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EP 88 Emergency Contact · We Talk Back

• 0:03
  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
• 0:07
  Speaker 1: talk back. I'm so tired of being alone.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so tired. Won't you help me, girl? just as
• 0:21
  Speaker 2: soon as you can. What's up, y'all? Listen, thank you
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  Speaker 2: for tuning in for a new episode of We Talk Back,
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  Speaker 2: a show dedicated to you niggas and these hoes. Hey,
• 0:36
  Speaker 2: it's your co-host AJ Holiday. Hey, y'all. I love y'all
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  Speaker 2: once again this week. It's me, Tamban. I'm tired as fuck, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: I'm tired, but I still love y'all and I'm here
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  Speaker 1: for y'all every week. So thank you for coming.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, AJ. Coming to lie. Coming to damn lie.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I do best.
• 1:00
  Speaker 2: Hey, girl. What's up, child? I'm trying to get my
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  Speaker 2: damn energy up, too, and I'm popping a little corner
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  Speaker 2: of an Addy, and that ain't working either. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know what the fuck is happening. I have rice today.
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  Speaker 2: That might be what it is. That rice be swelling
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  Speaker 2: your ass up. It's almost like grits. I need a nap.
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  Speaker 2: I need... I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because Mercury is in retrograde.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even really know what that means, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: blaming everything in my life on that right now.
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  Speaker 2: I believe in that shit. I'm so tired. I believe
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  Speaker 2: in that shit.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's because I really be like, go, go, go, go, go,
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  Speaker 1: Speed Racer, go. All day, every day. Just going, going, going.
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  Speaker 1: I went to Florida this past weekend. To work a wedding,
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  Speaker 1: and then I came back, and I guess it was
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  Speaker 1: a time difference, too. Maybe that's why I'm so tired.
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  Speaker 2: What part of Florida are you going to? The west side?
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  Speaker 1: I was in Destin.
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  Speaker 2: Destin? Oh, they might be an hour behind, right? They
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  Speaker 2: on Mountain Town?
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. They are. And then, you know, it was working,
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  Speaker 1: and weddings can.
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  Speaker 2: Be- People crazy. That timeline, that's if you cross the ocean,
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  Speaker 2: you have jet lag. Not just like a little small
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  Speaker 2: time difference like that.
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  Speaker 1: Girl mercury and retrograde and i was in a different
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  Speaker 1: time zone fucking me y'all retarded and i'm tired i'm
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  Speaker 1: real fucking tired how was the wedding you did it
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  Speaker 1: was beautiful it's a beach wedding it was very lovely
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  Speaker 1: they look to be in so in love and happy
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  Speaker 1: so i'm happy for them and you know like Doing
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  Speaker 1: hair for a wedding can be hectic sometimes because brides
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  Speaker 1: just be all over the place and they're bridesmaids. And
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  Speaker 1: if it's not really organized, it can be a real
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  Speaker 1: stressful experience. But this wasn't too bad. So I was
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  Speaker 1: grateful for that. I didn't get to hang out like
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to just because, you know, I was there
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  Speaker 1: as the help. I wasn't really there to just go
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  Speaker 1: lay on the beach all day.
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  Speaker 2: I still got some of that in, though.
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  Speaker 1: I did not get to attend the wedding. I was
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  Speaker 1: invited to the wedding, but I typically, when I do brides,
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  Speaker 1: I stay with them to the moment they walk out.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: So when they go walk out, that's when I go
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  Speaker 1: get dressed. So I usually just go to the reception.
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  Speaker 1: I don't typically make it to the wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds about right. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I end up, like, I've never been in a wedding,
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  Speaker 1: done a wedding where I didn't end up like a
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  Speaker 1: kind of honorary bridesmaid. Not in a dress, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing shit that is not hair related. Like I'm helping
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  Speaker 1: pin shit. I'm helping like, I don't know. I always
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  Speaker 1: end up doing that for some reason. So I was
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  Speaker 1: putting bitches guard belts on her thigh, like all kinds
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  Speaker 1: of stuff, you know, just.
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  Speaker 2: That seems like a scary job. Fucking with black women
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  Speaker 2: on their wedding day in their hair.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Making sure everybody looks good.
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  Speaker 1: It can be stressful. But I have, thank God, I've
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  Speaker 1: never had a bride that was not satisfied with what
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  Speaker 1: I did for them. You jumped. Who going to get jumped? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all them bitches in there, bridesmaids and all.
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  Speaker 2: Hell yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And this part was, I was only scheduled, I was
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  Speaker 1: only hired to do curls, curl her hair and style
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  Speaker 1: it on the day of the wedding. But her hair
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  Speaker 1: did not come in time for her hair appointment, so
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  Speaker 1: I ended up having to do a whole sew-in the
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  Speaker 1: night before the wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Goddamn. I know. What if you would have planned to
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  Speaker 2: come the same day or something early.
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  Speaker 1: In the morning? We would have been up dust 30
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  Speaker 1: in the morning sewing in tracks.
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  Speaker 2: Damn. Shame. You gots to be more careful. These goddamn
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  Speaker 2: hair companies, you got to realize I hate to talk
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  Speaker 2: shit about black people, but even they boutiques and shit.
