Latest / Coffee People Podcast / Jing Lin, Founder of Coffee Confessionals
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- 0:25Our guest today is Jing Lin, the founder of Coffee Confessionals
- 0:29in Hollywood, CA Coffee Confessionals is a coffee shop
- 0:33with a bent towards creating human interaction.
- 0:36They offer their experiential community space for events like
- 0:40a great comedy show coming up on February 20th, where they
- 0:43feature a diverse cast of local comedians.
- 0:46They also have interactive open mic nights and one off events
- 0:49like tech and film panels, art shows, and even meditation
- 0:53seminars. Jing and I cover the concept and
- 0:57her roundabout way into the coffee industry from her
- 0:59previous career in the movie business.
- 1:01If you want to follow along or multitask while you listen to
- 1:05the show, please check out Coffee confessionals.com or
- 1:08click through at Coffee Confessional social media links.
- 1:11In this podcast show notes, you'll see a list of all their
- 1:14events there as well. But first you got to make sure
- 1:18that coffee mug is full. Mine is half full and once
- 1:23again, I'm drinking a cup of our ya no ya collab with Relative
- 1:26Coffee Company. Our friend Bryant out of
- 1:29Minneapolis roast this up. It's a blend of Colombian and
- 1:33Ethiopia beans that when they come together, oh so smooth.
- 1:39I'm going to drink this. Well, you listen to another
- 1:42Coffee People podcast conversation, this one featuring
- 1:46Jinglin, founder of Coffee Confessionals.
- 2:18I'm Jane Lynn, and I am the founder and owner of Coffee
- 2:22Confessionals in Los Angeles. So the idea of coffee
- 2:27confessionals and I want to talk about background and all that
- 2:29other stuff first, but I just want to get the idea behind it
- 2:32out. Is it a coffee shop?
- 2:34Is it a community effort? What is coffee confessionals?
- 2:39Yeah, that's a great question. It is a coffee shop, so we have
- 2:43a physical brick and mortar. But, you know, when I was
- 2:46building Coffee Confessionals, I loved just being at, you know,
- 2:50cafes and meeting people. And I thought, you know, I want
- 2:54to do this, but how do I make it into a brand that really just
- 2:58embodies the idea of community and getting together?
- 3:03And I thought like, what is the most, you know, what do you do
- 3:06in coffee houses? You're talking, you're telling
- 3:09stories, you're sharing stories. And by inspiring each other
- 3:13through stories, you're connecting deeper, right?
- 3:15That's kind of how friendships are built.
- 3:17That's how relationships are built.
- 3:19So the idea is you're kind of confessing, you know, you're
- 3:22confessing certain things about your life and you're so, so to
- 3:26speak, spilling your beans. And that's our motto, which is
- 3:29spill your beans. And I think that is really what
- 3:33has been kind of my North Star with everything that we've kind
- 3:36of built around the brand. OK, so we get the idea of coffee
- 3:41confessionals and and the the brand and the concept.
- 3:44Let's rewind a little bit. First coffee experience, first
- 3:48coffee memory. Anything jump to mind?
- 3:50So I would say my first coffee experience, definitely Dunkin'
- 3:54Donuts. I grew up on the East Coast in
- 3:56New Jersey and we didn't have a lot.
- 3:58I mean, we had shopping malls, we didn't have that much to do.
- 4:02So as kids, we would, you know, after school go and get a
- 4:04doughnut and an iced, iced Frappuccino from Dunkin' Donuts.
- 4:09And, you know, that was kind of like even going to College in
- 4:13Boston, that was our thing, you know, like, oh, it's Dunkin'
- 4:16Donuts. So I mean, not not the best
- 4:19coffee, but it definitely is like very endearing to me.
- 4:22You know the whole. Yeah, I, I'm not, I don't have a
- 4:26lot of experience with Dunkin' Donuts, but what little I do is
- 4:30that as far as fast coffee goes, seems to be like they put a
- 4:34little more effort into it. Maybe I'm just, you know,
- 4:36colored by the Ben Affleckness of it all.
- 4:39But so you start that you, how do you end up from the East
- 4:43Coast into California? I know you had a career, you
- 4:47know, whole career before coffee confessionals.
- 4:49What was that path like for you leading towards where you are
- 4:52now? Yeah.
- 4:53So I think that for me, I've always been a storyteller like
- 4:58yourself. And when I was a kid, I would
- 5:03honestly, like, make my sister dress up and I would put on
- 5:06these. I would put on these plays for
- 5:08my parents. And so I think I knew pretty
- 5:11early on that I wanted to do something in theatre or film.
- 5:15And that was kind of the career path I was going down.
- 5:18I studied filmmaking in Boston and then kind of in a weird,
- 5:24roundabout way, ended up NPR in New York.
- 5:28And I did that for about 3 years.
- 5:31We, a lot of our companies that we were working for were
- 5:35pharmaceuticals. And I just kind of was feeling
- 5:38like deep down inside, you know, I'm getting lost and this is not
- 5:41really what I wanted to do. I graduated during the
- 5:45recession, so 2008. And so it was honestly just like
- 5:49hard to get a job. So I was like, OK, you know, I
- 5:52got a job like I'm doing it. I live in New York.
- 5:55I live in like a shoe box, but I'm doing it, you know.
- 5:58So essentially, you know, I, I wanted to get back to
- 6:03filmmaking. And so I, I applied for this
- 6:08program called the Entertainment Management Program at Carnegie
- 6:11Mellon. And I got in and I remember the
- 6:14day I got in, I like gave my notice and I was like, bye, I'm
- 6:16out of here. So you you go through that
- 6:20program and from there, I'm assuming that's what brings you
- 6:24out to the West Coast, which is, as we all know, where movies are
- 6:28made or they were before recently.
- 6:31Yeah, so part of it, I felt like going into that program was a
- 6:36way for me to move out to the West Coast because honestly, I
- 6:39didn't know anybody. I didn't.
- 6:40I think I had one college friend that I was really close with
- 6:43that lived in Los Angeles. So I was like, I want to get
- 6:46back into the movie business. I, you know, I didn't.
- 6:50I did some internships here and there, but I never really felt
- 6:52like I gave it. I gave it a good chance.
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- 7:38So I'd done a few internships in college and then I took that
- 7:42job, NPR in New York. And I just, you know, felt like
- 7:46I lost my way, you know, felt like I lost my North Star.
- 7:49And I, you know, I was like, you know, I really wanted to pursue
- 7:53the film, being in the film industry.
- 7:55And everybody says it's so hard. Like, how are you going to, what
- 7:57are you going to do? You're going to move to
- 7:58Hollywood and you're, you know, you're going to work at a big
- 8:00studio and all that stuff. And I just always had this kind
- 8:05of drive in me. And I'm like, you know what?
- 8:06I'll show you. Like I can do it.
- 8:07I can definitely do it. So I, I got into this amazing
- 8:11program at Carnegie Mellon called the Entertainment
- 8:14Management Program. And I took a gap year actually
- 8:19in between. I went to Beijing, took a year
- 8:21off because I was just really burnt out from my, from my job.
