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Episode 44"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars · The Baller Alert Show

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Speaker 1: Because the tree is real. It's about to go down.
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Speaker 1: Wake up, wake up and on your pivot. Turn it down.
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Speaker 1: You know, if you're gonna shoot, you better shoot straight,
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Speaker 1: because so who did I don't know lose the worst
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Speaker 1: thing you can deal with tracks. Welcome to the Fallow
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Speaker 1: Alert Show, featuring your lifestyle specialists He Burns so Long
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Speaker 1: and Ferrari Simmons. The tree is real. Take a shot
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Speaker 1: at I'm going there. Is it to help you send
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Speaker 1: your wish? I wanted one. I thought you were going
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Speaker 1: to open it for years. It's your like style specialist
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Speaker 1: Kenny Burns. Hey young, what's your favorite? Eat? The Opian
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Speaker 1: Sue Solo. I'm getting better and better at my native call. Yes,
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Speaker 1: like the Forever President, the rock Obomba. This one is
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Speaker 1: forty five. Oh lord, we're gonna have to have so
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Speaker 1: much Michael Jordan's come back number. Yeah see now, Yes,
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Speaker 1: ship is coming out. Now you want to offer to
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Speaker 1: the pop Coach spectrum? How was your weekend? People? Everything
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Speaker 1: was good? My way um straight DJ and stuff. And
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Speaker 1: then I went to Michigan with with Snowman. I never
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Speaker 1: I've never been to Detroit before, went to Lansing State
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Speaker 1: homecoming and then we came back to Detroit. That was lit,
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Speaker 1: coming packed pat. It was my first time and it
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Speaker 1: was cold for it was cold for meftive degrees anything
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Speaker 1: underssisted degrees. I'm calling at night, it was it's so cold.
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Speaker 1: Then I had to stuff over the weekend too, So
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Speaker 1: it was you speaking. Yeah, no, I was hosting. This
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Speaker 1: is your new trajectory. I need you to jump out here.
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Speaker 1: I had to, I know I had, but um I
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Speaker 1: had to go to Michigan. Oh yeah, So Saturday I
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Speaker 1: had some speaking engagements they inquired about, but I had
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Speaker 1: to stuff. That's agency they represent Ferrari Simmons Burns. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so how was weekend? Weekend was good? Of course, Saturday
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Speaker 1: how to Go? How to Go? It was the first
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Speaker 1: Saturday by yourself. Second Yeah, yeah, so that was really cool.
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Speaker 1: Um I've been promoting it a lot on my Wednesday
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Speaker 1: segment on seven to Beat, so like I've been getting
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Speaker 1: a difference, you know, it's yeah, you know, I'm a
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Speaker 1: little weekly segment or whatever. What else is going on?
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Hosted the Gruci Experience, which is really dope.
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Speaker 1: Those kids maybody do some some um Cashi and Miko
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Speaker 1: are really dope. They're both Nigerian and they're focusing on
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Speaker 1: like bringing positive influence to dress very dressed. They wear
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Speaker 1: a lot of traditional garment, but they modernize it with
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Speaker 1: like you know, trendy twist to it. But they're they're
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Speaker 1: very dope and they're giving Atlanta a lot more like
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Speaker 1: cultural events. We see players spe I've been noticing their
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Speaker 1: I've been noticing their thing because you actually had the
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Speaker 1: thing you guys hosted once before to right the awards. Awesome, awesome,
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Speaker 1: he was, he was, he was down there in the
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Speaker 1: to the University of Miami. Came back though, right I
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Speaker 1: saw the majority of the game went to some sports
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Speaker 1: party and that saw they got them college towns and
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Speaker 1: we had had so much fry food this weekend. It's ridiculous.
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Speaker 1: It's always no options. They have no wheat grass um. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: so big shout to Tallahassee fam. You uh at the
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Speaker 1: black cars experience. I'm just I'm just with the ships
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Speaker 1: like I have to. I have to. I am making
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Speaker 1: a point in my life now going forward as I've
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Speaker 1: always I've always supported historical black college and universities, but
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Speaker 1: I want them to be whole like I wanted to be.
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Speaker 1: I want our do all of us to go get
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Speaker 1: new stadiums and buildings and just continue to help me
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Speaker 1: grow because it ain't no experience like the black Cars experience.
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Speaker 1: I swear, I'm down there, man, big shout, the errand
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Speaker 1: and the carpet dam guys down there. But just seeing
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Speaker 1: people from I'm talking about my era to y'all are
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Speaker 1: to I mean, it's just everybody comes together for this
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Speaker 1: family reunion of sauce and it was amazing. So having
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Speaker 1: incredible time down to Tallahassee. Yeah, all love man, all
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Speaker 1: of I Also, um, I'm going through with y'all. My
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Speaker 1: son is turning eighteen. I don't even know. I don't
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Speaker 1: even know how. I don't even know where to begin.
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Speaker 1: Like eighteen, I'm still in the club turning up like yeah,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna start hitting me up, like hey, what you
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Speaker 1: were you at the night for real? That's eight birth okay,
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Speaker 1: so big shout. The little kid is his birthday this
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Speaker 1: week on October eleventh. I love you, son, um, and
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Speaker 1: now it's time for in case you miss lord, little
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Speaker 1: Wayne goes golden one week. All the prophecy that Ferrara
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Speaker 1: has been Um Shane on The Ball Alert Show with
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Speaker 1: Baller Nation. How great of artists he is, which he
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Speaker 1: is totally the garden he had he had a goat
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Speaker 1: pending on I saw at the a C three festival. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: did you see the goat? Charleng one of my favorite
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Speaker 1: rappers ever. Yeah, he's a golden one week, which is
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Speaker 1: great for these times in music. I'm sure the stream
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Speaker 1: of numbers and all that are are very high as well.
