Latest / Murder Files Unsealed / The Black Widow of Lomita - Conspiracy to Kill
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Imagine a sixty year old grandmother. She's dressed in her pajamas,
- 0:05in a bathrobe, and she's lying dead in the entry
- 0:08way of her very quiet, suburban California home. Right there's
- 0:12a single gunshot wound to the back of her head.
- 0:15But you know, just a few feet away from her
- 0:17sits her purse. It's completely untouched.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Which is strange right off the bat exactly.
- 0:21Speaker 1: I mean, there's seventeen hundred dollars in cash plainly visible
- 0:25inside this purse. There are no broken windows, The heavy
- 0:29steel security gate at the front door is well, it's
- 0:32perfectly intact.
- 0:33Speaker 2: Yeah, so it definitely doesn't look like a break in.
- 0:35Speaker 1: No, not at all. It looks less like a burglary
- 0:37and way more like a highly coordinated assassination by someone
- 0:41she you know, willingly invited inside. But if you want
- 0:44to understand who pulled that trigger and why, you really
- 0:47can't just look at that crime scene in Lomita, California.
- 0:50Speaker 2: You really can't.
- 0:51Speaker 1: No, you have to rewind twenty years, you have to
- 0:53cross the Pacific Ocean, and you have to look at
- 0:56the string of dead husbands that she left in her wake.
- 0:59And I know, you know, if you're listening to this
- 1:01you love to unpack complex, multi layered stories, and this
- 1:05one is a masterclass in the destructive power of greed.
- 1:09Speaker 2: It really is the ultimate subversion of like the true
- 1:12crime tropes we are so used to seeing, because we're
- 1:15pulling our facts today from a massive, comprehensive report. It's
- 1:19titled the Lamita Black Widow, Greed, Betrayal and Retribution. Yeah,
- 1:24and it documents a case so sprawling it required investigations
- 1:28by Dateline NBC forty eight Hours Mystery, the FBI, and
- 1:32private investigator.
- 1:33Speaker 1: Right, multiple agencies exactly.
- 1:35Speaker 2: And what makes this case so uniquely terrifying isn't just
- 1:38the body count? Mean, it's the architecture of the crimes.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Yeah, the architecture. Because if you look at the surface
- 1:42of this two thousand and six case, which you know
- 1:44we are going to get to, you're probably asking yourself
- 1:47the same thing the FBI was.
- 1:48Speaker 2: Right, like, how does this happen?
- 1:49Speaker 1: Yeah? How does a local, hardworking hairdresser driving a corvette
- 1:56in the suburbs operate like some kind of international crime boss.
- 2:00I mean it feels like a Hollywood war film. It
- 2:03feels too scripted to be real.
- 2:04Speaker 2: It does. It sounds like fiction, but it's not so.
- 2:07Speaker 1: Today. For this deep dive, we are taking you deep
- 2:10into the gears of this saga. We aren't just looking
- 2:12at the timeline. We really want to understand the mechanisms,
- 2:16like how do international borders actually act as legal loopholes
- 2:20for murder, which is a huge part of this it is,
- 2:23And how does someone bypass fraud detection on a million
- 2:26dollar life insurance policy? And ultimately we're going to look
- 2:29at how an architect of violence gets destroyed by the
- 2:32very culture of greed she cultivated in her own family.
- 2:35Speaker 2: Yeah, to unpack those mechanisms, we actually have to start
- 2:37by looking at how the architect herself was built. Oh
- 2:41for sure, if you want to understand the Lamita Black Widow,
- 2:43you really have to move our focus entirely away from California.
- 2:47We need to go back to the nineteen sixties to
- 2:49the Philippines.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Right, because she obviously wasn't always Sonia Lio's riskt the
- 2:52wealthy salon owner.
- 2:53Speaker 2: No, not at all.
- 2:54Speaker 1: She was born Sonya Rios on Augunt fifteenth, nineteen forty six,
- 2:58to Maria Kahayon, and one took an and the context
- 3:02of where she grew up is just well, it's everything here,
- 3:04it really is. She was raised in profound poverty near
- 3:08Sangley Point, and Sangley.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Point is crucial to understand. At the time, it was
- 3:12a major US naval base, Okay, and we really need
- 3:15to look at what that does to a local economy
- 3:18and honestly the psychology of the people living on its fringes.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Right, the contrast there exactly.
- 3:24Speaker 2: Yeah, when you have an area of systemic generational deprivation
- 3:28sitting literally right next to a massive, well funded American
- 3:31military installation, it creates this very specific economic micro climate.
- 3:37Speaker 1: Wow.
- 3:37Speaker 2: Yeah, the base is basically an island of immense wealth.
- 3:40So for a young woman living in poverty in that era,
- 3:43American servicemen were not just you know people, well were
- 3:46they They were an economic resource. They represented a literal
- 3:49exit strategy.
- 3:50Speaker 1: I mean, that survivalist mindset is fascinating when you think
- 3:53about it. When your primary objective from day one is
- 3:55just like escaping poverty at any cost, your worldview shifts entirely.
- 4:00Speaker 2: Right, Relationships become purely transactional.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Exactly, And she found her exit. She immigrated to the
- 4:06United States in the nineteen sixties, and she eventually settles
- 4:10in Lamita, and the people who knew her back then
- 4:12they described her very specifically. Oh absolutely, they said she
- 4:16was petite, she's flamboyant, incredibly attractive. The sources specifically note
- 4:21she had lots and lots of black hair. Yeah, she
- 4:24stood out, she did, and she integrated herself completely into
- 4:28the military social circles in southern California. In fact, some
- 4:32people in those circles they actually referred to her as
- 4:34a Navy groupie, which.
- 4:36Speaker 2: You know, is a label that carries a ton of baggage.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Oh, for sure.
- 4:39Speaker 2: It implies someone who is purely a hanger on, like
- 4:42someone trying to socially climb just by attaching themselves to
- 4:46men with military salaries and pensions. It suggests this complete
- 4:50reliance on others for any kind of upward mobility.
- 4:53Speaker 1: Well, I actually kind of have to push back on
- 4:55that Navy groupy label a bit, just based on the
- 4:56source material we're looking at. Oh, how so, because it
- 4:59pains her as entirely dependent, right, and that's just not
- 5:03factually accurate. I mean, she didn't just ride someone's coatails
- 5:06to a comfortable life and sit back, that's true. She
- 5:08actually went to beauty school. She launched her own business,
- 5:11Sonya's Artistic Hair Center. Right, she owned that salon outright,
- 5:15She managed all the finances, she built a really loyal clientele,
- 5:20and she bought herself a flashy corvette.
- 5:22Speaker 2: Yeah that's not exactly passive.
- 5:24Speaker 1: No, that requires an incredible amount of grit, drive and
- 5:29just independent ambition. So how do we reconcile that dependent
- 5:33groupie label with someone who is clearly a self made entrepreneur.
- 5:37Speaker 2: You're hitting on the exact dichotomy that makes her psychological
- 5:40profile so dangerous, honestly, really, yeah, you're absolutely right, she
- 5:44had immense cret but we shouldn't confuse entrepreneurial drive with
- 5:48a healthy psychological state.