- 8:23NPR and when I came back I moved to Pittsburgh and that's kind of
- 8:28how I started the transition to moving out to the West Coast.
- 8:32So I did a full year immersion in Pittsburgh.
- 8:35It was like management courses, accounting, all of that stuff,
- 8:39but basically setting you up to, to kind of understand how the
- 8:42entire industry works, you know, like how the, you know, the
- 8:46revenue and the profits and how distribution models work, all of
- 8:49that. And then, and then the second
- 8:53year, which is the best part, they help you move out to
- 8:56California and there is actual Career Center and you're taking
- 9:00classes out here with actual teachers and professors that are
- 9:05working at the studio. You know, they're, they're part
- 9:07time faculty and they're like part time.
- 9:11Well, not me, but probably not part time, full time employees
- 9:14of these like big studios or their producers.
- 9:16So we really got to work with some really, really incredible
- 9:20people and learn from just incredible professionals in the
- 9:24industry that. Sounds like a win win too,
- 9:27because on their side they're kind of seeing who might be the
- 9:31next person with skills or, you know, willingness to work hard
- 9:35and, and all that sort of things to hire afterwards, I would
- 9:37assume. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely.
- 9:40And actually, I got my big job through one of my professors.
- 9:45And the crazy thing is when I right before I moved out here,
- 9:49we had to get a summer internship like during that like
- 9:52move between Pittsburgh and LA and I could not land an
- 9:57internship. Like I I was like, I have a good
- 9:59background. It just wasn't really in film.
- 10:02And I was like, you know what, I'm going to be the only one in
- 10:04class that has 0 internship like opportunities when I moved out
- 10:09here. And I don't know, miraculously I
- 10:13got a call from Paramount, from the HR recruiter at Paramount
- 10:17and she said, Hey, your resume landed on our table.
- 10:21And you know, we are reaching out because someone in our,
- 10:25someone in our program had to drop out.
- 10:27They had already finished their hiring round And someone, you
- 10:30know, for personal reasons had to drop out.
- 10:32And there was an opening in digital marketing.
- 10:34And I was like, Oh my gosh, Paramount Studios.
- 10:36Like I had, I was like, that's the, I was like, that's the
- 10:40cream of the crop. Like I thought I was going to
- 10:42get, you know, shitty little interns.
- 10:44No, I mean no offense, but like not a really great internship.
- 10:47No, that's what internships are. Yeah, yeah.
- 10:50But my Paramount internship was a dream.
- 10:53And how that kind of came about was I had given my resume to
- 10:59someone at a, it was a career networking event and someone
- 11:03from MTV was there like AHR person, HR recruiter.
- 11:06And they're like, oh, you know, we are looking for people.
- 11:09And I was very adamant about like, I don't want to work in
- 11:12TVI want to work in film. And this is what I want to do.
- 11:16And they were like, OK, well, we'll take your, we'll take your
- 11:18resume anyway. Because our sister company
- 11:20Paramount, because they're all they're everybody was owned by
- 11:23Viacom. So our sister company, you know,
- 11:27might be looking for someone. And, you know, miraculously, my
- 11:32resume just kind of ended up on the right person's table.
- 11:35And that just goes to show you like I, I think don't be afraid
- 11:40to say what you want. And you never know what person
- 11:43or opportunity is going to kind of swing back around or lead to
- 11:46like your big shot, you know? It's also, I mean, a story that
- 11:54I think also reflects a little bit maybe of the time period.
- 11:56And I wonder about that a lot now because now a lot of resumes
- 12:00get filtered before they ever get to someone's desk.
- 12:02The idea that a resume would be the thing that lands on a desk
- 12:05now, as opposed to a resume that's been filtered by multiple
- 12:08levels of computer programming or AI or whatever, you know,
- 12:13you're, it becomes this tough thing for, I think for everyone.
- 12:16Like are you writing your resume for the job you want or for a
- 12:19person, or are you writing it to get past those filters and then
- 12:22is it reflective of who you are and.
- 12:25Honestly, these days I don't even know like how I was like, I
- 12:28don't know how kids get hired. I I don't think I would get
- 12:30hired out of college. I was like I don't even know the
- 12:31process. Kids, adults, every now and
- 12:36again I'll see a job and apply and like, just because it seems
- 12:40like something I'd really love to do.
- 12:42Yeah. And I've, I've learned that
- 12:44unless I have like a connection to the, to the role, even if I
- 12:49feel like I have the right references or the right, the
- 12:52right skill sets, I have no idea if anyone ever sees it.
- 12:55And I spent a day with a recruiter in New York when I
- 13:00first moved to New York, a creative recruiter, I had gone
- 13:04in and pitched like my creative work.
- 13:07And they said, well, how would you feel about being a recruiter
- 13:09'cause we think you might be better at that, 'cause you're
- 13:11not actually very creative? I said Oh well that's very nice
- 13:14of you to say. They said why don't you come
- 13:16spend a day with us? And so I showed up on Monday and
- 13:19there's a little aside, but the woman that I was going to be
- 13:23following for the day one didn't know I was going to be there. 2
- 13:28had just gotten back from like a week in Cabo or some other type
- 13:31of party esque trip and was very hungover.
- 13:36And we sat down at her desk and she opened her computer and she
- 13:38goes, here's your first lesson. And there were 7000 emails from
- 13:42the week that she had been out. Oh my.
- 13:45Gosh. And she just selected all and
- 13:47deleted and I went, Oh my God, those are all people like me who
- 13:51are like trying to find these jobs.
- 13:53And she said, if they're people like you who are passionate
- 13:55about what they do and they really want it, they'll e-mail
- 13:58me again. Yes.
- 14:00Exactly, just moved on with her day and I was just like so
- 14:03overwhelmed. But I'll and and like, wow, like
- 14:07and so that was back then and now that delete button is, you
- 14:11know, a computer program, so. Yeah, no, I I could just imagine
- 14:14recruiters, I mean, they get hundreds of set thousands of
- 14:17resumes. It does.
- 14:18Not seem like a fun job. No.
- 14:20I did not stay. So anyway, you get your resume
- 14:25lands in the right place, the right person sees it, you start
- 14:28working with Paramount, what happens?
- 14:32Where does that go? And somehow it leads you to
- 14:34coffee. And that's where I think we're
- 14:36ultimately going here. So I think so at Paramount, it
- 14:40was such a great internship and it really was kind of my foot in
- 14:42the door into, you know, the movie industry.
- 14:45And from there I went to Disney. I did a year at Disney and
- 14:51ultimately I landed at Universal Pictures.
- 14:54And that was definitely, I would say a direct connection from a
- 14:59faculty member at the, in the program that I was in.
- 15:03And Jeffrey Schneider, he was teaching, I'm trying to think
- 15:09business law. He was teaching business law.
- 15:12And I saw this again, going back to resumes and job
- 15:16opportunities. Finding an internship was hard.
- 15:18Finding a job before the program ended was like trying to find a
- 15:23like needle in a haystack. It was we everybody was sending
- 15:26out resumes here at left and right.
