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Children Should be Loved | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 133 · The Torah Sparks Podcast

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_00: Oh Rayver, here we are.
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  SPEAKER_00: Peleoites, let's finish this topic of Yalda's immaturity.
• 0:05
  SPEAKER_00: Says the Peleotes like this Rabamoino Zed Darkum.
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  SPEAKER_00: There are many people who this is their way.
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  SPEAKER_00: They love their children with a love that's actually to the child's detriment.
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  SPEAKER_00: They show them excessive love, but they don't um have any discipline at all.
• 0:33
  SPEAKER_00: If anyone even dares to attempt to rebuke their child to punish them for something slightly they did wrong, take a view to M Lukras, Nashik Vaisum Rivam Wadam the Fne Yal Dam, they go crazy to its end.
• 0:46
  SPEAKER_00: Don't touch my children, don't contend them, don't give them rebuke, and their mom is like it's like too much they stick up for their kids.
• 0:57
  SPEAKER_00: Parents don't even khab, now they're actually causing the children to continue in their negative ways.
• 1:04
  SPEAKER_00: Woe is to these fathers causing this for the children.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is not love, Ella.
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  SPEAKER_00: This is actually hatred.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not affection, it's liability, it's not excessive love, but it's delusionary.
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  SPEAKER_00: So the Zakus Nev Shaw, a person who desires to bring merit to the children.
• 1:33
  SPEAKER_00: Even if it seems to him that his only son was hit without cause, without just reason for doing so, um for the one who hit it, the one who punished him, the one who gave him rebuke, that let so should it be.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_00: Let it be like that.
• 1:50
  SPEAKER_00: Let him be okay with that.
• 1:55
  SPEAKER_00: And he's going to teach his children to be somewhat bashful and dignified in front of adults.
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  SPEAKER_00: And never to talk back to those who are in a position of authority.
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  SPEAKER_00: He should not be too concerned that his child was chastised, kilo.
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  SPEAKER_00: He's not going to die from it.
• 2:41
  SPEAKER_00: Therefore, even when a person decides that he um he has no other choice but to protest and to stop these people from punishing his child for this reason or that.
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_00: He should do it and not in being he he should protest, but not in the presence of the child, because then it's going to undermine the authority.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_00: That's what the Palayodes keeps getting at.
• 3:10
  SPEAKER_00: The child shouldn't be done there and should be done with a pleasant tone, um, so that way it shouldn't cause strife.
• 3:19
  SPEAKER_00: So in the generation where people are overly particular in how they deal with their children, it's very important never to hit the child of somebody else.
• 3:44
  SPEAKER_00: And he shows him favor.
• 3:45
  SPEAKER_00: Okay, says the Pela Yoits.
• 3:52
  SPEAKER_00: It would be wise for every person to win the youths over with kind words and treats, the year viga guamiladim shacharim, and to always show love and affection to the children of others.
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  SPEAKER_00: This causes love and friendship between each other.
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  SPEAKER_00: To love other people's children.
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  SPEAKER_00: And there there's also a mitzah to bring pleasure to the children themselves because children they're pure, they don't have a blemish, their their breath is is not tainted by sin.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_00: In a way, the children can be likened to poor people.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_00: That they're they they their their desire is for whatever it's they have a deep desire for for for fruit or other food that they see.
• 4:50
  SPEAKER_00: That's like a pauper just wants things, so that's what the child does, just like just wants things.
• 4:55
  SPEAKER_00: Roy la'a vein vechaladam, it befits a father and a mother and any other person, the malas be miktis chefumer, right?
• 5:03
  SPEAKER_00: To fulfill the wants and the desires of their children to an extent.
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  SPEAKER_00: The same way that a person acts, so it will be done to him.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hashem will consider him a child, meaning Hashem will consider us his children, and he will fulfill our desires on this world.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even should we go the wrong way and stray, Hashem will provide us with what with what is good.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_00: But there's other writes in the manner that we desire, of as Bain Yerdzah, just as a son always finds favour in the eyes of his father.
• 5:43
  SPEAKER_00: Um if the son is less than perfect, so to us.
• 5:47
  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_00: That concludes the section of immaturity.
• 5:50
  SPEAKER_00: I'll dismiss tomorrow.
• 5:51
  SPEAKER_00: Pick up with a new topic, the topic of Yomin, the right side.
• 5:55
  SPEAKER_00: All the best.