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I AM NO MANS PEACE · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.
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  Speaker 2: I was fully okay with being ship at carpentry because
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  Speaker 2: I knew I was going to get taught to do it.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like, why is someone fully not okay with
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  Speaker 2: being ship at the thing they want to do when
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  Speaker 2: they know they need time to learn. The Relatables podcast
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  Speaker 2: is hosted by myself, Jake Craig aka Daddy, and my
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  Speaker 2: partner in crime, Addie Clark aka Mummy.
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  Speaker 1: That's it, and you guys are the baddies. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if I like calling you daddy now that I'm
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  Speaker 1: saying it a lot, but I really like it. I
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  Speaker 1: got the short end of this.
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  Speaker 2: I really like it, guys. Last week we pranked our
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  Speaker 2: friend Harry Quail, the guy who I just make these hats,
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  Speaker 2: sitting right next to us, actually right between us, and
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  Speaker 2: we got him good.
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  Speaker 1: He got him a good wine.
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  Speaker 2: He was it at the end in the game, make
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  Speaker 2: them say, and we said, to win a hat, send
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  Speaker 2: in your details. We've got a fair few in there already.
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  Speaker 2: The first person we are going to give a hat
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  Speaker 2: to we are not going to play make them say,
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  Speaker 2: we give them hat because they're the first. It is
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  Speaker 2: a guy named Matt let's ringing. Hello.
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  Speaker 1: Hello, is that Matt it is?
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  Speaker 2: How's it going? And good?
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  Speaker 1: Thanks? It's Addie for the Relatables podcast. I'm joined with
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  Speaker 1: Jake Matt. Matt, It's Jake and Oddy.
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  Speaker 2: From the Relatables podcast. You want a hat?
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  Speaker 1: You want a hat?
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  Speaker 2: Mate?
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  Speaker 1: The hell is calling me?
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  Speaker 2: All right, you're the first ever to win a hat.
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  Speaker 2: We're not going to play make them say with you? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: what color would you like? What colors we've got pink and.
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  Speaker 1: Blue, blue, got my name all over it?
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  Speaker 2: Easy pa so much.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you. It does say daddy on the I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: you all like that.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 1: I love the podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much. Have you got any any messages
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  Speaker 2: that you want to get out there? We want to
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  Speaker 2: give everyone someone a platform to give a message, not
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  Speaker 2: really love.
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  Speaker 1: That's good, that's good that we put on the spot. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: We appreciate you listening, and we've got your address with
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  Speaker 1: send you the hat. So what a positive way to
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  Speaker 1: start the episode. He was, he was, he was like,
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  Speaker 1: who is this? You were like, is this mad?
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  Speaker 2: He guys? Yeah, who's this? Who is this? How funny?
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, next time, we don't know if they're going
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  Speaker 1: to be safe or not. Yeah, we thought it would
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  Speaker 1: be nice.
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  Speaker 2: We who knows what's going to happen next time. I
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  Speaker 2: wanted to start the actual episode off today with I
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  Speaker 2: saor a thing the other day that explained you and myself,
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  Speaker 2: I think very well, really, all right, so we all
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  Speaker 2: know what fomo is.
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  Speaker 1: Fear of missing out.
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  Speaker 2: Fear of missing out. Now, I mean I don't get
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  Speaker 2: it at all. You barely get it. No anymore.
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  Speaker 1: You you still get a little bit. When I was
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  Speaker 1: dipping out of the party.
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  Speaker 2: Scene, yeah, you still had you still had to tow
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  Speaker 2: in there. You had to toe in the water on
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  Speaker 2: the party scene. But so I saw a thing, and
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  Speaker 2: so we don't have phomo. We don't get phomo anymore.
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  Speaker 2: We get phue b what's phoebe? Fear of being involved?
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  Speaker 2: We do before? And I was like, bro, this is
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  Speaker 2: fucking perfect.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's my worst nightmare.