- 15:27You're trying to just do something to like get a
- 15:30permanent position, right? And so I ended up temping at
- 15:34Disney for a little bit, which was great because they extended
- 15:37my internship and they were like, we want to EU to keep
- 15:40working with us. And ultimately they couldn't get
- 15:42the budget approved to have another ad on another head.
- 15:46So that's fine. But I reached out to my
- 15:52professor, Jeffrey Schneider, and I saw an opening.
- 15:55It was kind of this rotational. It was almost like the page
- 15:58program that NBC has, but it was for postgraduate students, so it
- 16:03was at a higher level. And it was like a full time 2
- 16:06year rotational program. And he was the only person I
- 16:10knew at like NBC Universal. And I just said like, hey, like,
- 16:14can you send this to somebody? I don't know, Like, I just don't
- 16:16want to send it to through the portal.
- 16:18And then it gets lost. And again, this is where I'm
- 16:22like, OK, you know, the stars are aligned or something.
- 16:25And he's like, I know the woman in the HR department that is
- 16:29heading up this rotational program.
- 16:32I will send it to her. I send it to her.
- 16:35They call me. They were like, you were
- 16:36literally the last resume in the door before we like close it
- 16:40before we closed it. So anyway, in a long roundabout
- 16:45way, I go through like 10 rounds of interviews, even with the
- 16:49head of the literally the head of the studio at the time.
- 16:52And I got the job. I got the job, Long story short,
- 16:56and I love the job. I love the job so much.
- 16:58I worked, I went through different departments,
- 17:02different, different groups they had.
- 17:04So I started off in focus features and I did publicity for
- 17:07them and we worked on awards campaign.
- 17:09So I worked on the Dallas Buyers Club, we worked on The World's
- 17:13End and that was super fun experience.
- 17:17And then I ended up what was my next and then I ended up in
- 17:21brand marketing. And so that was my next
- 17:23rotational program. And there I was able to really
- 17:27land a full time job with them. I had a incredible mentor, Dave
- 17:31O'Connor, and he just kind of like took me under his wing and
- 17:35taught me a lot. And in that position, I was able
- 17:39to find, you know, a really like something I loved and something
- 17:43that I was good at. We worked with brands doing
- 17:45collaborations on films to like kind of help promote them.
- 17:50And I did that for, I'm going to say like 8 years.
- 17:53I was there for a long time. So, but how I got to coffee was,
- 17:59you know, after I would say after like the first four or
- 18:03five years, I was like, OK, you know, I kind of get the game.
- 18:06This is this is what it is. And to be honest, I felt like I
- 18:11was more, you know, like it wasn't what I initially wanted
- 18:16to do, which was to make stories, to tell stories, to
- 18:21create stories, to film stories, kind of like that little girl
- 18:24when I was like putting on, you know, these like theater shows
- 18:27for my parents and my sister. And I was very much stuck in the
- 18:32nitty gritty of like, emails and, you know, getting, you
- 18:36know, just pushing, pushing paper, so to speak.
- 18:39You're storytelling adjacent. Yeah, story so adjacent and and
- 18:46I just really was, you know, yearning and longing for that
- 18:50connection to be honest, you know, not feeling like and also
- 18:55just wanting the work that I was producing, whatever I was doing
- 18:59in life to really have an impact on people.
- 19:02And I never I and I think the biggest driver for me was I
- 19:06didn't feel a connection to the service or product that we were
- 19:11creating. You know, I don't know if the
- 19:14work we were doing were actually helping to sell more movie
- 19:17tickets. Was it like getting more
- 19:19audience in the chairs? You know, I hope it was, but
- 19:23then I also didn't have like direct feedback.
- 19:25It's like, hey, like, did you enjoy that movie?
- 19:27How did you like that? You know, how did you like that
- 19:30product? You know, like I didn't really
- 19:32feel like I had a hand in creating it.
- 19:33And so I think the creativity and the, you know, my creative
- 19:38side was just yearning for something, yearning to get back
- 19:41to that. And so I just started, I started
- 19:43spending a lot of time in coffee houses.
- 19:46I started just like talking to people in coffee houses, meeting
- 19:50people in the coffee industry. And I would say that like, and
- 19:54then I was trying to find a creative endeavor to 1 relieve
- 19:58stress, but then to just do something that was like, OK,
- 20:01well, you know, like I'm in the office, like, you know, 9:00 to
- 20:056:00 every day, Like, let me do something that's for me.
- 20:07And so I, I started a coffee blog back then when it was like,
- 20:10it was, it was fun to blog and it was popular to blog.
- 20:13Nowadays I'm like, I don't know. I don't know that a blog is a
- 20:18term that is people are that are.
- 20:21I don't want. I don't want to presume that
- 20:23under a certain age like my God anymore.
- 20:27I don't think they know what a blog is.
- 20:30I also got my start as a Blogger.
- 20:32Oh yeah, you were writing about coffee.
- 20:35No, I had a blog which is definitely of a time about
- 20:41hipsters in New York. And that was my my first, my
- 20:45first blogs experiences. And I was just like in my studio
- 20:49apartment randomly writing about hipster products and hipster
- 20:53people. And hipster was still kind of a
- 20:55new term, I think. And I very clearly remember I,
- 21:02somebody had reached out and they sent me this product they
- 21:04called Hipster Spice. And it was essentially just a
- 21:08collection of like, I don't know, like, like a Trader Joe's
- 21:12everyday seasoning essentially put in like a special package
- 21:14and a whole thing. And I, you know, wrote, I wrote
- 21:18this review about it and wrote a whole article about it.
- 21:21And then years later I was working somewhere and was
- 21:27talking to someone and I mentioned that I had got my
- 21:29start as a blog and they mentioned that they had this
- 21:32product called hipster spite. And I was like, Oh my God, like
- 21:34I know that product. And they're like, really like no
- 21:36one knew that product. And I was like, well, I wrote
- 21:38this thing about it and they were like, that was like the
- 21:41biggest day ever for us. Like our little company, like
- 21:44getting this like professional thing.
- 21:45And then my head, I was like, Oh no, like I was just thinking
- 21:48like 1 little guy like over here.
- 21:50But it, it was a good lesson on how we impact other people
- 21:54without realizing it. You know, what you might feel as
- 21:56a throwaway isn't, and I think that gets to the point of you
- 22:00were exploring these coffee houses and kind of doing
- 22:03something for you that meant something.
- 22:05Yeah, absolutely. And I felt like it actually
- 22:08opened up a lot of doors for me. And to be honest, I never really
- 22:13thought I would open a coffee shop.
- 22:15You know, it would. It's like, I think it's in
- 22:17everybody's sometimes, like everybody's fantasy to be like,
- 22:20oh, I want to open a coffee shop one day and just.
- 22:22Or a bar or something. Yeah, serve, serve coffee.
- 22:24You know, I get so many customers in here that's just
- 22:26like, oh, I want to quit my job and do that.
- 22:29And I'm like, yes, but do you really know what it means?
- 22:32Yeah. Then you say go home and clean
- 22:34your bathroom every day and like have no one say thank you for it
- 22:37and then maybe you kind of want to do it.
- 22:40Yeah, exactly. But but no, I think it's such I
- 22:46I I honestly still don't know sometimes.
