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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie.
- 0:07Speaker 2: And Samantha.
- 0:08Speaker 1: And welcome to Stuff I Never Told You, a production
- 0:09Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. And today we are bringing back a classic
- 0:21Speaker 1: with a heavy heart. I know I recently said I
- 0:25Speaker 1: try not to bring back so many entertainment-based episodes all
- 0:32Speaker 1: at once but a lot of things have happened in
- 0:35Speaker 1: the entertainment world feels all at once but one of
- 0:39Speaker 1: the sad things is we have lost Dolly Parton yes
- 0:45Speaker 1: I legitimately did have a moment I know you talked
- 0:47Speaker 1: about it I was upset I was upset in a
- 0:52Speaker 1: way that doesn't normally happen with celebrities for me but
- 0:57Speaker 1: that one got me She just did so much. There
- 1:04Speaker 1: is another episode Spinty has done, Kristen and Caroline did,
- 1:08Speaker 1: about her history. We've already brought it back and we
- 1:11Speaker 1: brought it back during COVID because she was a big
- 1:16Speaker 1: proponent of vaccines. So she's been active in things like that.
- 1:21Speaker 1: She was active in children's books and getting children to read.
- 1:26Speaker 1: And she just had An amazing life and an amazing story.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Right. I think she was one that was really noted
- 1:33Speaker 2: as understanding that the world does not need billionaires. And
- 1:38Speaker 2: so as she could have been a billionaire, but she
- 1:40Speaker 2: continued to give back, realizing that she needed to pour
- 1:44Speaker 2: back in as much as it was poured into her.
- 1:46Speaker 2: And she absolutely did that. She stood ten toes down
- 1:50Speaker 2: in making sure that she was doing as much for
- 1:53Speaker 2: the communities and the people around her. She really was someone,
- 1:57Speaker 2: if anybody... was able to unite a country is her.
- 2:02Speaker 2: Like the people who you would absolutely... Donald Trump, who
- 2:06Speaker 2: would not lower his flags for hardly anybody, has lowered
- 2:11Speaker 2: his flag, lowered his flag, lowered the flag for her
- 2:15Speaker 2: for a week. And that just comes to talk about
- 2:19Speaker 2: how she was. And she cared nothing about politics, whether
- 2:23Speaker 2: it was Biden or Trump. She absolutely did not care
- 2:25Speaker 2: about the Medal of Freedom. She was like... eh, I'm good.
- 2:31Speaker 2: She was an amazing woman and my heart is broken
- 2:34Speaker 2: that she has died. This year sucks.
- 2:40Speaker 1: This year does suck. And that was a... It felt
- 2:47Speaker 1: sudden to me. I'm sure it wasn't, but it just
- 2:49Speaker 1: felt like, oh, now I've got to... process this too.
- 2:54Speaker 2: Yeah like she was she was holding back she said
- 2:57Speaker 2: she had dizzy spells but never really told what was
- 3:00Speaker 2: happening she was very private I think that's the other
- 3:02Speaker 2: part she was amazingly private and she understood to keep
- 3:05Speaker 2: her life separate I think that's probably also what made
- 3:09Speaker 2: her an icon and yeah this movie that we did
- 3:12Speaker 2: 9 to 5 we're like oh I can't believe we
- 3:14Speaker 2: haven't talked about this also they're talking about trying to
- 3:18Speaker 2: make 925 a day a Dolly Remembrance Day yeah so
- 3:24Speaker 2: it's the day before my birthday and i was like
- 3:25Speaker 2: yes i would love to share that time frame with.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Her yes so we did this movie nine to five
- 3:32Speaker 1: uh which has dolly parton in it and uh it
- 3:37Speaker 1: also has lily tomlin in it which we recently talked
- 3:40Speaker 1: about in our miss frizzle episode yes yes yes connections
- 3:47Speaker 1: yeah connections um But yes, very sad about this. I
- 3:52Speaker 1: know a lot of people are. But this movie was a,
- 3:55Speaker 1: it was a fun, it was a fun movie. Yeah.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Yes.
- 3:59Speaker 1: So please enjoy this classic episode. Hey, this is Annie.
- 4:08Speaker 2: And Samantha.
- 4:08Speaker 1: And welcome to Step One Never Told You, a production
- 4:10Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio.
- 4:20Speaker 2: And we, for this Feminist Movie Friday, if you're happening
- 4:24Speaker 2: to listen on a Friday, hey, good job. If not,
- 4:28Speaker 2: no matter. It's still Feminist Movie Day. Whatever day you
- 4:31Speaker 2: want to slip in there. We are throwing it back.
- 4:34Speaker 2: All the way back to 1980, y'all.
- 4:37Speaker 1: Yes.
- 4:39Speaker 2: For a cult classic, which is now what it is deemed,
- 4:43Speaker 2: one with some interesting mixed reviews. But a movie that
- 4:48Speaker 2: has made its mark, so much so that it spawned
- 4:51Speaker 2: TV shows, musicals, and even a possible remake currently in
- 4:57Speaker 2: the works, supposedly. I don't know. There's even a documentary
- 5:03Speaker 2: of where we are now. Spoiler alert, we're not much
- 5:07Speaker 2: better off. Actually, we're worse. We are talking about the
- 5:10Speaker 2: classic 9 to 5. So just an FYI, from the
- 5:14Speaker 2: day I suggested this movie to the day I wrote
- 5:18Speaker 2: this damn outline, changes have occurred and sadness has ensued.
- 5:25Speaker 2: And the way we were talking about this movie has
- 5:27Speaker 2: swiftly changed. So if something seems kind of like we're
- 5:30Speaker 2: coming backtracking and be like, well, it's actually this now,
- 5:33Speaker 2: it's because in the middle of literally two weeks, a
- 5:37Speaker 2: movie from the 1980s has already changed, like, perspectives just
- 5:41Speaker 2: within these two weeks of in 2025. Deep breath in
- 5:43Speaker 2: and out. But yes, so with everything that's happening, it
- 5:52Speaker 2: seems it is. It's the fact that we are going backwards.
- 5:55Speaker 2: We thought it would be a good time to revisit
- 5:57Speaker 2: a classic. One of the many things this movie did,
- 6:00Speaker 2: it catapulted the beginning of Dolly Parton's acting career. It
- 6:05Speaker 2: was her first debut, and... Even if people did not
- 6:09Speaker 2: like this movie, people said it was unrealistic. Of course
- 6:11Speaker 2: it's unrealistic. Sorry. People said it was too cheeky. People
- 6:16Speaker 2: said it was too sitcom-y. All of these criticisms to it.
- 6:20Speaker 2: But the one thing they all agreed, Dolly Parton is
- 6:24Speaker 2: a movie star. Literally with several different people's takes. Most
- 6:28Speaker 2: of the reviews that I read, by the way, were
- 6:30Speaker 2: from men. Were from men. Which should be noted. Yeah. Anyway,
- 6:34Speaker 2: moving on. Of course, she also helped with the musical
- 6:38Speaker 2: talent by writing the title song and hit 9 to 5, which,
- 6:42Speaker 2: by the way, Caroline Irvin, previous host of the show,
- 6:46Speaker 2: kills that song. It is her song in karaoke.
