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Transmen can't have privilege, that would make them transwomen! Part 2 | Fundzerker 167 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Coming to you live from deep within a radioactive muddy wasteland. We are the
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  survivors of the alt right check apocalypse. The brave, the bitchy once more
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  are wading into battle against the froggy lobsters, zombie trans trans lobstery, horrors,
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  this hoards, horrors, hordes sole. So we need to get a
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  sound clip just of Karen saying, horrors, the hordes, horror people,
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  They're everywhere. Okay, we are this is Get a sound clip of Bill
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  Burr saying that, sorry, go on, this is this is rant Zerker
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  number one seventy seven sixty seven sixty seven. Oh I got ten too far,
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  ten ten too far in the future one sixty seven transmit and can't have
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  privilege that would make them trans women? Part two, where we once again
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  weighed into the swamps of the trans transis or where we you know, a
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  trans man explains to them, explains to all of us why they should be
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  deep platform and check their privilege because every trans person has male privilege. Are
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  the trans women had it before they transition to trans men habit after they transition.
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  Therefore, they are lower than sists women on the progressive stack and should
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  check their privilege, remove themselves from SIS women's spaces, and shut up when
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  SIS women speak. I'm just saying like, this is the logical consequence of
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  the logic being used by this trans man. Okay, you want male privilege,
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  then you shut up. Learn your place, take your privilege, learn
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  your place. You have no right to apply. You have no right to
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  expect anybody to care about your feelings, dude. You have no right to
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  speak on any issue before a woman has told you what your opinion is.
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  Bro, So enjoy all of that privilege of shutting up and listening to women
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  and doing exactly what they say. SIS women, guys, not not trans
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  women. You are now to listen to CIS women and that is all well,
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  I show over. If only people would listen to me, that would
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  be great. Yes, everybody should listen to Karen because she is the most
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  CIS of all the CIS women. I think, no, wait, not
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  really, not really, you know, not really and and you know,
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  and but I am the least kareny Karen. So M no, there you
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  got that going for you. So who would be the most CIS woman of
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  all THESISS women? Who is the queen of the intersectional stack? Uh?
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  Laura Bates. I don't know Parker Posey Posy Parker Parker Posey's great Posy Parker
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  is who I was trying to remember. Um um hmm, well I guess
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  we could we throw that to the audience. Who is the queen of the
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  progressive stack, who is the most cysts of all women? Who is the
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  one we should all be deferring to biological predetermined? Yeah? Yeah, yea.
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  out because my my neuroticism is getting triggered by all of this. Yeah,
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  she's very neurotic. Actually yeah, I don't deny that to per super neurotic.
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  It's it's actually almost unbearable. Okay, all right, I'll saying as
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  somebody you want to give Karen a break from my neuroticism, please go to
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  feed the Badger dot com so that would be great. Okay, let's get
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  started. Let's get started. I'm gonna go Karen. Are you in here?
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  Are you ready? I am watching? Okay, I'm gonna hit play
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  ass As a SIS straight man, there are still certain things he will go
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  through that assists man never will. Some of those things might include coming out
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  as trans facing, rejection from loved ones, losing housing, living at a
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  high risk for poverty, being more likely to be in an abusive relationship,
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  struggling to find quality and affirming healthcare meeting and wait what could you could you
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  stop? Okay, so SIS men are less likely to experience homelessness, being
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  rejected by their family, abusive relationship, abusive relationship. Maybe maybe I don't
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  know, rightologist, But they're saying it's SIS male privilege. So it's relative
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  to SIS women, this is male privilege. En he's literally saying. No,
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  he's say are more likely he's saying, he's saying compared to trans men.
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  Yeah, it's trans men versus SIS men. Yeah, but what they
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  say, needing uh what is a affirming healthcare? Sis men don't get that
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  because they're happy with the body they're born in. That's not a privilege.
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  So yeah, and I will say, I will say, you know,
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  there is that that thing, and it's a meme. It's a stereotype,
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  and it's It's true. Men are generally less likely to go to the doctor
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  over minor health complaints and things like that. Yeah, but that doesn't mean
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  that it's I mean, it doesn't mean that they can't if they need to.
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  It's just that men are less likely to, uh like go to the
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  doctor for every thing more likely to or or even sometimes big things. Um,
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  but you know, like it's it's just like, um, you know,
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  I don't know any women who stitched their own hand up. Yeah,
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  you know, But but I know a man who did it. He said
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  afterwards, I'm never doing that again. That was freaking stupid, right,
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  I know a guy who did his own appendoppendectomy appendectomy appendomese theotomy, yeah,
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  ad appendeologie homology. Why does the smallest part of our digestive tract got the
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  biggest name? Appendix? Yeah, appendix versus like intestine, Well intestine,
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  Yeah, appendix is kind of like a big word for such a small thing,
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  I guess. Yeah, but it doesn't sound dirty like you velo coxus,
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  I don't, I don't care appendix. Yeah, it just just sounds
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  like a really verbose It sounds like that section at the back of the book
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  that nobody reads. Yeah, that's what a verbose final statement by an author
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  who can't end their thought. There you go. But yeah, but the
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  appendix is apparently Apparently, the appendix is valuable. Though, Yes, it
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  has all the it has biotics, like yeah, all your all your friendly
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  gut bacteria, just like like to live in there and and reproduce in there
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  and and like help your digestion and shit. So if you haven't removed,
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  you're probably going to be fine. But just like the spleen, you know
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  you can live without a spleen. We're thinking of having my husband's spleen removed,
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  you know, splenectomy. Um, yeah, because if it sounds splendiferous,
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  Yeah, it's super splendid. Yeah, No, is spleen is very
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  splend it. It's like it's infiltrated with like abnormal mast cells and yeah no,
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  so it's like that's one. I think his liver is too, but
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  you can't really get rid of that, especially the way he drinks. But
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  um, okay, yeah no, but it's it's like, yeah, no,
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  it's sometimes it's it's better to get rid of your appendix than keep it.
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  But all things considered, if it doesn't give you any problems, you
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  probably want to hang onto that thing. Yes, you probably want to hang
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  onto that thing, um, because it's it's sort of valuable. But the
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  overall point was I know a man who had apple delucty apple decision rum.
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  But he did it because he was the only doctor. And I think the
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  Antarctic run a trip to the Antarctic, and he got appendicitis, so he
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  had to freaking have a surgery on himself. Like holy crap, Well I
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  think he probably had. He probably had like, um anesthetic. Yes,
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  imagine cutting into your own stomach. I mean, I know I've already done
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  that today and tied my intestines and notts. But just just imagine for a
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  moment if I had anesthetic, I could totally do that. You know,
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  you know we're in the weeds, right, yes, I know, I
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  know we're very much in the weeds. But you know what, consider where
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  we started. We started in the weeds because this this man, this man.
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  Yeah, it's all weeds. Um, it's like running through a field
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  of weeds. But um, I wanted to say that when when they say
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  that there's uh, you know, like higher I guess more at risk for
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  uh inner personal violence. Um, that doesn't sound like it's men's fault.
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  And men also have to deal with it. And plus men don't get taken
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  seriously when they do. But it could be an issue within the culture of
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  the aspects of the LGBTQ like population. So there is a lot of dysfunction
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  in the relationships. There are a lot of comorbidities, psychological comorbidities that go
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  along with gender dysphoria. Yeah, you know, like there was just a
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  recent study done. It was actually it was done in it was published in
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  twenty nineteen, but it was recently corrected, and it found that there really
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  was no Like, they looked at hormonal transition and surgical transition, and once
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  they actually the authors reanalyzed their data and and did the work properly, they
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  found that there was actually no significant improvement in mental health outcome for either hormonal
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  or surgical transition. It was it was quite the correction that they had to
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  make. So yeah, because and it's just because these are people who are
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  you know, the outcomes that they were measuring were um use of psycho psycho
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  psychological psychological drugs like antidepressants, anti anxiety meds, right, um, yeah,
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  and also visits to psychologists, psychiatrists, mental health professionals need for therapy,
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  and then on top of that, visits to hospital after suicide attempts,
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  and so basically there was no improvement. That's really interesting because you know,
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  and this is just one one case study, but I know from our community
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  there was a young man who originally identified as a woman or was in the
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  process of transitioning, and as a result of just listening to what we had
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  to say about masculinity and the fact that it's a good thing, he became
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  more comfortable with being a man, decided to go back to identifying as a
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  man, managed to move out of his parents house and get a job,
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  and now his mental health situation has significantly improved. So maybe what they should
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  do is they should do hormone therapy, surgery, no intervention, and actually
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  telling, for example, young men that their masculinity is a good thing and
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  beneficial to society and see which of the four sees significant improvements. Yeah,
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  no, logically yeah. And also young women tell young women want a victim
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  of society, and actually the people who you are more you know, instinctually
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  keyed to want Like I think that if women are evolved to need men's protection
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  and provision to a degree, and that doesn't mean that women are useless,
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  but it does mean that they're evolved to want to have it and to feel
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  protected and provided for to a degree. Um, if they're evolved, then
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  it's absolutely horrific to tell people who are evolved to need that that they are
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  hated despised by the people who provide that. That's like that, that is
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  a psychological torture being inflicted on young women. And I mean it's okay if
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  we're just like you can be whatever you want. You don't have to be
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  with a man. But maybe don't tell them that the world is in a
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  war against them and men hate them and want to oppress them. Just don't
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  tell them how men have everything wonderful too, right, And that's the thing,
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  right, because it might tell if we just tell young women, you
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  know, men don't hate you, society doesn't hate you. You can do
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  what you want. You can have fun doing it. You have nothing to
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  prove, You don't have to break down the barriers and anything. Just do
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  what you like, enjoy yourself, enjoy your life, make a family,
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  don't make a family, have a career, don't have a career, raised
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  children, whatever. Enjoy your life. Men, you'll probably find a man
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  who will help you do that, you know, and you can construct a
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  good life for yourself. As a woman. You don't have to carry this
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  burden of persecution, and men, you don't have to carry this burden of
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  guilt and do that and see what kind of outcome you have by telling troubled
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  young people that instead of what you tell them now. Yeah, it's like
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  my mom. My mom was a tomboy. And you know, when she
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  was growing up, and this would be back in the fifties, she she
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  was you know, she she did feel at times, you know, oh,
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  god, I wish I was a boy. I really wish I was
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  a boy, right, because at that time, you know, boys and
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  girls were quite you know in terms of how their opportunities and the things that
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  they that were frowned on and the things that were smiled on, you know,
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  like playing with dolls versus playing with trucks, right, you know,
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  and things like that a little more a little more regimented. And she she
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  always was more interested in the boy things and the boy activities and stuff.
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  And so there were times when she actually like kind of wished she was a
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  boy. Nobody came up to her and said, you know what, you
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  could actually be a boy. She just figured out a way to be the
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  woman she wanted, which is the woman who screeds concrete in a bikini and
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  rubber boots. Right, That's that's the woman she wanted to be. That's
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  the woman she became. UM. When I was growing up, my mom,
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  of course, was a tomboy, and my dad was a very masculine
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  mechanic, was a heavy duty mechanic, and he was very handy and all
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  of that, and he had three daughters, no sons, and I was
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  very interested in boy things, and he was like, he was just like,
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  that's so cool. There's somebody to hold my flashlight while well, and
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  I can show her how a carburetor works, and you know, and all
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  of that stuff. And so it was. It was just like I had
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  free reign to be whoever the hell I wanted, absolutely free reign to be
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  the girl that I wanted to be, which was not a very feminine girl.
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  It was not a very girly girl. And I never had any gender
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  confusion because hey, I can be whatever kind of girl I want to be.
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  Yeah, right, But that's not now we're like going all the way,
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  We're regressing all the way back and into these stereotypical categories where if you
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  are if you have any kind of feminine flair as a boy, or you
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  know, like you like to polish your nails or something like that, or
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  you think you know hairstyles are you know, are cool and you might want
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  to be a beautician, you know, versus if you're a girl and you
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  like power tools. Right, Oh no, no, no, then you're
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  actually the opposite gender, right, you know, you're not actually a boy,
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  you're not actually a girl. Have you Have you thought about transitioning?
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  And it's like no, no, I haven't, and and I never did
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  because nobody suggested that to me. But maybe if somebody had, when I
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  was five years old, an adult into a position of trust, had planted
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  that idea in my head, I might have grown up really confused. UM.
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  And I have a sort of I was always sort of masculine too growing
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  up UM as a girl, I actually did have a bit of UM.
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  I wouldn't say like full on gender dysphoria, but there was a period of
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  time where I thought, you know, if I wasn't short and would have
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  made like the shortest ugliest man on earth, you know, that would be
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  something that I would pursue. But then you either just move on and find
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  something else to take some self esteem from, or you just obsess on it.
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  And I can tell you that if you obsess on something and you think,
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  oh, if I get this thing, then I'll be perfect. It
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  never works out, It just does not work out. No, I always
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  wanted a gymnasts body. You know, teeny tiny boobs, nice tight,
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  freaking muscular, but you know, muscles all out everywhere, low body fat,
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  you know, super compact, can tumble all those things, right,
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  I wanted that. I wanted to be that. I was like, shoo
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  shanova, so freaking hot. I would I would kill to have that body.
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  Yeah. I'm never going to be five foot two. I'm never gonna
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  not be tall and lanky. Yeah, and I'm never going to have a
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  straight back because I broke my back when I was eight years old, No,
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  ten years old. I was, Yeah, I was in grade.
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  Like honestly, you know, to be honest, I did figure something out
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  when I was because this is when I was in my late teens. If
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  I had been a late teenager now or a teenager now, I probably would
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  have been sucked into one of these things. Oh this transition shit. But
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  what actually happened is I met up with Jonathan, and in pursuing a relationship,
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  you know, you become in some ways, if it's a good relationship,
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  you become more comfortable with yourself, you know, and more comfortable with
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  who you are. Yeah, and it's really unfortunate that this this, this
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  this generation, it feels like relationships are just off the table for them.
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  Oh because a lot of being female or feeling female or feeling male is because
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  you're in a relationship with the opposite sex, you know. You know.
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  Also, you know there's a lot of there's a lot of something to be
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  said about, you know, being with somebody in a relationship. You know.
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  I've come to terms with being an old bitch, you know. And
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  the reason why is because my husband doesn't mind that I'm an old bitch.
