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Congrats........ ( Jay Barnett Interview) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: nb ye and cholovgne. Wake that ass up, get out
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  Speaker 1: Good morning usc yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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  Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo. Good morning Angela yee, Good
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  Speaker 1: morning Davy the guy piece to the plane in this Thursday, Man,
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  Speaker 1: this Thursday had a great ride in this morning? Manh
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  Speaker 1: what you was doing? You know? Sometimes you know, yelling?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm excited, I'm having a good day.
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  Speaker 1: You know, good morning, I should say so. You know,
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  Speaker 1: as a kid, my mom used to clean the house
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  Speaker 1: every Sunday, right, I don't know if I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if that it didn't help I clean my room. But
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  Speaker 1: she used to clean the house every Sunday. I helped.
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  Speaker 1: She would clean the house every Sunday and she would
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  Speaker 1: play music throughout the whole house all Sunday and in
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  Speaker 1: that feeling. So this morning I threw on some Teddy
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  Speaker 1: Pendergrass out and man, who turn off the lights? Turn
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  Speaker 1: them off? Not? Why was your mama playing that while
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  Speaker 1: she was cleaning up? She was playing everything because at
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  Speaker 1: the time the radio station nine point seven Kiss or
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  Speaker 1: one of the older stations music. So it's it's so good,
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  Speaker 1: I play sign it's so good, all good. But I
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  Speaker 1: just want to sad. Yes, I think that's really fun
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  Speaker 1: to play music like I do that too when I
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  Speaker 1: clean the house. You gotta put together a nice little playlist,
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  Speaker 1: and I gotta I do that with my kids too.
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  Speaker 1: But of course I'm playing like you know, the New Editions,
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  Speaker 1: the Mary J. Blige. So basically you're in a child
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  Speaker 1: who was pleased. Yeah, man, it was a good ride.
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  Speaker 1: I mean when we pulled up, you know, we have
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  Speaker 1: a couple of I would just say associates downstairs to
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  Speaker 1: make security guards. I'm a grown ass man, Yes, security guards.
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  Speaker 1: A couple of scuds downstairs, So what I pulled out
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  Speaker 1: that when I jumped out the card, it was like,
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  Speaker 1: you must be in love. I'm like, yes, I'm in
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  Speaker 1: love and I feel good this morning. That's crazy. You
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  Speaker 1: pulled up playing Teddy Pendergrass, turned off the lights and
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  Speaker 1: looked at security dead in AI this morning. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: did y'all ever watch the Teddy Pendergrass documentary? No, I
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  Speaker 1: tell you you got to watch that. It's amazing documentary.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah I see that, Yeah, yeah, yeah, this he's act good.
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  Speaker 1: What I like about it is that he did a
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  Speaker 1: lot of audio recordings and that they were able to
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  Speaker 1: use those in the documentary like somebody first hand telling
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  Speaker 1: their story, and it was just really dope. It was
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  Speaker 1: on showtime, right. Yeah. He got an amazing, amazing story
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  Speaker 1: when you even here, just how he got in the business,
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  Speaker 1: and then it was like a little a lot of
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  Speaker 1: drama with his career. But so talented. He's very handsome too.
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  Speaker 1: I actually saw him performed once, but that's when he
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  Speaker 1: was in the wheelchair. That happened to be in Atlantic
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  Speaker 1: City and women were still throwing their panties on the stage. Really, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he has he has a lot of records. Man, I
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  Speaker 1: had a great drive in this morning. Just oh man,
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  Speaker 1: it was beautiful. Okay, all right, well let's get the
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  Speaker 1: show cracker. Who's joining us this morning. Oh man, my man,
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  Speaker 1: King Jay Barnett Kings Jay Barnett is a psychiatrist therapist
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  Speaker 1: who specializes in black men's mental health. He's got an
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  Speaker 1: initiative with Roger P. Hinson and Tracy J that he's launching,
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  Speaker 1: so he'll be here to talk about it. And he's
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  Speaker 1: a form an NFL player, right, he's a ball player.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if he was in the NFL. Definitely
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  Speaker 1: form a ball player though. Okay, all right, so we'll
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  Speaker 1: kick it with him in a little bit. And we
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  Speaker 1: got front page news. What're were talking about? Well, I
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  Speaker 1: hate to bring the mood down, but there was a
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  Speaker 1: mass shooting in San Jose yesterday and we'll discuss what
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  Speaker 1: happened because the victims all knew the person who killed them.
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  Speaker 1: Nine victims, damn it. Man. Yeah, all right, we'll get
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  Speaker 1: into that next. It's the Breakfast Club Morning morning. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the Gad. We are
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  Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news now.
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  Speaker 1: Last night NBA playoffs. The Jazz beat the Grizzlies one
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  Speaker 1: forty one, one twenty nine to seventy six. Is beat
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  Speaker 1: the Wizards one twenty ninety five. Russell Westbrook got injured
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  Speaker 1: as he was walking out. Somebody through I guess popcorn
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  Speaker 1: on him as he was walking out. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: think that's what I heard him though, No, that'scorn as
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  Speaker 1: he was walking might do popcorn on him. No, he
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  Speaker 1: got injured and as he was walking out somebody threw
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  Speaker 1: popcorn on him and he was trying to get up
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  Speaker 1: in them stands to throw that dude all over the
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  Speaker 1: place and dropping the clues bonds for the New York Knicks.
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  Speaker 1: Damn it. I was about to say that the New
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  Speaker 1: York Knicks beat the Hawks one on one ninety two.
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  Speaker 1: This is a very interesting series, I think partly because
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  Speaker 1: it's the Knicks, but also because Trey Young is talking
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  Speaker 1: so much. Issue So in the end of this game,
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  Speaker 1: Trey Young was like, we're going to the A. I
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  Speaker 1: see y'all in the A. I see y'all in the afastball.
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  Speaker 1: But they don't talk like that, no more like it's
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  Speaker 1: usually great game. No, now they're back to talking, and
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  Speaker 1: I love the playoff basketball, and it is what it
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  Speaker 1: is is playoff basketball. Like you said, I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Now come on with the sad news, all right, Well,
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  Speaker 1: this happened in San Jose. There were nine victims. It
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  Speaker 1: was a mass shooting. They have all been identified and
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  Speaker 1: they will be honored tonight at an event at the
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  Speaker 1: San Jose City Hall Plaza. But the victims were at
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  Speaker 1: the Valley Transportation Authority. It's a public transit service. It
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  Speaker 1: operates the bus and light rail services in the Santa
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  Speaker 1: Clara Valley. It employees about two thousand workers. And they
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  Speaker 1: said one thing that is clear, according to the mayor,
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  Speaker 1: is that the victims and all the colleagues knew the shooter. Well,
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  Speaker 1: the shooting started and there were several nine one one
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  Speaker 1: calls that reported shots fired at the VTA Control Center
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  Speaker 1: as employees from the midnight shift and the day shift overlapped.
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  Speaker 1: There were multiple law enforcement agencies and fire department personnel
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  Speaker 1: who responded. They have identified the gunmen. Sam Cassidy is
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  Speaker 1: his name, according to a law enforcement source, and according
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  Speaker 1: to his ex girlfriend, she said she dated him for
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  Speaker 1: approximately one year. It was an on and off again relationship.
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  Speaker 1: After about six months they met on match dot Com
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  Speaker 1: and they saw each other about once a week, and
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  Speaker 1: she said he asked her to marry him, even though
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  Speaker 1: he complained that they weren't having enough sex. She refused,
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  Speaker 1: and she said he did not take it well. He
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  Speaker 1: also had mood swings that were exacerbated when he consumed
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  Speaker 1: large quantities of alcohol. She also said that he had
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  Speaker 1: bipolar disorder. According to the ex girlfriend she did not
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  Speaker 1: want to be identified, she said several times during the
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  Speaker 1: relationship he became intoxicated and raged and forced himself on
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  Speaker 1: her sexually. His ex wife, Cecilia Elmes, said that he
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  Speaker 1: resented his work. They were married for about ten years
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  Speaker 1: and then they filed for divorce in two thousand and five.
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  Speaker 1: She's not been in touch with him for about thirteen years,
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  Speaker 1: but she said he often spoke angrily about his co
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  Speaker 1: workers and bosses, and at times directed his anger at her.
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  Speaker 1: When the two of them were married, he resented what
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  Speaker 1: he saw his unfair work assignments and would rant about
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  Speaker 1: his job when he got home. So he did take
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  Speaker 1: his own life once the police were called and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's a terrible crime scene. Six of the victims remained
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  Speaker 1: in the building as the crime scene was processed. One
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  Speaker 1: of the victims, the ninth one, actually made it to
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  Speaker 1: the hospital and then he died. Lord Have Mercy, all
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  Speaker 1: hurt was a lot of hurt, a lot of pains. Now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so there's a lot to this, and we will keep
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  Speaker 1: you updated, but we want to definitely make sure we
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  Speaker 1: give our condolences to the families, to the friends, to
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  Speaker 1: everybody that has suffered from this a loss from this
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  Speaker 1: mass shooting. Again, the gunman has been identified as Sam Cassidy.
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  Speaker 1: Why does it seem like mass shootings are so quiet nowadays?
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  Speaker 1: There's been a lot of them. This what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: Like I wondered the last time a mass shooting has
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  Speaker 1: been like a major headline that dominated the news cycle.
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  Speaker 1: It's just like this, it's just another story. Now, that's
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  Speaker 1: not the way it should be. We start getting up.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we're numb to a lot of things in America.
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  Speaker 1: But Lord Have Mercy. Yeah, you know the deputies where
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  Speaker 1: they're really quickly at the scene of this crime. They're
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  Speaker 1: actually right next door to the VTA, so it pretty quickly.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well that is your front page news, all right,
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  Speaker 1: get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five
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  Speaker 1: wake up. Wait y'all fast you're time to get it
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  Speaker 1: off your chest because you're mad or blast. We want
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  Speaker 1: to hear from you on the breakfast Black. Hello, who's this? Hey?
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  Speaker 1: How's it going? Man? It's all ye hey, every yeah,
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  Speaker 1: y'all got that game too, man. Wait, y'all come to it, lad,
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  Speaker 1: I hope to come down. You don't got all the
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  Speaker 1: backs that I love when people from cities. Just think
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  Speaker 1: everybody from the city going down somewhere to watch a game.
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  Speaker 1: Can I hope you come down like you got it
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  Speaker 1: on TV Bro travel I do be traveling man. But now,
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's a great series. It's it's great energy.
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  Speaker 1: I know somebody, I think Charlemagne said if somebody said
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  Speaker 1: when the knicks in the plane at she just feels different,
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  Speaker 1: And it definitely does. The energy is like no other. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: y'all try to write us off at the beginning. I've
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  Speaker 1: been here, Stephen, they all week long. Y'all only won
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  Speaker 1: one game and y'all gonna lose the next couple. So
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  Speaker 1: it's over for y'all. I don't know about that. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: have a good morning. I have a good morning, brom
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  Speaker 1: hung up on you all right pretty much? Hello? Who's this? Jonathan?
