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Back with The Bachelorettes with Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everyone, welcome to the Almost in Its podcast. It
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  Speaker 2: is just me today, and it's it's not because Ben's
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  Speaker 2: on here. It's because he thought that it would be
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  Speaker 2: fun that we just had some girl talk. So I'm
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  Speaker 2: with Gabby Windley and Rachel Rekya, who are basically like
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  Speaker 2: a couple. You guys are really like you came.
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  Speaker 3: Out as a couple of Bachelor Nation.
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  Speaker 2: We'd be so devastated if you guys were to ever
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  Speaker 2: break up.
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  Speaker 4: Never you would like to announce her no longer friends.
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  Speaker 2: After lots of consideration. It's heartbreaking for us to announce
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  Speaker 2: that we just you know, we.
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  Speaker 4: Wish each other the best, but stay away from me.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's great that that is not going to happen ever,
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  Speaker 2: But I gotta talk about your exes, Like, let's just
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  Speaker 2: jump into X talk, right please, because both of you
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  Speaker 2: did not stay with your fiances very long.
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  Speaker 3: Guilty.
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  Speaker 2: Let's get into like just the conversations that you guys
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  Speaker 2: would have getting off the show. Did you guys internally
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  Speaker 2: feel insecure that like, the other one had a stronger
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  Speaker 2: relationship than the other one. Was there any like thought
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  Speaker 2: in your head, you're like, oh, man, I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: be the loser of this because we're not going to last.
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  Speaker 2: And like secretly it was kind of happening at the
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  Speaker 2: same time with both of you.
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  Speaker 3: Do you understand my question?
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  Speaker 4: I do. Yeah, I feel like it wasn't really a
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  Speaker 4: secret because I was telling her immediately. I don't think
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  Speaker 4: it was a secret. Me and Tino had a lot
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  Speaker 4: of issues, like at the beginning we were fighting, and
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  Speaker 4: even she knew all.
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  Speaker 3: That or the whole like cheating stuff.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I guess what he has said is that
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  Speaker 4: like that really is what led into it, which I
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  Speaker 4: am at fault for like some of that fighting and like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but you guys weren't connecting. Yeah, we were not connecting.
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  Speaker 4: So I feel like Gabby always knew that me and
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  Speaker 4: him right off the bat, it was really difficult for us.
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  Speaker 4: So I always thought, you we had like a really
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  Speaker 4: strong connection with.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think same, Like we expressed our doubts with
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  Speaker 5: each other.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, there was no I don't there was.
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  Speaker 5: She was the only other person at the time who
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  Speaker 5: had gone through the exact same thing. I cannot imagine
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  Speaker 5: how people do it alone.
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  Speaker 3: There's so much question. There is so much doubt.
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  Speaker 5: It's like this weird world afterwards where you think you
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  Speaker 5: know the person and you think you don't. You're like,
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  Speaker 5: what's normal? What do I do for four days alone
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  Speaker 5: in a B and B?
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  Speaker 4: Like I think stream?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys, ever.
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  Speaker 2: Say with a happy couple of weekends that you wanted
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  Speaker 2: to join forces and just be in the same house together.
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  Speaker 4: We did one time. Yeah, we well we weren't supposed to,
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  Speaker 4: but one time we did. We had like a sneakover.
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  Speaker 4: We snuck them over and we all four hung out.
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  Speaker 4: That night was fun. That night was fun because we're
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  Speaker 4: all together, right, Yeah, more distraction.
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  Speaker 2: So did you both just not feel like you knew
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  Speaker 2: both guys coming off the show? And why do you
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  Speaker 2: feel like you I think there was a reason that
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  Speaker 2: the two of you felt like you didn't know your partner.
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  Speaker 3: To that point where.
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  Speaker 2: Like a lot of other people leave the show, like
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  Speaker 2: you were just talking about with Zach and Katie just
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  Speaker 2: feeling that they knew each other so deeply.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I mean it was so different just in timing.
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  Speaker 3: Why, Yeah, that's what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: Because a normal season you would do two one on
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  Speaker 4: ones and then a group date every week, and we
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  Speaker 4: didn't even start like getting to know the guys until
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  Speaker 4: week three until we split up with our group and
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  Speaker 4: then we were getting one less one on one a week.
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  Speaker 4: So I feel like we just kind of missed out
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  Speaker 4: on time, and in that way, it kind of flawed
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  Speaker 4: a lot of at least decision making, and like I
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  Speaker 4: feel like I was going really off of a motion
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  Speaker 4: more than like being able to spend time and seeing compatibility.
