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- 0:00Nancy: Hey there, friends.
- 0:01Guess what?
- 0:02you know, mistakes happen in the kitchen.
- 0:05They happen everywhere.
- 0:07And I am going to share a mistake.
- 0:09It's a big one.
- 0:11So, I just came back from a conference called PodFest, which there are like
- 0:15several thousand podcasters there, and we're all just absorbing everybody's
- 0:19energy and learning new things from one another that we share and exchange.
- 0:23And there's always the story of the person who didn't press record.
- 0:27And I said, well, I've never done that.
- 0:29Well, guess what?
- 0:32I just did that.
- 0:34Thankfully, Meredith is here, our guest, to allow me to press record again, but
- 0:39I am admitting my mistake, not in the kitchen, but certainly on the podcast.
- 0:44So on that note, Sylvia, why you introduce our fabulous guest, Meredith Plante.
- 0:51Sylvia: Yeah, we just had the greatest warm up act.
- 0:55Nancy May: sure did.
- 0:56Sylvia Lovely: And now we get to do it again, but it'll be even better,
- 0:59Meredith and I got to know each other.
- 1:01I don't know, Meredith, five years ago.
- 1:04Sitting across the table from one another at a leadership meeting.
- 1:07Oh.
- 1:07And, I tell this story, and I won't mention the name, but this person's name
- 1:12was mentioned, and we both rolled our eyes at exactly the same moment because
- 1:16we didn't like that person, if you recall, and I knew we were friends for life.
- 1:20but let me tell you about this magnificent person.
- 1:24She is the program manager in the Central Kentucky and Southern
- 1:27Indiana Alzheimer's Association.
- 1:29She volunteers for the Lifehouse Animal Shelter.
- 1:32And get to your shelters today.
- 1:35she does color commentary for local basketball.
- 1:38She's tall, I'm not.
- 1:40And she's getting her PhD in leadership from Bellarmine University.
- 1:43And, Says she doesn't have time for hobbies, but she does love
- 1:47writing letters, which is a dying art, She also has two cat children.
- 1:52And she is a pioneer, Nancy, in our book.
- 1:56She published one of our short stories.
- 1:59to give people examples of how, a funny story, a poignant story,
- 2:03a wild story about an event in their life having to do with food.
- 2:07And Meredith did that on page 110, by the way.
- 2:10If you have a book, check it out.
- 2:12And we'll talk a bit about that, but Nancy, get going with our questions.
- 2:15Little interview of Meredith.
- 2:17Take two.
- 2:18Nancy May: Yes, Meredith, take two.
- 2:20Yeah, Meredith, you have a new last name.
- 2:23Take two.
- 2:23Nancy: Take two.
- 2:24we haven't met, but one of the things that fascinated me about the story
- 2:28that, Sylvia shared with me about you is that you are not a foodie necessarily,
- 2:32although we all have to eat, but you're not a cook or a chef or you're not
- 2:36really involved in anything like that, yet you have become one of our raving
- 2:42fans on Family Tree Food and Stories.
- 2:45And I find that kind of interesting.
- 2:47Not that you have to be a chef, but I think something in there says like there's
- 2:53got to be some interest along the way.
- 2:55What?
- 2:55What sort of grabbed you by the fork, I'll say, or the pen,
- 3:01yeah.
- 3:02to make you, like, so enamored with this?
- 3:04Meredith Plant: Yeah.
- 3:04Well, so if Sylvia says I'm doing something that I'm supporting her 100
- 3:09percent and she told me that she was doing this food book and I was like, cool.
- 3:14I don't cook.
- 3:15So, but I love you.
- 3:16So I'm going to buy it.
- 3:17I bought it the first day and so I, I like to say that I'm not a bad cook.
- 3:22I just don't cook.
- 3:23Like you have to do something to be bad at it.
- 3:26and I just don't really do a lot of it.
- 3:28So, I, I bought the book to support Sylvia.
- 3:31I had her sign it and then we really started looking through it and.
- 3:35The book appealed to me because first of all, you had to write down the recipe in
- 3:41your handwriting and write down a story or a memory that goes with the recipe.