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Speaker 1: But Challenge is doing pretty good, Like a lot of
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Speaker 1: people are actually uploading the upboard challenge where they oh, wait,
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Speaker 1: so what is that? That's his that's his nation up
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Speaker 1: for challenge. But you guys put the dance on Sad
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Speaker 1: Uproar Challenge and tad Baller Alert so we can see
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Speaker 1: you guys. We might post you guys on that we got.
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Speaker 1: We gotta do an uproar challenge. I don't dance no more. Um.
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Speaker 1: All I do was this? All I do is this?
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Speaker 1: Um No. But I think that something happened at the
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Speaker 1: a C three right. Somebody said it was a fight
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Speaker 1: or some shooting, but apparently insider told us something. There's
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Speaker 1: a different stories. Um. One of the stories is a
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Speaker 1: fight broke out and it caused people to like freak
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Speaker 1: out and stampede and running to each other. Nothing's over.
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Speaker 1: And then the other story is that there was no fight.
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Speaker 1: A barricade fell and that loud noise that heavy barricade
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Speaker 1: makes caused people to freak out. I guess they thought
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Speaker 1: like some people were ducking. They assumed, probably because of
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Speaker 1: the show's content, that it was going to be something
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Speaker 1: goes realize, Yeah, one person ducks, everyone's gonna duck around you.
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Speaker 1: But I do feel bad because it was Everyone says
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Speaker 1: it was a stampede, like people fell over. I know
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Speaker 1: people whose lips got busted, people lost their shoes, their bags. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: but it's you know, you can't you can't jump to
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Speaker 1: conclusions and crowded places. You just can't do that because
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Speaker 1: it's gonna cause because the first image are we're like
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Speaker 1: training them running to the van and then skirting down
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Speaker 1: the street and somebody apparently trying to jump in their
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Speaker 1: car and they didn't realize who she was then drove
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Speaker 1: a safety Yeah, they just trying to get to say,
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Speaker 1: but that's crazy. You gotta do more, do more better.
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Speaker 1: It can't be just jumping to conclude on the real plan.
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Speaker 1: You need more staff to help try to keep the
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Speaker 1: chaos as under control as possible. Some things you can't
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Speaker 1: really was a C three overall, you guys heard it
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Speaker 1: was great. I went to the Silence of Shampanel it
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Speaker 1: was great. Um, you know, Shaunty does see it was dope,
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Speaker 1: Like it was really great to see how they related
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Speaker 1: it to the music industry and holding music exacts accountable
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Speaker 1: for their artists. That yeah, that was God arrested that
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Speaker 1: my friend Shakier Stewart, no one ever knew he had issues,
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Speaker 1: like like I was one of his great friends and
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Speaker 1: never the one thing he blows his head off. And
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Speaker 1: it's like you think about signs, right because when you're
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Speaker 1: off in your careers and you're not, like you know,
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Speaker 1: we have a lot of friends that go through mental
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Speaker 1: ship that we don't really know because everybody's family, moving, traveling.
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Speaker 1: All of a sudden you hear some tragic happen, like
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Speaker 1: what the funk? So that I just want to take
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Speaker 1: my tip my hat to Shanty Dawes and the Shame
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Speaker 1: of Silence movement. So um, silence the shame movement. I
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Speaker 1: love her. I love her movement. We support her, um
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Speaker 1: and y'all. R Kelly is a savage. Man, I'm confused, man, apparently,
8:24
Speaker 1: let me just I want to read this to y'all.
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Speaker 1: Come only there as a sheriff. Dad is looking first
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Speaker 1: of all, the police. Whenever you do something with the
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Speaker 1: police's spouse, you know you really have a mental challenge
8:36
Speaker 1: because the first thing for show is that he could
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Speaker 1: get away with killing your ass um. We don't want
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Speaker 1: that to happen. But Mississippi sheriff plans to question R
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Speaker 1: Kelly under oath about singers alleged affair with his wife
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Speaker 1: mid The controversy of R. Kelly's alleged relationships with younger women.
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Speaker 1: Self proclaimed pipe piper of R and B be laying
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Speaker 1: the pipe is face seen legal issues over in alleged
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Speaker 1: relationship with another man's wife. Problem is, the demand is
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Speaker 1: a Mississippi sheriff and now he wants to question the
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Speaker 1: singer about the alleged affair under open the closet. He's
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Speaker 1: saying that ir Kelly done ruined his life? What the
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Speaker 1: hell of problem? Mill? R Kelly don't ruin his own
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Speaker 1: life at this point, sir, how are you gonna just?
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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, It's like does he want it?
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Speaker 1: Like that's the police first and foremost. Second was all
9:33
Speaker 1: you're like, you're under so much scrutiny for being a freak.
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. I don't know what
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Speaker 1: he plans to get out of this situation, but something
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Speaker 1: on his lip. It's just something he can't get down.
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Speaker 1: They're gonna shut him down. That's the only way he's
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Speaker 1: gonna stop. He's gonna keep doing what he's doing because
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Speaker 1: he feels like you can get away with it. He's
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Speaker 1: a cold piece of word. Um. But yeah, big shout
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Speaker 1: to r Kelly and the Sheriff of Mississippi. Eminem. Eminem
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Speaker 1: predicted what's happening in rap music? Did y'all listen to that?
