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Isn't the one requirement of FRIENDSGIVING is to be...you know...friends? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: It's John Day and rich Alicia, Good morning, Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: What's going on?
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  Speaker 2: So I just kind of wanted to talk to you
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  Speaker 2: guys about a situation. And I just want to see
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  Speaker 2: if I'm being like a jerk or if I'm exaggerating
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  Speaker 2: or you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: So I had a friends giving last night and it's
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  Speaker 2: me and my girlfriends. It's a big tradition. We've had
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  Speaker 2: it for like six seven years. I've hosted the last
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  Speaker 2: two years. And one of our friends who we've all
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  Speaker 2: been friends with for a very long time, she brought
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  Speaker 2: one of her friends. She invited one of her friends,
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  Speaker 2: which you know, we're not like an exclusive group or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: But this girl that she brought, none of us really
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  Speaker 2: like her. She's always rude, she's always negative. She always
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  Speaker 2: has like a really smart, slick comment to say, and
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  Speaker 2: it's usually like under her breath and then will pretend
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  Speaker 2: she didn't say anything. So like kind of it's very
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  Speaker 2: it's very odd, and just like from the second she
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  Speaker 2: walked in, she was giving everybody attitude. Didn't bring a
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  Speaker 2: single dish, like, not even a drink, a bottle of wine,
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  Speaker 2: like sparkling water, nothing, and then the whole time. She
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  Speaker 2: was just criticizing the food. She said to one of
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  Speaker 2: my friends, like straight to her face, like, oh you
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  Speaker 2: made this mac and cheese. It looks really dry.
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  Speaker 1: Oh it's so rude.
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  Speaker 2: It was awful. Like she every person who brought out
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  Speaker 2: their dish, she had something to say. She's like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: the turkey, Oh is it supposed to be that color?
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  Speaker 2: Like to someone who took the time to make a
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  Speaker 2: whole turkey, made fun of the ham she said it
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  Speaker 2: looked weird. Any song that came on the playlist, she
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  Speaker 2: was like rolling her eyes, calling every song stupid.
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  Speaker 3: And then literally you didn't even want to be there.
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  Speaker 1: Right, like why was she there?
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  Speaker 2: Exactly? And then the worst but that's exactly what I
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  Speaker 2: was thinking. She was like, Oh, I don't really do
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  Speaker 2: house parties. I don't really like to be here. Then
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  Speaker 2: why are you here, ma'am? Nobody invited you.
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  Speaker 1: Who did invite her? Like how did she know about this?
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  Speaker 2: So it's the one friend in her group who is
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  Speaker 2: the sister of one of our friend who like she's
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  Speaker 2: just part of the group as well, and like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: that's the thing is she's her friend, but none of
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  Speaker 2: us have ever liked her and like honestly, Like for me,
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  Speaker 2: was like, whatever, I'll deal with the comments. We've all
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  Speaker 2: just kind of gotten used to ignoring her, like whenever
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  Speaker 2: she like shows up, like miss I only eat organic,
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  Speaker 2: like everything that came out like is this organic? Is
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  Speaker 2: this organic? It's like, girl, you weren't even invited. And
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  Speaker 2: then the final strawl like this is where I kind
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  Speaker 2: of started to lose my My chool was before any
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  Speaker 2: of us have even aten. This woman pulls out a
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  Speaker 2: tupperware out of her bag okay, and starts packing herself
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  Speaker 2: with to go play.
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  Speaker 1: I thought, everything looks so terrible. Do you want to
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  Speaker 1: take it?
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  Speaker 4: Yep?
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  Speaker 2: She everything was so disgusting and HomeGroup was needed to
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  Speaker 2: take half of the mashed but half like half like
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  Speaker 2: she literally scooped being like made a clear cut down
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  Speaker 2: the middle and half of it into her topperware.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe you guys stand for that.
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  Speaker 2: I probably would have checked my friend too and been like,
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  Speaker 2: are you like what is going on here?
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  Speaker 5: That's what I was just gonna say.
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  Speaker 3: I think if conversation needs to be had with a
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  Speaker 3: friend who invited her, like, did you like is that
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  Speaker 3: normal behavior?
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  Speaker 6: Is that?
