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Episode 72"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: The tree is real. It's about to go down. Wake up,
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Speaker 1: wake up and pivot, turn it up. You know, if
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Speaker 1: you're gonna shoot, you better shoot straight, because also, who
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Speaker 1: did I don't lose the worst thing you can deal
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Speaker 1: with tracks Welcome to the follow Alert Show featuring your
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Speaker 1: lifestyle specialists. And he burns so long and Ferrari Simmons
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Speaker 1: that the tree is lifestyle specialist Kenny Turns Simmons baby
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Speaker 1: Ethiopian solos, goodness, welcome, thank you, miss yall. We'll be
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Speaker 1: missing you. I'll be missing to. I don't think y'all realized.
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Speaker 1: Bald and she has a certain smell to its part
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Speaker 1: detergent perfume trying to make sure I smell fresh is Egyptian?
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Speaker 1: Is I actually do a perfume till I do cocktail
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Speaker 1: oils or just perfume burberry weekend and it's not gonna
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Speaker 1: smell the same. Yeah, you know, different chemistry gives you
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Speaker 1: different results. Yeah, it's all good. There is I love.
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Speaker 1: I love a perfume cocktail. There's a non chop with you,
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Speaker 1: like the instance non chopper. Right, there's a spray for
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Speaker 1: your car. And I had smelled a girl walk past.
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Speaker 1: It's like yo, you smell like non chopper. She was like,
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Speaker 1: I don't wear it, but I got a secret. It's
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Speaker 1: my car spray, so sometimes it wears on her. So
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Speaker 1: big shopping chopper. If you have an experienced young chomper
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Speaker 1: is very interesting. Shout out to people that just smell good, Well,
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Speaker 1: how about smell good to wash their clothes? You know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yes, you have Washington drives at the
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Speaker 1: house and you got to use the beads, so the
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Speaker 1: scent lasts for like almost two weeks. That's what it is. Yes, yes, yes,
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Speaker 1: could you do be smelling fresh? I will thank you.
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Speaker 1: I try. I went, you know, all through my childhood
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Speaker 1: smelling like an Ethiopian child. Alright, alright, My weekend was great.
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Speaker 1: Saturday was the emotional day for me DJ four parties
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Speaker 1: and one day that was Dope DJ because one year
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Speaker 1: ago I want DJ and ship and today's my daughter's birthday.
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Speaker 1: Happy birthday for a badass on the screen me. She
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Speaker 1: don't like nobody but me. She want nobody touching me. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that hurts my feelings. Hurts my feelings. I'd be like, Chase,
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Speaker 1: keep me hugged. Rory day care at the house, everybody down. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I got my my ten year old for the summer.
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Speaker 1: I got the clip. I gotta show you all the show.
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Speaker 1: They edited the thing. I'm excited to see y'all expressions
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Speaker 1: after all. Right, Okay, okay, Solo, how was your weekend? Baby?
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Speaker 1: Weekend was really great? My niece graduated. So I love you.
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Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. I think you're gonna do
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Speaker 1: amazing in college. But please come home like every weekend.
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Speaker 1: Okay much? Please do all live too much? But I'm
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Speaker 1: just nervous thinking about this. Anyways, I love you. Please
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Speaker 1: come home every single weekend? Okay? Um? What else happened? Um?
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Speaker 1: My dinner series launched? We talked about that. Yes, thank
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Speaker 1: you so much. Um. It was awesome, senseless by so Solo.
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Speaker 1: It's a three course meal, blindfolds cocktails. It was super
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Speaker 1: psych only twenty reservations the whole night. So if you
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Speaker 1: guys want to come through, you can email me reach
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Speaker 1: a Solo dot com and we will take care of
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Speaker 1: your reservations from there. And then what else happened? You
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Speaker 1: have a chef give us yes, So it's a three
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Speaker 1: course meal. Your appetizer, your dessert are shared with your date.
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Speaker 1: And then you all you both have your own courses.
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Speaker 1: Um reservations are available for two or four people, so
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Speaker 1: it's a date night, a girl's night out. But every
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Speaker 1: course is paired with a cocktail, and you're blindfolded every
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Speaker 1: time you taste the cocktail. We literally designed the dishes
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Speaker 1: and the cocktails two pairs so that the flavors are
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Speaker 1: like robust and like just wilden in your mouth and
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Speaker 1: that's pause, it's food. Yeah, And Keshy and I actually
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Speaker 1: just finally launched the launch the Loft Brunch at Brooklyn
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Speaker 1: and our our boy wrote to me and came by
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Speaker 1: and I was so super grateful for that came by.
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Speaker 1: I had a good time. Yeah, my Nigerian brother. Okay,
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Speaker 1: well we'll just say that. Yeah, it's been really great.
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Speaker 1: The cyer rating events is going really well. And then
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Speaker 1: Streets one, four five with Ferrari's going really well. Ball
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Speaker 1: Alert is awesome. Everything is just great. Man, energy is
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Speaker 1: just awesome. Yeah, Yeah, we love your glow. She working
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Speaker 1: the boys to like she Yeah, Rri has been on me,
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Speaker 1: Like he texted mes say, like, Yo, you're doing the
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Speaker 1: boards by yourself all this week. Engineer to that feel
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Speaker 1: like you know, I'm going to be like unstoppable you
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Speaker 1: are because we are behind you and we love you.
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Speaker 1: The whole thing to talk about, but I want to
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Speaker 1: get into the in case you mr, so I can
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Speaker 1: talk about it and in case you missed the case, ladies.
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Speaker 1: Jamen sending prayers out to the family in Virginia beach
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Speaker 1: Man shooting down there people right, yeah, twelve people. Mental
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Speaker 1: health is real, y'all. Y'all have to you pay attention
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Speaker 1: to the signs man, you know, and I want to
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Speaker 1: say something about the You know, these workplaces, man, these
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Speaker 1: people that worked for you yesterday, they're your employees. But
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Speaker 1: you have to pay attention to your employees. You have to.
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Speaker 1: You have to lock in and see what's going on.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you just can't have people come in you
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Speaker 1: not know who they are, not checking in on the
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Speaker 1: M and A families. You have to know these things.
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Speaker 1: I didn't know much about it, so he was an employee.