- 6:49Speaker 1: I can see that, yeah.
- 6:50Speaker 2: She does a phenomenal job. She dances. She takes on
- 6:54Speaker 2: the spirit of Dolly Parton and hits those high notes
- 6:56Speaker 2: like nobody's business. Just in case you're wondering. It's a banger.
- 7:00Speaker 2: It's a banger, and she hits it, y'all.
- 7:02Speaker 1: Anyway.
- 7:03Speaker 2: Originally an idea from Jane Fonda and others from her
- 7:06Speaker 2: production company at the time, after learning about a women's
- 7:10Speaker 2: organization of the same name, 9to5, a quote from her says,
- 7:15Speaker 2: My ideas for films always come from things that I
- 7:17Speaker 2: hear and perceive in my daily life. A very old
- 7:20Speaker 2: friend of mine had started an organization in Boston called 9to5,
- 7:26Speaker 2: which was an association of women office workers. I heard
- 7:29Speaker 2: them talking about their work, and they had some great stories,
- 7:32Speaker 2: and I've always been attracted to those 1940s films with
- 7:36Speaker 2: three female stars. And yes, it's absolutely that kind of, like,
- 7:40Speaker 2: hijinks ensues with these three women trying to help each
- 7:43Speaker 2: other out, but supporting each other. I love it. This
- 7:47Speaker 2: movie has been impactful and still remains relevant today. So
- 7:53Speaker 2: let's start with the characters. The four characters we're going
- 7:56Speaker 2: to mainly talk about. Of course, we will throw some
- 7:57Speaker 2: other people in there. But just so you know, Judy Burnley,
- 8:00Speaker 2: played by Jane Fonda, is the new worker, new to
- 8:03Speaker 2: work and recently divorced. Yes, she had the stereotypical husband
- 8:07Speaker 2: cheating on her with the secretary, of course. Then we
- 8:11Speaker 2: have Violet Newstead, played by Lily Tomlin, which, by the way,
- 8:14Speaker 2: one of my favorite movies when I first came into
- 8:18Speaker 2: the U.S. It was called Big Business. and it's with her,
- 8:21Speaker 2: Lily Tomlin, and Bette Midler. I have not watched that since,
- 8:26Speaker 2: but Lily Tomlin is a genius, is a comedic genius.
- 8:30Speaker 2: But she plays the pro and seasoned worker who is
- 8:33Speaker 2: the real brains behind the division, a widowed mother of
- 8:36Speaker 2: four trying to do her best in a business that
- 8:39Speaker 2: doesn't appreciate women at all. She knows this. Then we
- 8:42Speaker 2: have Dora Lee Rhodes, the kind secretary who is the
- 8:45Speaker 2: constant victim of sexual harassment. Constant.
- 8:50Speaker 1: Y'all.
- 8:51Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 8:52Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 8:53Speaker 2: Anyway. And then we have Franklin M. Hart, the VP
- 8:56Speaker 2: and jackass of the company slash of that division specifically.
- 8:59Speaker 2: So that's how we're going to. He is the villain.
- 9:02Speaker 2: If you needed to know, like outside of many other villains,
- 9:05Speaker 2: he is the main villain. Like he is the stereotypical jackass,
- 9:11Speaker 2: male white boss, balding male white boss guy. Who has to, like,
- 9:15Speaker 2: you know, think he's real big. So anyway, those are
- 9:18Speaker 2: our characters. So jumping into the plot, we are first
- 9:21Speaker 2: introduced to Judy, who is starting her journey in the
- 9:23Speaker 2: working world after being out as a devoted wife until
- 9:26Speaker 2: her recent divorce. Violet has been assigned as her trainer,
- 9:29Speaker 2: who seems to train most people in the office, but
- 9:32Speaker 2: never sees a promotion. We meet Franklin. who was a dick,
- 9:36Speaker 2: to put it lightly, and was even trained by Violet herself.
- 9:40Speaker 2: As Violet is training Judy, she gives her all the
- 9:43Speaker 2: office gossips and the know-hows, and even alludes to the
- 9:46Speaker 2: fact that many suspect that the secretary, Dora Lee, is
- 9:49Speaker 2: doing the boss and getting extra perks, quote-unquote. We are
- 9:53Speaker 2: quickly introduced to the fact that white men are the
- 9:56Speaker 2: most likely to get promoted and ahead in this business,
- 9:59Speaker 2: in any business. even to the point that Frank steals
- 10:02Speaker 2: the ideas created by Violet, and he does this often,
- 10:06Speaker 2: being praised for his genius and know-how. We also are
- 10:11Speaker 2: quickly made aware of Ross, And she is the office
- 10:13Speaker 2: tattletale and sycophant to Hart. Even gets a woman fired
- 10:17Speaker 2: for discussing the salary. Hello! As we go along, we
- 10:23Speaker 2: find out that the company is shitty and often mistrates
- 10:25Speaker 2: all of the employees, including the fact Violet has once
- 10:28Speaker 2: again been left behind with a current promotion, which went
- 10:31Speaker 2: to another white man, who Hart says is better because
- 10:35Speaker 2: businesses only want to talk to white men. He says men,
- 10:38Speaker 2: but we know what that means. And that he has
- 10:40Speaker 2: also been spreading rumors that he was sleeping with Doralee.
- 10:43Speaker 2: So he's the one telling everyone he's having an affair.
- 10:47Speaker 2: Who has been actively trying to get away from his
- 10:49Speaker 2: vanses or sexual harassment. And pretty much assault to the
- 10:53Speaker 2: point that she jokes about it. She's like, I'm so
- 10:54Speaker 2: used to this. Which I think that's more common than not.
- 11:00Speaker 1: Unfortunately so. I think so.
- 11:03Speaker 2: After the three women all decided after a hard day's
- 11:06Speaker 2: work to get together. To go get some drinks, they
- 11:09Speaker 2: bond over the fact that they wish they could get
- 11:11Speaker 2: rid of Hart with different detailed fantasies, including hog-tying, hunting down,
- 11:16Speaker 2: or poisoning. All the while, they're having the best time
- 11:19Speaker 2: being a little bit naughty. Wink, wink, nudge, nudge. They
- 11:23Speaker 2: smoke weed. As they return to work, a misunderstanding of
- 11:27Speaker 2: an accident may have, you know, she may have almost
- 11:31Speaker 2: poisoned Hart.
- 11:31Speaker 1: It's fine.