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  Speaker 2: Literally, the worst thing that could ever happen is someone
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  Speaker 2: invites me somewhere and I say yes, Bro.
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  Speaker 1: Oh so true. I'm an introverted heart and I always
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  Speaker 1: will be.
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  Speaker 2: I like, and the funny, the funniest thing is that
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  Speaker 2: so many people say to us, like we've done shoots. Yeah, done,
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  Speaker 2: we must be. We've done a few shoots, common, we've
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  Speaker 2: done some shoes, we've done a couple of video shoes,
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  Speaker 2: blah blah blah. But so at shoots, at things we've done,
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  Speaker 2: we like management there or whatever. They'll they will ask
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  Speaker 2: us a few questions and then they'll be like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: just be comfortable like on the pod, and then we're like,
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  Speaker 2: oh no, we're actually like really introverted, and they go, really,
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  Speaker 2: you don't seem like it because they listen to the podcast,
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  Speaker 2: and we're like yeah, because we're in a fucking safe
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  Speaker 2: space on the podcast, like we know it's going out there,
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  Speaker 2: but not a fan of doing it, and then like
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  Speaker 2: in front of people.
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  Speaker 1: Like that, and that's a different skill in itself.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. But so I I thought it was so funny.
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  Speaker 2: I hate that too. And it's just like I dread
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  Speaker 2: it for the whole week too. If I've planned something
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  Speaker 2: and I said, oh, yeah, I'll.
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  Speaker 1: Do it, I'm like, I don't want to do that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to do it. To day it is
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  Speaker 1: just getting I don't want to do it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to do it. I fucking couldn't agree
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  Speaker 2: more Like I where was I Okay, I was at
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  Speaker 2: aer An Affair local shopping center. Yeah, and it was
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  Speaker 2: the night. Actually I've told the story about me going
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  Speaker 2: to my stepmom's birthday and how I was in chambles
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  Speaker 2: that night. But so the day of I went to
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  Speaker 2: get lunch. Beth and I went and got some lunch
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  Speaker 2: at Aaron and we got to pick up a couple
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  Speaker 2: of things. I think we were getting a present for
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  Speaker 2: actually for Kate. We're walking into the food court and
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  Speaker 2: I saw her sister. So Kate's sister, my auntie and
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  Speaker 2: her husband and I saw them and I've known her
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  Speaker 2: since I was fucking two, all right, nothing, and I
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  Speaker 2: literally just turned a blind eye. And because she didn't
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  Speaker 2: see me, and I was like, hey, she didn't see me,
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  Speaker 2: I don't have to say hi to her. I couldn't
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  Speaker 2: be fucked to say hi to her. And the crazy
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  Speaker 2: thing is is I'm so glad I did that because
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  Speaker 2: I would have forgot to say happy birth. I still
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  Speaker 2: was in that mindset of like, it's only Kate's birthday,
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  Speaker 2: it's only my mum's birthday. But so I was like,
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  Speaker 2: and I was thinking in that moment, I was like
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  Speaker 2: I'm in like I'm avoiding people I know, like people
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  Speaker 2: I love, even when we're out and like there's a
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  Speaker 2: big group of people and like semi don't know if
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  Speaker 2: some of them. I'll wait till our friends come back
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  Speaker 2: because I don't want to be involved in this conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the biggest loiterer when it comes to that. If
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  Speaker 2: we like, especially if you're out with Jack, he knows
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  Speaker 2: everyone to everyone, and he'll just be in there, like
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  Speaker 2: even someone he doesn't know, like up in their face,
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  Speaker 2: adding them to group chat Weather. That's getting to work
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  Speaker 2: out facts, bro, Weather out the calculators. Sometimes I don't
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  Speaker 2: even like being invited to like our close friend group
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  Speaker 2: thing because when I go, I'm like, I really got
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  Speaker 2: a socialize, say, I really got to like I got
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  Speaker 2: to remember that everyone else has lives outside of me.