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Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't read the article, so yeah, I
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Speaker 1: think so. But yeah, prayers go out to the family
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Speaker 1: in Virginia. B um. Also, the famous drug kingpin Frank
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Speaker 1: Lucas American gangster was made about him and his journey,
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Speaker 1: which uh, you know our brother Denzel big brother almight
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Speaker 1: t Denzel Washington played he died at eight. Um. I
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Speaker 1: really loved that movie. It's one of the gangster flicks
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Speaker 1: that really was shot amazing in the first time all
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Speaker 1: star cast comment and it almost make you have compassion
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Speaker 1: for a snitch a little bit. I mean not really,
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Speaker 1: but the story and the way it was told had
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Speaker 1: a little more interested in and then then you know
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Speaker 1: they did a little extra in the movie to make
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Speaker 1: it the movie. But yeah, that was amazing, amazing. Everything
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Speaker 1: wasn't next if you haven't seen it. Some things wasn't
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Speaker 1: mellaghed a little bit exaggerated movies. I think you got
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Speaker 1: to pull the people in now, but that that that
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Speaker 1: the coat and you really want that, shouldn't want that,
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Speaker 1: But you know, put the picture on the original one
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Speaker 1: and denzelia in the same coat. Hell, but I was
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Speaker 1: I was like, I mean, if you think about the
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Speaker 1: error in the time, I was expensive and yeah, he
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Speaker 1: was showing out at one time for the new artist
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Speaker 1: Magan the stallion. Hey, that's my stallion for hottie to
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Speaker 1: combat war. I think that is so dope. Different calls.
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Speaker 1: I don't really hear things like that from new artists.
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Speaker 1: She's really smart. Um, Rory and DC interviewed her over
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Speaker 1: on streets once and just like sidebar conversation. She's really smart.
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Speaker 1: She's she's a dope artist. Um, she's compassionate. I think
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Speaker 1: she's a normal human being that actually has real concerns
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Speaker 1: and she wants to make sure that she's using platform. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: she's she's taller than me. She sall sexually. I think
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Speaker 1: she might be a little bit taller you. I mean
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Speaker 1: we interviewed her. Look like you just want to grab
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Speaker 1: her and put her in the something about is what
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Speaker 1: Trey Song said, not your head off for the culture.
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Speaker 1: But I met her. We met her originally in two
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Speaker 1: thousand seventeen. UM got in trouble for interviewing on the
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Speaker 1: radio because yeah, because it was kind of like unsigned,
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Speaker 1: who is that? Who is that? Store? Now? New album?
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Speaker 1: She's aweso't now. I love her person. Her music is dope.
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Speaker 1: She's dope, she rap rap. I meant that with all.
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Speaker 1: I think she's going to go really far. Wrestling summer
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Speaker 1: jan was this week, y'all me goes CARDIV divid Oh David,
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Speaker 1: his real name is David. If I tell you say
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Speaker 1: I love you you Sorry, Okay, great, I want to
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Speaker 1: say it's about Meet Meals performer. Yeah. I think meat
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Speaker 1: Meal is the one of his generation. I think after
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Speaker 1: seeing his composure, the way he raps now, his energy,
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Speaker 1: and his fucking swag. I mean he's giving God talk,
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Speaker 1: not as an all times ascending. I don't want to
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Speaker 1: give him number one yet. Kendrick J. Cole. Still, my guys,
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Speaker 1: Kendrick J. Cole, I know this is this is now
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Speaker 1: doing Kendrick J. Cole. Okay, if it's me me Ferrari J. Cole,
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Speaker 1: Kendrick Drake Me, Okay, can I just classify that I'm
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Speaker 1: saying street culture rap me. He's the one I'm talking
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Speaker 1: about the lines of history. I'm talking about Big jay Z.
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Speaker 1: Like you know, I think a part of the fascination
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Speaker 1: is like seeing where he came from and then seeing
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Speaker 1: what he did with his situation. That's really what it is.
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Speaker 1: Everybody's looking at like, Okay, wow, not only did he
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Speaker 1: go through this, but he's really communicating it really well.
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Speaker 1: So I think that's giving him like a little a
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Speaker 1: little extra push. Let's teach my son's the times the swag.
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Speaker 1: It's totally marry yourself like he's at a different strategy talking.
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Speaker 1: He's doing really well. He's the form thing is amazing.
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Speaker 1: We salute you me keep doing that. Um. Marseille Martin,
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Speaker 1: y'all remember her from the movie Little Right, she was
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Speaker 1: a producer. She's producing another thing Universal called a Maori
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Speaker 1: and the Night Brothers. This is a child, y'all out
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Speaker 1: here producing things. She's young. She's like like teenagers, like
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Speaker 1: early teens. Good that she's definitely an early because she
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Speaker 1: about she was asking it. She looking kind of sometimes. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: she's like fifteen. She's that's beautiful. A big shout out
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Speaker 1: to Marseille Martin. You go girl on. Did y'all see
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Speaker 1: the post of Baller Alert did with the most iconic
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Speaker 1: moments in black TV history? No? Oh, I did episode
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Speaker 1: when Martin came down and say, oh yeah, I saw
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Speaker 1: the family matters. One the most memorable moment in black
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Speaker 1: TV history for me, it was Fresh Prince of bel
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Speaker 1: Air when Will broke down about not having his Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that that that was a real moment, Like he played
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Speaker 1: that really well as he did many other things, but
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Speaker 1: that really set out. Um marn comes to mind, and
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Speaker 1: my favorite uh part was when Pam Walks in um
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Speaker 1: too when Biggie was in the room and then Walks
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Speaker 1: just walked into apartments and stress and like that's her whole.
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Speaker 1: So what's up? That's my favorite? You got a favorite
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Speaker 1: black television moment? Um, I want to say mine is
11:48
Speaker 1: Will Smith on the last episode when he's standing in
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Speaker 1: the room, he got of know you got on those
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Speaker 1: Columbia Blue because Columbia White eleven Jordan elevens and I
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Speaker 1: hand the money and I had him. I was like, damn,
12:01
Speaker 1: I wish I had them put it on the screenings
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Speaker 1: clean and fun. I think my most metal moment when
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Speaker 1: Wayne Way because if you watch a Different World, you
12:11
Speaker 1: were following the Wayne Wait and Whitley that she was
12:15
Speaker 1: getting married and we posted that. Go to ball alert
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Speaker 1: dot com. You haven't seen but you never touched my heart? Right,
12:22
Speaker 1: you know these are nineties, right, this is the nineties.
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Speaker 1: But all the time, you can say, at all time,
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Speaker 1: I have some great memories of good times. I have
12:30
Speaker 1: a great memories like as a child, I was gonna
12:32
Speaker 1: go with the game. When you know Melanie, Damn, Melodie
12:37
Speaker 1: was treated and she was like tim me to my
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Speaker 1: face shooting sleep with her. Drwin we want to know
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Speaker 1: what your favorite black television show of all time is
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Speaker 1: a moment in black television history. Are there any new
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Speaker 1: black shows that you guys like right now? I want
12:51
Speaker 1: to know. That's a great question for all. Boomerang is
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Speaker 1: pretty good. I like, h well, that's an old I
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Speaker 1: like the Soul training story a little bit. Oh yeah, yeah,
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Speaker 1: American Soul. I don't know, that's a great question. We
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Speaker 1: don't need more. I think, yeah, this is good. Then
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Speaker 1: I got mixed this. Now, remember the Steve Harvey Show.