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  Speaker 1: Jonathan was up getting off your chest? Hey, I'm just
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  Speaker 1: trying to show my wife up. So she had a
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  Speaker 1: business here in business doing Charleston, South Carolina, and once
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  Speaker 1: the pandemic, it kind of all crumbled down and then
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  Speaker 1: we need to move in because I out of the military, uh,
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  Speaker 1: until we moved up to Charlotte. So then she started
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  Speaker 1: up her own business herself and just add wine boards
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  Speaker 1: or Instagram. She makes herculary boards. She has classes and everything,
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  Speaker 1: so y'all could check it out. Love and that's cute.
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  Speaker 1: I like that. Just add wine. That's nice wine. So
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  Speaker 1: the agram, it's just at wine boards because she makes
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  Speaker 1: the shark boutery boards. All right. I like that. That's
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  Speaker 1: a cute business. All right, brother, Y appreciate you a
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  Speaker 1: goo man. Hello, who's this? Good morning? Good morning to
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  Speaker 1: the breakfast club. How y'ere doing? That's for the kareem?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, get it off your chest. Calling from South Georgia. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I just you all know about two days ago was
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  Speaker 1: the anniversary of George Floyd's you know death, correct, And
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  Speaker 1: you know, we just look at all of the killings
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  Speaker 1: that's going on, man, and we just talk about mass shooting.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's sad too. But look at that they signed
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  Speaker 1: into a law they I believe believe it was the
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  Speaker 1: Asian Hate Climb Bill. Yes, sir, but we've been here
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  Speaker 1: to lungless as black folks have been getting killed, killed, killed,
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  Speaker 1: and nothing. So I don't know if you know, Charmaine
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  Speaker 1: may notice that. And South Georgia they're buying up a
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  Speaker 1: lot of land, especially a lart of these sisters that
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  Speaker 1: get gated communities and stuff, because we're trying to send
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  Speaker 1: our sons and daughters killed. You know, I've been hearing
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  Speaker 1: about that. So it's two sisters in Georgia bought up
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  Speaker 1: a a big plot of land, right right right. But
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  Speaker 1: it's it's it's not just in Jordan. I was starting
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  Speaker 1: check it out. And one last thing before I go,
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: could y'all please have sister doctor Ava Muhammad on your show.
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  Speaker 1: I would love she could speak on that too, So
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  Speaker 1: check that out, man, absolutely, Sister Ava, get it off
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  Speaker 1: your chests. Eight hundred five eight five one O five one.
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  Speaker 1: If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Did your
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  Speaker 1: time to get it off your chests? Whether you're man
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  Speaker 1: or blast, So we better have the same minute. We
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  Speaker 1: want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: who's this Manuell? We're going on Manuell? What up? Getting
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  Speaker 1: off your chests? Bro? Yes, sir, First, I want to
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  Speaker 1: high road. A lot of people wouldn't do it for you.
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  Speaker 1: I want to give a shout out to my wife, Rebecca.
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  Speaker 1: and it was like tonight's chant is Trey is bald,
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  Speaker 1: and I love it. I love it. And then it
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  Speaker 1: treys here is stinning and at a lumen alarming fast pace,
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  Speaker 1: Screw you know what I'm saying, finding chanting that that's right?
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  Speaker 1: Get what we ain't playing ball in front of millions
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: of people, right and camera, jain on up. That is funny,
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: all right, get it off your chest. Eight hundred five
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: eight five one five one Now we got rumors on
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: the way. Yes, it's a Fisher. Will tell you who
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: is taking over for Ellen de generous show. All right,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy We are to Breakfast Club us morning.
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: And also want to say happy belated birthday to Lauren Hill.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: Yesterday was her birthday. She's a legend. Today is a
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: born day too, then because she'll probably sell a couple
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: of days later, right, we still I would think so
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: mix off with Lauren yesterday chose Yeah, But let's get
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: to the rooms. Let's talk the new host to Ellen's team.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: This is the Ruble Report with Angela Yean on the
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Well, what's gonna happen when Ellen leaves in
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty two? The Kelly Clarkson Show is now going
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: to take over that slot. So NBC has carried Ellen
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: and major markets across the nation. Kelly Clockson Show currently
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: airs across the country on two hundred stations. Now it's
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: going to be built as daytimes headliner and leading time
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: slots next year. Yeah, because I'm sure they got to
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: build another property now, right. They can't put somebody in
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Ellen and say this is the new host to Ellen.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: They got Ellen shows gone right, Yeah, And they've been
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: trying to build up Kelly Colockson Show. It's been doing well.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: They said they kind of had a little bit of
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: a lag, but they're trying to work on building it
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: back up. So yes, I want to see Hattish in
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: the daytime. Tiffany I want to see Tiffany Hattish in
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Zouri Hall in Daytime TV. If tiff do she want
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, Tiffany has a lot of respect.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: She will have to stop all that. I don't know
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: what she wants to do that all right now, another
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: person who is not confirmed to do anything as bow Wow.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: He said he's not entertaining versus until he sees contracts. Now.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: Previously it seemed like it was going to be a
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: bow Wow and Soldier Boy match up. Remember this PLA,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be bigger than light Bro, Like, I'm happy
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: to celebrate with you. Me and you make so much sense. Brother,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: We've toured, We've been on tour together. Me and you
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: got a whole mixtape together on tour right now. We're
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: on tour right now. And on top of that edge,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: you got a hot new record out the day before
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: we do verses. Could my movie come out? Drop on
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: a clues bos for Shaddon Morson. I like the way
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: you negotiate, King Shot is his name, shot Shot. I
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: would like the way you negotiate. I know what this is.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: They announced it, but shadd didn't sign no contract. I
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: don't think nobody announced it. But then yeah, I think
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I appreciated. I think he like retweeted something. I'm official.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: But they but they, but they, but they felt out
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: the energy. They threw something out there to see if
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: people would respond to it, and people absolutely did. So
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: he's gonna get top dollar all right. Now, it looks
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: like Jay Cole is done playing basketball. His contract is up,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: according to Mark Spears on ESPN, source confirms rapper Jay
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Coole of the Rwanda Patriots BBC has completed his contractual
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: obligation to the Basketball Africa League and has departed from
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Rwanda due to a family obligation. A source said Jacole
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: had five points, three assists and five rebounds in three games. Well,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like he quit at halftime. He did five
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: day contract. I'm just gonna play for five games. Five games.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: That's it. Didn't out coming back, I mean it, but
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of publicity definitely did. It. Was grateful the
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: rollout of the album, by the way it was, and
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: it's probably something he always wanted to do on his
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: bucket list. But he does have a new album out
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: that's doing really well and a lot of other things
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: going on. So Jay Cole has had the best album
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: rollout I've seen in a long, long, long, long long time,
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: and it was all f a gust on things that
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: he loves music and basketball. All right, now, Akin's car.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Remember we talked about how it was stolen and then
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: he did get it back. Well, they do have the
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: nine one one cars, so disrespectful ahead, Why how are
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: you doing? Yeah, I was just carjacked at the gas
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: station for my range Rover the gas stashing. Um, it's
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: seven sixty one uh Na's market, not a three D
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: in the city of Atlanta. And what's the name of
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: the gas sashion? I'm sorry, man, this is not the gases.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: This is what my card is actually parked to rap
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: the track on it? Gas? Thank you? What car have
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: you made a police for? Yeah, the police and on
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: their way. But they've been on their way for a
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: whole hour. And you said you were carjack yes, ma'am
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: at gunpoint. No, it wasn't at gunpoint. I was literally
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: getting gas and they just jumped in the car. And
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: that's not a card jack. Don't tell me it's not
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: a carjack. So what what was it? Because a little
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: gun Well, y'all cut the best part. When they can't
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: told her, I want him locked up, don't let him out.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Play the best part, like a car used to steal car?
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: What are he going to do for he did that?
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: He knows, Yeah, don't tell me. Would have car jacking?
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: So what is it a car kidnapping? They no, it's
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: not carjackings. Like get at the car stealing your cars.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: When you're getting you turn around and the car's gone,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: put it to you like this. If um, it's bad
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: that I noticed. If you get robbed at gunpoint, the
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: police will do whatever it takes to get that car back.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: If it's just a stolen car and it's a high
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: speed chase, the police will let the car go at
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: times because they don't want to hurt any pedestrians. But
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: if it's a gun involved, they'll do whatever it takes
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: to stop that vehicle. Damn. I don't know how I
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: know all this because right because he's that's right, was
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: part of an auto theft ring. He knows. He's like,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: he's like, I got a track on the car. He's like, sir,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: where are you at right now? He was like, it's
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: been an hour with gas station? Is that I know?
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: He was like, but he was still he kept his composure. Yes, ma'am.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: Thank you man. He was very polite and he's a
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: nice guy. But it's just funny how she was like,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: that's not a carjacking. S. What's the official the stolen car? Okaka? Yeah?