- 5:50Speaker 1: Oh okay, I see what you mean.
- 5:52Speaker 2: Right. What we see in Sonya is someone who was deeply,
- 5:54deeply traumatized by that early poverty we talked about, and
- 5:57that trauma manifested as this pathological need for total.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Control, control over everything.
- 6:02Speaker 2: Exactly. She built a successful business because she needed financial control.
- 6:06But she applied that exact same ruthless, calculating logic to
- 6:10her personal relationships too, So she treated people like a business. Essentially. Yes,
- 6:15she could be this charming, hard working beautician to her clients,
- 6:19but behind closed doors, she viewed the people in her
- 6:22life as assets, assets to be managed, leveraged, and ultimately
- 6:27liquidated if they threatened her security in any way.
- 6:30Speaker 1: Wow, it's like looking at a corporate structure applied to
- 6:33a family unit. It really is, which I guess brings
- 6:36us to her first marriage, the very first time we
- 6:39see this blueprint put into action. It's the mid nineteen
- 6:42sixties and she marries a US marine from Davenport, Iowa,
- 6:46and Earl Duke Bordeaux Duke.
- 6:49Speaker 2: They met during his overseas tour in the Philippines. Okay,
- 6:52and linking back to your earlier point about her ambition,
- 6:54Earl was actually instrumental in that he worked two jobs
- 6:57simultaneously to financially support her while she was going through
- 7:00her beautician training.
- 7:01Speaker 1: Wow. Two jobs, yeah.
- 7:04Speaker 2: Just to help her get her business off the ground.
- 7:06They settled down and around nineteen sixty three they adopted
- 7:10a son from the Philippines, John Bordeaux. Right.
- 7:13Speaker 1: So, on paper, it really looks like the American dream,
- 7:16doesn't it, The classic immigrant success story totally. But the
- 7:20sources note that almost immediately Sonya established this pattern of
- 7:24intense secrecy like she would not talk about her.
- 7:27Speaker 2: Past at all, which is a red flag.
- 7:29Speaker 1: A huge one. She heavily guarded details about her relatives
- 7:33back in the Philippines, and the marriage, which somehow lasted
- 7:37twenty one years, by the way, was described as incredibly volatile.
- 7:40Speaker 2: Twenty one years of that.
- 7:41Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean she had an explosive temper and was
- 7:44reportedly cheating on Earl for years.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Well, she was establishing the baseline of her control. Oh
- 7:49so think about it. By keeping her past the secret,
- 7:52she controls the narrative. He only knows what she allows
- 7:55him to know. And by keeping Earl off balance with
- 7:58her temper, she controls the emotional climate of the house.
- 8:02He's always walking on eggshells.
- 8:04Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense. But eventually, after two
- 8:06decades of this, Earl just hits his limit. Understandably, right,
- 8:10it's the nineteen eighties and he wants a divorce. Now,
- 8:13usually a divorce is just a financial negotiation, right, Lawyers
- 8:17dividing assets, that kind of thing, sure, normally, but Sonya
- 8:20doesn't just hire a lawyer. She sets a highly specific,
- 8:24honestly bizarre condition for the divorce.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Yeah, this is where it gets dark.
- 8:28Speaker 1: She tells Earl that she will agree to it, but
- 8:30only if he travels back to the Philippines completely alone
- 8:33to handle the sale of a family taxi business.
- 8:36Speaker 2: We really need to dissect the mechanics of this trap,
- 8:40because this right here, this is the blueprint for everything
- 8:43that follows. It's the origin point exactly. Think about the
- 8:46concept of geographical isolation versus social isolation. Like abusers often
- 8:51isolate their victims socially, right, cutting them off from friends
- 8:54and family right, Very common. But Sonya takes it a
- 8:57massive step further. She leverages Earl's desperation for a divorce
- 9:01to enforce geographical isolation.
- 9:04Speaker 1: Wow, she is.
- 9:05Speaker 2: Intentionally luring him out of his home country, far away
- 9:08from the protection of the US legal system, and she's
- 9:11sending him into a jurisdiction where she holds literally all.
- 9:15Speaker 1: The cards because she knows the area, she.
- 9:17Speaker 2: Knows the local landscape, she has her family members deeply
- 9:20embedded there, and crucially, she understands the vulnerabilities of the
- 9:24local law.
- 9:25Speaker 1: Enforcement and Earl, who probably just wants this whole twenty
- 9:29one year deal to be over with. He reluctantly agrees he.
- 9:31Speaker 2: Just wants out.
- 9:32Speaker 1: He does so, he flies to the Philippines, and on
- 9:35August fifteenth, nineteen eighty seven, while he is sleeping on
- 9:39a couch in the living room of Sonya's relatives home,
- 9:42he has shot point blank in the head.
- 9:44Speaker 2: It's a sudden, catastrophic execution.
- 9:47Speaker 1: It is. But let's look at the staging of it,
- 9:49because this is wild. The local police they report it
- 9:53as a robbery, right yet there's absolutely no sign of
- 9:56forced entry into the house and nothing, literally nothing of
- 10:00the value is taken from Earl or the property.
- 10:02Speaker 2: Because the staging is incredibly sloppy, and honestly, that tells
- 10:06us something about her confidence in the local system. You think, so, oh, definitely,
- 10:10if you were actually staging a robbery, you take the wallet,
- 10:14you take the watch, you mess.
- 10:15Speaker 1: The place up right, you make it look real exactly.
- 10:18Speaker 2: The fact that the killer didn't even bother to make
- 10:20it look convincing strongly suggests they knew they wouldn't face
- 10:24any rigorous scrutiny. They didn't care.
- 10:27Speaker 1: That's chilling. But wait, I want to pause on the
- 10:29date of the murder for a second, because this is
- 10:31the detail that just stops you in your tracks when
- 10:33you read it. It really is August fifteenth, nineteen eighty seven.
- 10:37That was Sonya's forty first birthday.
- 10:39Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a staggering psychological indicator, right, I.
- 10:43Speaker 1: Mean, orchestrating the murder of the man who worked two
- 10:46jobs to fund your career is cold enough, yeah, But
- 10:49to have it executed on your actual birthday, that doesn't
- 10:52feel like a practical financial decision anymore. That feels like
- 10:55a sociopathic trophy. It's almost theatrical.
- 10:58Speaker 2: It speaks to a very malign narcissism, like it's not
- 11:01just about eliminating a problem for her, it's about asserting
- 11:05absolute dominance. She's treating the end of a human life
- 11:09as a literal personal gift to herself. Oh wow, And
- 11:13if we look at the immediate aftermath, we see exactly
- 11:16why she chose the Philippines for this, because initially the
- 11:19local police actually did their job.
- 11:21Speaker 1: They did.
- 11:22Speaker 2: Yeah, they arrested five suspects, and two of those suspects
- 11:26were Sonya's own brothers or her brother her own brothers.
- 11:30They even found blood on one of the relative's shirts,
- 11:32so they.
- 11:33Speaker 1: Had them dead to rights. I mean, that's open and shut.