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  Speaker 2: You got a seven day processing and then they finally
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  Speaker 2: ship your shit out. That's how they, that's the kind
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  Speaker 2: of time they be in. Yeah, because they got to
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  Speaker 2: get it from China.
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  Speaker 1: Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: That's why, you know, I do want to support people,
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  Speaker 2: clothing companies and boutiques and shit, but you know, I
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  Speaker 2: be on AliExpress and Alibaba too. I know how much
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  Speaker 2: you pay for that thing and I just don't feel
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  Speaker 2: right giving you all my fucking money. When I know
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  Speaker 2: I can go straight to the source and get that
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  Speaker 2: shit for $ 20. And I can get them in all colors.
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  Speaker 2: All lengths. Or whatever it is that I'm ordering. So
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  Speaker 2: I do want to support small businesses, but I do
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  Speaker 2: not want to feel like I'm getting finessed. So this
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  Speaker 2: past weekend, I went to this comedic store in Charleston. And,
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  Speaker 2: you know, to get like, to see how much the
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  Speaker 2: sea moss was and stuff like that. This nigga's selling
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  Speaker 2: like four ounces of sea moss for like $ 20 or
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  Speaker 2: some shit like that. Like I could buy a whole pound.
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  Speaker 2: So now in my mind, like, yes, I want to
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  Speaker 2: support small business. But like if this nigga had four
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  Speaker 2: ounces of weed and charging me this astronomical amount of
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  Speaker 2: money for it, I wouldn't buy it. You know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying? So it's the same thing. So I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to feel like I'm being finessed.
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  Speaker 1: Even if you are, you don't want to feel like it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to know that I'm being finessed. The fuck? Shame.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, I ain't do much other than that this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Chilled out. My car is in the body shop. So bitch,
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  Speaker 2: I've been riding my bike to the gym every day.
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  Speaker 2: So I have been doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you was out here like Bambi. Remember that episode
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  Speaker 1: of Love and Hip Hop with Bambi? We rode her
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  Speaker 1: bike to Scrappy House. No.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't see that shit. But how mad you gotta be?
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  Speaker 2: You was out there. You was out here like Jodi.
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  Speaker 2: On the bike all weekend. I love riding bike, y'all. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm a certified spin instructor, bitch. I'm getting on a
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  Speaker 2: bike if I don't do nothing else. I ride my
• 6:47
  Speaker 2: bike a lot. I like riding my bike, too. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That was something that I didn't pick up until pandemic, though, honestly.
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  Speaker 1: I was not riding bikes before. No, I'm a grown-ass woman, dog.
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  Speaker 1: I went outside with no bike. I got a bike
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  Speaker 1: just because it wasn't shit else to do during the pandemic,
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  Speaker 1: so I went and bought a bike.
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  Speaker 2: What is that? It's exercise. Let me just tell you
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  Speaker 2: this story. Fuck that.
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  Speaker 1: Let me tell you a story. Me and the nigga
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  Speaker 1: who bought the bike, he live out in the country, right?
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  Speaker 1: So we was riding our bike. This is the first
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  Speaker 1: day I got on this bike. We riding through Eastover,
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  Speaker 1: South Carolina, which is the country, y'all. And bitch, we
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  Speaker 1: riding past some trailers. And three pit bulls come running
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  Speaker 1: full speed. And I had on red leggings, right? Bright
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  Speaker 1: red leggings. I knew they seen that big chunk of.
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  Speaker 2: Ass in the leggings.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to bite this bitch. And I'm talking about
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  Speaker 1: that came. Running toward me full speed, bitch. I pedaled
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  Speaker 1: for my life.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my God. They don't get me.
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  Speaker 2: They don't get me.
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  Speaker 1: And he said, he slowed down. He said, just keep pedaling, baby.
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  Speaker 1: And he pulled his pussy out and shot.
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  Speaker 2: Them dogs and killed them dogs right there. Yeah, he
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  Speaker 2: sure did. Killed them dogs. Were they really coming to
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  Speaker 2: fight y'all? Were they really coming to attack y'all?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, they were coming viciously. Coming toward me. I was
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  Speaker 1: scared for my life for real. And he shot them.
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  Speaker 1: And then we stopped, killed three dogs dead.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sad about that. I wish you would have not
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  Speaker 2: told me that story.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's what happened. And let me tell you, then
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  Speaker 1: we rode down the street a little bit and we
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  Speaker 1: stopped and called the police. We called the police and
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  Speaker 1: we waited for the police to come. And then he
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  Speaker 1: went back with the police to the trailer and knocked
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  Speaker 1: on the owner's door and told him what happened. And
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  Speaker 1: the owner was like, you know, people don't typically come
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  Speaker 1: around this part. You know, nobody is ever over here.
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  Speaker 1: And those dogs are trained to attack, you know, when
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  Speaker 1: they see. So he went out in the woods and
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  Speaker 1: found them. They was all dead in the woods.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, that's fucked up. I was fucked up.
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  Speaker 1: I was minding my damn business. They was about to
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  Speaker 1: eat my ass up. That nigga saved me. I was like,
• 9:00
  Speaker 1: pull your dick out. He saved my life.
• 9:08
  Speaker 2: Bitches love to be rescued. Shay, what we got going
• 9:15
  Speaker 2: on in stupid internet news today, child?
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  Speaker 1: Girl, a lot of stupid shit. Period, ah, period, uh.
