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Wake Up and Work Hard: The Secret to Achieving Your Goals · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Have you ever wondered what is my purpose in life?
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  Speaker 1: This question has been around for ages. Even back in
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  Speaker 1: ancient times, philosophers like Aristotle were pondering life's purpose. In
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  Speaker 1: today's busy world, where we're pulled in different directions, finding
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  Speaker 1: our life's purpose feels more important than ever. Many people
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  Speaker 1: go through life just reacting to things, instead of taking
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  Speaker 1: charge and figuring out what truly matters to them. Sometimes,
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  Speaker 1: even if they think they know their purpose, they confuse
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  Speaker 1: it with short term goals. Others really want to find
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  Speaker 1: meaning but don't know how. Why are you searching for
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  Speaker 1: your life's purpose? People like to grow and improve. It's
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  Speaker 1: a natural thing. We feel fulfilled when we're getting better.
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  Speaker 1: In some way, growth is like a magnet for us.
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  Speaker 1: But when we stop growing, we start feeling anxious, scared,
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  Speaker 1: and even envious of others. We start wanting things like money, status,
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  Speaker 1: and power, thinking they'll make us happy, but they won't.
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  Speaker 1: Goals like buying a house or getting a good job
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  Speaker 1: are important, but purpose takes things even higher. Goals can
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  Speaker 1: give us a sense of achievement, but purpose makes us
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  Speaker 1: truly fulfilled. And feeling fulfilled isn't just a luxury. It's
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  Speaker 1: something we really need. Two things that stop us from
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  Speaker 1: finding our purpose. There are two big things that get
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  Speaker 1: in the way of finding our true purpose. One wanting
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  Speaker 1: to be certain. We like things to be stable and predictable.
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  Speaker 1: We stay in our comfort zones to avoid getting anxious
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  Speaker 1: or hurt. But staying comfortable also keeps us from growing
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  Speaker 1: and finding our purpose. Two believing limiting thoughts. Sometimes we
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  Speaker 1: tell ourselves stories about who we are, and these stories
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  Speaker 1: can hold us back. If we think we're not good enough,
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  Speaker 1: we'll be scared to try new things. But believing we
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  Speaker 1: can change our lives helps us find purpose. Why knowing
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  Speaker 1: your purpose is important. Research shows that knowing your purpose
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  Speaker 1: can help you live longer. People who feel their life
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  Speaker 1: has meaning tend to live longer and have fewer heart problems.
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  Speaker 1: It's also linked to happiness and fulfillment. Goals might not
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  Speaker 1: help you find your life's purpose, but knowing your purpose
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  Speaker 1: can help you achieve your goals. When you know your purpose,
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  Speaker 1: you feel clear and passionate. You stop worrying about the
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  Speaker 1: past and the future, and you start living in the present.
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  Speaker 1: How to find your purpose One look inside. The answer
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  Speaker 1: to what is my purpose? Is inside? You don't listen
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  Speaker 1: too much to what others say. You have what it takes.
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  Speaker 1: Limiting beliefs are what holds you back, but you can
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  Speaker 1: change them. Two. Focus on purpose, not just goals. Goals
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  Speaker 1: are good, but they should be connected to your purpose.
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  Speaker 1: Ask yourself, how will this help me feel more fulfilled?
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  Speaker 1: Keep your purpose in mind while setting goals. Three. Appreciate
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  Speaker 1: what you have. Seeing the good in your life helps
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  Speaker 1: you find purpose. When you focus on what you have,
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  Speaker 1: you attract positive things. You feel less scared and more joyful. Four.
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  Speaker 1: Take control design your own life. Don't let fear or
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  Speaker 1: others control you. Responsibility for finding your purpose is yours,
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  Speaker 1: not someone else's.
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  Speaker 2: You see, we were gifted with these higher faculties were
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  Speaker 2: God's highest form of creation. We were created in God's image.
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  Speaker 2: We were given creative faculties to use. And you know,
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  Speaker 2: they're only used by two or three percent of the population.
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  Speaker 2: It's almost inconceivable that people would wander around with so
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  Speaker 2: much power and potential and squandering. See the average person
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  Speaker 2: literally tiptoes through life hoping they make it safely to death.
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  Speaker 2: It's such a shame, and it doesn't.
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  Speaker 1: Have to be that way.
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  Speaker 2: I think we have giant corporations and little we creative departments.
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  Speaker 2: The primary reason for that is the average individual really
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  Speaker 2: does not believe that they're creative. Everyone's creative, and no
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  Speaker 2: one is more creative than another. It's just that some
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  Speaker 2: have chosen to use their creative faculties to a greater
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  Speaker 2: degree than others. Imagination, your imagination, What do you want?
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  Speaker 2: How do you really want to live? Build the picture
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  Speaker 2: in your mind. There's a power that is flowing to
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  Speaker 2: and through you, a creative, unadult graded power.
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  Speaker 3: And I suggest to you one work on yourself. To me,
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  Speaker 3: I think there are three pillows of what's required in
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  Speaker 3: order to cove out your place in this global economy.