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  Speaker 4: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Because that's so rude well, I haven't I have a
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  Speaker 1: take on it up until she took the mashed potatoes.
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  Speaker 1: So first I think we throw this out there eight
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  Speaker 1: seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven. Lit's
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  Speaker 1: hear if anybody else has a rude friend, doesn't that
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  Speaker 1: have to be Thanksgiving related, but just the rudest thing,
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  Speaker 1: like that's just so rude. It's pretty over the top.
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  Speaker 1: I will tell you. I think it's two things going
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  Speaker 1: on in her life before she took the mashed potatoes.
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  Speaker 1: I think that she's probably got some issues at home.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how old she is. There's just some
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  Speaker 1: sadness to her right because it's you know, the misery
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  Speaker 1: of those company. There's that, or it's just a level
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  Speaker 1: of maturity that she hasn't hit yet. Because I felt
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  Speaker 1: like I felt somewhat seen there, because I can recall
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  Speaker 1: in my childhood, in my life as a single adult,
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  Speaker 1: getting out into the world, going to people's houses and
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  Speaker 1: being very similar complaining. Well, I mean, I've complained my
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  Speaker 1: entire life about stuff. So now, like I've learned, I
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  Speaker 1: look back at certain things I've done and I'm like, God,
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  Speaker 1: what a jerk I was. I shouldn't have said those things,
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  Speaker 1: and I think, like, right now, I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: feel like in the last year or two, I gotten
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  Speaker 1: like really mature of myself. Hmmm, so like I remember,
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't even that long ago. I was at a friend.
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  Speaker 1: A friend a kind of a famous friend, had a
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  Speaker 1: big party and they had a VIP area in the
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  Speaker 1: party and I was invited to the VIP area. The
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  Speaker 1: food was on the second floor. The VIP are was
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  Speaker 1: on the bottom floor. I was like, what GIFs, what
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  Speaker 1: kind of VIP area is this? It was like every
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  Speaker 1: time I need food, I got to walk upstairs like
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  Speaker 1: and I complained and complain to Now. I look back
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  Speaker 1: at that now and I think, shame on you.
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  Speaker 7: Project in a cool VIP area with your friend no food.
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  Speaker 1: I was like to me, idea is food?
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  Speaker 8: You can't leave the VIP area?
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  Speaker 3: I did.
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  Speaker 1: How could there be a vip Like if I let
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  Speaker 1: myself go, I can get angry again. I look at
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  Speaker 1: like like being mature, like you'd be like, oh, that's cool.
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  Speaker 1: I was in the vip A. Thanks for inviting me.
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  Speaker 1: That's great. Where's the food? Okay, it's great. Do you
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  Speaker 1: have someone that goes and gets it? Do you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so she's either not mature enough to
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  Speaker 1: know that this is like, this is a fun party,
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  Speaker 1: and I remember all my I've been to friends gimmings
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  Speaker 1: before I was single, and I don't ever remember bringing food. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I don't remembers that. You just learn
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  Speaker 1: as you go. So those are my two options.
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  Speaker 8: But mature, he's got to be part of it.
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  Speaker 1: So, I mean, you're right.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes people that are really negative and critical like that,
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  Speaker 3: they do have more going on, Like it says more
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  Speaker 3: about them and what's going on in their life than
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  Speaker 3: what it does about the peroson they're saying the things
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  Speaker 3: about So that could also be it too, But I mean,
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  Speaker 3: you don't really want to surround yourself with that.
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  Speaker 8: Stealing the non organic mashed potatoes half of them, that
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  Speaker 8: is sort of likely, Well what just happened?
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  Speaker 1: That would be a little confused. To talk to your
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  Speaker 1: friend Alicia. She's going to bring her back around you guys.
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  Speaker 1: Ah right, Alisha, thanks for jumping on there with us.
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  Speaker 1: I really appreciate you. Eight seven seven nine three seven
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  Speaker 1: one four seven who's had the rudest experience of someone
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  Speaker 1: at a dinner function or something like that. We'll talk
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  Speaker 1: to you next. John J.
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  Speaker 4: Ridge.
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  Speaker 1: Emily, Hello, Hello, Hi, what's up? M oh Hi?