- 3:46And I'm a former English major, so storytelling is something
- 3:50that interests me and me.
- 3:53And so I kind of got into the book, you know, I'll write down one or
- 3:57two recipes and stories at a time, no more than that in one sitting.
- 4:01And so I'm a convert because I don't really cook, but I love the book.
- 4:06Nancy May: I love it.
- 4:07and you actually contributed a story, as Sylvia said, on page 110.
- 4:11If you do not have a copy of the book, you can get it at Amazon for sure.
- 4:15And we'll have a link in the episode notes.
- 4:18but what are some of the things that really attract you or what I should
- 4:23say, what are some of the things that actually draw out the memories and
- 4:26stories that you've had over the years that you want to contribute to this book?
- 4:30Because it's a finite book, it's only.
- 4:32273 pages, which sounds like a lot, but there's really not a lot of room
- 4:35for recipes because it's four pages per recipe for memories and stories
- 4:40and other things you want to add to it.
- 4:42But finding and thinking about those memories is something we don't do
- 4:45every day when we're sitting down at a table and thinking about food
- 4:48or even putting together a party.
- 4:50Like what draws out some of those that, that brings you some extra joy from those?
- 4:55Meredith Plant: Yeah.
- 4:55So, I think my interest in, handwritten recipes began many, many years ago
- 5:02when I told my mom, when I get married, I want you to write down in your
- 5:07handwriting, my favorite recipes.
- 5:09I want that.
- 5:10And even, um, I told my mother in law, I had her do her corn pudding recipe.
- 5:15I wanted it.
- 5:15in her handwriting.
- 5:17So that was kind of important to me.
- 5:19And I got married in 2012 and I still have a book and I no longer have the husband.
- 5:24so
- 5:24Nancy May: you don't have to cook for them either, so that's fine.
- 5:26Nancy: Yeah.
- 5:27It's, all good.
- 5:27So, you know, I just really like, I kind of just have been sentimental
- 5:32in that way, for a long time.
- 5:34Now, the appeal of the book, it kind of takes it to the next level.
- 5:38So, for me, it's my handwriting, but my memories of the story behind it.
- 5:44So, I kind of just have enjoyed taking those moments for me to
- 5:48write down and remember things from my childhood or teenage years.
- 5:52Um, I'm 40 years old.
- 5:54So even some of the stories are kind of.
- 5:57You know, funny, funny fails, you know, where my boss was like, you're
- 6:02not allowed to bring soft drinks or paper products to a potluck anymore.
- 6:06You've got to make some like real food here, you know, and
- 6:10Nancy May: I'm going to remember the paper potluck next time I don't feel
- 6:13like cooking, so thank that advice.
- 6:16Meredith: oh, oh, oh, I'm the queen of that.
- 6:18You sign up immediately.
- 6:19Like they send out the signup list.
- 6:21You're the
- 6:21first gone.
- 6:22Yeah.
- 6:24Nancy: Pro tip.
- 6:24Sylvia Lovely: and what are those dishes that you recommended?
- 6:27Meredith Plant: Yeah, so my, my go to's for potlucks are a pasta
- 6:31salad dish and deviled eggs.
- 6:33And so if someone else has already signed up for those two things, then you will
- 6:38get paper products or soft drinks for me or wine, depending on, the time of day.
- 6:43Nancy May: Hello Red solo cup.
- 6:44Meredith Plant: Yeah, you got two options with me, take them or leave them.
- 6:47And that's how I roll.
- 6:49So anyway, my interest in this type of thing started a long time ago,
- 6:53but the book really spoke to me in a sense that I got a chance to record,
- 6:57my memories and my, my stories.
- 7:00Nancy May: So you had said that, When you got married, one of the things
- 7:04that you wanted was to have your mother and your mother in law record in their
- 7:09handwriting some of those recipes.
- 7:12What was it about the handwriting that made that important?
- 7:16Because I think that's kind of an unusual request of a, of a woman to
- 7:20ask of a parent and a mother in law.
- 7:23I've never heard that before and I think it's wonderful.
- 7:25Meredith Plant: Well, maybe, it is my own original idea.
- 7:27I don't know.