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  Speaker 2: I have to ask them questions about them. So the
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  Speaker 2: Phobie is real and I want Phoebe to become a movie.
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  Speaker 1: We'll bring Phobe back. Yeah, everyone gets to be a
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  Speaker 1: thing priors fom thing.
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  Speaker 2: Everyone gets fomo fear of missing out, Like fuck no, bro, Phobo,
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  Speaker 2: it's fucking ridiculous.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Jake, I wanted to talk about next. Have
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  Speaker 1: you heard this saying I think it's a bit of
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  Speaker 1: a cliche one. It's probably been in some big American movies,
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  Speaker 1: like kids movies. You've got to be in it to
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  Speaker 1: win it, in it to win it. Yeah, it's given high.
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  Speaker 2: School music bros giving high is going watch that recently,
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  Speaker 2: and let me tell you, it's still good. It is
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  Speaker 2: still good, but it's also corringeous far.
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  Speaker 1: I have a confession. I've never seen high school musical ever. Ever,
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  Speaker 1: what are you doing? Maybe we can sit down and
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  Speaker 1: watch it together. I can't believe you've never seen one.
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  Speaker 2: I've seen all three of them like five times.
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  Speaker 1: Really, yeah, that doesn't surprise me.
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  Speaker 2: You're saying that as an insult. I've got everyone backing
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  Speaker 2: up right now, and dude telling you right now, Troy Bolton,
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  Speaker 2: he's Troe Bolton sake. I was about to talk abou
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  Speaker 2: high school musical with you. I was excited that I
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  Speaker 2: was about to bring stuff up. I have a story
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  Speaker 2: about it from like three weeks.
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  Speaker 1: Ago, and you're like, I'm and I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: hear it.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, I recommend watching it. But he's the thing. I
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  Speaker 2: think you're going to hate it. I probably will hate
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  Speaker 2: it because you didn't watch it as a kid.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't like musicals.
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  Speaker 2: I watched it as a kid, and I loved it
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  Speaker 2: as a kid. I remember loving it, and I watched
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  Speaker 2: it in Canada with Joanna and my younger sister Eva,
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  Speaker 2: and I watched it, and in my head I'm thinking, like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I can't believe I liked this as a kid. But
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  Speaker 2: I still watched the whole thing like it was still good.
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  Speaker 2: In my opinion, I still thought it was really good.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I will give it a go. But that's not
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  Speaker 1: what I wanted to talk about.
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  Speaker 2: Please, did your girlfriend know you haven't watched High schools?
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  Speaker 1: Never come up in a conversation. It's not going to
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  Speaker 1: all right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, she literally should be listening. I hope she's listening
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  Speaker 2: to this, and I hope.
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  Speaker 1: She finds out her force me to watch it. To
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  Speaker 1: watch it anyway. They're saying in it to win it
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  Speaker 1: quite cliche, but I think it's actually in recent times,
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  Speaker 1: I've had another epiphany. I've had a few have been telling.
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  Speaker 2: You he's had a couple of good ephanies.
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  Speaker 1: But human nature, for some reason is you always don't
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  Speaker 1: think you're good enough, or you always prep prep everything
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  Speaker 1: and try to be ready for all life has to
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  Speaker 1: throw at you. But recently my new ideologies has been
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  Speaker 1: you should just start and be in the position because
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  Speaker 1: you don't know what can come out of it. Here's
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  Speaker 1: example being our podcast Very Start. I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: say we sucked. We were okay, very very, not great,
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  Speaker 1: but just from doing it and being into the position
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  Speaker 1: of trying and continually trying, all these opportunities arose just
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: from being in it, and now essentially we're winning. It's yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're doing as I'm saying, But even out of it,
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people don't do things because they're scared
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  Speaker 1: of that initial starting phase. So my new thing is,
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  Speaker 1: just like you know, you're not never going to ever
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  Speaker 1: be ready, I think you should just start and figure
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  Speaker 1: it out because you don't know when life is going
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  Speaker 1: to open up its doors and these all these amazing
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  Speaker 1: opportunities are going to come from it. That's my new idology.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think, dude, I mean, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking about the other day, I do like that,
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  Speaker 2: Like I mean everyone overthinks everything, yea, everyone is I
• 10:03
  Speaker 2: mean me included, I mean both of us included. Really
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: it takes us, I mean it took us a while,
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  Speaker 2: Like starting the podcast, I definitely am gonna put it
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  Speaker 2: out there. I never would have done on my own.