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  Speaker 2: Period, ah, period, uh. Period, ah, period, uh. Girl, I
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  Speaker 2: do not want to hear that sound in my fucking ear.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like that bitch is doing a magic spell
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  Speaker 2: on y'all niggas. Why the fuck can a white woman
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  Speaker 2: blow up acting black, but if it was a black
• 9:37
  Speaker 2: woman doing the same shit, ooh, she get, like, we
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  Speaker 2: gonna say the same shit. She ghetto this and that,
• 9:42
  Speaker 2: but y'all sharing the hell out of that bullshit. It's
• 9:46
  Speaker 2: fucking scary. Right. And she going to fuck around and
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  Speaker 2: get a million dollars off y'all later. Exactly. Every time.
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  Speaker 2: Every time. Every time. And she ran out.
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  Speaker 1: She can't even sing a song because she ran out
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  Speaker 1: of breath on the last period.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Party B did a video saying it while she
• 10:05
  Speaker 2: was in the mirror.
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  Speaker 1: Chloe did a video.
• 10:10
  Speaker 2: I don't want to hear that shit. Don't sing that
• 10:12
  Speaker 2: shit to me because it's just retardation at this point.
• 10:14
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is that? Did you see that other
• 10:17
  Speaker 2: video where she had like a wig that looked like
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  Speaker 2: George Washington or something?
• 10:22
  Speaker 1: No, I did not.
• 10:22
  Speaker 2: I missed that one. Yo, why do we constantly let
• 10:29
  Speaker 2: these give these people shine? I'm just confused, man.
• 10:32
  Speaker 1: We just need to start doing some, we need to
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  Speaker 1: start filming and just start doing some real ignorant shit
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  Speaker 1: so we can just blow all.
• 10:38
  Speaker 2: The way up. I don't want to blow. I have integrity.
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: I don't want to blow up in that way. I
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: don't ever want to. I don't.
• 10:43
  Speaker 1: I'll do it. I'll do it for us. I have integrity,
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: but I wanted a bag.
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  Speaker 2: Period. Yeah. Period. All money ain't good money. I'm cool.
• 10:52
  Speaker 2: I'm cool.
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: Well, I'm going to spend it and see which one
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  Speaker 1: I get after I spend it.
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  Speaker 2: Which one is it? Do your thing, shawty. Do your thing.
• 11:03
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. I'm a real nigga, okay? You
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  Speaker 2: ain't gonna never catch me doing no stupid ass shit
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  Speaker 2: for the check. Ever. Ever.
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  Speaker 1: I will. It just depends on how stupid it is.
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: How stupid is it? You know, is it gonna set
• 11:16
  Speaker 1: our race back? I don't want to do that.
• 11:18
  Speaker 2: But if it don't, if it's just all fun and games,
• 11:21
  Speaker 2: I can do it. Girl, you see how Tory Lanez
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: ass done sucker punch August Asina? Or he says he
• 11:28
  Speaker 2: got sucker punched. I don't know. But.
• 11:31
  Speaker 1: Well, that picture, if y'all saw that picture, he looked
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: like he got mortar sucker punched. That nigga looked dizzy
• 11:36
  Speaker 1: as fuck.
• 11:37
  Speaker 2: Who took that picture of him? Why would he post
• 11:39
  Speaker 2: that picture? I do not know.
• 11:42
  Speaker 1: It is beyond me why he would post that picture because...
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: I guess he's about to sue then, right? You want
• 11:47
  Speaker 1: to make sure everybody sees all the evidence of what happened.
• 11:51
  Speaker 1: Tory Lanez, you got pending charges already for shooting Magda Stallion.
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  Speaker 1: And your ass think this shit is fucking cute, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 1: He has Napoleon Syndrome.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: why you beating somebody up cause they ain't say hey
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: to you that's what it sound like to me that's
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: what it sound like to me that's what Shawty Lo
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: was mad about with T.I. remember cause he didn't shout
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  Speaker 1: him out I remember that.
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  Speaker 2: Mitch in my city didn't say my name oh shame
• 12:21
  Speaker 2: short man syndrome another thing y'all niggas got something to
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  Speaker 2: prove I like short men though they be mean though
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you that short men do be mean Tall
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: men be mean too. You think so?
• 12:35
  Speaker 1: It's the medium height ones that know how to act.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. But 6'1, right? 6'1 is medium height?
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: That's like... I thought like.
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  Speaker 1: What would medium height be?
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  Speaker 2: 5'10 to... 6'1.
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  Speaker 1: To 6 foot.
• 12:52
  Speaker 2: To 6 foot?
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  Speaker 1: 6'1 is tall.
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  Speaker 2: You think so? I like 6'1 now. That's tall. Y'all
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  Speaker 2: know my thing. I like short men now, but 6'1
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  Speaker 2: is the max. And I think 6'1 is like good.
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  Speaker 2: Anything taller than that is usually dumb.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, anything taller than that, I'm at dick height and
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  Speaker 1: he feel like I need to suck his dick all
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  Speaker 1: the time.
