Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 467: April's Big Energy, The Fire Horse & Beginning Q2
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- 0:11Nicole Laino: Come here to become an unshakable human and build an unshakable business according to your human design.
- 0:17Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:21Nicole Laino: Hello and welcome to Unshakable with Human Design.
- 0:24Nicole Laino: I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:26Nicole Laino: And it's just the two of us today and this episode is going to be a lot about how things feel right now.
- 0:31Nicole Laino: This episode is going to be kind of taking stock.
- 0:34Nicole Laino: We were out of Q1.
- 0:36Nicole Laino: Q1 is finished.
- 0:37Nicole Laino: We are beginning.
- 0:37Nicole Laino: We've already kicked off Q2, and now it's time to kind of look at how this is changing things for ourselves personally and for our businesses.
- 0:47Nicole Laino: So we're going to do a little bit of transit talk.
- 0:49Nicole Laino: We're going to talk about just the energy that's been out there and turning our focus to having a concrete, or I don't like the word concrete because nothing is concrete.
- 0:58Nicole Laino: I think that is what we are learning right now is that nothing is concrete.
- 1:02Nicole Laino: And so this is gonna be some reflections on, some questions for you about how do you relate to the first three months of this year of 2026?
- 1:10Nicole Laino: They're already gone.
- 1:11Nicole Laino: And how are you looking at the future?
- 1:13Nicole Laino: And how do we create a plan that is both flexible and structured enough that we're able to move forward with grace and potency and get the results that we're looking for?
- 1:25Nicole Laino: Right.
- 1:26Nicole Laino: How do we know when we pivot?
- 1:28Nicole Laino: How do we know when to keep going with things?
- 1:32Nicole Laino: So that's what today's episode is going to be about before we get started.
- 1:36Nicole Laino: I am teaching a workshop this month on the vocation sphere in the Gene Keys.
- 1:42Nicole Laino: So this is going to be a very Gene Keys focused workshop masterclass that I'm teaching.
- 1:46Nicole Laino: It's a workshop.
- 1:46Nicole Laino: This is inside.
- 1:47Nicole Laino: If you are a member of the Human Design Authority Lab, my aligned brand builder or business by design programs, you already get this with your membership, so you don't have to purchase this.
- 1:56Nicole Laino: But if you are just a listener of this show and you don't belong to any of those things already, then one, you could look into them.
- 2:02Nicole Laino: You could check out the Human Design Authority Lab, that is our membership, where members get these workshops every single month with us.
- 2:08Nicole Laino: But you can also buy into these workshops a la carte.
- 2:11Nicole Laino: So.
- 2:11Nicole Laino: So if you would like to join us, this is going to be a journey through understanding how who you are.
- 2:18Nicole Laino: And this one Specific gate can show up in your business, can be something that is truly at the core of what you are here to do.
- 2:25Nicole Laino: Very much linked to your purpose, very much linked to your journey and how you can use this to attract your right fit clients, your perfect fit clients, those people that are truly ideal for you, both on a strategic and a soul level.
- 2:39Nicole Laino: What do people really want from you?
- 2:41Nicole Laino: What is that little bit of your magic that makes you different from everybody else?
- 2:45Nicole Laino: This is going to be one of those big clues.
- 2:47Nicole Laino: So if you want in on that, just go over to Instagram and DM me the word vocation.
- 2:52Nicole Laino: I'm icoleno official.
- 2:54Nicole Laino: Or go to nicolelaino.comvocation and you can sign up right there on the website.
- 3:00Nicole Laino: Okay, so let's talk about this.
- 3:02Nicole Laino: Obviously, we've talked a lot on the show about the year of the fire horse.
- 3:05Nicole Laino: It was very big talk on Instagram and all over the place talking about this year of the fire wars that's coming.
- 3:11Nicole Laino: And I think we spoke on a recent episode, I think probably in my transit episode with Christina, that it felt like it was off to a slow start, that we had all of this fire horse messaging.
- 3:20Nicole Laino: But did we really feel this big kickoff right into this?
- 3:25Nicole Laino: Because we talked about the year of the fire horse being passion, being very centered around going after what you want.