- 22:48Like, I feel like I'm living in a dream because I was like, how
- 22:50did I get here, you know? Well, there, it's a big leap to
- 22:54say to one. It's an industry change, Yeah.
- 22:59So somewhere along the line you had to be in your office and
- 23:02that during that nine to six and say this isn't it anymore.
- 23:07Yeah, no, you're right, 100%. I and A mentor of mine had told
- 23:12me outside of this industry, you know, he said, look at, look at
- 23:17someone you aspire to be like. Look at like somebody, you know,
- 23:21in the hierarchy that's like, you know, a few rungs above you.
- 23:25And in 10 years, is that where you want to be?
- 23:27Do you want to have that job? Do you want to have that
- 23:29person's life? And I took a look and I said, Oh
- 23:31my gosh, no way. I mean, you're getting like, you
- 23:36know, the compensation is great, but it's just you're losing more
- 23:41time, more of your own personal time, right?
- 23:43And you're just really feeding kind of this corporate machine,
- 23:46you know, and, and I was like, you know, unless I'm on the
- 23:49creative side, unless I'm actually a director or a
- 23:53producer or like I'm on set, you know, and I've always liked
- 23:56being behind the camera. Not, I'm not necessarily in
- 23:59front of the camera. I just thought, you know, I'm
- 24:01losing, I'm losing my creativity.
- 24:03It's not who I it's not who I am, it's not who I aspire to be,
- 24:06and it's not what I want to do for the rest of my life.
- 24:09And so then, you know, I kind of had to ask myself the hard
- 24:12questions, like what do I want to do for the rest of my life?
- 24:15Because for me, I felt like in a way, I was chasing, chasing that
- 24:21dream for so long. And, you know, it was definitely
- 24:24challenging and difficult at times, but I did it.
- 24:26I got there, right. And then it's kind of like, you
- 24:29know, you're standing at the finish line or you're standing
- 24:31at the top of the mountain and you're just kind of like, oh, I
- 24:35thought I was going to feel differently about this.
- 24:37Or kind of like, oh, what's next?
- 24:39You know, it's not that, I don't know, satisfactory feeling.
- 24:44And then it's then I just felt very lost, like, OK, well, like,
- 24:47if not this, then, then what? Because I had dedicated my
- 24:50whole, you know, my whole career and my life and, you know, my
- 24:53identity was all wrapped up in this, you know, in this
- 24:58corporate job and also, you know, everything that I created
- 25:01and my lifestyle around it. So I, I think just for me, as a
- 25:06way to decompress and relax, I would write, I would blog and I
- 25:10would, I just found comfort in these coffee houses.
- 25:13I found comfort in these coffee houses.
- 25:16And one of them was brew coffee brew coffee bar in, in Los Feliz
- 25:21on Vermont Ave. And I found a real friend and
- 25:24mentor, Brent Goey, and he actually he's from Brent,
- 25:27Oregon. And, you know, he would just, he
- 25:31was just one of those baristas that like would just talk to you
- 25:34and, you know, want to, you know, and remembered your name.
- 25:37It was so small, but I was going to this meditation temple kind
- 25:40of around the corner. And he's like, oh, where you,
- 25:43you know, where you headed off to?
- 25:44And I told him and he was like, oh, that's great.
- 25:46Next time I came back, he was like, oh, are you going to the
- 25:48meditation temple? I'm like, oh, wow, you
- 25:50remembered, you know. And so what's really, really
- 25:55fascinating about him is that he has this incredible story where
- 25:58he owned his own coffee house in San Francisco and he was also
- 26:05roasting for ritual coffee. So he was roasting for ritual
- 26:08and owned his own coffee house and then got super burnt out,
- 26:12moved back to Los Angeles where to be with his wife and his his
- 26:17daughter. I think they separated, but he
- 26:20came back and he's like, I just want to work in coffee.
- 26:22I just want to be a barista. So he sold it and then just is
- 26:26like their their main head barista and just loves it and
- 26:29loves meeting customers every day.
- 26:31But like he was, he's kind of like was my guiding light and I
- 26:34would just pester him with all these questions about like, you
- 26:37know, even even from like roasting to creating coffee.
- 26:41And I mean, even down the line, like nowadays, I still text him
- 26:44when I have a question. I'm like, wait, so how does
- 26:45this, how does this work? Why is this machine not working?
- 26:50But yeah, I think it's interesting that your mentor in
- 26:53in coffee or the first person that you kind of look to in that
- 26:56way decided he was too burned out to be an owner and just
- 27:01enjoyed the engagement part of it.
- 27:03And so you decided, well, I want to do the engagement, but I'm
- 27:05also going to be the person at the top getting all the stress.
- 27:10Yes, exactly. I don't think he sold it like
- 27:12that, but I think I was still kind of like I sealed blinders
- 27:17on, like I didn't really see everything, you know, I didn't
- 27:20lift back the veil, but I wanted to.
- 27:22I wanted to really create a space for people to be honest.
- 27:25And but he, I think the best way to describe it is he made it
- 27:30seem like he made it easy. He made, he made interactions
- 27:35with customers, like really showed me what it is to create a
- 27:38relationship with their customer and really care about what's
- 27:42going on in their life. And also creating a great cup of
- 27:44coffee, right. And so I found comfort in those
- 27:47coffee houses, almost like, you know, honestly, like drinking
- 27:51coffee, you know, like in the morning when you have like a
- 27:53warm cup of coffee, like that's how I felt in those coffee
- 27:55houses. And so with my blog at the time,
- 27:59I would just, I would just reach out to people honestly and just
- 28:02say like, Hey, like I want to interview you.
- 28:04And I got press passes to like coffee festivals and coffee
- 28:08conferences. And I was like, whoa, go me.
- 28:11And I'm like, wear a badge and like, go interview these people.
- 28:14And then like put on a suit Monday morning and you know,
- 28:17like go back to my corporate life.
- 28:19So that was, that was my life for a for a while.
- 28:22When did you decide or what was the tipping point that you
- 28:25decided? I'm going to step away from the
- 28:29suit life and into the grind life.
- 28:33Yeah, so I think, I think there were baby steps, but I just
- 28:37thought, OK, you know what, I'm just going to learn how to be a
- 28:39better, you know, I know, learn how to make coffee, learn to be
- 28:43a better barista and just for fun, like almost like a home
- 28:45barista, right. And so I took, I took a coffee
- 28:49course up in where did I go? Was it?
- 28:52No, actually, I did go, I went to Oregon and it was with
- 28:56Bellissimo Coffee and took like a full immersion weekend with
- 29:02them. And just kind of I, I think I
- 29:05was floating at the time. Like I didn't really 100% know I
- 29:08wanted to open a coffee shop, but I just knew I liked being
- 29:11around coffee people. I liked being around coffee
- 29:14people. I like being around roasters.
- 29:15I like, love learning about coffee.
- 29:17I like talking to people about coffee and as I learned more
- 29:20about coffee, it just gave me more confidence kind of just, I
- 29:24don't know, it just gave me more confidence to like step into my
- 29:27creativity, I think. And I, and so I initially maybe
- 29:35just was researching, you know, how much would, how much would
- 29:38it cost to open up a coffee house?