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: All right, well that is your room of reports. Oh
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: my goodness. All right, front page news. We'll be talking about. Yes,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: remember we were telling you about getting this vaccine and
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: how you could come up on some cash. Yes, well
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: we'll tell you about some of these winners already. All right,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: we'll get into it next. It's the Breakfast Club. God morning,
• 22:18
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• 22:22
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• 22:43
  Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news, all right.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Last thing, NBA playoffs to seventy six is beat the
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Wizards one twenty ninety five. The Jazz beat the Grizzlies
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: one one twenty nine, and the next they beat the
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: Hawks one on one nine, dropping a clue vaunce to
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: the New York next down, I'm rooting for the next
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: this year, I liked the Knicks. I like the way
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: they played tough team. What else she got? Ye? All right? Well,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: remember we've been telling you about all these incentives to
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: get vaccinated. In Ohio, they have a five million dollars
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: COVID nineteen vaccine sweepstakes. Well that money is starting to follow.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: Abigail Bougenski won a million dollars after getting vaccinated, and
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: Joseph Costello got a college scholarship. According to the VACS
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: A Million Programs website, how much do you got? One
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: person got a million dollars, Another person got scholars college scholarship.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I know it was given on college scholarships to Joseph Costello.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: He's only fourteen years old. He won free tuish and
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: at any state university you got a full ride college scholarship.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: So if you're between twelve and seventeen, and you had
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: at least one dose of the vaccine. You could be next.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: And that's only where that's in Ohio. Damn. I would
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: like to know how many people signed up for that
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: lottery in Ohio because of that, because of the vacs. Yeah,
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: because of the prize they were given away. I going
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: to know how many people like actually signed up. I mean, yeah,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: And it's great. If you were planning to do it anyway,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: I might as well, you know, enter, Well, I guess
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: you're entered to win. So all right, Now, here's another
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: historic thing that just happened. Kristin Clark is the new
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: leader of the Department of Justice's Civil Rights Division. According
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: to the Black Information Network, Clark was confirmed by the
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: United States Senate with a fifty one forty eight vote
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: on Tuesday. Senator Susan Collins was the only Republican to
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: express support for the attorney And with this confirmation, it
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: is history. Kristin Clark is the first black woman to
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: lead the Civil Rights Division since it was formed in
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: nineteen fifty seven. They try to say that she was
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: a radical and a leftist, but despite all of that,
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you know, she is not that radical. She said she
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: does not support defunding the police. She said, I do
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: support finding strategies to ensure that law enforcement can carry
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: out their jobs more safely and effectively, and channeling resources
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: to emotional health treatment and others severely underresourced areas. And
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: In other historic news, climate activists have defeated x in
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: their push for clean energy. It was a stunning defeat
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: yesterday when shareholder is of Xon Mobile elected at least
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: two board candidates that were nominated by activists investors who
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: pledged to steer the company toward cleaner energy and away
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: from oil and gas. This is a big deal as
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: we are trying to address climate change. So if y'all
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: know what that means. With Xon Mobile being the biggest
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: oil company and the oil leader until recently, they've been
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: really slow to invest in this, but they've had some
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: poor returns recently. So now the loss of at lose
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: two seats on the board will energize activists to pressure
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: Xon and other oil companies and businesses who they believe
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: are not doing enough to address climate change. So that's
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: a really big deal, all right, Anne, Of course, you know,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I know this is really sad news, but this is
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: a big story for this morning, there were nine victims
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: of a mass shooting in San Jose yesterday. They have
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: been identified as investigators are trying to figure out why
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: this happened. They will also be honored tonight at an
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: event at the San Jose City Hall Plaza. The victims
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: all were at the Valley Transportation Authority. They operate the
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Bustin light rail services in the Santa Clara Valley. They
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: employed about two thousand workers. The gunman has been identified
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: as Sam Cassidy. According to law enforcement sources, they did
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: all know each other because they all were co workers,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: and they said one thing that has become clear is
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: that they knew the shooter. Well. So the shooting actually
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: happened yesterday as employees from the midnight shift and the
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: day shift overlapped. The yard is where the VTA vehicles
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: are maintained and dispatched, so that's where all of this happened,
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: and multiple law enforcement agencies and fire department personnel did respond.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: They said, once law enforcement was there, that is when
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Sam Cassidy took his own life, and they were there
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: very quickly because the Sheriff's office is next door. Unfortunately,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: nine people were already killed by that time. Yeah, I
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: just don't understand why mass shootings are just a side
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: edition the news. Like I know that there's a lot
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: going on, but mass shooting should always be the main
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: course in the media. We should ever getting numbed to
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: this because it's so much involved, mental health, gun laws,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: so many things to discussed when these things happen, and
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: there's been a lot of them this year. Am I
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: tripping A definitely have been one every two days, I
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: think they said, yikes, yeah, So again, we want to
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: give our condolences to the families and to the friends
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: of the victims who were killed. Very sad sad day yesterday,
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: and his ex girlfriend and his ex wife have spoken
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: out to talk about the issues that he had. He
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: had a strained relationship with an ex girlfriend who did
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: not want to be identified. They did meet onmatch dot
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: com and she said they dated for approximately one year.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: She said he would have mood swings that were exacerbated
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: when he consumed large quantities of alcohol. She also alleged
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: that he had bipolar disorder and that he enjoyed playing
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: mind games with her and several times during their relationship
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: he got intoxicated and raged and forced himself on her sexually.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: His ex wife, Cecilia Nelms said that he resented his work.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: They were together for about ten years, and she said,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: and the two of them were married, he thought he
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: had unfair work assignments and he would have rant about
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: his job when he got home. She also had not
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: been in touch with him for about thirteen years after
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: filing for a divorce. T treat mass shootings and police
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: violence the same way y'all treated COVID. Make it the
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: headline everywhere, no opening acts. All right, well that is
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Now when we come back, Jay Barnett will be joining us.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Who's Jay Barnett? My man? Jay Barnett is an author, speaker,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: mental health therapist, life coach. Uh you know he's all
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: about empowering and inspiring young black man. Really good brother,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: all right, we'll get into that nextus. The Breakfast Club.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Man. We got one of
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: my favorite people in the room right now. Man, this
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: brother is so necessary and regarded to anybody who any
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: man in particular who's trying to state mentally and emotionally healthy.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: My man, King Jay Barnett is head How are you, man,
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: good man? Did you see you in New York. You'd
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: like the city, man. I love city. I visit several times.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: I got my nieces with me. Boy, I ran them
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: around yesterday. Okay. They was like, man, New York is
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: a different beast, but no, I love I love the
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: city man. So it's it's been good. And now it's
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: good to see you in person too, because last time
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: we saw you, um you was on the Zoom with
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Queen Taragi and Queen Queen Tracy. That's what I got
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: put onto. Yeah. Yeah, so I know that y'all have
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: something going on now, is he you know? Okay Taragi
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: has the unspoken curriculum shoes, what is that about? Yeah?
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: So the unspoken curriculum is where we're going to be
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: talking about the experience that black students are having in classroom.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: You know, there's many implicit bias that these students go
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: through from their experience and a lot of time black
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: students are treated differently based on behavior, based on different
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: learning differences that they're having. But a lot of times,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: you know, our students are criminalized, and so I think
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: rather than being criminalized, these students more have more so
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: have clinical issues. So when you have a student that
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: maybe have a behavior issue, and black boys are more
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: likely to be suspended than white boys, and then now
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: black girls are more likely to be suspended as well.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: And so the unspoken curriculum is also going to provide
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: a space for these boys to come in and to
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: talk about these different things. And so I'm going to
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: be spearheading along with doctor Yeshiva and brother Alfonzo, who
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: is a black male therapist as well, and so we'll
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: be providing space for the six weeks and kind of
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: talk about how to manage these spaces because when these
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: black boys going these classroom man or just black students,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: their experienced man, it really does affect their confidence. So
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: if my issue is that I'm really suffering mentally because
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: of what's going on at home, and school is just
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: a place where I act out at and if I
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: get suspended, so I'm now feeling like, well, school is
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: not the place where it's going to advocate for me.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: And when you look at these black students, very few
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: white teachers are taken out the time to provide resources
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: and to vibe the level of care that they need.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I agree with that, that's dope. I'm glad you guys
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: are doing that because I always say this. When I
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: was in college, I thought I was going to be
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: a teacher. So I did this teaching program for six
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: and seventh graders, and I was in a neighborhood that
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: was mostly Dominican. It was one black student in the class, right,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: and he was Haitian, and so you know, they used
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: to make fun of him all the time, and he
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: had a lot of things going on at home, and
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: sometimes teachers don't take the time to find out, like
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: he would be hungry in school because he didn't have
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: enough food at home to eat, because he had a
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: lot of brothers and sisters. He wore like the same
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: clothes all the time, and all those things take a
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: toll on you. And then you come to school and
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: the other kids are making fun of you, and then
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: the teacher is seeing you acting out, but not even
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: taking the time to understand, like what's going on at
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: home and what are these real issues? And what about
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: these students that are really giving you a hard time
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: in class? And who do they talk to if they
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: have those problems? Yeah? Absolutely, because I mean when I
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: started working in the schools as far as counseling and
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: even my internship, a lot of the times when I
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: will go to these white teachers and ask him, you know,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: have you really set and talk with this student. They didn't.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: They automatically looked at the student and they saw the issue,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: you know is that well he's well, he's disturbing the class.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: And really the kid hadn't eaten, you know, the kid
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: was homeless. And there were so many kids that their
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: home and family dynamic which is different, and school was
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: just the way that they either felt safe or in
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: many cases, these kids like man, you come to school
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: and basically you just let everything out because let's let's
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: take for an example, if you're get an abuse at home,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: and usually the abuser becomes who's been abused become the abuser,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: so which is where you have a lot of this
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: bullying that has taken place. So the kid that has
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: been bullied become the bully. But then again, he's acting
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: out and basically he's lashing out on what he's experiencing.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: And so if you don't sit down and talk to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: a kid, and then too, if you don't have a
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: representation as a black male or counselor or a black
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: old teacher, and especially in the space of education, where
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: just not many black individuals. It's for as males to
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: represent an advocate for these young black boys. Yeah. Man,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: that's why cultural competency is so important. Ranks cultural competency, man,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: it's so important. And so I think for me, right
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: when I was in grad school, I was I was
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: the only black male student that was in my marriage
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: and family therapy program. So I was one out of
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: seventy six. And I remember my experience and talking about
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: different things when we have our clinicals and our practicums,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: and all of these white students were trying to figure
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: out how to work with black kids and to work
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: with hispanics. And one of the things I said to them,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: I said, what level of understanding do you have of
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: the culture, of their family dynamics, of their backgrounds, even
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: a certain collocualism that we have in our language. And
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: none of them had any understanding. They only had text
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: book and so this is where they were felling. And
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: they was disconnected because you can use all the theories
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: that you want, but if you cannot connect to a
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: kid here, or connect to his culture or connect to
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: his family dynamic, you're not going to understand how to
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: even connect with them. Even in your methods and your theories.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: So cultural competency is key that if you're going to
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: advocate for black students, you need to understand Black culture.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: And if you're going to advocate for Brown hispanics, you
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: need to understand their culture. You need to understand who
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: is the patriarch, who is the matriarch, and just even
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: those simple things. Understanding that if you're working with black families,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: nine times out of ten, you're going to be speaking
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: with the mom and that won't be a male presence there,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: and that dynamic is going to impact how you interact
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: and it's also going to impact how your methods, how
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: effective are your methods, and so cultural competence is critical. Yeah,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: you know, even when you talk about anxiety, because you've
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: never heard you say, you know, somebody asked you to
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: break down anxiety and you said, anxiety is being here
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: but wanting to be there. Man, when you say that,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: I understand exactly what you're talking about, because I think
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: it's levels to anxiety, right, Like my anxiety as a
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: black man's totally different than the anxiety I know that
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: a white woman experiences, but it's found on that a
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: little bit. So you know, anxiety is really rooted in
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: the fear of the unknown, right, and it's the fear
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: of the what if. It's the fear of what can.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: It's the fear of uncertainty, and it's the fear of
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: a possibility where you have no evidence. And so it's
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: the fear of what if they don't like me and
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: you haven't even walked in their room. So it's the
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: fear of what if I'm rejected? Well, you haven't given
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: yourself an opportunity to be accepted. So it's and that
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: anxiety roots up a lot of just you know, our
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: family system, because many of us have already been rejected
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: by our families. We've been abandoned by you know, our
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: loved ones, and we've been ostracized for our thoughts, for
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: our belief system. And so I would even go out
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: on a limb man that said, every black person deals
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: with a level of anxiety, whether it's racial or through
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: a social experience. I think from a family perspective, even
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: when you decide to step out of your family dynamic
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: and said I'm going to become something that no one
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: has never seen. That's great anxiety that comes from that
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: because now you gotta hear well, who do you think
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: you are? That creates a level of anxiety altogether. Right, So,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I think the anxiety of being here, wanting to be
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: there is always is having to rastle with the outcome
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: that you created in your head that haven't really taken place,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: but in your mind you made it real. And so
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I think when we have spaces to kind of talk
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: about rational and irrational anxiety and be able to expound
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: on those differences in the variation, it allows us to
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: be to grow and understand that it's real. However, I
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: don't have to allow it to really hold truth in
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: my life. All Right, we got more with Jay Barnette.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: When we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: Good morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We have author, motivational speaker
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Jay Barnett. Ye, what made you get into therapy and coaching? So? Man,
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: oh god. So when when I left football, I battled
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: with depression, like since I was thirteen when my parents divorced,
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: and you know, and and and people say, well, how
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: did it? It's shape, y'all, I said, because you know,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: my parents were pastors and so for me, it was
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: just this heartbreak, like, you know, I can't believe my
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: parents are divorcing, right, you know, they're church leaders, and
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I think at that time, I didn't really have anybody
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: reaching out to ask me how was out doing because
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: I automatically begin to fill this gap where I had
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: to be a big brother and I had to be
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: there for my mom. As most black boys, you're stepping
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: in in a daddy role where you're still a boy,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: and so that pressure I carried it and football became
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: a safe space for me. So when football was over,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't have a safe space or perceive safe space.