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  Speaker 4: I just kind of I didn't have a bad friend
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  Speaker 4: like thing, but I kind of wanted to just weigh
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  Speaker 4: in on Homegirl.
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: So I kind of think, based on experiences I've had
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  Speaker 4: with people similar to that, I think Homegirl that nobody likes,
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  Speaker 4: you know. I think she really likes her friend and
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  Speaker 4: is jealous of the friend group's closeness with her. So
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  Speaker 4: I think she's just trying to kind of like downplay
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  Speaker 4: and talk crab about everything they do, so that you know,
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  Speaker 4: her friend will slowly kind of like start to feel
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  Speaker 4: the same way and like spend more time with her,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Because like I've.
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  Speaker 4: Had friends do that in the past, and I feel
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  Speaker 4: like I've even done that as like a middle schooler,
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  Speaker 4: but not as a grown adult at my big age.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good point, That's what I was saying, being mature.
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  Speaker 1: They probably she's not mature there yet. Totally. Thanks, Emily,
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  Speaker 1: have a great you do think you Brittany? Did you
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  Speaker 1: have a rude guest story?
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  Speaker 6: Hello?
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  Speaker 4: Hi?
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  Speaker 7: Oh hi, Sorry I cut out, Yes I did. Actually
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  Speaker 7: I attended a wedding and the bride was so like
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  Speaker 7: anal about how much food was going to be left over,
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  Speaker 7: because she actually brought her own tapp awar to the wedding,
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  Speaker 7: so she was standing behind the crew that was portioning
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  Speaker 7: out the food, making sure they weren't giving too much.
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  Speaker 8: Food out to.
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  Speaker 1: Enjoy. Spent all this on a huge party.
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  Speaker 8: Enjoy it.
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  Speaker 1: The scoop.
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  Speaker 5: That's great.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 7: But every time, like if something was left over at
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  Speaker 7: the table, she's like, put it in topwar put it
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  Speaker 7: in a tupwear. I'm like, girl, like enjoy your day
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  Speaker 7: like you guys said. But she was always that way,
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  Speaker 7: Like at parties she would show up with tupperware and
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  Speaker 7: bring it and they're like that is so. We would
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  Speaker 7: just shake our head and be like, that's Whitney for you.
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  Speaker 8: She's already an auntie. She's acting like an auntie.
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  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, she she was the gtar. But you
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  Speaker 7: know everybody has the room thing.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thank you, thanks, I had.
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  Speaker 3: To share it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I love you guys. By the way, you.
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  Speaker 1: Have a great day.
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  Speaker 2: Bye you too.
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  Speaker 1: What's up Ramon?
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  Speaker 2: Hey?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I had a funny Thanksgiving. Actually I was like twelve.
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  Speaker 6: I had an uncle who was crazy who freshly got
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  Speaker 6: out of prison, which I didn't know at the time,
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  Speaker 6: and I was sitting next to him. He was saying
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  Speaker 6: these crazy things, and the one thing is that he
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  Speaker 6: was my brothers are dating. We're natives, so they're dating
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  Speaker 6: white girls. And he was looking at him like, yes,
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  Speaker 6: look at these, look at these, look at these white woman.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, sitting next to When I was twelve, I'm like, uh,
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  Speaker 6: what do.
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  Speaker 1: You say saying?
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  Speaker 6: And then he's like, look at this juicy ham makes
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  Speaker 6: me want to call her again. It was like I'm
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  Speaker 6: cleaning it up. But he was going to explicit details
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  Speaker 6: while I was twelve sitting next to him. I'm like,
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  Speaker 6: how long have you been in prison?
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  Speaker 8: Uncle?
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  Speaker 6: He's like about five years. I'm like, let me get
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  Speaker 6: him out of here because I'm like twelve. And he
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  Speaker 6: was saying all these explicit things about my brother dating
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  Speaker 6: white woman, how the hand was juicy, how the mash
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  Speaker 6: potatoes used to look like back then when she could
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  Speaker 6: it was just really.
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  Speaker 4: Really bad.
