this wild card and he's
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: like it's exciting, you know, He's like, oh my god,
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: I'm doing tan track yoga. I mean, he looked like
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: a fish out of water, but it was like so funny.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: Because he was.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's safe to say from a
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: viewership perspective, he really did have feelings for both of you,
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: and I don't think I don't think he was I mean,
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: obviously we don't know private conversations and things like that,
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: but I don't think he was misleading at all. I
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: think he was sincerely having genuine feelings for both of you.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: And was just trying to figure out what was going
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: to be the best move for him, like you said,
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: And it was one of those things that in the moment,
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: you know, and and I've often said this, how they're
• 18:17
  Speaker 3: stand by me on this one because this is true.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: Like I used to talk to all the new bachelors,
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: right and my speech was always like, hey, guys, FYI,
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: it's not about you, you know, and they always be like,
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: what you know, because they're getting told that. They're like,
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: you know, God's gift or whatever. Trust me, trust me.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: You've got women who are cast on this show who
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: do not lose. Okay, these women are the hottest girls, cabinet,
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: cheerleading team, president of the class, drama club, president, whatever.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: And it becomes us like a social science experiment because
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: all of a sudden, you're like, what the hell you know?
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: Obviously it's me. I mean, I believe me. I went
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: through it.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: When I was on the Bacherette. I was like, clearly,
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: trust that is into me, you know, why wouldn't see me?
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: And then when they made me the bachelor, I was like,
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: wait a minute, this says nothing to do with me.
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: But it was one of those things that you don't
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: realize it till you're yeah yeah.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: And I feel like our season, all of the girls.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: I loved the women, and I think they were all
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: so confident and strong. Because of what I loved about
• 19:12
  Speaker 4: this season was instead of it being a show like
• 19:15
  Speaker 4: The Batchelor and it's like does he like me? Does
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: he like me?
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: We were all asking ourselves do we like him as well?
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: Because I think on a lot of these shows I
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: want to say, I say shows, but it's more of
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: like an experiment. You forget that it is not about like,
• 19:29
  Speaker 5: oh how far can you go? We actually we want
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: to have genuine feelings with this guy. So we kept assessing,
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: like how do we feel? And that's a reason why
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: Macy and Rihanna left because they they looked back and
• 19:41
  Speaker 5: they were like, we don't feel anything with him.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Why a few girls left this season on even on
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: other cars that just weren't feeling it, we were like, whoa,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: there goes everybody. My favorite thing you said this entire
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: season was I think it was on your little s'mores
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: one on one thing and Sean said, you know what
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: I like about you? I liked that you like to
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: go to National parks and you were like, yeah, I
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: do like to do that, but like I also like
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: to do other things, and you really were trying to
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: I think, set the foundation of you don't have to
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: like all the exact same things as your partner. And
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: it felt like Sean was looking for those kinds of things.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: He was looking for somebody that was almost exactly the
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: same as him. And I'm of the same mindset of you.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: You do not need to be I don't want to
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: date me. I want to date somebody that boring. It's boring.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: I said that.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: I think I said it's boring if y'all like the.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Same things exactly.
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: Y'all saw my parents. My parents are complete opposites. My
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: mom I mean, going on the show for that episode,
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: my dad was on cloud nine.
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: He was having so much fun. My mom was going
• 20:52
  Speaker 4: to pass out. She was so nervous.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: That was my family too, and we did same.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: Think represented that for me. So with Sean, we did
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: have a lot in common about our interests and things
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: like that. But I also want to know what what
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: do we clash on.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: Because those things can be fun. It's okay to have differences.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with you one hundred percent.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: That's a good mindset.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah. My wife and I've been together thirteen years and
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: we we scrap all the time. Like you know, it's
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: just constantly.
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: It keeps it a little exciting.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: Not too much, but yeah, exactly a perfect mix. Yeah.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: What did your parents think about watching the breakup happen
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: on camera?
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: My gosh.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: I didn't watch it with them, but I know my
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: mom said.
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: All she said was you did great. I liked everything
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: that you said, so she was supportive of it. I
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: haven't talked to my dad about it, but I mean
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: he supports everything, and I do. There was a lot
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: of people with the Tantric yoga that were like, what
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: did her dad think about this? My dad was like, oh, girl,
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: doesn't it Yeah, my dad is a supporter. My dad
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: is one of my fans. I mean, yeah, I took
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: it too far. He might have been like, Okay, if
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: I would have went off on Sean during the breakup,
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: but who's probably.