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  Speaker 4: If that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: No, I agree, I have a couple of things. I think.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it is hard not to confuse like chemistry with connection,
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  Speaker 5: and I think both of us could probably have chemistry
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  Speaker 5: with like a cardboard box. So that was hard to
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  Speaker 5: like suss out like what is fun and what is
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  Speaker 5: the process and what is like being on a crazy
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  Speaker 5: day in France versus actually connecting, like what you were saying. Also,
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  Speaker 5: I think I know myself so deeply as a person.
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  Speaker 5: I've done a lot of work. It's something I want
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  Speaker 5: to continue to get better at so I can articulate it,
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  Speaker 5: so I can ask for things in a relationship, and
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  Speaker 5: that takes some work, and I don't the other person
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  Speaker 5: has to be able to know themselves too, And I
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  Speaker 5: feel like I wasn't really being met with that. So
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  Speaker 5: when I say I feel like I, you know, never
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  Speaker 5: really got to know him, I think it was really
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  Speaker 5: because he didn't really get to know himself. Like he's
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  Speaker 5: a little younger, you know, hasn't been through as much.
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  Speaker 5: So I think I was constantly wanting more than I
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  Speaker 5: just like didn't get.
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  Speaker 2: Eric lost his dad while you guys were still together.
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  Speaker 2: How was that, I mean, how difficult of a thing
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  Speaker 2: to navigate so early in a relationship.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, it really was.
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  Speaker 5: And I was, you know, so glad I got to
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  Speaker 5: meet him at hometowns and I'm a nurse, so I
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  Speaker 5: think my nursing kind of ICU background helped a lot
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  Speaker 5: because his dad was really really sick for a long time.
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  Speaker 5: But I think, you know, he could really lean on me,
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  Speaker 5: which is nice, and like I wanted to be there
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  Speaker 5: for him, Like there's grieving and losing somebody so hard
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  Speaker 5: as a support person because there's there's not anything you
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  Speaker 5: can say. And I was like, well aware, like I'm
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  Speaker 5: like I'm not going to be able to make anything better,
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  Speaker 5: but like if you need anything, I'm here, Like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: I can only imagine how terrible it is. But like,
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  Speaker 5: I can't be your support person.
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  Speaker 2: Both your guys are in new relationships now publicly, right,
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  Speaker 2: Tino took a long.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like a while it's been. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: when he started dating this new girl, but.
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  Speaker 3: It seems private.
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  Speaker 2: Seems like she's a quote regular girl in like his
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  Speaker 2: hometown area. How did it feel for you guys, Well,
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  Speaker 2: we'll talk about Rachel first.
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  Speaker 4: How did it feel to see like that picture? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's so weird because I feel like I truly am
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  Speaker 4: so like just okay with the situation and moved on that.
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  Speaker 4: I do genuinely want him to find happiness and find
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  Speaker 4: a person. I assume he wants the same for me,
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  Speaker 4: So obviously it's just kind of weird to see it.
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  Speaker 4: But obviously wish him all the best and hope it's,
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  Speaker 4: you know, going good.
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  Speaker 3: And now Gabby she's just a little different.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of wish been We're here for this
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  Speaker 2: moment because he had a celebrity crush on Elizabeth Turner.
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  Speaker 2: She's like like a model actress, and it seems like
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  Speaker 2: the Eric is now dating her and Hannah, Oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: Hanna grab a mic. Oh yeah, our producer Hannah's coming
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  Speaker 2: on for a second. It because she has seen Eric
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  Speaker 2: out about in La Let's hid very very soon after
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  Speaker 2: the breakup.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and he just seemed like he was ready to go.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, no any time like bachelor, you know, yeah, yeah, bachelor,
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  Speaker 2: traditional sense life.
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  Speaker 3: How has all that been feeling?
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  Speaker 5: I mean same, I think it's great, Like we weren't
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  Speaker 5: a match. We want different things out of life. Clearly
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  Speaker 5: after you just said, you know, he's like doing the
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  Speaker 5: bachelor Bachelor already right after the breakup. Like my just
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  Speaker 5: how I live my life is different, Like I'm goal oriented.
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  Speaker 5: I get reward from like you know, having a purpose
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  Speaker 5: like doing work things, expressing myself, like knowing myself, self
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  Speaker 5: improvement on all of those things.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 5: Like I'm in my thirties, Like I just want to
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  Speaker 5: be the person I want to be and take the
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  Speaker 5: steps to get there. And it's like he's in a
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  Speaker 5: different phase of life. So this is it's like kind
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  Speaker 5: of validating. I'm like, why we weren't a match. And
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  Speaker 5: it's like I don't want anyone to be unhappy, Like
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  Speaker 5: him being happy or unhappy is not going to affect
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  Speaker 5: me at all. So I'm like, yeah, like go do
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  Speaker 5: a thing. But where'd you run into him? I'll know
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  Speaker 5: to completely avoid it.