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  Speaker 2: And even if let's say we we didn't start the podcast,
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  Speaker 2: I never would have started anything, is what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's always something like I think everyone thinks of it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, everyone sees a lifestyle of like like an
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  Speaker 2: influencer or something like that, and everyone wants that, but
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  Speaker 2: you never no one ever does it because you're scared.
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  Speaker 2: And I never would have done anything, I think without
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  Speaker 2: having started the podcast, But now having started it, I'm
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: a lot less scared to do something. But me, the
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: overthinking of me is like what do I want to do? Like,
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: but do it? And also I start to think like
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: do I even want to do anything? Like I feel
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: like I have to do something. I think so too,
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  Speaker 2: but we al we limited our capability. Like you might
• 10:49
  Speaker 2: be thinking like what do I do? But then have
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  Speaker 2: you have these amazing goals and then.
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  Speaker 1: Life just like nah, that's not realistic.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean like I think I wanted, I
• 10:58
  Speaker 2: think I should do something.
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  Speaker 1: What do you want to do? What you's in your head?
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  Speaker 2: But the thing is is like, at the same time,
• 11:04
  Speaker 2: I will start, I kind of toot myself because I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: but I really like doing the podcast, So why am
• 11:09
  Speaker 2: I telling myself I need to do something? You know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: Well, you're in you obviously talking like social media wise. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well for me, it's like maybe posting something on your
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  Speaker 1: own page and assuming that's what we're talking about. But
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  Speaker 1: even like broad spectrum, like some people want to like
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  Speaker 1: like manage properties and like do something like that, and
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  Speaker 1: people say it's not realistic because someone wants to be
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  Speaker 1: a jeweler and like you don't know where to start,
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  Speaker 1: and it's just like it's become so like unrealistic. But
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  Speaker 1: I think you should just chuck yourself in the deep
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  Speaker 1: end and try it and you never know what's going
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  Speaker 1: to happen from it.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, yeah, I think let's say we can
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: use us as an example again, because that's like really
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  Speaker 2: what we have to go off. But like or anyone
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  Speaker 2: really think of anybody's own life.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we can talk about Harry's clothing brand too. He
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  Speaker 1: just started and I think he shared his eleven months
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: journey or year journey the other day. Yeah, and he's
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: he's like so cool and weird. He's seeing the quality
• 11:53
  Speaker 1: of his jobs compared to how good they are now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it's the same thing and all these opportunities he's
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  Speaker 1: working with us and all these other cool brands because
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  Speaker 1: he just started. Yeah, it's the same thing. And everyone
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  Speaker 1: has aspirations once that someone's like I want to start
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  Speaker 1: a clothing brand.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you know, yeah, I feel like that's everyone does
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  Speaker 2: want it.
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  Speaker 1: He actually did it, and he's done it properly, like
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  Speaker 1: he's adamant. And then I put his mind to it,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that's admirable. It's the same with us
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  Speaker 1: in the pot and everyone's got in the back of
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  Speaker 1: their mind something whether it's a clothing brand, started a
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  Speaker 1: painting shop, start a fucking donut shop, whatever it is.
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking the other day, actually, I don't know when.