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: I think you'd probably be proud of me.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: There's nothing to be embarrassed, and I'm proud of that
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: you did.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Plus, you know, I mean I really loved the.
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: Companionship or whatever it would be called, the camaraderie of
• 22:09
  Speaker 3: the other breakups, but what I thought was so good
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: about yours was you did have some spice to it, right,
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Like you were very sweet about it. You were like
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: it was like the camaraderie part of it was what
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: I really like to see. And I think that that
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: was something that really spoke by about the casting of
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: the show. You know, I've said this a bunch, but
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: it's like all the women that came onto this show, you,
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: I really feel like you guys are probably going to
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: be like best friends for life, you know what I mean.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: It's like I think, and Ali.
• 22:31
  Speaker 5: Beth is dating Emily's brother, so I'm like, I have
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: to go to Ali Beth.
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, did you guys know that?
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: No?
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: Yes, Alibeth.
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: Well, we were on the farm and Emily was kept saying,
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: Ali Beth, my brother would love you, and I was like, Emily,
• 22:44
  Speaker 5: what about me?
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: Like like, this doesn't work out with Sean, what about me?
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: We loved Ali Beth. Ali Beth. Yeah, we were like,
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: this girl is so freaking cute. Her accent is so cute,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: and we were like, poor thing was so nervous on camera.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: She just like could not shake that. And I was
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: telling Bob, I was like there's no way that that
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: nervous girl was the girl who showed up during casting
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: like she was probably like bubbly and totally fine when
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: she was just like one on one. Yeah, he could
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: not get past those cameras. Poor thing. But I'm so
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: happy to hear that she's dating somebody and that is
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: adorable that it's Emily's brother.
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: I know she could be miss rushanew one day, but
• 23:30
  Speaker 5: I remember ali Beth one of my favorite she's the best.
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: When we were doing the first round of elimination where
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: he's calling us up, he had said, I'm choosing this
• 23:41
  Speaker 5: girl because she's a light, and we're all like, oh,
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: Alibeth because we had just met her, and she seriously
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: lights up a room.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: But she's not like out there.
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: Like how she shooed up on the show, like she
• 23:53
  Speaker 5: is a little bit more reserchful just come out with
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: these one liners that'll just kill us.
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: And she is the sweetest. I was really sad to
• 23:59
  Speaker 4: see her go home.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah we were too. We thought she was adorable.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what about your connection with Emily? What's that been
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: like and where is it today? Since you know filming
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: has ended.
• 24:12
  Speaker 5: Emily and I are so different in so many ways,
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: but so similar in so many ways. I think that
• 24:18
  Speaker 5: the entire process through staying on the farm, we kind
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: of had a connection. I don't know if it was
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: because our age, but we were on the same page
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: with a lot of things. I mean, even clothes and food.
• 24:29
  Speaker 5: I'm like, just giving what Emily gets because we did
• 24:32
  Speaker 5: have a connection and I understood. And when we were
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: final too, I was like, this makes complete since because
• 24:38
  Speaker 5: we are so similar. But like I said, our personalities
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: are really different and Emily is reserved, but once she
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: warms up to you, she can have fun.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: She's like similar to me.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, did you think Olivia was going to go further
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: in the process than she did.
• 25:04
  Speaker 4: One hundred thousand? I had said in a lot of
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: my interviews.
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: I'm like, if I were Sean, I would I would
• 25:11
  Speaker 5: just send everybody home and get Olivia is what is
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: the best person I've ever met in my entire life.
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: I talked to her every day and then she's texting
• 25:19
  Speaker 5: me right now.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: She is.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: They had a lot in common, but like we said,
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: that didn't really matter. But she is one of the
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: strongest people I know. I mean, she has built an
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: entire career for herself, and I really did feel like
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: she would be such in a good, good addition to
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: Sean's life.
• 25:36
  Speaker 4: But I mean, at the end of the day, it
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: wasn't what he was looking for. But like I mentioned,
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: when he sent her home, I was like, show, I
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: already packed up my stuff.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. We were trying to get her on
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: the show, weren't we have there?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: We chose she was in Italy and traveling, and it
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: didn't end up working out. But I kind of want
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: to go back to Rihanna for a minute, because you
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: said that she was edited, maybe in a less flattering way.