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  Speaker 3: There are many steps, but there are three that I
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  Speaker 3: think that's indispensable. One is working on your mind. Be
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  Speaker 3: not conformed to this world, be transformed by the renewing
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  Speaker 3: of your mind. Second is having a mindset and willing
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  Speaker 3: to discipline yourself. Make the sacrifice to engage an ongoing
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  Speaker 3: self study for self growth and development. Developing your communication skills.
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  Speaker 3: I can hear, mister Washington. I'll say, mister Brown, develop
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  Speaker 3: your communication skills, because once you open your mouth, you
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  Speaker 3: tell the world who you are. Nelson Mandela said, if
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  Speaker 3: you speak from your mind, you speak in the language
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  Speaker 3: that a man can understand. But when you speak from
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  Speaker 3: your heart, you speak and this language. And so my
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  Speaker 3: goal in teaching people how to create massive heals, how
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  Speaker 3: to change lives, that you first you have to change yourself.
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  Speaker 3: It starts with you, and then you begin to see
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  Speaker 3: from your experience how you can begin to impact and
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  Speaker 3: influence others and be a voice of change. And that
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  Speaker 3: ability really will allow you to cove out a place
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  Speaker 3: for yourself in the marketplace. The methods in the technique,
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  Speaker 3: the simplicity of how you language what you say. Einstein
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  Speaker 3: said that genius is the capacity to take the complicated
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  Speaker 3: and make it simple.
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  Speaker 1: This is so simple, I don't want you to miss it.
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  Speaker 1: Most people don't lead their life. They accept their life.
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  Speaker 1: And when you accept your life, you are living on
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  Speaker 1: things that are not worthy of your time and effort
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  Speaker 1: and energy. And you heard me say at the moment,
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  Speaker 1: everything worth whiles uphill. The reason I want you to
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  Speaker 1: understand that is to go uphill, you have to be intentional.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody ever went uphill by accident. You've never read a
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  Speaker 1: book on accidental achievements. You have to be intentional with
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  Speaker 1: what you do with your If you really want to
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  Speaker 1: be transformed, you have to live an intentional life. The
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  Speaker 1: question I have for you right now is just a
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  Speaker 1: simple one. What is your purpose in life? Now? Simple question,
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  Speaker 1: hard to answer. You see, you were created for a purpose.
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  Speaker 1: The challenge that you and I have is to find
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  Speaker 1: that purpose. Because once we find, as Simon Sending would say,
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  Speaker 1: the why in our life, all of a sudden we
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  Speaker 1: began to expand and grow and have fulfillment and just
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  Speaker 1: we begin to develop like we have never developed. For
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  Speaker 1: once we find our purpose. So how do we do that?
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  Speaker 1: We ask ourselves two questions, what am I passionate about?
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  Speaker 1: And what am I good at? If you can answer
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  Speaker 1: those two questions, if you can find out what you
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  Speaker 1: are passionate about, what you really love, and then you
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  Speaker 1: can find and realize that you have a skill set
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  Speaker 1: that will allow you to do what you really love.
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  Speaker 1: Once you can put those two together, you found your purpose.
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  Speaker 4: You may start out doing something that is not thing
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  Speaker 4: you were created to do. It may only be the
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  Speaker 4: thing that leads to the thing you were created to do.
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  Speaker 4: Don't stop at where you are as if it were
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  Speaker 4: the destination. When in fact. In reality, it may be
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  Speaker 4: the transportation that brings you into that thing you are
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  Speaker 4: created to issue. We do have a purpose. We may
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  Speaker 4: not be perfect people, we may not have perfect situations,
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  Speaker 4: but we are still significant nonetheless, and we have been
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  Speaker 4: blessed with a rich body of emotions. We have emoss,
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  Speaker 4: we have feelings, and when we use improperly, they are
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  Speaker 4: very effective in motivating you toward your destiny. I want
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  Speaker 4: you to be clear and understanding that purpose and passion
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  Speaker 4: are interconnected. Unfortunately, we live in a crazy world that
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  Speaker 4: we're busy all the time and we are losing touch
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  Speaker 4: with who we are, our inner sense of passion. But
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  Speaker 4: it is your passion that empowers you to be able
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  Speaker 4: to do that thing you were created do.