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  Yeah, you know. And and and it's like, no, he still
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  loves he's He's like, I still love you, old bitch. And uh.
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  And think about the girl like who we watched yes yesterday, Brian showed
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  us the girl who cut her breasts off, And I mean, fine,
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  she looks she has that she went that body that you Yeah, she went
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  through the whole transition that a trans man goes through, but wanted to stay
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  identifying as a woman because she wanted to Yeah, yeah, stick it to
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  mint, stick it to the man. Okay, she's attractive. Now she's
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  a young. She's a young woman. She's attractive to a degree. I
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  mean, she's I guess she would have been really attractive if she didn't do
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  all that to herself. Yeah, if she just had tiny right, you
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  know, she would have been like super hot. Okay, but Brian,
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  do you really want to be anywhere near that level of rat's nest? No?
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  No, I know that's the problem. I think, like if she
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  was like if she was like a stable human beings, So yeah, like
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  a quez My point is, and she's she's fine now, oh now put
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  on another forty years. Oh yeah to that, Yeah, that's she's not
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  going to be. She's going to be one hell of a miserable person.
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  She's in her sixties and seventies. I'm gonna think about it, like,
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  once you're in that, once you're that old, what you have to rely
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  on is your personality, your um, what you've how you've helped relationship in
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  your life, your relationships that you've built, the community that you're a part
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  of. And look, she's going right out of the gate and with a
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  huge chip on her shoulder. Oh yeah, alien eating half of the human
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  race, And honestly, what kind of woman does she think? She's going
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  to attract. If she's like I did this to myself to own men,
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  she's going to attract the same kind of woman. And I know from seeing
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  these relationships they are on pleasant. There's no sense of loyalty. Like if
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  you're if you're in a relationship to make a political statement, yeah, you
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  are abusing your partner right off the bat, because you're not with them as
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  a person with them political statement. Okay, So she's going to be finding
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  relationships their political statements. They're not going to last. Probably they're going to
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  be They're going to be characterized by huge amounts of abuse an aggression, you
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  know, because generally people who need a group of people to hate on not
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  just okay those behaviors aren't really functional, but genuinely I hate this group of
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  people. I don't see them as human generally. They they don't just hate
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  on them, they also hate period. And if you're close to that,
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  you're going to be in the in the blast zone. So I'm just like,
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  look at this this kid, she's not pursuing anything that's going to make
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  it easier for her to age gracefully. I'm looking at all, well,
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  these women who are going through this these transmitt supposed to transmitt. Think about
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  forty years from now, when you're no longer cute, you're just some old
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  skinny dude or maybe old fat dude that nobody gives a fuck about. Mm
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  hmm. Jesus. Yeah. No. I look at my my older sister,
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  right, she was in the military. Um and she she was actually
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  a gymnast, and she has the body's five foot I think four and has
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  the body and the just that that body type that suits gymnastics, and and
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  uh and she she still she's six years older than me. I'm fifty two,
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  so she's fifty eight. She still does the the um, the chin
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  up um hank and does the leg lifts from a position. She can still
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  do that, and I'm just like, holy crap. But then I look
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  at it and I'm like, I wish I could do that, and it's
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  like, no, but I can't because my body actually just is not It's
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  not your strength. It's just that when you're lean and tall, Yeah,
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  you just is not as good even though you don't have the torque. A
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  tall guy actually struggles more with that than a short guy with a really strong
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  trap pieces. I think that's yeah, that's why even male gymnasts tend to
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  be short, right, they just do right, um, male contortionists,
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  male acrobats, male, female, male and female. Anybody who does tumbling
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  or gymnastics or you know is insert disallay. Right. Generally they're not tall
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  and thin or tall and lean. They're generally short compact, right, And
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  oh my god, Karen, this sounds like some biological essentialism. How care
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  is particular body types are suited for particular things, you know, And and
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  I suppose I could transition to shortness. I could have a couple of vertebrae
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  removed, the broken ones maybe, and then you know, and then have
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  my limbs shortened, and and transition to the you should always be we should
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  just remove vertebrae and then have really long limbs. You look like a spaghetti
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  person. Yeah, no, that would. I'd be the opposite of my
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  husband, because he's like, he's like this Ukrainian. He's like completely genetically
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  Ukrainian. Basically he's got like the body of someone who's six foot four and
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  the legs of someone who's five foot seven. Same with his arms, right,
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  he's all torso, oh he is he is. It's it's like when
• 28:00
  it's like when he's driving because we only have one car now, um,
• 28:04
  and it's a it's a nineteen ninety three te Bird, and he gets in
• 28:10
  the driver's seat to drive it, and he has like the most miserable time
• 28:15
  trying to get his the seat far enough forward so he can reach the pedals.
• 28:21
  Okay, but the back reclined enough so that his head isn't like crushed
• 28:26
  against the roof. H Yeah, wow, that sounds really awkward, Just
• 28:36
  as awkward as this guy's speech about being a transman. Well, there you
• 28:41
  go, Okay, but he's like, ultimately, again, I have to
• 28:44
  just get back to this. What is this guy trying to do, because
• 28:47
  basically what he's doing is saying, well, trans men and trans women are
• 28:51
  below siss women on the on the progressive stack, as long as he doesn't
• 28:55
  have male privilege. I think that's the goal. The goal is to basically
• 28:59
  say, look, I may be a man, but I don't have male
• 29:03
  privilege because no, no, but he's saying he does have male privilege.
• 29:07
  Yeah, he's saying he does have male privilege as a trans man. It's
• 29:10
  just not as much as assists man. It's not that puts I think that
• 29:15
  the idea is not about where women have to sit in this person's mind,
• 29:19
  because that he can be a woman if he wants to, if if the
• 29:23
  if the need, you know, if the situation calls for it, but
• 29:26
  to essentially just put men like make sure that men remain in the oppressor role
• 29:33
  like in every yeah, possible, every combination. What I'm saying, what
• 29:37
  I'm saying is right here, right now. This man, by appealing to
• 29:41
  male privilege or trying to enforce mail privilege and contend with male privilege in the
• 29:47
  context of who he is, he is basically arguing that trans men have male
• 29:52
  privilege, and by trance like just extending inferring from that, trans women also
• 29:57
  have male privilege, so like they're only half privilege, half male privilege assists
• 30:02
  men has full male privilege, trans women trans men maybe have some variation between
• 30:07
  half and full male privilege. And then there's women sis women who are once
• 30:11
  again right on the top of the victim hierarchy, yeah or looking down on
• 30:15
  everyone else and prognosticating on their worth. JK. Rowling recently said that we're
• 30:22
  living through the most misogynistic era that she can remember, And I'm just like
• 30:27
  well shit, Well thanks to people like you, one of those fifth wave
• 30:33
  she's one of those fifth wave feminists, you've no shit? Yeah, Like,
• 30:41
  and where was she when everybody was destroying, uh, the idea of
• 30:45
  biology when it benefited women. Yeah, Like, if if we kept to
• 30:52
  the understanding that men and women are different, ye, then there's there's it
• 30:57
  just annihilates the whole quitty conversation. Yep, yep, because the men are
• 31:03
  different, and go ahead. And the funny thing is is that they are
• 31:08
  different. If you look like I wish these individuals who insist there's no biological
• 31:15
  component to gender. Look at animals. Male and female. Animal behavior is
• 31:19
  always distinctly different. In fact, society, human society is an averaging factor
• 31:26
  compared to how different animals are behavior male and female. Yeah, even even
• 31:32
  in animals where there's no uh, there are no physiological sort of phenotypical differences,
• 31:38
  like birds that male and the female look the same, and uh,
• 31:42
  you know New World monkeys where the male and the female or the same size
• 31:45
  and they look exactly the same. You have to like actually zoom into their
• 31:49
  genitals to know, you know, um, And even within those cases where
• 31:56
  there's really very little physical sexual dia orphism. The behaviors are completely different now,
• 32:04
  I mean, and often even though though the behaviors are different, they
• 32:07
  may still come together to raise the offspring. But and that's the thing like
• 32:13
  in the in the wild Kingdom and the animal kingdom, and we are still
• 32:15
  animals. We haven't become beings pure light left. Yet we still have those
• 32:21
  different instinctual drives. And one thing that's really different is men tend to have
• 32:28
  larger and less viciously um patrolled territories and women have smaller territories, but they're
• 32:37
  extremely aggressive about keeping them to themselves. And that's that's a female trait in
• 32:44
  general. But you know, and moving on the people who say that my
• 32:47
  dog, the people who say that there's no biological component. Back then,
• 32:53
  when there was all of these benefits, like women were salivating at the buffet
• 32:59
  of things that they would have access to because there was no biological restriction,
• 33:05
  right all right, Yeah, now they're they're they've come to the the the
• 33:14
  pay the check they now have to pay for this. Yeah, come to
• 33:20
  the logical conclusion. And J and J. K. Rowling is squealing and
• 33:25
  it's like, oh, yeah, well you constructed this, You constructed it.
• 33:30
  Yeah, this was the end game. Oh no, it's it's like
• 33:34
  um, oh, who is it Terry Brennan on Twitter? Right, you
• 33:38
  know when he's when like women are complaining about people like Leah Thomas, you
• 33:44
  know, uh having access to the women's locker rooms. Yeah, and and
• 33:54
  so like okay, so Leah Thomas as well around with her nick out and
• 34:05
  okay, but but you guys were celebrating like back in the nineteen seventies when
• 34:10
  the first female journalists were allowed access to the locker rooms of you know,
• 34:16
  baseball players and football players and stuff. Right like you you were like,
• 34:22
  oh, you know, like this is this is like a victory for women.
• 34:28
  And it's like, well, okay, so if a journalist is fine
• 34:34
  with men walking around half naked or fully naked, then why aren't these swim
• 34:43
  team members also fine walking around, you know with where there's men with their
• 34:50
  dicks hanging out, right like or biological males with their dicks hanging out.
• 34:55
  And and it's just like no, you like, like I keep on saying,
• 35:00
  they're like, oh, look at this box. It says Pandora on
• 35:06
  it, And you know, thirty years later they're like, oh, what's
• 35:08
  with all these floods and earthquakes. We didn't ask for this. Yeah,
• 35:15
  they opened the box. Yeah, there was a whole hallabluh. I remember
• 35:20
  it like fifteen years ago about women getting access to men's change rooms sports anchors.
• 35:28
  It's like, okay, so it's okay for women to wander around with
• 35:30
  a bunch of jocks in a men's change room, but one dude, like
• 35:37
  one trans woman can't go into women's rooms. Like what do you think?
• 35:40
  What do you think the trans woman's gonna do? Like seriously, Well,
• 35:45
  apparently, according to someone on Twitter, Leah Thomas was walking around with an
• 35:51
  erection and I'm like, yeah, that's involuntary. Yeah, so who played?
• 35:55
  And also, like, again, women fought for the ability to go
• 36:00
  into men's walker rooms. What are you going to see there after a game?
• 36:05
  Men walking around naked or in towels to potentially with a rect And apparently
• 36:09
  you're also going to see some female sportscasters shlicking in a corner. Oh oh
• 36:16
  god, damn, it's just a grotesque like and wouldn't that even be more
• 36:21
  dangerous for women? Oh? Yeah, one one female journalist in a room
• 36:25
  with like twenty freaking naked guys a lot of pay, yeah, as opposed
• 36:31
  to like one trans woman, you know. And the funny thing is the
• 36:36
  is the conservatives' sorry, and also the turfs they always go for, like
• 36:40
  the trans Hilda, the trans Hilda, the woman he's like six foot four
• 36:46
  or and two hundred pounds. I have never met this person in my life.
• 36:51
  And I have met a lot of trans women, or a fair amount,
• 36:52
  like uh four or five now, yeah, most of them, you
• 36:59
  know, most of them. I could probably paunch out. I'm like most
• 37:07
  most trends women, most treads women generally understand that you know how to put
• 37:15
  it. In my experience, they don't tend to be huge men. Well,
• 37:20
  yeah, agreed, But I think I think what you're missing too is
• 37:24
  um is. I don't think any conservatives have actually based I don't think any
• 37:37
  conservatives would complain that that Farren Meyer or Blair White would use the women's restroom
• 37:45
  at a bar or a hotel, right. I don't think that they would
• 37:50
  object to that, right, because these are these are trends. Women who
• 37:54
  passes, women who behave like women who go into the restroom where they feel
• 38:01
  comfortable, where they look like they fit in, and they go and act
• 38:07
  like women in there and then they come out and you know, and everything's
• 38:13
  fine, right. But I think what most conservatives were concerned about is this
• 38:19
  idea that, you know, with a one hour doctor's appointment, like Lauren
• 38:24
  Southern did, you can get your gender changed on your driver's license. Doctor
• 38:30
  you've never met, You go in, you talk to them for an hour,
• 38:36
  and everyone embrace this brave new world. Yeah yeah, well okay,
• 38:40
  and you can get your driver's license gender changed and then you have access and
• 38:45
  so or what has come even since then when she pulled that stunt, is
• 38:54
  that all you have to do now is say, well I entify as a
• 39:00
  woman today, right, and you can get in and so you like,
• 39:05
  there are bad people out there, Allison, there are bad people out there
• 39:08
  who will take advantage of a wide open thing. It's like when you put
• 39:15
  when you put the bull of Halloween candy on the porch with a little sign
• 39:19
  that says take two. You know, everybody take two. Yeah, No,
• 39:24
  somebody's going to come along and dump the entire bull in their bag and
• 39:30
  take off. Right. Well, you know, if we had proper controls
• 39:35
  over women's sexual violence, this wouldn't be an issue. But the other thing
• 39:37
  is that I could see, you know, a guy petitioning for custody to
• 39:42
  say, you know what, your honor, I'm a woman today. Yeah.