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: One of the things that she said in her exit
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: interview was that it was obvious that Sean was looking
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: for a stay at home wife, and I pushed back
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: on that. After having met his parents, who are hard
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: working people, I thought that they prioritized family. But I
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: didn't get the sense that Sean was just looking for
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: a stay at home wife. You spent time with him,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: you spent time on the farm. Would you say that
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: that's what he was looking for.
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: I don't think so, and I don't think he ever
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: mentioned that to any of us. It wasn't a topic
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: of conversation. What our career was, But I think he
• 26:37
  Speaker 5: would have been totally fine if you know, we worked
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: on the side or had full time jobs with kids,
• 26:42
  Speaker 5: like a lot of our mothers do. But I think
• 26:45
  Speaker 5: that his main point was med school because med school
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: takes us so much of.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: Our time, and he did it have the science.
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: To me, even though he was like, even if we
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: ended up together, even if we did long distance, I
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: would want to see you at least once a month,
• 26:58
  Speaker 5: and I'm not even in med school, and that that
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: would be hard for me. So I can't imagine what
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: that would be like with Rihanna's schedule.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Not only med school, but then residency after like all
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: of that. Medicine in general is a very large commitment.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: It's a commitment, and I just.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Felt like it was unfair what she said in her
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: exit interview that that's what he was looking for, because
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: we never heard that come out of his mouth. So
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I was just wondering if that he had said that
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: maybe behind closed doors or you know, off camera to
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: you guys, And were you surprised as we were when
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: he said to her that he was sorry if he
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: hurt her, and her response was, you couldn't hurt me.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: If you tried.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: No, I wasn't.
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: I wasn't that surprised because that night emotions were so
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: high because everything had had happened that day, and like
• 27:52
  Speaker 5: I said, Rihanna kind of got off on an unlike
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: it kind of felt unfair, like her feelings were hurt
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: at the horse races and so everything was just building up.
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: The restaurant day had happened, all of this that happened,
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: and I think she was just done and she was
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: ready to go. And that conversation with Rihanna and Sean
• 28:11
  Speaker 5: was kind of confusing to me because I couldn't tell
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: who was breaking up with who.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: We saw that that he broke up with her and
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: she was like, uh, you can't fire me. I quit
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: Like it was very She was like, I'm here to
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: break up with you. You don't need to do it first.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: And we were like, it's farmer wants a wife, babe,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: So sorry about that, But I think it was.
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: It was mutual that they had both agreed over time,
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: like we just they knew they weren't they were not
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: going to end up together.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: So they were just like She's like I agree, Yeah,
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: it's not going to work.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: She threw some little digs in there though, and that
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: wasn't as we thought. It wasn't super necessary or becoming,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: but hey, that is her journey. I want to know
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: about what life has been like for you since filming Raps.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: So are you dating? Like what's that been like for you?
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: I am not dating.
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: I am working.
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: I work another job with I'm a bit coordinator for
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: another company, but I'm still doing weddings. So I've just
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: been so busy and this transition has been a lot
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: of fun. I mean, watching the show with my family
• 29:18
  Speaker 5: and it coming out, it has been like a fever stream.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: But I was I was ready for it to be over,
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: and now that it's over, I almost feel like I
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: can keep going.
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: And I'm like, what's next? Maybe a boyfriend hopefully?
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: What are we looking for or what are we hoping
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: finds us?
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: Hmmm? Somebody kind and funny? Those are my Those are
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: my top two things.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: And not young.
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: Not younger. They give me like six months younger.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: But I think, and I'm not.
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: Saying everyone one younger.
• 29:49
  Speaker 5: I think I just have a bad track record with
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: the two younger people that I've been on dates with.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and like you said, you have a lot of
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: confidence and you need somebody that is not intimidated by that,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: but like also embraces that.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, which that's why.
• 30:08
  Speaker 5: And this whole experience taught me a lot because before
• 30:11
  Speaker 5: I met Sean's family, I had said, oh, tone it down,
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: and he said, oh, no, you like tone it up,
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: and I was like, I love that. I like he
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: taught me a lot about what I want in future relationships.
• 30:23
  Speaker 5: So at the end, it wasn't all bad.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: No, And to be fair, I think most of the
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: journey he did come across like more mature than a
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: typical twenty two year old. I would say the moments
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: where we could really tell he was twenty two was
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: the flip flopping, the lots of kissing and probably amount
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: of a shirtless shots. They let producers get him right,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: the encouraged yay. They didn't get those from the other farmers.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: You actually said that in your when you guys were
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: kind of breaking up.