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Speaker 1: Ye remember ste Harvey Show was hard man. That was good. Y'all. President, y'all,
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Speaker 1: y'all's president is at it again. It's trip tripping again.
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Speaker 1: He called Margo nasty. Didn't try to backtrack and say
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Speaker 1: he didn't call her nasty, And the audio, whole audio
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Speaker 1: he said that where everybody heard, indeed back two hundred
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Speaker 1: lem tee times on CNN. He also trying to put
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Speaker 1: tear us on Mexico. You know a lot of cars
13:43
Speaker 1: are made up through and then come up and through here,
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Speaker 1: and so that's going going from an extra dollar to
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Speaker 1: three exactly, going buy a car right now because the
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Speaker 1: tax is gonna be serious. I already went to Bens.
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Speaker 1: They pissed me on my new car today and it's
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Speaker 1: not gonna be a being because y'all pumped up after
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Speaker 1: nineteen years. But I'm telling everybody's teams, yeah, I had
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Speaker 1: three g wagons to that. I mean, like y'all tripping
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Speaker 1: Ben's okay. And also he y'all to check this out
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Speaker 1: here tweeting on the toilet, he tried to become an
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Speaker 1: activist for the LGBT community, and he said he's calling
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Speaker 1: all nations to decriminalize homosexuality. Now, I just want to
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Speaker 1: is an Orange man? The same person was just lea.
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Speaker 1: This is Donald Trump tweeting saying that he's saluting all
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Speaker 1: the LGBT community contributors to the nation. And is that
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Speaker 1: I their didn't even says that some people kill you
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Speaker 1: for being gay some countries, and he's inviting those countries
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Speaker 1: with his administration to battle and decriminalize homosexuality. You know what,
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Speaker 1: I just everything is a ploy, a plot. You don't
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Speaker 1: talk about. How does he care what's going on in
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Speaker 1: other countries when he doesn't even want other people coming
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Speaker 1: here from residential campaign. He doesn't care about anything. So
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Speaker 1: he's saying it. Does it doesn't make sense. It makes
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Speaker 1: no sense at all that that is not like and
15:11
Speaker 1: my thing is like, you clearly are not about people,
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Speaker 1: let alone the l g T LGBT community. Like what
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Speaker 1: if he is president for another term, he won't be
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Speaker 1: as he should not be. I will be absolutely discussed,
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Speaker 1: especially after knowing his involvement or like his interests in
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Speaker 1: the Central Park five case. Like I watched when they
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Speaker 1: see us um this this weekend and I could not
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Speaker 1: believe that he actually paid I think it was dollars
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Speaker 1: to get an ad out to try to get um
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Speaker 1: the death finalty back in place. Like he's really invested
15:52
Speaker 1: in sucking people out and he has been. And you know,
15:56
Speaker 1: speaking of that, the next topic when they see us
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Speaker 1: came out big shout to April. It was amazing everybody, Yes,
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Speaker 1: it was. It was. It was tragically phenomenal. And I
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Speaker 1: say that because the story was told and shot unbelievably,
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Speaker 1: that's into each character. You were locked into what was
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Speaker 1: going on. But you know what was so tragic for
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Speaker 1: me And I want to hear you guys and what
16:18
Speaker 1: you have to say about it, And I'm glad you.
16:20
Speaker 1: I was going to hit you and be like watch
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Speaker 1: but it's like five hours in you know, the last night,
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Speaker 1: the first night I started watching, I stayed up till
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Speaker 1: about five o'clock in the morning and didn't even realize
16:29
Speaker 1: I was already I was four episodes, three episodes, and
16:32
Speaker 1: it's four total, so you yea. I was looking at
16:35
Speaker 1: it and it bugged me out because in eight nine
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Speaker 1: started introducing these mandatory minimums on the drug side of things,
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Speaker 1: and you had to do a certain monti drug free
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Speaker 1: zones around schools, all these things and all the laws.
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Speaker 1: And this is back when all that. I don't know
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Speaker 1: if you've been seeing all this stuff with Joe Biden's
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Speaker 1: been popping up, how he's the grandfather of you know,
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Speaker 1: basically black destruction and criminalization whatever, uh in the you know,
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Speaker 1: in the in the justice system. Um. And then like
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Speaker 1: for me, I'm looking at these mothers. They're they're like
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Speaker 1: a little older than me, right, and I'm like they
17:08
Speaker 1: look like them now. I'm like, they've been they went
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Speaker 1: through hell, like so you imagine, let's just let's just
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Speaker 1: set the tone. You are a teenager fourteen, fifteen, and
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Speaker 1: sixteen years old, and you are in the park, you know,
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Speaker 1: and you you're really on some neighborhood ship. Back then,
17:23
Speaker 1: you left the house in the morning, you came home
17:26
Speaker 1: at night. That's just what you did. And you ran
17:28
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. Your parents were like be home by street
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Speaker 1: lights or right, But this is what you did. And yes,
17:35
Speaker 1: people did dumb ship. But when I tell you this
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Speaker 1: prosecutor had it out for these boys and for me,
17:43
Speaker 1: it registered in the whole another way. I actually did
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Speaker 1: a whole I G TV story yesterday. It rested the
17:47
Speaker 1: whole another way. And it goes back to fear. When
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Speaker 1: I saw those little boys terrified, they were I mean
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Speaker 1: they were terrified, and we're coherst into basically admitting. If
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Speaker 1: you watch the shows, you see that admitted is what
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Speaker 1: got them locked up because they had no evidence of
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Speaker 1: anything else. No seamen, no, no, no, DNA, ain't no
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Speaker 1: nothing right. And so when I think about fear and
18:09
Speaker 1: how we're injected with kear all the time, Like when
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Speaker 1: you go to an airport back and you know and
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Speaker 1: after not I'm eleven, for like five years, every time
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Speaker 1: you go to the airport, is beating in your brain,
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Speaker 1: won't orange alert you see something, say something. I mean,
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Speaker 1: every where you go is fear. You look at commercials
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Speaker 1: in the media. Everything is fierce. All the Mexicans are coming.