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  Speaker 6: Lots of bars in Venice, be lots of bars, like
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  Speaker 6: you we saw multiple times. I think I saw him
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  Speaker 6: like three or four times out like right after the split,
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  Speaker 6: and I was like, I think Gabby's better.
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  Speaker 4: Doing this guy just.
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  Speaker 3: Acting very is acting very single.
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  Speaker 4: So shocking.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, not surprised.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't you guys take some weird like moment where you're like,
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  Speaker 2: we're not really engaged but we're dating.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I tried everything.
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  Speaker 2: That's the movie Like it's like no, like let's not
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  Speaker 2: even pretend because like I've heard multiple people do that too. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like I don't want to engage, but we might get
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  Speaker 2: there again one day.
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  Speaker 4: Literally.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I remember we had a conversation. It's like we
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  Speaker 5: are engaged, like me wearing this ring and he obviously
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  Speaker 5: wanted me to like wear the ring.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, if we consider ourselves engaged, then we
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  Speaker 5: need to be acting like this, and then these are
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  Speaker 5: the things like the decisions and the conversations we need
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  Speaker 5: to be having, which are very serious and like I'm
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  Speaker 5: constantly bringing them to the table. If we're not, if
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  Speaker 5: we're dating, then like cool, I want to be coreted,
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  Speaker 5: Like you can just take me out on a date
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  Speaker 5: a couple of times a week. We can like take
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  Speaker 5: a step back like trying and like get to know
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  Speaker 5: each other and revel in the new period because it
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  Speaker 5: was kind of new being like in public, you know.
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  Speaker 4: But nothing worked. I feel like everyone does go through
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  Speaker 4: that because it is so emotional and all of a
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  Speaker 4: sudden you're engaged and you realize that and you are,
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  Speaker 4: but you're you've never dated them. You don't really know
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  Speaker 4: who they are at all as a person because you
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  Speaker 4: are so different in you're day to day life, and
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  Speaker 4: so you're like wait, wait, wait, like yes, we're engaged,
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  Speaker 4: but we need to go back to that dating phase.
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  Speaker 4: So I feel like we kind of everyone who's been
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  Speaker 4: through it does that in a way.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough.
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  Speaker 4: How do you feel like the show should evolve?
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  Speaker 2: That's a little pun dai pun for us, so that
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  Speaker 2: you guys, do know your person more before you like
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  Speaker 2: set off in the sunset together.
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  Speaker 3: Alone casting casting.
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  Speaker 2: You don't think it should be like more dates or
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  Speaker 2: like eliminating the weak ones earlier on.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think anything would have changed if I had
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  Speaker 5: more time, I still would have ended up who I
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  Speaker 5: ended up with, Like, I don't know how much you
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  Speaker 5: can fully get to know someone on camera because it's
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  Speaker 5: like these conversations are also, you know, pretty produced. They
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  Speaker 5: have a layout that's like true to batch, like this
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  Speaker 5: is when you typically say you're fine in love like
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  Speaker 5: this is. So it's like how much of it is
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  Speaker 5: actually real conversation maybe honestly more off camera time. I
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  Speaker 5: feel like BP is so successful because you just spend.
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  Speaker 3: All day with each other.
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  Speaker 5: You're not constantly like having these like seriously produced, serious
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  Speaker 5: and produced conversations with each other, like you get the downtime.
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  Speaker 2: Plus the seriously produced conversations often feel so boring, and
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  Speaker 2: when Gabby means boring as a viewer, when Gaby says produced,
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  Speaker 2: she means like they're led. They're not like telling us
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  Speaker 2: what to say. They're like, but answer this question now
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  Speaker 2: and ask.
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  Speaker 3: Them this question.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you. Okay, So let's talk about current dating life.
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  Speaker 3: Rachel. I know that you you were dating, you were
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  Speaker 3: dating somebody kind of secularly, right.
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  Speaker 4: Well, so, I mean it's been crazy. Right after the show,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like, not the show. After our AFR, I
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  Speaker 4: guess I felt like so much pressure with myself to
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  Speaker 4: be dating again and prove that I could basically do
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  Speaker 4: it and feel desired and like I'm gonna just get
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  Speaker 4: back out there. And I did really really soon, Like
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  Speaker 4: it was immediately after our finale, and I mean, obviously
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  Speaker 4: he was great. And it is to me, like, how
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  Speaker 4: do you were you meeting guys when you were trying
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  Speaker 4: to date? I really only dated one person again, and
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  Speaker 4: I haven't dated really anyone in like six months. He
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  Speaker 4: was the last person I dated because I think when
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  Speaker 4: that kind of ended, everything kind of like in a
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  Speaker 4: way came crashing down where I had to really kind
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  Speaker 4: of realize what this whole year had been, like a
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  Speaker 4: fail engagement, everything that happened on The Bachelor, and I
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  Speaker 4: was really able to like take that time to heal
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  Speaker 4: and like accept what had happened. And so, yeah, I've
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  Speaker 4: been single and it's been really really nice, honestly.