• 12:23
  Speaker 2: I don't know why it came. Remember, I think I
• 12:24
  Speaker 2: was looking down in the house in the house and
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: I was in my kitchen and you can see into
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: the old podcast room where we had the lolds and
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: stuff like obviously if you've been listening for a little while,
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: you'll remember that. And and I just remember there was
• 12:36
  Speaker 2: a point where we for a long time, actually, like
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: a lot of episodes, I think we we recorded the
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: video part of it just on our phones, and and
• 12:47
  Speaker 2: I was like, fuck, we've come a long way since
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: the phones. And then I even think like there was
• 12:51
  Speaker 2: obviously a long time where just if you think about it,
• 12:53
  Speaker 2: just like posting clips on Instagram and stuff, you know,
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  Speaker 2: they didn't have any subtitles and there was there was
• 12:59
  Speaker 2: no effect on them, and there was like and I
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: think back, and I wish I could like tap myself
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: on the shoulder and be like, how do you not
• 13:05
  Speaker 2: understand that that is not a good video? Like how
• 13:07
  Speaker 2: they like now, but I've got all this experience now
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: because you just did it. Yeah, like like like we
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: have all this experience and because it's because I think it,
• 13:15
  Speaker 2: like we kind of just kept going. And it's the
• 13:17
  Speaker 2: first thing like in my head that's solidified that I
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: really love podcasts. And like I've said it before, like
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: I fit I've discovered that I'm passionate about it. But
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: I think because like even when it was shit and
• 13:29
  Speaker 2: I knew it wasn't good, I fucking enjoyed it, Like,
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: well we both enjoyed it, and we still did it
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: every week and we still like even if we were
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: we quite often we'd record on a Sunday and upload
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: on a Monday, like we always would be short of time.
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  Speaker 2: We'd be like, fuck, we got to get this done.
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  Speaker 2: We're like, what are we going to talk about in
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: this episode? Like we have nothing to talk about? We
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: live together, We fucking talk about everything. And I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I just think like it was interesting in my head,
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: thinking like fuck we I can't believe, Like I think
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: that feels like a fever dream.
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  Speaker 1: It does you, And I bet you then looking back
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: on it now, like a bigod book, go back two
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: years ago now and looked like where we are now,
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  Speaker 1: we'd be like, no way.
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  Speaker 2: And I also, yeah, I agree. I think that if
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: if we went back two years ago or a year ago,
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: a year and a half ago, and we look at
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: where we are now, like right right now, you and
• 14:11
  Speaker 2: I constantly think like what can we do better? Yeah?
• 14:13
  Speaker 2: What can we do better?
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  Speaker 1: Where?
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  Speaker 2: How can we make more money? How can we how
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  Speaker 2: can we do this? Like we're not we don't feel
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: comfortable yet, blah blah blah. We still feel like we're
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: not comfortable. But I bet you if we went back
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: a year ago even and we're like, oh, this is
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: what the future looks like this very second, we'd be like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: we fucking made it right. We'd be like no, why.
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  Speaker 1: It's so funny how your mind limits your capabilities, like
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: it tells you like nah, nah, that's not realistic, Like
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  Speaker 1: you can't do that. Come on, man, be like you
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: guys just gonna be talking to Jake the whole time, like.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, literally, and even I guess if you think, like
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: I bet anyone out like jj you know, if you
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: guys are on Patreon Jack, we call him uncle. He's
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: on there. He was on the Patreon episodes doing some
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: sound stuff and just like chiming in. So he's a
• 14:52
  Speaker 2: plumber my trade, and like, I bet you when he
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: started his trade he not. He was like he was
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: probably he's working with his dad and his dad's teach
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: shit and he's like, I don't understand a thing. He's saying,
• 15:01
  Speaker 2: how the fuck am I ever going to be able
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: to do a whole house plumbing? But now he can
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: literally go and he works for himself pretty much like
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: his dad. Just he like runs his dad's company for
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: it basically yeah, and they I guess me. For example,
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: I did a carpentry apprenticeship. I remember at the start
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: being like fucking watching videos that the teacher's showing us
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: a take of like stuff that you're gonna know in
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: four years, and I'm like, I'm not gonna go.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Shit in four years.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: That the fuck? That stressing me out, Like, seriously, I
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: don't know how to build a house, but I could
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: confidently if like I can't draw plans, but if some
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: if I went to a block of land, a flat
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: block of land, and someone had plans and everything, I
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: could confidently probably not as quick as a very experienced carpenter,
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: but I could confidently build a house. Yeah. And it's
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: just a crazy thing that, Yeah, and you go in
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: and it's funny because I was fully okay with being
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: ship at carpentry because I knew I was going to
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: get taught to do it. Yeah. So it's like, why
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: is someone fully not okay with being ship at the
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: thing they want to do when they know they need
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: time to learn.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It is weird, and it is something about because
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: we are so passionate about it, we care so much
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: about being good at it. And I think that's also
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: why you should start the things, because you're going to
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: be passionate about it.