- 11:33Speaker 2: Where Hart ended up in the hospital, and a whole
- 11:35Speaker 2: hijinks ensues. Dead bodies in her trunk, anyone? Police telling someone,
- 11:39Speaker 2: you know, they ate poisoning, all those two things. Hart
- 11:42Speaker 2: finds out the accidental poisoning and how they try to
- 11:45Speaker 2: play it off. And he tries to use that against
- 11:47Speaker 2: Dora Lee in coercing her into having sex, which ended
- 11:50Speaker 2: up having him being hogtied and kidnapped. It's a partially
- 11:54Speaker 2: true fantasy. The women soon discover that Hart has been
- 11:57Speaker 2: embezzling money from the company and decides to use that
- 12:00Speaker 2: information into blackmailing him or getting him fired. Unfortunately, it
- 12:04Speaker 2: will take up to a month to get all this
- 12:06Speaker 2: information that they need slash evidence. So they've come up
- 12:10Speaker 2: with a plan. They're going to keep him at his
- 12:12Speaker 2: house where the ladies take over the company and fix
- 12:16Speaker 2: the problems Hart was unwilling to do for the company himself. Roz,
- 12:21Speaker 2: because she is a know-it-all and was the nosiest of
- 12:24Speaker 2: them all, was also sent to go learn French as
- 12:27Speaker 2: a part of the plan. She was sent to a
- 12:29Speaker 2: German linguistic school for a possible promotion later down the road.
- 12:34Speaker 2: All lies. Soon it becomes apparent that nobody actually missed heart,
- 12:39Speaker 2: and the division soon becomes profitable with the implementations of
- 12:42Speaker 2: things like job sharing, in-office daycare, rehabilitation programs, and equal pay. What?
- 12:50Speaker 2: And though the plan seems to be working, the wife,
- 12:52Speaker 2: who has been gone on a solo cruise, who is
- 12:54Speaker 2: a victim in this all, but she does keep her
- 12:58Speaker 2: eyes closed, willingly believes the ridiculous, but whatever. suddenly returns
- 13:02Speaker 2: home and is able to free Hart. Though he doesn't
- 13:05Speaker 2: tell them right away, instead he goes to fix his
- 13:08Speaker 2: little crime. He's hiding everything that he's committed and takes
- 13:11Speaker 2: all the women back to the office to gloat and
- 13:14Speaker 2: tell them that he was about to send them to jail,
- 13:16Speaker 2: call the police. However, before he could do any of that,
- 13:19Speaker 2: the chairman of the company arrives to meet with Hart
- 13:22Speaker 2: and congratulate him in his success. And it's during this time,
- 13:25Speaker 2: Because of his great success and all the gloating, Hart
- 13:28Speaker 2: finds out he's about to be promoted as head of
- 13:30Speaker 2: the Brazilian office and transferred there as a part of
- 13:33Speaker 2: the promotion. Yay! Here, the women celebrate their success together
- 13:37Speaker 2: because not only did they not go to jail, their
- 13:39Speaker 2: works have been noted and seen as a good thing,
- 13:42Speaker 2: except for the whole equal pay thing.
- 13:45Speaker 1: Even that was too much.
- 13:47Speaker 2: That's a stretch too far. We'll change that back. They
- 13:50Speaker 2: are sitting together, drinking their wine, toasting their success. And
- 13:53Speaker 2: then we get a little postscript about everything. Turns out
- 13:56Speaker 2: Violet ends up being VP. Thank goodness. Judy marries the
- 13:59Speaker 2: Xerox representative. There's a whole, like, comedic moment where she's
- 14:04Speaker 2: really fighting the paper machine. And Dora Lee becomes a
- 14:07Speaker 2: successful country singer. Which I'm like, they didn't have her
- 14:10Speaker 2: singing in any of the... They needed to have a
- 14:12Speaker 2: moment where she sings in there. Whatever. And then Hart
- 14:15Speaker 2: is kidnapped by what they say is indigenous people and
- 14:19Speaker 2: disappears into the Amazons. Happy ending for all.
- 14:21Speaker 1: Never to be seen again.
- 14:22Speaker 2: Never to be seen again. Happy endings for all.
- 14:27Speaker 1: Wow. Wow.
- 14:38Speaker 2: So, Annie, first and foremost, because you've never seen this movie, correct?
- 14:42Speaker 1: No, that was my first time.
- 14:44Speaker 2: What was your thoughts?
- 14:46Speaker 1: I really enjoyed it. I thought... I thought I knew
- 14:52Speaker 1: what it was. Like, I knew that the boss got kidnapped. Like,
- 14:56Speaker 1: they kidnapped him. But I thought... I had no idea
- 14:59Speaker 1: there was going to be this whole middle section where there's, like,
- 15:03Speaker 1: car chases and car escapes and dead bodies. And I
- 15:07Speaker 1: kept waiting for whoever... The dead body they accidentally took,
- 15:12Speaker 1: they thought he had been poisoned. And I was like,
- 15:14Speaker 1: I want to see the, like, side movie of what's
- 15:17Speaker 1: going on there. And, like... I had no idea there
- 15:22Speaker 1: was going to be all of this stuff happening in it.
- 15:26Speaker 1: And then when they smoke weed, I wasn't expecting that.
- 15:30Speaker 1: So it was fun and it was pretty wild. A
- 15:37Speaker 1: lot of action in it, actually.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Yeah, there is a lot of action. This is that
- 15:43Speaker 2: slapstick that happened in the 80s that we came back to,
- 15:47Speaker 2: but it was a little different. Yeah. Yeah.
- 15:50Speaker 1: I was surprised. Like a lot of it actually surprised me. Yeah.
- 15:54Speaker 1: Even though I thought I knew what it was. And
- 15:56Speaker 1: I did. I mean, it's really sad, but it was
- 15:59Speaker 1: kind of shocking at how much I was like, oh, yeah,
- 16:01Speaker 1: we're still talking about that today.
- 16:04Speaker 2: These novel ideas that is rarely instituted anywhere. No one
- 16:09Speaker 2: talked about the whole like giving away of food as
- 16:11Speaker 2: an incentive, which I loved. But someone thought it was
- 16:14Speaker 2: a thing. Yeah. So this whole movie, originally they had
- 16:17Speaker 2: thought that they were going to do it as a drama.
- 16:18Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 16:20Speaker 2: And then they changed their mind. They needed a spoonful
- 16:23Speaker 2: of sugar to help it go down, essentially. It's the ideals.
- 16:27Speaker 2: Although people really didn't like that. Again, that was part
- 16:30Speaker 2: of the criticism. It was so over the top that
- 16:33Speaker 2: it's not believable. It's not worth watching. And it doesn't
- 16:36Speaker 2: really give a good turn on society. Weinstein made a
- 16:41Speaker 2: comment about how this really impacted women and we need
- 16:45Speaker 2: to pay attention to movies like this and da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
- 16:50Speaker 1: Oh, interesting. Yeah.
- 16:51Speaker 2: So there was a documentary about Still 9 to 5,
- 16:54Speaker 2: which we came back to because we were trying to
- 16:57Speaker 2: figure out if there was a sequel or whatever, whatnot.
- 17:00Speaker 2: And then it turned out that there was a documentary
- 17:03Speaker 2: in which it's just talking about the fact that nothing's changed.
- 17:08Speaker 1: Yeah. And I wonder if that's, I mean, it is upsetting,
- 17:11Speaker 1: but I wonder if that's one of the reasons like
- 17:13Speaker 1: for me watching it for the first time now. like
- 17:17Speaker 1: I'm just so familiar with that stuff that it was
- 17:19Speaker 1: kind of nice for it to not be a drama
- 17:21Speaker 1: to me.