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  Speaker 3: Susie recently Susie like, who's like the third.
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  Speaker 2: Of you guys from Clayton season. She recently said that
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  Speaker 2: she pictures a relationship between you and Clayton to have
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  Speaker 2: made more sense unhinged.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, we heard that.
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  Speaker 4: I don't understand that you really know that about like
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  Speaker 4: the guy you were with. Yeah, yeah, that was hard
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  Speaker 4: I think for me to your because I mean they
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  Speaker 4: had a really serious relationship for months, and I obviously
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  Speaker 4: only knew Clayton on the show and what aspect that was.
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  Speaker 4: So I think that would hurt me in a way
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  Speaker 4: if I had heard someone say that about me, who
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  Speaker 4: has stated me for that long. But I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: And it's like you've moved past it. You've had a
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  Speaker 3: whole life outside of.
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  Speaker 5: It, and I'm sure you've learned a lot from being
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  Speaker 5: on Bachelor, but like you've had a lot of experiences
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  Speaker 5: since then. So just to kind of assume, like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: this should happen is like really.
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  Speaker 4: Not taking you into consideration.
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  Speaker 3: During our trip to.
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  Speaker 2: Carmelo a couple of months ago, you and Clinton did
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  Speaker 2: like have some sit down chats and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: How's your relationship in since? Like do you guys text?
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  Speaker 1: Not?
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  Speaker 3: Really?
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  Speaker 4: Let's see how.
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  Speaker 2: Not? Really?
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  Speaker 4: I mean here and there. He did send me his book.
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  Speaker 4: It's been nice to have like a friendship with him,
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  Speaker 4: and like with Zach now, I really feel like I've
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  Speaker 4: been able to like I don't know, I was holding
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  Speaker 4: on to so much resentment with I feel like everyone
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  Speaker 4: and being able to like kind of come together and
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  Speaker 4: really talk things out and apologize to them. It's been
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  Speaker 4: really nice, So we'll keep doing this. Just bring all my.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, it's nice therapy. Well, let's talk about that meeting
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  Speaker 2: with Zach. I know we talked about it also on
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  Speaker 2: ourn day episode, but you you know it's okay to
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  Speaker 2: say that it was you were nervous and seeing him again,
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  Speaker 2: especially since there was a lot of shade throw in
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  Speaker 2: your way during his season. So did you want to
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  Speaker 2: address that or you just like real sleep it under
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  Speaker 2: the rug and be friendly.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, obviously it was hard watching it because I did
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  Speaker 4: hear and see everything it was. It was hurtful, but
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  Speaker 4: in a way, like I know that he was just
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  Speaker 4: maybe relating it back to the only experience he had,
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  Speaker 4: and his feelings were valid and they were hurt. So
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  Speaker 4: I did just try to like take that into consideration,
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  Speaker 4: and I did text him during his season and reach
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  Speaker 4: out and so we kind of did already make up.
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  Speaker 4: And so seeing him again today, obviously it's the first time.
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  Speaker 4: I was a little nervous, but yeah, it was nice.
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  Speaker 5: I will say, Rachel, You're the best at like reaching
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  Speaker 5: out and knowing that people have your support, and I
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  Speaker 5: think that means a lot because it's like no message
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  Speaker 5: DM or text like went unnoticed. I was like, hey,
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  Speaker 5: I don't maybe I don't know you, but I'm here
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  Speaker 5: to support you. Like I know you've been really supportive
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  Speaker 5: with charity and like you're just good at that, and
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  Speaker 5: like other guys from our season, you're good at being
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  Speaker 5: like like kind of no hard feelings. I'm also a
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  Speaker 5: person you can lean on and like I care about
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  Speaker 5: you as a person, like you make it known, and
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  Speaker 5: I think that means a lot to people.
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  Speaker 3: That's so nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's always nice to see a DM
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  Speaker 2: from somebody, even if you don't know them from the community.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Make you feel better? It does?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Yabby, Supposedly you slid into Ben's DM yes to
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  Speaker 2: talk about this.
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  Speaker 5: It was like word vomit right when I pulled up,
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  Speaker 5: And like, I know Ben Higgins is somewhere on the
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  Speaker 5: premise and I need to tell everybody that I slid
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  Speaker 5: into out there chest.
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  Speaker 2: You know what it would re emerge is like if
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  Speaker 2: you were to damn Ben now, I'd be like, hey, thanks,
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  Speaker 2: great weekend.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it would come I.