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  Speaker 2: No! And short equals mean. Them niggas is disgruntled. Them
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: niggas is fucking mad. Tory Lanez is a goddamn woman
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: and man beater. There's something wrong with him. There is
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: something wrong with him. Like, I don't think he got
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: it all. Because there's no way, like, you in court, essentially,
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: to me, fighting for your life, and you around here
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: assaulting people. You hit him first. He didn't even hit
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: you back, or even get the opportunity to, so you
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: assaulted him. He got bruises on his arm, legs. Evidently,
• 13:52
  Speaker 2: you might have knocked him out. Did you at least
• 13:55
  Speaker 2: pinch the bitch? Shay, look, did you see Blueface done
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: knocked out Christian Rock? Daddy. And I saw the video
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, this is, they're doing a TV show.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: And then it later came out that they're doing a
• 14:09
  Speaker 2: show for Zeus.
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  Speaker 1: So do you think it's fake? His daddy threw the
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: first punch.
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: It was cameras around him when it happened. Did you
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: see the video? There were like real professional cameras around him.
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: So it may not have been fake because we know
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: this is reality TV that they're doing. But they did it.
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: Maybe like that TV shit put the battery in your back.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: So even if the dad, the dad did rock his
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: ass first now. He did do that.
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  Speaker 1: He did connect because I thought he just swung.
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: No, he connect. He hit him. Yeah, he definitely connect
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: because Blueface.
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: But he knocked the Mario coins and the cigarettes out
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  Speaker 1: his daddy ass. I literally seen coins and cigarettes all
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: over the ground.
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  Speaker 2: So ghetto, man. Y'all beating each other family members up.
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: Remember she beat his mom up. Right.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: Y'all just need to let them people go on with
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  Speaker 1: their life because they don't want y'all helping. They don't
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: want y'all to be a part of it, clearly.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: And I need people to stop comparing them to Bobby
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: and Whitney, okay? Why? Never. No, how? How is that
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: Bobby and Whitney? That is.
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  Speaker 1: You better let it go.
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: Stop playing with Whitney, okay? Stop. Just stop. I don't
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: even like when people talk about Whitney Houston. Yeah, because nobody.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Was beating Sissy Houston ass outside. So you're right.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: She probably was jumping on Bobby Brown ass. Yeah. What
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: else happened? I posted about this a couple times. Why
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: are white people upset that Chloe Bailey is playing the
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: Little Mermaid? A mythological creature, for one.
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  Speaker 1: White people are upset because they are feeling their supremacy
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  Speaker 1: slip away from them. And it's hard to believe you're
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: the supreme being and then be snatched from you.
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  Speaker 2: Do you really think they feel like something's being taken
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  Speaker 2: from them? Because the Disney characters are being changed to
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  Speaker 2: black or, you know. Mm-hmm. How?
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: They've had 70 years of all white characters and now
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: one character is black and they're like.
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  Speaker 2: But it seems like they're less upset when they change
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: the characters to homosexuals. You could be gay, but do
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  Speaker 2: not change these characters to black.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: Well, that's because white people are also gay. But they
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: could never be black. Do you understand what I'm saying?
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay. So the representation for them, you can have...
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: But I wonder if the character was... Black gay character,
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: would they be mad? Just mad at the black part.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: Ariel can eat all the pussy she want, but she
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: cannot be black while she does it. Yo, let me
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: not talk about the cartoon character eating Gucci. Stupid. So,
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: I don't see what the problem is. Like, okay, let's
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: be clear. Y'all changed Jesus Christ to a whole white
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: man for our whole lives. And, like, Before our lives. Like,
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: what the fuck? And y'all really mad about the Little
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: Mermaid being black when mermaids are black? Let's talk about that.
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Wasn't Tom Cruise the last samurai? The last samurai? I
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: ain't got time.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Yo, if y'all don't get the fuck over it.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: And I saw some really mean posts.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I saw some really mean posts on how they making
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: the character look These motherfuckers is real nasty.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: They had her out here looking like Cynthia Doll with
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: a mermaid tail. With a box of Newports.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Like, they just so hateful. So nasty. And, you know,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: when you think about deities like Yemiyah, and there's a
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: couple of them that were these water beings. Black people.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: The Nomo tribe. You know what I'm saying? The doggone
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: tribe talk about mermaids and stuff like that. That doesn't
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: come from y'all culture. Even if they try to tie
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: the Little Mermaid back to Ireland and stuff like that.
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: Check out who the first Irish people were. Because they
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: weren't white. They weren't white people. And we just talk
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: about skin tone. At some point, skin tone didn't even
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: fucking matter.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Because everybody was black at one point.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Yes. Or just different shades of black. You know what
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: I'm saying? So, I don't know. It's just weird.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: I just can't... Well, when I come back a couple times,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: I feel like society will be in a place where
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: they'll be looking at their history holograms, because there won't
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: be books no more. There'll be like a hologram or
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: some shit like that. And they'll be like, oh my gosh,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: can you believe that humans were arguing about their skin color?
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: That is so... Ghetto.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: Ghetto.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Think of something that seems primitive to you. You know,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: something that like was going on. Learning how to make fire,
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: you know, like we make fire. I think I hope
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: I hope that's how they look at racism.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know. It's a sad state of affairs.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: We just got to have something to fight about, you know.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: I feel like people just got to have something to
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: be mad about.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: That's what Duvall always be like, what y'all fake care
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: about today? That is just the truth. Motherfuckers don't be
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: really this upset about stuff. How does it affect your life?
