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Honesty or Betrayal? Sterling K Brown & Paradise Cast Tackle Running Into Your Partner’s Past · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if you don't lie about that, right, Lauren
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  Speaker 1: came in.
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  Speaker 3: Baby. So today joining me, we have Brandon.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna have me back.
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  Speaker 2: So like before we get into our episodes here on
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  Speaker 2: the Latest with Laurenosa, we always check in behind the
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  Speaker 2: scenes of the grind and sometimes I don't do it
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  Speaker 2: when I have guests on the show, but I mean
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  Speaker 2: I should, right because I should want to know.
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  Speaker 3: Brendan, how are you doing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm good, but the doctor said I'm not good. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: what's wrong? My blo pressure is crazy?
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  Speaker 3: Oh just your blood pressure.
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  Speaker 1: No, baby, When doctors go blood pressure, they look at
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  Speaker 1: me like, how are you still alive?
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  Speaker 3: Well, what do you see your food with.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's food because you know how to
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  Speaker 1: bring a lot of my own food. My food is
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  Speaker 1: relatively healthy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just glad it's only blood pressure. When you say
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  Speaker 2: your doctors good.
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  Speaker 1: Lack of sleep, I don't really sleep that much. That's
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  Speaker 1: really what it is.
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  Speaker 2: Well, our job doesn't really allow for I feel guilty
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  Speaker 2: when I go to bed before ten o'clock. I feel
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  Speaker 2: like I'm slacking at my job and at life when
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  Speaker 2: I go to bed before ten o'clock night. Yo, I
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  Speaker 2: be trying, but like, man, it'd be a good twelve
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  Speaker 2: Last night, I went to bed at midnight and had
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  Speaker 2: to be up at My first alarm is at like
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  Speaker 2: three forty five, and then our second one is at
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  Speaker 2: four oh five.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. He was like, if you were older, he would
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  Speaker 1: not let you leave today. Like, so, I gotta stop stressing.
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  Speaker 1: That's my goal for the upcoming weeks months.
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  Speaker 3: And what are you stressed about?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think they get easier, Like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. You see people's life that's like a little slower,
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  Speaker 1: and are things gonna ever slow down and get yeah,
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  Speaker 1: a little easier.
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  Speaker 3: I know what you mean.
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  Speaker 2: Like, I feel like I think that that's the thing
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  Speaker 2: that's coming with like age, It's like we work in
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  Speaker 2: a very fast faced industry, and I'm always trying to
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  Speaker 2: figure out, like what does comfortability look like in that?
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  Speaker 2: Like I mean, it's good to see other people who
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  Speaker 2: have achieved a level of family and success or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: But still I look at friends of mine who are
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  Speaker 2: successful in other job lanes, and I'm like, yo, at
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  Speaker 2: this age, they have kids, they're able to like everything's
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  Speaker 2: like on a schedule. They take vacation at the same time,
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  Speaker 2: they're home at the same time. They like I've thought
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  Speaker 2: about that as well too, But I just can't imagine
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  Speaker 2: my life any other way than doing what I'm doing
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  Speaker 2: right now, because all of my passions are like things
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  Speaker 2: that stretch me, and like I don't want not to
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to say regular job because I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to downplay anybody's job, but all of my passions require
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  Speaker 2: a lot of a non traditional right, so I think
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  Speaker 2: about that audience. I'm stressed about it, though, but I
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  Speaker 2: do think about it because now I'm getting to the
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  Speaker 2: point where I'm like, all right, in a good two years,
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  Speaker 2: Like I want to start kids, and how do I
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  Speaker 2: do homework with my kid, because.
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  Speaker 1: When I was like early twenty is, you could just
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  Speaker 1: like I feel like sleep is optional. I could drink
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  Speaker 1: and wake up and go play basketball, and I get
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  Speaker 1: like this. Things were just like differently with my body.