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  Speaker 5: Know I deleted it because I up ahead.
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I know.
• 16:34
  Speaker 5: I'm like I was like harboring this secret for years,
• 16:37
  Speaker 5: I feel because it's like we're like on parallel kind
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: of pass like he's obviously a huge name.
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: We just had a season. I'm like, when is someone
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: going to find out I did damn think about damned?
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: But he was like from Denver and I was I
• 16:53
  Speaker 5: had seen him in Denver before, never said that to
• 16:55
  Speaker 5: his face, so like I knew where he lived.
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: He thinks I didn't, like, oh my god, where were
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: you located? The coffee shop? Yeah, but he's like a
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: hot commodity, like you know in Denver when he was
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: single at the time.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: So I slid. I did.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: I'm a shameless slider.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Okay, well we're going to play a little game now,
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Okay called who did you d M?
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: And let's read it out loud.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: I have I'll say it so just to pull it
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: up and who is it? And what does it say?
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: Word for word? It'll be like an old.
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: Do we say I love you the other day? Really
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: genuinely thinking he would respond to the singers in your
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: musician era, Yeah, I love a good musician.
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: Okay, do you want to know who it is first
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: Brett Goldstain from Ted Lasso. Okay, I said, through medium
• 17:54
  Speaker 5: amounts of stocking, I see you're a Bachelor fan.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: He has a Bachelor highlight.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Amazing the Bachelor highlights. Yeah, so it's not just like
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: he follows you. Does he follow you? No, he doesn't.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: It was like one season and it was like unhinged.
• 18:07
  Speaker 5: It was just this clip that they were like going
• 18:09
  Speaker 5: to Tulsa, Oklahoma or something, and then you know, on
• 18:11
  Speaker 5: the couch, they make you go like okay, now everybody scream.
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: It was like to somewhere crazy, like for us, it's Houston. Yeah,
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: so it was like that. So I was like, through
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: medium amounts of stocking, I see you are a Bachelor fan,
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: and I am a I am a fan of your chest, hair,
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: sweater and dry sense of humor. No response, never read
• 18:35
  Speaker 5: fully ignored.
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: One day, Yeah, were waiting for that scene. It's never
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: been opened.
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: We have somebody else.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: I have to get a cringey one, guys, because I
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: just opened Damn did Jimmy garoppolo in twenty fifteen?
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: I was only on the show for I had just
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: gotten off of filming Batchel my first reason paradise and.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I want to die. I want to actually crawl into
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: a whole right now.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: This is specially like reading an old diary dream.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: I can't say it.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: I lot yes, you hi, Jimmy. I think you're extremely handsome.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: And I have never sent a direct message to a
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: guy in my life, fass, just like the most famous quarterback.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: You're like, I never do this. I decided to take
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: a chance on you.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Still a backup at the time, guys, still a backup
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: to Tom, and I can't imagine the number of d
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: ms that you get. I did this, And let me
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: just say I did this in spite of Jared, because
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: he was like, oh, I'm sure you can't get like,
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: you know, I wanted to get Jimmy Garoppolo, who is
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: the backup quarterback to Tom Brady on the Patriot at
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: the time, and be like, oh, Jared, you don't want
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: to date me.
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: Well, Jimmy Garoppolo is gonna want to date me. Motivation.
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: I think I lied here by saying I'm going to
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: be in Providence this weekend, which is like half an
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: hour from where his house would have been, and I
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: would love to meet you. Let me know if you'd
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: be interested in hanging out. This is such like an
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: og DM, like when d ms were.
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: Like not a thing, very formal.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: It's really like, this is the most embarrassing thing I've
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: ever seen in my life. And then I attached a
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: photo of myself.
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: Just to make things easy for you. I'm putting all
• 20:34
  Speaker 5: the information in one text.
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: You don't even have to look at my profile if
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: you're at trying to meet dam back. I want to
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: just I need to go retire from life right now.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: Do you have friends?
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: Look over your dms? You say, okay, okay, And that's
• 20:55
  Speaker 5: so strange.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Is the best flirter and the best at sliding into
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: any text the threat, Oh my god, I love it.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: I love it?
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: Should I go find another one. I can't think of
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: anybody that.
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: I had good ones? I feel I was just I
• 21:10
  Speaker 4: feel like with people I know I could never get. Yeah,
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: that's my damn Like Riley Green, the singer idem him too.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: Wait, if you're listening Riley Green, no, I deleted it.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: That's the thing. I get so ashamed. I said Green,
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: you guys, I am so out of the pop culture.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: And he's a country singer. Okay, and I was going
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: to stagecoach and he was going to stage coach, showing
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: message him. And then I deleted it right away because
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: I get embarrassed that I did that. It's not there.