- 11:35Speaker 2: They really did. But then almost overnight the charges are
- 11:39completely dropped. It's gone, just gone. The suspects are released,
- 11:43and the source material details these persistent rumors that a
- 11:46payoff was made to local authorities.
- 11:48Speaker 1: Okay, and how much are we talking?
- 11:50Speaker 2: The amount rumored? Just one thousand dollars?
- 11:52Speaker 1: Wait, one thousand dollars to make a murder charge against
- 11:56five people just disappear. That's insane, It's hard.
- 11:58Speaker 2: To believe, but that's what the sources indicate.
- 12:01Speaker 1: Well, wait, Earle was a US citizen, he was a marine. Right,
- 12:05Why didn't the FBI or the US State Department just
- 12:07kick the doors down and take over the investigation, because
- 12:10you know, you hear about the FBI operating overseas all
- 12:13the time in movies and stuff.
- 12:14Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a really common misconception about international law,
- 12:18and it's actually the exact loophole Sonya was exploiting here.
- 12:22Speaker 1: Really explain that.
- 12:23Speaker 2: So the concept is called jurisdictional sovereign.
- 12:25Speaker 1: Jurisdictional sovereign to you, okay.
- 12:27Speaker 2: Right, the FBI has absolutely no authority to unilaterally investigate
- 12:32a crime on foreign soil. They just can't do it.
- 12:34Speaker 1: Oh wow, I didn't realize it was that strict.
- 12:37Speaker 2: It is. They cannot conduct interviews, they can't gather evidence
- 12:40or make arrests in the Philippines without the explicit invitation
- 12:44and cooperation of the Philippine government.
- 12:45Speaker 1: So if the locals say no, if the.
- 12:48Speaker 2: Local Philippine police officially close the case, like say, ruling
- 12:52it a random unsolved robbery, the US authorities have no
- 12:57legal mechanism to override that. They are completely stonewalled.
- 13:01Speaker 1: That is terrifying.
- 13:02Speaker 2: It is international Borders Act as this incredible legal arbitrage
- 13:06for criminals who know how to navigate that differential in accountability.
- 13:11She knew the US.
- 13:12Speaker 1: Couldn't touch her there, so she just weaponized the border.
- 13:14And meanwhile, Earl's family back in Iowa is completely paralyzed
- 13:17by this.
- 13:18Speaker 2: They had no recourse none.
- 13:19Speaker 1: His brother Dennis Bordeaux was quoted saying, my brother was
- 13:23lying on a couch and they shot my brother on
- 13:25the head. Sonya set my brother up. Evil, just evil,
- 13:29But Dennis couldn't do anything about it. And Sonia she
- 13:33collects the life insurance payouts tens of thousands of dollars.
- 13:37Speaker 2: And we should talk about the mechanism of that insurance
- 13:39payout too, because that is also highly calculated on her part.
- 13:42How So think about it. In nineteen eighty seven. How
- 13:46does a life insurance company verify a death overseas?
- 13:49Speaker 1: I mean, they didn't have the Internet like we do now.
- 13:52Speaker 2: Exactly, there is no global digitized database. Sonya would have
- 13:56needed a consular mortuary certificate and local death CERTIFICU right,
- 14:01And since we know she likely had influence over the
- 14:03local authorities given that the charges against her brothers were dropped,
- 14:07obtaining official looking stamp documents stating her husband died in
- 14:11a random robbery would have been relatively easy for her.
- 14:14Speaker 1: Just a little more bribe money, maybe, probably.
- 14:17Speaker 2: So she submits that paperwork to the US insurers, and
- 14:20because the official local stance is unsolved robbery, the insurance
- 14:24company has absolutely no grounds to deny the claim.
- 14:27Speaker 1: So to ensure Earle's family couldn't conduct their own autopsy
- 14:31or look too closely into it, Earle is secretly buried
- 14:34in the Philippines.
- 14:35Speaker 2: Yeah, she doesn't even bring him back.
- 14:36Speaker 1: She doesn't bring his body back. She just returns to Lamita, California,
- 14:40completely alone. She goes back to cutting hair at her salon,
- 14:44driving her corvette and living this completely normal suburban life,
- 14:48just flush with new cash.
- 14:50Speaker 2: And she got away with it. The case when entirely cold.
- 14:52She maintained her facade even as you know, whispers started
- 14:56circulating in her social circles.
- 14:58Speaker 1: Right, people talk in the history of true crime. If
- 15:01someone manages to pull off what is essentially the perfect crime,
- 15:05like exploiting international legal loopholes to get away with murder
- 15:10and collect a massive insurance payout, they usually stop.
- 15:13Speaker 2: He usually is right.
- 15:14Speaker 1: They realize how unbelievably lucky they got. They count their winnings,
- 15:18and they never ever risk it again.
- 15:20Speaker 2: That's the logical thing to do.
- 15:21Speaker 1: But Sonya didn't, which brings us to husband number two,
- 15:24and honestly, the terrifying arrogance of repetition.
- 15:28Speaker 2: It really is the arrogance of a successful sociopath. In
- 15:31nineteen ninety so, just three years after Earl's murder, she
- 15:34marries again. Three years yep, this time to Lawn Ricker Riskins, Jr.
- 15:39Speaker 1: And if you look at Larry's profile, it is just heartbreaking,
- 15:43it really is. He was a rising Navy commander from
- 15:45Washington State. He had listed when he was twenty just
- 15:48this all American patriot, universally described as a deep, kind
- 15:54good man.
- 15:55Speaker 2: Yea.
- 15:55Speaker 1: He meets this vivacious, wealthy salon owner, and he just
- 15:59falls completely in love. They actually have three separate wedding
- 16:03ceremonies three three. But here's the massive red flag. Sonia
- 16:07strictly and aggressively excludes Larry's family from all three ceremonies,
- 16:12all of them. All of them. She tells Larry point
- 16:14blank that his family isn't welcome, which.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Goes back to what we were saying earlier. We talked
- 16:18about geographical isolation with Earl, but here we see the
- 16:22aggressive implementation of social isolation, right from the.
- 16:26Speaker 1: Very beginning, before they're even really settled in exactly.
- 16:29Speaker 2: She is systematically severing his ties to his support network.
- 16:33By cutting Larry off from his family, she makes herself
- 16:35the sole arbiter of his reality.
- 16:37Speaker 1: Oh that's a good way to put it right.
- 16:39Speaker 2: If he starts questioning her behavior, he has no external
- 16:42sounding board to tell him, you know, yes, this is crazy.
- 16:46You aren't imagining things.
- 16:48Speaker 1: And Larry really seems like a guy who just wanted
- 16:50a quiet, happy life. I mean, he leaves the Navy
- 16:53in nineteen ninety five and he transitions to civilian life
- 16:56as a special education teacher at Londale High School.
- 16:59Speaker 2: Which says a lot about his character.
- 17:01Speaker 1: It does. His students love him. He's known for his
- 17:04patients and his sense of humor, and he really wants
- 17:07a family. So he and Sonya begin the process of
- 17:10adopting two of Sonya's young relatives from the Philippines Okay,
- 17:14a niece named Quinsy and a nephew named jet Mark,
- 17:17and Larry's thrilled about this. He throws himself into the role.