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  Speaker 1: Do you ever find yourself wanting more? As human beings,
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  Speaker 1: we crave growth, so we set and achieve goals of
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  Speaker 1: more money, more possessions, or more power. Yet we still
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  Speaker 1: find ourselves feeling stuck. We plateau, we feel uninspired, even bored,
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  Speaker 1: because while we've mastered the physical realm, what we really
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  Speaker 1: crave is true fulfillment, more meaning, more purpose. All of
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  Speaker 1: life's challenges are opportunities in disguise. When you feel stuck
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  Speaker 1: in a rut. It is actually the perfect opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: renew yourself. It's your chance to realize that we grow
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  Speaker 1: so that we can give self renewal is an essential
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  Speaker 1: part of our spiritual wellness. Just as we need to
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  Speaker 1: grow in our relationships and our careers, we need to
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  Speaker 1: grow as human beings. By learning how to renew yourself,
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  Speaker 1: you'll be able to continuously reconnect with your purpose in life,
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  Speaker 1: reignite your passion, and rediscover your true spirit. Learning how
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  Speaker 1: to renew your life isn't always easy, but it is
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  Speaker 1: always worth it. Give yourself a time out. Many Americans
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  Speaker 1: are working more than ever, the rat race remains glorified,
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  Speaker 1: and finding the time can be the most difficult part
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  Speaker 1: of how to renew yourself emotionally, allow yourself to unplug,
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  Speaker 1: allow yourself to prioritize your own spiritual and mental well being.
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  Speaker 1: Let the process of self renewal begin with giving yourself
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  Speaker 1: permission to fully pursue it. Self. Awareness is key to
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  Speaker 1: everything we do in life. We cannot set goals, make plans,
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  Speaker 1: or ever find fulfillment if we don't know what it
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  Speaker 1: is we truly want to discover this, we must stop
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  Speaker 1: being blinded by our own subjective emotions and begin to
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  Speaker 1: see ourselves for who and what we really are. That
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  Speaker 1: is self awareness, and it is the ultimate power. Part
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  Speaker 1: of improving our self awareness is to recognize and admit
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  Speaker 1: when we are living according to a blueprint that has
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  Speaker 1: been set for us rather than one that follows what
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  Speaker 1: we really want. Ultimately, learning how to renew yourself means
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  Speaker 1: recognizing that the nice house, the fancy car, and the
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  Speaker 1: expensive suit won't bring you fulfillment unless there is a
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  Speaker 1: purpose behind it. Your purpose is what drives you. It's
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  Speaker 1: what gives your life meaning, and you cannot know how
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  Speaker 1: to renew your life if you don't know your purpose.
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  Speaker 1: People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals, that is,
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  Speaker 1: goals that do not inspire them. Connecting your goals to
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  Speaker 1: your purpose is what will get you out of bed
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  Speaker 1: every morning with energy and vitality, ready to tackle the
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  Speaker 1: tasks at hand. People live in patterns. Patterns serve an
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  Speaker 1: important purpose, but they also can be one of the
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  Speaker 1: things that keep us from achieving our goals. We get
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  Speaker 1: stuck in the same habits. If you do what you've
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  Speaker 1: always done, you'll get what you've always gotten, only When
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  Speaker 1: you recognize and break your patterns, can you discover how
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  Speaker 1: to renew yourself emotionally. One way to break your patterns
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  Speaker 1: is to examine what you believe about yourself. It's harder
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  Speaker 1: than it seems. We often know what we think of
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  Speaker 1: others and of outside events, but we're less likely to
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  Speaker 1: listen to our own self talk. It's harder to identify
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  Speaker 1: our own limiting beliefs. Yet these beliefs are what hold
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  Speaker 1: us back from achieving our dreams. You become what you believe.
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  Speaker 1: Unless you believe that you can become the best version
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  Speaker 1: of yourself, you never will. Success is processional. It's the
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  Speaker 1: result of a series of small disciplines. Success lies in
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  Speaker 1: the small choice as we make every day. It means
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  Speaker 1: creating an empowering mourning ritual like priming or yoga. It
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  Speaker 1: means feeding your body the right fuel and feeding your
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  Speaker 1: mind the right information. To create a massive shift in
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  Speaker 1: how to renew your life, you must first eliminate bad
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  Speaker 1: habits and replace them with empowering ones. We've all heard
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  Speaker 1: the phrase you are who you hang out with or
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  Speaker 1: who you spend time with is who you become. To
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  Speaker 1: renew yourself, sometimes you must renew your social group. You
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  Speaker 1: must choose to surround yourself with people who will lift
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  Speaker 1: you up, not bring you down. Once you raise your standards,
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  Speaker 1: you'll level up your achievement in life. No matter where
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  Speaker 1: you are in life, the power of gratitude is key
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  Speaker 1: to how to renew yourself. Adopting an abundance mindset will
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  Speaker 1: transform the way you see the world. It will allow
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  Speaker 1: you to escape your scarcity mindset and approach life from
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  Speaker 1: a place of emotional and spiritual wealth. You can start
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  Speaker 1: a gratitude journal, learn how to practice mindfulness, or train
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  Speaker 1: your mind to pair any negative thought with a positive one.
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  Speaker 1: A true attitude of gratitude makes us feel renewed every
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  Speaker 1: moment of every day. There is a shortcut to how
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  Speaker 1: to renew yourself. Get out of your comfort zone, interact
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  Speaker 1: with people you wouldn't normally interact with, learn a new
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  Speaker 1: language or instrument, go sky diving, or take a hot
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  Speaker 1: air balloon ride. The only way to overcome your fears
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  Speaker 1: and your limiting beliefs is to face them, starting right now.