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: That's how I start to look at things. Does this
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: really affect my existence? Because if it doesn't, why am
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: I giving it so much fucking energy? Like, even the
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: white people not liking the Little Mermaid being a black
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: woman now. Like, I don't give a fuck. Like, that
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: don't affect my day-to-day life. Y'all could just be fucking mad.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: And I hope, you know, I hope y'all can't even
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: work today. Because you're just so upset the mermaid is black.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: And I can't wait to fucking watch it. Me too.
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: I'm going. I'm going to go a couple times. I
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: still got the original Little Mermaid tapes.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Just for all the tickets y'all don't buy, I'm going
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: to buy extra. So don't worry about it.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm not about to do. Because regardless of what,
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: even if it's black faces, because there's the other part
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: of that. Y'all make Little Mermaid black because y'all know
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: black people will show up So that's them also getting
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: that black dollar, okay? Because this is not a black production,
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: regardless of what. Though there's black characters, it's not a
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: black production. So just like with anything else, this is
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: just a money-making project.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Why are people getting rich still?
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all it is. Yep, and we're going to help.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: We're going to come out just like we came out
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: for Wakanda. We're going to act stupid. We're going to
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: pull up in droves. We're probably going to be dressed
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: like the Little Mermaid, cutting up. Me too. Yeah, I'm
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: going to come in a mermaid costume. All you're going
• 21:11
  Speaker 2: to see is a bunch of fucking orange-red hair. Because
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: we're going to come support this movie that is not
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: a black production. But nevertheless, I support it. Thanks. What
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: about this goddamn Busha bitch? The same nigga. This bishop.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: This bishop whitehead out in Brooklyn, I believe. The one
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: who got robbed a couple months ago, supposedly.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: This bishop. This bishop.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: Excuse me. This bishop. This bishop. Sorry, y'all. I'm peachy.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: Why he choke that lady like that? He yoked her
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: ass because she came up on stage. He's trying to
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: say that she was actually like a plant there. by
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: two YouTubers that he's suing for $ 40 million. What is
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: he suing them for? Slander? Yes. Of some sort?
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: Yep. Well, you giving.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Them ammo right now, choking bitches on TV, on live video.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Stupid.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: We see you grab her.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Who's still going to his church? His congregation probably grew
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: from those couple months ago. Do you think so? Well, yeah. Period. Period.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Stop saying that. Jesus Christ.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: Then I'm sure his congregation grew too.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Girl, I'm sick of these people, man. I'm sick of
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: these people. I don't know who the hell. Bishop Lamar Whitehead.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: He's caught on camera giving his sermon on Sunday when
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: a woman in the congregation interrupted him. So, yeah, this
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: person probably was sent there to just disturb what the
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: fuck they had going on. And he yoked her ass
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: up when she came up on stage. Rightfully so. I
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: wonder if he got arrested for it, though.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Rightfully, he yoked her?
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Yes. Why are you running up on a man? onto
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: his stage. She was trying to attack him? That's what
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: it looked like to me. If I'm up there preaching,
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: the preacher's preaching, and I didn't invite you to come
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: walk up on me, why are you coming up here?
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: What if she wanted some prayer?
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: What if she was in desperate need of prayer?
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: Did you hear her arguing with him in the congregation?
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: They was going back and forth, and then she walked
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: up there. I missed out. Exactly. No, you don't walk
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: up on nobody. Sit your ass down.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: He went toward her. All I see was him going
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: toward her with his hands out like Thriller.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: She started it. You can't be putting your hands on people.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: But yeah, girl, the church is going wild, y'all. All right, guys,
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: we'll be right back after this commercial break. Period. All right, so.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: I saw this video over the weekend, and it kind
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: of touched my spirit, and I want to talk to
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: you about it, AJ, and with you guys listening. There
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: was a woman, and she was sitting in her car,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: and her spirit seemed very melancholy, and she was discussing
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: how she was about to have surgery. And she realized
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: that she was 47 and that she was unmarried and
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: she was alone. And that her mom and her sister
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: had to take care of her. And how she had
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: let so much of her life go by and she
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: had not found someone to love and to love her.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: And it was kind of sad listening to it. And
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: it was also very scary for me getting married. older
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: and knowing that I am still very unmarried without kids.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: She didn't express that she had children or not, but,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: and it made me think about like, what would that
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: look like for me? And I did a little bit
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: of research and I saw that, you know, the number
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: of women that are, you know, growing older and they're
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: not coupled is the number is growing. So it's very
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: real that I could possibly be her age, 47 and
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: by myself. Right. And if that's the case, I wanted
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: to find the positives instead of lamenting over what that
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: would be like.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: I wanted to find positive ways to be an old
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: bitch by yourself.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: You know, the thing about that is if you talk
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: to older women who have been married before, they are
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: happy now being single. You know what I'm saying? They're
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: not looking for no new relationships. They realize it's less
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: stressful when you only have to worry about yourself. And
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: they're content. Until you're about to have surgery.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: I think that, you know, her having that surgery made
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: her realize, like, damn, I don't have anybody.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: To take care of me. But the thing is, that
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: may be an assumption that a woman who's never been
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: married before, that's an assumption you're making that your husband
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: would actually even be the type of man that would
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: take care of you. Because that is a woman's characteristic.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? There are women who are
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: married that if they themselves get sick, they're going to
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: be up shit creek and so would a husband because
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: he can't take care of himself. So you probably would