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  Speaker 1: But now I guess sleep is not optional and eating
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  Speaker 1: healthy is not optional and all the good things. So
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  Speaker 1: you gotta make sure you're taking care of yourself.
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  Speaker 2: I think it'll be good for people to hear this
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  Speaker 2: because I think it's not even just an age thing too.
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  Speaker 2: Think it's like a mental shift of your mindset of
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  Speaker 2: going from survival to living life. Like that's something I
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  Speaker 2: talk to myself about all the time, Like, Lauren, you're
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  Speaker 2: so used to being in survival mode. It's okay to now,
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  Speaker 2: like like you've survived girl, Like, it's okay to live now.
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  Speaker 2: And what the setting that pace look like for you,
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  Speaker 2: even though it's not traditional. I've had to talk myself
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  Speaker 2: off the ledge.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So besides that, you know, the focus is just
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  Speaker 1: getting distressing. Get my mind right.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad I could do therapy for you. All
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  Speaker 2: niggas be neat and y'all be y'all. You mayn't be
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  Speaker 2: neat to go.
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  Speaker 3: See the lady.
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  Speaker 2: So in this episode, guys, we're going to do another
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  Speaker 2: on the Line with Laura Rosa, which is where we
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  Speaker 2: bring pop culture and entertainment news literally on the phone
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  Speaker 2: line and give you guys a chance to low riders
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  Speaker 2: to talk to us about what you're hearing, what you're seeing,
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  Speaker 2: and whatever our topic is of the day. Now, today
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  Speaker 2: we are going to take it to a show on
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  Speaker 2: Hulu that everybody is watching, Uh Paradise.
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  Speaker 3: So Starlen K. Brown and his.
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  Speaker 2: Wife Ryan Michelle Bath, they start in this show and
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  Speaker 2: they also have a podcast where they sit down and
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  Speaker 2: they you know, their podcast is called I Have a
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  Speaker 2: Difference of Opinion, and they have differences of opinions a
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  Speaker 2: lot and it gets very they get very eat it.
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  Speaker 2: So we're talking about a scene that happened in the show.
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  Speaker 1: Did I lie? Did I lie? Excuse me that she
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  Speaker 1: is my therapist? Was I gonna say the jump up
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  Speaker 1: that I hooked up with the one time? Because I
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  Speaker 1: thought the scene that's exactly what Why would I do
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  Speaker 1: that on the first time that they meet each other?
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  Speaker 1: Why would I do that?
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  Speaker 3: It's called are you kidding?
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  Speaker 1: Nobody should do that on the first time.
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  Speaker 2: No, My point is is that it was it was
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  Speaker 2: the jovial ness, I like you are.
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  Speaker 3: Damn.
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  Speaker 2: Why all right, now let's get on into this caller
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  Speaker 2: on the line.
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  Speaker 3: How you doing DJ? Also?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, am I saying it right? Yep?
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  Speaker 2: Alrighty? Well, Hi, welcome to on the line with Laura
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  Speaker 2: de Rosa. Hi, I'm doing good. So you are one
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  Speaker 2: of the low riders, one of the podcast listeners. How
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  Speaker 2: long you been listening to us?
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  Speaker 4: What was the okay?
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  Speaker 2: All right, well, welcome on over. I'm glad you enjoying
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  Speaker 2: the experience over here.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 3: So I know you got a chance to and Brandon's
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  Speaker 3: here as well too.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, nice to meet you. Oh yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 2: You got a chance to check out the clip from
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  Speaker 2: Paradise the podcast after we're sling K Brown and his wife.
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  Speaker 2: We'll look up her name, but so I know you
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  Speaker 2: got a chance to take a look at their commentary
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  Speaker 2: and I want to expe ain't some of the background
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  Speaker 2: to you just from the show sterlen K Brown and
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  Speaker 2: his wife Ryan Michelle back. So Brandon, who's an avid
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  Speaker 2: Paradise watcher, put me on to what was going down
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  Speaker 2: and we had a very passion angry but good conversation
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  Speaker 2: between our group at work about this.