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Speaker 1: Play it for him? I take it for those with didn't,
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Speaker 1: because we got Dump down the Stile and ABC and
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Speaker 1: some big because now days, these kids, jeez don't give
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Speaker 1: a ship by licks fully one of the years of beating.
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Speaker 1: That's it. As long as they go to the club
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Speaker 1: and get Lid's pick up and cheeks and get some digits,
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Speaker 1: and the DJ playing him hits all, this is my chain,
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Speaker 1: this is my sin. We don't know the chain right now.
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Speaker 1: He knows the course because of course repeats the same
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Speaker 1: word tours and some shine normous are formula squeet because
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Speaker 1: we don't know anymore what it hits it the beat
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Speaker 1: is of the rat This is it a finger snap
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Speaker 1: for the same hanaway class. How do we dad thinking
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Speaker 1: tee our round boats with thirteen year olds control the
10:40
Speaker 1: remote and that he's got a friend new knows we
10:43
Speaker 1: gotta put some new and fast. He said, say things
10:48
Speaker 1: over and over again, and that was gonna be hooked.
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Speaker 1: He said that the ABC s and want two threes
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Speaker 1: is gonna be the way that rhymes went? Did he
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Speaker 1: or did he not? Call it? Y'all yep as pop?
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Speaker 1: But isn't that I mean that's almost scary. Like I
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Speaker 1: don't think he's getting enough credit for the premonition. Like
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Speaker 1: that's like and he when he made the rap, this
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Speaker 1: wasn't happening. I mean, it wasn't. I went on Trump
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Speaker 1: to respond to Eminem. He hasn't respond to Eminem's you
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Speaker 1: know why? Can I tell you why? Because Eminem represents
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Speaker 1: the majority of the psycho white people that are voting
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Speaker 1: for him. And you know, the psycho white people outside
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Speaker 1: of the people that have the ultimate power is the
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Speaker 1: trailer park trash. Wow. Because Eminem is from the trailer park,
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Speaker 1: and if you go in on m who represents all
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Speaker 1: trailer parks across the world, then you in trouble missed
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Speaker 1: the officer. I don't know if not saying that voted
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Speaker 1: for Trump, but just the people that you know, probably
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Speaker 1: idolize him because of where he comes from, are more
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Speaker 1: than Trump supporters. Trump supporters are literally the stupid people,
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Speaker 1: stupid people, no bullshit, or the very wealthy that has
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Speaker 1: something to game. It's fact stupid, ignorant. Like if you've
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Speaker 1: seen the people at these rallies, it's almost scary. They
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Speaker 1: look crazy. I don't even see those kind of white people.
12:23
Speaker 1: Where do they live. I'll be like, I don't see them,
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Speaker 1: not those w people. Well outside of the city, you
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Speaker 1: do well outside of the town. I've seen them at
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Speaker 1: the Dunkin Doughnuts. They're traveling to go to that Dunkin
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Speaker 1: Donuts because I don't see that that. And I see
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Speaker 1: white people all the time. And there are some white
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Speaker 1: people that aren't in the description or in the narrative
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Speaker 1: in which I'm creating right now, but I'm talking about
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Speaker 1: the ones at these rallies. They look crazy. And then
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Speaker 1: they always had the one black person that just looks
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Speaker 1: like a sideboards that my person is lost. He even
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Speaker 1: had to preach or something at the last How could
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Speaker 1: you even preach the word of God in the same
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Speaker 1: building as the yeah so um yeah y'all um de
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Speaker 1: leaded his Twitter and his Instagram. I'm not I'm not
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Speaker 1: gonna say that we had any influence over that. I'm
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Speaker 1: not gonna say that because I didn't intend to message
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Speaker 1: last week to be that. But maybe he thought I'm
13:24
Speaker 1: looking like a frustrated nerd. I need to race all
13:27
Speaker 1: this ship right now so people can forget it. Because
13:29
Speaker 1: the visual I saw today was an amazing video. Um.
13:33
Speaker 1: Tracy Mills promoted they had on like all these neutral
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Speaker 1: browns and creams whatever they wear in some wood kind
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Speaker 1: of thing and he was going on performing. So I
13:42
Speaker 1: guarantee there's some music on the way, um, so watch out.
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Speaker 1: I'm curious to see musically what's gonna happen because we
13:50
Speaker 1: didn't get that album yet, right, no one cares. Okay, Greg,
13:56
Speaker 1: look look at don't give a ferrari. I want to
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Speaker 1: hear the music concert dope to um in Portland's fans
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Speaker 1: were going to run up on on the game. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: he got tipped, rolled past the jail, went to Walmart,
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Speaker 1: offered his fans, offered his fans and asked if they
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Speaker 1: wanted anything. UM, I don't understand how they tipped them.