- 17:22Speaker 2: Right.
- 17:22Speaker 1: And it was kind of nice. I loved how they had,
- 17:25Speaker 1: the friendship group had their fights and they all had
- 17:28Speaker 1: like moments of where they just seemed to break down. Right.
- 17:33Speaker 1: But they all kind of stuck together and built each
- 17:35Speaker 1: other up. Like I really appreciated that. It was nice to,
- 17:42Speaker 1: it was nice to see them uniting. And honestly, like,
- 17:46Speaker 1: I was surprised at how, not graphic, but at how
- 17:51Speaker 1: kind of openly they were talking about like killing the boss.
- 17:54Speaker 2: Right.
- 17:55Speaker 1: And bonding over that. And I was like.
- 17:59Speaker 2: It was before all the tracking.
- 18:03Speaker 1: Well, no, it just felt like I wasn't expecting it.
- 18:06Speaker 1: I just wasn't expecting it from a movie from that time.
- 18:10Speaker 2: Right. They were. But you know. ready. They were ready.
- 18:13Speaker 2: I think there's so much to be said. And I
- 18:16Speaker 2: love that these women were the ones that play these
- 18:18Speaker 2: characters because it fit who they are today. They kind
- 18:21Speaker 2: of carried that even to today. I know Lily Tomlin,
- 18:24Speaker 2: I'm sure they all are, but Lily Tomlin and Jane
- 18:26Speaker 2: Fonda just did projects together not too long ago. They're
- 18:29Speaker 2: still friends. They're still very close. And this was the
- 18:32Speaker 2: first movie, I believe, that they were in together. And
- 18:35Speaker 2: part of the reason she wanted to do this movie
- 18:37Speaker 2: was to work with Lily Tomlin, especially in a comedic setting. Because, again,
- 18:41Speaker 2: she's an icon when it comes to that comedy. She
- 18:44Speaker 2: kind of comes in that era of Gilda Radner. Like,
- 18:47Speaker 2: they were comedians to a different level. It really was
- 18:51Speaker 2: the beginning when you saw women making comedy, like sitcoms,
- 18:57Speaker 2: and making slapstick and being leads in it. And it
- 19:00Speaker 2: was new, right? New World, especially. And Lily Tomlin was
- 19:05Speaker 2: at the front of that. Like I said, her and
- 19:07Speaker 2: Bette Midler and Big Business are one of my all-time
- 19:10Speaker 2: favorite movies. I wonder how it holds up. It's on
- 19:14Speaker 2: Disney right now. Not a sponsor. I'm kind of scared.
- 19:17Speaker 1: But it's scary to revisit some of those things. Right?
- 19:20Speaker 2: Because I was trying to find this movie to stream
- 19:22Speaker 2: somewhere and I couldn't. But like, Big business popped up,
- 19:26Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, no. Anyway, but it definitely
- 19:29Speaker 2: has a lot of, like, their backbone in it. And
- 19:33Speaker 2: you can tell it. You can tell what it is.
- 19:35Speaker 2: Immediately after that was Baby Boom came up, like, as
- 19:40Speaker 2: a play after the fact, because it's kind of reminiscent
- 19:42Speaker 2: of the working woman having the kid and all these things.
- 19:46Speaker 2: It was interesting. But it was this era when we
- 19:49Speaker 2: were telling stories. these different types of stories from women's perspective,
- 19:52Speaker 2: women's perspective. Of course, it's also during this time that
- 19:54Speaker 2: the women can have it all. Yeah. Should have it
- 19:59Speaker 2: all comes up and it becomes kind of like a.
- 20:00Speaker 1: Because it's, you know, the 80s when... Women are coming
- 20:05Speaker 1: into the workplace.
- 20:07Speaker 2: So speaking of which, so let's talk about some of
- 20:09Speaker 2: the themes. And the first part is that whole women
- 20:12Speaker 2: in the workplace conversation. We had the part-time employee or
- 20:16Speaker 2: a woman trying to be part-time because she has kids
- 20:19Speaker 2: and really trying to change having to work. But being there,
- 20:23Speaker 2: not being able to be for her kids and need
- 20:25Speaker 2: to be home for her kids. And we also have
- 20:27Speaker 2: the main character, Violet, who has four kids. one's an
- 20:30Speaker 2: adult but like she's a widower trying to figure herself
- 20:34Speaker 2: out as well as a recently divorced woman and that's
- 20:37Speaker 2: you know jane fonda's character judy who's having to take
- 20:40Speaker 2: care of her quote unquote take care of herself and
- 20:43Speaker 2: because her husband left her with nothing essentially.
- 20:46Speaker 1: Yeah and i did think it was interesting infuriating um
- 20:50Speaker 1: when violet was the promotion was turned down because the
- 20:54Speaker 1: boss was like well people businesses like dealing with men
- 20:57Speaker 1: and he really needed it because he has kids and
- 20:59Speaker 1: she was.
- 20:59Speaker 2: Like and i don't right right.
- 21:03Speaker 1: Right yeah yeah to see them like having these it
- 21:10Speaker 1: was interesting to have the different the dynamics of them
- 21:15Speaker 1: because dolly parton's character dora lee too she has a
- 21:18Speaker 1: what seems to be a really loving relationship Yeah.
- 21:23Speaker 2: Did it not creep you out? It creeped me out
- 21:25Speaker 2: a little bit.
- 21:25Speaker 1: It's creepy because it's like, smile for me.
- 21:28Speaker 2: Right. So there were so many things to that scene
- 21:31Speaker 2: that really bothered me because you kind of see Doralee
- 21:33Speaker 2: painted as just a doormat. And so her trying to
- 21:38Speaker 2: vent to her husband and her husband's like, don't worry
- 21:41Speaker 2: about it. Smile. Let me sex you up. This will
- 21:43Speaker 2: make you feel better. And I'm like, was that really
- 21:46Speaker 2: the solution?
- 21:47Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 21:48Speaker 2: Like, is this scene supposed to show that she's happily
- 21:50Speaker 2: married and doesn't want anything to do with him and
- 21:52Speaker 2: is very satisfied with this man? Or is this just
- 21:54Speaker 2: showing that she is, yes, in fact, a doormat?
- 21:57Speaker 1: I feel like, I think, at the time, it was
- 22:01Speaker 1: supposed to show she was happily married. I think looking
- 22:04Speaker 1: back at it, it doesn't feel that way.
- 22:06Speaker 2: Oh, it was so creepy to me. So this is
- 22:08Speaker 2: one of those movies I told you at the very beginning.
- 22:10Speaker 2: It is somehow relevant but irrelevant at the same time. Like,
- 22:14Speaker 2: both the most relevant, non-relevant movie ever. the most relevant,
- 22:19Speaker 2: that doesn't withstand time type of movie. Like, it really...
- 22:23Speaker 2: There's so many cringed things. But on top of that,
- 22:26Speaker 2: these issues still remain.
- 22:29Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 22:30Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 22:32Speaker 1: My vibe. But, I mean, she was very happy when
- 22:34Speaker 1: he left. But she was more happy that he was
- 22:37Speaker 1: out of town. And so she was more happy that
- 22:39Speaker 1: she could share her house so they could get high
- 22:42Speaker 1: and get drunk.