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  Speaker 1: So he's talking about them like he's talking about the food,
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  Speaker 1: but he's looking at the white girls like making it about.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, my brothers were dating at the time, and it
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  Speaker 6: was just like these white women. I'm like, uh, I'm
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  Speaker 6: like twelve years old. I'm like, what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: You're twelve years old?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I was like, yeah, I remember when he came
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  Speaker 6: out of he was fresh out and he was definitely
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  Speaker 6: going into the hand like how juicy it was. And
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm like, twelve years old, just had no
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  Speaker 6: idea what's going I was just sitting over the blank
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  Speaker 6: face like can you come down? I'm like, where's my mam?
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  Speaker 4: Mad?
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy? It was.
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  Speaker 6: It was just really explicit. So it's just some of
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  Speaker 6: the things I cleaned up though, But that was.
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  Speaker 8: I'm glad glad we got the PG thirteen version.
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  Speaker 5: Hi, good morning you guys. So this was years ago,
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  Speaker 5: years and years and years ago. So I think the
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  Speaker 5: funny thing was. So it was at a powow where
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  Speaker 5: I'm from, and I was engaged to my husband at
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  Speaker 5: the time. But traditionally we invite family what have you,
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  Speaker 5: And I invited my my husband's brother brother and his
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  Speaker 5: wife at the time, and in that setting, you're supposed
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  Speaker 5: to serve the people that you invite to a palow.
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  Speaker 5: So there's all this food, like under a tent. My
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  Speaker 5: family has like fry bread, soup, all this traditional like
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  Speaker 5: native food. And then my sister in law will soon
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  Speaker 5: to be sister in law. She starts eating and she's
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  Speaker 5: kind of a bigger lady, which is fine. All of
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  Speaker 5: a sudden, some of my relatives like, who is that?
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  Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh, that's the man that I'm dating
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  Speaker 5: his sister in law. And we look over and she's
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  Speaker 5: eating soup, and literally she takes out her front teeth,
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  Speaker 5: puts them in her pocket, puts them in her pocket,
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  Speaker 5: and to beep, eating.
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  Speaker 4: Soup.
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  Speaker 5: She's just like and she was like twenty five, Like
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  Speaker 5: she's not wasn't old? She twenty five? And my one
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  Speaker 5: of my relatives looks at me and he was like,
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  Speaker 5: all I have to say is thank god, I ate
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  Speaker 5: my soup already.
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  Speaker 8: There's something we said for her feeling at home enough
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  Speaker 8: to be you know, like, you know, let it all
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  Speaker 8: hang out well.
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  Speaker 5: And then and then I had to update my future
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  Speaker 5: my now husband. I had to tell him later on
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  Speaker 5: that evening on the phone because he was on a
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  Speaker 5: fire assignment fighting fires and here I told him what happened.
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  Speaker 5: He was like, I can't believe she did that in
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  Speaker 5: front of your in front of the first time she
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  Speaker 5: ever met you, I was like, oh my gosh, like.
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  Speaker 2: You couldn't warn me.
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  Speaker 5: He's like, I didn't think she'd do it the first
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  Speaker 5: time meeting your entire family. I mean I'm talking like
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  Speaker 5: fifty relatives all saw her just blatantly pull.
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  Speaker 1: Her teeth out. How awesome I'm in her pocket.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I just want to share that. So thanksgiving you
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  Speaker 5: guys too.
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  Speaker 1: You only reminds me of the top war story. I
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  Speaker 1: remember after Luis Gonzalez won the World Series for the
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  Speaker 1: World for the Diamondbacks, he there was another game. It
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  Speaker 1: was the next season, right, and the Diamondbacks are the
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  Speaker 1: hottest thing in the world, and he gave us a
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  Speaker 1: sweet for my mom and me and my family, and
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  Speaker 1: the sweet was loaded with food. So my mom Mexican,
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  Speaker 1: my aunt Receipita Mexican, and we're done. The game's over
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  Speaker 1: and they start grabbing all the food left over, putting
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  Speaker 1: into trash bags Like Santa Claus. Each trash bag lift
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  Speaker 1: themers over their shoulders.
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  Speaker 5: The mom.
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  Speaker 2: I feel them though.
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  Speaker 1: I took a couple to go plates that love putt
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  Speaker 1: family fest. Oh I saw you do that.
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  Speaker 8: I think I had three.
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  Speaker 1: I got a good food