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: And then too it was how I cope. So you know,
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: for those that follow my story, I talk about suicide
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: like I'm a two time suicide, a survivor attempts. And
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: so when I started going to therapy after my second attempt,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: and the therapy started to really address the issue behind
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: a depression, because I feel like depression is a symptom
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: to a greater root issue, and the root issue was
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: really stemming from abandonment, and the depression was brought on
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: trying to be accepted because for most black boys in sports,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: coaches of fathers, so when football was over, I'm looking
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: for another father. I'm looking for some more validation. And
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: this is why it's hard for guys to try transition
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: out of sports, because they identify themselves through what they do.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: And what I had to learn was it was what
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: I did, but it wasn't who I was. But that
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: takes a deeper level of healing then really addressing fatherhood
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: issues and dadhood issues and understanding that the validation that
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: most men, all of us. Let's be real, I don't
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: care what level of success, it's just something about having
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: a dad there, because I feel like a mother determines
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: what a child remembers, but a dad determines what a
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: child believes. So when dad put a stamp on it, man,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: it's like you can do it and be whatever you want.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: But even when you look at men who have become successful,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: the constant need for validation is that I have all
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: of this, but I still haven't been approved by dad.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: I have all of that, but I still haven't been
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: approved by the man that I looked up to or
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: the man that was absent from soul. I started looking
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: at them with it myself. I was looked at former team,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: I looked at all of the black men that I
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: knew that man, what was the correlation and all of
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: us trying to find our way of manhood? And it
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: was the fact that the absence of not only just
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: a father, but it's a lack of knowing who we were,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: who we are man. You know. The first time I
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: ever bawd in therapy was talking about that, and like,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you know how your father for me? My father, Um,
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: he would he would discipline me for things he didn't
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: teach me, you know what I'm saying. Like, and I
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I remember one time I'm driving behind him and he
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: ran he ran a stop signs. I'm like fifteen sixty,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: so I ran to stop signed too, but then he
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: pulled over. I pulled over and he slapped me. Right,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: But it's like you, I'm following you. So how you
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: punished me for things you didn't teach me? You know? So?
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: But you know you realized he just was only doing
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: his best because he had his own issues. But no, y'ah,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: absolutely right. Just that's what you want from from your father,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: that validation. Yeah, And that's what led me into therapy. Um.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: It wasn't something that I was set out to do.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: I feel like it was, it was God ordained. And
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: from the first time I entered into my master's program,
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: the first class General Studies on family, the marriage and
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: family therapy, like it answers so much within my own,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: you know, within myself and my own family dynamic. I
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, this is what I'm supposed to be.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: And then when I started really talking and guys started
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: reaching out and like, yo, man, you know man, I've
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: struggled with depression. Man, I wanted to, you know, take
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: my life, man, do I got stream anxiety, and especially
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: with pro athletes because it's so much pressure to be
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: and to perform and a lot of it. But you know,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Chris Rock said something man that was so powerful. He said, women, children,
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: and animals are loved unconditionally, but men I loved under
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: the condition that they provide. So psychologically, as men, everything
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: is about performance. And so when I started to really
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: dig deep, I said, I want to get brothers to
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: remove the cape from trying to be Superman and learn
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: how to function in your Clark can and because that's
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: really who Superman was, right, the reality of it. And
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: so it's just functioning who you are because that performance
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: thing is exhausting, it's hardsome. Does the league have anything
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: for athletes who are transitioning from playing sports back into
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: you know, regular life, or is that they're getting better
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: at it. They're getting better at it. And recently I
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: partner up with the NFLPA and then PA Players Association Foundation.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: They're they're doing a lot more workshops, a lot of more,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: a lot more symposing and creating more outlets. I mean,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: when you look at the players over the past couple
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: of years who have either committed suicide or they've had
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: these untimely deaths, it's it's it's it's very disheartening. And
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: one of the things is that I want to do
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: with athletes, especially black athletes, man, is just really get
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: them into space to where they be. These coaches even
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: begin to see these kids as a whole person and
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: humanize them and in a way that, man, this kid
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: is more than just an athlete. He's more than just
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: somebody who can dump, who can who who can jump?
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: These kids are future fathers and husband. But then too,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: it's like when these kids are done and let's say
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: you don't go to the league, and you say, hey,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: go be the best in life. All they know, is
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: to perform, and now you're asking them to function as
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: a husband and function as a father or function as
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: a as a citizen. It's it's unfortunate. And so I think,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: you know, with what Charlotte Mayne's doing and you guys
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: platform and and and just really normalizing men speaking, you know.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: And I think there's a shift right now that more
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: men are becoming comfortable because one thing about man, we
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: have to see it. I feel like women, y'all always,
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: y'll do brunches each other and women processed through talking
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: each other everything, and man we process in silence. It's
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: like in the locker room, like we're gonna come together,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: but you're not gonna know personal stuff that's going on
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: and nobody's life because we performing for each other. And
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of it is just protection,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's it, and that's the
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: it's the protection of that little boy. So what happened
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: is that I show up as a man, or I
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: show up or show up as a male, but behind
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: it there's this little boy who is broken. Yeah you, um,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: how did you get the validation that you were seeking
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: from your father? How did you I guess you know,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: fix that wounding yourself. I didn't. Um, I didn't get it.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: We Ever, man, when the first question friends, did you
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: didn't get it? I didn't get it because I felt
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: like I've never my father has never had to comeversation
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: with me that I wanted him to have. And I
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: said this to one of the young guys I mentor,
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: and I said, man, I've had to accept that. I
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: would love to have it, but I can't wait for it.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: And that's when I, like I said to myself, I
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: have to keep healing. And I think the validation for
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: me now is being able to look at other brothers
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: and speaking to the king and them and being able
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: to build them. Or also when a brother hops you know,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: or or send them a DM message and say, man, dude,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: thank you for talking about this. Man, I watch a video, uh,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: you know, talking about depression. I walked to watch a
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: video talking about you know, leaving sports and all those things.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: It's like, man, that that that helped me. And so
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: that brings a great validation. And I would say the
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: word that I would use, it brings great fulfillment because
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: now at this point, I think that as you continue
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: to grow and evolve, as a man. Not only does
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: your perspective shit, but your view on life shifts. And
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: so my view is now is who are you building?
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Rather than what you're building? Because it's great to build things,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: and I think men should always work to build things,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: But who are you building? And I think to be
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: able to hand the baton to another young man and
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: to talk to him about emotional intelligence and to be
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: able to encourage him, like, listen, man, I want you
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: to get to a place where you can respond versus react.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Everybody has anger, but I want you to manage that.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: I think even when we look at these artists, I think,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: you know, we give these young kids a bunch of
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: money because they got a hit and they sung is popping.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: But I think these kids need mental health coaches. They
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: need more than just a tour manager. These kids need
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: a therapist or a counsel or somebody to help manage
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: that because here's what is happening. Their processing through their pen, right,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: their processing through their pen and their pen is broken.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: And here's the thing that today's artists are doing is
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: there's they speak about what's going on inside of them
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: versus artists of old that when we grew up artists
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: talked about what was going on around them. These artists
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: are talking about what is going on inside of me.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: Listen to the lyrics. It's a whole mood, all right.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: We got more with Jay Barnette when we come back.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: Envy angela Ye, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: We have author, motivational speaker Jay Barnett here. Charlemagne. I
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: was talking to my homegirl, deVie Brown last night and
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: I was talking about the mind of being in a
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: position where like you can hear, you can hear somebody
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: say all these great accolades about you, right, but then
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: you can hear somebody talking negative about you too in
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: your mind, like, well, who the fuck are you asking you?
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Who am I? Who am I? How you expecting? What
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: is that? What is that? What is that called? So? Well?