- 22:42Speaker 2: There were so many things. But, yeah, so it was
- 22:46Speaker 2: such a weird, like... moment to me that, like, this
- 22:48Speaker 2: scene makes me feel gross. I don't know why, but
- 22:52Speaker 2: I don't like this scene. And this is supposed to depict, again, like,
- 22:55Speaker 2: her being a happily married woman. Whatever, whatnot. I do
- 23:00Speaker 2: think it's funny, like, in every... Poor Dolly Parton. She
- 23:04Speaker 2: can't ever escape it. And she is who she is
- 23:07Speaker 2: and proud of herself. But the fact that very first
- 23:09Speaker 2: scene when we're introduced to Dora Lee, like, we have
- 23:12Speaker 2: Judy just staring at her breasts.
- 23:14Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 23:15Speaker 2: In shock. Like, just staring. I'm like, poor Dolly.
- 23:19Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 23:19Speaker 2: She can't just be. To be fair, we all know
- 23:22Speaker 2: she's got beautiful knockers. So go ahead, lady. It's meant to, like,
- 23:27Speaker 2: do you. But at the same time, let her be.
- 23:31Speaker 2: But yeah, that whole balanced life, they're trying to figure
- 23:34Speaker 2: it out. We also have Lily Tomlin's character, Violet, kind
- 23:37Speaker 2: of bonding with her oldest son, who is trying to
- 23:39Speaker 2: be like, yes, you need to do these things. You
- 23:41Speaker 2: need to relax. You need to do for you. He
- 23:43Speaker 2: was giving her a lot of good advice. Whether he
- 23:45Speaker 2: knows it or not, he was a feminist.
- 23:48Speaker 1: He also gave her the weed.
- 23:49Speaker 2: And gave her the weed. I'm going to put it
- 23:51Speaker 2: in your pocketbook. I got you.
- 23:53Speaker 1: I got you.
- 23:54Speaker 2: After she fixed the garage door herself, because she don't
- 23:57Speaker 2: need no man, just someone to make sure she doesn't fall.
- 24:01Speaker 1: Yeah. That was a good scene. I liked that scene.
- 24:04Speaker 2: I did, too. But it does come back to help
- 24:06Speaker 2: out when she has to hang up.
- 24:09Speaker 1: Oh.
- 24:09Speaker 2: Dear heart. Just in cases. Just in cases. Of course,
- 24:14Speaker 2: another thing that was a very quick slip, but I
- 24:16Speaker 2: want to talk about it, was that whole racism in
- 24:18Speaker 2: the workplace. You have the one person. No, there's several
- 24:22Speaker 2: Black characters. But the first one you're introduced to is
- 24:25Speaker 2: the male character. I guess a person from the mailroom
- 24:28Speaker 2: because it's not a mailman. There's not a mail person.
- 24:30Speaker 2: It's just like they go through the office and realizing
- 24:33Speaker 2: he has been denied a promotion himself. And he's been
- 24:36Speaker 2: working there for so long. And he's like in his mind,
- 24:39Speaker 2: he said, like, I can't even get out of the basement,
- 24:42Speaker 2: you know. And I feel like it was a very
- 24:44Speaker 2: like snip moment that a white woman would still be
- 24:48Speaker 2: with no experience.
- 24:50Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 24:51Speaker 2: Will still be chosen over that. And so I was like,
- 24:54Speaker 2: I feel like it's like they slipped it in there.
- 24:58Speaker 2: But they never really because we do see black women
- 25:01Speaker 2: being a part of the employee in the office. But
- 25:03Speaker 2: I feel like that was purposely put in there. And
- 25:06Speaker 2: it's good to recognize that because. Of course, sexism in
- 25:11Speaker 2: the workplace. That's obvious, right? Like, that's the entirety.
- 25:15Speaker 1: It's like the plot, almost.
- 25:16Speaker 2: Right, the entirety of the plot. Business is not working
- 25:19Speaker 2: with women. Like, they don't want to talk to them.
- 25:20Speaker 2: They don't think they're, like, competent to do so. The whole, like,
- 25:24Speaker 2: taking credit for her work, pretending like he doesn't, that
- 25:28Speaker 2: whole moment where he looks at the, uh, her proposal
- 25:32Speaker 2: she sent to him about color-coding something. Mm-hmm. And he's like, oh,
- 25:36Speaker 2: I have to look at that because there's, this needs
- 25:38Speaker 2: to be fixed. And then immediately turning around and using
- 25:40Speaker 2: it To get more credibility to his name.
- 25:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 25:44Speaker 2: Or that could be just any underling versus, like, we
- 25:48Speaker 2: know that's not necessarily just because she's a woman, but,
- 25:51Speaker 2: you know, but who's being promoted, who is being seen,
- 25:55Speaker 2: who is being noted. Like, everybody who was ahead were
- 25:58Speaker 2: all men of the departments, as we saw. Yeah.
- 26:03Speaker 1: And it did come back to bite him. I mean,
- 26:05Speaker 1: that's what got him sent to Brazil, which he didn't
- 26:07Speaker 1: want to go. Right. Because he'd been taking credit for
- 26:10Speaker 1: all their ideas.
- 26:11Speaker 2: All their work. Even if he didn't know it at
- 26:13Speaker 2: that point.
- 26:14Speaker 1: Right. He couldn't back out because it had done so well. Right.
- 26:20Speaker 1: He was getting all this praise.
- 26:21Speaker 2: Instead of being like, she should be promoted. She's the
- 26:23Speaker 2: one who did this.
- 26:24Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 26:25Speaker 2: Couldn't do that. And then, of course, a line that...
- 26:29Speaker 2: Kind of was a tagline for him for Heart, the sexist, egotistical, lying,
- 26:33Speaker 2: hypocritical bigot. It just follows him because they repeatedly say
- 26:37Speaker 2: that to him because he is.
- 26:39Speaker 1: He is. And I knew it watching it. And I
- 26:42Speaker 1: was waiting for it. And I was like, I wonder
- 26:43Speaker 1: how overt this is going to be. Pretty overt.
- 26:49Speaker 2: The knocking of things to make Doralee pick it up.
- 26:53Speaker 2: The cleavage shot. The buying of the scarf, the having Violet,
- 26:58Speaker 2: who was not his secretary, continually doing secretarial things, including
- 27:02Speaker 2: going to buy a scarf.
- 27:04Speaker 1: That he lied and said was for his wife.
- 27:07Speaker 2: Right.
- 27:07Speaker 1: It was actually for Doralee.
- 27:10Speaker 2: And they all assume because he spread the rumor, it
- 27:14Speaker 2: was one of the perks she was getting for sleeping
- 27:15Speaker 2: with him. Of course, sexual harassment, which this one was
- 27:20Speaker 2: so intense that I was like, my God. And it
- 27:22Speaker 2: was We have to have it in. I think I've
- 27:28Speaker 2: watched this movie during one of our reproductive rights organizations
- 27:35Speaker 2: put on the movie viewing as like a Q &
- 27:40Speaker 2: A fundraiser thing that I actually went with Caroline with.