- 7:28for me, I'm just really into handwriting and penmanship I am a sentimental person.
- 7:34I'm an only child and, my grandparents passed when I was, well, before I
- 7:39was born and when I was young, so I just kind of have been aware.
- 7:43Of, you know, people don't live forever.
- 7:46And I just wanted that.
- 7:48So my mom also has the most amazing handwriting.
- 7:52So does my aunt.
- 7:53So does my cousin.
- 7:54It's kind of the family thing.
- 7:56And so that was important to me.
- 7:57And then my mother in law, you know, I love her to death, still do.
- 8:00And I just said, I want your handwriting.
- 8:04In this book as well, that's important to me.
- 8:06So, don't, I don't know what spurred it on.
- 8:09It's except that it's just like part of my DNA and my personality.
- 8:14Meredith: Yeah.
- 8:15Nancy May: a personal thing, which I love and, of course, Sylvia and I
- 8:18had that idea that, that having the handwritten notes and the story was
- 8:22something that we thought was important.
- 8:24And, one of the things that I have found since now my mom has passed,
- 8:29in looking through old books the joy of cooking kind of thing that
- 8:33was nothing particularly special.
- 8:35Although I still go to some recipes for that one, is to see
- 8:38my mom's handwritten notes on it.
- 8:41know, the little, it doesn't need to be a lot.
- 8:42It's like, this for whatever.
- 8:45interestingly enough, there was a story, talking about stories that I heard
- 8:49about, if you remember Bob Barker and The Price is right and the Well, his
- 8:54wife had passed a number of years before he did, and he passed, I think, like a
- 8:59year or so ago, and his brother or his brother in law had found in their house
- 9:05when they were cleaning out the house.
- 9:07Recipe cards that his wife had created for all the different meals that they
- 9:12had with friends and family, and on the back of each card, she wrote the
- 9:16name of the person that she made the recipe for and what they liked about it.
- 9:22So I just found that that was such a fabulous thought.
- 9:26And I'm like, Oh my God, I want those.
- 9:29They're not mine, but I want them.
- 9:30I want to hear stories,
- 9:32Sylvia Lovely: or you can be a model, because, I mean, that
- 9:34is a great way to do that.
- 9:36Meredith, you said you're, I know your father's British.
- 9:38Did you know of any British recipes that came through your lineage?
- 9:43Because British food is just not known for being great,
- 9:46Nancy May: Well, wait a second.
- 9:47I'm going to ask that we take a quick break on there first,
- 9:50and then go back and we'll talk about, Cheerio old chap, right?
- 9:55Or young chap.
- 10:11So we're back with Meredith Plant and my co host Sylvia Lovely, and we've
- 10:15now actually crossed the pond talking about British foods and family heritage.
- 10:21So Meredith, why don't you take it from here?
- 10:23You, we've talking a little bit about how the British foods have influenced
- 10:27some of your family traditions over the years, or things that you like, stories
- 10:32Meredith Plant: Yeah.
- 10:33Yeah.
- 10:33So, my dad is British, like Sylvia mentioned, and my grand who passed when
- 10:38I was 13, She was like the best cook and could, could do all the things.
- 10:44Unfortunately, I was a very picky eater growing up.
- 10:46So I can, I just have to rely on what people say, but I loved her scones.
- 10:53So these are not the Starbucks stones.
- 10:56these are real British stones with clotted cream and
- 11:00Sylvia: No sugar on top, right?
- 11:01Nothing like that.
- 11:02Meredith Plant: This is, no, this is the real deal.
- 11:05And so she always had scones for us with a cup of tea.
- 11:09I was young, so I did not drink the hot tea, the grown ups did.
- 11:13I wanted my mom to make scones for me when we came back, and unfortunately,
- 11:18you know, she had Graham's Recipe, but the, the measurements are different
- 11:22they don't do the same that we do.
- 11:25Sylvia Lovely: Nancy and I have talked about this, that the flower
- 11:28and such different over there.
- 11:29They say that, and we need to research it more, but, I hear that.
- 11:33At least it's a strong rumor.
- 11:35Meredith Plant: yeah.