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  Speaker 3: I appreciate, Yeah, you were like, you know, I was
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: saying you you actually said that to him when you
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: guys were kind of in the breakup mode. I thought,
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: you said, you know, you've helped me realize what I
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: want in future relationships.
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: Didn't Oh, yes, yes, because that was that was one
• 31:06
  Speaker 5: of my biggest takeaways. I feel like I gained so
• 31:10
  Speaker 5: much through that experience.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I love that.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: I thought that was great when you said that, What
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: did you think watching the other farmer's journeys back on
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: the show since you weren't on their farms?
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: I was wishing.
• 31:22
  Speaker 5: I mean, I wish I could be two places at once,
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: because Braden's farm looked so much fun.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: Those girls looked like so much fun. Brett's farm was interesting.
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: I don't know, I didn't like, I didn't couldn't like
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: get a ton from it.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: I was like, what's going on?
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: I think our farm was so much fun just even
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: where we were. We were in the most beautiful place
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: in the world. Every day we were just having fun.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: You were on the luxury farm, for sure. Brett's was
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: that happen, you know, out in the middle of nowhere
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: for sure.
• 31:52
  Speaker 5: So but they did match us perfectly because I I
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: think I was most compatible with Sean and looking at
• 31:59
  Speaker 5: the other farms, I'm like, I would hang out with
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: those girls, but.
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: Nothing crazy.
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: I didn't feel any I didn't feel any jealousy that
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: I wasn't on their farms.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Were you surprised though by the outcomes on the other farms.
• 32:12
  Speaker 5: No, I feel like, so we don't know what's going
• 32:15
  Speaker 5: on while we're filming it. But if you would have
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: asked me, I probably would have said Casey and Brittany
• 32:20
  Speaker 5: being in the final two on Braiden's farm because they
• 32:23
  Speaker 5: are both very sweet people, and Braiden is such a
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: genuine I mean I've only talked to him a few times,
• 32:28
  Speaker 5: but he's such a genuine guy. And everyone on they
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: were all there for the right reason. So I was
• 32:32
  Speaker 5: really hoping that he picked someone that he would still
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: be together with, which he is. But I think it
• 32:37
  Speaker 5: was great for Brittany too, because I mean, now she's moved,
• 32:39
  Speaker 5: She's like started this whole new.
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: Journey for her.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Wait, tell us, as you've talked to Brittany since the breakup,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: because she it was really rough. That break up was
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: really emotional.
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: I haven't talked to her, but I know that it
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: wasn't going into the finalite with Sean and I I
• 33:00
  Speaker 5: had a feeling I was being realistic. I was like,
• 33:03
  Speaker 5: this is this is a real possibility, But I know
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: that I think the Braden's feelings were with Casey and
• 33:09
  Speaker 5: Brittany were so close, the closest out of all of
• 33:13
  Speaker 5: the other farms, so they really were just hoping for
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: the best and she was a little bit blindsided. But
• 33:18
  Speaker 5: watching it back, it looks like she was most upset
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: that he said you couldn't live on the farm or something,
• 33:24
  Speaker 5: because because she was like, I did say that.
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: I like, I did say that I live on the
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: farm or something.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: You know she did, she did, Yeah, not be frustrated.
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: To me listening to it, I think she sounded frustrated.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Because she wanted When she came back the second time,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: she said, why not me? Like she wanted something. It
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: was almost like when we get dumped. I don't know
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: if you've ever experienced this, Carson. You don't look like
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: a girl who gets dumped, But you know, sometimes sometimes
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: you want to be like, is it because I'm too fat?
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Is it because like you want like some sort of weird,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: concrete answer, like that's going to make it better?
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you want closure, But it doesn't.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Matter because whatever is said is not going to make
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: sense and it's not going to matter because you're the
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: one who wanted to stay in it and the other
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: person didn't. So it's never going to like fully make sense.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: So well, I'm glad to hear though that she's doing better.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: We talked to Hannah. She's out there trying to date again.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: And when you're ready and you have time, I'm sure
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: that that will be something that you open yourself back
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: up to.
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: Definitely.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: We've had so much fun though, just watching this season
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: and watching you and your feisty personality come out.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: We loved it.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on the pod. It
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: was a really fun watch for us this season.
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you guys for having me this. It's a
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: lot of fun by Carson you guys.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Bye.