- 3:32Nicole Laino: Unbridled freedom, you know, really needing to.
- 3:35Nicole Laino: You know, it's like when a horse hasn't run for a long time.
- 3:38Nicole Laino: It needs to open it up, it needs to feel that speed.
- 3:41Nicole Laino: It needs to move and to move pretty constantly.
- 3:46Nicole Laino: There's a lot of that action oriented aspect to it.
- 3:49Nicole Laino: And then we had the fire element to it, which is very initiating, very activating and very physical.
- 3:56Nicole Laino: Right.
- 3:56Nicole Laino: So we have all of these pieces together.
- 3:58Nicole Laino: And the first quarter of the year, how did it feel for you?
- 4:01Nicole Laino: Do you feel like this was very fire horse year?
- 4:04Nicole Laino: Were you feeling like a fire horse yourself?
- 4:06Nicole Laino: I was saying in my episode with Christina that I felt like the fire horse singed me as soon as it started.
- 4:12Nicole Laino: It was almost like it was a very abrupt shift for me in particular, where I felt like going from that watery element of Pisces season into this fire element into this action felt even more jarring than it usually does.
- 4:29Nicole Laino: And one of the things that I want to share some of my reflections that I've had on how things are going since this big shift happened, since we crossed over from all of these feelings of like last year and then we have the 2027 change coming.
- 4:44Nicole Laino: I've been Doing a lot of reflecting, a lot of being aware of how I feel, of what my patterns are.
- 4:52Nicole Laino: And when were talking, if you go way back to, like, December, when I was doing episodes about the year of the fire horse, the year of the wood snake, I was saying, now is the time to clear out anything that is holding you back, anything that you haven't dealt with.
- 5:06Nicole Laino: All of that wood snake, shedding energy, now's the time to shed.
- 5:10Nicole Laino: Because when the fire horse comes, there's not going to be time to shed.
- 5:14Nicole Laino: You're not going to feel like you can.
- 5:17Nicole Laino: And I have greater clarity on that now that we're in it, because now we're here.
- 5:21Nicole Laino: And one of the things that has been standing out to me when, with all of this, is how the energy is moving us so quickly, how we are being.
- 5:31Nicole Laino: The energy is supporting a lot of movement.
- 5:34Nicole Laino: But let's talk about, like, the human design transits for a moment here, too, because I always say that I used to in my earlier days of finding human design and discovering transits and discovering connection charts and how when I'm around somebody who has a defined head that activates my defined head, I remember this feeling like I got something I was missing.
- 5:59Nicole Laino: So I would, like, mark my calendar, be like, ooh, I'm gonna get a defined head this day.
- 6:02Nicole Laino: So I bet I'm gonna be, like, super on it.
- 6:05Nicole Laino: And I'm gonna, like, be able to channel my thoughts out of my voice.
- 6:09Nicole Laino: Like, it'll all come through and I'm gonna have all these insights.
- 6:12Nicole Laino: Well, it doesn't always happens.
- 6:15Nicole Laino: And what I've learned from years now of doing this work is that you kind of never know what it's gonna feel like until it gets here.
- 6:22Nicole Laino: Cause I've had a defined head a million times.
- 6:25Nicole Laino: I've had a defined head using all the different gates a million times.
- 6:29Nicole Laino: And every time, it's different.
- 6:31Nicole Laino: Every time, these transits hit us differently.
- 6:34Nicole Laino: And this is kind of one of those things where you don't know until you feel it.
- 6:39Nicole Laino: So I'm curious, ask yourself right now, how has this felt?
- 6:43Nicole Laino: One thing that I can reflect on is I have had a lot going on.
- 6:47Nicole Laino: Like, we've been doing a lot in our business.
- 6:50Nicole Laino: Like, has been moving very quickly.
- 6:53Nicole Laino: But it's also.
- 6:54Nicole Laino: I have gotten swept up in it.
- 6:56Nicole Laino: I have gotten really caught up in it.
- 6:59Nicole Laino: And there have been times where I've almost not made time for.
- 7:03Nicole Laino: I always do it, My breath works, my meditations.