- 11:35like the measurements were hard to convert, that the flower was different,
- 11:39um, so, not that my mom's bones were bad by any means, but it was not
- 11:44Sylvia Lovely: They just weren't, they weren't that special.
- 11:46Meredith Plant: no, and, and honestly, sometimes it's fun to have like a
- 11:50A certain food associated with a certain place at a certain time.
- 11:55Like it wouldn't be special if you had it all the time.
- 11:59and so the scones, I will say when we would visit my granddad's friends and
- 12:03family, if you go to someone's house back in that time, but they, they served
- 12:09you scones and a hot tea that like, they always, they always had scones made.
- 12:14I, I'm just like, what?
- 12:15Nancy May: It's like cookies and milk in America, right?
- 12:17Meredith Plant: Yeah, I'm like, you just happen to have scones in your house.
- 12:20Okay.
- 12:21Sylvia Lovely: I love that.
- 12:22Hey, Meredith, one of the things that happens to me is I come
- 12:26from a long line of non cooks.
- 12:28my dad made cornbread,
- 12:30Nancy May: Well, that's cooking, Sylvia.
- 12:31You've got make cornbread.
- 12:32I don't know how to make cornbread.
- 12:34Sylvia Lovely: Well, he had one specialty, and that was cornbread.
- 12:36But, sometimes what happens to me is I visualize, a cooking incident or
- 12:41cooking moment, like my dad's cornbread.
- 12:44I always remember the cast iron skillet.
- 12:46I remember lots of butter, as they say, one stick of butter and everything, right?
- 12:51Do you ever do that, or either one of you, where you visualize the moment
- 12:55more than you visualize the recipe?
- 12:57Right.
- 12:58And then that moment gives birth to, well, I wonder how he did that, to
- 13:02write down the recipe, perhaps, and
- 13:05Sylvia: remember
- 13:06Meredith Plant: Sylvia, I wish I could say yes, but that wouldn't be a lie.
- 13:10Because when I say that I grew up and had no interest in cooking or baking, I mean,
- 13:16I had no interest in cooking or baking.
- 13:19I was playing sports.
- 13:20I was doing school.
- 13:22I was doing all the things that But not in the kitchen.
- 13:25So for me to answer your question would be more of now reflecting back on like when
- 13:32my mom made something like the caramel cookies, when I took them to soccer
- 13:36camp, because the soccer coaches from Britain, they basically wanted free food.
- 13:41they told us bring a recipe and I was like, mom, hey, I need this
- 13:45tomorrow and I need you to make it.
- 13:47So for me, it's more like reflecting back on that.
- 13:51I think I've accepted my non interest in cooking and I'm sure we'll get
- 13:56into, how you don't have to be a cook to enjoy or appreciate this book, but,
- 14:01just reflecting on like the memories is what kind of inspires me, it doesn't
- 14:06necessarily have to be like, Oh, I've got to make that recipe now, but just kind
- 14:10of like, Oh yeah, I remember that time.
- 14:12That was cool.
- 14:14Nancy May: It doesn't even have to be about a recipe.
- 14:16So I was sharing with somebody the other day how my mom, I grew up in
- 14:20there with her, the, um, it makes me sound like a hundred years old,
- 14:24but aluminum pots were the thing.
- 14:26Now I'm probably going to die of something or glow in the dark when I die, whenever
- 14:30it is, but there was this one aluminum pot and it was like, All raw and sketchy
- 14:35and it had this kind of coating on it.
- 14:37It wasn't even coating, it was like the patina of the aluminum gets really
- 14:41bad tinfoil.
- 14:43I remember like everything got cooked in that pot.
- 14:45Franks and beans, it was vegetables, whatever it was, soup.
- 14:49So the story around the kitchen, it wasn't even cooking, it was this
- 14:53stupid this aluminum pot with a plastic handle that I can see that pot
- 14:58Meredith: Yeah.
- 14:59Yeah,
- 14:59Sylvia Lovely: My cast iron skillet that my dad used.
- 15:02I see that.
- 15:03Nancy May: Well, they pass those down through generations.
- 15:05We don't pass down aluminum pots through generations.
- 15:07Sylvia Lovely: well, I've long lost my dad's.
