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- 0:32If you're American, then today is the day that you are celebrating Thanksgiving, the one day of the year that Americans get together and talk about all the things that they are grateful for.
- 0:41Now, if you are a woman on her feminine energy journey, regardless of whether you are American and celebrating.
- 0:47Giving or not, you need to take on gratitude as one of the top emotions that you tap into every single day in order to generate more of the feminine energy that's not going, just going to attract healthy, masculine men to her, but attract provision in all ways.
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- 2:56So let's get into it.
- 2:57Gratitude.
- 2:57Why does this matter?
- 2:59There are three practices that are very important for a woman who is trying to get into her feminine energy.
- 3:05And not only does this help a woman get into her feminine energy, but it really helps any human heal.
- 3:10And those three things are forgiveness, their winds for the day.
- 3:16And they are gratitude.
- 3:18So I'll go into those three and why they are so important.
- 3:22This is actually a ritual that my husband and I do every single night before bed.
- 3:28And if you saw a recent video that I did, uh, rituals are really important because in pre-modern civilizations, so in pre-modern tribes, they had rituals in place for the community members because it helped keep their egos in check or it helped someone.
- 3:44Not let their own grandiosity take over, or, for example, it would help people move from one stage or season of their lives into another.
- 3:53And part of what happens in modern cultures, we no longer have rituals.
- 3:57Not really.
- 3:58I mean, I grew up going to church my whole life.
- 4:00I grew up Catholic.
- 4:01I was going to mass, they were doing rituals, and no one explained to me what the purpose of rituals were.
- 4:07Explain to me why rituals are so important.
- 4:09It wasn't even until recently when I was doing research that I found out from a Jungian psychoanalyst the importance of rituals and why they were so important to the development of society and why we need to bring them back.
- 4:21So this is why I'm very, very big on rituals because they help keep us in check.
- 4:26They help regulate our emotions.
- 4:28They help us from going overboard.
- 4:30They help us transition, they help us process.
- 4:33So this is where rituals come into play, and this is one of the most important rituals I have in my daily life.
- 4:39And it's a ritual I started before I even met my husband, and then we've just continued it.
- 4:44So number one is forgiveness.
- 4:46Why is forgiveness so important?
- 4:47Because you can't drag your past into your.
- 4:51Future.
- 4:52A lot of you go into dating situations still thinking about a guy who screwed you over 10 years ago.
- 4:57A lot of you are making decisions now because you're still pissed off at your parents because of what happened when you were a kid.
- 5:02A lot of you guys are still mad at an old boss, and I'm not saying that these, these.
- 5:07Bad things didn't happen to you, bad things happen to everybody.
- 5:10What I'm saying is that when you forgive, you're able to lighten the load and you're able to rewrite your future.
- 5:18What happens to a lot of people who don't forgive?
- 5:20Number one, there's studies to suggest, I should say, there's studies that suggest that it could literally lead to illness.
- 5:27In the body.
- 5:28When we don't let resentments go, when we don't let the anger go, it could literally lead to illness.
- 5:33So that's number one.
- 5:34There are lots of studies to suggest that, but number two, it just keeps you stuck.
- 5:38A lot of you are so stuck on your past.
- 5:40Of something a guy told you or didn't tell you or did or didn't do, or Mommy did this, or Daddy did that, or this person did this, or that person did that, or, this thing happened to me 10 years ago and it's kind of like, sis let it go because until you are able to let that go, then you are not able to move forward in your life.
- 6:00It literally keeps you.
- 6:01Stuck where you are.
- 6:03It makes the energy heavy.
- 6:05It doesn't allow you to bring the new manifestations in.
- 6:09It's kind of like out with the old in with the new, right, and a lot of, you're just still stuck on the old, so there's no room for the new.
- 6:15Now, if you would like some resources on forgiveness, my favorite of of all time is a Course In Miracles.
- 6:21A Course in Miracles is a metaphysical text that basically is almost like spiritual psychology.
- 6:27In a way, and it makes a, a really big deal out of forgiveness.
- 6:30So every single night I am doing a rundown of who I need to forgive.
- 6:34Do I need to forgive somebody else today?
- 6:36Uh, is there an old resentment that came up randomly, outta nowhere that I need to forgive?
- 6:41Uh, do I need to forgive myself for anything today?
- 6:44Or is there a circumstance that I need to forgive today and I will just let the Holy Spirit.
- 6:50Take care of it.
- 6:51I'd be like, I'm willing to forgive.
- 6:52I'm willing to see this differently, and then I will give it up to the Holy Spirit.
- 6:56Or you can use whatever it is that you choose.
- 6:58This is why I tell women like, you need to have something greater than you to believe.
- 7:03In the same book that I was reading that was talking about the rituals, um, also stated that throughout human history, the reason why we've looked to God's, or, or the divine, I should say, we've looked to the divine, uh, is because that also keeps our own grandiosity in check.
- 7:17It keeps us in check, so that's one of the reasons.
- 7:20There's like a psychological reason for it.
- 7:22It's not just like a woowoo thing.
- 7:24There's actual reasons why we need these things in our lives, and you can see that in more secular cultures or cultures where we no longer have rituals, how off the rails things have gotten, especially when it comes to relationships.