• 39:45
  Oh no, there was a dude in Israel who did that. I
• 39:50
  think it was an Israel modern modern times called from modern changed. He changed
• 39:55
  his on all of his idea, he changed his identity to female. And
• 40:02
  I think it was Israel. Jesus Argentina Art might have been there, yeah,
• 40:09
  yeah, in order to get to be able to get custody of his
• 40:14
  kids. And it's like, well it's a illegal loophole now, okay,
• 40:17
  but here's here I will say this. Okay, one, I understand conservatives
• 40:24
  concern, but there's been a hell of a lot more injustice in the world
• 40:28
  than that. I think that for me, that's really minimal. And not
• 40:32
  only that, but if people were had already recognized and put in place controls
• 40:39
  on women's sexual violence, this wouldn't be an issue in the first place,
• 40:45
  because it's not like trans women would get away with anything by being women,
• 40:50
  because women wouldn't be getting away with anything by being women. So it's like,
• 40:54
  you know, and the thing is that I have fought to try to
• 40:58
  explain all this shit to people, um to say, you're just you're gonna
• 41:04
  you're running into a situation where people are not going they're gonna hate being male
• 41:07
  hating female for these reasons. And what has happened, like we just get
• 41:13
  shit and more ship and discriminated against in the utube algorithm, which I'm almost
• 41:17
  certain it happens now, and and it's like we get kicked out of conventions.
• 41:24
  I got kicked out of the US MOT maybe not from that specifically,
• 41:28
  just for being weird, but you know, like this is this is,
• 41:31
  this is our experience. So you know, it's like you tell people don't
• 41:38
  don't, don't don't open the box. You know, maybe maybe close it
• 41:43
  now that you've opened it, all Okay, you're opening it wider, all
• 41:45
  right. Oh you're taking the lid off so it can't be closed, all
• 41:49
  right, all right, well yeah that I guess The only way is for
• 41:53
  the thing that comes out of the box to stop, to take away your
• 41:58
  control over it, and then we can just fucking put the lid back on.
• 42:01
  Yeh. I know that analogy is tortured, but there you go.
• 42:06
  At this point, it's like we just got to ride this to the end.
• 42:09
  At this point, and because the people conclusion, because the people with
• 42:16
  their control over the lid are not closing it. And every time you say
• 42:22
  you need to close it, they call you a misogynist transphobe. Yeah,
• 42:27
  and everybody who's who's against having the lid open and you say, well,
• 42:31
  we got to close the lid, and then they call you a misogynist who
• 42:35
  hates women and possibly an insult or a biological essentialist or a biological essentialist,
• 42:42
  or alternatively, they continue to a woman is the one who's responsible for opening
• 42:47
  Pandora's box. The conservatives are like, how dare you not respect women by
• 42:52
  pointing that out? This is where it's coming from. These are the people
• 42:58
  we need to get to get them to get their freaking hands off the lid
• 43:02
  so we can close it, or at least teach women that they need to
• 43:07
  close the box. But conservatives are like, no, you're being mean to
• 43:10
  the women. The angel in the house would never open the box. Where
• 43:15
  is this whyet men are doing this? I got a super chat and I
• 43:22
  think we should keep going. And I but first the super chat, so
• 43:28
  Dean Domino gives us nineteen ninety nine and says, I'm not sure we'll be
• 43:32
  able to escape blaming men, even a bunch of Mike Towels I've listened to
• 43:37
  say feminism was handed everything by simps, that is men, Therefore simps are
• 43:43
  the problem. Women will only change if simps stopped protecting them. Well,
• 43:49
  yeah, okay, I will I will say this all right. Yes,
• 43:53
  I've noticed that make cow tends to continue to put the agency back on men.
• 43:58
  I think the only group of people who doesn't do that or men's are
• 44:00
  as activists. Ironically, yeah, we don't do that here. I mean,
• 44:12
  Karen might you know like I don't. I don't put the onus back
• 44:15
  on men. I actually think that women, actually women owe men a massive
• 44:22
  freaking apology and uh and some support, because you know, men have gone
• 44:30
  along with what women want, every crazy idea, yeah, every stupid,
• 44:37
  crazy, self destructive. It's almost like the imploding idea. You know,
• 44:42
  men are like, oh, sure, sounds good, you know, like
• 44:45
  no, like eventually, eventually men are going to have to put their foot
• 44:52
  down or just walk away. Yeah, not just be walking away. That
• 44:58
  doesn't Yeah, well, I mean because I guess that's a part of footing,
• 45:01
  putting your foot down. Sorry, yeah, well it definitely is it's
• 45:05
  a way of putting your foot down is to put it down in the other
• 45:08
  direction and just keep going. But the way that I said, and I
• 45:15
  was, I just finished watching Bloody town Hall, which I which I we
• 45:21
  put through the the discord, so I'm ody, we'll do a little bit
• 45:23
  of plugs. So we some we every weekend we do videos movies through the
• 45:29
  discord. It's in the screening room which is accessible through the free free area,
• 45:32
  so we're not nobody's charged for this. You can come and watch them.
• 45:36
  And so if you want to join us, it's a badger nation down
• 45:37
  online. But today we will I put through um Bloody town Hall, which
• 45:44
  was a bunch of feminists, um talking to Oh Norman Mailer, Norman Mailers,
• 45:52
  Odd Norman Mailer, Yeah, crazy guy but regardless, he actually had
• 45:59
  some some good singers. But I'm watching this and I'm thinking, you know,
• 46:04
  it's this this passive influence that women have over men's identities. It's like,
• 46:10
  you know, men, men's identities are like their peacock's tail, and
• 46:15
  the peacocks doesn't have its tail because you know, peacocks were just like you
• 46:19
  know, why don't I make a handle for predators to eat me with.
• 46:23
  Yeah, yeah, they did it because something that keeps me from like taking
• 46:27
  off and flying away very well. And yeah, let me make I want
• 46:31
  to look awkward and flashy because you know, gosh darnett, I'm living too
• 46:36
  easily. I need some excitement in my life. I never want to be
• 46:39
  able to change attire. Yeah, so, I mean the peacock's tail comes
• 46:45
  from the mate selection of the peahan. So the pehan is deciding it's not
• 46:52
  passively I guess it's actively putting this pressure on peacocks to evolve that tail.
• 46:58
  And I'm like thinking, this is this is what human women do, except
• 47:01
  men's human men's tail, their tail is their identity, and their identity is
• 47:09
  how they exploit any particular environment to create resources. You get what I'm saying,
• 47:15
  Like, if you're in if you're in like the Far North, and
• 47:21
  you you wail in order to get resources, that's what your identity is going
• 47:24
  to be about. As a men, That's what you're going to be defining
• 47:28
  yourself by in getting those resources. If you're in sub Saharan actric, you're
• 47:32
  going to be defining yourself by tubers in honey or whatever. You know,
• 47:36
  so these men define themselves. They have these identity based on what the resources
• 47:40
  they can and they can gather in any particular environment, which makes humans really
• 47:45
  flexible in terms of what resources they can exploit. And women are applying this
• 47:52
  kind of passive pressure constantly to men to develop these identities to manage certain environments
• 47:58
  modern environments still, oracle environments, ancient environments, you know. And I'm
• 48:02
  like watching this bloody town hall and I'm like, okay, so these women
• 48:06
  are going to be applying the passive pressure on men to involve this new identity,
• 48:10
  right, except it's totally fucked like it is. It is. It
• 48:15
  is a self contradictory mess that doesn't make any sense. Like there's no there's
• 48:22
  nothing with the feminist context context of masculinity that allows men to develop a positive
• 48:30
  identity through exploiting any kind of resource or developing any kind of cooperative endeavor.
• 48:35
  Nothing. So they're just passively pushing men into self destruction anyway. It just
• 48:43
  it just I just thought about that. It just came to me, you
• 48:45
  know, and um I put it out there, I hand it to all
• 48:50
  of you to to conjecture upon. Well, all right, so that was
• 48:55
  the thing Okay, I can't say you're wrong. All right, let's go.
• 49:01
  We got six minutes until arm twisting. Offensive surgery is to feel at
• 49:07
  home in one's body, not feeling safe traveling, needing to amend every legal
• 49:10
  document under the sun to avoid scrutiny from bartenders, bankers, ts agents,
• 49:15
  and anyone else who needs to see legal forms of identification. Huh oh damn
• 49:24
  again, Like there's this presumption that men never have to deal with any of
• 49:29
  this ever. Well, yeah, that was my point. I will say.
• 49:34
  I will say that, you know, when you get married and you
• 49:37
  change your surname to your husband's name, there's a lot of rigmarole that goes
• 49:44
  along with that. So um and uh. And then like that's why I
• 49:51
  didn't ever change my married name back to my maiden name is because it was
• 49:57
  just too much freaking trouble. But and if I had, then I would
• 50:02
  have a different last name than my kids, and so if we were traveling
• 50:07
  together, it would be like, oh, it's like a big question,
• 50:12
  and so yeah, I know, it was just like I uh, but
• 50:20
  you know, like you could you could still use your same ID, just
• 50:25
  get your photo updated. Yeah, right, and you could use your same
• 50:34
  name and your same ID. As long as the photo looks like you,
• 50:37
  now, nobody's gonna nobody's going to reject you. Yep. Like there are
• 50:50
  plenty of men who kind of look like women and plenty of women who kind
• 50:52
  of look like men. Sure. Yeah. Also, there's a huge privilege
• 50:59
  that this try man has that men don't. Doesn't have to register for selective
• 51:02
  service. Yeah, that's true. He doesn't have to lose his life,
• 51:07
  his well being, give up his future to go to protect society and people
• 51:10
  who are more valuable than he is. That's really what it is, guys.
• 51:15
  Here's when men are expected to do that. They're expected to sacrifice their
• 51:19
  lives for people whose society considers more valuable. Don't turn around and fucking tell
• 51:23
  me there's people who are expect sacrifice the lives are considered more valuable than the
• 51:28
  people they're expected to sacrifice their lives for. Okay, here's a thought.
• 51:32
  Okay, so trans men don't have to register for selective service even I guess
• 51:40
  even if they transition before they turn the age of eighteen, of which you
• 51:45
  know, like that's starting to happen, or twenty five, which is you
• 51:51
  have to you have to register before you buy your before your twenty sixth birthday.
• 51:58
  Well when I was, when I was a kid, it was eighteen.
• 52:00
  I remember that. No, No, it's it's it's you. You're
• 52:04
  supposed to register at eighteen. Oh, but like you have until you're twenty
• 52:07
  five, you have until you're twenty five, until the day before you're twenty
• 52:13
  sixth birthday to do it before the penalties kick it. Okay, well I
• 52:16
  did it when I was eighteen, but anyway, so um so yeah,
• 52:22
  So trans men don't have to do it even if they transition before the due
• 52:28
  time or whatever. And trans women do. I know I would be.
• 52:35
  I didn't look it up, but I doubt that if if a man transitions
• 52:38
  into a woman before they turn eighteen, no he does, they still have
• 52:43
  to register, right she. Trans woman has to register with Selective Service.
• 52:46
  It doesn't matter your current genitals or your current status. What matters is what
• 52:52
  you were born at birth. Right. And I don't see the trans community
• 52:55
  and getting arm up in arms over that. I don't. I don't either,
• 53:02
  because it might actually reveal some inequities. Oh really, Yeah, I've
• 53:14
  been arguing. So I've been arguing feminists about the issue of conscription, and
• 53:22
  they keep like the individual I was arguing with kept needling me about, well,
• 53:28
  what how do you want to solve this? And I said, that's
• 53:30
  beyond my expertise because I don't know how to solve it. But what I
• 53:36
  want to see is I want to see people stop ignoring this injustice so they
• 53:44
  can continue to believe that women were oppressed in the past. Yeah, want
• 53:47
  people to update their attitudes about the past and their attitudes about men based on
• 53:53
  the fact that men, even if even if it was men deciding to send
• 53:57
  men, men have to do this. They have to sacrifice themselves for people
• 54:04
  who society has deemed more valuable and they've had to And also they have never
• 54:09
  had a say in a society where they weren't willing to do that. Okay,
• 54:14
  you know, you know why people got started to get so pissed at
• 54:17
  nobles, you know in France, because they were no longer fighting. Well,
• 54:23
  they were exempt from all of those obligations, right, Well they were
• 54:29
  no, no, no, they weren't exempt from obligations. Here's how it
• 54:30
  worked. In the past. Nobles were expected to mount defense of their territories.
• 54:39
  Yes, then then that was an obligation yeah, that was an obligation
• 54:45
  that they had to defend their lands. Then we start getting more closer and
• 54:49
  closer to the modern era, and places are a lot more peaceful, you
• 54:53
  know, they're a lot more settled, and nobles are no longer going out
• 54:58
  there and defending shit. So everybody's like, well, what what, what's
• 55:01
  your purpose? Why why do you exist? Like you you no longer provide
• 55:07
  this value? And what ends up happening, you know, they get their
• 55:10
  heads cut off because they're no longer useful as warriors, at least the male
• 55:15
  ones and female no ones never were, so they ended up being just defuncted,
• 55:21
  like, you know, you're not used, You're not useful to us
• 55:23
  anymore, so fuck off that. But the reason why nobility was given that
• 55:29
  say was because they were available to defend the lands they had to say over,
• 55:34
  or had they had dominion over. That's it. Once they weren't,
• 55:37
  the peasants were like, yeah, we don't need you, goodbye, chop.
• 55:40
  You know this, this is this is the way it worked. Yeah,
• 55:45
  and it's always worked. And the reason why propertied and from what I
• 55:47
  can tell, the reason why propertied men got uh got a vote though they
• 55:54
  were the first people to get the vote is because they used to be also
• 55:59
  responsible for the defense of their lands. That's where the King's yeomen were taken
• 56:02
  from. Yeah, they were taken from small property holders and tradesmen. So
• 56:08
  those were the first people to get a vote because they were the first peasants
• 56:14
  or non aristocrats to be expected to defend their land. And then subsequently,
• 56:20
  every minority group of men had to fight before being considered for the vote.
• 56:24
  The only group of people that never had to do that was women. Yeah.
• 56:30
  Yeah, they sort of volunteered a bit in World War One, and
• 56:34
  Frederick Roosevelt said, hey, they did this, maybe we should go,
• 56:37
  you know, but that wasn't the same. They had to die in the
• 56:39
  same numbers. They weren't conscripted in the same numbers. Like they weren't conscripted.
• 56:44
  It was voluntary. Yet no, it was it was it was all
• 56:47
  voluntary, you know. Like Christo bel Pankhurst. She actually, I will
• 56:53
  give her this, she did campaign for mandatory war work for women, sewing
• 57:00
  uniforms and you know, making munitions and stuff, working in factories, but
• 57:06
  that never actually happened. And and you know, then women got the vote
• 57:15
  without any of that. So, and yes, Britain didn't. Britain didn't
• 57:22
  actually have a draft in World War One because their propaganda worked well enough.
• 57:29
  They managed to recruit enough men without using conscription. But worked. Yeah.