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Speaker 1: You gotta protect the borders. Like, but that's a cultural
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Speaker 1: issue that we have to define. That is a cultural
18:36
Speaker 1: issue that we must stand. We cannot teach our babies
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Speaker 1: to be scared. We have to equip them with the
18:41
Speaker 1: knowledge of the laws in their rights. And we have
18:44
Speaker 1: to also especial young children. Don't say nothing nothing nothing
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Speaker 1: until your parents or representations don't say. You don't have
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Speaker 1: to say nothing. I don't given they whoop your ask.
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Speaker 1: They can't kill you. Take that ass whooping. I'm telling
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Speaker 1: you because the boys better than going to jail for
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Speaker 1: fourteen years for something you didn't do. And Corey Wise
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Speaker 1: ain't glory. Yeah. I was telling Marie this morning, Marian
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Speaker 1: Rios that Corey Wise has like a special place in
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Speaker 1: my heart. They all had a traumatic experience, but Corey
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Speaker 1: ended up in that position just trying to support his friend,
19:22
Speaker 1: picked up like he wasn't even there, like ever did anybody,
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Speaker 1: But he wasn't even there. They went to take him.
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Speaker 1: Corey was there, They I know you're not on the list.
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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm gonna going down with him anyway because
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Speaker 1: his mom would be mad basically if I don't get
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Speaker 1: him home. Unreal how they did these boys, and because
19:39
Speaker 1: of them, laws did change, things did change, But if
19:42
Speaker 1: you look at the system, should ain't change technically, I
19:45
Speaker 1: mean a law chang okay, yeah, but you still got
19:47
Speaker 1: people inconcerrated to this day and wrongfully accused. And it's
19:52
Speaker 1: just a testament that like how the system is set
19:56
Speaker 1: up on your self. You know what I'm saying, And
19:58
Speaker 1: it's facts, but it's nothing to fear about. And that's
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Speaker 1: what I don't want, Like I think a lot of
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Speaker 1: because I saw, like I posted, I had like three
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Speaker 1: hundred comments or whatever, but I was seeing all the
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Speaker 1: people posting and I'm reading comments and the whole thing.
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Speaker 1: We got to do something. Let's get the lady who
20:13
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, the lady who deserves to
20:15
Speaker 1: be well. She should definitely go to jail. They fixed
20:18
Speaker 1: all and I agree that all of her cases should
20:20
Speaker 1: be reopened. Yeah, and anything she's ever done should be reopened.
20:24
Speaker 1: And then she deactivated her But then we can't be
20:29
Speaker 1: we can't teach fear though, and that's that's that's my
20:31
Speaker 1: bottom line. I think because they were scared, they reacted
20:34
Speaker 1: the way that they were children. If you look at
20:36
Speaker 1: like Kevin and his father, his father told him to
20:39
Speaker 1: lie because of his dealing, his fear of the judicial
20:43
Speaker 1: system where he's been through. Well, his father was also threatened,
20:46
Speaker 1: like the officer went to him and was like, oh,
20:47
Speaker 1: you got a really good job. Oh so he he
20:52
Speaker 1: was traumatized like you. But you got to know who
20:55
Speaker 1: goes to jail or who goes to prison and comes
20:57
Speaker 1: out and is right. Nobody like nobody, And because they
21:03
Speaker 1: don't want their child to go through that. He's just like,
21:06
Speaker 1: oh my god, but a child, this this is my thing.
21:09
Speaker 1: If you are a parent and you went through something
21:12
Speaker 1: like that, it is you know, I went through It's traumatic, right,
21:15
Speaker 1: you become an animal because you have to survive. But
21:19
Speaker 1: if my son tells me he did nothing, if my
21:23
Speaker 1: daughter says he didn't, there's no way in hell I'm
21:25
Speaker 1: telling him a lot because of the judicial system and
21:28
Speaker 1: how unfairly a lot of people are treated. You know
21:30
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because like even with me, like it
21:33
Speaker 1: was mandatory minimums. I locked them in a drug free zone.
21:36
Speaker 1: That's mandatory sentencing. But because I could shake shift in
21:40
Speaker 1: the relationships that I had my friend, one of my
21:42
Speaker 1: best friend's father was the biggest lawyer, right, he couldn't
21:46
Speaker 1: do it because of bias, but he gave me the
21:47
Speaker 1: second biggest lawyer. And that's that's how I got the
21:50
Speaker 1: six months in probation, like because of the lawyer. And
21:53
Speaker 1: they didn't have that. If you even looked at the
21:56
Speaker 1: Raymond Santana's lawyer, this motherfucker was not He wasn't even
22:00
Speaker 1: in the ship. He was presenting fort two are sat
22:02
Speaker 1: down and in evidually he was like, fun, we could win,
22:05
Speaker 1: and he presented a hell of a case. And then
22:06
Speaker 1: the lawyer it was like, yo, thank you for finally
22:08
Speaker 1: coming to the party. But it's totally about access. It's
22:12
Speaker 1: totally about bail. Three of them couldn't get out because
22:16
Speaker 1: because they couldn't make bail. I mean, but you these
22:20
Speaker 1: people sitting in jail right now in Atlanta, George, they
22:23
Speaker 1: can make Yeah. This place is so trash. The system
22:29
Speaker 1: is disgusting. It's it's it's made to get you to
22:32
Speaker 1: come right back when you come out. You have no
22:34
Speaker 1: social skills, you don't know how to run your finances,
22:36
Speaker 1: you don't you don't know what technology is happening right now,
22:39
Speaker 1: like you walk out and you're just screwed, like the rain.
22:42
Speaker 1: He came home. He had to end up going to
22:43
Speaker 1: sell drugs because everywhere he went you can't be by fellas.
22:48
Speaker 1: That's a rich day. Rich you have to have a
22:50
Speaker 1: certain amount of people who are poor. Yeah, you know what,
22:53
Speaker 1: I want to say this and not as crazy you
22:54
Speaker 1: said that. It's very true, it's very true, But I
22:57
Speaker 1: want to It's fear. It's all of our innate fear.
23:01
Speaker 1: It's hereditary. We want to think to fucking do and
23:07
Speaker 1: say what they want to say. And you had like
23:09
Speaker 1: and then generations after generations get better, keep your head down.
23:13
Speaker 1: Mentality knowing that I will orge your point of origin
23:16
Speaker 1: is kings. But even the mentality, and this is what
23:19
Speaker 1: I'm saying about fear, it's like it's mental. It's like
23:22
Speaker 1: you tell your children all you pump confidence into your children,
23:25
Speaker 1: don't want you hear a fight or squaboor just that
23:27
Speaker 1: you're like, no, you don't let nobody, but you still
23:29
Speaker 1: want to control the centual. I teach my children to
23:31
Speaker 1: control the situation because if you're in control, you can
23:36
Speaker 1: better react to the ship. And then my whole thing
23:40
Speaker 1: is like, because we are conditioning systematically. You know what
23:45
Speaker 1: I'm saying, we gotta be a little bit more on
23:48
Speaker 1: a swivel with our loss making. You know what I'm saying.