- 7:05Nicole Laino: But there's been this thing in me that's Been like, no, no, no, you got to get back to work.
- 7:09Nicole Laino: And it's so funny because I don't have that feeling often.
- 7:13Nicole Laino: This is one of those subtleties that I notice in the energy.
- 7:16Nicole Laino: I have noticed getting a little bit more caught up in momentum, which is great if that momentum is clean.
- 7:25Nicole Laino: But if we didn't clear out what we had to clear out in December, boy, is it going to show up now.
- 7:30Nicole Laino: Are you seeing it?
- 7:32Nicole Laino: Ask yourself right now, am I seeing patterns and shadows get really brought up.
- 7:37Nicole Laino: But the energy is moving so fast, it almost feels like I can't unwind it.
- 7:42Nicole Laino: This is one of those things that I'm noticing that I'm like, I'm glad I did so much inner work.
- 7:46Nicole Laino: And I'm also seeing where I missed things, but I am kind of calling myself to slow down.
- 7:53Nicole Laino: But it's not easy.
- 7:54Nicole Laino: So we're never not able to do the things that we need to do because it's not the year of the snake anymore.
- 8:01Nicole Laino: Of course you can still do healing work.
- 8:04Nicole Laino: Of course you can still shed patterns.
- 8:07Nicole Laino: Of course you can still heal.
- 8:08Nicole Laino: We heal in all environments in all times.
- 8:12Nicole Laino: But the difference is the energy supporting it and making that an easy process or is it making it harder?
- 8:18Nicole Laino: To me, I feel like it makes it harder.
- 8:20Nicole Laino: I feel like I have to be much more focused and devoted to that work in order to do it.
- 8:27Nicole Laino: I have to.
- 8:28Nicole Laino: My mind really wants to take over.
- 8:30Nicole Laino: My fire energy really wants to take over and just go, go.
- 8:35Nicole Laino: So we have to find balance in these moments.
- 8:37Nicole Laino: So I'm hoping that this episode serves as a little bit of a call to you to.
- 8:42Nicole Laino: To just feel into.
- 8:44Nicole Laino: Do you feel like you are riding on the back of a wild horse right now and like maybe your legs aren't on?
- 8:53Nicole Laino: I remember going to.
- 8:55Nicole Laino: We were in Jamaica years ago and went swimming on horses.
- 8:59Nicole Laino: So you rode the horses into the beach, into the ocean, bareback, and you just hung onto their mane and they swam and you had to hold on for dear life.
- 9:09Nicole Laino: And you really need good thigh muscles because you have to really hold onto the body of that horse because you have the force of the water.
- 9:16Nicole Laino: The force of that water is just pushing you off as this giant beast of animal, this thousand pound animal is cutting through the water with all of its power.
- 9:26Nicole Laino: And I can remember seeing my husband in front of me.
- 9:29Nicole Laino: He wasn't my husband at the time were dating, but I remember it was so funny because he couldn't stay on.
- 9:35Nicole Laino: He didn't get thrown off, but he was like hanging on by the maneuver and his legs were just straight out behind him like Superman.
- 9:44Nicole Laino: He's holding on and he's just getting dragged and he can't get his legs down.
- 9:49Nicole Laino: Do you feel like that a little bit?
- 9:51Nicole Laino: Do you feel a little like my husband riding on a runaway horse?
- 9:55Nicole Laino: Do you feel like that right now?
- 9:56Nicole Laino: And if you do, it's your call to make some space to shift that energy.
- 10:03Nicole Laino: What are you noticing that needs to be adjusted?
- 10:07Nicole Laino: What in your energy does not feel like it's supporting the fast ride that we are on in 2026 of what this is really going to feel like.
- 10:18Nicole Laino: And then the strategies.
- 10:19Nicole Laino: Now we're going into Q2.
- 10:21Nicole Laino: This is what we're in it.
- 10:23Nicole Laino: We are in quarter two.
- 10:25Nicole Laino: And quarter two is all about taking all the things that we thought about, all the plans we had and now is the time to really make them happen.
- 10:35Nicole Laino: Now is the time to put action behind them, to concretize those plans, to do the things that you said you would do to really start to lay foundations for what the rest of the year is going to look like.