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Speaker 1: I mean, clearly this is from apparent payment. He's supposed
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Speaker 1: to pay this lady for the sexual assault whatever. But
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Speaker 1: how do you how do you get tipped off that
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Speaker 1: the police is coming? Therefore you're not gonna show up
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Speaker 1: if you're smart? What he is? So? Is he on
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Speaker 1: the run right now? Instagram? But he did interview? Didn't
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Speaker 1: he recently with the Breakfast Club? But no, he this
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Speaker 1: is after I think. But then he popped up Yeah
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Speaker 1: he that was after Saturday because this came out. You know,
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Speaker 1: it's not since not since the fans we're looking for
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Speaker 1: him in Portland. But he has posted obviously when that
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Speaker 1: we posted that. But then he did a video talking
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Speaker 1: a happy Sunday. You know I'm talking about like I
15:05
Speaker 1: ain't got no haircut. Yeah dog, it's very entertaining to
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Speaker 1: say the lead he's one of him in fifty that
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Speaker 1: the yeah comedy is part of their plan. Um. The
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Speaker 1: Forbes magazine UM released the rock Family Tree. Did everyone
15:23
Speaker 1: see the family the Rock, the Rock Family Tree. I'm sorry,
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Speaker 1: Kareem Biggs Birk said birds, Um, you know, he had
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Speaker 1: an interview with the Forbes and he took them through
15:41
Speaker 1: Harlem and they had these conversations and they did an
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Speaker 1: or chart of Rockefella's contribution to the culture. And I'm
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Speaker 1: talking about when I say that, they, I mean I
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Speaker 1: was like that at it. Everybody on the air is
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Speaker 1: a you know, doing their thing. But as I'm looking
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Speaker 1: at it, like just I called Biggs this weekend, I'm like, Biggs,
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Speaker 1: imagine if y'all held on and had a piece of
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Speaker 1: all that came after. Could you imagine the z that
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Speaker 1: jay Z line. Look at this, Lord, the kind of
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Speaker 1: paper that I'm talking about, you could have had, Like
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Speaker 1: I'm looking at this, and so many people came from
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Speaker 1: it that are running. Yeah. Yeah, And I was there
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Speaker 1: early though. See people don't realize I gave Damon the
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Speaker 1: movie Pading for Like I that deal. That movie got
16:37
Speaker 1: him his picture deal with the Wines things. Um, but anyway,
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Speaker 1: big shout to Biggs. Now, I love how you know,
16:43
Speaker 1: it's it's a testament to to will right. So Emory
16:46
Speaker 1: gets locked up right. When I met all of them,
16:49
Speaker 1: doesn't come home to having many years ago. Now he's
16:53
Speaker 1: creative designing for pool Man. As you know, he's doing these.
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Speaker 1: And then Biggs, you know, Biggs had this hiccup when
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Speaker 1: wait for a couple of years, came home and it
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Speaker 1: just continued me to reinvent in. That is the plight
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Speaker 1: of the black man. You fix it. It don't matter
17:08
Speaker 1: what you've been through. Get busy. The train is real.
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Speaker 1: I used to wear I used to wear a rock away.
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Speaker 1: Did you everybody did that? Was? That was like a phenale?
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Speaker 1: Remember that ship? Did you really? I didn't really wish
17:22
Speaker 1: Sean never really wore Sean John either, but I wore Okay,
17:27
Speaker 1: And now time for paulor Man. This one right here.
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Speaker 1: Cut a little deep, y'all. Come on, this may get
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Speaker 1: us until you know he did debate. Maybe maybe not.
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Speaker 1: I wonder who's gonna get get at you? Oh not
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Speaker 1: at me. I'm just saying we're probably gonna get into debate.
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Speaker 1: Your grannies forty fifty plus year marriage isn't goals to me.
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Speaker 1: If she had to accept NonStop infidelities, struggle up second
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Speaker 1: class citizenship in her home, stilling seeing herself to survive,
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Speaker 1: seeing her man's face in the neighborhood kids with the
18:04
Speaker 1: damn looking emoji and her words only being based off
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Speaker 1: her culinary and child rearing abilities. These are not goals. Trauma, bonds,
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Speaker 1: a lack of resources and tradition kept many of our
18:17
Speaker 1: grandmothers with their husbands. Stop shaming millennials for having the
18:21
Speaker 1: audacity to the audacity to expect respect and uh, come on, man, now,
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Speaker 1: I want to say this. So you mean to tell
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Speaker 1: me that Nana and Papa, Grandma Neil, you know what
18:38
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, didn't do the right thing by staying
18:40
Speaker 1: both in both both sides of the story. I I
18:43
Speaker 1: personally know grandmothers who jumped out there. I know grandfathers
18:49
Speaker 1: who were off the change. I'm just saying, but isn't
18:52
Speaker 1: sticking together the goal regardless? I'm just saying, ultimately, right,
18:56
Speaker 1: I'm not sticking with you if you are here having
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Speaker 1: kids with all the all the neighbors saying that. But
19:02
Speaker 1: I'm saying infidelity infidelity in general, so generationally, what have
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Speaker 1: you not that it's correct or right? I am not
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Speaker 1: saying that, Baller Nation, I am not saying that. I'm saying, though,
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Speaker 1: is what is the goal? So I think, in just
19:19
Speaker 1: in reading that what this person is talking about, there
19:24
Speaker 1: were a lot of women that were forced to stay
19:27
Speaker 1: in their marriages because they were second citizens, couldn't really
19:31
Speaker 1: get jobs, couldn't like they didn't feel like they had
19:33
Speaker 1: the resources to get out there and do their own
19:37
Speaker 1: That was the only times in American history we're both
19:42
Speaker 1: worked as much the women back in the day, My
19:45
Speaker 1: grandmother or my great they worked. Everybody worked. There wasn't
19:50
Speaker 1: nobody staying at home. I don't think everybody's grandmother works.
19:53
Speaker 1: This is the thing that everybody calls from different background.
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Speaker 1: Black folks, I would say, I don't did any of
20:01
Speaker 1: your grandparents did not work? My grandparents worked, both of them.