- 17:21He wants to be called Papa oh Man. But the
- 17:23sources revealed that Sonya spent years intentionally sabotaging the adoption.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Paperwork, which is just a brutal form of emotional extortion.
- 17:33Speaker 1: Why do you think she did that, Well.
- 17:34Speaker 2: She's dangling the very thing he wants most, a family,
- 17:36right in front of him, but she controls the bureaucracy,
- 17:39so she never lets him actually secure it.
- 17:41Speaker 1: It's keeping it out of reach exactly.
- 17:43Speaker 2: It keeps him desperate, compliant, and constantly trying to please
- 17:47her just to move the process forward. It's all about leverage.
- 17:51Speaker 1: But even a patient man has limits, right. The abuse
- 17:54from Sonya escalates, Larry begins an affair with a colleague,
- 17:58Eileen Stevens, and he finally asks Sonya.
- 18:00Speaker 2: For a divorce just like Earl.
- 18:02Speaker 1: Just like Earl and Sonya goes scorched earth. She starts
- 18:05calling his school, spreading rumor is that this beloved special
- 18:09education teacher is involved in drugs and domestic abuse. Wow,
- 18:14she is actively trying to destroy his career and his reputation.
- 18:18But then, just like with Earle, she suddenly agrees to
- 18:21the divorce on one condition.
- 18:23Speaker 2: I mean, guess it's the exact same condition.
- 18:25Speaker 1: It's the exact same condition. A solo trip to the
- 18:27Philippines nineteen years later. Nineteen years later, and she uses
- 18:30the exact same script. This time, the pretext isn't a
- 18:34taxi business though. She tells Larry he needs to go
- 18:37to the Philippines to organize and attend Quincy's sweet sixteen
- 18:40birthday party.
- 18:41Speaker 2: We really have to analyze the psychology of this repetition.
- 18:44We're talking about nearly two decades between the murders of
- 18:47Earl and Larry, a long time, a very long time.
- 18:50In the criminal world, methodologies usually evolve. People learn from
- 18:54mistakes or they adapt to new technologies.
- 18:56Speaker 1: Why they get smarter.
- 18:57Speaker 2: But she relies on the exact same legal in geographical arbitrage.
- 19:02She isolates him, She uses an international trip as bait
- 19:05regarding a family member he cares deeply about, and he
- 19:08sets him up in her territory.
- 19:10Speaker 1: It's copy paste.
- 19:11Speaker 2: It is why change the blueprint when you are absolutely
- 19:14convinced the system hasn't changed. It's the psychology of total impunity.
- 19:19She thinks she's untouchable.
- 19:20Speaker 1: So it's April eighteenth, two thousand and six. Larry flies
- 19:24to the Philippines. He organizes the Sweet sixteen party for Quinsy,
- 19:29and later that evening he volunteers to take Quincy's cousin
- 19:32April to a local hospital because she has an eye
- 19:34infection and jet mark. The young nephew Larry so desperately
- 19:38wanted to adopt, is riding in the backseat of the jeep.
- 19:41Speaker 2: He's right there in the car.
- 19:42Speaker 1: He's right there. Larry parks in the dark hospital parking lot,
- 19:45and suddenly a man on a motorcycle pulls up next
- 19:48to the vehicle. Two shots are fired in rapid succession.
- 19:51Larry is hitting the head and the stomach. It's a precise,
- 19:55professional execution that takes seconds, and just like with Earle,
- 19:59nothing of the you was stolen.
- 20:01Speaker 2: A targeted assassination, but this time there's a glaring difference
- 20:05that speaks to how truly callous Sonya had become.
- 20:08Speaker 1: Yes, the kids. This is what I genuinely cannot wrap
- 20:10my head around when I read this. Jet Mark was
- 20:13right there in the back seat, April was in the
- 20:14car right Why risk involving them? Was she losing her
- 20:19grip on the logistical details? Or did she just not
- 20:22care about the severe collateral trauma to the children she
- 20:25was supposedly raising.
- 20:26Speaker 2: It is almost certainly the latter, and it really reveals
- 20:29the depth of her pathology. You think she just didn't
- 20:31care to Sonia, those children were not people to be protected.
- 20:36They were props in her play.
- 20:38Speaker 1: Wow, props.
- 20:39Speaker 2: They were the bait used to lure Larry to the hospital.
- 20:42When you view humans purely as tools for leverage, their
- 20:45psychological trauma is completely irrelevant to your objective.
- 20:49Speaker 1: That's horrifying. And we know this is true based on
- 20:51her reaction. Jet Mark, who just watched the man who
- 20:54wanted to be his father get executed, calls Sonya from
- 20:57the scene in a complete panic, and so his response
- 21:00over the phone is chilling. She doesn't scream, she doesn't
- 21:04ask if Larry's alive. She says in a flat, calm voice, jet,
- 21:08don't worry. Everything is under control. Nothing to worry about.
- 21:12Speaker 2: Everything is under control. It's an incredible admission, really it is.
- 21:15She isn't reacting to a tragedy. She is managing an operation.
- 21:18Speaker 1: And immediately after that call, she picks up the phone,
- 21:22calls Larry's sister, Sherry Jackson in the US, and simply says,
- 21:26my husband, my husband is dead, and she hangs up.
- 21:30Speaker 2: It's cold, ice cold.
- 21:32Speaker 1: The contrast between Larry, this kind teacher who just wanted
- 21:36a family, in Sonya's administrative handling of his murder is horrifying.
- 21:40And the motive we talked about tens of thousands with
- 21:43her all this time. There's over one million dollars in
- 21:45life insurance at stake, with Sonya as the sole beneficiary.
- 21:49Speaker 2: But here's where Sonya's arrogance really blinded her. She assumed
- 21:53that two thousand and six would play out exactly like
- 21:55nineteen eighty seven, right, but the world had drastically changed
- 21:58and the systems of accountability he had evolved. This is
- 22:01where the web finally begins to tighten around her.
- 22:04Speaker 1: Right in nineteen eighty seven, Earl's family had no recourse.
- 22:08They were a family in Iowa dealing with a black
- 22:10box in the Philippines exactly. But in two thousand and six,
- 22:13information moves instantly. The risk And family doesn't just sit
- 22:16back and mourn. They immediately suspect foul play and they
- 22:20take action. They hire a highly competent private investigator named
- 22:25bong Oteza.
- 22:26Speaker 2: And Otza's involvement is the first major mechanism of her undoing.
- 22:31Speaker 1: Really tell me about that.
- 22:32Speaker 2: Well, think about it. How does a private investigator prove
- 22:35insurance fraud on foreign soil when the local police might
- 22:39be compromised.
- 22:40Speaker 1: That's a good question.
- 22:41Speaker 2: He doesn't rely on the official police reports. He bypasses
- 22:44the local corruption entirely by conducting his own forensic analysis
- 22:48of the circumstances.
- 22:49Speaker 1: He goes around them exactly.
- 22:50Speaker 2: He interviews witnesses at the hospital independently. He looks at
- 22:53the ballistics trajectory himself. He cuts through the noise and
- 22:57quickly produces a report concluding this was not a random
- 23:00street crime. It was a highly coordinated hit by a
- 23:04hired assassin.