- 10:48Nicole Laino: I know it felt maybe Q1 is for that.
- 10:50Nicole Laino: But Q1 is so much more about ideating.
- 10:53Nicole Laino: We're kind of figuring it all out, which is why it does help us to come in with a little bit of a plan.
- 11:00Nicole Laino: So Q1 can be a little more elegant.
- 11:02Nicole Laino: This is what I teach my clients.
- 11:04Nicole Laino: This is why we work the way we work.
- 11:06Nicole Laino: This is why I invest in mentors, in programs.
- 11:09Nicole Laino: And I hope you do as well.
- 11:11Nicole Laino: Because as business owners, it's so easy to get caught up in the minutiae of it all.
- 11:17Nicole Laino: It's so easy to drift off and forget about what's important.
- 11:21Nicole Laino: And it's so easy to get caught up in the moment of today and not plan for tomorrow.
- 11:26Nicole Laino: Not be thinking and be forward thinking enough that you'll feel like you're always behind the eight ball.
- 11:32Nicole Laino: If you have a strong plan in Q4, I always say, like, your plans have to be flexible, but you should have one because some structure.
- 11:41Nicole Laino: Some people balk at the whole.
- 11:44Nicole Laino: Like they think that structure or strategy is too masculine.
- 11:48Nicole Laino: We need the masculine and the feminine no matter what we do.
- 11:52Nicole Laino: We need the masculine and we need the feminine.
- 11:54Nicole Laino: One might lead at different times.
- 11:56Nicole Laino: There might be.
- 11:57Nicole Laino: This is a much more masculine year.
- 11:59Nicole Laino: The fire horse is a masculine year.
- 12:01Nicole Laino: We are in a yang year.
- 12:04Nicole Laino: This is a year of outwardness.
- 12:08Nicole Laino: So one of the things that was coming to me this morning was I think in 2026, what I am feeling very deeply is that your business and your brand, they're not going to need more from you necessarily, although they may, but they will demand more of you.
- 12:28Nicole Laino: So what's the difference between those two?
- 12:29Nicole Laino: Things from you means action, means, you know, you doing more stuff.
- 12:34Nicole Laino: I don't believe that.
- 12:35Nicole Laino: I think that's the trap we can get caught in.
- 12:37Nicole Laino: In 2026, there's going to be a lot of energy.
- 12:40Nicole Laino: There's going to be a lot of things that are supporting.
- 12:42Nicole Laino: There already are.
- 12:43Nicole Laino: And that's why, like, I wanted to revisit this conversation, because we're in it.
- 12:47Nicole Laino: You can feel it now.
- 12:48Nicole Laino: Feel into does this feel true for you?
- 12:50Nicole Laino: Feel into.
- 12:51Nicole Laino: Does it feel like I am able to harness this energy or am I on a wild runaway horse?
- 12:57Nicole Laino: We don't want that.
- 12:58Nicole Laino: So there is a lot of action.
- 13:00Nicole Laino: There's going to be a lot of things getting done.
- 13:02Nicole Laino: The energy supports that.
- 13:04Nicole Laino: It wants you to put a lot out.
- 13:07Nicole Laino: However, we don't want it to just be a game of more.
- 13:10Nicole Laino: A game of volume, a game of quantity.
- 13:14Nicole Laino: I think when we talk about that would be more from you.
- 13:16Nicole Laino: I need you to do more.
- 13:18Nicole Laino: I need you to be here more.
- 13:19Nicole Laino: I need you to get out there more.
- 13:21Nicole Laino: That's not what we're talking about here.
- 13:23Nicole Laino: What we're talking about is that your business isn't demanding more from you, but it's demanding more of you in 26.
- 13:30Nicole Laino: Meaning you have to bring more of yourself to this business.
- 13:34Nicole Laino: There's no room for hiding.
- 13:35Nicole Laino: Are you noticing that?
- 13:36Nicole Laino: There is no room for playing small this year.
- 13:40Nicole Laino: There is no room for you hiding or not saying the things that you feel you need to say.