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: I never did it. Have a couple of glasses wine,
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: don't even remember. I'm like, oh I did that. No, Yeah,
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: that wasn't me.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: That's different things.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: I'm looking at him right now, so hot, Okay, So
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Hannah just gave me one that she slided it. She
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: slid into and listen, Hannah and I we always talk
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: about Joe Burrow together, so I don't have you yes
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: to that. I mean, he's got a girlfriend, very public,
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: but oh my god, we talked about this last time.
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: I remember when we were in Carmel.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: I couldn't stop talking about, you know, Joe Burrow. I
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: have a quarterback thing. It's fun, but it's so. Hannah
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: just sent me this screenshop. It's Nick Bossa and he
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Bosah and he's a football player as well for San Francisco.
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: I love this athlete.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: And she said hi on February second, with the smiley
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: face and then you guys, this is an amazing, amazing moment.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: On February fifteenth, she says, following up on the above.
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: I it incredible, as you should.
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: I'm doing that now.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah. On February twenty second, she goes circling back, and
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: then finally, on March fourteenth, the Granby face so good.
• 23:00
  Speaker 4: I will not get out of here. You will give
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: me a response.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: I love it, So go back to Riley green No response.
• 23:09
  Speaker 4: No, well, I also just deleted it, so I don't
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: even know if he saw it. He probably didn't. I
• 23:14
  Speaker 4: don't think it.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: I feel like men like aren't Like I'm always in
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: my dms, but we're women and we're like nosy and
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: want to know.
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: I feel like men aren't that good at it.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: Tell about the blue check mark, Like you have a
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: blue check mark?
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: Aren't you read it? Is like your direct inbox? And
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: then like he's just gonna be really curious to see
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: who had a blue check mark.
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: Everyone go message Riley Greeny tell him message me back.
• 23:36
  Speaker 5: Operation Rachel and Riley love it good name, Like all right,
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: here's somebody that did not slide into any d MS
• 23:43
  Speaker 5: but made quite a buzz.
• 23:45
  Speaker 4: So you and Vinnie from Jersey Shore.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: I this is I'm gonna look at you and I'm
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: gonna say what I think happened, tell me, and then
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: you should confirm her to not. Okay, I think you
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: had a really good flirtation. You made out a few times,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: but it was way more fun to get the public
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: interested than like anything for real, for real.
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: We never even made out really yeah, no, because he's
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: never in la and he.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: Got that's why.
• 24:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah, literally physically we can't make out cross country.
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: My lips are that meme that are like, oh, flopping
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: in the wind.
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: But yeah, he got eliminated on dancing like a couple
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: of weeks before it was over, and that's when it
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: was my busiest. So our pass just didn't really cross.
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: I'm I was always like kind of like I'm interested,
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: like take me on a date whatever that looks like,
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: like find me to New York basically, like that's what
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: people do these days. I feel like if you're going
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: to date long distance, and it just like never really
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: came to fruition. Then we saw each other on tour, Yeah,
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: I mean.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: Didn't you guys go on tour together or did he
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: just make a few appearances.
• 24:52
  Speaker 4: He was there for like five days.
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: He only spent one night on the bus, which like
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: if we were going to make out. It'd probably be
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: like on the bus. Yeah. So yeah, just like never
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: really like kind of bossome. We're good friends, like we do.
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: We like talk all the time. He's sending me his
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: jump ropes. He's like, hey, would you be interested. I'm like, Vinnie,
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: you can send me whatever you want. They're gonna say
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: my back room will never use them, but like, please
• 25:18
  Speaker 5: send me them.
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: But yeah, so just friendly.
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: He is very flirty in the social media realm, I think,
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: with like multiple women. So I think he kind of
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: started that and I was like, oh my god, this
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: is fun because I'm sure there's some overlap of Bachelor
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: Jersey Shore fans.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's like that kind of overtook. But not
• 25:39
  Speaker 5: to say like I'm not interested, but it just doesn't
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: really seem like it's gonna like blossom.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: Okay, well you guys should just go on a date
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: and see.
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: Literally, but I'm not gonna take myself on a date.
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: It's like he needs to like put in the initiative, Racha,
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: what do you.
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: Think about that coupling, Vinnie? Yeah, do you think it
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: makes sense? I think it makes sense on paper.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I don't know. I also feel like maybe
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: he's too much of a mama's boyfriend. God, yeah, I
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: can't really with the mama's boy She needs like a
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: partner who's very confident and like I don't know, yeah, yeah,
• 26:15
  Speaker 4: not that you're not confident any but I don't know
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: who knows?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, So if we were to set you guys up,
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: like if you were to set Gabby up with a celebrity,
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: who would it be?
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: And if you were to set up Rachel with the celebrity,
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: who would it be?