- 29:41You know, I was just kind of crunching the numbers.
- 29:43OK, well, what does it mean? Like, what does 500 square feet
- 29:46mean in Hollywood? What does 700 square feet mean
- 29:50in Santa Monica? You know, I'd learn almost also
- 29:52like, you know, it's price per square foot.
- 29:55And you know, what are what's, you know, what's triple net, all
- 29:59of that, you know, And I was just kind of like, I was
- 30:01definitely getting a little intimidated by the numbers.
- 30:04And again, I just met really, really incredible people along
- 30:07the way. I met developers and restaurant
- 30:09tours and they kind of taught me about like, OK, if you're really
- 30:12going to look for a place, don't get a first generation space,
- 30:15get a second generation space. You do not want to go through
- 30:17the permitting and everything. So honestly, it was just kind
- 30:22of, I was like a squirrel. I was just gathering, gathering
- 30:25research, gathering information and being like, OK, maybe this
- 30:28is something I want to do, you know, like, do I want to do it
- 30:31now? This is safe.
- 30:32This is safe to like stay in my little, you know, corporate
- 30:35bubble. But then COVID hit 2020, COVID
- 30:38hit and everybody, our, our departments were getting slashed
- 30:45left and right. And my department unfortunately
- 30:47was one of them. And I had already kind of put
- 30:50together a business plan and, you know, like basically all the
- 30:54all the steps behind it, but I just wasn't ready to really make
- 30:58the jump. And then when I got laid off, I
- 31:02was like, oh, OK, like this is this is the universe like giving
- 31:06me a push. Like, OK, I maybe you're not
- 31:09ready, but we're ready for you to just take the leap, you know?
- 31:13And so again, I think I was really blessed with all of the
- 31:16years I spent with Universal because they gave me a great
- 31:20severance package. You know, it was, I still have a
- 31:22great relationship with them. They actually ended up hiring me
- 31:26back multiple times to consult for them at one point while I
- 31:31was running the coffee shop, which is the craziest, craziest
- 31:35like couple months in my life juggling those two jobs.
- 31:39But that severance package helped me really to kind of
- 31:44find, give me some time to really like find my space.
- 31:49And it, it still took a couple of years after that, to be
- 31:52honest, but I was just working on other personal things and I
- 31:55was helping like the family business and things like that.
- 31:58But it was kind of a transition from me being, you know, getting
- 32:01sort of this corporate paycheck to being an entrepreneur by
- 32:03myself. And, and I think I think I would
- 32:07have made the leap eventually, but I definitely don't think it
- 32:10would have been so fast if it wasn't for COVID.
- 32:13So. What made you want to have your
- 32:17coffee shop near Hollywood? I mean, you mentioned real
- 32:21estate. It's not the cheapest place to
- 32:23find a, a rental space to rent. You know, was there a reason
- 32:29that was appealing to you or was that just the opportunity that
- 32:32came up? And you know, when did you?
- 32:34I think that it was more the opportunity that came up.
- 32:37And I mean, I don't know about some of your other guests or
- 32:41people that you've talked to, but for me, it was so difficult
- 32:44to convince, to convince somebody to convince landlord or
- 32:49you know, to even give me a chance because I felt like, I
- 32:53honestly felt like, you know, applying for a job like that,
- 32:57like, you know, like closing the loop on that.
- 32:59Like going back to like when I was applying for jobs, I was
- 33:01just sending out not resumes, but like, you know, LO is like
- 33:04left and right. I was like, here, I'm
- 33:06interested, I'm interested, I'm interested, you know, and I, I
- 33:10really do think it's not an easy road and it's tough because
- 33:12you're not a proven concept. You're not a proven concept.
- 33:16You don't have the backing of, you know, a restaurant group
- 33:19behind you. They don't know if you're going
- 33:22to flounder or fail or, you know, it's like, OK, great, you
- 33:24have this great concept in the business plan and, you know,
- 33:27this nice little presentation that you put together.
- 33:30But you know, how are you going to be able to make the rent is
- 33:33basically what they're thinking, you know, and you know, are you
- 33:36going to be good for the community?
- 33:37Are you going to be good for the neighborhood?
- 33:40So I was actually looking all over.
- 33:42I was looking in Silver Lake, I was looking in Los Feliz, I
- 33:45looked in Studio City, West Hollywood, Santa Monica.
- 33:50I was looking at, I had a couple of real estate agents and I
- 33:57looked at places that were just like buildings that were just
- 34:00opening. I looked at second generation
- 34:02spaces. I even looked at first
- 34:03generation spaces, even though that was like against the advice
- 34:06I got. I was just kind of like
- 34:07desperate. I was like, I don't care, I'm
- 34:09just going to boots on the ground.
- 34:12But I ended up finding a space that another coffee house wanted
- 34:18to move out of. They were having some issues
- 34:21with the landlord. And they also, they wanted to
- 34:23change the, their name and there was just like a lot of issues
- 34:26that they were having. So they had another shop in
- 34:29North Hollywood and they, they wanted to focus on that coffee
- 34:32house. And this one maybe wasn't as
- 34:34profitable for them. So they were just, it was
- 34:37essentially kind of like an asset sale.
- 34:39And I still remember it was like a Saturday and they had an open
- 34:44house. I, I went in there and there was
- 34:47at least two other people that were there, like kind of just
- 34:50looking at the space. They had all their equipment
- 34:51out, you know, and then they were like, we want to get out of
- 34:54here, you know, like we just, you know, and I looked at my
- 34:57funds. I had enough to do, you know, to
- 35:00go into escrow with them. And then it was just kind of,
- 35:04you know, trying to figure out would the space work for me?
- 35:06And it's, our space is about 780 square feet.
- 35:10And then we also have a patio, but I'm going to be honest, the
- 35:13neighborhood wasn't like it's not fancy Hollywood.
- 35:17When I was looking at the space that it was like tent city
- 35:20across the street from us. There was so many like homeless
- 35:24tents and I and pretty sure there was a meth tent because
- 35:31the first week we moved in, one of the tents blew up, literally
- 35:35just blew up on fire. And I remember my staff was
- 35:40calling me because I was getting some more inventory around the
- 35:43corner. And they're like, So what do we
- 35:44do in case of a fire? And I'm like, what, What do you
- 35:48mean a fire? I was like, is the place on
- 35:50fire? They're like, no, but you know,
- 35:52the tents across the street are on fire.
- 35:54And it's so bad that it's literally like shaking our
- 35:57windows and they're like, we're hiding in the kitchen right now.
- 36:00And I was like, Oh my gosh, this is this is my first week on the
- 36:03job. Well, and I don't, I don't mean
- 36:08I don't know necessarily had you been a boss at up to that point.
- 36:14I mean a hospitality boss is different than but having some
- 36:17experience leading a team is always.
- 36:19Yeah, keep the moment. It's so it's so different.
- 36:22I did. I was a director at my at my
- 36:25rolling universal. So I did have a team, but it's
- 36:27so different. It's like, yeah, like I said,
- 36:31it's hospitality is so different.