20:05
Speaker 1: About to say both of mine worked, again, I've only
20:09
Speaker 1: met my grand my grandmother's my grandfather's was bum niggies
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Speaker 1: and left, but they worked us supposed what I heard, Well,
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Speaker 1: I think that this person is talking about a specific
20:18
Speaker 1: group of people. I don't think that they're saying that
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Speaker 1: all people, you know, fifty sixty years ago, we're in
20:23
Speaker 1: this position. I just think that they're talking to the
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Speaker 1: ones that did really did not have resources, didn't have
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Speaker 1: a skill set that they felt like they could go
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Speaker 1: out and get a job to actually take care of
20:32
Speaker 1: themselves and their kids. So they stayed. Hell, I know
20:35
Speaker 1: somebody today actually right now who's married with four kids,
20:39
Speaker 1: and it's a straight up financial thing because she's very insecure,
20:42
Speaker 1: she's very beat down, and she doesn't know what she
20:45
Speaker 1: would do without this marriage. So I think that person
20:49
Speaker 1: is just talking about those that particularly to be back
20:51
Speaker 1: from sex, let's talk about friendship. How many times have
20:56
Speaker 1: your friends disappointed your friends they listened to I'm not
21:00
Speaker 1: talking about the acquaintances. How many times have your friends
21:03
Speaker 1: your partners happens though? Right, Okay, but it happens. It happens,
21:09
Speaker 1: you would say, it happens in the relationship, right, So
21:11
Speaker 1: in a relationship as a woman, as a man, if
21:14
Speaker 1: you marry somebody that you know a subject to go
21:16
Speaker 1: out there and dip in the water, do you not know?
21:20
Speaker 1: Are you not aware of this before you get into relationship.
21:23
Speaker 1: Everyone should be aware of everything before you get married. Okay,
21:26
Speaker 1: So that so let me that's that's just really back
21:28
Speaker 1: to and I'm not making excuses for nobody saying this
21:30
Speaker 1: all right now, the thought of friendship, relationship, it is
21:37
Speaker 1: the goal to make it to the end or is
21:40
Speaker 1: the goal to go through plenty motherfucker's along the way.
21:42
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, when you have the synergies
21:46
Speaker 1: because your best friends are your best friends for a reason.
21:49
Speaker 1: You have synergies with those people. Your partner and significant
21:52
Speaker 1: other is your partner and significant other because you have
21:56
Speaker 1: a dynamic that you don't with other people. So my
21:59
Speaker 1: point is, don't you finish that? And I'm not saying
22:01
Speaker 1: transgressions and be out here fucking everything moving and having
22:05
Speaker 1: kids on the block and what this person was saying.
22:07
Speaker 1: But I'm taking it off that off the table from
22:10
Speaker 1: the the perspective of long term goals, what's your long
22:15
Speaker 1: term goals and relationships? Because I know our people had
22:18
Speaker 1: way more strung. I'm talking about our grandparents. When they're
22:21
Speaker 1: talking about grandparents. It was way more social political issues
22:24
Speaker 1: than somebody racial. It was like a whole bunch of
22:31
Speaker 1: the street without being browbeat for something or for just
22:35
Speaker 1: pay in life. So my thing is like, yeah, a
22:38
Speaker 1: lot of them stuck around. A lot of it had
22:39
Speaker 1: to do with the time circumstances. But one I don't
22:41
Speaker 1: think either party was lazy because you could not be
22:44
Speaker 1: lazy and get ahead and like so lazy meaning mentality,
22:48
Speaker 1: sitting back selling that's but then it's like, okay, well,
22:52
Speaker 1: what's what's the alternative? That's what and I've been married
22:56
Speaker 1: nineteen years. The alternative is what what is the alternative?
23:01
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? The alternative is actually to uh,
23:05
Speaker 1: get a divorce or break up, and then now you
23:08
Speaker 1: have to figure out how to communicate because if you're
23:11
Speaker 1: gonna go to another situation, now you have to still communicate.
23:14
Speaker 1: Especially we have kids together. So now even the fact
23:17
Speaker 1: that y'all break up and y'all can't stand each other
23:20
Speaker 1: because of the infidelities, you still are forced to have
23:23
Speaker 1: a communicationship because evolved or kids are involved. Kids are involved,
23:31
Speaker 1: So now you have to communicate, like, for example, me
23:33
Speaker 1: and Rory's mama not together. We're a divorce and um,
23:37
Speaker 1: we're at the stage now where we communicate very well.
23:41
Speaker 1: It wasn't it was not it was it was not
23:44
Speaker 1: like that before, but now we communicate very well in
23:51
Speaker 1: regards to him. But like you know, we're always gonna
23:55
Speaker 1: we're always going to have to communicate, right, But my
23:57
Speaker 1: point is in the dynamic, if y'all had that inseparable relationship,
24:01
Speaker 1: friendship that y'all need. This is my thing. I see
24:05
Speaker 1: what you're saying, what I'm saying, I see who you're saying.