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  Speaker 3: So explain some of the background that led up to
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  Speaker 3: this podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so do you watch a show at all?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 1: I don't, Okay, So just to add a little more
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  Speaker 1: contexts to that clip. The main character, this is a spoiler.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, for those who spoiler Alerk.
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  Speaker 1: He found out he was under the impression his wife
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  Speaker 1: had passed away, had relations with his therapists, somehow found
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  Speaker 1: a way to bring his wife back in his life.
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  Speaker 1: And there was a scene where he introduced his wife
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  Speaker 1: to the therapist, had a little small talk and literally walked
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  Speaker 1: away and I guess let them went on to do
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  Speaker 1: something else, but they were still talking. So there was
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  Speaker 1: a conversation online and whether he should have told his
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  Speaker 1: wife at the time that he had had relationship with
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  Speaker 1: that therapist.
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  Speaker 2: So what do you think you think he should have
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  Speaker 2: told his wife ahead of time? Because you heard in
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  Speaker 2: the podcast atisod I want to say a listen, so
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  Speaker 2: DJ also, do you think that Sterling K. Brown's character
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  Speaker 2: was wrong for not telling his wife before she met
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  Speaker 2: the therapist or.
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  Speaker 1: During that time during that interaction.
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  Speaker 4: This is tough, but I honestly think he was You
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  Speaker 4: build a better bond at home. By just being honest,
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  Speaker 4: thank you, you won't lie. It uncovers so many things. People
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  Speaker 4: start to feel like if you lie about a little,
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  Speaker 4: you're lied about a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, but hell, what did he lie about?
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  Speaker 4: Truth is also a lie?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like eventually that conversation would come up,
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  Speaker 1: but right there in the spot, tell me how that
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  Speaker 1: should go down, explain that to me.
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  Speaker 4: Ohn just wanted to let you know this is not
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  Speaker 4: the first time that this person and I have interacted.
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  Speaker 4: I do want to let you know we do have
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  Speaker 4: quote a little bit of history.
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  Speaker 3: So how old are you? If you don't mind me, Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: how old are your brand?
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  Speaker 2: Because here's my thing right as a woman listening and
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  Speaker 2: also as a woman that's been in this situation. Literally,
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  Speaker 2: my mind instantly goes to, so you didn't tell me
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  Speaker 2: Number one, you think I'm dumb? Because I know my
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  Speaker 2: man in and out. I can tell just by y'all
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  Speaker 2: interaction that there was more than anything at that moment.
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  Speaker 2: I can literally see the way that you're breathing and
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  Speaker 2: know your woman is really your woman for real, Like
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  Speaker 2: I mean, no, you know you, the way you breathe,
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  Speaker 2: the way you anything off. I'm gonna catch it. So
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  Speaker 2: that's number one. So that's already slapping the face. Number two,
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  Speaker 2: Why omit it like? It's it's here, it's happening. It's
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  Speaker 2: not your fault that I'm here meeting this woman right like,
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  Speaker 2: It's not like was it a private meetup or were
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  Speaker 2: they just.
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  Speaker 1: In a like a public setting.
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  Speaker 2: We're in a public setting. You can't control the fact
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  Speaker 2: that me and her ran into each other. But just
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  Speaker 2: let me know exactly. I think the way that DJ
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  Speaker 2: also explained to do it. If she's a sad or scorpio,
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  Speaker 2: you might get a little craziness in the moment, But
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  Speaker 2: I gotta give.
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  Speaker 4: It to you that you tried, definitely, And my thing
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  Speaker 4: is just removing the blind side.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, because DJ and Brandon as men, how do you
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  Speaker 2: guys feel about your woman ever having you blindsided on
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  Speaker 2: something like that, like men that she slept with and
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  Speaker 2: you guys being around them or being introduced to them.