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: still have to lean on your mom or your sister
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: even if you had a husband at home. They're not
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: going to be able or equipped to take care of
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: you how a woman would be able to.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: But some men are. Some men are very good at
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: nurturing the ones they love.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: They can get you the things you need. You know, like,
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: just go great. You still have to give direction. Do
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying? You'd have to be in
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: pain somewhere, laying down, and still got to give him
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: direction on what you need. Not always. Girl, you don't know, though,
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: because you ain't been in either situation yet. I'm just
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: telling you, I've seen married women be in these situations. No,
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: I can't. I've had.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: All right, so I remember.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: So you guys, I have multiple sclerosis. And when I
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: first got diagnosed, I could not walk. I didn't even
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: we didn't even know what was going on with me yet.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: But I was just in the hospital. They admitted me
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: and I could not walk anymore. And it was just
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: really scary. And my boyfriend at the time, he would
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: literally get off work, go home, change his clothes. and
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: come to that hospital and sleep in my hospital bed
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: next to me every single night for two weeks. And
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: I know he was so tired because he would get
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: up early in the morning so he could go get
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: ready for work again. And he did that every day
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: for two weeks. And I think that was the most
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: I ever felt loved before. And it was just like
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: that small little bit of just being there, you know,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: sleeping in this tiny hospital bed. And this is in Europe.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if you know about the healthcare
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: system there.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: It's free.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: But it also feel free. So it's like six of
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: us in one room, you know, it's not like I
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: had my own bedroom. It's like six beds in this
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: one room. And it's all kinds of people like, Oh,
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: hell no. You know, all kinds of shit going on.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: It's a miserable experience. And he endured that with me.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: And I feel like he was definitely the type that
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: would be someone that would be very caring in that aspect.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Now the other shit, Wasn't always the best, but that.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: Part, he was a good, he would have been a
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: good person for that, you know? Yeah. So just having
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: somebody there, rather, rather than not, they can take care
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: of you. Yeah. That's a plus. It's definitely a plus.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: And then, you know, that intimacy, like even when you
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: being sick, that a man can give you a mama
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: can't like, right. It's just, you'd prefer for the man
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: to be there to rub your back up and shit
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Even instead of your mama, even though your mama going
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: to do it for you. Mm hmm.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Afraid to be alone and I think that's one thing
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: that women period need to learn is how to be
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: alone I know I looked at some articles and to
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: me they were more so talking about like younger people
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: like when you're in your 20s maybe early 30s and
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: you know having time to do things for yourself having
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: time to think you know that's for a younger person
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: when you get older it's like you kind of already
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: know what you want Um, that may be a reason
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: why people end up single because now you've spent so
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: much time. You, you've actually spent too much time to
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: yourself that now just the thought of somebody else gets
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: stressful for you. Like the thought of having a. share
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: space with somebody else.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: That part so I've been single since 2016 and I
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: think if I did like get in a serious relationship
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: and we had to like cohabitate that would be a
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: huge adjustment for me.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: I need my own my own room and bathroom I
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: know that about me now Like, I do want to,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: I don't want to live with a man in an apartment.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: It would have to be a house. And I need
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: my own room and bathroom. If I can't have my
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: own room, I at least need my own bathroom. Now,
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: I do want to sleep with the man every night, right?
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: But I just want us to have our own separate space.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: So you just want to fucking then go to your
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: own room?
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: No, I want to sleep, like, tonight we sleep in
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: my room. Of course my room would probably be nicer
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: than his. And my bedding would probably be really plush. So,
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: of course, he's going to want to sleep in my
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: room every night, right? But just to have the option to, like,
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: have your own space, like, during the day and shit
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: like that, I want that.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I can hear you now. Go to your room. Telling
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: the nigga to go to his room.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: I'm, like, laying back on the bed, kicking at him
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: to get out of my room. Get out my room.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: And close my damn door behind you. I don't think
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: I would want.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: My own room. I think I would obviously want a
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: house with more rooms in it. But I think I
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: would want our room to be our room. And this
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: is our space. And then he can get out and
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: go to the man cave when I'm upset with him.
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: And that's it. So that's your room. And you want
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: him to have his own separate room.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: His man cave.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Right. I need a she shed.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: But I don't want no bed. I don't want no
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: bed in there. I want him to be uncomfortable when
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: he has to sleep there. Nigga, sleep in that pool table, nigga.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: So he can think about his choices.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. I think I need
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: my own. I definitely need my own bathroom. So even if,
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: like I said, if it's not a separate bedroom, I
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: need my own bathroom. Okay. Cause men can get kind
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: of sketchy. I've actually had some pretty clean men, but man,
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: some niggas can get kind of sketchy with the bathroom upkeep.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: And I don't got no time to be yelling at
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: no grown ass man. Like nigga, if you don't, If
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: you don't... Right, clean up after yourself. Yeah, because I'm
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: not your mama. I'm not going to be your mama.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: I will be your mom.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I like that. I like babying my niggas like, oh,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: come here, lay on my titty and let me hold
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: you and dirt you and love you like a child.