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Or I should we let's just go there?
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: Who's the bachelor person that you think so and so
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: should give a try?
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: I know yours should date Tyler Cameron. And I'm only
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: saying that, Yeah, that's a good match.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: Know who doesn't have a crush on Tyler Cameron.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: I think you guys would be good together. I don't
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: really know his personality, but he seems like kind of fun.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: But he seems that he seems really nice to look at,
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: So what more do we need?
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: Yours would be what's his name?
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: Ben? From Katie's Season?
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: Is it Ben Smith?
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: Yes? So hot?
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: So hot and like emotional? Oh sorry, yeah, I get
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: him confused. The COVID seasons. But but yeah, I feel
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: like you guys would be a good match.
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: He lives in la Maybe you should give him a call.
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: And he's like kind of below like not he doesn't
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: care about Yeah, he's like it, which I love that
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: he has his own stuff going on, Like I think
• 27:29
  Speaker 5: it'd be great.
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: He seems really nice.
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: Let's do it. Okay, let's make it happen.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: All right, Let's have him come to our next thing.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: Hanna put it down, Ben Smith and all.
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: My other axes.
• 27:39
  Speaker 3: We'll just get him all there.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk a little bit about your breast reduction surgery, Rachel.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: What was the reasoning going into it and how long
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: have you been thinking about doing it?
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: So I wanted to do it since I was seventeen.
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: I was in high school really like interested doing the research,
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: and I was just kind of waiting at that point.
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: And once I was in college, I was like, all right, well,
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: as soon as I graduate, I'm gonna get it done.
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: I ended up graduating like a month before I went
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: on the Bachelor, and I went immediately into the Bachelorette.
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: So once that ended, I was like one hundred percent
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: doing it right now. Being on the show affected it
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: a lot too. I feel like because I just hated
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: the clothes I was in and I was so uncomfortable
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: I would have back pains. So it just like made
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: sense right after the show and no regrets. Best decision
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: of my entire life. Do you mind telling us what
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: soars we were? I think I was a triple D
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: maybe bigger. I literally didn't even measure myself because I
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: just wouldn't ever wear like a wired bra. I would
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: only really wear sports bras and stuff like that. And
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: now I think I'm a c great. Yeah, so it's
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: been credible. Such a difference. My back like feels incredible.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: I just feel like I can wear anything, My movement
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: exercising is better. Just like this quality of life is amazing.
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: I'm so happy for you.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: It's awesome.
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you look incredible.
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: It's great.
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: Do you feel like people whenever you talk about are
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: like looking at your boobs?
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: No money for that.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like having this conversation and I'm checking
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: you out.
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: I'm like, they look so perky. I show everyone, I
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: showed Ashley last night. I show everyone. I have this
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: picture of me mid surgery where one boob is done
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: and one isn't. And anyone who asked me about I'm
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: do you want to see a picture I just show
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, yeah you can put the
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: little blur. Yeah, it's my favorite picture. It's so jarring.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: It's like one is like, yeah, like.
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: Who would have thought, like boobs can be such a burden,
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: but like bigger is not always better?
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I would obviously can't relate, But all I
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: know is that what I always thought, you know.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: I was like, I wonder what I'd be like with
• 29:51
  Speaker 3: bigger boobs.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: And then when I was pregnant and they were bigger,
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I was like I don't like these Yeah, like I
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: don't like the way that I felt them, like on
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: my stomach.
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: So, how was the recovery from that? And how was
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: your friend and roommate Genevieve and taking care of you?
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah? No, she was amazing. Recovery actually wasn't bad. I
• 30:12
  Speaker 4: thought I was gonna be like down bad for a
• 30:14
  Speaker 4: long time, but probably like a week two weeks and
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: then I was basically back to normal and I'm like
• 30:19
  Speaker 4: three months now and totally fine. And Genevieve's awesome. She
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: took such good care of me. So thank god she.
• 30:25
  Speaker 5: Is a good little like worker care taker. Yeah, she
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: like thrives in that.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: I love it. Yeah, all right, well let's talk about
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: like next steps in life.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: You are a pilot, and whenever I think about you
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: being a pilot, I'm like, that's like the most badass
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: thing ever. And I can't imagine what you look like
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: when you're like flying by yourself. And I know that
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: sometimes you actually like go up in the air by yourself,
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: and you've had some scary moments up in there by.
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I have some horror stories, like I
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: could literally go on for days. A lot of them
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: were when I was alone. They were when you were
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: a lot of scary. It's yeah, it's just a lot,
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: but I love it. I love like the adrenaline rush too,
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: So like even though they were scary, I think they're
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: like fun stories.
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: To tell me.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: There was way you keep going like that, a weird
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: light go off, and by myself.