- 27:44Speaker 2: And we had that moment. And I think one of
- 27:46Speaker 2: the conversation was, yeah, just like you said earlier, these
- 27:48Speaker 2: things are so likely or real. That if it wasn't
- 27:53Speaker 2: put into this extreme level of comedic scenery, nobody could
- 27:58Speaker 2: actually watch this. No women could actually watch this.
- 28:03Speaker 1: It would be miserable. It would be like, yeah, I know.
- 28:06Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:07Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 28:08Speaker 2: I have to deal with it all the time. Yeah,
- 28:12Speaker 2: being traumatized. Interestingly, I also was like, um... When she
- 28:18Speaker 2: does her taking it out on him, I'm like, this
- 28:21Speaker 2: would never work because they would actually take that as
- 28:22Speaker 2: an advance. He would jump on that immediately.
- 28:27Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. So you're talking about Doralee's fantasy, right? Right.
- 28:32Speaker 1: So in her fantasy, she's like, I'd reverse it, essentially,
- 28:36Speaker 1: and give him a taste of his own medicine. And
- 28:39Speaker 1: I mean, it's very striking because you're like, yeah, this
- 28:41Speaker 1: feels weird, like, because she's a woman, right? doing this
- 28:45Speaker 1: to a man. Not that that doesn't happen, but it
- 28:47Speaker 1: felt very like, oh my god.
- 28:48Speaker 2: Right. And it does happen. But in this specific scenario
- 28:52Speaker 2: where he is harassing her and trying to coerce her,
- 28:55Speaker 2: he wants her to do this. Right. These are the
- 28:57Speaker 2: things that he wants from her.
- 28:59Speaker 1: Right.
- 29:00Speaker 2: So to me, I was like, this is not what
- 29:03Speaker 2: you think this is. Like, it's not just the power.
- 29:07Speaker 2: It is.
- 29:08Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 29:08Speaker 2: So all these things to me, it was like, okay.
- 29:10Speaker 2: But also, like, I... have experienced harassment sexual harassment in
- 29:16Speaker 2: a way that came off as jokes yes so this
- 29:21Speaker 2: feels kind of like yeah like this is the only
- 29:23Speaker 2: way we could actually like be funny but at the
- 29:25Speaker 2: same time that's what they do to hide it so
- 29:29Speaker 2: it kind of is a double standard like yeah we
- 29:32Speaker 2: got to be careful on how we do this again
- 29:34Speaker 2: they did what they had to do and could do
- 29:37Speaker 2: in 1980 so but like 45 years ago, this was,
- 29:41Speaker 2: you know, trying to, I think trying to have men
- 29:45Speaker 2: watch it and be like, you know what I mean? You,
- 29:47Speaker 2: this is not you because you're not as extreme, but
- 29:49Speaker 2: this happens in the office in that awful type of
- 29:52Speaker 2: conversation and type of like light handedly, like women go
- 29:56Speaker 2: through this.
- 29:59Speaker 1: Right. And I think the issue is a lot of
- 30:04Speaker 1: men don't... I don't know. They don't realize... To them,
- 30:09Speaker 1: it's normal. So it's like, yeah, I don't see what
- 30:12Speaker 1: your issue is. Right.
- 30:13Speaker 2: But she was able to say no. It's not like
- 30:16Speaker 2: she couldn't say no. And she handled it. She didn't
- 30:19Speaker 2: make it a big deal. She knew he was not
- 30:21Speaker 2: completely real.
- 30:23Speaker 1: Yeah. Which I can admit, I did appreciate. I liked...
- 30:28Speaker 1: how she was like, I've been up front with you,
- 30:31Speaker 1: all of this, all of this, all of this. But
- 30:32Speaker 1: it was kind of unbelievable because you're like, yeah. Yeah.
- 30:39Speaker 2: This is not what happened. But a happier point of
- 30:42Speaker 2: this movie, as you were already referencing, Annie, is that
- 30:44Speaker 2: this movie is about women supporting women. One thing that
- 30:47Speaker 2: I have seen about Jane Fonda, she loves her girls.
- 30:50Speaker 2: She loves her friends. And she vouches for her friends.
- 30:54Speaker 2: I think that she was already kind of marred by
- 30:57Speaker 2: a lot of politicians and, I guess, Hollywood, especially right-leaning Hollywood.
- 31:02Speaker 2: At that point, because she had been protesting the Vietnam War,
- 31:05Speaker 2: people were pissed saying that she is anti-American because she
- 31:08Speaker 2: did not like the war. She felt like it was political. Dot, dot, dot.
- 31:16Speaker 2: Even the way she speaks about the rights of people today,
- 31:20Speaker 2: she's never changed her stance. I honestly think the whole
- 31:24Speaker 2: weed scene was a big f * * * you
- 31:26Speaker 2: to the government.
- 31:28Speaker 1: I loved it.
- 31:29Speaker 2: I've not seen anything. I've not read anything. Maybe I've
- 31:32Speaker 2: missed it. So if y'all know an article where she
- 31:35Speaker 2: talks about that, I'm almost like 80, 90, 100% sure
- 31:39Speaker 2: that she did this as a f * * *
- 31:40Speaker 2: you to the government. Because it was their war on
- 31:43Speaker 2: drugs instead of seeing that their war in general was
- 31:46Speaker 2: what they should be concentrating on. So it was interesting
- 31:50Speaker 2: to me because... She was that person. But like I said,
- 31:53Speaker 2: her love for working with Lily Tomlin and making sure
- 31:55Speaker 2: that this was in the forefront. Her love for her
- 31:58Speaker 2: friend from Boston, loving what she was doing and wanting
- 32:00Speaker 2: it to be bigger and wanting to have a bigger conversation.
- 32:03Speaker 2: I don't know if it truly worked. We're talking about
- 32:05Speaker 2: it today. And if you weren't a huge fan and
- 32:08Speaker 2: did this research, I wouldn't have known that it was
- 32:11Speaker 2: an organization until after the fact. You know what I mean?
- 32:13Speaker 2: I would have just thought, this is a great movie.
- 32:15Speaker 2: Moving on. So it's an interesting take. I'm trying to
- 32:29Speaker 2: remember my family's liking of this movie or not because
- 32:34Speaker 2: my mom is very conservative, stay-at-home mom. I don't know
- 32:39Speaker 2: if she actually watched it, but she loves Dolly Parton.
- 32:42Speaker 2: My family loves some Dolly Parton. Christmas music is Dolly
- 32:45Speaker 2: Parton and Kenny Rogers. Our only vacation growing up was
- 32:51Speaker 2: to Dollywood. So I can't imagine that they didn't know
- 32:54Speaker 2: about this, but I'm sure we watched it. I just
- 32:57Speaker 2: don't have a big significant remembering what their response was
- 33:01Speaker 2: to this.
