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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is Dirty Little Secret.
- 0:02Speaker 2: The Little Secret mixed one or two point nine.
- 0:06Speaker 1: Good morning, It's Bailey the kid can to slow Pennis,
- 0:08Speaker 1: she's here, producer, who is here? And your secrets anytime
- 0:11Speaker 1: you want to just bring it eight three three seven
- 0:13Speaker 1: eight seven.
- 0:13Speaker 2: One nine or on Instagram you can hit me up. Dmy.
- 0:16Speaker 2: We could set up the.
- 0:17Speaker 1: Dirty Little Secret when you want to do it at
- 0:19Speaker 1: Billy on the Radio. At Billy on the radioge we
- 0:22Speaker 1: got one thousand dollars coming up next to now this
- 0:25Speaker 1: dirty Little Secret right here?
- 0:26Speaker 2: So what's going on?
- 0:27Speaker 3: All right? So, I know this sounds insane, but I'm
- 0:30Speaker 3: actually about to break up with my boyfriend or a question.
- 0:34Speaker 1: Over a question over a question, question, just one that
- 0:38Speaker 1: you asked him or he asked you.
- 0:40Speaker 3: No, he asked me. It's like the dumbest question I've
- 0:43Speaker 3: ever been asked in my life.
- 0:44Speaker 2: Okay, what what?
- 0:47Speaker 3: So we were sitting on the couch eating takeout, watching
- 0:50Speaker 3: like some rom comedy Picks and all of a sudden
- 0:54Speaker 3: he paused the movie, looks at me and said, do
- 0:58Speaker 3: you love me more than your dog? What?
- 1:01Speaker 2: No? He did not?
- 1:03Speaker 3: He did. I thought he was joking.
- 1:04Speaker 1: He asked you in the middle, So wait, I gotta
- 1:07Speaker 1: understand this part. This is kind of part that, like, yeah,
- 1:10Speaker 1: so you're watching a rom com. Did you say that
- 1:12Speaker 1: he picked or did I hear that wrong?
- 1:14Speaker 2: Oh?
- 1:14Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah he picked it. And then he paused the
- 1:17Speaker 3: movie to ask me if I love him more than
- 1:20Speaker 3: my dog?
- 1:21Speaker 2: Was he he was serious?
- 1:22Speaker 3: Oh he was dead serious. And I was awaiting h
- 1:25Speaker 3: to ask so start laughing, but he looked like he
- 1:27Speaker 3: was like, just ask me to marry him.
- 1:29Speaker 2: Oh no, so what did so? Dead?
- 1:34Speaker 1: So this is awesome? So what do you say? You're
- 1:36Speaker 1: sitting on the couch, you're watching a movie.
- 1:38Speaker 2: He asked you if I What did you say?
- 1:42Speaker 3: Well, of course I was like, of course I love
- 1:45Speaker 3: you more and I get a little kiss. You know,
- 1:47Speaker 3: I'll really play it off, and but you know, like
- 1:51Speaker 3: you said, I just have this instant itck crawled my
- 1:53Speaker 3: spine because honestly, I don't like, not even close.
- 1:57Speaker 1: No. I was just about to say, how long you've
- 1:59Speaker 1: been dain this guy? Of course you don't love I
- 2:01Speaker 1: don't know.
- 2:02Speaker 3: We've been together maybe eight nine months?
- 2:05Speaker 2: What guy asked that question?
- 2:07Speaker 3: Insecure guy? Thank you?
- 2:09Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 2:09Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had my dog Daisy for six years. She's
- 2:13Speaker 3: been with me through everything, right, I can't take it anymore.
- 2:17Speaker 3: He's so sensitive and like super emotional. This guy cries
- 2:21Speaker 3: a commercial. Dude, Oh he gets moody. They don't text
- 2:26Speaker 3: him back right away.
- 2:27Speaker 1: Okay, Now, in fairness, I've cried at certain commercials.
- 2:31Speaker 2: Yeah, like the holiday one.
- 2:32Speaker 1: The holiday ones are when the when the fine you know,
- 2:34Speaker 1: when the troops come back and surprise their family.
- 2:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I cried those commercials.
- 2:40Speaker 3: Okay commercial.
- 2:41Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the Sarah McLaughlin commercial comes out.
- 2:44Speaker 2: Yeah, with them dogs.
- 2:50Speaker 3: Yeah. Well he calls it being in touch with this feeling. Yeah,
- 2:53Speaker 3: I'm just like, it's exhausting.