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: Here's a quote sorry, keep going, now you go, You'll
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: love this. This was something I was gonna bring up
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: a different episode, but this kind of fits here, and
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: I feel like we get this, we kind of do this,
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: and we try and stop ourselves, and I reckon, everyone
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: does this, so and I just saw it and my
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: screenshotted in it. It's when you're twenty, Okay, it's wanting
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: everything a fifty year old has, but in my twenties,
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: oh yeah, we do. I feel like we just constantly
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: are like, why don't we have that yet? But it's like,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: so we would look at our parents and be like, whoa, whoa,
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: I want that? How'd they get that? Yeah, but we
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: don't remember we didn't know them when they were twenty exactly.
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: They were fucking dirt poor. They had nothing, they had
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: no experience, know anything.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: It's so weird navigating life like we always Yeah, it's
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: you want all the answers and all the money in
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: the world, yeah, but you're not willing to like do
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: the process.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: No. Yeah.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: And then when you've we've done a little bit of
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: the process, we're like, oh that was cool, Yeah, like
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: I was worth it.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: It's full. Yeah, We're like, oh, that's where and then
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: I think it's like a scary thing to think we've
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: got a long way to go.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's just human nature. But it comes back
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: to the saying like, you just got to be in
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: it to win it. If you got any goals or
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: aspirations or anything like that, I would stop overthinking it.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: You're going to be ship at the start and just
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: start because then you're in it and you don't know
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: what opportunities can come from you just being in it.
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: Just slightly. Yeah, no, facts, that's it. I fully agree.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Can I have five minutes of explaining what high school
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: musical is to?
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: What was the time time?
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: I reckon?
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: We got plenty plenty Sure you've been raw. We should
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: have made a segment like that. Okay, first offs, sing
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: me a chorus of it, then you can explain it.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: Gonna get you get you get your head in the game.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: How did that go? What about? No, there's another one
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: where it's like, uh, oh, stick to this stuff. You know, No,
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: I forget it, but I know that the melody.
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: That's good enough. Have your five minutes, mate, Okay, husk
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: is cool?