- 33:05Speaker 1: I mean, it's going back. I imagine I have no
- 33:09Speaker 1: idea how your family responded to it. But going back
- 33:12Speaker 1: to that double-edged sword of making something more palatable so
- 33:15Speaker 1: more people will watch it is I think probably a
- 33:17Speaker 1: lot of conservative people watched it and were sort of like,
- 33:24Speaker 1: You know, ha ha ha, that's the way it is.
- 33:26Speaker 1: Instead of ha ha ha, we should change this. Like,
- 33:29Speaker 1: this is bad. You know what I mean?
- 33:30Speaker 2: I'm assuming it's ha ha ha, that's so extreme that
- 33:33Speaker 2: it's not realistic. It doesn't happen. So, of course, they
- 33:36Speaker 2: made him a super villain in order to be palatable.
- 33:38Speaker 2: Instead of having real life commonalities. And he gets punished
- 33:42Speaker 2: in the end. And that's how they think it works. Like,
- 33:45Speaker 2: oh yeah, but if you truly deserve to be punished,
- 33:47Speaker 2: you will be. Right. Which is not what's happening. What happens.
- 33:50Speaker 2: But yes, back to the women supporting women thing. They
- 33:54Speaker 2: definitely do. One right after. Like, still a body. All right,
- 33:57Speaker 2: we're going to help you out. Let's put the body back.
- 33:59Speaker 2: No one knows. No one needs to know. We got
- 34:03Speaker 2: a plan.
- 34:03Speaker 1: I was not expecting that at all.
- 34:07Speaker 2: That's one of the best. You poisoned him? Okay, let's
- 34:09Speaker 2: get you a lawyer. We're going to get you a lawyer.
- 34:10Speaker 2: Calm down. It's all right. I also love the whole shooting. Like,
- 34:18Speaker 2: Judy has got the gun. Mm-hmm. Which, of course, Dolly
- 34:20Speaker 2: Parton has a gun in her pocket, which I'm like,
- 34:22Speaker 2: this is really legal.
- 34:24Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 34:24Speaker 2: Yeah, even in the 80s. I'm pretty sure.
- 34:26Speaker 1: I would think so.
- 34:29Speaker 2: But maybe not. Who knows? But, like, her shooting at him, hog-tying,
- 34:35Speaker 2: and everybody's like, okay, okay, hog-tying. This makes sense. We
- 34:39Speaker 2: know who to go to when we're in trouble. I
- 34:40Speaker 2: love that. They had a plan and had each other's backs.
- 34:44Speaker 1: Yeah. They did. And like I said, I appreciated that
- 34:47Speaker 1: they got angry at each other sometimes.
- 34:49Speaker 2: Right, right.
- 34:50Speaker 1: But they were still like, no, okay, okay, we can
- 34:53Speaker 1: fix that. We can do this.
- 34:55Speaker 2: I will say the entire time, Dora Lee seemed to
- 34:57Speaker 2: be the most common sense, take charge of the people.
- 35:03Speaker 2: And I love that when they discover they're going to
- 35:06Speaker 2: change out the fender or they're trying to pull the
- 35:11Speaker 2: fender back and they're going to get the tool. They
- 35:14Speaker 2: don't care that there's a body back there. They are
- 35:17Speaker 2: shocked that this is not the body they thought it was.
- 35:20Speaker 2: But not too shocked, because they're like, Judy, can you
- 35:25Speaker 2: come here for a second? That play out was so
- 35:28Speaker 2: funny to me. That relaxed door release. Like, huh. This
- 35:33Speaker 2: isn't right. We need to change our plan. Still my favorite.
- 35:40Speaker 2: I also love....
- 35:44Speaker 1: Everyone's really judgmental of Dora Lee because they think she's
- 35:47Speaker 1: having a affair with the boss. And so they don't
- 35:49Speaker 1: sit with her and all this stuff. But I kind
- 35:51Speaker 1: of love how Violet was like, whatever. Like even from
- 35:55Speaker 1: the beginning, she was like, live and let live. I
- 35:57Speaker 1: don't know.
- 35:58Speaker 2: She actually says, good for you. Do what you need to.
- 36:00Speaker 2: Like she actually is like, if you have to do that,
- 36:02Speaker 2: go for it.
- 36:04Speaker 1: But I like how quickly, yeah, they really bonded and
- 36:08Speaker 1: came together. And it was really fun to see them.
- 36:12Speaker 2: All it takes is some weed, Annie. A little drink,
- 36:15Speaker 2: some little weed, apparently. And a plan, and a few plans.
- 36:21Speaker 1: Responsible substance use, everyone.
- 36:24Speaker 2: But yeah, like we said, going on, another theme. It's
- 36:28Speaker 2: not a theme, but I think it's a fun side note. Again,
- 36:32Speaker 2: apparently Reagan's wife watched the movie. And it was during
- 36:38Speaker 2: Valentine's Day, I guess. I don't know the release date.
- 36:40Speaker 2: It might have been around that time. And apparently Reagan,
- 36:43Speaker 2: Ronald Reagan, liked it, except for the weed part. Like,
- 36:49Speaker 2: he made a statement about it, saying something about how
- 36:51Speaker 2: it made it more appealing for the young folks. It
- 36:54Speaker 2: romanticized it, and they shouldn't have done that. It would
- 36:56Speaker 2: have been fine if it had just been alcohol, is
- 36:58Speaker 2: what he says. And I'm like, really? Wow.
- 37:03Speaker 1: Had to make a statement.
- 37:05Speaker 2: Like, I think he just made, but like, the fact
- 37:06Speaker 2: that he liked the movie. And like, I'm like, and
- 37:09Speaker 2: his wife really liked the movie. And like, your wife
- 37:11Speaker 2: is a is a Roz of the world, just so
- 37:13Speaker 2: we know. She's the Roz if we needed to talk
- 37:17Speaker 2: about it. And then, unfortunately, we're kind of going to
- 37:20Speaker 2: come back to what's happening today. Again, there are talks
- 37:26Speaker 2: about having it be remade. I believe Jennifer Aniston's company
- 37:30Speaker 2: is looking into it about possibly making a remake. It
- 37:34Speaker 2: kept saying this year, but I don't know if that's
- 37:36Speaker 2: true or if it's just like they're still always talking
- 37:38Speaker 2: about it. I think it needs to be an action
- 37:40Speaker 2: movie at this point. This needs to be like a
- 37:43Speaker 2: Noah Hall's Bard, like, revenge film at this moment, is
- 37:49Speaker 2: what I'm going to say. So there's an article written,
- 37:52Speaker 2: I think it was in 2021, so not too recent, but,
- 37:57Speaker 2: you know, recent enough, about the movie titled Why 9
- 38:01Speaker 2: to 5 Still Resonates Today. And it's by Karen Nussbaum. So,
- 38:07Speaker 2: and they say, it took social movements in the 1960s
- 38:10Speaker 2: and 70s to restore progress to women who had lost
- 38:13Speaker 2: so much ground and leaped forward. So the success of
- 38:15Speaker 2: 9 to 5 in 1980 captured that momentum and promised
- 38:19Speaker 2: a future of positive change. A promise that, as still
- 38:22Speaker 2: working 9 to 5 will remind you, still hasn't been fulfilled.