24:07
Speaker 1: Y'all just think it was like something okay boom, I'm
24:09
Speaker 1: it's to a point where where it can't exist. But
24:13
Speaker 1: that's what my point whatever but you're saying, is what
24:15
Speaker 1: about you make it exists? Because that isn't that That's
24:19
Speaker 1: that's what he says. Isn't that the goal to make
24:21
Speaker 1: it work? That's what I'm saying, to make it. That's
24:26
Speaker 1: what we're saying, for better and for worse. Right, that's
24:28
Speaker 1: all I'm saying that Now you choose to deal with
24:30
Speaker 1: what you want to choose to deal with Suo suoze
24:33
Speaker 1: suose thing is no, I'm not gonna let You're not
24:35
Speaker 1: gonna disrespect me. I just want I just wanted to
24:37
Speaker 1: stick to what to what that was, so like what
24:40
Speaker 1: we got that table in perspect because that's what we're
24:43
Speaker 1: just taking. Okay, so so so for me, so for
24:46
Speaker 1: me reading that last line, my experiences are people are saying, like, oh,
24:51
Speaker 1: you millennials, y'all, don't stick shit out. We just talked
24:53
Speaker 1: about this last week. Actually, how less and less people
24:55
Speaker 1: are you have the desire to get married. Now, that's
24:59
Speaker 1: coming from a lot of women not being in the
25:02
Speaker 1: same position that maybe like my mom didn't speak English,
25:06
Speaker 1: she hustled, you know what I'm saying, Like my mama hustled.
25:08
Speaker 1: I did not see my mom like physically go to
25:13
Speaker 1: a job. She's so food and babysat. She missed my
25:15
Speaker 1: soccer game, she missed my plays because she was babysitting
25:18
Speaker 1: other people's kids. Right, that's just all she need to do. Now.
25:23
Speaker 1: When she did have a man, she didn't even I
25:25
Speaker 1: didn't even meet that man for three years. I knew
25:27
Speaker 1: somebody was coming to the house every night because I
25:29
Speaker 1: could hear him, but I didn't know who he was
25:31
Speaker 1: because my mom just that's just I just never had
25:34
Speaker 1: an example of that, Right. So I think what they're talking,
25:37
Speaker 1: what this person is talking about, is there were some
25:39
Speaker 1: things that women would take they would have to take
25:42
Speaker 1: back then because they did not have the resources that
25:45
Speaker 1: we have now. It's a completely different ballgame now, Like
25:48
Speaker 1: women are leading the world of entrepreneurship right now. We're
25:51
Speaker 1: doing extremely well, and that's that's been happening over decades.
25:56
Speaker 1: Know what that means is I don't. No, Nope, that's
26:01
Speaker 1: not at all. What what that means is, I don't
26:03
Speaker 1: I no longer have to stay with somebody because of
26:06
Speaker 1: finances or running their households and leading their households for
26:12
Speaker 1: de kids. Women not all women, but it's not. But
26:15
Speaker 1: the point, that's what I'm saying. It's like you just
26:17
Speaker 1: made that statement as if in oh, we could do
26:20
Speaker 1: it ourselves. We don't need y'all. What I'm saying, help
26:26
Speaker 1: help her. I want to let her go ahead. And
26:29
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, Kenny Burns, there are a group
26:32
Speaker 1: of women back then that felt like they did not
26:36
Speaker 1: have the resources, they could not get equal paid jobs.
26:38
Speaker 1: They could not No one wants to do what they
26:41
Speaker 1: don't want to do. Of course, no one wants to
26:43
Speaker 1: do what they don't want to do. But some people
26:44
Speaker 1: make a decision based off of their needs or their insecurities.
26:48
Speaker 1: If they feel like I cannot take care of myself
26:51
Speaker 1: and my kid, I have to stay in this relationship
26:54
Speaker 1: so that my kid is taken care of. I'll take
26:56
Speaker 1: the Basically, we are okay feminism movement, but we're talking
27:03
Speaker 1: about your grant like your grandparents. My grandmother wasn't weak
27:08
Speaker 1: she left him with folk kids. Yeah, but some people
27:12
Speaker 1: will always be some people will all there's just strong
27:16
Speaker 1: and weak exactly. But that's all I'm saying. But all
27:19
Speaker 1: I'm saying is that in a relationship, getting back to
27:23
Speaker 1: the topic, if you're in a relationship and you get
27:26
Speaker 1: into it, not to finish walking into the relationship, but
27:30
Speaker 1: if that's like getting into a job or career. I'm
27:32
Speaker 1: I'm mentoring one of my um son's best friends now
27:36
Speaker 1: for his his senior project. And it's like I'm an entrepreneur.
27:39
Speaker 1: It changes daily. Relationships change daily. There is no there's
27:44
Speaker 1: no science or blueprint to what's going to happen next.
27:48
Speaker 1: It's life. Life happens, but you deal with it. It's
27:51
Speaker 1: not that you give up on it. Because listen, no
27:54
Speaker 1: one's saying put up with bullshit, get beat get cheated on.
27:58
Speaker 1: No one's saying none of that relationships, and we're talking
28:01
Speaker 1: about how people give up. That's all I'm saying. You
28:07
Speaker 1: just can't feel like just because my thing is for
28:09
Speaker 1: men or or anybody that is a cheater. Men and
28:12
Speaker 1: women cheat, both both parties cheat equally. Sure, Now, as
28:21
Speaker 1: a man, if you come into something as a man,
28:24
Speaker 1: if you come into a relationship and your goal is
28:28
Speaker 1: the same as mine. However, you continue to do things
28:31
Speaker 1: that you know are wrong and shady and disrespectful. How
28:36
Speaker 1: dare you continue to tell me, well, are you not
28:39
Speaker 1: in it to to get to the end goal? Like
28:41
Speaker 1: are we supposed to stay together? Like you taking advantage
28:47
Speaker 1: of all? If you allow it yourself to be taking
28:49
Speaker 1: advantage of, you will get taken advantage of. I am
28:51
Speaker 1: not speaking for kings versus queen, not speaking for men
28:55
Speaker 1: who are shady, who fucking are habitual cheater. I'm not
28:59
Speaker 1: speaking for none of that. I'm speaking for that attitude
29:03
Speaker 1: because women come into relationships with that attitude based on
29:07
Speaker 1: past expirit you for past experience, baggages, your baggage, your
29:13
Speaker 1: father's example. But my point is you can't do that
29:17
Speaker 1: to yourself. You come into game losing. If you don't
29:21
Speaker 1: come into a game demanding what the funk you came
29:25
Speaker 1: to get, you're not gonna get it. But why, but
29:28
Speaker 1: why is that which your returns yields the results exactly?