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: Girl, no. These are grown ass men and that's the
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: problem right there. They need that. No, they don't. They
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: need that kind of love. Men are coddled way more
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: than women. Nobody coddles black women in that way. Black
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: men are always being coddled.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: I like that shit.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: You don't need to coddle them as well.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: As a white. Tough ass nigga come in and turn
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: into a whole baby for me.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Come and lay on mama lap. So what's the most
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: terrifying thing to you about being single? What are you
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: most afraid of? Because we can go through all the benefits,
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: but what are we afraid of being single?
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: I'm afraid my biggest fear of being single is I
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: just feel like it would be such a travesty to
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: never have life beyond my own. I'm so amazing. I
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: need to recreate myself. That's how I feel. I need
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: another me out here living and thriving. That's my greatest fear.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: And then, also, like I said, I have MS. And
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: I'm going to need somebody to take care of me
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: when shit get rough. And I ain't got nobody, you know?
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: That shit going to be real, real one day.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: But if you keep focusing on the money, you can
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: always have a nurse or somebody. You could pay for
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: somebody to be there. Men think that the things that
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: women do are... I can pay somebody to cook. I
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: can pay somebody to clean up. I can pay somebody
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: to do all these things. I can pay somebody to fuck.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: But for women, it's like, we don't see things like that.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: But you can't outsource all those things.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that would probably be the second option. But
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: it's different when you're paying somebody and somebody's doing it
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: out of love, you know?
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: That love can turn into resentment and they got to
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: take care of you too long.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very true.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: I want me a notebook.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Can I just get Ryan Gosling to come over here
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: and be like, what do you want? Like the notebook.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: I want a notebook kind of love. I don't know, child.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: What is your greatest fear of being by yourself?
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: Okay, so I do want to have a kid, at
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: least one. And maybe this is even selfish. When I
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: get old, like I don't want to be an old
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: ass lady. 70 with no... offspring, nobody to help you
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: out a little bit. You know what I'm saying? That's
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: the same thing I said, just a different person. Yeah, exactly.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Either a man or a kid. I need one of them.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: But then I don't want the kid without the man.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? So I want a family
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: more than I just want a kid. Right? So I
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: would like to have a child and a man and
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: then the child would have to take care of both
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: of us or at least like facilitate the caregiving. Like
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: find the people to do it. When you get old, like,
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: I guess maybe I'm thinking about, remember I had the
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: old lady live with me. I'm thinking about all the
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: things I had to do for her that she just
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: couldn't do because times change. Like everything is on the
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: fucking internet. You can't expect this 80 something year old
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: lady to be able to use the internet in that way.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: She could barely use her cell phone. So just somebody
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: there to help me with those type of things. Being
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: young and getting sick and needing somebody to take care
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: of you, you got access to more people. But when
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: you get old like that and your mama's gone, your
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: daddy gone, your siblings might be gone. Your friends. Friends gone. Like,
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: you need a younger person.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Right, because even now, even your doctor appointments, you have
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: to confirm them on an app or something like that.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: You got to check MyChart to see what your results are. Like,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: it's not set up for old people to be able
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: to do by themselves.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Exactly. So you... It's really real that you are a
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: baby twice. So I feel like that's when I would
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: be more concerned about it. And that's why the relationship
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: I would need would need to be facilitated now. So
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: it's either the relationship with a husband or your child
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: for when you get 70, 80. I'm going to be
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: around until I'm like 95. So I'm going to need somebody.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Take care of me you're definitely gonna need somebody around 95.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: So that's my concern I don't know I don't know
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: man I don't want um I just hate when people
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: be like oh y'all bitches gonna die with y'all dogs
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: y'all gonna die with y'all cats y'all gonna die alone
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: no woman has to die alone cause there is somebody
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: out here somebody you can pick somebody and have a
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: baby with them You could pick somebody and get married. Like,
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure every woman has at least one nigga
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: that's willing to marry them. Right now. You know, he
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: may not look the best, he may not smell the best,
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: but there's somebody. You know what I'm saying? There is
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: somebody for everybody.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Don't nobody want to fuck with Stinky Joey?
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: But she might be a stinky Jane and they go together.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: Why are you stinky trying to be with somebody who's not? Fresh.
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Get you a stinky nigga, but even you think you deserve.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: It's all about balance. You make me smell better.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's somebody for everybody. You just got to
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: find that person. I could be married right now if
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: I wanted to be. I could. But I think a
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: lot more people, especially our generation, we're putting happiness over everything.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: We say that it's not the other person's responsibility to
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: make you happy. But if somebody can make you sad,
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: they can definitely make you happy. So yes, it is
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: my job to make myself happy. But yeah, I feel
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: like you can contribute to other people's happiness. I would
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: not want to be in a relationship. It's more terrifying
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: to me to be In the wrong relationship than to
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: be by myself. The peace you get from being by yourself.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: Until you get by 65 and you can't get up
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: that step no more.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: But see, that's why you got to take care of yourself.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? What I find in relationships
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: is that you could be somebody who goes to the
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: gym all the time. It's like all that shit go
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: out the window when you get into a relationship. You're
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: no longer focusing on your personal goals. You're not focusing
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: on your personal health. It's like you always having to
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: take somebody else shit into consideration every day of your life.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: Like if I want to go on like a fucking
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: vegan diet for the rest of this year, if I
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: got a whole family I'm responsible for, I can't. Where?