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's one of those things, man, And I
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: think it's the constant question of who we are. And
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: one of the things that I really tell people focus
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: on what you can control, and that that you can't control,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: leave it alone. And the only thing that you can
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: really control is how do you see yourself when you
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: look at you, because people are gonna always see you
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: according to their limited perspective of their experiences and either
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: the people that they encounter, and a lot of times
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: what you're projecting on me has nothing to do with me.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: That's your stuff. So if you feel that, oh, he's
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: arrogant or she thinks she's that, no, you feel some
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: type of way about some stuff that you're dealing with.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: And I just happen to be an innocent bystander in
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: this process to where you formulated these thoughts in these opinions.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: And I think the more you become settling that because
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: here's the thing that I think that it's so important,
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: is I'd rather be a private success as rather than
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: to be a public success and a private failure. And
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: that's what we have people who that I'd rather be
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: a private success than to be a public success and
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: a private failure. And I feel like, because the public
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: success is I have to put on the show for everybody,
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: But you're failing in your relationships. You're failing in your
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: day to day encounters with yourself because your inner personal
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: relationship it's going to determine a relationship that you have
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: with others. So the relationship that you have with yourself
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: is always going to project how you relate to other people. Yeah. No,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: I think that's great when you know what's going on
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: with you for real, no matter what anybody else says
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: about you. Like people will try to attack me about
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: certain things. Oh she ain't got no man, Well I
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: have been with somebody for six years, I'd like, but
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: they don't know because I don't put it all, you know,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: exactly out there all the time. But like they'll say
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: like the worst things, Oh she don't do that, And
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: it's like, know, in real life, I know what I'm
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: really doing, and that's important to be able to feel
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: confident in that and to have people that support you,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: that know you that that's what I care about more
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: than like somebody trying to get my attention and trying
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: to provoke you, because you can see when somebody's trying
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: to provoke you into something. Yeah, And what you've done,
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Angela is provide a space of peace for you, because see,
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: once you provide that space a piece for you, dude,
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: piece is not the fact that everything is running through
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: a field of sunflower pieces that the world has fallen
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: apart and I have solitude. Yeah, I'm good. I'm happy,
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: and that's good. But you know when people say things
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: that aren't true, you're like, not even true exactly. Remember
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: that old exhibit video when he was just walking and
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: everything was going crazy behind him, but he was just
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: exactly home, man. And it's really having a place of
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: piece because we live in a world where everybody has
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: an opinion. Yeah. Yeah, if you have social media, you
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: have an opinion, rightfully yours. However, your opinion is none
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: of my business. And it's also not a fact sometimes,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: like it could be something that's a fact and you're like,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: like people would be like Angela is not black. I'm like, okay,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: I mean what can I even say to that? Like
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: then that don't tell the whole story, though, yeah, you
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. But to you, I'm like, okay,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: what constitute's actually being black? You know? She is black,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: black and age. He's like, they don't know the whole story.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: It's like, but it's also like you're just saying that
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: because you want me to be mad and like, and
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: I don't give people that privilege of me like responding
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: to things that I feel like they're trying to get
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: you to respond because they want to back and forth
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: and they want to try to embarrass you, and I
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: don't give anybody that. Man, Listen, I'll live about what
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: little Duke Vall said. Man, I'm not going back and
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: forth with you. I'm not because DONA doesn't make it worse.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: So then now you're stretched out and you got all
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: these no I'm not even true. Why am I even entertaining? Listen,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: I told a lot of these athletes, man, if you
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: don't get nothing else, get you some emotional intelligence. Man
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: be able to process your emotions and be able to
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: manage your emotions about others when they can't process their emotions,
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: because again, that emotional IQ intelligence allows you to be
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: able to Okay, I can process that. I don't like
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: what they said, but I have the ability and the
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: capacity to know what they said it's not true. It's
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: not true. However, doesn't have any validity because when we
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: start to allow that stuff to enter into our spirit
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: and enter into our control system, which is your mind,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: that dictates so much. So many people are depressed by
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: other people. See it's one thing to be depressed by
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: a circumstance or situation, but when you start allowing people
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: to cause your depression. Man, Like, nah, you're you're you're
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: you are giving them the power over you to say, hey,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: I get to control how you feel Like Nah, man,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: life is too short for that. What do you What
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: do you mean, Jay, when you say that you're black exhausted? Man?
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: When I say that I'm black exhausted, I'm really talking
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: about the emotional toll and turmoil that it has taken
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: on me being a black man, being a black person,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: having to endure, you know, avert racism, having to endure
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: the media, controlling the narrative, controlling the messages. It's just like,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: you know, it's one of those things that I walked
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: into my office and back in Texas and and there
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: was a white colleague of mine who's a therapist, and
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: you know, we were talking about the George Floyd thing,
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: and I just looked at her. I was just like, man,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: I'm just so tired. Man, I'm just tired, man. And
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: it was one of those things. She was like, she
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: was like, Jay, what do you mean? I said, Man,
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: I'm just I said, it feels like being black is
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: a job. Yeah, Like it's worked. It's like you gotta
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: if you're educated, black man, you gotta manage how you
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: present yourself, right, and then if you're an educated black woman,
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: you don't want to come off as an angry black woman.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: But it's just like it's always having to control our emotions,
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: manage our feelings, you know, make sure you dress appropriate,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: make sure you wear your hair like this, don't say
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: too many of this word, don't say to that. You
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, So just shut up and get
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: just comply. And that's black exhausted right there for those
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: to watch it. Right. My homeboy, you know, I do
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: like two big vacations a year where his family and friends.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: And my homeboy was like, man, we didn't even get
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: to go into vacation last year, and he said, I
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: look forward to just two weeks and not being black.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what did you talking about? But then he
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: explained exactly what you're said. It's just going somewhere and
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: just being that's just existing. I'm like, damn, because you
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: go into other countries, right, they just want you to
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: have a good time, that's it. They just want you
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: to come and have a good time. Body a little supernir,
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: drink a bunch of margar readers or tequila, and it's
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: just like, hey, just come have a good time when
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: we get here. It's like, I mean, Jesus, man, that's
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: the fact when you get the hoodies from Man, what's
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: the website. So the website is hellgirlhel dot com. Heal
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: girlhell dot com. So we're just pushing this heel movement.
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: And I'm excited to be working with Taragi again on
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: the unspoken curriculum. Man, like this is needed. Give me.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: Give me your Twitters and Instagram. Yeah, my Twitterstagram is
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: King Jay Barnett and I have an online coaching mental
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: health coaching platform which is KJB Coaching dot com. Jay,
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: I love you, I value you, I appreciate you, King Man.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: Just thank you and just keep keep existing absolutely, brother.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: I value you man, love you, brother man. And it's
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: just been beautiful man to watch you evolve and Angela.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: Thank you man, you know for not only work that
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: you do, but just even just you guys being authentic. Man.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: So I think that's beautiful to have people because so
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: many people that man do, they're performing. By the time
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: they get home, they don't like the shoulder they're putting on. Right.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: So I've been don't get me wrong, I've been there. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: I've been there and so no, no, thank you both
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: for the work that you guys doing for your platform.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: You do it's the breakfast club. I'm in a good
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: move today. Man. It just feels good. How can you
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: not be that's good? I'm the only thing that sucks
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: is that here in New York City with everybody that listens.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: That's all over the country, but in New York this weekend,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: it's not gonna be like hot like it was all week.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: It was like eighty ninety degrees all week and it's
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend, That's what I'm saying. But it's still
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: good though. This is the first time we got teams
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: in the playoffs in New York. It just feels like
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: first time in long time, long time basketball. Basketball. Yeah,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: oh football too. We don't have a playoffs in a
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: long time too. You got to figure out who to
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: root for. Bro at least a year is consistent birthday.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: That's going to take it off. I'm a Knicks fan,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: I'm a Giants fan. You said before you were a
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: Nets fan now and he was been a Jets fan
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: when yes he was. No, no, don't start these lives.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: But you never played for the Jets. Scott shout the ball,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: Scott I was supporting, Not definitely, he does. He does
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: wear Mets hats and Yankees hats. All and we care
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: about is what matches outfit and who's winning there By
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: sports fans, that's what you are. You can't be like that,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: especially in the same city. Pick a slide. I'm a
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: Yankees fan, I'm a Giants fan, and I'm a Knicks fan.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: When you went in next tickets, you was a Nets fan.
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: That's support New York teams, though, I see what I'm saying.
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: Why can't I can't support me the old team? No,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: you gotta pick one. What team do you rap for?
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys? I like the New York Liberty. Yeah, me too,
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: like the New York Liberty, Dallas Cowboys. All right, well,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: let's get to room, let's talk dest any shot? Oh gosh,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: report go well. Michelle Williams had shared some audio clips
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: from checking in with her groupmates Beyond Saying Kelly Roland
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  Speaker 1: look who checked in yesterday with me? The only time
• 58:15
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• 58:18
  Speaker 1: just wanted to check in We just think what's been
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: going on has been making us more intentional about calling
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: each other checking in. And I'm loving the smile. Oh,
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: we love and miss you so much, so proud of me,
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: I know, so inspirational for both of us, and we
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: just love watching you become exactly who you are in
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: the world. See you're impacting and wisdom and your beautiful
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: advice in your discernment and we're just so proud of you.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Probably include bons from Michelle Williams. Her new book is
• 58:53
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• 58:58
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• 59:02
  Speaker 1: iHeartRadio podcast network. Well, these are her safe sisters, and
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: Kelly Rowland said people should know that along with friendships
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  Speaker 1: there's humility. You have to allow yourself to hold a
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: safe place in a safe space for all friendships to
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: be able to check in. That's a beautiful thing. When
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: you call a friend and you express some things to
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: them and they say, I know I've been holding space
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: for you. That term holding space means a lot. I
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: got some safe sisters the same. That's a good thing.