• 57:37
  But Canada and the US, I believe both had conscription draft, yeah,
• 57:44
  for World War One. And you know in Canada, everyone who served in
• 57:51
  the military, volunteer or drafted, right, got the vote at age eighteen,
• 58:00
  including women, Okay, and or or a women who got there who
• 58:06
  got their male relatives drafted, they got well, they they voted on behalf
• 58:12
  of those men. No, they were also I'm pretty sure there was a
• 58:15
  push in at least in Saskatchewan that if you, if your male relatives went
• 58:19
  to war, you got the vote. If a woman, if you were
• 58:22
  a woman, I don't know like that you in federal in federal elections,
• 58:29
  women who were at home, who had husbands who were serving voted on their
• 58:36
  husband's behalf. Um, I do know that, and and so. But
• 58:42
  but if you were a woman, if you were a woman serving as a
• 58:45
  military nurse, if you were a woman serving in the military in any capacity
• 58:52
  as a as a administrative assistant, as a clerk, as a secretary,
• 58:57
  as a typist as you know, as a telegraph reader kind of person,
• 59:05
  right, you know, um, yeah, no, you you also got
• 59:08
  the votes vote if you if you served, you got the vote, and
• 59:12
  you got it at age eighteen when you were eligible to serve, not when
• 59:17
  everybody else was eligible vote eligible eligible to vote at age twenty one. Right,
• 59:25
  So Canada, Canada actually did a good thing there, um, and
• 59:34
  but when and we don't have selective service, and a lot of we actually,
• 59:38
  Karen, a lot of Canadians say, oh, we don't have selective
• 59:43
  service. A draft is only a single act of Parliament away. Actually,
• 59:47
  actually, the Canadian government does keep a list of of people of men between
• 59:52
  the ages of eighteen and fifty five. They keep a list, of course,
• 59:57
  they do, just in case there the Canadian men are on the list.
• 1:00:01
  They they don't have to register. They're just no, they don't have
• 1:00:06
  to register. They're on the list. It's basically what a lot of American
• 1:00:10
  states have started to do. They just put men on the list and they
• 1:00:13
  don't say anything because they don't want to bring up the injustice. They just
• 1:00:16
  want to make it, you know, you know, just suddenly oh oh
• 1:00:21
  oh wow, well I guess we're at war, you're on the list to
• 1:00:25
  go. Yeah, that's the thing. Like it's it's uh, it's completely
• 1:00:30
  on the down low in Canada, just like it is many American states now,
• 1:00:35
  it's completely on the download. They don't want people to know that this
• 1:00:38
  is this is happening, because then then you could get you could actually protest
• 1:00:44
  it. Right, you remember Dean as me, Yes, how could I
• 1:00:49
  he? Anyone's told me he was registered to vote, and he'd voted in
• 1:00:57
  like multiple elections over the previous like fifteen years, and he wasn't registered for
• 1:01:02
  the Selective Service, so it wasn't it wasn't actually you know, it wasn't
• 1:01:10
  tied to the vote. And I was like, I don't know about that.
• 1:01:15
  And then he went and he checked and said I was registered when I
• 1:01:22
  was eighteen, Yes, without my knowledge. Yeah. And the thing is
• 1:01:27
  that he figured either it was when he registered to vote or when he got
• 1:01:31
  his driver's license. Yeah I had. I've been having this long conversation with
• 1:01:37
  feminists were like, I have the vote isn't tied to the suffer or to
• 1:01:42
  the Selective Service. I'm like, if you're a man and you want to
• 1:01:45
  vote, unless until recently and then got rid of all of these voter ID
• 1:01:47
  laws, which I don't think has anything to do with getting rid of the
• 1:01:51
  injustice or the selective service and vote. You'd have to get a vote,
• 1:01:54
  an ID and a license in those states that will automatically register for selective service.
• 1:02:00
  And in the estates where it doesn't automatically register you for a selective service,
• 1:02:04
  which is getting smaller and smaller and smaller by the way, you will
• 1:02:07
  get a letter and that letter will state you have to register or we are
• 1:02:12
  finding you a quarter of a million dollars, or you're going five years in
• 1:02:15
  jail. Okay, that is not that. And they keep splitting hairs like,
• 1:02:21
  oh, but a man could theoretically vote without no, but he will
• 1:02:24
  be, he will be on the radar of selective service, and then they
• 1:02:30
  will apply force in order to get him to register, or he'll just be
• 1:02:32
  registered. And they keep splitting hairs about this, and it's really aggravating.
• 1:02:37
  Oh, anyway to get back to this. But but but once again,
• 1:02:43
  this transmant has the privilege of not having to to register for signing this life.
• 1:02:52
  Also, he's not he's not going to probably not going to experience a
• 1:02:55
  loss of custody of his children, like losing contact with his children. He's
• 1:03:00
  not gonna probably not gonna experience having to pay alimony or child support. He's
• 1:03:04
  not going to experience well actually trans yeah, well he may. Actually you
• 1:03:08
  know what, he doesn't talk about all the other stuff that like being raped
• 1:03:12
  by a woman. Now, he's not going to it's not going to be
• 1:03:15
  considered serious, taken seriously. If a man, if a woman beats him
• 1:03:20
  in public and he's actually perceived as a man, nobody's gonna take it seriously.
• 1:03:23
  All that stuff is not even on his radar, right, yeah,
• 1:03:25
  no, of course not. Okay, Brian, I feel like I feel
• 1:03:31
  like you're waiting. Who ye am, I am. Let's move on.
• 1:03:37
  All right, let's move on, or I should do thank you, right,
• 1:03:39
  yeah, do it. And then also, I guess if you have
• 1:03:43
  to do some arm twisting. Hey, ky gives us twenty five dollars.
• 1:03:49
  Thank you, Kay, thank you very much. That's really nice. Thank
• 1:03:52
  you. Okay, zoom wham oh one gives us twenty five dollars. I
• 1:03:57
  really hope that's not your legal name. Well I couldn't even hear that one.
• 1:04:03
  Um and uh d w. I'm just gonna go with d W.
• 1:04:11
  Those are the first um of your name. Gives us two hundred and fifty
• 1:04:15
  dollars, So thank you d W. I don't think all right, and
• 1:04:20
  then um, shoot, sorry, guys decided to do something and now it's
• 1:04:28
  thinking. Uh Gilly oh, okay, Michael Oh gives us two hundred and
• 1:04:36
  fifty dollars. Um, actually, no, no, no, The Great
• 1:04:40
  Indoors gives us two hundred and fifty sorry, thank you, thank god.
• 1:04:50
  My ear my head phone suran so my husband doesn't hear that around. I'll
• 1:04:57
  just walk around saying that for like the next week. And uh, Remote
• 1:05:02
  Ruby gives us five dollars. Thank you, Remote Ruby, Thank you Remote
• 1:05:06
  Ruby. Nay, So I guess I should do some more arm twisting.
• 1:05:14
  We are getting closer, which is great, and thank you to everybody who
• 1:05:16
  helped out. That's very appreciated. It's a weight off my mind. And
• 1:05:19
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• 1:05:24
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• 1:05:27
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• 1:05:30
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• 1:05:32
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  so, very appreciated. We still have a ways to go. Let me
• 1:05:59
  really quickly to tell you how far we have to go. Um we have
• 1:06:05
  uh two thousand, seven ninety to go, so yeah left, all right,
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  the Badger to com slash support. Shall we do some more? You have
• 1:06:29
  anything? Having to think about these things all the time. These are just
• 1:06:33
  some of the experiences that many trans men go through. Being a man can
• 1:06:38
  be challenging for anyone, but being trans how about challenging for men? And
• 1:06:44
  then it could be challenging for anyone? Can it be challenging for men?
• 1:06:49
  Instead of saying anyone, I don't even know what that means? How about
• 1:06:55
  men? So why can't men be make being a man? Let's challenging,
• 1:07:00
  huh, so that trans men can manage it? Yeah? Why do trans
• 1:07:05
  men sound like that? They're like talking frogs. Have you noticed like there,
• 1:07:11
  it's like the testosterone gives them this, like you know, because it's
• 1:07:15
  because they all sound like teenagers. Yeah, all right, anyway, I'm
• 1:07:24
  surprised his voice isn't crack. Well, it is cracked. I think it's
• 1:07:30
  like, um, you know, I don't know. I guess the vocal
• 1:07:32
  chords of men and women are really different, and I don't think that testosterone
• 1:07:36
  changes it enough. So yeah, and adds combersome layers to being a man.
• 1:07:43
  Additionally, if a transman does not transition in a strictly binary way,
• 1:07:47
  he may not access many aspects of male privilege. For instance, not every
• 1:07:51
  trans man is able to have, or even wants to have gender affirming surgeries,
• 1:07:56
  and in several states, if you don't get those surgeries, you can't
• 1:08:00
  change your legal gender marker. All right, I'm just pausing it there.
• 1:08:05
  Okay, I want to do an analysis of this because this is really pissing
• 1:08:09
  me off. Did you notice when they did the invisible knapsack that they didn't
• 1:08:12
  identify any actual privileges. And then when he goes to, oh, these
• 1:08:16
  are the privileges that men have versus trans men, he doesn't point out that
• 1:08:21
  these are also privileges that women have versus trans women, like the women don't
• 1:08:28
  have to go through this stuff either. Yeah, so they've completely evaded actually
• 1:08:33
  talking about privileges that men have that sis men have. I mean, do
• 1:08:39
  you notice like they're they're talking around it as if it exists, without ever
• 1:08:45
  actually proving that it exists or even saying what they are. This is all
• 1:08:51
  emperor, you know, like the Emperor's clothes. You know, they produced
• 1:08:57
  the Emperor's new clothes. They don't exist. They know they don't exist,
• 1:09:01
  otherwise they'd actually be labeling them. You know, they talk about the invisible
• 1:09:06
  knapsack, but they don't actually label any of them. He doesn't actually appeal
• 1:09:10
  to any actual privileges that men have versus women, because what he talks about,
• 1:09:16
  you know, having these expensive servergeries. Are you telling me that trans
• 1:09:19
  women don't have to have expensive surgeries? Are you telling me that trans women
• 1:09:24
  don't have to change their their their paperwork? You know, like in all
• 1:09:30
  of this, and then he's talking about this. What is it what he
• 1:09:33
  just said? Um, this if the transition isn't non binary, Well,
• 1:09:39
  are you saying that trans women don't have to deal with that either relative to
• 1:09:45
  CIS women. Well okay, so what he's saying is, uh, some
• 1:09:50
  trans men still have vaginas and some trans women still have penises and CIS men
• 1:09:58
  and CIS women don't have to deal with that because SIS men have penises.
• 1:10:04
  But they're just saying Sis, that's right. Yeah, I know, I
• 1:10:08
  know, but this is about brands men, I know. But privilege but
• 1:10:13
  I yeah, no, I get it. I cannot prie it SIS.
• 1:10:17
  I know it'sis privileged Jesus Christ. But um, but yeah no, it's
• 1:10:26
  um honestly, uh, I would just be happier for you, young man,
• 1:10:36
  if um, if you were okay in your female body, um,
• 1:10:44
  and and we're just a little bit butch or something like, I would be
• 1:10:48
  happier for you than then with you know, with this, because this is
• 1:10:57
  like an entire lifetime of complications, we shall we continue with this Harry Potter
• 1:11:02
  video. This is not Harry Potter. The glasses are nothing similar. You're
• 1:11:12
  a woman, Harry can lead to all kinds of embarrassing and even dangerous problems.
• 1:11:19
  Every time someone checks your ID. You also don't get to see that
• 1:11:23
  increase in your paycheck. Oh right, that because because wage gap. You
• 1:11:29
  know that every time they've invested. You know why you don't get to see
• 1:11:32
  the increase in your paycheck because it doesn't fucking exist. Yeah, but yeah,
• 1:11:38
  he makes it out like as soon as he checks the mailbox, you
• 1:11:41
  know that he gets some letter from from war and we've we've raised your cashier
• 1:11:48
  salary by twenty three dead and yeah, you know what's really funny is every
• 1:11:55
  time they investigate this workplace um disenfranchise, supposedly they find out that men are
• 1:12:00
  underpaid relative to the women as far as I can, oh yeah, periably,
• 1:12:05
  Yeah, because actually that most of men's money is spent on women of
• 1:12:14
  women, well, seventy five percent of all seventy seventy five of the money
• 1:12:20
  spent on personal items is spent on women. Yeah, so don't what,
• 1:12:27
  no matter who spends it. So don't give me any crap about how women
• 1:12:30
  aren't getting their due, because even if they were getting paid seventy five cents
• 1:12:35
  on the dollar for the exact same work, which is completely fucking farcical and
• 1:12:41
  false. Yeah, but even if that were the case, they're reaping it
• 1:12:45
  in. They're just raking in the money. Yeah, maybe, Like who
• 1:12:49
  who the money is spent on is a more important question than who earns it,
• 1:12:55
  because if men are earning it and then they're spending it on their wives
• 1:12:58
  and their daughters and and girlfriends and dates and whatever, um and taxes and
• 1:13:06
  taxes which they don't have a choice in and most of that goes to women,
• 1:13:11
  uh, that's probably a much more important factor than who's going to work
• 1:13:15
  and busting their ass. So well, like I said, women only have
• 1:13:19
  to earn seventy five cents to spend a dollar. Yeah, that's a good
• 1:13:26
  thing, you like, feminist, that's what you're saying. Women only have
• 1:13:30
  to earn seventy five spents to spend a dollar. Actually, to earn seventy
• 1:13:33
  five a spence to spend a dollar. Yeah. Yeah, So I don't
• 1:13:40
  know what you think you're proven with that, but here you go. All
• 1:13:44
  right, let's keep going. And it's important to note that not everyone wants
• 1:13:47
  to change their legal gender. Some people may not feel like they identify with
• 1:13:51
  an F or an M. For example, comedian and transman Ian Harvey,
• 1:13:56
  who easily passes as a sissman, says he does not want to change his
• 1:13:59
  legal gender because, while he identifies as a man, his lips are kind
• 1:14:02
  of feminine though. But anyway, no, but he's he passes. Yeah,
• 1:14:08
  but trans men generally do. They pass pretty well until they start talking.
• 1:14:14
  They sound like, I don't know anyway, Um, he does not
• 1:14:19
  identify as male. He also fears what would happen if he ever found himself
• 1:14:24
  in jail. He does not want to end up in a men's prison.