- 23:05Speaker 1: And the Riskin family takes Otez's report and they use
- 23:08it as a weapon. They don't just go to the police.
- 23:10They go directly to the life insurance companies, which is brilliant.
- 23:14It is they formally alert the insurers that the beneficiary
- 23:19is the prime suspect in a murder for higher investigation.
- 23:22Speaker 2: Which triggers an immediate administrative freeze on the payouts. We
- 23:26have to understand how critical this is. By freezing the assets,
- 23:30the risk and family successfully choked off the entire motive
- 23:34of the crime. Ooh right, Sonia murdered Larry for a
- 23:37million dollars. She now literally cannot touch it traps her.
- 23:41Speaker 1: And it isn't just the private investigator turning up the heat.
- 23:44The media gets involved, which creates this intense pressure cooker environment.
- 23:48A tenacious reporter for the Daily Breeze, Larry Altman, starts
- 23:52digging into the two thousand and six.
- 23:54Speaker 2: Murder investigative journalism at its finest.
- 23:56Speaker 1: Absolutely, and through his reporting, he connects with Dennis Bordeaux,
- 23:59or ARL's brother from the nineteen eighty seven case. Altman
- 24:03starts looking at the files side by side.
- 24:05Speaker 2: And the similarities are just too glaring for any law
- 24:07enforcement agency to ignore anymore.
- 24:09Speaker 1: I mean, how could they exactly?
- 24:11Speaker 2: You have two American men, both married to the exact
- 24:14same woman, both shot in the head, both murdered while
- 24:17in the Philippines, both alone with Sonya's family, both trips
- 24:21specifically demanded by Sonya, and both involving massive insurance payouts.
- 24:25Speaker 1: It's impossible to ignore, so the journalism forces the government's hand.
- 24:30The FBI officially opens a conspiracy investigation, and the media
- 24:34gives her the moniker that would define the rest of
- 24:36her life. The Lamita Black Widow. Imagine the psychological toll
- 24:40that takes on someone who has spent forty years meticulously
- 24:44controlling her image. She is fifty nine years old. She
- 24:47is still trying to run her artistic hair center in Lamita,
- 24:50but reporters are calling. The FBI is watching.
- 24:53Speaker 2: She's losing control completely.
- 24:55Speaker 1: She's claiming her phones are tapped. She's telling people she's
- 24:57the victim of a massive harassment campaign. The wall are
- 25:00closing in rapidly.
- 25:01Speaker 2: This raises a fascinating behavioral question. What happens to a
- 25:05master manipulator when they completely lose control of the narrative?
- 25:08In the money they packed right, Sonya was used to
- 25:10pulling strings in the dark, leveraging her family in the
- 25:13Philippines to do the dirty work. Now she is under
- 25:17a glaring spotlight in the United States. She is cornered, and.
- 25:20Speaker 1: That tension snaps. On April nineteenth, two thousand and seven,
- 25:23it is almost exactly one year to the day after
- 25:26Larry Riskin was murdered.
- 25:28Speaker 2: Wow the timing.
- 25:29Speaker 1: Yeah. Sonia is working inside her salon in Lomita. Suddenly,
- 25:34a young Latino man with a military style haircut bursts
- 25:38through the door. He pulls out a handgun, points it
- 25:41at her, and fires a single shot.
- 25:43Speaker 2: A single shot, but he misses.
- 25:45Speaker 1: As he runs out the door, he shouts, I'll be.
- 25:47Speaker 2: Back, a literal warning shot.
- 25:50Speaker 1: It is straight out of mob movie. The assassin leaves
- 25:53a calling card. But what is truly baffling is Sonia's
- 25:56reaction to this. The Sheriff's deputies arrive and she completely
- 26:00unplays the incident.
- 26:00Speaker 2: It downplays.
- 26:01Speaker 1: She claims she has absolutely no idea who the shooter
- 26:03was or why they would target her. I mean, why
- 26:05on earth would you downplay an attempted assassination. If you
- 26:08are an innocent victim, you beg for police protection, you'd
- 26:11think so. Did she genuinely not know or did she
- 26:14recognize the threat and think you know I'm the boss,
- 26:18I handle things privately. I don't need the cops.
- 26:21Speaker 2: It's almost certainly the latter, driven by her pathological narcissism. Remember,
- 26:26her entire identity from the time she left Sangley Point
- 26:29was built on the belief that she could manage, manipulate,
- 26:33and outsmart absolutely anyone.
- 26:36Speaker 1: She thought she was untouchable.
- 26:37Speaker 2: Exactly admitting to the police that she was terrified or
- 26:40accepting protective custody would be a complete admission of defeat.
- 26:45She likely recognized the shooter, or at least the faction
- 26:47he represented, and believed she could negotiate, bribe, or manipulate
- 26:51her way out of it, just as she had done
- 26:53with every other crisis in her life.
- 26:55Speaker 1: But that assumption of control was her fatal miscalculation, because
- 26:59exactly one week later, the story flips on its head
- 27:02in a way that is dripping with macab irony.
- 27:04Speaker 2: The architect of the violence becomes the victim of it.
- 27:06Speaker 1: April twenty sixth, two thousand and seven, Sonya Rios Riskin,
- 27:10sixty years old, is found dead in the entryway of
- 27:13her Lamita home. She was shot once in the back
- 27:16of the head. She's found the next morning by her
- 27:18adopted son John Bordeaux, and she is wearing her pajamas
- 27:22and a bathrobe.
- 27:23Speaker 2: Let's analyze the forensics of this crime scene because it
- 27:25tells the story of profound betrayal.
- 27:27Speaker 1: Okay, let's break it down.
- 27:29Speaker 2: We noted earlier there's absolutely no sign of force entry.
- 27:33The home was heavily secured with a steel gate and
- 27:35a security camera system. Everything was intact.
- 27:38Speaker 1: Meaning she had to have recognized the person at the door,
- 27:41disabled the security and willingly let them inside.
- 27:44Speaker 2: Precisely, and the motive clearly wasn't a standard home invasion.
- 27:47Her purse containing seventeen hundred dollars in cash was sitting
- 27:51right there in the open, completely untouched.
- 27:53Speaker 1: Untouched.
- 27:54Speaker 2: However, investigators noted that Sonya's own personal nine millimeter handgun
- 27:59was missing from the red.
- 28:00Speaker 1: The irony is just suffocating. The suspected black widow, a
- 28:05woman who spent decades allegedly orchestrating the execution of her
- 28:09husband's through staged robberies by trusted family members overseas, suffers
- 28:13the exact same fate in her own hallway.
- 28:16Speaker 2: It really is unbelievable.
- 28:18Speaker 1: A precise execution, no theft of the obvious cash and
- 28:22The lack of forced entry indicates the killer used intimacy
- 28:26and trust to get close to her, the exact same
- 28:29weapons she weaponized against Dupe and Larry.
- 28:31Speaker 2: It's a closed loop of violence. But the immediate question
- 28:34for law enforcement was, well, who closed the loop?
- 28:37Speaker 1: Right? I mean, if you are reading the newspapers in
- 28:39two thousand and seven, everyone must have assumed this was
- 28:42a revenge killing by Larry Riskin's family.