- 36:32And I think the other difference is I felt I had a lot more
- 36:35support in my other role because it's like, oh, OK, you know,
- 36:39something technical comes up, your computer doesn't work.
- 36:41OK, take it to, you know, call IT, call IT, take it down to the
- 36:44IT department. You know, that's easy here.
- 36:47It's you're just troubleshooting and.
- 36:50You're the help. Yeah, you're, you were I I I
- 36:53think I will have worn every hat in the closet.
- 36:56And sometimes I don't know what I'm doing.
- 36:59I don't know. I feel like imposter syndrome
- 37:01all the time. And a lot of times you don't
- 37:03have time to really figure it out.
- 37:05You just got to, it's one of those quick decisions you just
- 37:08got to make, you know, and you just got to make it.
- 37:11It's like, OK, well, you know what?
- 37:13This is the decision I'm going with.
- 37:14And we'll, you know, move on. We'll see.
- 37:16You know, it's like whack a mole.
- 37:19I don't want to lose out on this because I'm really enjoying
- 37:22hearing kind of the shade and Freud of hearing your horror
- 37:26stories here about the meth lab and everything.
- 37:28To be fair, the guy in the meth tent or the woman in the meth
- 37:30tent was probably making more money than you that first.
- 37:32Week, yes, absolutely. And they didn't have to have
- 37:34licenses for, they didn't have to have a sales.
- 37:36License No licensing for meth labs.
- 37:39No health permits? Yep.
- 37:42Shorter, you know, shorter business lifespan.
- 37:44But the idea of coffee confessionals, one of the things
- 37:48that really struck me about it and and why when I received a an
- 37:54inquiry from from your PR person in January and I started looking
- 37:58into it was the creating a space for customers to engage with
- 38:02each other, which immediately makes me uncomfortable.
- 38:08You know, like I even though I am absolutely the person who
- 38:12sits at the bar and talks to the bartender and talks to the
- 38:15person next to me. It's this thing that I can troll
- 38:18to some extent or I get to choose if I do.
- 38:21You're creating a space that naturally encourages people to
- 38:26engage, which means it's more likely that someone's going to
- 38:28try to engage with me if I'm not ready for it.
- 38:31What made you think this was a good idea for one, and how did
- 38:35you approach introducing that concept not just to customers,
- 38:40but to your staff and to your business plan?
- 38:43Yeah. So that's a great question.
- 38:45And I think it was definitely difficult for for us at first
- 38:49because I understand sort of the hesitancy of people, you know,
- 38:54oh, you know, I don't know if I want to be approached.
- 38:56But I also think a lot of times, you know, whether you're at a
- 38:58coffee house or a bar or anything like that, there is
- 39:02this desire for connection. You want to connect, but you
- 39:06also feel very self-conscious and you're very, you know,
- 39:10people can be, you know, am I saying the right thing?
- 39:12Am I doing the right thing? And it's like I almost kind of
- 39:15want to take that veil off, right?
- 39:17And I think coffee and alcohol sometimes is very much so kind
- 39:22of like this social lubricant, right?
- 39:24And it kind of helps loosen you up.
- 39:26But other ways to do that, it's, you know, we were really Iding
- 39:30it around it and I was thinking, OK, like, what if we just had
- 39:34these conversation cards, You know, these conversation
- 39:36starters, we put them on the tables.
- 39:39A lot of times it might just be like 2 friends that are just
- 39:42getting coffee. And while they're waiting for
- 39:43their, their coffee, you know, they're looking through these
- 39:45cards. But I think our bigger goal and
- 39:48what I really, you know, I'm really starting to create in the
- 39:51space is creating these meaningful events, meaningful
- 39:55events where people can really come and connect with each
- 39:58other. So we have like a comedy show,
- 40:00we have an open mic, We've done an artist art walk.
- 40:05We've got, we've done an entrepreneurial tech panel
- 40:08before. And so I want to create all of
- 40:10these different events so that if you're like, you know, you're
- 40:13a comic book writer or if you're an artist or if you're like a
- 40:17comedian or aspiring comic, these are places where you can
- 40:20come and just feel like, OK, this is.
- 40:23You know, this is a coffee house, but it's also kind of a
- 40:25social space that I can meet, you know, someone fun and new.
- 40:28And it also just goes down to for us, for me is my staff
- 40:33training. You know, it's sort of like, you
- 40:35know, obviously you're always friendly, greeting the
- 40:37customers, but really asking them, hey, like, what have you
- 40:40got exciting going on for the day, right?
- 40:42And sometimes that really just helps to open people up.
- 40:45And my whole thing is like, we're not forcing you to be
- 40:48social, right? Some people just, they're like,
- 40:50no, I just want to like, get my, you know, I want to just finish
- 40:53my script, like don't talk to me, right?
- 40:56But I do think a lot of times people have that desire and they
- 40:59just don't have the tools to be able to just go up to somebody
- 41:04and say like, hey, like I, I literally just moved to the area
- 41:07and, you know, I'm trying to make new friends and I don't,
- 41:10you know, I don't know how to go about doing that.
- 41:12Right. And I've actually heard that
- 41:13from customers, like even just me interacting with customers.
- 41:17Oh, Oh my gosh, you have a comedy show.
- 41:18That's great. I just moved out here from New
- 41:20York and I love comedy. Or oh, you guys have an open mic
- 41:24like once a month. I'm an aspiring musician.
- 41:26You know, I just moved out here from, you know, I don't know,
- 41:29Florida or wherever. And so I think it's just having
- 41:33that space where people can be like, OK, well, you know, I'll,
- 41:36I'll attend the shop. I mean, I'll attend the show and
- 41:38see how it goes. I'll meet someone new.
- 41:41And so that's, I think that's us like kind of trying to cultivate
- 41:45or guide people into these connections.
- 41:49And another thing I'm really proud of is we have a spill Your
- 41:52Beans. It's like on craft paper, the
- 41:53Spill Your beans board. And we do a different topic
- 41:56every week. Just it's like a fun topic.
- 41:58Sometimes it's a serious 1. You know, what's your New Year's
- 42:01resolution? What are you grateful for?
- 42:05You know, what's a household disaster that happened to you?
- 42:09You know, what is 1 clothing fad that you really regret doing?
- 42:13And then we just create these little, you know, snippets,
- 42:16these little videos around it and we read these out loud.
- 42:19And what I really want to do eventually is start to create
- 42:21these into more, create them into almost like video, video
- 42:27reels and video blogs about like different, you know, different
- 42:30people, different stories. And honestly, I was really
- 42:32inspired by Humans of New York when I lived out there.
- 42:35I just, I love what that whole brand was about, you know,
- 42:38telling the story, you know, the common person and you're
- 42:41smiling, 'cause I feel like you really maybe, you know.
- 42:44The I'm smiling because my computer is propped up on a
- 42:47Humans of New York book. Oh, OK.
- 42:51I love that. Yeah, yeah.
- 42:52So I, I, I love, you know, everything that Brandon did and
- 42:56that was really a true inspiration for me.
- 42:58So that's that's kind of what I wanted to do with my own brand.
- 43:02So I had this coffee smarter question I was going to ask you.