• 1:14:28
  Yeah. Apparently if you go to a men's prison, you're you know,
• 1:14:30
  you're you're like because of how awful men are, right, so really,
• 1:14:38
  like here's the thing, Um, you're two and a half I think two
• 1:14:42
  and a half times more likely to be raped in a woman's prison to the
• 1:14:44
  men's prison. No, that's impossible. Women can't rape. No, it's
• 1:14:53
  all right, No, they just is a table leg, okay, all
• 1:14:58
  right kind rape or a plumber a plumber's helper. Rather, it's it's not
• 1:15:04
  it's not the fun kind of rape. It's the kind of rape that can
• 1:15:06
  lead to a splinter liver perforation. Yeah, okay, a sense of safety.
• 1:15:14
  It's important to remember that one's document itself is not necessarily the same as
• 1:15:17
  one's lived self, in the very combination of those elements impacts how one access
• 1:15:23
  is privilege. Furthermore, transmans not experience the privileges that come from a lifetime
• 1:15:28
  of male socialization. So I'm just saying this is, uh, well,
• 1:15:33
  you know the building I think the trans man here, and I think that
• 1:15:38
  this is probably a common belief amongst trans men, is that they don't have
• 1:15:45
  access to like that there's still not a privilege renders for paradise of male privilege
• 1:15:51
  that actually really and for true exists because they're not actually sis man. And
• 1:15:58
  if only they were sis men, they'd have access to this cornucopia nothing but
• 1:16:02
  willing pussy and money raining down on them. Yeah, but they don't actually
• 1:16:08
  want that because they like the being in the position of victim to men.
• 1:16:13
  So they're gonna they're gonna say, yeah, Well, they can't deny that
• 1:16:17
  that they're gonna get male privilege, not because it exists, but because their
• 1:16:24
  coreports there. Their peers are going to be like, yes, you do,
• 1:16:27
  you're a man now, right, So they have to kind of say,
• 1:16:30
  yeah, but that's basically this whole video. Yeah, and then the
• 1:16:38
  whole rest of it is, well, here are all the things assists men
• 1:16:40
  have that we don't have, like the ability to watch movies, TV and
• 1:16:45
  video games. So you know, apparently women don't do that. Well,
• 1:16:49
  the the the issue here that he's he's talking about is right, Okay,
• 1:16:56
  so I would have to you know, change my gender on my thing.
• 1:17:01
  And you know, but maybe not because I wouldn't want to go to prison
• 1:17:05
  with men. But you know, like I, if I don't change my
• 1:17:11
  sex on my identification, then I don't get access to the male privilege.
• 1:17:15
  What's the male privilege getting raped in prison by men? What? Like?
• 1:17:20
  Okay, Like you literally said right that there's this thing that happens to men.
• 1:17:28
  Okay, whether it does or doesn't is not the point. The point
• 1:17:30
  is that this person believes that if you go to prison as a man in
• 1:17:36
  a men's prison, you're gonna get sexually assaulted, You're gonna get abused,
• 1:17:42
  you're gonna get like beaten up, you're gonna get you know, shit on.
• 1:17:45
  You're going to be part of some horrible, freaking, nightmarish scenario,
• 1:17:50
  right that you wouldn't be in if you went to a women's prison, right,
• 1:17:55
  and so um, okay, so isn't that part of the male privilege
• 1:18:04
  because it appears to be. You think it's part of the male experience,
• 1:18:10
  right, And don't tell me that that dude who looks like a dude,
• 1:18:15
  right if if they're in freaking prison, that they're going to be treated like
• 1:18:23
  they're some kind of like little twink that is that was not a twink.
• 1:18:29
  I'm sorry, but like, I'm just like they're trying to create this situation
• 1:18:36
  where things definitely exist, but but they don't but they don't do sometimes but
• 1:18:46
  they do not but not but not for me, none of that moment,
• 1:18:50
  but for those people. Definitely this moment, but definitely not for those people
• 1:18:56
  as well. And I'm just like Jesus Christ, I'm I'm sorry. No,
• 1:19:02
  wonder where they go back to the moon where everybody's spending their mental energy
• 1:19:05
  on this shit. Um. But here's another thing. Um, he says
• 1:19:13
  that that trans men don't get so don't get the benefit of socialization. You
• 1:19:18
  realize what socialization is. It's training to behave in a certain way. Yeah,
• 1:19:24
  okay, now they the fact is that all of the things that they
• 1:19:28
  say are male privileges you can't identify with any kind of paper trail. You
• 1:19:31
  can identify female privileges with paper trails. All of the scholarship by bursaries,
• 1:19:38
  student loans, um the fact that they don't have to go and actually sacrifice
• 1:19:43
  their life to maintain the society they benefit from. Like men, do you
• 1:19:45
  know all of this stuff has a paper trail. You can point to it.
• 1:19:47
  You can look at it in financially, yeah, and you can even
• 1:19:53
  look at it in terms of statistics. All of all of women's privileges paper
• 1:19:57
  trail or or advantages. Perhaps let's get rid of the luted termit privilege advantage.
• 1:20:02
  They all have a paper trail. None of the male advantages that they
• 1:20:06
  talk about here have a paper trail at all. They you might point to,
• 1:20:12
  men are more likely to have a higher wage, but they also are
• 1:20:15
  in the worst professions. That includes CEO by the way, it's very stressful,
• 1:20:19
  and and so you can point to that, but you can't point to
• 1:20:24
  any way any particular institution that's is putting men into those positions intentionally, intentionally,
• 1:20:32
  like you can see a paper trail. Oh, there there are receipts
• 1:20:36
  for how men are being benefited and put into these higher positions. There's none
• 1:20:41
  of that, none of it. No, no, So all they have
• 1:20:45
  to hang their hat on is socialization. The men are socialized in a particular
• 1:20:49
  way to achieve you know what that is? I don't want to achieve you
• 1:20:54
  end up on the street. Yeah. No. It's also being being hit
• 1:20:59
  by your mother three to nine times more often than your sisters are. Yeah.
• 1:21:05
  And also your mom not not appreciating you crying. Yeah, like literally
• 1:21:11
  have male socialization that you're talking about, dude, is um your mom?
• 1:21:15
  Your mother racking you across the ears every time you cry, don't cry you
• 1:21:20
  you learn to buck up and just ignoring you or you're just ignoring you.
• 1:21:29
  And also, interestingly enough, also having a problem with your anger. Because
• 1:21:33
  the only thing, and this is really this is really interesting. They actually
• 1:21:39
  looked at who is pushing these norms on children. It's mothers. Yeah,
• 1:21:45
  not mothers. Mothers have a problem with their son's anger and their sons despair
• 1:21:49
  and crying. Yeah, so it's mothers who are pushing this. Of course
• 1:21:54
  that the researchers didn't like the findings, so they're like, well this isn't
• 1:21:59
  you can't actually extrapolate this. I'm like, well, then you can't extrapolate
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  any social like the mothers absorbed patriarchal values from the patriarchal culture even though the
• 1:22:12
  fathers aren't doing it. So if the mothers actually did as the fathers wanted
• 1:22:17
  to their actions, as they express to their actions, they wouldn't be applying
• 1:22:20
  these stereotypes on their children. But somehow the men are still still to fucking
• 1:22:25
  blame. But actually, what the researcher said is that you can't extrapolate this.
• 1:22:29
  I'm like, if you can't extrapolate these findings, you can't extrapolate any
• 1:22:33
  findings in sociology period. How as well throw the whole fucking thing away,
• 1:22:39
  all right, So, as far as we can tell, it's mothers applying
• 1:22:43
  this socialization to children. Yeah, all right, So what mothers are basically
• 1:22:51
  teaching their sons is the bedrock and the foundation to treat themselves as expendable.
• 1:22:58
  Yept, walk it all, a little dirt in it and make sure that
• 1:23:02
  you achieve, because that's your only worth. Yep. There you go.
• 1:23:06
  You you you avoided that, didn't you, just like you avoid selective service?
• 1:23:12
  Yeah? Yep, Oh I really wish trans women would have the full
• 1:23:16
  male experience, but they never will I mean transmit right, Oh yeah,
• 1:23:25
  sorry about that, transmit. Okay, just making sure six men are taught
• 1:23:29
  from movies, TV books, video games and the men around us that they
• 1:23:32
  can be lowed and take up space. They are taught that their manual with
• 1:23:36
  other men, they can with with other in in a room full of only
• 1:23:42
  men, men can be like that until they get told to shut the fuck
• 1:23:47
  up, pussy or whatever. Right, um, because men will police each
• 1:23:51
  other. Men won't put up with obnoxious men. Um. But you know,
• 1:23:59
  like when when they're in a room with other men and no women around,
• 1:24:03
  they are free to be themselves and they will actually be loud, take
• 1:24:08
  up space, you know, um, be assertive and and also be filthy
• 1:24:16
  disgusting. But there is no but there are no male spaces where men can
• 1:24:21
  do that. Really not how many times did I okay, how many times
• 1:24:27
  did I catch my son, my youngest, because he was always the one
• 1:24:31
  who was like the most talkative, the most sociable online and in real life
• 1:24:38
  of all my kids, right, And so he'd be online, he'd be
• 1:24:41
  playing a you know, a multiplayer game and Overwatch or Fortnite, or something,
• 1:24:48
  and and he'd I come downstairs to do laundry or something. Men,
• 1:24:54
  I hear him going, oh, that was some good dick, And I'm
• 1:25:05
  like, you're fifteen years old. What the fuck? And he's like,
• 1:25:10
  I'm just goofing around with my friends. Another time, I hear him saying
• 1:25:17
  okay, and I can't hear the other side of the conversation until like it
• 1:25:21
  starts getting really loud, but he's gonna got his headphones on. He's like,
• 1:25:27
  he's like, oh, yeah, no, I read this thing today.
• 1:25:30
  It says like half of people stand up to wipe. And I was
• 1:25:35
  like, what there are people who who wipe when sitting down? And all
• 1:25:41
  of his friends were, you know, like I'm guessing they were like everybody
• 1:25:45
  sits down to wipe, right, Like everybody wipes while sitting down. He's
• 1:25:47
  like, what, what? Like, you don't stand up? What the
• 1:25:51
  hell? He says, Well, but then how do you dip? What
• 1:25:57
  do you mean? What's dipping? Now? It's when you dip the toilet
• 1:26:00
  paper in the water and then you wipe your ass with that. And how
• 1:26:04
  can you dip if you can't see where the ship is in the toilet bowl?
• 1:26:09
  Oh? My god right, and then I hear like all of the
• 1:26:13
  groans and everything through his headphones are like, oh Jesus Christ, sad,
• 1:26:17
  what the fuck? And I'm like, where did you hear that? And
• 1:26:20
  he's like, I don't know, I just made it up. Yeah.
• 1:26:26
  Yeah, So you can be like that as as a guy around other guys,
• 1:26:31
  not so much. Okay, here's the only problem. Let me analyze
• 1:26:34
  this, all right. So he's saying that masculinity equals power. The men
• 1:26:39
  are taught masculinity equals power. So is that like every single man has access
• 1:26:44
  to that or is that like an expectation that masculinity equals power that excludes a
• 1:26:48
  whole bunch of men and they have to live up to it. And thus
• 1:26:51
  it's like this it's patriarchy hurts men too, because you're trying to have it
• 1:26:55
  both ways. And this is one of the most aggravating parts about it.
• 1:26:58
  All Right. You're trying to sit that men's identities gives them more access to
• 1:27:02
  power at the same time as that you say that men's identities expects them to
• 1:27:06
  be powerful and is something that harms them. Do you see what I'm saying?
• 1:27:11
  Well, yeah, like men's identity is simultaneously an expectation that men have
• 1:27:16
  to live up to and don't. They don't all live up to it.
• 1:27:18
  Therefore they're disenfranchised by that expectation. But also it's a it's like a you
• 1:27:26
  know, blank checked all kinds of things that men get. That's you trying
• 1:27:30
  to have it both ways and you can't, of course, No. It's
• 1:27:34
  it's either a blank check, a handout, or it's something that you have
• 1:27:39
  to earn and achieve. Yeah, And and part of that is the socialization
• 1:27:45
  or training that you go through as as you helpay a young man to you
• 1:27:50
  know, to learn how to behave in those ways that actually get you those
• 1:27:55
  rewards which are not handouts or blank checks. They're earned or they're not or
• 1:28:01
  they're not provided at all exactly. So which is it is masculinity? Is
• 1:28:08
  manhood a blank check or is it something that men earn? Yeah? Is
• 1:28:14
  it a pay stubb or a blank check? You got to decide, of
• 1:28:15
  course you're not going to You're just going to continue to touring. Is it
• 1:28:20
  a pay stubb or is an alimony check? M yeah? Or the paste
• 1:28:26
  like the blank check, is that you know, men get whatever they want
• 1:28:30
  or do they have to earn it, and they have to live up to
• 1:28:33
  the standard of masculinity because right now when they and then they have to take
• 1:28:36
  half of it and write a alimony check. Yeah. Well, what he's
• 1:28:43
  saying right now is that somehow, I don't know, men are just handed
• 1:28:45
  power. Oh yeah, boys get to the age of six thirteen and they're
• 1:28:49
  just like, here's your power. Or boy, now you're a man.
• 1:28:54
  Yeah. No, I mean like every single every single traditional culture that has
• 1:28:59
  some kind of rich well, whether it's like you know, the bar mitzvah
• 1:29:01
  or or you know, the passing somebody through a split tree, passing the
• 1:29:06
  boy through a split tree and now he's a man, or you know,
• 1:29:11
  the putting your hands into gloves full of freaking fire ants. You know,
• 1:29:16
  now you're a man bullet ants, and now you're a man. Um.
• 1:29:19
  But you have to do that, and you have to do it for hours
• 1:29:23
  without actually making us sound um, because that would mean you're a pussy.
• 1:29:30
  Um. Yeah. No, uh, none of that is actually a form
• 1:29:33
  of earning. Um. None of that is actually a form of but just
• 1:29:40
  passing a test, passing a test, you know, it's it's just um.
• 1:29:45
  And then and they want once and then once you pass the test,
• 1:29:47
  it's just like, oh fuck, there's more responsibilities through this. They want
• 1:29:53
  they want manhood to simultaneously be an unfair advantage that society gives men. It's
• 1:29:59
  a at pussy pass, except you know, like a a penis pass.