- 13:46Nicole Laino: I think this is very much a call of The Phoenix in 2027.
- 13:51Nicole Laino: This need for self expression, this need for new voices, this need for us to come out of our shells and not say, oh, I'll leave it to the big ones to take the message.
- 14:03Nicole Laino: I'll lead it to the ones that are like, have always been leading.
- 14:06Nicole Laino: And I'll defer.
- 14:08Nicole Laino: Deferring is over.
- 14:10Nicole Laino: Where are you playing small?
- 14:11Nicole Laino: Where are you not allowing yourself to take up the space you are meant to take up?
- 14:17Nicole Laino: And that is an energetic thing for sure.
- 14:20Nicole Laino: That is also an outward thing.
- 14:23Nicole Laino: You have to let people know who you are.
- 14:25Nicole Laino: You have to step up.
- 14:27Nicole Laino: And I don't believe this year is going to be kind to us, those who sit on their truth.
- 14:34Nicole Laino: We have to bring more of ourselves to our business.
- 14:37Nicole Laino: We have to bring more vulnerability.
- 14:39Nicole Laino: We have to bring more of our truth.
- 14:42Nicole Laino: We have to bring more of our true mission.
- 14:44Nicole Laino: And that's where I think human design is astrology.
- 14:48Nicole Laino: And these tools are indispensable now because we have to be able to access that level of ourselves if we're going to share it.
- 14:55Nicole Laino: We have to feel safe enough to be able to put out a message that's truly the one that's on our hearts.
- 15:00Nicole Laino: And because if you could have done it already, you would have.
- 15:03Nicole Laino: But there are things standing in our way.
- 15:04Nicole Laino: We have to acknowledge that this year we can dissolve all of those barriers.
- 15:09Nicole Laino: But it's not going to just come automatically.
- 15:12Nicole Laino: What you're probably finding is that this year it either feels like the fire horse, you're on back of it.
- 15:18Nicole Laino: You're on its back.
- 15:19Nicole Laino: You're flying off of it and is burning everything in town.
- 15:23Nicole Laino: So you feel a little out of control.
- 15:25Nicole Laino: But you're on it.
- 15:26Nicole Laino: Right?
- 15:27Nicole Laino: You're like.
- 15:27Nicole Laino: So it feels out of control.
- 15:29Nicole Laino: But I'm moving.
- 15:30Nicole Laino: Which might feel better to some people after last year.
- 15:33Nicole Laino: Maybe you felt like you didn't move.
- 15:35Nicole Laino: So this can falsely feel like a positive thing.
- 15:38Nicole Laino: But does it feel good?
- 15:40Nicole Laino: Are you moving in the direction that you want?
- 15:41Nicole Laino: Are you moving and running and not burning everything to the ground?
- 15:46Nicole Laino: But there are going to be some things that have to go.
- 15:48Nicole Laino: There's going to be some things that you have to bring out.
- 15:50Nicole Laino: And there's going to be some things that you need to release.
- 15:53Nicole Laino: We can't carry it all with us.
- 15:56Nicole Laino: There's going to be things that have to go.
- 15:58Nicole Laino: And I think that right now in particular, one of the other key transits that I think shifts things is Neptune moving maybe over a month ago.
- 16:10Nicole Laino: Moved from Pisces into Aries.
- 16:14Nicole Laino: Neptune.
- 16:14Nicole Laino: Is that the planet that puts a fog around things.
- 16:18Nicole Laino: It's very mystical.
- 16:20Nicole Laino: It is very much the mysterious veil of things.
- 16:24Nicole Laino: What is it that is like that we're looking at not seeing the real thing?
- 16:28Nicole Laino: Where are we maybe getting caught in the fantasy of it all.
- 16:32Nicole Laino: Then it moved into Mars.
- 16:34Nicole Laino: Like Pisces.
- 16:34Nicole Laino: Is that too.
- 16:35Nicole Laino: Neptune rules Pisces.
- 16:37Nicole Laino: And when Neptune moves over and moved over into Mars got a very different energy.
- 16:42Nicole Laino: It's like that fog started to dissipate.
- 16:45Nicole Laino: That veil got lifted on a lot of things.