29:33
Speaker 1: That'd be my problem with this ensues defense. Women really
29:38
Speaker 1: didn't have as much as uh, they're not as vocal
29:42
Speaker 1: as they were back then that they are now. But
29:45
Speaker 1: it's not even about a change, get it, But it's
29:51
Speaker 1: a lot has changed in the in the direction of
29:54
Speaker 1: I don't need men. Now that part I don't. I
29:57
Speaker 1: don't need a dirty man's it's not men. The overarching
30:03
Speaker 1: themes I could do it by myself. Y'all got toys,
30:05
Speaker 1: y'all got your own, You've got all types of things
30:07
Speaker 1: that y'all think replace a man. This is fat. This
30:11
Speaker 1: is fat even looking at like. And again we are
30:15
Speaker 1: talking about men that ain't ship right, but y'all carry
30:20
Speaker 1: that baggage. They're all men possibly got the genea not
30:24
Speaker 1: being ship. That's the skew. So I posted on my
30:27
Speaker 1: Instagram the other day at Underscore, let me some more
30:30
Speaker 1: female energy. Got home after an event and I got
30:34
Speaker 1: I got all my Instagram and I said, y'all know
30:36
Speaker 1: how bit just to be like they don't need a man, girl,
30:39
Speaker 1: by I need a man. So I'm not saying that.
30:43
Speaker 1: So I'm not saying what you're saying. I'm saying. What
30:46
Speaker 1: I'm saying is different people have different experiences, and of
30:50
Speaker 1: course they take their the knowledge from the experiences that
30:53
Speaker 1: they had and they move forward as we all do. Again, However,
30:56
Speaker 1: sometimes you do hurt yourself when you automatically walk to
31:00
Speaker 1: something and you are pre judging it. You've got a hand,
31:03
Speaker 1: want I agree, that's that's the easiest thing, though, Sue.
31:07
Speaker 1: If you could do that, you wouldn't have a problems.
31:09
Speaker 1: You're gonna have issues in life, because that's life. You're
31:12
Speaker 1: gonna have challenges. But if you're into a relationship, like
31:14
Speaker 1: I'm not doing certain ships and that's it, a man,
31:18
Speaker 1: you're gonna respect that. A man will, a real man
31:22
Speaker 1: will respect that. Now, these suckers in, these motherfuckers, that's
31:26
Speaker 1: what y'all allowing them to. Listen, these women be out
31:30
Speaker 1: here giving these guys the battery pack, you know I'm
31:34
Speaker 1: talking about, they'd be giving them the license to be
31:37
Speaker 1: fucking thickheads. Women. I'm not saying all women, but women
31:41
Speaker 1: y'all giving. And then y'all be like, oh, why they
31:44
Speaker 1: act like that? But it'd be the same ship. Baby,
31:47
Speaker 1: why are you working him like that? You know he
31:49
Speaker 1: the girl to dick this that he brought me this,
31:53
Speaker 1: And I promise you it's such a fucking what is
31:57
Speaker 1: the word I'm gonna it's such an oxy moroon, it's
32:00
Speaker 1: such a you know, a juxtaposition when you think about
32:05
Speaker 1: like the way that women at I just think that,
32:08
Speaker 1: like we all set ourselves up for the disappointment through
32:13
Speaker 1: action expectation, without just going in and be like, no,
32:16
Speaker 1: this is what it is and I'm not doing nothing else.
32:19
Speaker 1: But then you look at half the young girls out
32:21
Speaker 1: here doing whatever. I'm just saying doing whatever, but doing whatever,
32:29
Speaker 1: they were doing whatever, and then just like, oh, how
32:32
Speaker 1: can I even have a conversation about you seriously when
32:35
Speaker 1: you don't take yourself seriously. I'm not saying it's all women,
32:39
Speaker 1: I'm saying with this younger generation, you'd be like, I damn,
32:43
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But then I'm in I'm
32:44
Speaker 1: in fam you this weekend, and this dude and this
32:47
Speaker 1: girl in there they're talking about they've been together five Yeah,
32:50
Speaker 1: like what you're waiting though? You both graduated from college
32:53
Speaker 1: and done all what you wait on any way, and
32:55
Speaker 1: then we're going to get married. I said, Okay, well great,
32:57
Speaker 1: because wasting time for what you're waiting on. That's that
33:00
Speaker 1: that also be the allure of social like, oh ship,
33:04
Speaker 1: that's a new thing. I haven't experienced that thing yet.
33:06
Speaker 1: Oh ship, Maybe I need to go here. And I'm
33:09
Speaker 1: just saying it. It's Kings versus Queen's going to bring
33:13
Speaker 1: that back. It's what you want out of the relationship,
33:15
Speaker 1: and you gotta go get it. I'm just saying and
33:18
Speaker 1: and and and accept nothing less whatever. All right, um again,
33:26
Speaker 1: it should be a class relationship. Class people do. That's
33:34
Speaker 1: one thing that people don't know, Like it's you remember
33:37
Speaker 1: you were taught by like failing society and like, yeah,
33:43
Speaker 1: now I need the uncle means I need a bottle
33:49
Speaker 1: of the white. I still don't have home for my
33:53
Speaker 1: damn it, man, I don't want I still got the dog.