- 15:10Anyway, I have actually managed to ruin cast iron pots and pans
- 15:15Nancy May: Oh, but you can bring those back.
- 15:16I think I know how to
- 15:18Sylvia: Uh, not they say once it reaches the point of rust, but we have talked
- 15:21about that sometimes on the show.
- 15:23Meredith, you hosted a holiday party and many of the recipes were there,
- 15:29weren't they, that have written about.
- 15:32Tell that spread.
- 15:33It was
- 15:34Meredith Plant: so I did host a holiday party and all of the recipes are in the
- 15:37book with a story associated with it.
- 15:40And, I invited dear friends and family and they all know that I don't
- 15:45cook or do anything in the kitchen.
- 15:47So, yeah, so like, it was kind of like, Hey, this is, you are
- 15:52special cause I invited you.
- 15:54That's so, I trust you, you know?
- 15:57And so they came over and it wasn't a, like, holiday specific spread.
- 16:02It was more just, oh, what do I know how to make?
- 16:05but I, I did make some buffalo chicken dip.
- 16:08I had cheese and crackers.
- 16:10I had, pimento cheese from somewhere, but I did make the chicken salad myself.
- 16:14I had ham biscuits with, country ham.
- 16:17I didn't make that.
- 16:18My mom got that.
- 16:19I made my deviled eggs, I made meatballs, because everyone loves meatballs.
- 16:24So, it was just a really fun time, a few stressful moments.
- 16:27I made magic cookie bars for dessert, so.
- 16:30Ogentimes, all the recipes are in my book now that I've recorded and
- 16:35so I can do it again next year.
- 16:36Sylvia Lovely: and you keep your book on your island.
- 16:39Meredith Plant: Yes, so I keep, I recommend to people who do
- 16:43get this book to keep it out.
- 16:45Don't tuck it away in a bookshelf because then you'll never fill it out.
- 16:48So I keep mine on my kitchen island and when the moment hits, I will
- 16:52record a recipe, and write the story.
- 16:55So, sometimes that involves me thinking of something that I like and
- 16:59emailing my mom or texting her and being like, can you please dig it out?
- 17:04Because now I want to write it down.
- 17:06So my mom is intimately involved in this project as well, whether she or not.
- 17:12And so, you know, I tell people this is, this book is not for a grade,
- 17:16it's not for, showing off or anything.
- 17:19It's for you.
- 17:20It's an exercise you.
- 17:21And so do it as the moment hits and, and just enjoy it.
- 17:27Nancy May: Now, back and read the stories yourself?
- 17:30when you put them down, because we all think about those stories that
- 17:33have come through the relationship over or with somebody over a meal.
- 17:39And, you can think of first dates, or last meals, or everything in
- 17:44between, That go along with it.
- 17:46There's always some sort of story to it.
- 17:48But do you enjoy going back and reading those stories again that you put down now?
- 17:53Meredith Plant: Yeah.
- 17:53So I'm really into this making chicken salad kick right now.
- 17:57So when I, I, Pull out the book and I open it to the chicken salad recipe.
- 18:03The story is right next to it, so you can't help but read it.
- 18:06And so my, my good friend, David Boggs gave me the recipe and, the
- 18:11story that I wrote about is how.
- 18:14When I had a really devastating knee injury in August of 2023, he made
- 18:20some and brought some over to my parents house just to cheer me up.
- 18:23Because literally the only thing I could do was sit in bed and feel sorry
- 18:27for myself forward the next meal.
- 18:30So,
- 18:30Sylvia Lovely: Yeah.
- 18:31Nancy May: you that's kind of it's kind of sad, but that's just one instance,
- 18:34I mean, I had other people bring me things to my parents house, but.
- 18:37You know, it was a hard time, but it also shows when there are hard
- 18:41times, your friends are there for you, so I mean, not that I love to
- 18:45reflect on my knee injury per se, but I'm kind of like, Oh, that was fun.
- 18:49I, the joy I got out of eating some meal
- 18:54Sylvia Lovely: that.
- 18:54Hey,
- 18:55Nancy: you know,
- 18:56Sylvia Lovely: it all started when you were trying to rescue one of your pups.