- 28:44Speaker 2: It's the first thing you'd think.
- 28:45Speaker 1: You have Larry's sister Sherry and his father, Law Riskins Senior,
- 28:49who have been stonewalled by the insurance companies and the
- 28:52international courts. It seems like the most obvious movie plot conclusion,
- 28:56the grieving family hires a hit man to take out
- 28:59the black Way.
- 29:00Speaker 2: It's the most intuitive theory, but we have to dispel
- 29:03it immediately. The lead investigator on the homicide, Detective Mike Rodriguez,
- 29:09obviously looked hard at that angle.
- 29:10Speaker 1: I'm sure he did, but.
- 29:12Speaker 2: Through alibis, phone records, and financial audits, he very quickly
- 29:16and definitively ruled out Sherry Jackson, Law Riskin Senior, and
- 29:21the entire Riskin family.
- 29:22Speaker 1: They had nothing to do with it.
- 29:23Speaker 2: They're entirely innocent. They had nothing to do with.
- 29:25Speaker 1: Her death, which meant Detective Rodriguez had to pivot the
- 29:28lens away from Sonya's victims and shine a bright light
- 29:32directly into Sonya's own inner circle.
- 29:34Speaker 2: And what he uncovered there was a truth much darker
- 29:38and far more cynical than a simple revenge plot. Oh yeah,
- 29:41this wasn't about vigilante justice for Larry Riskin. It was
- 29:44about the very thing that defined Sony's entire existence.
- 29:47Speaker 1: Money, pure unadulterated greed, which brings us to the digital
- 29:51trail of extortion and the nephews.
- 29:54Speaker 2: The suspects are identified relatively quickly. The first is Eric
- 29:57Santander Delacruz. He's twenty nine years old and he is
- 30:01Sonya's grand nephew. Sonya actually helped raise him. He called
- 30:03her Grandma. The second suspect is his friend and shipmate,
- 30:07a twenty five year old named Fernando Romero.
- 30:10Speaker 1: Both of these men are active duty Navy sailors, and
- 30:13they aren't just stationed at a desk somewhere. They are
- 30:15assigned to the USS Ronald Reagan, a nuclear powered aircraft carrier.
- 30:20Speaker 2: Which is a huge detail.
- 30:22Speaker 1: It is and Romero. He perfectly matches the physical description
- 30:26of the young Latino man with the military style haircut
- 30:29who fired the warning shot into Sonya's salong a week prior.
- 30:32Speaker 2: When you look at the motive here, it is a stark,
- 30:35distorted reflection of Sonya's own crimes, but executed with absolutely
- 30:40None of her patients are cunning. They were sloppy, incredibly
- 30:43Delacruz didn't want to wait for Sonia to die of
- 30:45natural causes. He wanted his inheritance, and he wanted it immediately.
- 30:49It was an inheritance acceleration scheme.
- 30:51Speaker 1: But the way he goes about trying to get money
- 30:53before the murder is just staggering. It's sociopathic, but it's
- 30:57also incredibly inept oh Completely months before Sonya was killed
- 31:01in late two thousand and six, Dela Cruz initiates this bizarre,
- 31:05torturous extortion campaign against Larry Riskin's grieving family.
- 31:09Speaker 2: Yet this part is hard to read.
- 31:11Speaker 1: It is he sets up a fake email account and
- 31:13poses as Sonya's son, Jis Bordeaux. He reaches out to
- 31:17Larry's sister, Sherry Jackson. He knows that Larry's ashes are
- 31:21still stuck in the Philippines, and he knows how much
- 31:23agonizing pain that is causing the Riskin family, so he
- 31:28offers to leverage his connections in the Philippines to retrieve
- 31:31the ashes for a price.
- 31:33Speaker 2: He is literally holding the remains of a murdered man
- 31:36hostage for cash, yes, and the demands escalate rapidly. He
- 31:41starts by asking for thirty five thousand dollars and eventually
- 31:44the demands balloon to two hundred and fifty thousand dollars
- 31:47chameleon exactly. He instructs the family to deposit the funds
- 31:50into a bank account that investigators later linked directly to
- 31:53his girlfriend.
- 31:54Speaker 1: But it gets so much worse in these emails, while
- 31:57he is extorting them for the ashes, he brazenly offered
- 32:00to organize a hit on Sonya in writing I have
- 32:02the exact quote from the court documents here. He writes
- 32:05to Sherry, I have a friend in la and he
- 32:08can find a way to kill Sonya Rios Riskin. All
- 32:11you need is your permission. You don't have to pay
- 32:13him right now. He will kill her first and then
- 32:15you can pay him later.
- 32:17Speaker 2: Let's talk about the mechanisms of digital forensics here, because
- 32:20this is where Delacruz's sheer incompetence seals his fate. Please
- 32:24do we discussed how Sonya operated in the shadows in
- 32:27the nineteen eighties, relying on cash payoffs and lack of
- 32:30international communication to hide her crimes. Delacruz operating in two
- 32:35thousand and six leaves a digital footprint the size of
- 32:38a crater.
- 32:39Speaker 1: But wait, how does a twenty nine year old Navy
- 32:41sailor think he can extort a US family and solicit
- 32:44a murder using an email address without realizing he can
- 32:47be tracked. What was his technical blind spot there?
- 32:50Speaker 2: It's a combination of technological ignorance and immense arrogance. He
- 32:55likely thought that by using a free, generic email service
- 32:58like Yahoo or hot Mail and a fake name, he
- 33:00was totally anonymous.
- 33:01Speaker 1: Like it couldn't be traced back right.
- 33:03Speaker 2: What he didn't understand is how military networks actually operate.
- 33:07All Internet traffic on a US Navy vessel is routed
- 33:10through specific satellite nodes back to Department of Defense servers.
- 33:14Oh man, Yeah, So when investigators subpoenaed the email provider
- 33:18for the IP address attached to those extortion emails, the
- 33:21provider handed over an IP the detectors ran that IP
- 33:25and it didn't point to a local coffee shop.
- 33:28Speaker 1: Where did it point.
- 33:29Speaker 2: It pointed directly to the Department of Defense and specifically
- 33:32to the USS Ronald Reagan.
- 33:34Speaker 1: That is amazing.
- 33:35Speaker 2: From there, Naval Criminal Investigative Service NCIS can easily match
- 33:39the exact log in time of those emails to Delacruz's
- 33:42shifts or his specific terminal access. He essentially sent murder
- 33:46for higher solicitations from one of the most heavily monitored
- 33:49networks on the planet.
- 33:50Speaker 1: It's just unbelievable stupidity, and the irony compounds because after
- 33:53Dela Cruz and Romero actually follow through, go to the
- 33:56house and murder Sonya, what is the very first thing
- 33:59Delacruz die?
- 34:00Speaker 2: He asks for the money.
- 34:01Speaker 1: He contacts Sonya's a state attorney to ask about the inheritance.
- 34:05He thinks he's about to walk away with millions, and
- 34:07the attorney informs him that because Sonya never actually drafted
- 34:10a will, the entire estate defaults to her legally adopted son,
- 34:14John Bordeaux. Delacruz gets absolutely nothing zero.