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  Speaker 4: No, my thing is this, and thank you, my thing
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  Speaker 4: is this. That's it's not a selfless act because being
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  Speaker 4: quite honest and transparent, I'm thinking of me in that situation.
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  Speaker 4: I'm thinking to myself, I wouldn't want to be blindsided,
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  Speaker 4: So let me go ahead and pay that respect forward
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  Speaker 4: so that you know she understands that's how we operate.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm going to remove the blind side. If it's
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  Speaker 4: before or different time, there's no harm in being honest,
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  Speaker 4: so that way that karma always comes back to me.
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  Speaker 4: I'm just so wan to see basically, go ahead, Brendan.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just saying, I feel like I was
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  Speaker 1: in a similar situation where X and Mind would be
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  Speaker 1: talking about, like we have conversations about our relationships. She's
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  Speaker 1: mentioned the name before, and he was still school with
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  Speaker 1: some of her friends and he had a common name,
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  Speaker 1: so we run into him, introduce him. I didn't think
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  Speaker 1: nothing of it when she said the name. That just
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  Speaker 1: hit me like an hour into the park. Yes, I
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  Speaker 1: guess I never asked about the inter racket.
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  Speaker 3: Diddy hugger.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess like she didn't technically mention it,
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  Speaker 1: but I was a little mad in the moment.
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  Speaker 3: The moment though, Why what was your feeling in the moment, I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know in a way because I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even know I was gonna meet him and
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  Speaker 1: run into him in this very moment, And.
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  Speaker 4: I get that I totally understand that.
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  Speaker 3: Have you ever been in a situation dejail?
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  Speaker 4: Yes? So I did go to a party with I
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  Speaker 4: meant her, I was working with a gentleman. He and
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  Speaker 4: I became cool, and I'm telling my lady at the
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  Speaker 4: time about him. Yo, I met this guy Rick at
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  Speaker 4: the job, so on and so forth, my description of
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  Speaker 4: him and everything. He invited us to a cookout. We
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  Speaker 4: go to the cookout and she knows, you know, a
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  Speaker 4: decent amount of people, so you know, someone there made
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  Speaker 4: a reference to her, and Rick like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 4: you guys to go back together. And I'm looking at
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  Speaker 4: her and I'm looking at him, and he stepped off
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  Speaker 4: right quick, and I just felt betrayed because wait a minute,
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  Speaker 4: I was playing. One of his other guests there at
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  Speaker 4: the cookout was like, oh my god, you guys took
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  Speaker 4: him back together. So I'm thinking I'm introducing her to him.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you know him, he met him at work, him.
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  Speaker 3: At work on hype Like, yo, babe.
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  Speaker 2: So now you're standing there with a low vibrational plate
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  Speaker 2: at the cookout and the red cup in your hand,
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  Speaker 2: and then what you're doing.
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  Speaker 4: So the thing was, he put me on this spot
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  Speaker 4: two thirty fifth in the city, so you know, her
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  Speaker 4: birthday came around. I took hell there, thinking, you know,
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  Speaker 4: so on and so forth, and like you say, a
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  Speaker 4: woman knows some man. So I found something like, nah,
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  Speaker 4: this had to have the next spot. I think, these
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  Speaker 4: people playing in my face and I actually deteriorated. That's
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  Speaker 4: the entire relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, he said, what's your relationship?
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  Speaker 4: It deteriorated the entire relationship, Like you guys broke up after.
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  Speaker 2: That because he started feeling played with. And that's the
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  Speaker 2: issue right there. I think when men omit things, or
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  Speaker 2: even women omit things you're thinking in the moment, I.
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  Speaker 3: Just don't even feel like the hassle.
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel like having to explained this is probably
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  Speaker 2: somebody you ain't even told that person about if y'allne
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  Speaker 2: went through the who's who's or whatever, right, whatever the.