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: All right? Troy Bolton the main characterright, Zach Efron Troy Bolton.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: He goes to a school in Albuquerque, New Mexico. His
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: dad is the basketball coach. Also legend like grew up
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: at that school one championships as like a legend in
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: the school. Now he's just both a basketball coach at
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: the school for a job. Okay starts off. The movie
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: starts off. He's on a ski trip for Christmas. It's
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: New Year's Eve, runs into a girl named Gabriella because
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: they get post put up on stage. They go to
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: like an under eighteen's party. Weird. They both they both
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: get put on stage to do karaoke. Zac Efron starts
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: trying all right, she she chimes in, helps out, and
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: then at the end they're like exchange numbers. They got
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: little flip phones or whatever, and then they just like
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: they both kind of assume because they were on a holiday.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: He goes back to Albuquerque and she he doesn't know
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: where she lives. But then it starts off at Albuquerque.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Troy Bolton gets off the bus and everyone's like, yo, Troy,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: what's up.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: We're gonna win the championship.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: And then he's like yeah, boys, and so then he
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: goes into home room, which is like roll call yeah,
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: and he and he's in there on his own and
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: he realizes that Gabriella has moved to his school, moved
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: to Albuquerque. He's at his school and he's acting all cool.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: He gets out there and he's like chatting. He's like,
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: no way, I can't believe you. You're like I tried
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: to look for you, like the day after New Year's
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: but like you were gone or something. And then shar
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Pei Evans is like a blonde chick and basically okay,
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: and so long story short, yeah, Troy Bolton liked singing
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: at the karaoke okay. And then for some reason, his
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: dad is like, you have to play basketball basketball basketball.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: He's like, but what if I want to sing, dad,
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: And his dad's like that's ridiculous. But then him and
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Gabriella go and they do like a little duet in
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: this like big school production play that's going to be
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: on and they get a call back right, and then
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: the basketball team finds out, like whoa, and so then
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: the basketball he's best mate that's on the basketball team
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: goes over to the girl that Gabrielle's friends with meis like,
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: we got to stop this. We've got to break them up, mate, Seriously,
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: He's like, we got to break them up and she's
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: like deal. And so then they record Troy Bolton. They
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: bade him he's in there, and that's when they start trying.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: I'm like, this is your dad. He's a fucking champion,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: and then he starts going. They get him on film
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: a live camp. Gabrielle is watching in the science room
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: because he's a nerd and and he's like, boys, she's
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: just a girl. I'm in it to win it or
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: something like that. He's like, I'm here for the ball. Boys.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: She sees it, and then he doesn't know she's seeing it,
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: and the next time we sees her in the hall,
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: he's like he comes up to like a hand on
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: the locker, like what up, babe, and and she's like crying.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: She's like no, Troy, Like she fucks off somewhere, and
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: then what else happens. I'm trying to think there's just
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: this whole thing about the guy. His friends realize their
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: dicks or something because he likes this girl, and then
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: they have and then they end up, they break them up,
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: then they help get them back together. Yeah, and then
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: they they win the championship in basketball, and he gets
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: to do the play and like that, and he's like
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: his dad's watching the player clap and and then there's
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: two more movies up there.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: There's two more to go through. Yeah, that's all we
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: got time for. You know, you know why I let
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: you explain that, why I don't have to watch the
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: movie anymore.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: Yes, you do, you have to watch.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: It, Thank you, sir.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: Fuck it. Hell my new favorite I've got I've been
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: obviously where gen x No, no, no, no, sorry, we're
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: gen Z. We're gen Z mate. Yeah we love TikTok,
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah we do.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd love to give me my TikTok time.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: Give me my fucking TikTok time. But current favorite trend
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: is I have I'm hoping all the girlipops and guys
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: listening they know it's it's like starts off with I
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: am no man's piece, Yes, okay, and then what it is,
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: it's always girls doing this trend. It's getting like millions
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: of life, so it's I am no man's piece. And
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: then the next slide it's a little slide, it's not
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: a video, and the next one is a text message
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: between a guy and a girl. And it's the girls
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: just roasting. Dude, it's fucking the best thing ever.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: I'm ready for this.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: I think you're gonna like it. Okay, So I am
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: no man's peace. Her to him, how's your thumb? Is
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: it hurting? He says, my thumb? No? Why? She says, oh,
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I thought it would be from all the bitches you
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: keep following. That's good.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: That's gold place and there's so many imagine getting that
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: out of the bluetooth, like my thumb, Like is your
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: thumb okay?
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: And you're like oh she cares, Yeah, I'm good. Okay.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Him to her, when are we linking again?
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: Link? This guy's trash?
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: She says, never. I've sent snapchats that lasted longer than you,
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: And he says, fuck you, bitch. I told you it's
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: been a minute, she said, And I told you I
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: had a good time. I guess we're both lies.
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: That snapchat's last longer. Yeah, that's right, you deserve longer, girl.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: In his defense, you can send infinite snapchats.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: We're not defending the guy's here, right, but.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, relatable, you don't last long?
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Oh man?