- 19:00Meredith Plant: I know, I hurt my knee running after a rescue puppy.
- 19:03So.
- 19:04Sylvia Lovely: Uh, by the way, Country Ham.
- 19:06Let's have that for a quick second here.
- 19:08Country Ham on Biscuits.
- 19:10And we were talking earlier about, was that a Kentucky
- 19:13phenomenon, a Southern phenomenon?
- 19:15And Nancy, it isn't in your world of growing up, is
- 19:19Nancy May: No, we didn't do ham or biscuits and gravy up north.
- 19:23It was like, Ooh, what is that stuff?
- 19:26I'm from New York and Massachusetts and, maybe there was, some kind of bread on the
- 19:32table, but it wasn't a biscuit and gravy.
- 19:34When I found out what gravy was, was flour and pork fat, I'm like, Oh my.
- 19:39God, what are they trying to do?
- 19:40They're going to kill me.
- 19:42Sylvia Lovely: But it's so good!
- 19:43Nancy May: Well, I'll eat a biscuit, but, uh, they're kind of calling belly
- 19:47bums because they're very good, but they really do sit with you for a while.
- 19:51Sylvia Lovely: Yeah, oh yeah.
- 19:52Nancy May: But I haven't gotten into the gravy yet.
- 19:54So something about that.
- 19:55we would call that chip beef on toast not S--t beef toast,
- 19:59Sylvia Lovely: I suppose no grits either.
- 20:01Sylvia: But I think that's a Southern phenomenon, or maybe it's Midwest.
- 20:04I don't know.
- 20:05Sylvia Lovely: Not Midwest, because I've traveled before, because I love biscuits
- 20:09and gravy, I just can't do it very often.
- 20:11Nancy May: my sister's in, Tulsa, Oklahoma.
- 20:13And, uh, when she first moved up out there, she put on a few pounds and she all
- 20:18of a sudden got a Midwest Southern accent.
- 20:21Biscuits and gravy.
- 20:22what's that?
- 20:23And she told me, it's oh, now I know why.
- 20:25Sylvia Lovely: Yeah, I mean it will add dimensions onto you.
- 20:30Meredith Plant: Somebody, somebody send me a good, gravy recipe for my book.
- 20:34I don't have one, so.
- 20:35Nancy May: So what's gravy recipe?
- 20:37Do you remember what is?
- 20:38Meredith Plant: I don't, I don't have one.
- 20:40So, Leah, do you have
- 20:40one?
- 20:41Meredith: Oh, oh, oh.
- 20:42Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 20:42Actually I do.
- 20:44Nancy: okay.
- 20:44Meredith: Yeah.
- 20:45You got
- 20:45it, baby.
- 20:45I'll, I'll send it to you.
- 20:47You, fix it, and then
- 20:50invite
- 20:50Meredith Plant: and then, I invite you, over and we'll fly Nancy in Kentucky.
- 20:55Nancy May: I will do that.
- 20:56Actually, another recipe, I haven't, I don't know the recipe,
- 20:59but it was something that I heard about, a while back.
- 21:02we were sort of like exploring the back roads of Florida.
- 21:05That's how you get to know a place, right?
- 21:06You drive
- 21:06around the nooks and crannies.
- 21:09And we had stopped and had lunch at this little no name diner
- 21:13and vegetables came with it.
- 21:15And I thought, okay, so, I like string beans.
- 21:17So they had the beans with the nuts on it.
- 21:21And they said, you're going to really love ours.
- 21:23It's a special kind of bean.
- 21:25It came out, the string beans, and they were gray.
- 21:27I'm like, I'm going to
- 21:28Sylvia Lovely: Gray.
- 21:29Nancy May: They were of Gray.
- 21:30And they said, Oh no, no, these are our specialty.
- 21:33I'm like, Okay.
- 21:34Sylvia Lovely: Oh,
- 21:35Nancy May: ate them.
- 21:35Oh my God, they were They were amazing.
- 21:38Gray, gray string beans.
- 21:40Now it's not totally gray, but it looks like your grandmother or your mom like
- 21:43cooked them to death in an aluminum pot.