23:50
Speaker 1: And it's not hard. It's right. You don't have to
23:55
Speaker 1: say nothing, young America, if you don't want to. If
23:58
Speaker 1: the police are badger you outside. The one kid told
24:00
Speaker 1: on fucking what's because y'all I was hanging out with
24:03
Speaker 1: such a they win't got here. My point is, you
24:05
Speaker 1: don't do that. That's one on one. I didn't do nothing.
24:08
Speaker 1: I need my mother or father. I need my mother
24:10
Speaker 1: and father. I need my lawyer. I don't know nothing.
24:13
Speaker 1: I need my mother and father. If you are juven
24:15
Speaker 1: I that's your right. So I I just I got
24:19
Speaker 1: so heated. I don't even know if you watch my things,
24:21
Speaker 1: but I couldn't even speak at first because I was
24:23
Speaker 1: just I was so flavor today. I mean, everybody need
24:26
Speaker 1: to check it out. Yeah, there are so many people
24:29
Speaker 1: that are saying that they don't want to watch it,
24:31
Speaker 1: But it was like, you have the reason that you
24:34
Speaker 1: don't want to watch it is exactly why you should
24:36
Speaker 1: it exactly. It strengthens you. It makes you aware of
24:42
Speaker 1: what was before you, because trust me, they had it
24:45
Speaker 1: way more funcked up than today. People still getting locked up,
24:48
Speaker 1: people still being treated unfairly, but it was way worse.
24:53
Speaker 1: You need to see that. Yeah, just like you on
24:57
Speaker 1: the phone. You remember you said you was on the
24:59
Speaker 1: phone and you were trying to at the world. I
25:00
Speaker 1: just got the next day, I got stopped because I'm
25:04
Speaker 1: trying and I went on the phone. I made a turn,
25:06
Speaker 1: but the person couldn't. She couldn't. It was a female cop.
25:11
Speaker 1: She couldn't get on me like that because I had
25:14
Speaker 1: I was like, listen, there's a fire truck in the
25:16
Speaker 1: lane where I'm supposed to turn. The only way to
25:19
Speaker 1: the freeway is this way, if you could just understand,
25:20
Speaker 1: And I'm trying to go around the truck and not
25:22
Speaker 1: cause anymore traffic than But I had had a way
25:25
Speaker 1: of explaining myself, and I was aware, like I wasn't
25:28
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like just stuck, and she
25:30
Speaker 1: was like, well, you're gonna get a hundred hundred sixty dollars.
25:32
Speaker 1: I talked my way out of the ticket because I'm like,
25:35
Speaker 1: how are you moving traffic and not directed around? So
25:39
Speaker 1: my point is, y'all just know your rights, know what
25:42
Speaker 1: you are doing. If you're wrong, tell the truth. And
25:45
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this. The drug pounds and we know that.
25:49
Speaker 1: I'm saying that to people like if there's something that happened,
25:52
Speaker 1: I was in the park, I didn't do ship. I
25:54
Speaker 1: was with my friends. Yeah I saw that, but I
25:57
Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. And I saw you
26:00
Speaker 1: and didn't no more to your a matter of fact,
26:02
Speaker 1: don't you say ship? Like I said, just don't say nothing.
26:06
Speaker 1: My dad right, but don't have a lie because someone
26:09
Speaker 1: is telling you what to say. They told should go
26:12
Speaker 1: home that night, sign this, do this, and you go
26:15
Speaker 1: home that night. I want to fuck them cops up.
26:19
Speaker 1: The cops that well, there were some cops that you
26:23
Speaker 1: could see, like little glimpse of the movie that felt bad,
26:25
Speaker 1: like they started to feel remorseful, but they had to
26:28
Speaker 1: keep going. They just kept it going too far in
26:32
Speaker 1: I promise you, and I tell my sons is too bullies,
26:36
Speaker 1: people that I want to enforce their power on you
26:39
Speaker 1: in the wrong way. Say something off the rip, don't
26:42
Speaker 1: let that ship. Like the dude came into jail, Corey Wise,
26:46
Speaker 1: the right skin, the light skinned cop, and and that
26:48
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry. In Riker's first thing he asked Corey
26:51
Speaker 1: was like, what you got for me? But Corey not
26:53
Speaker 1: in the system, He don't know what that He was like,
26:56
Speaker 1: he was black child, definitely look Caucasian man skip. So
27:00
Speaker 1: he said, you got something for me, and all it
27:02
Speaker 1: was was paid to play. I need some of your commissary,
27:04
Speaker 1: give me Nestlee bars, whatever. But they had to dude
27:07
Speaker 1: fuck him up so that he would know he need protection. Okay,
27:11
Speaker 1: well guess what you gotta do. You gotta go to solitary.
27:15
Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw that they but but
27:18
Speaker 1: that's smart though, but also solitary breaks you down if
27:21
Speaker 1: you box all day in this particularly said he had
27:24
Speaker 1: no window. It was just sad. But everybody go check
27:27
Speaker 1: it out. We need this. We needed this so badly.
27:32
Speaker 1: Thank you so much on this. Thank you upset and
27:37
Speaker 1: your spirit. You're gonna want to fight everybody. I even
27:40
Speaker 1: had people comment we gotta do something. No, we don't
27:41
Speaker 1: have to do nothing, nobody. We got to teach the
27:43
Speaker 1: next generation and how to be and now that's time
27:48
Speaker 1: for baller man message. This one is a big one.
27:52
Speaker 1: Come on, I need all hands on there. It's like
27:56
Speaker 1: something in my thought show. So, my wife and I
28:01
Speaker 1: we've been married for seven years, going through a tough situation.
28:04
Speaker 1: We got married young and have a child together. Of
28:07
Speaker 1: course we argue from time to time, but what married
28:09
Speaker 1: couple doesn't anyway. About a month ago, I found out
28:12
Speaker 1: she was dealing with another guy who lives in another state.
28:15
Speaker 1: I called. I called her out on it, and at
28:17
Speaker 1: first she seemed like she didn't want to stop talking
28:19
Speaker 1: to him for me, but then told me she would
28:22
Speaker 1: and that she wanted to work things out with me.
28:24
Speaker 1: I just recently saw that she still talks to this guy.
28:27
Speaker 1: She told me, She told me she had never had
28:30
Speaker 1: any sexual relationships with the relations with the guy, But
28:33
Speaker 1: it's hard to believe if she can't stop talking to him.