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: Envy's one of them. All right. Now, jay Z has
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: announced that made an America Festival's returning to Philly September
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: fourth and fifth. They did call things off obviously last year,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: as everybody had to. But now you can get your
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: two day passes and you can also lock in early
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: bird pricing while it's available. Boy Outside back open for
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: real if they bring it back. Festivals Outside is open.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: It is the fourth and the fifth of September. I
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: ain't hitting no stipulations, know nothing. I guess you'll know
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: as it gets a little closer, because we also don't
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: know in September what the rules are are going to be. Yeah,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: be open, open, because it's damn they're open open now.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: I just want to say that I got a call
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  Speaker 1: show Atlantic City's festival type with you know, rides and
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: cars and it's open open Focus fourteen. I just whle COVID,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: don't come back, like allow me to reintroduce myself. My
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: name is cold to Dave Chappelle's new documentary is going
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: to premiere as the closing night film at the Tribeca Festival.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: And so you can go ahead and get those um
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: but you have to be fully vaccinated and you have
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: to provide proof of your vaccination upon entry, so get
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: ready for that. I actually saw it. It's amazing, so
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: I think people are gonna love it. So that's going
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: to take place on June nineteen. I see when you
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: announced that, you announced the stipulations with it. I expect
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: to hear any big event to have some type of stipulation. Yeah,
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: but this is coming up really soon. Oh gotcha? You
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: know in September. Like I said, we don't know how
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: open things will are won't be. And since we're talking comedy,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: Palmoney they've given him his own day in Oakland and
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: that is going to be May nineteenth, so it's Palmoney
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  Speaker 1: Day on May nineteenth. He was born in Shreeport, Louisiana,
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: but he did move to Oakland when he was seven
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: years old, and as you know, he got to start
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  Speaker 1: writing for Richard Pryor driveling a clue bound with the
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  Speaker 1: late Great Paul Morning. Are we gonna haven't put that
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  Speaker 1: interview out? They said the audio wasn't that good. Understanding
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  Speaker 1: we could still get it out though some of it
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: he put it on the documentary. All right, Well that
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: is your rumor reports. All right, then let me show
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  Speaker 1: out to my brother Nori in O r E. He
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: just said, and he says, I'm an old New York
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: City All Teams fan as well. Okay, Nor just put
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  Speaker 1: us in the group chat, bro, we all got to
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: say seven fifty eight am, I'm an all NYC All Teams.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: I can't lie. Living out of town makes me that way.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: Nor just sit us all in the group chat. You
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: were family. Nor just put your breakfast club group chat
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  Speaker 1: together right now? Special Like Noor, he just texts me.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: He texts me too, and he texts me to cut
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  Speaker 1: I like him. My guy talking to Clue Bonnor good brother,
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  Speaker 1: great brother. Tend to get our running challenge back. Nori,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: who actually was driving in the city yesterday and I
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: just ran to I don't know, Norridn'm got a building.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: I just saw smoke Champs on a window. Smoke Champs. Yeah,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: they got smoke Champs now his nephew young Rally. I
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• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Amy Cooper needs to come to the front of the congregation.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: We'd like to have a word with Amy Cooper this morning.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into that next. It's the breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: there is no question. And there are all problems in
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  Speaker 1: this country between police and community. Yes, you are a
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: donkey to the latest on that police killing of a
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: black man. Now a new developments in the deathly spawshooting ramps. Yes,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: it was a really bad day for him and if
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: this is what he did, and so we are in
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: a state of emergency. Okay, White supremacist violence is it
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: always has been the number one threat to otracide. But
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: I'm also very proud that my wife was white because
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: the breakfast club bitches right. Please tell me why was
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: I day donkey to day for Thursday, May twenty seven
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: calls to Amy Cooper. You all remember who Amy Cooper is,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: don't you. Amy Cooper is the human jar of Hellman's
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: who called nine one one last year when she was
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: walking her dog in Central Park and she adn't counted
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: a black man named Christian Cooper. Christian Cooper was mining
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: his business doing his favorite pastime, which is bird watching.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: I know, I know, a black man bird watching looks suspicious,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: but that's your problem because you think black people are monolithic,
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: and you have a perception of what black people do
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: and can't do. In bird watching, it's not on your
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: list of things that black people do. Therefore, you just
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: assumed he was doing something he had no business doing.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: Can we flash back to that encounter between the Cooper's.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: Please don't come close to me, sir, I asked me
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: to stop according Please don't come clost me. Please don't
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: come close. Please please call the cops. There's an African
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: American man threatening my life. Please tell them whatever you like.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: There was an African American man. He's recording me threading
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: myself and my dog. I'm sorry, I can't I Before
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: we move on, has anybody checked on Amy Cooper's dog
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: every time I watched that video here, that video, I
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: think in the fact that she was lynching her dog
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: and then called the police and hope that they would
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: lynch Christian. Now, what everyone and their mother just heard
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: and saw in that video was obvious racial discrimination. I
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: mean Amy literally emphasized that Christian was black to the police.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: She weaponized the police against Christian because she knew how
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: police would react to a white damsel in distress, saying
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: she's been being attacked by a black man. Now. Amy
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: was charged with falsely reporting an incident in the third degree.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: Of course, the charge was dismissed early this year after
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: she completed a counseling program intended to educate her on
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: the harm of her actions. Hopefully it was the same
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: diversity training Coca Cola used where they urged workers to
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: be less white. Also literally a day after the confrontation,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: she apologized for her actions in an interview with NBC
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: four n y Let's listen and it's unacceptable, you know,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: and words are just words, and I can't undo what
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: I did, but I sincerely and humbly apologize to everyone,
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: especially to that man. The police. I think of them
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: as protection agents, see, and unfortunately this has caused me
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: to realize that there are so many people in this
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: country that don't have that luxury. Apologies are great, Okay,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: when you feel you have wrong someone, you have to
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: take accountability for your actions. We all have missteps. So why,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: oh why is Amy Cooper getting Donkey of the Day. Well,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: Amy says she's not racist, but what she did was
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: clearly racist. Okay. I think in a situation like that,
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if a person is actually a racist,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: because what she did is actually racist, and that's what matters.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: And it's her privilege and sense of entitlement that led
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: her to call the police on Christian in the first place,
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: and it's her privileged and sensive entitlement that is causing
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: her to do what she is getting Donkey of the
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: Day for what is Christian Cooper currently up to. Let's
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  Speaker 1: go to ABC seven New York for the report police.
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  Speaker 1: The woman known as Central Park Karen now filing suit
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  Speaker 1: against her former employer. Her name is Amy Cooper. She's
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  Speaker 1: accusing Franklin Templeton of wrongful termination. The financial company fired
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: Cooper as the outrage over her racist rant hit a
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  Speaker 1: fever pitch a year ago. Right now, Cooper claims they
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  Speaker 1: nurtured the idea that the confrontation was a racial flash point.
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  Speaker 1: She also claims there should have been an investigation before
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  Speaker 1: her dismissal. Amy is suing her former employer for wrong
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  Speaker 1: wrongful termination, for racial engender discrimination her laws through the
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  Speaker 1: alleges that she was characterized as a privileged white female.
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  Speaker 1: Karen Amy let brother Lenard and uncle Shlomy the first
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  Speaker 1: to tell you, quite simply, you didn't get fired because
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: you were discriminated against. You got fired for doing the discriminating. Okay,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: you falsely claim to police that a black man was
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: threatening you and your dog. You lied, so your job
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  Speaker 1: fired you for lying. This isn't complicated, Amy. Okay. For
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: you to turn around and file a lawsuit and feel
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: like you were wronged in any way is Maynnai's flavored malarkey. Okay,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: you file lawsuits when you get lied on, not when
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: you lied on people. Amy. Privilege, privilege has tag privilege. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this is a prime example of privilege, and as Deshaun
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: Stokes once said, privilege is not knowing that you're hurting
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  Speaker 1: others and not listening when they tell you that you are.
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  Speaker 1: Please let Kathy Griffin give Amy Cooper the biggest here.
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  Speaker 1: Please give this giant jar of male the biggest he haw.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you for that. Donkey up the day, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: for asking morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Yee, Sean
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  Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. It's time for
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  Speaker 1: ask ye. Hello. Who's this? Hey? How's it going? Man?
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  Speaker 1: As David? Hello David, how you guys gonna? Good morning?
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  Speaker 1: Every gone? Good morning? Man? What's your question for you? Bro?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna through it with my fiance. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's just ridiculous. Like so the other day we got
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: up to argument, you know, because I was picking up
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: for her that you know, heard that bought his brother
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: new car, and um, you know, we're all outside small
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: cigarettes or whatever like that, and um, she you know,
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: she told her dad she had to take the baby
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: because our son because he baby sits, and the next
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: day he went I didn't think to put it baby,
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: and she got upset and I told her like, no,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: you were outside listen and you know that what the
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: situation was going to be. And I we just have
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: a huge argument. Well, it sounds like you all have
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: other issues and that's why you had a big argument
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: about this. Yeah, but like I like, I'm clueless. I
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: don't even know what the heart like. And every time,
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: you know, she's always telling me that I have a
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: bad attitude and I got to go to therapy. But
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: now I'm trying to realize it's not me, you know
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: what I mean, that's her. It sounds like you both
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  Speaker 1: need therapy. But let me ask you this. Okay, how
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: old is the baby? He won? One year and three months?
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  Speaker 1: And then what was she like this before she had
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: the baby? No? Not brilliant. You think that perhaps you
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: know these hormonal changes and maybe she's had the baby
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: and you know a lot of people have a lot
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: of women go through a lot emotionally once they have
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: a child. Yeah, but like, how don't I deal with
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  Speaker 1: it because you know, like we live with her dad
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  Speaker 1: at the moment, and she's always telling me, you know,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: we gotta move out about but she gotta puts everything
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: at my field, you know, like to tree. You know,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: like I didn't help too, right, I mean, well, why
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: don't you guys agree to both to counting because it
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: feels like you have issues communicating with each other. And
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: I'm sure like the dynamics of your relationship have changed.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: You guys had this baby. I'm guessing, like you know,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: during the pandemic, y'all have been kind of at home
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  Speaker 1: a lot more um as well. It's also not easy
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: living with a parent, and just it's hard enough to
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: deal with just each other, but then when there's also
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: a parent there living in the house with you, sometimes
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: that also piles on. Yeah, I just like I'm just
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: trying to predicament where yeah, like and you know, now
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: she tells me she's gonna put me on child support
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: and you know, she don't love me anymore and stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that over a little argument, you know. So I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if it might be some postpartum that she
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: doesn't even realize that she's dealing with really yeah, and
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: that's a real thing and sometimes women can't identify it.
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  Speaker 1: But postpartum depression affects a lot of a lot of women.
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  Speaker 1: And so I would m hm. So she's a type
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  Speaker 1: of like she won't hey, you know, but she she's
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: a type like she you know, she she won't listen
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  Speaker 1: to everybody else that like she's always right, everybody else's
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: always wrong, like you know, she don't she don't, you know,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: throw up and just realize, like she'll never say sorry,
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: you know, you know what. And that's interesting, it's it's
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: interesting that you say that. I want to say a
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: couple of things here. A lot of times it's hard
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  Speaker 1: to have a discussion with somebody and own up to
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: your mistakes when they're not doing it right. And so
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: a lot of what you're saying to me is about
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: what she's doing. You're not really talking about what you're doing. Also,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: I know that both of you are contributing to the
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: issues in your relationship, but a lot of times we
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: blame the other person instead of also looking at ourselves
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: and instead of saying you do this, you don't ever
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: think you're wrong, you don't ever apologize. You also have
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: to say, well, it bothers me that when we get
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: into these arguments, you know, this is how it goes,
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: because really it's how it affects you. But you also
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: have to think about things that you do and how
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: it affects her. And it feels like both of you
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: need help. And if you're saying she needs to get
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: therapy and she's saying you need to get therapy, I'm
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: gonna say both of y'all would benefit from some type
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: of counseling or therapy to learn how you guys can
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: talk to each other more effectively. Oh no, I understand
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: for you. I'm telling you like I'm Anna type, Like
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: if I'm wrong, I'll say it in an arpy that
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I'm wrong, you know what I mean? Like like I'm
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: that type of dude, Like if if there's something that
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: she don't like and then I leave, but tell them
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  Speaker 1: one like if there's something I don't make, you know,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: I'll tell them a nice way like eight days, you know,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: like you know you shouldn't do it, then maybe she's
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: trying to do it a different way, or you know,
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: maybe should you offer opfer solutions? You're saying you offer solutions? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: and then she never just rocks with it, you know
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: what I mean. And it's very frustrating because now it's
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: just like I gotta just pretty much shuck it up
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: and let her do like whatever. She you know, wear
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: a little attitude and all that. You know, do you
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: love her? Do you want to be with her? Do
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: you want to get married? I'm not gonna lie after
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: the because she sent me some real nasty text like
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: my my brother, you know, he he's like a dead
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: beat brother, you know what I mean, Like he got
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: three kids and you don't talk to them, you know,
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: And she takes me, uh that she that I shouldn't
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: how to be a dead beat father. When she rolls
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: stuff like that, it's just like, yeah, she's trying to
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: hurt you, you know, right. Yeah, I think you guys.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: I think you guys as as new parents too, both really, uh,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: you're going to have to raise this child together no
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: matter what and deal with each other. And I think
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: you do need the proper tools to be able to
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: do that. Regardless. I think you have to let her know,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: and I'm sure you do how it hurts your feelings
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: when she says things like that to you. But I
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: also feel like it could be some postpartum depression, and
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: that's something that is a really common thing that doesn't
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: even get diagnosed, And so I think it would benefit
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: for you guys to learn how to do that and
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: and and decide if you want to continue in this relationship.