- 43:06Rostar asks us to, you know, get advice for other aspiring
- 43:10entrepreneurs in the coffee space about changing careers.
- 43:14But I think what I'd, I'd rather hear is now that you're into
- 43:19this world, what advice might you offer to somebody thinking
- 43:24of leaving a corporate structure?
- 43:26What have you found to be the bigger challenge or the sticking
- 43:31points that make you sometimes either reconsider or make you
- 43:35go, yeah, this is the right call for me.
- 43:39I definitely think that it's not a, it's baby steps, right?
- 43:44It's not just one day, you know, I don't like my boss.
- 43:47I don't like this. I'm just, I quit.
- 43:49Don't do that. Definitely don't do that.
- 43:52I think that for me, the more research I did, the more I
- 43:56understood what I was getting myself into.
- 43:59Even though I understood a lot of what I was getting myself
- 44:01into, you still don't really know until you're in the thick
- 44:03of it. But it was baby steps.
- 44:07And I remember, I think a quote from Jack Campbell, which I
- 44:10heard on like the attraction video or the attraction movie
- 44:14was it's like you're driving at night, right?
- 44:17And you have headlights on and you can only see like, you know,
- 44:203 feet in front of you and that's it.
- 44:22And then you, you know, get to that destination and then your
- 44:25headlights shine another 3 feet in front of you.
- 44:27And that quote just really stuck with me in terms of how I got
- 44:31here. It's you kind of had this
- 44:33destination in mind, but you have no idea how you're going to
- 44:35get there. You have no idea you get the
- 44:36funding, you have no idea how you're going to train your your
- 44:39staff, who you're going to hire, where you're going to end up.
- 44:42Are you going to get a lease? What kind of lease are you going
- 44:44to get All of these questions, but I just think I started to I
- 44:49started to interview roasters. I started to interview coffee
- 44:52shop owners. I started to interview Brent, my
- 44:54mentor, and he gave me a lot of confidence in like, you know,
- 44:58you can do this, you know, but it was honestly baby steps.
- 45:02You know, the more that I and, and it's not so much I just quit
- 45:08my corporate job and open a coffee shop in between.
- 45:10I did a lot of coffee pop ups. I did, I brought like a little,
- 45:16you know, like one of those home coffees brewing the Breville,
- 45:20the Breville barista and I went to coffee events and I, I made
- 45:24lattes and I made drinks and I, you know, I did that whole
- 45:27thing. I, I never felt like I wanted to
- 45:31just have a coffee cart or, or truck because I wanted that
- 45:35space. I knew very early on that I
- 45:37wanted a physical brick and mortar for people to congregate
- 45:41and for people to gather and create, literally be creative,
- 45:45you know, and meet each other. So that was always my goal.
- 45:48But I along the way, you know, I partnered, I had I had partnered
- 45:53with this group called forward Female and they had a space in
- 45:57downtown LA was for female founders.
- 46:00And I did tons of pop up events with them, serving coffee,
- 46:03talking to customers. So I think it doesn't need to be
- 46:06such a big leap. I think you just kind of, you
- 46:08know, maybe you go to farmers markets and, you know, you talk
- 46:11to other baristas and other founders and you really see if
- 46:15it's for you because it's never going to be this like straight,
- 46:19straight arrow, you know, straight shot into it, I think.
- 46:23And if you keep going, you're like, OK, I do like this, you
- 46:25know, I do like serving coffee to people, but in kind of, you
- 46:28know, a smaller setting. It's like, OK, I did this event
- 46:31for 50 people. That was great.
- 46:33Next, I did this event for 100 people.
- 46:34OK, that turned out OK. You know, I didn't, I didn't
- 46:37lose my I didn't lose, you know, lose it over that.
- 46:40And you just kind of keep, I feel like you just keep
- 46:45expanding and testing your boundaries and testing your
- 46:49limits to see like, is this really what I want?
- 46:51You know, instead of just stepping into a coffee shop and
- 46:53be like, OK, I'm going to, I'm going to buy this.
- 46:55I'm going to do this. I'm going to, you know, and and
- 46:58then you regret it. But I definitely think that to a
- 47:01certain point, I had gotten to the end of my career and there
- 47:05was nothing else I wanted to do with it.
- 47:06And I think that was another big revelation for me in that I
- 47:11didn't want to pursue it anymore, and that was a really
- 47:14big push for me to do something else.
- 47:18In that moment, was there any reticence because you had worked
- 47:24so hard to get there? Like knowing that identifying
- 47:29that you are ready to move on is important, but there's also
- 47:33this, well, I did all this work to get here, is it OK to do
- 47:36something else? That's what I would be concerned
- 47:39about. For me, yeah, absolutely.
- 47:41And I have been a million times over SO.
- 47:46I don't, yeah. I don't know of reticence is the
- 47:49maybe maybe a little bit of reticence.
- 47:51It's kind of a mixed bag for me. Part of it is like, do I have
- 47:55permission? You know, do I have permission
- 47:57to step out of this life and do something for myself and do
- 48:00something that's, you know, and culturally, you know, I'm
- 48:05Chinese and my parents are very, you know, they have a certain
- 48:09idea of what your profession should be.
- 48:10And I still remember when I told my mom, she was like, what do
- 48:13you want to do? She treated it kind of like a
- 48:16lemon. I love my mom, by the way, but
- 48:17she treated it like, like a lemonade stand.
- 48:19She's like, how much are you going to make selling coffee on
- 48:22the corner of like, so And so, you know, she's like, you're
- 48:25just selling cups of coffee. Like I don't understand.
- 48:28Yeah, I mean, well, and that's part of it too.
- 48:30If you have a certain level of income, becoming a founder means
- 48:35giving up kind of some ideas of what every week's income is
- 48:38going to be. It becomes less predictable.
- 48:41It becomes sometimes non existent.
- 48:43Sometimes I think that that honestly was the scariest part
- 48:46for me being like, OK, so you're getting, you know, 401K, you're
- 48:49getting, you know, weekly or bi weekly paycheck.
- 48:52And now it's like you have to make sure that you make payroll.
- 48:57You have to make sure that you make payroll for your employees.
- 48:59You know, you have to make sure you bring the customers in.
- 49:02You know, when, when the espresso machine breaks, when
- 49:06the ice machine breaks, when a crazy person, you know, goes
- 49:09into your shop, you're like, you're the, you're the stop.
- 49:12Like you got to figure it out. And that's why I think like
- 49:15sometimes, and the corporate training definitely did help
- 49:18because a lot of times we have to just troubleshoot and just
- 49:21figure out certain things, like in a really fast pace.
- 49:24But it's like, OK, if the tent across the street is on fire,
- 49:27like what are you going to do? Like what do you tell your
- 49:28staff? You know, you don't really have
- 49:30a moment to think. You're just like, OK, this is
- 49:32what we're going to do. You know, and I'm going to make
- 49:34a decision now. And I'm going to, you know, if
- 49:35it's the wrong decision, we'll we'll course, we'll course
- 49:38correct later. But you just have to really have
- 49:40confidence in, OK, I'm making this decision.
- 49:43I'm going for it. But yeah, I think giving
- 49:47yourself permission maybe, yes, being a little resident to take
- 49:52the leap because you're like, well, where's my next paycheck?