- 16:48Nicole Laino: Maybe some of the spiritual stuff doesn't hang as strong or grab you the same way as it did before.
- 16:55Nicole Laino: I get that.
- 16:56Nicole Laino: But it's also.
- 16:58Nicole Laino: Let's not fall too far over.
- 17:00Nicole Laino: Remember, we're supposed to learn the lessons.
- 17:02Nicole Laino: There is more out there.
- 17:03Nicole Laino: There is More to it than just pure strategy and going after everything that you want.
- 17:07Nicole Laino: Now we have to learn to do both.
- 17:10Nicole Laino: We have to learn to hold both.
- 17:11Nicole Laino: Can we live in the mystery of it all and the potential and the possibility of it all?
- 17:15Nicole Laino: Can we allow and allow space and for the truth that there is more to life than what we can see?
- 17:23Nicole Laino: But also, like I've been saying for a million years, it doesn't mean that you can sit on a meditation pillow, earn money.
- 17:29Nicole Laino: But I think the way that we earn is changing.
- 17:32Nicole Laino: I think what we are seeing is there is a currency of truth.
- 17:37Nicole Laino: Now, I talked about the difference between the visibility economy and the authority economy.
- 17:42Nicole Laino: But your authority is going to be more than just like the stuff that you're good at.
- 17:46Nicole Laino: It's going to be your soul's message, your soul's mission.
- 17:51Nicole Laino: So that's why the masterclass that I'm doing on the vocation sphere is very timely.
- 17:58Nicole Laino: It's not by accident.
- 17:59Nicole Laino: It is highly relevant because this is one of those ways.
- 18:03Nicole Laino: This is why the way that I teach human design is I think, a very big part of the way forward.
- 18:10Nicole Laino: Because it is an inside out approach to business.
- 18:13Nicole Laino: It isn't just being like, tell me what your skills are and we'll tell you what's marketable.
- 18:17Nicole Laino: That's tempting.
- 18:18Nicole Laino: But where things are going, it is going to be your soul's message.
- 18:23Nicole Laino: That is the thing that people gravitate toward.
- 18:26Nicole Laino: And the only thing that AI doesn't have is a soul.
- 18:30Nicole Laino: There's only so many things that AI cannot replace.
- 18:34Nicole Laino: And the human heart is one of them.
- 18:36Nicole Laino: Your soul's purpose and your soul's mission is one of them.
- 18:39Nicole Laino: So we have to start valuing that.
- 18:42Nicole Laino: And if you're not able to access your soul's mission, if you're not sure what it is, and we're never sure, by the way, when I just be really clear about that, we're never sure because who's sure about anything?
- 18:51Nicole Laino: All we can do is be sure of what we feel right now, trust it, move forward in faith, and have the courage to adjust if it does not feel right again to come at it from a place of grounding.
- 19:02Nicole Laino: Those decisions about whether we move forward or we shift something.
- 19:06Nicole Laino: Do I pivot or do I continue?
- 19:09Nicole Laino: These have to be made from a grounded place, not from a place of lack or fear.
- 19:13Nicole Laino: So human design gives us this window that we can start to explore ourselves and start to see what that soul's mission is.
- 19:21Nicole Laino: So if you aren't sure, if you aren't feeling connected to it or you're not able to move on it.
- 19:25Nicole Laino: Please come to the masterclass.
- 19:26Nicole Laino: You will love it.
- 19:27Nicole Laino: All you have to do to be there is go to nicolelaino.comvocation or go to Instagram DM me the word vocation.
- 19:36Nicole Laino: I'm icolenofficial and we will register you right there in the DMs.
- 19:41Nicole Laino: I hope you enjoyed this episode.
- 19:43Nicole Laino: I hope your Q2 is off to an amazing start.
- 19:47Nicole Laino: I'm wishing you nothing but wonderful things for the rest of this month, this quarter, this year.
- 19:52Nicole Laino: And remember, in order to have an unshakeable business, you must first become an unshakable human.
- 19:57Nicole Laino: So thanks for letting us help you become unshakable with human design.
- 20:00Nicole Laino: We'll see you next time.
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