• 1:30:03
  Yeah, but also something that men are unfairly expected to achieve because it's it's
• 1:30:09
  it's it's like I said, they want it both ways and and and ultimately,
• 1:30:14
  just you can't have it both ways. You've got to choose. I
• 1:30:17
  just I just think that every person, every person, male or female,
• 1:30:25
  should at the bare minimum, try to be self sufficient. That's it.
• 1:30:30
  Try to be self sufficient. And then um, once once you achieve that,
• 1:30:36
  try to go a little bit further. They contribute to your community,
• 1:30:44
  that's contribute to charity, contribute to your workplace. Right, maybe maybe take
• 1:30:50
  that promotion, take that new opening in a different apartment that it's a little
• 1:30:55
  bit more money and and and a little bit more responsibility whatever. Right,
• 1:31:00
  Just you know, like just incrementally work your way up. Um, and
• 1:31:05
  and even if you don't work your way up, you know, just spend
• 1:31:10
  every day doing the best you can at the tasks that are expected of you.
• 1:31:15
  Look at every days as an opportunity to be excellent at what you do,
• 1:31:24
  and we'll see that they just want to change their genders. Earn,
• 1:31:27
  earn, earn your own keep, and and maybe put a little money away
• 1:31:32
  into savings account. Maybe invest a little something in a tax free savings account,
• 1:31:38
  or in some stocks or something a mutual fund, right, Karen,
• 1:31:42
  you know, plan for your future. Karen, you're talking like somebody who
• 1:31:47
  thinks it's more important to become an adult than it is. You're talking like
• 1:31:54
  someone who's like, you know, actually it doesn't matter. And as much
• 1:31:57
  as becoming an adult doesn't matter what adult you are, just become one.
• 1:32:00
  Um. But the other thing I wanted to point out is she's talking about
• 1:32:04
  media presenting these idea that men. It's interesting because a lot of these individuals
• 1:32:12
  see this in terms of representation, right, so you see men in a
• 1:32:15
  powerful role. Therefore, that's that is socializing men to expect powerful roles.
• 1:32:21
  And what's really hilarious if you watch this media, you know the guy will
• 1:32:26
  be going through i don't know, the trial of fire or something, or
• 1:32:30
  the trial of putting your hand like you know, going through hell, dragging
• 1:32:36
  his belly over broken glass, you know, jumping through between skyscrapers and you're
• 1:32:44
  nearly killing himself to a tie to achieve his objective. And they all they
• 1:32:48
  see is, oh, he's he won, He's he's the hero. They
• 1:32:53
  don't see all of the shit he had to do to earn it. Yeah,
• 1:32:57
  yeah, this is the big goddamn difference. Men are looking and all
• 1:33:00
  the shit he has to do to earn it. This guy's looking at Oh
• 1:33:02
  my god, he's the big hero all he's the hero. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:33:06
  no, it's there. He said, he said a really good line
• 1:33:10
  at the eddit was like yippie kaya motherfucker. And then he shot the guy
• 1:33:14
  and then he fell down and like and then he saved his wife because like
• 1:33:17
  there was the wristwatch and he just soundid the wristwatch and and then the dude
• 1:33:21
  fell and it was like the day was saved, and he got his wife.
• 1:33:26
  Two movies later she divorced him. Anyway, they don't see the whole
• 1:33:31
  all of the ship the guy goes through to get to that point. Yeah.
• 1:33:39
  And the thing is that this is this really informs a lot of their
• 1:33:43
  viewpoint and you can see it in their writing too. They don't know how
• 1:33:46
  to write attainment. They I don't even think they understand it. They think
• 1:33:50
  that, oh, we'll just show you, like we'll show a disabled woman
• 1:33:55
  in a floating hover chair and she can do all this shit, and then
• 1:33:59
  all the women who were paraplegic in the world will think that they too can
• 1:34:02
  like punch out, slugger off or whatever it is. You know, it's
• 1:34:06
  it's freaking ridiculous because they don't understand the process of attainment or development of skills.
• 1:34:13
  All they understand is representation. Suddenly, if you slap a trans man's
• 1:34:17
  face on Die Hard, all trans men will think, well, I could
• 1:34:21
  do that too, and you have no And they're not even focusing on what
• 1:34:26
  is important, which is what people who are actually masculine, masculine women or
• 1:34:31
  more masculine women and men focus on, which is it doesn't matter the gender,
• 1:34:39
  It matters what the fuck the guy went through to get to the to
• 1:34:43
  his goal. Yeah, that's all that's being modeled. It doesn't even it
• 1:34:47
  doesn't even matter. You don't necessarily have to suffer, but to get to
• 1:34:51
  your goal, to work for it, you do have to work for it,
• 1:34:56
  and you actually have to like stay cool in the face of it adversity,
• 1:35:00
  and this is like one of the things that everybody has always been Like,
• 1:35:04
  Karen, I don't know why you're not panicking right now, And I'm
• 1:35:09
  just like, what's the point of panicking, Like, what's the point of
• 1:35:15
  being upset? Like, some shit's going down, right, and people are
• 1:35:19
  going to die if if some's not done, and so you just do it.
• 1:35:26
  You just do and if you need to break down afterwards, you know,
• 1:35:30
  once everybody's safe or everybody's dead or whatever's going to happen, right,
• 1:35:35
  that's when you do it. You do it afterwards. Right, But you
• 1:35:40
  know you have to you have to go through you have to be present in
• 1:35:45
  the process of trying to fix an immediate acute problem. And so you don't
• 1:35:53
  get emotional, you don't get worked up, you don't get upset. You
• 1:35:57
  just get it done. And you know, so it's it's like and then
• 1:36:02
  then you either cry when your child's fever broke and and they're out of the
• 1:36:09
  woods, or you cry when you're put lowering the coffin into the ground,
• 1:36:13
  right, that's when you cry. You don't cry when when your daughter's clinging
• 1:36:18
  to life. You know, with eighteen tube stuck in her right. She
• 1:36:26
  she she's not going to benefit from watching you cry. M. Yeah.
• 1:36:30
  So it's like they don't they don't understand that concept. They don't. They
• 1:36:35
  don't because because of the concept of the concept of that is, what does
• 1:36:41
  the other person need from me? That's why they can't write a story.
• 1:36:45
  Guys, if you wonder why the wolks, the people who embrace this shit,
• 1:36:49
  can't write a story, it's because they do not understand attainment. They
• 1:36:54
  only understand identity and representation is it and performance. They do not understand the
• 1:37:00
  process of attainment because they are not masculine like this this dude. He says,
• 1:37:05
  I'm a transman. Well, you may identify as a trans man,
• 1:37:11
  but you are not masculine. Well yeah, and there there are like there
• 1:37:15
  are some movies out there where where you're like, I'm watching them and I'm
• 1:37:20
  thinking, you know, okay, Well, say Gladiator, right when he
• 1:37:26
  arrives home after riding horses to death under him and and he's you know,
• 1:37:31
  and he gets there and it's too late, and his wife and his son
• 1:37:34
  are dead and and he he starts sobbing, and everything very very realistic because
• 1:37:43
  there's nobody there. There's nothing left to fight for. There's nobody there.
• 1:37:47
  They're dead. There's nothing he can do except break down and cry. Right,
• 1:37:53
  um, but when you have oh god, and this is one of
• 1:37:57
  the things that drives me fucking crazy about Star Trek Discovery. Have you have
• 1:38:02
  you been able to like suffer through more than four episodes? I'm not.
• 1:38:08
  I was never a trekky okay because because oh god, no, And like,
• 1:38:15
  I don't even mind the characters. I don't mind the plot lines.
• 1:38:18
  I don't mind any of that, right, I find a lot of it
• 1:38:21
  very interesting. But there seems to be this thing and it doesn't matter who
• 1:38:26
  the character is, whether it's the captain or the tall, scrawny, weird
• 1:38:31
  lanky guy alien dude, or the the the gay doctor or the gay engineer
• 1:38:40
  or the other gay engineer you know, or the trans trigged in Yeah,
• 1:38:47
  yeah, no, I mean, is it a pattern if it's the same
• 1:38:49
  thing over and over? I don't know. I don't, I don't,
• 1:38:53
  I don't care, Okay, But every time the ship's thirty seconds away from
• 1:39:00
  blowing up, it's time to stop and talk about our feelings. Mom.
• 1:39:08
  You know, I just always I just always missed you because you were never
• 1:39:12
  there for me in and you know I didn't. I thought I was an
• 1:39:16
  orphan when they were raising me on Vulcan. I just I felt so abandoned.
• 1:39:23
  And then the mother is like, what I had to do it?
• 1:39:28
  I had to become one of the none priestesses who fights spectacularly good shell in
• 1:39:35
  Vulcan styles and yeah, yeah, and then priestess and then they're like,
• 1:39:43
  oh my god, the ship's about to blow up, but we need to
• 1:39:45
  hug and cry, and I'm like, what the fuck isn't that what?
• 1:39:49
  But I mean, okay, I don't want to say that that is what.
• 1:39:55
  Like the show seems to be written for women, because I don't think.
• 1:40:00
  I think that women can enjoy regular shows just like men. But it's
• 1:40:04
  like a certain kind of emotional show wouldn't give me an aneurism every ten minutes,
• 1:40:12
  I know, when there's a self destruct sequence counting down. Yeah,
• 1:40:16
  I know, fields failing feelings. They don't. They don't get science fiction
• 1:40:23
  because it has to have like I don't know anyway, speaking of awful,
• 1:40:29
  you save that shit, you swallow it, you save it for later.
• 1:40:32
  Yeah, speaking of awful entertainment, I just want to point out big great,
• 1:40:39
  a great entertainer. Um, today is al Pacino's birthday. He turned
• 1:40:45
  eighty two, So just putting it out, he's like a spring chicken.
• 1:40:51
  Huh, he's a spring chicken. Or eighty two he's doing okay. And
• 1:40:58
  also, um, Jerry Seinfeld turned sixty eight today if you didn't know that.
• 1:41:04
  Yeah, Jerry Springer. Jerry Springer died. Yeah, Jerry Springer passed
• 1:41:10
  away. And Willie Nelson also had a birthday today. Guess how old he
• 1:41:14
  is like Willie Nelson? How old? Yes? So, yeah, it
• 1:41:24
  is good. And I only thought about it because the chat they were talking
• 1:41:28
  about the movie Heat, which is great with Pacino de Niro. Um,
• 1:41:33
  it's just a really great cast, great movie. So if you haven't seen
• 1:41:38
  it, check it out. So I got a super chow from Great endorsed
• 1:41:43
  for ten dollars. And he says any thoughts about Stephen Carter's traditional conservative Christian
• 1:41:46
  divorced by the way, I guess it's justified because now there's a video out
• 1:41:50
  in which he has an argument with his wife. Gasp. Um, Okay,
• 1:41:56
  all I will say is we should wait until we learn more and more.
• 1:42:01
  I know one thing, I'm pretty sure that his wife was the one
• 1:42:05
  who initiated it. So it doesn't matter how conservative a Christian you are.
• 1:42:10
  You live in a society with no fault divorce, where women can initiate divorce
• 1:42:15
  at a point there's nothing stopping them. It doesn't matter if your could,
• 1:42:18
  if your wife is a fundamentalist, she still has all the powers of the
• 1:42:24
  state. Yeah. Um, so, I mean, I don't know what
• 1:42:29
  what are we supposed to like condemned Stephen Crowder for living in the US?
• 1:42:33
  No, No, there there's um you know, and or really what he's
• 1:42:41
  saying is that it's hip hypocritical. Maybe Stephen was talking about so there's a
• 1:42:45
  divorce. He talked about it last I want to say Monday. Um,
• 1:42:53
  but there's a video that Candice Owens leaked that shows Crowder and his wife getting
• 1:43:00
  into a bit of an argument, and you know, he's saying some some
• 1:43:04
  cruel things, or at least that's how it's supposed to be framed, and
• 1:43:10
  a lot of people are citing against him for it. And I'm of the
• 1:43:13
  opinion that I don't know. I don't know the conditions of their relationship.
• 1:43:16
  I don't know like what led up to this point. It sort of starts
• 1:43:20
  in the middle. It's just one clip, and so like it's sort of
• 1:43:25
  like hard for me to just jump on the hey, let's all bash Crowder
• 1:43:29
  bandwagon right now, because we don't know anything. And I would prefer that
• 1:43:32
  everyone just shut up about it until there's more that is revealed, because we
• 1:43:38
  can't go around taking sides at this stage because it's too early. So I
• 1:43:42
  am on the because here's the thing, Like, we don't know what's going
• 1:43:46
  on, but I do know how it's being framed by people, and that
• 1:43:53
  is that is it is framed as though, you know, Crowder is an
• 1:43:58
  abuser because you know he hates women, he doesn't respect them. It's the
• 1:44:01
  same old song and dance. That is why I'm taking a wait and see
• 1:44:05
  approach. I don't I don't think. I don't think Stephen Crowder hates women,
• 1:44:12
  and I don't think that he's an abuser. And you know, I've
• 1:44:15
  been on his show a couple of times and so like, and I know
• 1:44:18
  him and I like him and everything. I have to say that for the
• 1:44:27
  last um a couple months, he's been behaving erratically and I have tried to
• 1:44:38
  give him the benefit of the doubt and that video did not help me continue
• 1:44:45
  to do that. I'm not making any judgments, but I do think that
• 1:44:53
  there is I'm I'm going to basically repeat what Candas Owen said, like,
• 1:45:00
  there's some shit going down in his life that's serious, and he can't cope
• 1:45:04
  with it. And he can't cope with it when it comes to his dealing
• 1:45:10
  with his personal relationships, he can't cope with it when it comes to dealing
• 1:45:14
  with his professional relationships. Us. He's just not coping. And I'm going
• 1:45:20
  to leave it at that, and I hope he figures out a way to
• 1:45:26
  you know, meditate upon Yeah. Just remember how young he is too.