28:36
Speaker 1: We lived together and have a child together. What should
28:39
Speaker 1: I do? So the bottom line is she's with somebody.
28:44
Speaker 1: She's married. She's married to this she's talking to this
28:50
Speaker 1: guy out now, he's out of state. But the husband
28:55
Speaker 1: doesn't know too much because he doesn't know too much.
28:58
Speaker 1: He doesn't know they had sex. She's basically going off
29:04
Speaker 1: of what she says, but he says he don't know.
29:08
Speaker 1: You know, if she if they didn't have slept together
29:10
Speaker 1: or not? What should he do? A couple of things
29:14
Speaker 1: from the longest tenured person in relationship. You have to
29:18
Speaker 1: be understanding to your partner and know that they're gonna
29:23
Speaker 1: have friends. You also need to have an understanding on
29:26
Speaker 1: what that friendship is, especially when it's a you know,
29:29
Speaker 1: when this is opposite sex, right, Um, I think that
29:36
Speaker 1: as you get older, and you said seven years been together,
29:41
Speaker 1: you pretty much know your partner. You know what I'm saying,
29:44
Speaker 1: How they're young? I'm sure he didn't tell me how
29:46
Speaker 1: old they were. Well, if you're younger, you're growing together,
29:48
Speaker 1: and if you're together seven years, you're not seeing evolution
29:51
Speaker 1: in yourselves and in the relationship. But you have to
29:55
Speaker 1: know and define what each relationship you have outside of
29:58
Speaker 1: your union is because it's just room for confusion. And
30:01
Speaker 1: if you're uncomfortable with that, you got to speak up
30:04
Speaker 1: and say that you're uncomfortable with it. Yeah, I mean
30:08
Speaker 1: I grew up in our community, like my mom has
30:11
Speaker 1: male friends, Like, it was never weird to me to
30:13
Speaker 1: have a platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex,
30:16
Speaker 1: But that I realized that that was a little more cultural.
30:19
Speaker 1: It seems like because here. It's a big thing, like
30:23
Speaker 1: you don't you don't trust your your partner to have
30:26
Speaker 1: platonic relationships. It's very odd to me, Like, I'm not
30:30
Speaker 1: like that at all. So I think if he's really
30:33
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with her having a friend someone that she could
30:36
Speaker 1: really confide in, whether they were male or female. I
30:39
Speaker 1: mean that sounds like an insecurity issue that he may
30:43
Speaker 1: need to work on. I didn't need to take it
30:44
Speaker 1: to therapists. Yeah, they definitely need to take it to
30:47
Speaker 1: there asked the question. Well he actually, she said, but
30:51
Speaker 1: he still feels away, So I think they need to
30:53
Speaker 1: go to professional He told her she didn't want her,
30:56
Speaker 1: He didn't want her speaking to the person. She continues,
30:59
Speaker 1: that's a problem them, What what is the problem? That's
31:02
Speaker 1: the problem if you if your partner is uncomfortable something
31:06
Speaker 1: to that and they asked to stop, yes, you say yes,
31:10
Speaker 1: and then you still do it. That's that's what his
31:12
Speaker 1: problem is. But that's what I'm saying. Yeah, she she
31:14
Speaker 1: shouldn't have said yes. She should have said exactly what
31:16
Speaker 1: it is, like, Hey, this is a really good friend
31:18
Speaker 1: of mine, like we I really enjoy talking to this person,
31:21
Speaker 1: not for any sexual or any you know, I'm not
31:25
Speaker 1: attracted to this person, but I need some I need
31:28
Speaker 1: a friend, like I need someone I can talk to
31:30
Speaker 1: you in this way and this person might just feel
31:32
Speaker 1: the room and see what it is. Yeah. I think
31:34
Speaker 1: when they all get together then he could kind of
31:36
Speaker 1: feel what it is. Yeah, but they want to stay married.
31:40
Speaker 1: I feel like they should go see therapy. A like before,
31:43
Speaker 1: you know, before I got engaged to my fiance, she
31:46
Speaker 1: met Sue. She met all my female friends, because I
31:49
Speaker 1: have female friends of my work responsive that are responsible
31:52
Speaker 1: women that I'm not uh attracted to. You know what
31:57
Speaker 1: I'm saying physically strictly a tonic friendship. My fiance has
32:02
Speaker 1: met everybody eloquently saying that, So you know, I don't know.
32:05
Speaker 1: But then again, if she's not introducing him, I think
32:09
Speaker 1: it's an issue you gotta have if you're in a
32:11
Speaker 1: relations man is just insecure about a whole bunch of
32:14
Speaker 1: he can be insecure. However, my point is that he
32:17
Speaker 1: asked you to do something, you say you did it,
32:19
Speaker 1: and then you don't know that's wrong. I agree that
32:22
Speaker 1: is wrong, So that they have a problem. I have
32:23
Speaker 1: two problems. The problem that she's still talking to the
32:27
Speaker 1: dude after they spoke about it. So y'all gotta speak
32:29
Speaker 1: about that. And I suggest what Octavia said, y'all should
32:33
Speaker 1: go to counselor. I would like to give some advice
32:35
Speaker 1: also to people in relationships. I feel that if you
32:39
Speaker 1: are in a relationship and you know you need energy
32:42
Speaker 1: from the opposite sex. Energy could be conversation, it could
32:46
Speaker 1: be workout partner, it could be things that you just
32:50
Speaker 1: don't do all the time with your significant other. I
32:52
Speaker 1: think that's necessary and healthy, but you have to define
32:56
Speaker 1: what that is. You cannot allow great areas you know
32:59
Speaker 1: what facts basically doing it and your partner doesn't know
33:02
Speaker 1: you're doing it. Correct. The human nature of men and
33:04
Speaker 1: women is to flirt. It's just human natural. Man, It's
33:10
Speaker 1: jump out there and be like the person, have a
33:14
Speaker 1: real conversation. But I'm very I ain't with none of that.
33:16
Speaker 1: I mean, we've fund it's fun, but that's not what
33:18
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do. You really need to just jump
33:20
Speaker 1: out there and put it. You know what I'm talking about,
33:22
Speaker 1: because you can't let temptation define your relationships. Don't flirt
33:27
Speaker 1: it from my face because I'm gonna catch a case
33:29
Speaker 1: small has anybody in this room. Ever been in an
33:32
Speaker 1: open relationship? No? No, but hello kind of sort of half.