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: But no matter what, you are going to have to
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: learn how to deal with each other in a better way. Well,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: what do you think I should just kind of like
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: suck it off? I definite, I don't think you should
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: ever quote suck it up, But I do you think
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: that you need to address these issues as best as
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: you can head on. I do think you guys need
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: to get a recommendation for a therapist so that you
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: guys can go into couples therapy together, because it's not
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: working with y'all just talking to each other the way
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: that you have been. And then I think you have
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: some decisions to make to see if this can work,
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: if it can move forward. But I also feel like,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: you know, her body just went through a lot hormonally
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: things that she probably doesn't even understand. If she's acting
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: different now than she used to, I think that deserves
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: some attention as well. Yeah, well I do appreciate it.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: And another thing, I'm sorry for being so long. But
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: another thing like and I'm in the predicament, like if
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: if we don't make up, you know, she's gonna kick me,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: and my parents don't want to take me back. You know.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: It's like I'm gonna be homeless, you know what i mean,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: just living a magar. And that's what scares me almost
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: like you know, she talks like, yeah, I'm not gonna
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: see what I'm man. You know, I'm not gonna have
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: a place to live it and she shouldn't be threatening.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: She should not be threatening you with that. Yeah, that's
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: not fair. Talk about it, and it's like, yes, it's
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: running out fair, Like I just wish that I can
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: you know, when the scratch off. Okay, you don't have
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: any money, you have a job, I got two jobs,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: but I just bought a car. I want finance the car,
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: and I'm playing off eight thousand dollars credit card right now.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: You know, if this credit card was paid off, that
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: I would definitely shave a thousand dollars to check everything's
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: going towards the credit card. And that that's pretty much
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: right understand. So well, I'm sure financially. That's a lot
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: of stress for you guys in the house as well.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: And I can tell right now just from hearing this
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: that also plays a role, you know. So it's a
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: lot of different things that you guys are dealing with.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: So I just want to encourage you to try to
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: work it out if you can, to seek some profess
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: I should know, help, and to learn how to speak
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: to each other better. Don't use the words never or
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: always when you get into an argument, and always talk
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: about well I just said always, and talk about how
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: things make you feel instead of being accusatory. And that's
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: the advice that I can give you for now. Ask
• 1:17:14
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• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomae Nicay. We are the
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: breakfast club. But in the middle of ask ye, hello,
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: who's this? Hello, Hey, Hey, good morning. My name is
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: NEAs Hey Nee. What's your question for you? Um? My
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: question is it's a little volgar um. Last year when
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: the coba first started my kids. I caught my kids
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: doing a sex act on each other who I asked
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: them where they got it from, and they told me
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: they got it from there there and I had been
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: letting their dad get them for Like the Wow, how
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: old are that when I brought it to um at
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: that time, they were eight and six. Oh my boy
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: and girl. Two boys, two girls. So they're both boys,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: both boys. Boy. Wow. So with that, like, it's beeny
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: years since he talked to me or talked to him,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: which I find fine. But today if my oldest son's birthday,
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: so he reached out to me yesterday and he's like, UM,
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: I feel like you're bitter. You're not letting me see
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: my kids. You're not letting me, You're not let me
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: do that. I told him why I'm not letting him
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: see them, and he's like, oh, I would never do that,
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: But I have my own instances because we were together
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: for five years. I know he would do that. So, UM,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find out if I'm doing the
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: right thing by keeping my kids away from him. Can
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: I put more question? Can I ask one question? They
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: said they learned it from their dad. What do you
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: mean they learned it from their dad. Um, My youngest
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: son told me, he's like, I'm a daddy told us
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: that it's okay to do this to each other together.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: I bring yourself. I went, definitely I did. It was
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: a whole scene. It was the whole scene. Like when
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: I found out I packed my fee to the car.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: I pulled up to his career barefoot. I'm from Florida,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: Like I pulled up. I was ready to hell. No,
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: it was the whole Still when they got there, they
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: were like, okay, one, we need you, mam to calm down.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: We understand where you're at, but we need you to
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: be calm because we don't want to take you for,
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: you know, being hotspot. And they're like, okay. The next day,
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: we need your children to come in for an interview
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: to uh, to talk and see what's going on. The
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: thing about my kids is we're afraid of your dad
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: because they watched their dad likely like bloody. So they're
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: more or less like, okay, we'll protect Mama and we'll
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: just kind of be like okay, it's it's not a
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: big deal. It's okay. When we talk about it amongst
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: our shoves. UM they're like, yo, Mama, Getty says this,
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: and that is you birds at us and Getty do this.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: So you know that already. Now tell me in your gut,
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: what is it telling you cannot have your children around
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: this man? Yeah, I've been saying no from the gate, nope, grandparents,
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: the old grandparents, and like no, no, that's probably nope, nope, nope.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: And not only should he not be around them, you
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: have to make sure that you are trying to repair
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: the harm that he's done to your kids as well,
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 1: and pay extra close attention to let them know that
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: they can talk to you about any and everything year
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: and make sure monitoring their their internet. I monitor internet.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: I monitored their songs, I monitor their friends, I monitor everything.
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: It is not because I want to do this, because
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: I feel like now I hack, you know, and they
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: obviously did not understand what they were doing. They were
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: and who knows what else happens when their fathers around.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: So I just would never feel comfortable having any child.
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 1: I don't think any children should be around that. Matter
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: of fact, you need to go see a judge and
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: get a lawyer and just make sure that he can't
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: do anything to try to get those kids might too.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, therapy is definitely in our lineup. We
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: just moved from Florida because I just felt like we
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: needed to move completely. We packed it up and we moved.
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: So now in this new place, I'm trying to get
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: them shut up with therapy and um where they feel
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: more comfortable discussing certain things because, um, most of the
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: time I was working while he was with them, so
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: they're probably are things that I don't know still and right,
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: I feel what I feel like, you are doing all
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: the right things that you're supposed to be doing. You shouldn't.
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: I feel no guilt. He has no privileges when it
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: comes to your children. Thank you, your kids, thank you.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: They're definitely my children, had them natural. They're all just
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: this conversation is a little too casual for my liking.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: Got kids doing sex acts on each other, father beating
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: on his ex like jeezz christ. I just don't understand
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: how we casually discussed trauma like that. Yeah, you around him,
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: he did. I walk around with a with a pretty
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: bright energy. I have a really good energy only because
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: that's not going to make me a narrow baby. I
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: do have the scars I'm able to tell other people
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  Speaker 1: what I've been through, so they can be like, okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like they know what to look for us because I
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  Speaker 1: went through five years like pregnant and not pregnant, getting
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  Speaker 1: like beat drags, all types of stuff. So it's more
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  Speaker 1: or less like the learning experience for me. And now
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  Speaker 1: I can teach other people, and now I know what
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  Speaker 1: to look for for myself as well. I just feel
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  Speaker 1: like he needs to be in jail. I'm saying you
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  Speaker 1: so much to leave under the jail, should have been there.
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  Speaker 1: But every time he gets there, just parents tell them
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  Speaker 1: out right, Well, listen, let's just make sure judge, lawyer,
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  Speaker 1: restraining order, everything you got to do to make sure
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  Speaker 1: he's not around. Cool, I mean, thank y'all. All right, right, Wow,
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  Speaker 1: her energy is amazing. My goodness, ask ye eight hundred
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  Speaker 1: five you know what and and this has nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do it but do it that. But that's why I
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  Speaker 1: never let my kids sleep at people's houses. But that's
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  Speaker 1: their dad. You gotta think. Yeah, but I'm saying in
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  Speaker 1: her head right, originally that's yeah. I guess you're right,
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  Speaker 1: But that is the rest, not other people. That is
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  Speaker 1: the reason why I don't let my kids go to
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  Speaker 1: anybody's house, spend the night at anybody's house. I don't
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  Speaker 1: really let anybody watch my kids, just for that, and
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be, you know that, just don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't trust anybody around my kids. And that's anxiety.
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  Speaker 1: But that's just who I am, you know, And just
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  Speaker 1: I just think about how guys are always like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: she need to let us see your kids, like, because
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: we just had a whole issue about this the other
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  Speaker 1: day for asking and that situation that man should not
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  Speaker 1: be around those child He shouldn't be around any children,
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: definitely not his own. All right, Well, we got rumors
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  Speaker 1: on the way, yes, and let's talk about the Shop.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: A new season of The Shop is coming. It's the
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  Speaker 1: fourth season, and we'll tell you who some of these
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: huge guests are going to be for the new season.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we'll get into it next. It's the Breakfast Club.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is the rumor Report
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  Speaker 1: with Angela. Ye. Well, The Shop Uninterrupted is returning on
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  Speaker 1: HBO and HBO Max tomorrow and some of the new
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  Speaker 1: people on this sea in joining Lebron and Maverick are
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  Speaker 1: going to be jay Z, Bad, Bunny w NBA Star,
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: that's jay Z that's jay z Okay Nakagwi McKay and
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: marketing executive Paul Rivera. So a lot of things being discussed.
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  Speaker 1: Here's the trailer. I got two teenage boys. Do they
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  Speaker 1: care that I'm not gonna enter spec where I'm with
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  Speaker 1: people that I don't align with. I'm a shy person,
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: but at the same dying I'm yam. Being confident is
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: taking chances and being failing. Did it get to a
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  Speaker 1: point where it was so zoned out that you didn't
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  Speaker 1: see anybody In the beginning, I used to get on
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  Speaker 1: State and just forget all my lyrics. Well, there you go,
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  Speaker 1: stay tomorrow, yep. I know y'all can't wait. All right now.
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  Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton, who was talking to two q and non
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 1: believers in Amazon's debunking Barat. She actually sent them a
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  Speaker 1: video after they discussed some of the rumors and things
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  Speaker 1: that QAnon spreads about Hillary Clinton. The episode is called
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton and Blood Libel, and that is referencing the
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  Speaker 1: anti Semitical lie that Jews drink the blood of Christians children.
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  Speaker 1: And here is what they had to say. Clinton's are
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  Speaker 1: very evil. Supposedly they torture these kids, It gets their
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  Speaker 1: adrenaline flowing in their body. Then they take that out
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  Speaker 1: of their dream dream of limbs, and then they drink
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  Speaker 1: their blood or that. I've heard about things like that,
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  Speaker 1: all right, So it's too. Quan On supported Jim Russell
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  Speaker 1: and Jerry Holloman, and they believe that Hillary Clinton and
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: other politicians are somehow secretly bloodthirsty child torturers. Now, Hillary
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  Speaker 1: Clinton did send a response, I know that you're not alone.