- 49:55How am I going to pay my employees, you know, and to be
- 49:59honest, it's like I, I still really do feel imposter
- 50:02syndrome. It's like, who do I think I am?
- 50:04Like, why do I deserve this? You know, and I don't have the
- 50:07traditional, I don't have the traditional route from, you
- 50:12know, that a lot of coffee shop owners, you know, they might be,
- 50:15they might have been in management at another coffee
- 50:17shop or they work their way up from being a barista to a
- 50:19roaster. You know, I've worked in the
- 50:21hospitality industry like I've been a server, I've been a
- 50:25Hostess, I've done, I've done all that, you know, so I
- 50:29understand it, but I didn't really understand the operations
- 50:32and the management of it. And for me, it really was a huge
- 50:37leap of faith for me to do that and to but to have all of the
- 50:42mentors that were sort of cheering me on and guiding me.
- 50:45And, and I always tell everybody, I think that people I
- 50:48meet in the coffee space and the coffee world are some of the
- 50:51kindest, like kindest people you'll ever meet.
- 50:55And they just, they're not looking to see you fail.
- 50:58It's like a hard enough industry as it is, you know, everybody
- 51:00knows and they're just there to support you and they give you
- 51:03free advice. And sometimes I'm like, Oh my
- 51:05God, I'm getting all this free advice.
- 51:06Like, you know, are we competitors?
- 51:08No, we're not competitors. Like it's a, it's a tough space,
- 51:11you know, And I think it's like what they, what did they say
- 51:14about doctors? It's like, you know, to be a
- 51:16doctor, you really have to like want to care for people.
- 51:18You really want to be a doctor. You're not just doing it for the
- 51:21money, you know. Where is the money going in the
- 51:26medical? I feel like we pay so much
- 51:28insurance and then every doctor, I mean, is like we're not
- 51:30getting that money. I have no idea where it's going
- 51:33other. Than pharmacy.
- 51:35Anyway, that's another conversation.
- 51:37Absolutely. OK, So what are you, what are
- 51:42you watching? What are you reading?
- 51:44You're in, you're from the industry.
- 51:46I assume you're still paying attention.
- 51:48What's the thing that you're getting excited about right now?
- 51:52I'm just trying to think I this is an unconventional answer, but
- 51:58I just read a lot of I don't have really that much time to
- 52:03read like I I'm like reading insurance policies right now I'm
- 52:05trying to switch in general insurance liability watching.
- 52:10I really like it's true. I'm like reading.
- 52:13It's been like a true owner right there.
- 52:15I'm. Like trying to get through all
- 52:17this paperwork for tax season too.
- 52:18And I'm like reading, I did listen to a couple of your
- 52:22podcasts, which I really enjoyed.
- 52:24When I when I'm driving, I like to listen to podcasts and what
- 52:29else to get my mind off of stress.
- 52:31I'd like to watch tennis matches.
- 52:34Huge tennis fan and I play tennis.
- 52:35So that's that's my go to stress reliever.
- 52:38So I'd like. To watch some big upsets this
- 52:40week in The Australian. Yes.
- 52:42Oh I see you're a definitely a tennis fan too.
- 52:45I was paying attention a little bit, although I'm not very good
- 52:48at playing anymore. Anything that we missed today
- 52:52about coffee confessionals. I know there's a lot more that
- 52:54we can go into in a future chat, but it was there something
- 52:57specific or anything that you were like?
- 52:58I really wanted to get this kind of idea out in this episode.
- 53:03You covered a lot. I think that just for people who
- 53:05are interested in being an entrepreneur doesn't necessarily
- 53:08have to be in the coffee industry.
- 53:11You know, I don't think that I don't think that it's what am I
- 53:16trying to say? It's challenging for sure.
- 53:18But I think once you start to take these baby steps of talking
- 53:21to people and researching and doing all that, it, it becomes
- 53:25less of a daunting leap of faith, so to speak, than one
- 53:30thinks. And I just hope that my story
- 53:34can really help to inspire other people to just try go for it,
- 53:37you know, like, even if you were starting, you know, a book club
- 53:41in your own house and then you expand it into something else
- 53:44and then you write a book or, you know, whatever, it's just
- 53:47take the baby steps, start at 1st.
- 53:49And that's really what gave me joy when I was, you know, like
- 53:52just buried in paperwork and emails.
- 53:55And I was like, you know what, I'm just going to do something
- 53:56fun and you never know where it's going to lead.
- 53:59So, and I hope that our space can really create that kind of
- 54:04safe and connective tissue for people in the community,
- 54:08especially, you know, just given all the craziness that's out
- 54:12there now. I I really do want it to be a
- 54:14safe haven for everybody. What is it that you order when
- 54:18you're out at someone else's coffee shop?
- 54:21So I go between just getting a drip coffee because I just love,
- 54:26I just love black coffee with a little bit of Creamer, no sugar
- 54:30that really I just, I love holding on to that and just
- 54:33having a conversation. Or if I'm feeling like, oh, I
- 54:35really want to try all these signature lattes, I'll get
- 54:37something adventurous like, you know, like I don't know, burnt
- 54:40Creme brulee latte or something like that.
- 54:42I love discovering what other coffee houses, their inventions
- 54:46and things like that. If somebody is coming to Coffee
- 54:49Confessionals and we'll share all the links, Coffee
- 54:53confessionals.com, all the different YouTube and Instagram,
- 54:56Facebook, all that. If somebody's coming there, what
- 55:03would you recommend if it's their first visit?
- 55:04I'm going to be driving through LA in a couple of weeks.
- 55:09What should I expect when I walk through the doors?
- 55:12Do you want Do you want a drink recommendation or an event
- 55:16recommendation? Maybe a little bit of both, Like
- 55:19what is the experience like? Should I be nervous when I get
- 55:22there that I'm going to have to be social and real?
- 55:25Oh, no, no, it's not, it's not like that.
- 55:28You walk in the door and it's like, go make a friend now.
- 55:31No, it's a very honestly, it's a very casual coffee shop.
- 55:34It's it is a coffee shop. It's not like this new weird
- 55:38invention where you have to talk into like a speaker box or
- 55:41anything like that. Now we just, we have our briefs.
- 55:44This I would recommend. We have a drink called the Mocha
- 55:47Moose, which was named after one of the Pantone colors I think
- 55:50last year where we have it's a hazelnut latte with dark
- 55:55chocolate foam on top. And it's it's so good.
- 55:59People love it. It's like it's Nutella.
- 56:02It's unhealthy, but it's kind of like a fun Nutella drink.
- 56:05You sold me. That's that's what I'll be
- 56:07getting. Jane, thank you.
- 56:10Thank you so much for being here and sharing some of that.
- 56:12I'm looking forward to chatting again at some point and and
- 56:16having that mocha boost. Yeah.
- 56:18Thank you, Ryan. Now we get to do this really fun
- 57:16awkward thing where we record room tone for like 30 seconds.
- 57:20We just stare at each other or look off into the distance.
- 57:59That's it. Thank you, Ryan.
- 58:01Yeah, you bet. Hang on one second.