- 21:45And, and I said, So what is it that you do?
- 21:49She said, We, we cook them in bacon grease.
- 21:52Damn, that's that bacon grease thing again, you know,
- 21:55so maybe
- 21:56I'm going to have
- 21:57to try the biscuits and gravy someday.
- 21:59Sylvia Lovely: Yeah.
- 22:00Yeah.
- 22:01Nancy May: So so Meredith, I've got one last sort of question for you.
- 22:04You have really adopted this as this book really as it sounds like a
- 22:09real go to when you need a little pick me up at the end of the day
- 22:13Which I love, and not to stroke my ego, but maybe stroke Sylvia's ego.
- 22:19But what is something you would say to somebody who might think, you know,
- 22:23I'm not going to write down recipes.
- 22:24I'll just go to an app on the computer and get it.
- 22:26Like, what would you, what
- 22:27Nancy: Sure.
- 22:28Yeah, well, so, I'm 40, and so a lot of people my age are,
- 22:33Parents to Human Children.
- 22:35I have cat children, so they don't, they don't care about the recipes in the book.
- 22:38Sylvia: They gotta
- 22:39eat too.
- 22:40Meredith Plant: know, they gotta eat too, but you know.
- 22:42So, uh, Parents of Human Children.
- 22:43I think that this book is, like, kind of a fun exercise that you can do together.
- 22:49you know, kids, what did I say?
- 22:50Kids say the darnedest things.
- 22:52You know, they, So being able to pick your child's brain out.
- 22:56Oh, I made this.
- 22:57What do you think about this?
- 22:58And recording their funny sayings or, or their stories, you know, doing
- 23:02together and, and not being in front of a screen, I think, would be really cool.
- 23:07Um, for people that are grandparents, I think that this is a fun exercise to do
- 23:12with your grandkids when they come over.
- 23:14I mentioned that my grandparents passed when I was very young, I would
- 23:18have given anything to have been able to do this with my grandparents,
- 23:22and to have their handwritten, like
- 23:25my gran and my mamaw's handwritten recipes.
- 23:27How you know, so I'm sentimental, so I'm really like, encourage grandparents
- 23:32to think about that because, you know, we don't live forever, so
- 23:36writing it down is important.
- 23:38But also for people that are, non cooks, whether they're single, married, have
- 23:43kids, don't have kids, do it for you.
- 23:46This is a fun thing to do unlock those childhood memories or teenage
- 23:51memories and just have it be a fun thing that you do for yourself.
- 23:55I might hand this book down to somebody someday.
- 23:58I don't know.
- 23:58I don't have anyone in mind yet.
- 24:00Not really care, because I'm doing it I might, I'll, I'll know
- 24:04someone someday, it's the act of remembering and storytelling and
- 24:08handwriting that just to me so much.
- 24:11And I think that people will really, as I found out myself,
- 24:15you'll be surprised how fun it is, even you don't cook all the time,
- 24:20Sylvia Lovely: Wonderful.
- 24:21You're an inspiration.
- 24:22Nancy May: as we say, every meal has a story and every story is a feast.
- 24:27And there's so many things that we can do, not just even if we're not
- 24:31cooks, but even sharing with friends who you might want to get together
- 24:35and say, Hey, let's get our books together and, and stories in the books.
- 24:39And you never know where the next one's going to come from.
- 24:42And it
- 24:42could delicious, or maybe it's maybe not so delicious, but
- 24:46there's a great story with it.
- 24:48Sylvia Lovely: I love that.
- 24:49Yeah.
- 24:50Sylvia: Well, thank you all for joining us here today.
- 24:52Sylvia, it's a delight to be a co host with you and getting
- 24:56to know you and your roots.
- 24:57And Meredith, thank you so much for sharing the stories that you put together
- 25:02for us and shared in the book on page 110.
- 25:05And if you have a story of your own, please just consider it.
- 25:09It's something not just for us to sell a book, but honestly, this is a treasure
- 25:14that I'm pretty sure you're going to enjoy and just love filling out.
- 25:19So on that note, take care, be well, eat up and ciao.
- 25:24Nancy May: Okay.
- 25:25We actually got this one recorded.