- 2:55Speaker 1: So he's overly emotional, he's sensitive, and I get it.
- 2:59Speaker 2: This is just turned you.
- 3:00Speaker 1: There's things that happen in relationships when you're dating that
- 3:03Speaker 1: can be an instant deal breaker, and to you, this
- 3:05Speaker 1: is one of them. Yeah.
- 3:06Speaker 3: It was do you love me more than your dog?
- 3:09Speaker 3: Final straw?
- 3:10Speaker 2: Okay, well yeah, so when are you gonna do it?
- 3:14Speaker 3: I'm thinking tomorrow. I'm gonna end.
- 3:16Speaker 2: Oh damn, that question.
- 3:18Speaker 3: I know, I know I'll be gentle, but you know, first.
- 3:21Speaker 2: What are you going to tell him?
- 3:22Speaker 1: Are you going to tell him that this is It
- 3:23Speaker 1: was a question that he's overly emotional and sensitive.
- 3:26Speaker 3: No, I feel I'm gonna keep it vague, like I
- 3:30Speaker 3: don't know. It's not you, it's just where I'm at
- 3:32Speaker 3: right now.
- 3:32Speaker 2: No, don't do him. But first of all, no, don't
- 3:36Speaker 2: do him like that. I gotta need space. Yeah, I
- 3:38Speaker 2: got that. No, it's not me, it's you.
- 3:41Speaker 1: I mean, at the end of the day, if it
- 3:42Speaker 1: just doesn't work and he's not for you, it's just
- 3:45Speaker 1: not for you.
- 3:45Speaker 2: That's true. No, there's nothing wrong.
- 3:47Speaker 1: I would want to get Listen, dump me if you don't,
- 3:49Speaker 1: if you're not into me, dump me.
- 3:50Speaker 2: Yeah, don't waste my time. Don't waste anything.
- 3:53Speaker 1: That's an irrational question that only a crazy person would ask.
- 3:56Speaker 2: You. Don't ask those questions if you don't want the
- 3:58Speaker 2: real answer, Like was that happening in the movie and
- 4:00Speaker 2: then he just brought it up. But if he just
- 4:02Speaker 2: brought it up out of nowhere, like if somebody.
- 4:04Speaker 3: Asked me he was looking at my dog and then
- 4:06Speaker 3: it just turns to me.
- 4:07Speaker 1: And this is manfestering and building up inside him to
- 4:10Speaker 1: think to be worried about it, Like Pooh is the
- 4:13Speaker 1: only person I know, our producer. Poo is probably the
- 4:15Speaker 1: only person I know who like you would love the
- 4:17Speaker 1: person more than dog.
- 4:18Speaker 2: You're just not a dog person. I'm a dog person.
- 4:20Speaker 2: You've never had a dog that I know.
- 4:21Speaker 1: Though I got an apartment, I can't have it if
- 4:24Speaker 1: the dogs, the dogs I like, are considered aggressive breaths,
- 4:28Speaker 1: So I can't have my apartment.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Are you men? The women you like her? Consider? Or no?
- 4:34Speaker 2: Oh the dogs? Okay, gotcha, rot Waller, they don't like
- 4:38Speaker 2: rot Wallers.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Well, my point is like, there's like, if I'm dating
- 4:41Speaker 1: a girl who's brand new, like a new relationship, if
- 4:44Speaker 1: she asked me if I love her more than my dog, trigger,
- 4:47Speaker 1: I would immediately be like absolutely not right. No, Yeah,
- 4:52Speaker 1: I'm sorry to crush your dreams, but let's be real here.
- 4:55Speaker 1: I would throw you out into the toll way before
- 4:57Speaker 1: I got.
- 4:58Speaker 2: Rid of my dog. Wow aggressive breed. Yeah, I'm just
- 5:05Speaker 2: kidding do.
- 5:05Speaker 1: That, but I get how this would give you the ick,
- 5:08Speaker 1: And I mean, go easy on. I'm poor guys going
- 5:10Speaker 1: to cry himself to sleep to morrow.
- 5:12Speaker 3: I would be very kind, yeah, or.
- 5:14Speaker 2: Maybe you just send him a text.
- 5:15Speaker 1: At this point, what I mean, honestly, at this point,
- 5:18Speaker 1: people are that emotional.
- 5:19Speaker 2: I can't do it.
- 5:20Speaker 1: So I just send schedule a text to say, right,
- 5:27Speaker 1: all right, well good luck and I hope it works out.
- 5:30Speaker 3: Thank you, appreciate it, and you're welcome.