- 38:29Speaker 2: And then on top of that, unfortunately, that.
- 38:34Speaker 2: Movement that happened in the 60s, 70s that resulted into
- 38:36Speaker 2: the Equal Employment Opportunity Act has been revoked with the
- 38:41Speaker 2: Civil Rights Act as of this week in 2025. Today's
- 38:46Speaker 2: January 23, 2025. I hope when people listen back to
- 38:50Speaker 2: this that we can come back about this being a
- 38:53Speaker 2: dark moment and that it has changed. This is my
- 38:57Speaker 2: hope because those types of revoking, like I cannot believe
- 39:03Speaker 2: This is the act he thought would really save everything.
- 39:09Speaker 2: The tales from everybody talking about this is discriminatory, that
- 39:16Speaker 2: this act was discriminatory. So somehow the people who have
- 39:21Speaker 2: the most money, the group of people that has the
- 39:24Speaker 2: most likelihood of surviving and being successful and having homes
- 39:27Speaker 2: and being able to have this all that we've talked
- 39:30Speaker 2: about are suddenly being discriminated against somehow who are statistically
- 39:35Speaker 2: more have more profit and if you are wondering if
- 39:41Speaker 2: just because you're white does not mean this help you
- 39:44Speaker 2: especially for the women And I know our listeners, they
- 39:49Speaker 2: already know. They already know. And you're not the people
- 39:53Speaker 2: that I'm talking to at all. Any immigrant, any person
- 39:57Speaker 2: of color who really thought this wouldn't happen is happening.
- 40:02Speaker 2: It's interesting because these movies were trying to be a
- 40:07Speaker 2: cautionary tale and then kind of like a hopeful future.
- 40:12Speaker 2: And then 45 years later, we're worse than they were.
- 40:17Speaker 1: Yep. Yeah.
- 40:22Speaker 2: After I was finished kind of revamping and rethinking some
- 40:27Speaker 2: of these themes, and I didn't, we didn't change anything
- 40:31Speaker 2: except for like, we're going to have to at least
- 40:32Speaker 2: talk about where we are today. I really needed a nap.
- 40:37Speaker 1: That's fair. That's fair.
- 40:43Speaker 2: I was like, I just need to close my eyes.
- 40:45Speaker 2: When I talk about narcolepsy, I'm like, this is why
- 40:47Speaker 2: I think I have narcolepsy. Because when I'm stressed like this,
- 40:51Speaker 2: my body physically shuts down.
- 40:55Speaker 1: You know, we won't go into this now, but I
- 40:59Speaker 1: was thinking about it recently. And I was like, it's
- 41:02Speaker 1: so interesting to me. I would be so much more
- 41:06Speaker 1: productive if I didn't have all of this bullshit to
- 41:09Speaker 1: deal with. And your capitalism would be doing a lot better.
- 41:13Speaker 1: But instead, I'm like, oh, God. Let me just sit
- 41:18Speaker 1: down for a minute.
- 41:19Speaker 2: Yeah. There's a lot, especially as we wait to see
- 41:24Speaker 2: if people... Because we already know ACLU has already gone
- 41:28Speaker 2: after the administration for the immigration ban, taking this whole
- 41:33Speaker 2: birthright citizenship, which apparently... they can't do at this point
- 41:40Speaker 2: it's not legal it's just yeah fluff yeah doesn't mean
- 41:45Speaker 2: they're not going to try no uh doesn't mean ice
- 41:48Speaker 2: has not already been out there um and we do
- 41:51Speaker 2: want to come back and do an episode about what
- 41:53Speaker 2: to know about your rights um for any immigrants technically
- 41:57Speaker 2: i am too i mean i am a citizen however
- 41:59Speaker 2: it is naturalized so we know the how that can
- 42:01Speaker 2: go so um the fear is very real But we
- 42:07Speaker 2: will come back and we do want to talk about
- 42:09Speaker 2: your rights and how to go forward in that in
- 42:11Speaker 2: this conversation. Please know we love you. We're thinking about you. But.
- 42:20Speaker 2: On this Feminist Movie Friday, what I thought would be
- 42:23Speaker 2: a conversation about a good old classic with things that
- 42:27Speaker 2: we still need to learn. I didn't realize we would
- 42:29Speaker 2: come back with this is no longer relevant because it
- 42:32Speaker 2: is relevant, but less like. Again, the fact that we're
- 42:40Speaker 2: talking about it in a way that we have less
- 42:43Speaker 2: rights than the people in this movie is phenomenal. So,
- 42:55Speaker 2: this is a fantasy. This movie is a fantasy. Yeah.
- 43:03Speaker 1: It was a fun one, though.
- 43:04Speaker 2: Yeah, so if you would like to see A fantasy
- 43:07Speaker 2: feel-good movie for the moment with a lot of 80s sitcomic.
- 43:12Speaker 1: Oh, the technology.
- 43:13Speaker 2: We didn't even talk about that. Yeah, we didn't even
- 43:14Speaker 2: talk about that. The tap, tap, tap.
- 43:16Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh. The tap, tap, tap.
- 43:17Speaker 2: And then the giant printer. The phone headset. The printer. Yeah.
- 43:22Speaker 2: We didn't even talk about the woman who was an
- 43:24Speaker 2: alcoholic at the office. I feel you.
- 43:26Speaker 1: I loved her. I love that she's like, attagirl.
- 43:29Speaker 2: Attagirl. Every single one of them.
- 43:31Speaker 1: Attagirl. I quit.
- 43:32Speaker 2: I'm done for the day. I'm going to get a drink. Attagirl.
- 43:35Speaker 2: she said medicinal purposes.
- 43:38Speaker 1: I do love how they were all like I'm going
- 43:40Speaker 1: to get a drink in the middle of the day
- 43:41Speaker 1: and everyone was like okay.
- 43:44Speaker 2: Enjoy it kind of looks like you know like pre
- 43:48Speaker 2: people having breakdowns at offices yeah like understanding do not
- 43:53Speaker 2: push her yes let her go you.
- 44:00Speaker 1: Don't need this you.
- 44:01Speaker 2: Don't want this let them go But with all of that,
- 44:09Speaker 2: we love you. Take the time to enjoy some of
- 44:11Speaker 2: these fantasies. It's okay. You can't be in a constant
- 44:15Speaker 2: state of panic. It's not good for you.
- 44:18Speaker 1: No. No, it's not. We hope that these episodes, some
- 44:26Speaker 1: of them, of course, we will be tackling current issues,
- 44:29Speaker 1: but the ones where we get to have a bit
- 44:31Speaker 1: more fun, we hope that they're bright spots for you.
- 44:35Speaker 1: And that you can find a moment in them to
- 44:37Speaker 1: maybe take a breath.
- 44:40Speaker 2: Enjoy.
- 44:41Speaker 1: As always, you can contact us in many ways. You
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- 45:00Speaker 1: You can get wherever you get your books. Thanks as
- 45:02Speaker 1: always to our super producer, Christina, our executive producer, Maya,
- 45:04Speaker 1: and our contributor, Joey.
- 45:06Speaker 2: Thank you. And thanks to you for listening.
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