33:38
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't know, necessarily think it
33:41
Speaker 1: was a relationship. I was like, hey, I'm just letting
33:43
Speaker 1: you know I'm dating around, you know, I just want
33:49
Speaker 1: to know how open relationships work, Like I started, don't
33:52
Speaker 1: end up working. Well. I was looking some up and
33:54
Speaker 1: there were some moving areas, and for some people it
33:57
Speaker 1: really does work. For some people it's strictly like it's weird.
34:00
Speaker 1: It's just like if they just want to have sex
34:02
Speaker 1: with somebody, Whereas for other people it's like being able
34:04
Speaker 1: to get a little bit of this from that person,
34:06
Speaker 1: a little bit of that, and just allowing yourself to
34:08
Speaker 1: be satisfied with you know, that's kind of dangerous to me.
34:12
Speaker 1: I just want to know that's kind of dangerous. It really,
34:16
Speaker 1: it really works for some people. So I'm kiding get
34:19
Speaker 1: it whatever appetites. Well, that's the thing in my mind.
34:23
Speaker 1: I always thought that open relationships sweetly about sex like
34:27
Speaker 1: that That's what I thought. But then I started looking
34:28
Speaker 1: into it. No, sometimes it's about ability boy having friends
34:32
Speaker 1: and not sex. Well, sometimes it's it's about an emotional
34:35
Speaker 1: connection or compatibility as far as like things that you
34:38
Speaker 1: guys might be interested in that your partner might not.
34:40
Speaker 1: Are you open to the relationships? No, I'm just curious
34:42
Speaker 1: to know, like that. There are so many different kinds
34:45
Speaker 1: you you have curiosities. Yeah, yeah, like I do, yes,
34:50
Speaker 1: Like I want to know if you're an open relationship.
34:53
Speaker 1: Let me know how that works. I'm so curious. If
34:56
Speaker 1: you have a hear the open relationships, send me a
34:58
Speaker 1: d M. Let's talk about it on ball the Man.
35:01
Speaker 1: Just listen. I want to know, Okay, so just let
35:05
Speaker 1: me know. I'm just curious. This past season, Um, Shamari
35:12
Speaker 1: and Ronnie Davout we're on and they were talking about
35:15
Speaker 1: therapy relationship and how it was dangerous and then they
35:18
Speaker 1: had to close it because they didn't want to lose
35:20
Speaker 1: their marriage because you can kind of get off track.
35:22
Speaker 1: But now, let me let me say, like, what is
35:25
Speaker 1: the definition of a open relations because you know Facebook
35:27
Speaker 1: has has had that for a while. It says in
35:30
Speaker 1: open relationship with Yeah, that's one of the options. I
35:36
Speaker 1: don't know if I haven't checked it in a minute,
35:38
Speaker 1: because mine just mine sets engage now Yeah, yeah, I
35:42
Speaker 1: believe when it first happened, it was like in relationship
35:45
Speaker 1: and open relationship. Yeah, I just think that's just you
35:49
Speaker 1: open the door for just like having you know, Polly relationship.
35:53
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. It gets a little
35:56
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It gets a little sticky.
35:57
Speaker 1: I don't know anything about that, and I say comments creeping,
36:05
Speaker 1: all right, I would just say too if they people
36:09
Speaker 1: and a lot of people probably want to open their relationships,
36:11
Speaker 1: they want to cheat on the person. They probably want
36:13
Speaker 1: to be honest, so they like That was some of
36:15
Speaker 1: the things that I found because we were talking about
36:17
Speaker 1: how it's natural for humans to flirt, right like, so
36:20
Speaker 1: who said it's not natural to want to maybe take
36:23
Speaker 1: I gotta say this, you know what, Probably open relationships
36:27
Speaker 1: suck for god, let me tell you what. Yeah, because guys,
36:30
Speaker 1: so I want to go do what they want to do,
36:32
Speaker 1: but it's so so girl. Men are so little. But
36:40
Speaker 1: that was like a you know that he's gonna see
36:46
Speaker 1: any other woman that you want, but you can't be
36:49
Speaker 1: with no man like you got me up. Okay, hold
36:53
Speaker 1: on because you gonna do this no internal out eternal.
37:02
Speaker 1: It matters, man, It matters to you in your head.
37:05
Speaker 1: But if if me and my husband decide that we're
37:06
Speaker 1: going to be in an open relationship. You are not
37:09
Speaker 1: going to tell me that I can only be with
37:11
Speaker 1: women like I'm talking about the like no, like he
37:18
Speaker 1: legit told her, like, yeah, we could be in an
37:19
Speaker 1: open relationship, but you can't sleep with any man. Excuse.
37:23
Speaker 1: So over relationship should be both parties doing whatever the
37:26
Speaker 1: hell they want. Question. Every relationship is different. I guess
37:30
Speaker 1: I want more than one penis in you. I want
37:33
Speaker 1: to learn about open relationships. That's what I'm saying I
37:36
Speaker 1: want to do. So it's clear I want to learn,
37:39
Speaker 1: and it's different. Question do you want to experience? I
37:43
Speaker 1: want to learn? I want to learn what they're about.
37:48
Speaker 1: That is a question for ball nations because there are
37:51
Speaker 1: so many women out the questions women. That's a question
37:55
Speaker 1: for somebody who needs sex. That's a question for somebody
37:58
Speaker 1: who you know needs anybody who there are. But there
38:03
Speaker 1: are some people in open relationships again because it's an
38:05
Speaker 1: emotional attachment that they get from this person, or or
38:09
Speaker 1: maybe their partner is boring and they're like, Okay, this
38:12
Speaker 1: person likes to do sports and activities. There's there's a
38:15
Speaker 1: lot of people over relationships. Even episode there's people are
38:19
Speaker 1: over relationships and don't even know. I'm a curious person.
38:24
Speaker 1: I just feel like, you know, I picked you in
38:26
Speaker 1: the relationship. But I think everybody has a different definition
38:32
Speaker 1: to theirs. And that's what the rules to open relationship.
38:38
Speaker 1: Because a couple wait and I'll tell you that everybody here.
38:43
Speaker 1: I know one particular couple. The girl lets her they're
38:47
Speaker 1: in a relationship, but she don't do ship. She just
38:49
Speaker 1: let her guy go do and then sometimes he'll he'll
38:52
Speaker 1: bring a girl and bring the girl back to the house.
38:55
Speaker 1: Sometimes she'll go out with him. They'll pick Yeah, y'all,
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Speaker 1: y'all see that. How how that just got it? Yeah?