- 34:18Speaker 2: His entire brutal, convoluted scheme was built on a legally
- 34:22illiterate assumption completely he executed the woman who raised him
- 34:26for an inheritance he wasn't even legally entitled to receive
- 34:30in the absence of a will.
- 34:31Speaker 1: So, realizing he just committed murder for free, what does
- 34:34he do? He pivots right back to extorting the traumatized
- 34:38riskin family.
- 34:39Speaker 2: Unbelieva.
- 34:39Speaker 1: He demands one hundred and seventy thousand dollars, claiming he
- 34:42needs the money to pay off corrupt judges and crooked
- 34:45cops and the Phutippians to release Larry's ashes, and he
- 34:48escalates to threatening the risk and family with kidnapping and
- 34:51torture if they don't comply.
- 34:53Speaker 2: It is relentless sociopathic predation. But unlike Sonya, who maintained
- 34:58a discipline facade of normalcy to the the outside world,
- 35:01Dela Cruz's desperation made him sloppy.
- 35:03Speaker 1: Very sloppy.
- 35:04Speaker 2: Between the DoD traced emails, the bank accounts linked to
- 35:07his girlfriend, and basic cell phone forensics I mean cell
- 35:12tower pings place both Dela Cruz and Romero's phones in
- 35:15Lomita on the night of the murder.
- 35:16Speaker 1: Right their location was burned.
- 35:18Speaker 2: Exactly and records showed Delacruz Cold Romero repeatedly right around
- 35:23the time of the Salon warning shot. Investigators just had
- 35:25a watertight, circumstantial case.
- 35:28Speaker 1: So when you step back and look at this family dynamic,
- 35:30it's like looking at a toxic corporate culture that finally implodes.
- 35:34You have a CEO Sonya, who builds an empire using ruthless,
- 35:38violent tactics. She raises a protege, her grand nephew, Delacruz.
- 35:42He watches her, He sees how she solves her problems
- 35:44with violence and gets rich doing it, and he essentially decides,
- 35:47you know, I want the CEO position, and I'm going
- 35:49to use your exact tactics to execute a hostile takeover.
- 35:53She built the exact culture that destroyed her.
- 35:55Speaker 2: It is a slawless analogy. It is the multi generational
- 35:58transmission of sociopathy. She normalized the concept that family members
- 36:02are just financial assets to be liquidated. Delacruz simply applied
- 36:06her lesson to her.
- 36:07Speaker 1: He learned from the best he did.
- 36:09Speaker 2: And this brings us directly to the trial, which presents
- 36:12one of the most fascinating legal and moral dilemmas in
- 36:16recent true crime history.
- 36:17Speaker 1: The trial takes place in twenty eleven in Torrent Superior Court.
- 36:22You have a brilliant prosecutor, John Lewin, facing off against
- 36:26defense attorneys Donald Levinson and Ludlow Creery.
- 36:29Speaker 2: We really need to look deeply the legal strategy here.
- 36:32Think about the monumental challenge for the prosecution and the
- 36:35unique opportunity for the defense.
- 36:37Speaker 1: Okay, set the scene.
- 36:39Speaker 2: The victim in this murder trial, Sonya, is widely believed
- 36:42by the public, the media, and even law enforcement, to
- 36:46be a prolific serial killer herself.
- 36:48Speaker 1: Right. So the defense strategy is brilliant in its cynicism.
- 36:51They utilize what is essentially a blame the victim or
- 36:54misdirection defense, combined with severe character assassination. They put Sonya on.
- 36:59Speaker 2: Trial is smart from a defense perspective.
- 37:01Speaker 1: It is they stand before the jury and paint her
- 37:03as a monster, an evil murderer. They argue that a
- 37:06woman this wicked at a massive list of enemies, any
- 37:09one of whom could have pulled the trigger.
- 37:11Speaker 2: Plausible deniability.
- 37:13Speaker 1: Right. They point out that the evidence against Dela Cruz
- 37:16and Romero is technically circumstantial. There was no physical DNA
- 37:20of the nephews at the crime scene, no fingerprints, on
- 37:22the gun, just phone pings and traced emails. They even
- 37:26try to claim the arrests were rushed just to satisfy
- 37:29the massive media pressure from shows like forty eight Hours.
- 37:32Speaker 2: It's a very effective psychological tactic. The defense is essentially
- 37:36telling the jury, don't look at our clients, look at
- 37:38how terrible the victim was. Do you really want to
- 37:41send two young navy sailors to prison for the rest
- 37:43of their lives for taking out the trash?
- 37:45Speaker 1: Wow?
- 37:46Speaker 2: Right, logically to a layperson, it has an immense emotional appeal,
- 37:50But Prosecutor John Lewin's counter argument is legally and philosophically profound.
- 37:55Speaker 1: Lewin doesn't take the bait. He doesn't stand up and
- 37:58try to defend Sonya's character at all. In his opening statements,
- 38:01he actually concedes the defense's point.
- 38:03Speaker 2: He leans into it.
- 38:04Speaker 1: He does. He openly admits to the jury that Sonya
- 38:07was a despicable human being and likely a double murderer.
- 38:10But then he makes this famous, defining statement to the court.
- 38:13He says, our system of law is bigger than who
- 38:16she was.
- 38:17Speaker 2: We really need to explore the weight of that argument,
- 38:20because it is the cornerstone of American.
- 38:22Speaker 1: Jurisprudence break that down for us.
- 38:25Speaker 2: Lewin is explicitly addressing the jury instructions regarding a victim's character.
- 38:30The law cannot and does not operate on a tier
- 38:32list of moral worthiness, meaning meaning, you do not lose
- 38:37your constitutional right to life simply because you are suspected
- 38:40of a crime, or even if you are a provably
- 38:43terrible person. Lewin is arguing that vigilante justice, or in
- 38:47this case, opportunistic murder disguised as karmik justice, destabilizes the
- 38:53entire foundation of society. Even a monster is protected by
- 38:56the law, because if the law is allowed to have
- 38:58blind spots based on popularity or morality, it ultimately protects
- 39:02no one.
- 39:03Speaker 1: But put yourself in the jury box for a second.
- 39:05Let's say you're a jury number four. You've sat there
- 39:07for weeks hearing forensic evidence about a woman who very
- 39:10likely orchestrated the brutal execution of two innocent men, one
- 39:13of them a beloved special education teacher, and she manipulated
- 39:17international law to get away with it and get rich.
- 39:19Speaker 2: It's a lot to take in.
- 39:20Speaker 1: Is it human nature to secretly feel a little bit
- 39:23glad that her killers took her out. How hard is
- 39:26it to actually convict these two nephews when a primal
- 39:29part of you feels like they did the world a favor.
- 39:32Speaker 2: It is incredibly difficult. You are asking twelve ordinary citizens
- 39:37to suppress their visceral human sense of karmic justice and
- 39:41adhere strictly to the cold letter of the law. You're
- 39:44asking them to protect the rights of a woman who
- 39:46denied those exact rights to others. It requires immense civic.
