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Thinking About It · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: It is time for second Date Update. We're in New
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  Speaker 1: Britain this morning. Colton is on the line. Hey Colton, Hello, Hey,
• 0:06
  Speaker 1: welcome to the show. I know you want to be
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  Speaker 1: on second Date Update because you're getting ghosted after a
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  Speaker 1: first date. So tell me about this first date with
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  Speaker 1: a girl. Name is it Jesse?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, okay, that's correct, Jesse.
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  Speaker 3: Tell us about the date.
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  Speaker 2: So the date actually went really great and we have
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  Speaker 2: a ton in common and I really want to see
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  Speaker 2: her again. Okay, but I'm not sure it's happening.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: We were like flirting on the date, you know, all.
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  Speaker 1: Right, did you go to dinner? Did you have drinks?
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  Speaker 1: You like, what did you do on your date?
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  Speaker 2: We did the whole thing. We did dinner, drinks, and
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  Speaker 2: a movie.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, old the traditional dates. So it's not even like
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  Speaker 2: it was a weird date where you could be like, oh.
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  Speaker 1: I don't get it, okay, and you thought that there
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  Speaker 1: was flirting, like you felt like there was a connection
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  Speaker 1: and you were flirting definitively.
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  Speaker 2: There was chemistry, okay, Like I was like, oh, this
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  Speaker 2: is going somewhere.
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  Speaker 3: Hey.
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  Speaker 2: It was easy.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Colin, let me ask you a question. You didn't
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  Speaker 4: send her a picture of your junk afterwards? Did you?
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  Speaker 4: Because this happened a few weeks ago on second date.
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  Speaker 2: Up date, that was date situation.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, see at least he waits till the third date.
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  Speaker 1: Gotcha, And that's also not a good idea, Colton, So.
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  Speaker 2: Did you the chemistry is there?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? My god? Okay? Did you reach out to her
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  Speaker 3: after the date?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 3: Did you text her? Call?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? I texted her and I was like, so are
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  Speaker 2: we thinking another date? And then she texted me a
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  Speaker 2: literal thinking emoji? Okay, and then went dark. That's it?
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  Speaker 6: Wait, the one that's like like fingers on the chin,
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  Speaker 6: like looking up suspiciously.
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  Speaker 1: That's yeah, Like hmmm, so she was kind of like,
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  Speaker 1: let me think about it, and then she never responded
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  Speaker 1: after that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I've been ghosted.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well we're gonna call her, but we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna find out why, because it sounds like a nice date.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why she wouldn't have followed up with
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  Speaker 1: like I thought about it, ha ha ha.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get together. I guess we're gonna find out.
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  Speaker 2: Awesome. Yeah, Hi, thank you, this is what we do.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna be on hold, we're gonna call up Jesse.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna ask her about the date. You're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: listening in. At any point, you can jump in and
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  Speaker 1: talk to her if you want.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, that sounds awesome.
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  Speaker 3: Something's going on. Yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like girls just don't sound like the think
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  Speaker 6: thinky emoji and then just like leave it there because
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  Speaker 6: I feel like that's either flirty or it's like maybe not.
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  Speaker 2: Hello.
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  Speaker 3: Hi, is Jesse there? Yes, Hi, Hey Jesse, it's Courtney Jesse.
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  Speaker 4: It's Walmart Cheff.
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  Speaker 1: Hey Jesse, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety
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  Speaker 1: five to seven.
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  Speaker 3: I have to let you know you're on the radio
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  Speaker 3: this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Oh okay, okay, so you're.
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  Speaker 3: On second Date Update. Hopefully you're familiar with the show.
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  Speaker 1: And that's when somebody calls us if they've gone on
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  Speaker 1: a first date that was great, and then they get
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  Speaker 1: ghosted and they want answers, and.
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  Speaker 3: That's why we're calling.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, all right.
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  Speaker 1: So Colton called us. He said he went on a
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  Speaker 1: great first date with you. He said it was like
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  Speaker 1: a dinner, drinks, a movie. There was obvious flirting, obvious chemistry,
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  Speaker 1: and this is the part. He said he sent you
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  Speaker 1: a text suggesting you get together again, and you sent
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  Speaker 1: him the thinking emoji and then you went dark. Did
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  Speaker 1: you mean to like, did you want to follow up
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  Speaker 1: that thinking emoji was like yes, let's get together? Or
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  Speaker 1: did you like ghost.