- 7:38So the second thing is wins, right?
- 7:40And wins are like all the things that I can give my kudo myself, kudos for that day.
- 7:45This helps to build confidence, right?
- 7:47And it doesn't have to be anything big.
- 7:49It could be I worked out today, I made myself this great meal today.
- 7:53I wrote this awesome email today.
- 7:55I got this sale today.
- 7:57Like anything, anything, anything that I can give myself kudos for, that's what I will do.
- 8:01It will help me build confidence and it will also help me see that I can trust myself.
- 8:06It could be I followed my todo list today.
- 8:08Which would then tell your internal system, Hey, I can trust myself because I do what I say I'm going to do.
- 8:13And the third one, which is what today is all about, is gratitude.
- 8:17I live in a state of gratitude.
- 8:19I don't just do it one day outta the year.
- 8:22I do it all the time, right?
- 8:24I find I have a beautiful candle here that I love.
- 8:26I'm grateful for it.
- 8:27I'm grateful for my husband every day.
- 8:29I'm grateful for my health.
- 8:30I'm grateful to live on a beautiful mountainside.
- 8:33Uh, in front of a lake in Mexico.
- 8:35I'm grateful for the work that I get to do every single day.
- 8:38I'm grateful for the money and the bank and the money on its way.
- 8:40I'm grateful for all the lessons that I've had up until now.
- 8:44And every single night, my husband and I will say, okay, what are you grateful for today?
- 8:48This is so important, and it might seem trite.
- 8:51It might seem silly.
- 8:52It.
- 8:52Seem like not that big of a deal, but I fervently believe that, number one, because we need rituals, and I already said why we need rituals and, um, the, the research that backs it up, number two.
- 9:05People just don't do this.
- 9:06And because people don't do this, they let their drama take over.
- 9:09They let their grandiosity take over.
- 9:11A lot of them don't even live in reality of how good their lives actually are.
- 9:16And one of the things that we have to learn how to do, especially those of you who are looking to attract a provider, man, you're looking to attract a.
- 9:23Masculine man.
- 9:24You have to be grateful for all the ways that the masculine in your current life gives to you.
- 9:29Even if that's starting with the divine, like the divine.
- 9:32Maybe you see that as the masculine.
- 9:34Okay?
- 9:34Well start being grateful for how the divine provides for you.
- 9:38Or start being grateful for your neighbor who solved a problem for you or your coworker who paid for your lunch.
- 9:43Like just start learning how to be grateful.
- 9:45And when you start learning how to be grateful for the provision all around you, guess what happens?
- 9:50You are going to be given.
- 9:51More reasons to be grateful.
- 9:54That is what's going to happen.
- 9:55That's the woo wooo part of it.
- 9:57But in reality, it's all about the rituals and having rituals in our lives.
- 10:02So we don't let our egos take over because there's way too much ego running the world right now.
- 10:07And this is a very simple way that you can keep it in check and feel better and regulate yourself and actually start moving toward your future instead of being stuck.
- 10:18In the past.
- 10:19So thank you so much for giving me your time today.
- 10:22I am so grateful for this channel.
- 10:24I wrote an email that went out to the email list, uh, so I'll share it here as well.
- 10:28Um, this started as a side project because I wanted to start sharing, uh, some of the spiritual lessons.
- 10:35From the last 15 years, I'm trained in a lot of different modalities.
- 10:39I'm training here in Mexico as we speak.
- 10:41I wanted a place to share them.
- 10:42I wanted a place to talk to women because I know women are so exhausted right now with the way modern society is going.
- 10:50And little did I know that it would turn into another business.
- 10:54Little did I know that it would also not just attract women, which is a part of the plan, but it also attracted a ton of men, and now there's a lot more understanding happening between men and women.
- 11:04Little did I know that it would bring passive income into my life.
- 11:07Um.
- 11:08And this is something that, I think I said it in another video.
- 11:11This is something that I've been thinking about for a very long time.
- 11:16At least three years I've been sitting on this idea and I now realize that the Divine was refining me so that I would be able.
- 11:26To start this community and start teaching these things that I have been teaching you so I can help and give back.
- 11:35So thank you.
- 11:36Thank you, thank you so much.
- 11:37You are the best part of this community, and I often feel oftentimes feel like.
- 11:43I don't know.
- 11:43We're just getting started and it is just gonna get better and I'm very excited about it.
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- 11:55I mean, any training that you get in our Black Friday sale would be a really great compliment, uh, to today's video and moving forward in the trainings.
- 12:05For those of you who are already students, we're gonna be adding more rituals to it now that we.
- 12:10Fully, truly understand what the purpose of a ritual is, we're going to be adding more of them in.
- 12:17So thank you so much for giving me your time today and this year.
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- 12:28Thank you so much for sharing this, commenting it, giving it likes.
- 12:31Even if you hated it and you tried to fight me in the comments, thank you because you boosted my engagement.
- 12:36Just thank you, thank you, thank you so much from the bottom of my heart, and I cannot wait to see where this community ends up.
- 12:44I'll catch you on the next one.