How to change my spouse

The Catholic Journey with Deacon Pat Kearns · Mar 13, 2026 · 8m

If you could change one thing about your spouse… what would it be? Every marriage eventually reaches moments of frustration, misunderstanding, and conflict. We sometimes find ourselves thinking: “If only they would change this one thing…” But what if the real key to transforming a marriage is not what we think? In this episode of The Catholic Journey with Deacon Pat Kearns, we explore: • Why many couples struggle to influence each other • The surprising way real change often begins in a marriage • A powerful story about how one person’s transformation changed an entire relationship • How…