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  Speaker 3: Him for a reason?
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  Speaker 5: So listen. The date was great, okay. However, a couple
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  Speaker 5: of days later, I was talking with my girlfriend Emma okay,
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  Speaker 5: and Emma told me she knew him okay, and that
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  Speaker 5: he was a total pig and like, Emma told me that.
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  Speaker 5: Two days before our date, she was out with some
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  Speaker 5: of her friends and he came up to her and
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  Speaker 5: he was like, you've great ass, and then like walked away,
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  Speaker 5: like I don't know that. Just I heard that, And
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  Speaker 5: I was like, hmm no.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I mean I've told Courtney her ass looks
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  Speaker 4: good and Geene something not what? No, sometimes do you
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  Speaker 4: want to I would love it if you did it? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: Oh I wouldn't be offended. Okay, Yeah he's lying.
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  Speaker 3: I was about to stand up and let him say
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  Speaker 3: it now.
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  Speaker 4: But so, I mean maybe he's like me where he's
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  Speaker 4: just honest, like he kind of calls it as he
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  Speaker 4: sees it.
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  Speaker 1: If you go up to a stranger in a bar
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  Speaker 1: and you say that, I think. I think you're probably right,
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  Speaker 1: Jesse is kind appropriate.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, No, it's gross, like like you come up to someone, Hey,
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  Speaker 6: my name is Hey, I thought you you're beautiful girl? Whatever,
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  Speaker 6: Hey nice ass babe, Like, get out of here.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I would like it, but I'm different. Can
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  Speaker 3: we just bring Colton on? Colton?
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  Speaker 2: Hello?
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  Speaker 3: All right, listen, Jesse's on the line.
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  Speaker 1: She thought the date was great until she talked to
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  Speaker 1: her girlfriend Emma.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you want to say anything to him? Jesse?
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  Speaker 2: H yeah, I didn't know that you knew Emma. I
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  Speaker 2: didn't know that you two knew each there.
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  Speaker 6: So wait, wait, wait, So we're addressing the fact that
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  Speaker 6: you don't know they knew each other, not the fact
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  Speaker 6: that you walked up to her friend and said, hey,
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  Speaker 6: nice ass, right.
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  Speaker 2: Because I didn't do anything wrong, because Emma does have
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  Speaker 2: a great ass.
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  Speaker 5: I just it just doesn't matter who it is. I think, like.
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  Speaker 2: I hear.
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  Speaker 5: To do it, not for me.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's the fact that you walked up to
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  Speaker 1: a stranger, you don't even know her girlfriend, and you
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  Speaker 1: told shit a nice ass at a bar. It's just
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  Speaker 1: the type of guy that Jesse doesn't want to date.
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  Speaker 3: Am I correct? Jesse?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, but if.
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  Speaker 2: You saw the ass, you would agree with me, and
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  Speaker 2: it would be weird not to say something.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well Jesse, I know I know why
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  Speaker 1: you're ghosting of Jesse. You don't have to explain anything
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  Speaker 1: more to.
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  Speaker 5: Me, Okay, I figured.
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  Speaker 3: Just not not.
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  Speaker 1: This is not like I usually offered to pay for
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  Speaker 1: a second date if you guys got to work, want
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  Speaker 1: to work through things. But I'm guessing this probably is
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  Speaker 1: that a no for you, Jesse?
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  Speaker 5: Or yeah, that's a no for me?
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, all right, No, listen, don't be sorry.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I thought we hit it off. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I think I think you have a great ass too.
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  Speaker 1: But em enough, I don't want this, Okay, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to put you any through, you through any more torture, Jesse.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being honest with us, cold
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  Speaker 1: and good luck. I hope you can find somebody that
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  Speaker 1: can put up with you being you like your rude behavior.
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  Speaker 1: I will, I'm sure, I'm sure you will, and it's
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  Speaker 1: not gonna be Jesse.
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  Speaker 2: So all right, that's thinks, but this helps a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well, you got your answers, good luck to
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  Speaker 1: both of you, and again, Jesse, thank you so much
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  Speaker 1: for being honest with us.
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  Speaker 5: You're welcome