• 1:45:32
  He's like in his thirties, so, you know, and and he's got
• 1:45:36
  health issues and yeah, he's got health issues exactly. So I mean like,
• 1:45:42
  I'm looking at it, and I'm like, I just I wish him
• 1:45:45
  all the best, and I hope he comes out of this, Okay,
• 1:45:48
  But I I can't necessarily like, okay, certain certain things about this thing
• 1:45:56
  that are kind of put putting my hackles up. Okay. Yeah, so
• 1:46:01
  I can understand why some people are like, are upset with him, upset
• 1:46:12
  at him? Yeah, not, this is something that about about the situation,
• 1:46:15
  but upset at him. So okay, this is this is something I
• 1:46:19
  said when someone brought up that they think Aidan Paladin might be having a bit
• 1:46:27
  of a meltdown. She wasn't she still is. I don't know. Yeah,
• 1:46:31
  all all creators are a volcano of fuck. Oh yeah, every creative
• 1:46:39
  person on this planet is a thin membrane over a volcano of fuck. Okay,
• 1:46:45
  guys, every single one of us, I include myself. Um,
• 1:46:49
  they if the more charming they are, the larger the volcano of fuck,
• 1:46:57
  I guarantee it that you resemble that they're more charismatic. This is what I've
• 1:47:02
  noticed. This is what I've noticed is that all and like, there's a
• 1:47:08
  there's a lot of social anxiety among performers. And I don't think that YouTubers
• 1:47:14
  get away from this. Um, if you crave attention to that degree,
• 1:47:18
  there's probably some something, some deep pain that you aren't that you're sort of
• 1:47:27
  trying to soothe. I guess would be a way to say it. Um,
• 1:47:32
  And I mean not not all, not necessarily all YouTubers. There's some
• 1:47:36
  YouTubers that have something to say and they just like, Okay, I've said
• 1:47:40
  it. I'm done. Um. But you know, a lot of people
• 1:47:43
  who seek attention they do it because there's something painful that they're that they're not
• 1:47:49
  facing, and so they seek it as a means to to soothe themselves.
• 1:47:55
  So I'm not surprised when people who are creative or creators or people who put
• 1:48:00
  themselves out there blow up. Yeah, when they go a little squirrely,
• 1:48:04
  when they go a little squirrely, like and you know, people should.
• 1:48:09
  I wish people had a little bit more forbearance for that, because you know,
• 1:48:15
  you've you've enjoyed, they've entertained you, You've enjoyed listening to them,
• 1:48:21
  and you have to realize that a lot of that talent, a lot of
• 1:48:25
  that ability to make to keep people entertained, to have a presence that makes
• 1:48:31
  you interesting, often is there because they're dealing with something extremely painful in their
• 1:48:38
  life. And you know, but this is what I see over and over
• 1:48:42
  again, like a creator who's has this audience who really likes them and likes
• 1:48:45
  how they present themselves, likes what they have to say and how they say
• 1:48:49
  it, likes the energy that they zu because they're so charismatic, they're so
• 1:48:53
  charming, they're so funny, and then that frenetic and then that creator are
• 1:49:00
  inevitably you know, cap craters because of the paint, whatever painful thing he's
• 1:49:04
  sort of running from, and then the audience immediately turns on them and gets
• 1:49:09
  just as much joy tearing them apart. Yeah. So okay, like I'm
• 1:49:13
  going through you know, Yeah, No, he is going through through some
• 1:49:16
  shit, and and some of that maybe um of his own making, and
• 1:49:23
  some of it might not. Um. But if there's one thing I've learned
• 1:49:27
  over the last little while, um, wholeheartedly defending h someone when you don't
• 1:49:35
  know all the details is just as perilous as wholeheartedly condemning them. So let's
• 1:49:43
  just wait and see. Yeah. I also heard that they're dicing without any
• 1:49:46
  faults, so nobody's alleging anything. Yeah. Um, So it would be
• 1:49:51
  nice if people don't sort of encourage them to take sides in this. Just
• 1:49:56
  let them break amicably as amicably as they can for the sake of the children,
• 1:50:00
  and maybe leave leave your attention out of it, if you know what
• 1:50:05
  I'm saying, Karen. Well, And and I also keep in mind that
• 1:50:11
  if he's not earning any money, she's not earning any money. Either right
• 1:50:15
  or not getting any money. You know, like this is this is really
• 1:50:20
  one of those things where it's like if if they're in the middle of a
• 1:50:25
  divorce, um, and he loses a huge chunk of of his listeners and
• 1:50:33
  his fans, and I think he's maybe, um not necessarily going about retaining
• 1:50:43
  that in the best way. UM. But if he if he loses that,
• 1:50:49
  then you know, like he's going to have alimony checks that he can't
• 1:50:54
  pay, going to have child support checks that he can't pay, and and
• 1:50:59
  she's not gonna his daughters aren't going to be getting any money, and and
• 1:51:02
  so I mean, it's just going to be like an entire like fiasco for
• 1:51:06
  the entire family. UM. So you know, I I just it's just
• 1:51:14
  not I'm just saying, like you never good. I know this is probably
• 1:51:16
  not going to happen, but it'd be nice if people just, you know,
• 1:51:19
  when you see something like this happening, just back away, let it
• 1:51:25
  go, Let them sort themselves out so that the best outcome can happen.
• 1:51:30
  Don't like vulture and tear people apart, is my opinion. Anyway, at
• 1:51:36
  least not until something is um, something concrete, until we know something more
• 1:51:43
  concrete. Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, so we play a little
• 1:51:46
  more. Yeah yeah, yeah, tiny little bit more. Okay, then
• 1:51:54
  I got a hour as aggressively as they like. Trans men usually grow up
• 1:51:58
  learning what man maybe as aggressive as they like? Oh yeah, uh huh,
• 1:52:05
  this guy, I just want to say, you're failing at being a
• 1:52:11
  man right now. And I'm not saying this because you're a trans man,
• 1:52:14
  because a lot of CIS men also fail in the same way. You are
• 1:52:17
  failing as a man already. Stephen, Stephen Crowder was sitting down through that
• 1:52:24
  whole fight, like almost the entire fight, and and and it's like,
• 1:52:30
  uh, he wasn't expressing his aggression any way, he liked, yeah,
• 1:52:39
  like what he was still seen as aggressive, like almost universally, Um,
• 1:52:46
  I know, isn't It doesn't take much to see men as dangerous, does
• 1:52:50
  it? No, it really doesn't. It really doesn't. Yeah, I
• 1:52:56
  thought the same thing. This is total bull shit. You know, there
• 1:53:00
  are criminal laws against you know, men's aggression, not just that, there's
• 1:53:03
  social mores against men's aggression. Oh, you're never really going to be to
• 1:53:10
  get even a little bit physical with a woman in public, and you'll be
• 1:53:13
  attacked from like three sides by bystander men. What the hell is this dude
• 1:53:19
  on? He's on testosterone and hormone blockers? Ah, sense is he?
• 1:53:30
  Yeah? Yeah? A little bit more, a little bit more. We
• 1:53:32
  have to fight the messages society sent us about being small, quiet, and
• 1:53:36
  invisible. We don't have access to a lot of the power inherently given to
• 1:53:41
  CIS men. And sometimes when we was a strong aggressive role, CIS men
• 1:53:45
  react with violence. When you don't fit into the strong aggressive role, CIS
• 1:53:54
  men react with violence. Um, case of shit shirt. Yeah no,
• 1:54:00
  he's acting like he's going in among the fucking bunch of animals. Why did
• 1:54:03
  you transition if you feel this way about men? Yes? Why did you
• 1:54:08
  transition if you feel this way about men? If you have such contempt and
• 1:54:11
  hatred towards men? Okay, but what I'm saying is, Um, if
• 1:54:19
  you're like a little short dude and you get up in some dude's face at
• 1:54:26
  the bar, they're probably just gonna laugh you off right and tell you,
• 1:54:31
  tell you to go fuck yourself, and turn around and walk away. Um.
• 1:54:39
  The only the only bar fights I've ever witnessed have been between a men
• 1:54:45
  of similar size and similar levels of well, okay, I've witnessed some female
• 1:54:51
  bar fights, but between men, men of similar size, similar capabilities,
• 1:54:58
  right, So in to actually start a fight, you have to be well
• 1:55:03
  matched with your opponent. Otherwise they're not going to do shit. They're not
• 1:55:08
  going to do shit to you if you're like five foot six and like one
• 1:55:12
  hundred and forty pounds soaking wet. Well, considering that this dude, if
• 1:55:16
  he's after women, is not much of a like, I can't imagine many
• 1:55:23
  women are interested. Yeah, no, there's some unless there's like differo shoulders.
• 1:55:28
  So unless there's a different like criteria for trans I've got, I've got
• 1:55:32
  broader shoulders than this guy. If there's different criteria for transman, I don't
• 1:55:36
  know. But because he's short, it's like he's basically an insull. Congratulations
• 1:55:44
  you transition to insull. Yeah, I got, I got better muscle definition
• 1:55:47
  than I thought somebody would want to do that. But here you are,
• 1:55:51
  and you're gonna blame me. You're gonna blame men for this. How about
• 1:55:57
  what the women that are going to reject you if you're I don't even know,
• 1:56:00
  like if this trans man is interested in women or not, But I
• 1:56:05
  don't know, it's a mess. I'm not going to go into that.
• 1:56:08
  Okay, let's see what he has to say about our male privilege is entirely
• 1:56:12
  dependent on Yes, our male privilege is entirely dependent on how we are read.
• 1:56:16
  But another frustrating okay, wait, wait, wait, what do you
• 1:56:18
  think about regular men up space? They take up space and they could be
• 1:56:26
  as aggressive as they want. This person is delusional, Yeah, how they're
• 1:56:33
  read. Yeah no, the conservatives are gonna be like, oh, they're
• 1:56:36
  delusional about their sex. But this, this individual is delusional all the way
• 1:56:43
  down. Like the delusion started when she when you know, it was when
• 1:56:48
  he when he was a she and a girl. It started with her feminist
• 1:56:53
  teachers teaching her this crap, and it just compounded and compounded and compounded and
• 1:56:59
  compounded into the whacking off her boobs and making a penis out of the flesh
• 1:57:03
  of her arm. Yeah, okay, conservatis, you want to stop this.
• 1:57:11
  You can't stop snowball when it's two stories high. You gotta start it
• 1:57:15
  at the top. You got to start it with the with the women who
• 1:57:19
  start yapping about how men constructed society for their own benefit. Because and believe
• 1:57:27
  me, if you become a man, you're gonna have like your tickets written.
• 1:57:31
  Yeah, and believe me, conservative women have their own version. All
• 1:57:36
  the condemnation of male sexuality is being as being foul and a vector of sin.
• 1:57:44
  That ship directly leads to this ship, which directly leads to women knocking
• 1:57:49
  their tits off. And oh god, I don't even want to talk about
• 1:57:54
  a pick the penis construction surgery allo plastic. Why don't they just like I
• 1:58:03
  don't know, three D print a penis out of sem cells? Can't they
• 1:58:06
  do that yet? No? Okay? Can we continue? Yes, okay
• 1:58:14
  a little bit longer. Just this men experience their genders is that some people
• 1:58:16
  will never view trans men as men, no matter how the rest of do
• 1:58:21
  Do you understand the concept of a real man? Yeah? I know.
• 1:58:26
  Do you want to be a real man? No? But here's the thing,
• 1:58:29
  Like men also get their manhood taken away should they fail to protect and
• 1:58:33
  provide for the people that need it around them. Yeah, well, by
• 1:58:38
  everyone in some cases, but by women as well. Red man card revoked?
• 1:58:45
  You know this is this, dude? You are now a man.
• 1:58:48
  That means your man card can be revoked by any woman around you if you
• 1:58:54
  are perceived as a man, any woman in your vicinity can say, Nope,
• 1:59:00
  you don't have a man card anymore. You have failed to accommodate my
• 1:59:04
  particular weakness with your manhood. Therefore your man card is revoked. That's part
• 1:59:10
  of being a man in our society. And incidentally, if you aggrass against
• 1:59:16
  any woman, if you raise your voice and insult any woman, that's an
• 1:59:20
  instant man card revoke revoking. It may also be an instant you get to
• 1:59:29
  um not have a broken nose card revoking. I got tortured, all right,
• 1:59:40
  But one more, the last one. Do we have any thank you
• 1:59:45
  to give? Yes, we do, we have one thank you. I
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  support. All right, let's play one more clip. Jesse Gender spent a
• 2:01:30
  portion of her video on trans women and mail privilege, addressing the viewpoints of
• 2:01:34
  trans exclusionary radical feminists or turfs. They mostly discussed trans women, but they
• 2:01:41
  do make the occasional off handed comment about how trans men are actually just women
• 2:01:44
  who want access to mail privilege. Not only if this frustrating sounds like that's
• 2:01:47
  what you are, Yeah, that sounds like what you're the argument you're actually
• 2:01:51
  making, it's the same one. It's almost argument you're all bullshit turfs and
• 2:02:00
  intersectionals, so under but also excuse me. Did I gain maile privilege by
• 2:02:05
  transitioning? Absolutely? But did I transition just because I wanted male privilege?
• 2:02:12
  Absolutely? Just because why not just because I wanted male privilege? Do you
• 2:02:16
  see how he sort of because yeah, of course not. He didn't.
• 2:02:21
  Didn't do it just because he wanted male privilege. He also wanted to be
• 2:02:25
  a man because he feels like he's a man. But that's just part of
• 2:02:29
  it. You know, it's like ninety percent male privilege, ten percent he
• 2:02:32
  felt like a man. Ah, you know, that kind of thing.
• 2:02:35
  But do you see him, it's just one percent, you know, I
• 2:02:41
  wanted to transition to the man for the male privilege. Okay, let's let's
• 2:02:45
  finish this. Because I remember this as some ridiculous crap at the end,
• 2:02:48
  all right, it's ridiculous. I transitioned because the gender I was assigned at
• 2:02:51
  birth did not align with who I am, and I wanted a body that
• 2:02:55
  felt like mine. But no matter what I do, ter see me as
• 2:02:58
  a woman. Meanwhile, many questions of cisman or men, well, because
• 2:03:02
  they are what do you mean? Yeah, well no, but but lots
• 2:03:06
  of people question whether a CISTS man is a man. Yeah, they do
• 2:03:11
  measure they're not a real man. Actually, what men's masculinity is under question
• 2:03:17
  way more than a woman's femininity. Yeah, so, so trans men and
• 2:03:26
  CIS men have different relationships with male privilege. There is a lot of overlap.
• 2:03:30
  Sometimes I forget that I have male privilege. I haven't been afraid to
• 2:03:33
  take a nap on the bus or to walk home alone at night in years.