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  Speaker 3: Case may be.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like, think about the long term damage that
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  Speaker 2: does to someone's mental Like if I'm thinking I can
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  Speaker 2: trust you like you're supposed to, like relationships are supposed
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  Speaker 2: to be.
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  Speaker 3: Like if I close my.
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  Speaker 2: Eyes and my ears right now and you take over
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  Speaker 2: the wheel of my car, I know I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 2: home safe.
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  Speaker 3: I can't trust you. My eyes and my ears closed.
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  Speaker 1: She knew y'all worked together.
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  Speaker 4: Rick and I work together.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I mean that your girl knew that y'all
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  Speaker 1: two work together.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm coming home, That's what I'm saying. I'm coming home.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm like, yeah, I'm homie at the job. Rick,
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  Speaker 4: you know told me about this spot. You know what
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  Speaker 4: I'm saying, a place to e He put me on
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  Speaker 4: thirty fifth in the city.
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  Speaker 1: Was going over there.
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  Speaker 2: She never said nothing, but when they walked in the
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  Speaker 2: spot he said that, she was like, wait, how do
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  Speaker 2: you know about this place? And she was putting the
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  Speaker 2: puzzle together but never said anything.
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  Speaker 4: Oh right, And she accepted the introduction as if it
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  Speaker 4: was her first time.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, no, oh my god.
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  Speaker 2: That I mean, I would already be pissed off. I
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  Speaker 2: don't like nothing omitted at all ever. But you act
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  Speaker 2: like you don't know the person. You might as well
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  Speaker 2: leave with them. I'm causing to see you right then
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  Speaker 2: and there.
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  Speaker 1: So how long after the introduction did that person come
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  Speaker 1: up and say, oh, y'all tore back together. That happened
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  Speaker 1: in like simultaneously.
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  Speaker 4: I was feel like too much.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, it wasn't too It was two months after
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: that that she told you or at that moment.
• 14:19
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, So I started a job in late March
• 14:21
  Speaker 4: and the cookout was a fourth of July cookout, So.
• 14:24
  Speaker 2: That incident happened two months after you started the job.
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: But that person who said to you, oh my god,
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: you guys are back together, that was right there in the.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: Moment, right right.
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: And then how long did it take her to tell
• 14:35
  Speaker 2: you the truth about everything?
• 14:37
  Speaker 4: She didn't? Once that happened, I was like, wait, what
• 14:39
  Speaker 4: you could tell about a look on her face that
• 14:41
  Speaker 4: it was like, oh, y'all got a history. And the
• 14:43
  Speaker 4: thing is that Marjou her birthday was April is April eighteenth.
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: He put me on somewhere to take her for her birthday.
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: That was what kind of introduced me telling her about him,
• 14:53
  Speaker 4: Like oh, yeah, you know what I'm saying, god Rick,
• 14:56
  Speaker 4: She's like, where are you learning about this from you?
• 14:57
  Speaker 4: This ain't even about me at word, bro named Rick,
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. This is the one I
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: was talking about. He cool, you know, he used to
• 15:04
  Speaker 4: do some work for me t in the city, and
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: he know all of these little spots And she was
• 15:08
  Speaker 4: like me t in the city, and when I started
• 15:10
  Speaker 4: saying yeah.
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: She definitely knew.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: You gave her every out to be like, babe, I
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: gotta talk to you.
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: I gotta and mind you always about her by accident.
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Did Rick ever tell you about any of his exes?
• 15:24
  Speaker 4: Not really, So how do you have to talk about
• 15:26
  Speaker 4: women in a lot? But he wouldn't name anyone in particular,
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: and so on and so forth.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Like so how deep were they to get? Like how
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: deep was their relationships together?