- 39:50Speaker 1: Discipline, and remarkably, the jury found that discipline. On February eighteenth,
- 39:54twenty eleven, after deliberating, the jury convicted both Dela Cruz
- 39:59and Romero a first degree murder and conspiracy to commit murder.
- 40:02They did it, they did. The judge sentenced them both
- 40:05to twenty six years to life and state prison. But
- 40:08there is a detail from the sentencing hearing that really
- 40:11stuck with me. What's that During the victim impact statements,
- 40:14where family members usually ask for maximum penalties or talk
- 40:17about how much they missed the deceased, no one spoke
- 40:20on Sonya's behalf. No One, not a single person stood
- 40:23up in that courtroom to defend her life or mourn
- 40:25her passing.
- 40:26Speaker 2: It is a stark, haunting testament to the absolute isolation
- 40:30she ultimately built for herself. She died surrounded by money,
- 40:34but entirely devoid of human connection. However, while the court
- 40:37rendered its verdict on Dela Cruz and Romero and locked
- 40:39them away, the story does not end neatly with the
- 40:42strike of a gavel.
- 40:43Speaker 1: No, it doesn't.
- 40:44Speaker 2: There is a massive wake of multi generational damage.
- 40:47Speaker 1: Left behind because despite everything we know, despite the trials
- 40:51and the media coverage, Sonia Rio's Riskin was never definitively
- 40:55charged by Philippine or US authorities for the deaths of
- 40:58Earl Borgeaux or Riskin.
- 41:00Speaker 2: She evaded official justice entirely. And if we zoo out
- 41:04to look at the systemic gaps this case exposes, it
- 41:07is terrifying. We are looking at massive vulnerabilities in how
- 41:10our world operates.
- 41:11Speaker 1: What kind of vulnerability well.
- 41:12Speaker 2: International jurisdictional sovereignty allowed a suspected killer to hide behind
- 41:16a border, A lack of cross border law enforcement cooperation
- 41:20meant evidence couldn't be shared, and glaring loopholes and life
- 41:24insurance payouts allowed financial institutions to fund a suspected serial
- 41:28killer simply because the paperwork from a foreign, potentially corrupt
- 41:32precinct looked official. She operated within these systemic blind spots
- 41:37with total impunity for twenty years, and it leaves.
- 41:40Speaker 1: The surviving families in an agonizing limbo. Now, there was
- 41:44eventually some resolution for Earl Bordeaux family through the relentless
- 41:48investigations driven by journalists in forty eight hours and complex
- 41:51DNA confirmation. Earl's remains were finally located in the Philippines
- 41:55and repatriated to Iowa in late two thousand and eight
- 41:58or early two thousand and nine.
- 42:00Speaker 2: Wow.
- 42:00Speaker 1: After two decades, he finally made it home.
- 42:02Speaker 2: But the trauma for Larry Riskin's family is heavily compounded.
- 42:06According to the records, Larry's ashes remain lost or their
- 42:09locations entirely unclear from public documents. Still think about his father,
- 42:15Law Riskin Senior, taking the stand during the extortion trial.
- 42:19The grief in his testimony was palpable. He stated, Delacruz's
- 42:23family had not only killed my son, but now I
- 42:26had to deal with the fact that Delacruz, along with
- 42:28his sociopathic family members were attempting to extort money. They
- 42:32took his son's life, and then they weaponized his son's
- 42:35ashes for profit.
- 42:37Speaker 1: And then there is John Bordeaux, Sonya's adopted son, the
- 42:40boy she brought from the Philippines in the sixties, who
- 42:43grew up in this house of secrets, and who ultimately
- 42:45found her dead body in the hallway.
- 42:47Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 42:47Speaker 1: John, his quote to the press really sums up the
- 42:50entire Bleak saga better than any legal analysis could. He
- 42:54simply said, it's a waste of life. I'm feeling sad
- 42:57for everybody.
- 42:57Speaker 2: It is a profound tragedy. And which should you, the listener,
- 43:01take away from this? It should force us to realize
- 43:03that the systems we place are implicit. Trust in the
- 43:05rigor of international law, the oversight of financial institutions, and
- 43:09even the fundamental safety of the family unit are deeply
- 43:12fragile when they are exploited by someone who lacks basic
- 43:15human empathy. So true, it requires vigilance. It requires an
- 43:18understanding that borders can easily become shields for bad actors,
- 43:23and that financial assets, if they aren't rigorously protected by
- 43:26clear wills and legal scrutiny, become the very motives for
- 43:29our destruction.
- 43:31Speaker 1: To summarize this incredible dark arc, we are looking at
- 43:34a woman who escaped deep systemic poverty, came to America
- 43:38and built a suburban empire. But she built it on secrets, manipulation,
- 43:43and alleged bloodshed overseas. She navigated legal and financial systems
- 43:48flawlessly for decades, orchestrating the deaths of two husbands to enrich.
- 43:53Speaker 2: Herself, only to meet her end in her own.
- 43:55Speaker 1: Hallway, exactly wearing her pajamas, executed by a family member
- 43:58who was driven by the exact same greed she had normalized.
- 44:01Speaker 2: The black Widow moniker she was given by the press
- 44:04is incredibly apt, but not for the reason they initially thought. Right.
- 44:08It isn't just apt because of her dead husbands. It's
- 44:10apt because the web of violence she allegedly spun eventually
- 44:14ensnared her. She proved definitively that you cannot cultivate a
- 44:17culture of ruthless predatory opportunism within your own family and
- 44:20expect to remain immune to it forever, Which.
- 44:23Speaker 1: Leaves you listening right now with a final concept. Tim
- 44:27all over. We talked at the very beginning about that
- 44:30Hollywood noir script, the predictable tropes.
- 44:33Speaker 2: Yeah, the movie feel of it all.
- 44:34Speaker 1: Well, think about the psychological concept of inherited trauma. Usually,
- 44:37when we talk about that in therapy or in the media,
- 44:39we talk about trauma in terms of victims passing down pain, anxiety,
- 44:43or fear to the next generation. We view it as
- 44:45a tragic inheritance of suffering. Right, But in the case
- 44:48of the Lamita Black Widow, did Sonia Rios riskin pass
- 44:52down something much more dangerous? Did she pass down a
- 44:55blueprint for sociopathy?
- 44:57Speaker 2: That's a dark thought.
- 44:58Speaker 1: If you build a family culture entirely around manipulation, deceit,
- 45:01and using the people who love you as literal stepping
- 45:03stones for financial gain, is it absolutely inevitable that one
- 45:07day you become the stepping stone yourself.
- 45:10Speaker 2: It is a chilling question. It suggests that we don't
- 45:13just pass on our genes. We pass on our morality,
- 45:16and sometimes we reap what we sow in the most literal,
- 45:20violent ways imaginable.
- 45:22Speaker 1: It really is thank you for joining us on this intense,
- 45:25deep dive into the sources today. It is a heavy story,
- 45:29but an essential look at the darker mechanics of human nature,
- 45:32the fragility of the systems we trust, and the long
- 45:35destructive shadow of greed. Remember to stay curious, keep questioning
- 45:39the simple narratives, and always keep seeking the mechanisms behind
- 45:41the headlines. We'll see you next time.