• 2:03:38
  Yeah, because you're taking testosterone. Also, maybe if you were a
• 2:03:44
  woman, if you were a woman taking testosterone, you would also feel those
• 2:03:48
  same things. Okay, but maybe you were maybe more in more danger.
• 2:03:54
  Yeah, maybe you realize that you you were not actually in danger as a
• 2:03:58
  woman before, and you just acted like you were no more afraid of men.
• 2:04:03
  Does not mean that women are in more danger. Yeah, agreed,
• 2:04:08
  But I don't think I think this person doesn't realize that it was their feelings
• 2:04:14
  clouding their actual objectivity. Right, That they don't. They don't believe it
• 2:04:19
  was the effects of estrogen and having estrogen that made them feel apprehensive about walking
• 2:04:30
  home at night or taking the bust and falling asleep at night. Right,
• 2:04:33
  Um, that made them feel safer when they became a man, when they
• 2:04:40
  hormonally transitioned to being a man. No, they don't. They don't think
• 2:04:45
  that, oh, it was all a matter of perception because of my hormone
• 2:04:49
  cocktail. No, they don't think that. They think they're objectively in less
• 2:04:55
  danger as a man. Yeah. Are you saying that these that that this
• 2:05:01
  person is is reacting to emotional factors, like that feminism is an emotional ideology.
• 2:05:11
  I'm just saying, I'm I'm just I'm just saying that your hormones affect
• 2:05:18
  your emotions. I think I think we all know this because there's a thing
• 2:05:24
  called PMS, and there's a thing called PMDD, and there's there's all kinds
• 2:05:29
  of emotional states that can be brought on by hormone imbalances and also different hormone
• 2:05:36
  balances. And then and so when you when you like cut your estrogen by
• 2:05:45
  seventy five percent and up your testosterone by one hundred percent or four hundred percent,
• 2:05:53
  And then and then y'all of a sudden aren't really concerned about how safe
• 2:05:59
  it is to walk around at night as someone with the same fucking build and
• 2:06:03
  the same amount of money and they're freaking on their person what And then you're
• 2:06:14
  like, oh, this is male privilege. No, it's not. You're
• 2:06:16
  actually in more danger than you were before. You just don't feel it.
• 2:06:29
  A yep, this guy's ridiculous. Let's keeping on. The further I get
• 2:06:35
  into my transition, the more I let my guard down, and I wonder
• 2:06:39
  about all the ways I'm accessing privilege that I don't even realize, Like I've
• 2:06:42
  only ever been a shann in the workforce and I'll never Maybe you should just
• 2:06:46
  live your life and stop worrying about No, no, no, I'm I'm
• 2:06:50
  just saying, maybe if we just micro dosed all women with tests, yeah
• 2:07:02
  yeah, and become adults, we immediately just you realize that everyone is over
• 2:07:09
  astrogenated now. Yeah no, And and you're looking at it like, Okay,
• 2:07:13
  so fairness and bargaining that's promoted by testosterone. Reduction in the telling of
• 2:07:19
  self serving wise promoted by testosterone. A decrease in physical aggression because there's a
• 2:07:29
  decrease in emotionality and fear response boosted by testosterone. Hmmmm. So I'm thinking,
• 2:07:39
  I'm thinking maybe we could all use a little tea. Yeah, probably
• 2:07:43
  eradicate feminism one night. Just all right, I see, And you were
• 2:07:48
  like, oh, people ask me, what's the solution. I just said
• 2:07:51
  it wrong. Everybody gets a patch. Yeah, everybody. Everybody, Look
• 2:08:00
  under your chair, it's a testoster. Look under your chairs. You might
• 2:08:05
  just bring a mustache, but you won't care because you'll have more body confidence
• 2:08:09
  and you'll be more feel more comfortable in your own skin. Yeah, it
• 2:08:15
  was testosterone all along, guys, ladies, it was testosterone all along.
• 2:08:20
  The benefits that men half testosterone probably less polycystic ovarian disease and endometriosis ts true,
• 2:08:30
  Yeah, and less hyper guy no mastier or whatever, well, guynacomastia
• 2:08:41
  in men and hyper masteria no giganto mastia and women, um, which is
• 2:08:46
  like when you have Andre the giant sprouting out of your chest. Yeah,
• 2:08:50
  okay, I'm saying and career building as a woman, as someone who is
• 2:08:54
  entering the media industry, a field largely dominated by white men, I wonder
• 2:08:58
  how much year it will be for me to get my foot in the door.
• 2:09:01
  And though it's rare, once in a blue moon, I do pass
• 2:09:03
  as a cis straight man. Um. I don't know if that's true about
• 2:09:09
  the entertainment industry being dominated by white men. I think that's this guy thinks
• 2:09:13
  he's gonna be It's gonna be easier for him. Yeah, of course it
• 2:09:16
  would be easier for him because he's I'm here to be a producer. I
• 2:09:22
  brought my man card. Oh, we'll step right in. We have we
• 2:09:24
  have a table waiting for you right over here. No, no, no,
• 2:09:28
  he brought it. But his trans car is gonna get him in.
• 2:09:33
  It's nothing to do with being a man. Yeah, how fucking stupid is
• 2:09:37
  this kid? No answer, He's not stupid. He's just been hoodwinked.
• 2:09:46
  Yeah. And when I do sis Drake, guys tell me all kinds of
• 2:09:50
  nasty and objectifying things about women. I know that I should interrupt and stand
• 2:09:54
  up for the women they're to facing, but often I say nothing. It's
• 2:09:58
  nice to feel normal for a second, even if what's normal is totally messed
• 2:10:01
  up. You're such an asshole. Oh my god, I get to see
• 2:10:07
  what they're really like behind closed doors. Yo, Mama, what a fucking
• 2:10:15
  asshole this person is. What a slimy fuck. I'm just like, I'm
• 2:10:22
  just like, I'm sorry. But when men are alone with other men,
• 2:10:26
  um, they they do things and say things that they would never say around
• 2:10:31
  women. UM. And you know, I sometimes I'm on the periphery of
• 2:10:39
  those conversations and I listened to them, and I frequently laughed because the things
• 2:10:45
  that they say are funny, and you know, maybe they apply to me,
• 2:10:50
  But the things that I say about my husband are also funny and they
• 2:10:52
  do apply to him. And so it's like, what, we can't have
• 2:10:58
  a set of humor, and we can't we can't objectify the opposite sex.
• 2:11:03
  Really, only women can objectify the opposite sex because they don't really objectify them
• 2:11:09
  because men have the power and you know, and so they can't be objectified.
• 2:11:13
  Like nobody ever freaking stared at David Beckham's pack at tex and gluts and
• 2:11:20
  freaking these men let the hard down around this fucking chicken and he turns around
• 2:11:28
  and stabs them. Yeah, no, he's just like, oh, and
• 2:11:31
  they're just this, they're corross. Then they hate women, and it's like,
• 2:11:37
  no, they don't hate women. I'm one of these. You should
• 2:11:41
  hear me sometimes talking about like the men I've dated, my husband, you
• 2:11:48
  know, my eggs, my you know, like all kinds of men,
• 2:11:56
  even my own sons, right, and I'll talk about them and all just
• 2:11:58
  be so insulting. And it's like but as long as you're funny, and
• 2:12:03
  they're like, yeah, yeah, that's kind of true. You know,
• 2:12:07
  I'll say shit, right, and by in there, who's going to report
• 2:12:11
  on them? Like? What is this romania during communism? Well that's what
• 2:12:16
  it feels like, doesn't it? A little snitch? You know? And
• 2:12:22
  what you want to you want to be a man. What don't you try
• 2:12:26
  understanding what it's like to be a man to like she have to to shit
• 2:12:31
  talk about your spouse, right, and then go home and love her as
• 2:12:35
  much as you did before you opened jamalc with your buddies. How about that?
• 2:12:39
  Right? The funny thing is that you know Norah Vincent, who who
• 2:12:43
  I would actually trust more in terms of her observations of being a man because
• 2:12:48
  she wasn't. Yeah, um wasn't influenced by the fact that of the gender's
• 2:12:54
  dysmorphia itself. Yeah, because people will be influenced by this whole She was
• 2:13:01
  traumatized by trying to live as a man. Yeah, she didn't really want
• 2:13:05
  to, She didn't really want to be perceived as a man, so that
• 2:13:09
  wasn't going to influence her observations of it. She said that, then we're
• 2:13:13
  very gracious towards their female partners. Oh, they love their wives, their
• 2:13:20
  wives, you know, and their daughters and their sisters and their mother.
• 2:13:24
  The other thing is that, you know, I've heard plenty about how women
• 2:13:31
  will openly objectify men in the most crude and disgusting ways, right in front
• 2:13:35
  of men. I mean, at least men take it somewhere else. Really,
• 2:13:41
  this is what he's revealing, is that men don't feel oh like like
• 2:13:46
  he says, Oh, men can express anything, but you know, when
• 2:13:50
  they finally let their guard down, they express all this stuff to me,
• 2:13:54
  Yes, because they don't want to do it in front of women. Maybe
• 2:13:56
  they don't want to be rude in front of women, or you know,
• 2:14:00
  they're afraid of me. They don't want to. They don't want to hurt
• 2:14:03
  their own women's feelings. But sometimes sometimes you're a woman just like sometimes your
• 2:14:09
  man is says being a total cunt, and you know, like that that's
• 2:14:15
  just that's just how it is being in a relationship. And you know what,
• 2:14:18
  it's really nice to be able to talk to somebody who is not that
• 2:14:22
  person who's annoying you about how that person is annoying you. Like, well,
• 2:14:28
  he's talking about ejectification. But if you heard like how women talk about
• 2:14:33
  men publicly in front of me, Oh yeah, like seriously, dude,
• 2:14:39
  oh man, Go go to a strip club, Go to a strip club,
• 2:14:41
  go to a strip club with female strippers and male clientele. And it's
• 2:14:46
  like Kevin McGinnis said, it's like men are at a cathedral, right,
• 2:14:52
  They're they're at a church, right, and they're just like oh and it's
• 2:14:56
  almost like they're in prayer and they're just sitting there quietly, just watching,
• 2:15:00
  and and they don't they don't really And if if you touch one of them,
• 2:15:07
  you're out. You're you're booted out. Bouncers come and get you,
• 2:15:09
  right. And but women on a ladies night with male strippers, oh god,
• 2:15:16
  those those women. They there are male stripper stripper troops who are full
• 2:15:24
  of straight men who strip, who only do gay clubs because gay men know
• 2:15:33
  how to how to keep their hands off and women don't. And and the
• 2:15:43
  ladies nights, the clubs that put on ladies nights, they won't police that
• 2:15:46
  shit. They won't stop the women from just grabbing whatever they want to grab.
• 2:15:54
  Yeah. Now, I'm pretty sure quite a few male strippers won't do
• 2:15:58
  ladies nights. They'll just strip for men, even if they're straight. Yeah,
• 2:16:03
  there there is a There is like a daytime talk show clip I saw
• 2:16:09
  where male strippers were talking about the abuse that they have to deal with at
• 2:16:13
  their job. But I have to find it because I was curious about that.
• 2:16:18
  Okay, so there's like thirty seconds left. I don't know if you
• 2:16:22
  want to hear it or Okay, okay, let's let's just let's just blast
• 2:16:26
  through it and seconds. But it doesn't have to be this way. It's
• 2:16:30
  important for all men trans ansists to fight the norms established by the patriarchy or
• 2:16:35
  experiences are different. We all have some degree of access to this loud,
• 2:16:39
  powerful, at times dangerous thing called privilege. It's imperative that we do our
• 2:16:43
  best to acknowledge this beast rain it in and not use it to fight women,
• 2:16:48
  but to fight for women. No one chooses the knapsack of privilege,
• 2:16:52
  but how you unpack it is up to you. Oh he said, Oh
• 2:16:56
  yes, you have to use it to fight for women. Yeah. Oh
• 2:17:01
  yeah, No, you're the first man to ever think about fighting for women.
• 2:17:05
  Dude, yeah five five first man ever. Yeah, provide and protect
• 2:17:13
  women. Yeah. Wow, this this whole thing about men turned out to
• 2:17:18
  be a thing about women. Who'd have thought, yeah, no, and
• 2:17:22
  but there's only one good man and it's this one. This is basically just
• 2:17:26
  you know, like respect women with extra steps, like a lot of extra
• 2:17:31
  steps. You remember the other guy that we watched or the girl that we
• 2:17:35
  watched, and yeah, he was like the same thing, Like she's gonna
• 2:17:41
  be the one good man without even being a man. Yeah, these women
• 2:17:45
  are going to become men, and they're going to become better men than men.
• 2:17:48
  You know what. I think that that's fine. They can go do
• 2:17:52
  that and h and men will continue to stop being interested in women. Like
• 2:18:00
  what is it like ten percent in a year, like the number of men
• 2:18:03
  looking for any kind of anything to do with women went down ten percent in
• 2:18:05
  a year. Yeah, like fifteen percent in two years. You know,
• 2:18:09
  if that keeps going, they'll be like absolutely no, man is it.
• 2:18:13
  They'll just look at this and they'll be like, Okay, m's what's on
• 2:18:16
  the TV. No, yeah, men won't won't give a fuck at all.
• 2:18:22
  And you know what, that'll be interesting. That'll be interesting. It'll
• 2:18:24
  be interesting to wake up in a world where a woman isn't looked at.
• 2:18:30
  Men just don care ever ever ever, Like you don't even have the betas,
• 2:18:35
  like they're not gonna be interested and uh, and I guess you'll be
• 2:18:39
  stuck with the men who look really good have no social skills, because this
• 2:18:43
  is another thing like that top five percent ten percent, you know that you
• 2:18:48
  just go on the carousel and you get a sex partner. They don't have
• 2:18:52
  any goddamn social skills. They don't even have the social skills i'd have.
• 2:18:56
  You know, don't have social skills. Yeah, I know you don't,
• 2:19:03
  but um, but no, and I don't either, you know, Like
• 2:19:07
  I scandalized my mother in law on the regular, but that her entire family.
• 2:19:13
  So yeah, I just hide behind my dog anyway, like my mom
• 2:19:20
  my mom had an entire lifetime fifty two years to get used to me.
• 2:19:24
  My mother in law has only had thirteen, so I'm going to give her
• 2:19:26
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