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Speaker 1: Like I don't know is that it could be her
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Speaker 1: coming to the realization that maybe her man would never
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Speaker 1: be faithful to her. She decided to accepted, you know,
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Speaker 1: she decided to accepted. It could be severy different things, alright,
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Speaker 1: comment creeping, creeping, alright, funny man. Marlon Wayne's posted a
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Speaker 1: gorgeous photo of his child and said, happy pride to
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Speaker 1: my pride and joy, I wouldn't change one effing thing
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Speaker 1: about you. Love you to the moon, around the Sun,
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Speaker 1: through the galaxies and back, and he got chewed out.
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Speaker 1: There were so many people in the comments calling him
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Speaker 1: a bad parent for supporting his child's um alternative lifestyle.
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Speaker 1: I guess you could say. One person said, damn unfollowed
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Speaker 1: sad ship. He responds by another one said she's not
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Speaker 1: old enough to understand what that's really all about. You
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Speaker 1: have the power to change lives, bro, don't teach her that.
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Speaker 1: He responds, she's nineteen. She's who she is until or
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Speaker 1: she's who she is until or until she don't choose different.
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Speaker 1: Love her for her, not for what I want her
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Speaker 1: to be, which I thought was awesome. I think the
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Speaker 1: most ignorant one was from somebody named three M D
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Speaker 1: H five. He says, or she says, because they're definitely trolling.
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Speaker 1: No picture facts you think if you support her, you
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Speaker 1: are good. Being a parent is not about saying yes
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Speaker 1: to everything. No, you need to say yes on the
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Speaker 1: good things only. Now, just one question, if you really
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Speaker 1: support her, would you give up being a grandfather because
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Speaker 1: of this stupid decision that she made? Because as last
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Speaker 1: as I remember, two girls can't make a baby. He
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Speaker 1: responds to that, he says, there's technology and I got
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Speaker 1: the means, So thank you, shallow fucker. Go hate your
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Speaker 1: own kids, says the person that's probably doesn't even have
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Speaker 1: a kid, probably don't even know what it takes, probably
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Speaker 1: ain't never been through shop, probably has a difficult time
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Speaker 1: coming out of the closet themselves. Like they're they're looking
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Speaker 1: at a child who was able to come out and
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Speaker 1: be comfortable, and you envy this kid who's like, hey,
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Speaker 1: this is who I am, despite of being bullied, despite
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Speaker 1: of being looked at funny, like that is strength for
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Speaker 1: a Child's easy. It's super easy. It's easy, like I
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Speaker 1: don't think whatever violent way and held it down. Though
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Speaker 1: their parents are coming out and supporting their kids. Love
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Speaker 1: Cebert parents, you know, like they're the ones it's most
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Speaker 1: important because they you don't really really understand. That's why
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Speaker 1: people like that get on my nerves. You don't know
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Speaker 1: how that can sense someone into a spiral, right, Those
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Speaker 1: little kids are trying to find who they are, trying
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Speaker 1: to live in their truth, and you're off there, you know,
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Speaker 1: putting this in the mix that can send somebody off
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Speaker 1: the ledge literally like so funk all of y'all. Man,
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Speaker 1: I do have I got personal stories, kind of emotional,
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Speaker 1: but we have a cousin and blood cousin um I mean,
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Speaker 1: you know, we knew he was when he was gay,
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Speaker 1: when he was younger, he was all outside, he was inside.
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Speaker 1: But he's funniest person. That was my cousin, love him
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Speaker 1: to death. Um would go out to eat, people will
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Speaker 1: be like, are you hanging out him? That's my cousin.
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Speaker 1: But his dad never, my uncle didn't support it, never
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Speaker 1: acknowledged it. So he was scared out and all the
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Speaker 1: way through college to you know what I'm saying, he's
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Speaker 1: still really never really came out because of my uncle,
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Speaker 1: and you know, can't like that. It kind of sucked
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Speaker 1: because it was like damn, you know what I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: because but you know, uncle a real g though, like
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Speaker 1: you know, street dude back in the day, So it
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Speaker 1: was kind of hard for him to accept it, you
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But it was just toughest kind
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Speaker 1: of seeing that dynamic, you know what I'm saying. But
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Speaker 1: you know, he came out recently and ship he feels
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Speaker 1: like he was like, man, I feel like, you know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, if it was normal, he feels like
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Speaker 1: he just had this weight lifted off his shoulders. And
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Speaker 1: guess what my uncle accept is that they're cool now
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Speaker 1: it's super dope. But I wish you would have happened
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Speaker 1: before because I think maybe it would have been you know,
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Speaker 1: I just felt like, you know what I'm saying, like
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Speaker 1: all that miscommunication could have been better. It would have
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Speaker 1: been like easier for him, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 1: It was a lot of times that he didn't go
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Speaker 1: places with us because yeah, you know what I'm saying,
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Speaker 1: you were good. Yeah, but that's that's what for me, like,
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Speaker 1: you know, just you know, homosexuality. I learned that at
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Speaker 1: a young age because my cousin a couple of cousins. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: and one of them was older older. Yeah, yeah she crazy,
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Speaker 1: but she my age. But I'm saying, he's a little
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Speaker 1: older than me. So I saw you on the age.
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Speaker 1: I was like, I used to ask my mom, why
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Speaker 1: you act like you know, my sister, you know what
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Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I used to think it was funny,
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because he was the same person,
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Speaker 1: and I learned that he was just normal, you know
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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when I saw other people bashing
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Speaker 1: and stuff like that, I always was like, no, bro,
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Speaker 1: like that ain't cool. That what I'm saying I got
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Speaker 1: a real family member that that way and she cool.
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Speaker 1: You'll beat your ass like you. Oh and this doesn't
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Speaker 1: has nothing to do with y'all. See that clip the
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Speaker 1: gay gay dudes that was fighting and the dude was
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Speaker 1: big as ship. Hold on. He slammed the dude like
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Speaker 1: a like the halt, but then hit him like a
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Speaker 1: girl on the screens like slam and then all of
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Speaker 1: a sudden he hit it was like her. And now
44:37
Speaker 1: it's time said in all serious ball nation, living in
44:46
Speaker 1: fear will keep you from the goal. It will keep
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Speaker 1: you from achieving your dreams. He will keep you from
44:53
Speaker 1: your truth. We have to always revel in the fact
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Speaker 1: that we're gonna be nervous when it's time to go
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Speaker 1: on stage. We won't be nervous when it's time to
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Speaker 1: address somebody that we respect or look up to, but
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Speaker 1: ain't treating us right. But it's something we have to do.
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Speaker 1: We can't let it slide, we can't let it wait.
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Speaker 1: We can't take us you know, two, three, four, five
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Speaker 1: days and think about it and let the true emotions
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Speaker 1: that you're feeling go past. You gotta address it immediately.
45:24
Speaker 1: Do not live in fear of all nation and make
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