33:57
Speaker 1: I need the white. And now time for a comment,
34:01
Speaker 1: creeping creepickme. Alright, So I was really on. I was
34:11
Speaker 1: stuck on what Ferrari read. So I decided to go
34:14
Speaker 1: through the comments to see what we wanted to jump in. Yes,
34:18
Speaker 1: so we're going to continue to expound on this just
34:20
Speaker 1: a little bit. Now. Our favorite basketball husband, Matt Barnes,
34:26
Speaker 1: of course, he had a comment for this particular post.
34:29
Speaker 1: He says, my son told me the other day, I
34:33
Speaker 1: don't have a girlfriend anymore. I wasn't happy with her.
34:36
Speaker 1: I chose happiness now. When his son told him this
34:40
Speaker 1: is what he said. Yeah, he said his son told him,
34:43
Speaker 1: so he very communication, So of course you'll know, Bolling
34:48
Speaker 1: Nation is um. Baller Nation is really turned. And people
34:52
Speaker 1: were responding to him like, don't try to come out
34:54
Speaker 1: here acting like father of the Year. You're trying to
34:56
Speaker 1: make yourself sound like you are having these in depth
34:58
Speaker 1: conversations with your y'all don't know nothing about how to
35:01
Speaker 1: treat like you don't know how to treat women like
35:03
Speaker 1: they kind of went in. So, yeah, y'all got to
35:07
Speaker 1: be a little careful on these ball Alert comments because
35:12
Speaker 1: ball Nation plays no games with Matt Barns. I hear
35:15
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but I don't really know. But I
35:18
Speaker 1: don't know. He has twins like Xbox and you know facts,
35:25
Speaker 1: So it's like, what was he just trying to have
35:26
Speaker 1: something to say to like comment on this particular post
35:29
Speaker 1: or like I mean, he comments on foller Alert a
35:31
Speaker 1: lot standing him sometimes sometimes I'm just like it's coming
35:35
Speaker 1: off a little caddie, But you know, a little little
35:39
Speaker 1: skin skin little haies not to different child. I don't
35:47
Speaker 1: think you know, when we talk about kids and he's
35:50
Speaker 1: talking about a conversation with his kid, I mean, that's
35:52
Speaker 1: a conversation he had with his kids. Who are we
35:54
Speaker 1: to jump in and say you shouldn't talk to your
35:57
Speaker 1: kids about that, You shouldn't say this. So, like he
36:01
Speaker 1: has so much going on, like negativity. He's always saying that.
36:04
Speaker 1: People are like, Okay, So now you're trying to come
36:06
Speaker 1: up here and sound like father of the year on
36:07
Speaker 1: this post. He probably is a good dad. Probably, so
36:10
Speaker 1: he probably might be a father year. Your kids don't
36:12
Speaker 1: nothing to dude, how you feel about your kid's mother.
36:14
Speaker 1: And that's not take away from these smart ass young
36:16
Speaker 1: children too asking questions. Told me the other day he
36:24
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, Daddy, my mommy had a bad day yesterday.
36:26
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, you're sick. Yeah, you know about
36:29
Speaker 1: having a bad day? Connected you feel meet mama period.
36:36
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm saying, who are we to say, you know?
36:39
Speaker 1: In his in his defense, I'm over here like he
36:41
Speaker 1: have a conversation with his kid. I just think if
36:45
Speaker 1: you don't want people to comment, don't don't say nothing. Yeah,
36:48
Speaker 1: because I just it's just to the point of life.
36:50
Speaker 1: I only like posting my kids on social media, don't
36:53
Speaker 1: I don't basketball or anything that can help them. And
36:57
Speaker 1: then you know, their passion, quick birthday something that's cool.
37:00
Speaker 1: But me posting my kids every day now, I don't
37:03
Speaker 1: want you to see my kids in croker and be like,
37:05
Speaker 1: that's for briber because because you subject to give you
37:09
Speaker 1: when you're acting. That's yeah, but that's reality television. That's
37:12
Speaker 1: what comes with all of that. And now time forking.
37:20
Speaker 1: You want to know why sometimes your prayers don't get answered.
37:25
Speaker 1: It's probably because you're asking for ship. You can't be
37:32
Speaker 1: praying asking for things. What you need to be doing
37:38
Speaker 1: this saying thank you. You're not supposed to ask for things.
37:45
Speaker 1: You're supposed to say thank you. But a lot of
37:49
Speaker 1: us get out here in this world stink. Praying has
37:53
Speaker 1: everything to do with asking for ship. The funk out
37:58
Speaker 1: of you got to be grateful, gracious and mindful of
38:07
Speaker 1: your blessings. And the only way you could do that,
38:10
Speaker 1: bolling Nation, is to say thank you. I wake up
38:14
Speaker 1: in my house every more I touched furniture and ship,
38:17
Speaker 1: I touched my kids. I pick a tree leaf to
38:21
Speaker 1: make sure that motherfucker is and I say thank you.
38:24
Speaker 1: I pull up in my circle driveway on my five thousand.
38:28
Speaker 1: You know what I mean with the and I say
38:31
Speaker 1: thank you. I called my home love like because I'm thankful.
38:37
Speaker 1: I've been down in the shower every day. Raise my
38:40
Speaker 1: hands up and say thank you. I don't ask for ship.
38:48
Speaker 1: Try saying thank you nation. It works. It's real.