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  Speaker 1: It's hurtful. I'll be really honest with you. It's hurtful
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  Speaker 1: not just to me and my family, but to my
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  Speaker 1: friends and on other people who know that this is
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: not just false but painfully falls. So, just as one
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  Speaker 1: American to another, I hope that we can start trying
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  Speaker 1: to find some common ground again and overcome all those
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 1: forces trying to divide us and put us into little
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  Speaker 1: boxes apart from each other. I think it's a compliment
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  Speaker 1: when people make up wild conspiracy theories about you in
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: that way that means you have achieved something so unbelievable
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 1: to them, something that they think is not humanly possible.
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  Speaker 1: So you either have to sell your soul or drink
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 1: the blood of children. It's movies to get it well,
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  Speaker 1: I think she said it was hurtful though it is,
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: and of course they did brush off her message and
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: double down on the fact that they also just cannot
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  Speaker 1: stand here. But there is another way to look at
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: it. It It is a compliment when people got to make
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 1: up that those type of wild theories just to you know,
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: make themselves believe. Why why you're in the position you're in. Yeah,
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: because you're in an illuminati? Right, yes, very much so?
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  Speaker 1: All right now, Giherbo has entered a not guilty plea
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: in the Wire for Our case. He was charged with
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 1: a lying to a federal agent about his relationship with
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 1: one of his alleged co conspirators in a federal for
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  Speaker 1: Our case and he is pleading not guilty. On the
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: flip side. And some great news he and Talana have
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: had their baby. Nice congrats today. Congrats, So congratulations to
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: Herbal and Taliana. They had that little baby. All right now.
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 1: Paul Parris has some things to say at ESPN. He
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 1: wrote on Twitter to them yesterday at ESPN, I don't
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  Speaker 1: need you. I got at ethereum Max. I made more
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: money with crypto in this past month than I did
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  Speaker 1: with you all in a year. Truthshell set you free
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  Speaker 1: my own boss, so I guess he's happy to not
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: be there anymore. Now let's discuss this is stupid. You
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  Speaker 1: look at your full please. This is stupid since you
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  Speaker 1: just talked about the g Herbal this is the intern internutshell,
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  Speaker 1: this is stupid. What happened dj nvca congrats to g
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  Speaker 1: Herbal in Tiana, and it says and people not fans,
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  Speaker 1: trying to get at DJ envy for simply saying congrats
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  Speaker 1: to g Herbal and his new baby boy. Is there
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 1: a certain way you're supposed to congratulate someone? DJA put congrats?
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 1: Somebody put what's up with all those dots? I said,
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  Speaker 1: cots that that's what. They don't call you envy for nothing.
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  Speaker 1: You know what somebody said. Somebody did clarify. This is
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  Speaker 1: how my daddy typed too. That's just how some older
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: people being on Instagram. But what's the problem he said? Congrats?
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  Speaker 1: And why would you be jose him having a baby.
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  Speaker 1: You got ten of him. I got Jesus like Herbo
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  Speaker 1: and Shelter. You know Tiana, that's family's daughter. So I said,
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: said congrats. That sounded like some The crazy thing is
• 1:28:27
  Speaker 1: who posted that what blogs I posted. Oh my goodness,
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  Speaker 1: why did you put the dots? I put dots on everything.
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  Speaker 1: Why that's just shut up, man, it's just died. It's
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  Speaker 1: that's what I do. When I say something, I says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. And then the picture they posted
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  Speaker 1: of you with it, you do look jealous? Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: can't sunglasses jersey on. You know what, hater? How did
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  Speaker 1: I do? Think about it? This is the way I excess.
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  Speaker 1: Congrats yea an extra nothing look like a hater, but
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  Speaker 1: it liked. I love to see brothers when it in
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  Speaker 1: having fruit food for I do everything. If you look,
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  Speaker 1: if you read all my posts, I always use a take.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why I use that right now.
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  Speaker 1: They said that that's what old people do one right,
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  Speaker 1: I use that because I don't know how you trunk
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  Speaker 1: about to say pronunciation? What's the thing called what's common
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  Speaker 1: and stuff called? Oh my gosh, guys, I can't punctuation punctuation, right,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how do you function? So I do
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  Speaker 1: it all right? Well, and you got the mixed coming
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  Speaker 1: up dot dot dotor. I'm a New York time. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's what edit is for. Yeah, I can tell a story,
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  Speaker 1: I just can't pronounce it. No, what's the word pronunciated?
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  Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, pronunciate stopping all right, shout out to revolt.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a doctor's okay, all right, you expect me as such.
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  Speaker 1: Revote with seeing them everybody else, Let's get to the mix.
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  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be the same. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy, we are the Breakfast Club. Yesterday, I
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  Speaker 1: almost uh almost got into an altercation with Queens Flip,
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 1: and you know Queens Flippy does all these, um, I
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: guess what do you call them? These little skits jobs
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  Speaker 1: to do? And he hopped my fence yesterday and it
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: almost got nasty. And thank god that the door wasn't
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 1: outside and I didn't sick the dog. And I've seen
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  Speaker 1: it with him, because if I didn't see it with him,
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  Speaker 1: I would probably be Yes, nobody believes this. It was no,
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  Speaker 1: it's true story. Shut, I know a true story. Ya. No,
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  Speaker 1: we did the skid after talking from true story, yapped
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  Speaker 1: over the fence and why does he know where you
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  Speaker 1: live at? Um? He he just pulled up to your house. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: y'all cool like that man Queens is cool. Yeah, but
• 1:31:27
  Speaker 1: he hopped the fence and I seen him hop the
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  Speaker 1: fence and I've seen this, this big fat black dude
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  Speaker 1: running down my driveway. I'm like what And I've seen
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  Speaker 1: it with him, and you know I did send the
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  Speaker 1: dog at him. Well yeah, but he had to jump
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: in the pool squashed it out. Yeah, we were talking
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: about you guys. Squashed it Yeah because you because he
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  Speaker 1: does skits and he thinks it's funny, but sometimes it's
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  Speaker 1: not funny, right, and you know it could have got nasty,
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: but you know dot dot, shout the queen's flip. He
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  Speaker 1: better be from queens. If his name is Queen's flip, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he should be a queen, and shout to Hollywood. And
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  Speaker 1: the reason we keep saying dot dot dot is because
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  Speaker 1: g Herbo had his baby and I hit him on
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  Speaker 1: on Instagram dot dot dot, and people was like, why
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  Speaker 1: MV being so this? I'm like, what's wrong with the dots?
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  Speaker 1: Just do an exclamation mark next time, bro, That's all
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  Speaker 1: I want to do. What I want to do. Everybody,
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: everybody going at his comments and put dot dot dot
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  Speaker 1: were because it could have been it because it looked
• 1:32:27
  Speaker 1: like it's like, congratulations, this could have been us. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what it seems like with all the dot dot dot,
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  Speaker 1: But it was that congrat Do you look like back?
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  Speaker 1: You look like a bit of X who hasn't moved on?
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  Speaker 1: And that person you hit it and that person then
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  Speaker 1: got a girl had a baby, and you're still lonely,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because that dot that dot doesn't senuate like
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  Speaker 1: English language literally, and some means like to be what
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  Speaker 1: do you know about English drama? Dot dot dot the
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  Speaker 1: first second, third grade, that's what you're a liar? Dot
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  Speaker 1: dot dot dot. Yes, that's Puerto Rican language. Don't call
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  Speaker 1: talking to us about what you do to be continued
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  Speaker 1: like there's something more. That's exactly what it means to
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  Speaker 1: be continued, well as stated by the English language, but
• 1:33:20
  Speaker 1: that relationship is to be continued. Congratulations if he continued,
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  Speaker 1: that's what that's okay. It's a birth of a child.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you know what it felt like. Congrats dot
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  Speaker 1: dot dot, but you don't have six and then the
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  Speaker 1: congrats can go if you leave the dot dot dots
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  Speaker 1: and that means you don't have to say congrats ever again,
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  Speaker 1: meaning like when they go to first grade for the
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  Speaker 1: first time, when they turned sixteen, when they turned twenty one. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: they want to listen to you. I'm listening to the doctor.
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  Speaker 1: The doctor said I could use him. Sure him. He
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  Speaker 1: doing the doctor who came and pronounce the word homicide properly.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to him. What did you call me? What did
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  Speaker 1: you call me? You're freaking home a fold. I knew
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  Speaker 1: it when we come back. Positive notice to Breakfast club.
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: Good morning. Now, tonight's a big night. It's the iHeart
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  Speaker 1: Radio Music Awards that comes on tonight at a pm Eastern.
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: You can watch that on demand, Fox Now and Hulu,
• 1:34:14
  Speaker 1: and of course on iHeart radio stations across America. Usher
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  Speaker 1: is gonna have his incredible club USh I'm sure he's
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: gonna be throwing Usher Bucks all over the place. It's
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 1: a nightclub that's built into the side of the stage.
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  Speaker 1: He's gonna host the whole thing, and he's gonna also
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 1: be there performing with other artists. Now, if you ever
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: dreamed of walking into a lounge and finding Bruno Mars
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 1: and Anderson Pack ticking over the piano and serenading you
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: at the bar, now you can experience that with Silk Sonic,
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  Speaker 1: and they're gonna do my song leave the Door Open.
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  Speaker 1: That was like my vacation song just now In Turks
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  Speaker 1: and Caicos. Usher also has an incredible medley of Yeah, Confessions,
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  Speaker 1: Love in This Club, Scream and more Planned and Little
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  Speaker 1: John's gonna pull up in a nineteen seventy two and
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  Speaker 1: Paula to join Usher on stage for their performance of Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Little John and Usher are also gonna make it rain
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  Speaker 1: She's put together a stunning visual performance of her biggest hits,
• 1:35:12
  Speaker 1: and Dan and Shade will be reuniting with their full
• 1:35:14
  Speaker 1: band for the first time to perform Glad You Exist.
• 1:35:17
  Speaker 1: So everybody's gonna be at the show making the Stallion Teller,
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  Speaker 1: Swift Friday, rich L L Cool, Jay Machine Gun, Kelly
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  Speaker 1: French Montana to a Lepa twenty one pilots. We told
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  Speaker 1: dot Damn my heart. No surprises, like Jesus Christ, give
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: us the whole detail to rundown, Like, man, you want
• 1:35:43
  Speaker 1: to watch now? I mean I will. I'm watching them,
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 1: definitely watching them. I'm just like, give it. Leave us
• 1:35:47
  Speaker 1: some surprises. It sounds amazing though, especially that little John thing.
• 1:35:50
  Speaker 1: I want to see what that what that's about? But
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: that would have been a good surprise, right see little
• 1:35:53
  Speaker 1: John pull up in the old school. Well we spoiled
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 1: it all right, Well leave us on a positive note. Listen,
• 1:36:00
  Speaker 1: people of poor character tend to blame their choices on circumstances.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: Ethical people make good choices regardless of circumstances. If they
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 1: make enough good choices, they begin to create better conditions
• 1:36:11
  Speaker 1: for themselves. Breakfast Club begins, y'all finish with y'all dumb