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: There was this one flight I had to do that
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: was six hours long that I had to do to
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: get my commercial license, six hours by myself in one day.
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: Like it was actually a lot, but I ended up
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: having an RPM gauge failure, which is basically like you're
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: basically saying what your engine is doing. And so I
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: thought I was having an engine failure. And when I
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: like landed, basically I was like, oh my god. And
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: I went to this maintenance sight and they basically couldn't
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: tell me what it was. They were like, we don't
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: know if it's your RPM or if it is your engine,
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: so we recommend you staying like here. And I was
• 31:45
  Speaker 4: in Indiana, and I was like, I'm just going to
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: assume it's our PM gauge because I didn't see any
• 31:50
  Speaker 4: other engine roughness. And then I just said the rest
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: of the flight, no, I go back.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: And the scariest part was that it was like dark
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: out by the time I was going back, so it
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: was just pitch black, me by myself and my RPM gauge,
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: just like going into the red into the red. But
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: it actually ended up just being the gage.
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: So I was, Oh my god, terrifying.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: You literally live on the edge.
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: I forget that you're such an adrenaline junkie.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't like come across as somebody that isn't
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: adrenaline junkie.
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  Speaker 4: She loves it. Yeah, I love it like I got
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: to go on that date on our season where we
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: did the zero g's in the plane so much fun.
• 32:25
  Speaker 4: Like I love anything like that. But I'm in the
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: process right now. I'm renewing my CFI license, my teacher license,
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: and I'm gonna go back to that.
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: Do you just want to go fly for the airlines?
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the goal. I don't like teaching. You basically
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: just have to do it to get to the airlines.
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: So do you pretend like to be in top gun
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: though when you're teaching? Oh my gosh, teaching is so hard.
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: I'm just not a teacher, Like not everyone is cut out.
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: So it's like I'm a good pilot and I know
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: what I'm doing, But like sometimes teaching I'm just like,
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: oh god, and.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: You're still impatient.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's scary as hell, like your life is
• 33:01
  Speaker 5: in their hands.
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: Who are these students? So literally one time I was
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: with a student when Clayton season was airing, and he
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: just looks at me. We were like flying in silence,
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: and he goes, I know you're on the show.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: No one not.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: And he goes, YESTERD, why I saw you? And I'm like, Okay,
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: you're back back to this, it was I think the
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: episode the night before was Fantasy suitees too. Oh my god, great,
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: Like I can take it real seriously right now?
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: So yeah, literally, Oh you're in Gabby.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: I know that you guys are both like enjoying your
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: post bachelor life, like absolutely no pressure in getting back
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: to what you're doing beforehand, Like you should just soak
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: up all like the money and experiences that you can
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: right now.
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: But do you ever think about going back to nursing.
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: Obviously, Like healthcare has a special place in my heart.
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: I was in IC you nurse for eight years. It
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: is grueling. Nursing is really not for the faint of heart.
• 33:56
  Speaker 5: I will say at that time, I was pretty burnt
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: out working through COVID I started when I was young.
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: I see you as just like intense. You know, you're
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: dealing with lots of death and lots of sick patients
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: and lots of responsibility. So I don't think I would
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: ever go back to the bedside, but I would like
• 34:15
  Speaker 5: to be like an advocate in some way. It's really
• 34:19
  Speaker 5: hard because sometimes it seems like unattainable. It's like, what
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: can I do personally about staffing ratios? You know, this
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: is kind of like a niche thing that like in
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: real life doesn't really affect people.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: But like obviously we need nurses.
• 34:33
  Speaker 4: Which we know through the pandemic.
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: So but yeah, I think I like right now, just
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: want to spread the true word because I think nursing
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: is glorified.
• 34:43
  Speaker 4: I think people are like, oh my god, you're nurse.
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: Like you must be like so perfect, great angel and
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: like love your job, and it's like, no, we're humans,
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: and humans taking care of humans is really scary and
• 34:55
  Speaker 5: really vulnerable, and we do make mistakes and we work
• 34:59
  Speaker 5: thirteen hours day on our feet with sometimes no breaks
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: and no chance to get water. So it's like these
• 35:05
  Speaker 5: are the things we need to talk about, not necessarily glorifying,
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: like the occupation, like we need to know the truth
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: that's really well put.
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: All right, well, this is a great time. You're the best.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: It's so fun to have a girl time with.
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: So fun, didn't hit How are you?
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: How am I next time?
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: Okay? Well, we love you guys, and please come on
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: all of our trips. So much fun.
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: It was so much fun.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Thanks for having us of course. All right, well until
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: next time. I've been Ashley.
• 35:42
  Speaker 4: I'm Rachel and I'm Gabby.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: That's cute. They mess up a little bit, but we
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: like it. Bye.
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