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- 0:04Well, we'd love to get emails to us that crystallize sort of abstract thoughts
- 0:09and put those thoughts into concrete questions. And today we have an intriguing question
- 0:14from Jacob, a listener, about the importance of popularity and likability in our
- 0:18gospel witness. Jacob wonders if being disliked by others makes him a bad representative
- 0:25of Christ. Here's his email, Pastor, John, am I wrong?
- 0:30If people around me don't like me? Does being unliked by others make me
- 0:35a bad representative of Christ? We can't be people pleasers all the time,
- 0:40or we will be pushovers. And at what point has our seeking to be
- 0:45accepted by people compromised our faithfulness to God? I think what might be helpful
- 0:53to do in answer to Jacob's question is to illustrate for him how from scriptures
- 1:00he might go about answering his own question. And I hope in doing it
- 1:07this way, really a hundred questions of this nature and lots of natures might
- 1:14be answered, in the sense that people will realize that all John Piper does
- 1:19to get ready for these little ten minute talks is to open my Bible and
- 1:29find some scriptures that come close to relating to the issue and think about them
- 1:33and then put my thoughts down. Frankly, I think most people who listen
- 1:38to APJ, that's particular kind of people could do this if they were encouraged
- 1:46actually to work at it. So so I'm doing I'm encouraging you like you
- 1:49could do this. You could have your own, your own little APJ.
- 1:53I'd like to empower you to do that. So just watch now. First
- 1:59thing I did was to type the word please, because we're talking about when
- 2:05is it right to please people? Is it not right to please? Type
- 2:08the word please into my logoss you can have. There's a lot of different
- 2:13Pible programs out there. I happened to use logoss. I typed it into
- 2:15my Bible computer search, and I told it to find all the places where
- 2:22pleased or pleased is used in Paul, because I knew that a bunch of
- 2:27places in Paul that I couldn't think of where they were dealt with this very
- 2:31issue of sometimes pleasing people and sometimes not pleasing people. And poop there they
- 2:38come, Oh bunch of uses of please, not all of them relevant.
- 2:43And I picked out the five that were relevant, and I isolated them and
- 2:50I began to read them, and as I read them, I circled and
- 2:53I underlined, and I am bolden words that seemed relevant for a answering the
- 3:00question, Now, when's it right to please people? When's it wrong to
- 3:02polease people? Is Paul tipping me off in these verses as to when he
- 3:07doesn't when he doesn't do it? And I assume Paul's not contradicting himself.
- 3:14And so here's what I'm gonna do, And it's gonna read you these five
- 3:15verses and show you what I saw, because I think you could see it
- 3:21and then you wouldn't have to write APJ. So Galatians chapter one, verse
- 3:28ten, I mean, I'm tony. You know, we are into empowering
- 3:32people to go to the Bible and find God and help there not be dependent
- 3:38on me. So here we go. Galatians one ten. Paul has just
- 3:45said some unbelievably harsh things about those who are bringing a different gospel. He
- 3:52says, if anyone this is verse nine, if anyone is preaching to you
- 3:55a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be cursed damned.
- 4:01Now those are not pleasing words to the false teachers. I dare say,
- 4:05Now, should Paul worry about that he has just displeased somebody big time?
- 4:11I guess is lots of contemporary readers don't like it either. So he says
- 4:15in verse ten, am I trying to get the approval of Man? Or
- 4:17God? Am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to
- 4:21please Man, I would not be a servant of Christ. So the least
- 4:26we can conclude from these words is that sometimes being a faithful servant of Christ
- 4:34when the Gospel is being corrupted will require harsh words, and we should not
- 4:41let that stand in our way, that these are displeasing to some people.