• 15:34
  Speaker 4: I never got into it. Once that happened, we just
• 15:37
  Speaker 4: kind of dissolved. She hit me for a little bit,
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: let me talk to you, and you know, I know,
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: a few calls, and then eventually we just phased out.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: You gotta know your partner.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: I'm not the person that you're going to just spring
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: that on right then and there because now the event
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: is over, Like now it's time to go home.
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: I am upset.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: But it also depends on how you handle it too,
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: and your interaction with the person. Like if I don't
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: feel like you did anything that was out of line
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: or you and act weird, I probably can still remain
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: cool and we can carry on our night. But if
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: you act weird, if there's anything that's making me wonder, well,
• 16:06
  Speaker 2: why you like acting like that?
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: Then now my mind is wandering.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: It's so many other things, and I'm not gonna be
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: able to compose my life, like my poker face ain't
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: that good. So but I think it's just the way
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: that I feel about things is as much as I
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: know to tell you, I'm gonna tell you. I feel like,
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: sometimes tell me, if you guys have been through this,
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: something might not be a big deal to you, or
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: maybe you briefly interacted with a person or briefly dated,
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: or maybe y'all DMed a little bit like nothing that
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: was worth it for real, and you don't mention that,
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: and then it comes back up and yeah, but I've
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: learned even stuff like that matters, especially if y'all are
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: working in the.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Same arenas or the same areas.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: I just rather put everything out there because I want
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: to know everything, Like I don't want no surprises.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: I have a very traumatic, you know X situation.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: So that was one of my rules, like be transparent
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: with me because it's hard to gain my trust once
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: I lose it, like it ruins the way I look
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: at you, in the way I respect you.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: You were like, you were dealing with somebody, and then
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: you can find out they dealt with somebody you're clothes with.
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: Definitely somebody that has happened to me. You've been through
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: the experience of being in a public place, being with
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: your person and somebody walk up the they used to
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: deal with And I literally just by the way that
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: he introduced her, he introduced us, and it was a
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: little I gave a little side hug and she was like, yeah,
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, thank you.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: She walked away. I said, so who that?
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Because I knew I could just tell by how his
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: body language shifted and he was shipped.
• 17:25
  Speaker 4: But yeah, like that happened to you as a woman.
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: Do you know from introduction by the way we speak
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: or the way we introduce someone that there's some history there, Yeah.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: One hundred percent.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I feel like men y'all will be trying to do
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: the right thing sometimes and still give it away, or
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: you're just not doing the right thing, like you're hiding something.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: But either way, you can always tell, like your voice changes,
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: your body language changes.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: And also if I've been with you, this.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Is not my first time where I'm with you and
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: you introduce me to someone of the opposite sex.
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: I can tell the difference like.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: I can just tell Yeah, I can watch people's interaction
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: just in a you know, an interviewer from across the room.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: But I also because of what I do for work,
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: I feel like I can read people's body language very
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: well in people's cues, like I can tell about how
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: you answer the phone that whoever on the other end
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: of the phone you didn't want to answer, you just
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: did it because I'm sitting right here.
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I can. I can definitely do that. The
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: energy of the call definitely leaks by the way you
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: communicate energy of the.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Call, or this would be the one, the energy of
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: the what this nigga want? No baby J I'd be like,
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: it's two am.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Call him back, Let's make sure he's okay. Yeah, all right,
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: thank you DJ. Also, we appreciate you for calling, you
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: for having me you okay, guys. So that has been
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: another episode of On the Line with Lauren L. Rosa,
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: which is, you know, where we bring all things pop
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: culture and entertainment, news and conversation to what the listeners
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: you want to talk to us about and what's actually
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: happening in real time. That we can also compare to
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: pop culture. Branded Here with us for another episode is fine,
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: and I feel like I'm.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: Being painted in a better light this time around.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all, so this has been another episode. I
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: tell you guys, every single episode, my low Riders.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: I appreciate you guys for being here with me.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Y'all could be anywhere with any old body talking about
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: all these things, which y'all choose to be here.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: I'll catch you in my next episode.