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: Okay him, did you just stalk my Instagram and like
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: a picture from twenty eighteen. You think he thinks he's
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: got the upper hand, Yeah, she goes, yeah, only because
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: you haven't looked good since then.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: We gotta do that. I somehow.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: She's fucking gold. I love it so much.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: I like that one.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: It's non stop on my for you page.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I can't believe you haven't been getting them. Imagine that,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: like you back in the day when you were single.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Like she's like, oh, did you just like one of
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: my old pictures? Like, yeah, last time you looked good?
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: But fuck, it's my favorite thing ever. Oh. Him, I
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: think it's funny that I played you. Her. I think
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: it's funny that your coach never plays you.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Hit him wear it hurts Sport said, that's good.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Him. Hey, I've been busy. He missed her call. Yeah,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: so sorry. Hey, I've been busy, She said, I'm gonna
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: be honest with you. I don't know why you're playing
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: hard to get when you're already hard to.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Like Wait girls, any girlie pops. He was like, the
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: guys are planning the chase.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: I think, yeah, guys take all these into account. Yeah him,
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: I don't think this is going to work. Her. That's fine, him,
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: You're not mad question mark her, nah, my best friend
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: refers to you as which one.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Imagine breaking up with a girl or whatever, like, oh,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: we can't do this anymore. She's like, oh, yeah, it's fine.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: You're like, oh you said. He's like, nah, I'm good.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: You do me a favor. I was gonna do it anyway.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: This one's not me and it's just funny. It's like
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: something that I think all girls should do, just because
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: it's funny. Her can we call later him? Yeah? Like
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: just hy e. Yeah. She says, you have all twenty
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: six letters on your keyboard, please use them. He said yes.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: She said yes. What he said, Yes, ma'am, it's good.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: It's good.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna use that one.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Okay, yes to facts, you can use it on you.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Yes, what.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: She would reply, Okay, this one is just a girl
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: saying it to a guy. All right, She says, do
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: you ever look at yourself in the mirror and think, hmmm,
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: I'm not tall enough to be acting like this.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's why he's acting it because it's so short
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: in a baby true more small man syndre Yes, all right,
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: it's like small dogs in You're gonna like this one
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: a right and I know you're going to use this,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: and somehow bat your girlfriend and is saying it him.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Are you mad at me? Now? Her? No, I'm not mad.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: I was just washing dishes him. I know that silly
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: her washing them with my tears.
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: That still something My girlfriend was like, literally, I'm using
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: that for sure.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Okay, I think I have two more. I've got three more.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking how I can use that at the gym
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: or something. Yeah.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Fuck, okay, I go three more. This one's like kind
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: of a long one from him. Okay, you're gonna lie this.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: I think you're like this. Him staying up until five
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: am to text you wasn't about proving manliness. It was
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: more like laying my cards on the table, sharing thoughts
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: and feelings without the typical guy bravado. I wanted you
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: to know that every text and every late night conversation
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: was an investment of my time and emotions because you
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: mean something special to me. It wasn't. It wasn't just
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: about being a man. It's about breaking through the expectations
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: of what it means to be a guy. Her what
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: in the chat.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: That was some manny stuff from modern fam. Hey, we
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: should try and have conversations with our girlfriends using chat GBT,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: and then we'll read them back out so we'll get
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: chat should reply.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: I'll be like she said this, what should I say?
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, see how long we can go?
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: That's good?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Holy ship, bro, that's a great idea. Okay, I got
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: to more him? When am I going to see you? Her?
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: When I post my next Instagram picture? Next? Okay? Last
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: one him? You ever wish things went down different between us? Her? Yeah?
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: I wish I cheated. That's fun, oh man? But that
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: that's just a few. What's a thread called I am
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: no Man's piece?
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Why is it that I am no Man's piece?
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Because I think it's just like they are stressing them out.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: I have no idea, but I just think it's the
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: funniest thing ever. That was good, Okay, and not get over.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: All right, everybody, thank you for listening once again. You
• 28:09
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