- 4:46Number two First Desalonians two three through six. Here's what he says, Just
- 4:51as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the Gospel, so
- 4:55we speak not to please man, but to please God, who tests our
- 5:00hearts. For we never came with flattery, as you know, nor with
- 5:06a pretext for greed God has witness. Nor did we seek glory from people,
- 5:15whether from you or from others. Now that seems to me to be
- 5:20really helpful, because Paul mentions three things at least that he is trying to
- 5:29avoid in pleasing other people. In the way he talks, he's trying to
- 5:36avoid flattery, he's avoiding giving a pretext for greed, and he's avoiding trying
- 5:44to get glory from people. In other words, what Paul was opposed to
- 5:50here was trying to please people by buttering them up in the hope of getting
- 5:58money or getting raise and glory. So the key issue there in First Thessalonians
- 6:04two is not primarily whether somebody likes what you say or doesn't like it.
- 6:12The issue is are you self serving or are you other serving? Are you
- 6:19manipulating the relationship to try to to say what they want to hear because you
- 6:26want money, or you want glory, or you want something that they don't
- 6:30expect you to want given what you're saying. Here's the third text Coustions three
- 6:35twenty two. Bond servants obeying everything those who are your earthly masters, not
- 6:42by way of eye service, as men pleasers, not by way of eye
- 6:46service as men people pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord.
- 6:54So it seems to me that what Paul means by eye service is that
- 7:00the goal is really not the goal of so that who talks with eye service
- 7:05or acts with eye services not to really go any deeper than what meets the
- 7:10eye, which is why Paul contrasts it with sincerity of heart and with fearing
- 7:17the Lord. In other words, pleasing someone might be just fine if it
- 7:25was not insincere, and if it didn't compromise fearing the Lord and just real
- 7:32quick. The two passages that say he does try to please people are one
- 7:40Corinthians ten thirty one to thirty three goes like this, So whether you eat
- 7:45or drink, or whatever you do to all, to the glory of God,
- 7:46give no offense to Jews, or to Greeks, or to the Church
- 7:49of God. Just as I try to please everyone in everything, I do
- 7:57not seeking my own advantage, but that of many, that they may be
- 8:03saved. And Romans fifteen wanted to we who are strong have an obligation to
- 8:09bear with the failings of the week, and not to please ourselves. But
- 8:15let each of you please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.
- 8:24So when Paul is trying to please others, he says five things about
- 8:30it that make it good. One I'm not seeking my own advantage. Two
- 8:35I'm seeking their advantage. Three I'm trying to bring them to salvation. Four,
- 8:41I'm seeking their good. Five I'm seeking to build them up, that
- 8:48is in faith and holiness. So summary, I think the answer to Jacob's
- 8:54question about when it's right when it's wrong to please people would go something like
- 8:58this. And all I'm doing now is trying to summarize. These don't come
- 9:03out of nowhere. I'm just trying to summarize what we've seen in those verses.
- 9:07If you are not motivated by flattery, and not motivated by trying to
- 9:13manipulate people to get money for yourself or glory or praise for yourself, If
- 9:20you are not speaking or acting insincerely but in the fear of God, if
- 9:26you are seeking their advantage and their good and their salvation and their up building,
- 9:33If all those things characterize your behavior and your speech, then yes,
- 9:39yes, seek to please people. Your effort to please them will be protected
- 9:46from sin, and it will be used for righteousness and for the glory of
- 9:52God. Thank you bestor John for this answer, but more importantly for empowering
- 9:56us all to seek answers in the Bible for ourselves. This is just true
- 10:00lifelong learning right here. Feel free to start your own podcast, But please
- 10:05don't stop sending your questions D A PJ. And you can do that by
- 10:09emailing them to us at ask Pastor John at Desiringgod dot org. That's our
- 10:13email address, ask Pastor John at Desiringgod dot org. But obviously try to
- 10:20figure them out on your own first, and then explain to us the process
- 10:22and the remaining question that you have. Yeah, but please keep the emails
- 10:26coming. On your host, Tony Reiki. December starts tomorrow, already December
- 10:33tomorrow. We're back on Monday. We'll see you in December.