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: Because it's going to be even hard. Like I'm preparing
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: food for them to eat that I'm not and I
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: can't eat.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: They could just be vegans too.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: In a perfect world. That's what, you know, because the
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: mama is responsible for the nutrition of the family. So
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: in a perfect world, that's how it would be.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: But.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: It don't always be like that. So now it's just
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: hard to focus on your personal goals when you're in
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: a relationship. It just is because this other person needs
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: some of your time. The relationship requires time. requires all
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: of these things outside of you.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: I found a list of 10 reasons why it's great
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: living alone in your 40s and 50s. Just for anybody
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: who's feeling sad about.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: Getting older, i.e. me.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: All right, here's... here's the list. One, you'll gain an
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: independent routine, which is great for your health. So basically,
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: you ain't got nobody else to worry about, so you
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: can do exactly what you want, when you want to,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: and how you want to do it. I mean, I
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: think that applies right now. We don't have to wait
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: till we're in our 40s.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: And 50s for that. Right. Yeah.
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: Single people are healthier than their married counterparts.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: That's what I was just saying. Yeah. So like, even
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: if you have like a certain gym routine, like you
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: having to work in all of these people, because I
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: think that people who have children and families younger in life,
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: they're just now getting to do those things because now
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: the kids are finally older. So they kind of sacrificed
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: earlier in life so now they can chill. See, us
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: having kids and families later on, I don't know if
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: it's going to be like, what would you rather do?
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: You'd rather have just fun in your 20s and then
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: worry about the shit with you in the 30s Or
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: do all this shit now and now I get to
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: live the rest of my life?
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Well, I guess it ain't an option no more for
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: me to decide on that. But with me, the shit
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: that my friends who had kids young had to endure,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: I don't think we'll have to endure it the same
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: because we got more money now. I could have a
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: nanny in this bitch changing diapers.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Right. And it's just like, I think you do end
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: up with more options the older you get. You might
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: enjoy your relationship better at an older age because you,
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: like I said, like both parties kind of know what
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: they want and know what they don't. So you find
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: somebody that match that fly. Right.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: And then you have a greater understanding of your emotional
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: intelligence when.
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: You're older too. To even raise the kids properly. Right. So.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: So that sustains a more healthy relationship too.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: People who have kids younger, it's like a struggle the
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: majority of the time.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're growing up with their kids. Number three,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: you can develop your own hobbies and interests.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you want to do those things with somebody else, right?
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: I like to be alone, but I like to be
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: alone with somebody else. I like to do all the
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: shit I like to do, but with one other person
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: at least.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Well, you can't be alone with somebody else because then
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: you're no longer alone.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: Single people often enjoy better friendships. I mean, do you
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: have a choice?
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: You know? This list is like reaching.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Let's see, what does it say? Living alone by
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: no means has to mean you're lonely. In fact, often
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: exiting a relationship enables friendships to really blossom. All right,
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: so it says, now is the time to reestablish links
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: with old friends and reach out to new ones. Living
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: alone means you can invite people for the weekend to visit,
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: stay out late. So it's just all selfish stuff. Okay,
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: got it. Yeah, I'm like, y'all reaching with this one.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: Who else you going to hang out with? Exactly. You
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: ain't got no other choice. A bunch of random ass bitches.
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: I don't want that either. But I also don't want
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: to be in a relationship where my partner got a
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: problem with all my friends. So I wouldn't pick somebody
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: like that either who doesn't want you to have friends.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that's not healthy. You'll have a greater sense
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: of freedom. I mean, some of this list is triggering me. No,
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: but I feel that, though.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: I feel that. I like to feel not single... Maybe
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: I like to be single in a relationship. Maybe. You can't.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: How you going to be single in a relationship? It's like,
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: I don't like to feel smothered or I don't like
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: to feel like I got, just the same way men feel.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: They don't want to have to always answer a bunch
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: of questions and stuff like that. Like, just trust that
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: I'm doing the right thing and leave me the hell
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: alone because I ain't stalking and stressing you.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: So I do like to feel free.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: In a relationship. I am a commitment type person. I
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: do want to be in a committed relationship. But I
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: also don't want to feel like I'm in prison in
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: the relationship. I get that. So I would like to
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: maintain a certain level of freedom while in a union.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because the same guy that I told y'all about
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: that was like laying in my hospital bed next to
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: me for two weeks straight.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Y'all like, oh, he was so sweet. What happened to him?
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: He also was the same type that would get mad
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: if I said anything nice about a man.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: Not my man, just any man.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: I was... I could be like, oh, he's a nice guy.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: That's a good person for your boyfriend to be hanging
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: out with. I had a conversation with my friend like that.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: And this nigga totally blew up. Why are you saying
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: other niggas is nice?
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. See, and look, I was in
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: the store yesterday and I was on the phone with
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: my friend. And as I'm checking out, I was like, okay, thanks, babe.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: I said babe to the cashier, right? I always call
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: people baby, babe, man or women. That's just how it
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: just comes out. It's not like I'm just really calling
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: this man a baby, right? And I said, oh, let
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: me not do that because you might have a problem
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: with that. He was like, I don't care nothing about that.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: I said, okay, that's my previous trauma then. Because in
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: my last relationship, I had gotten in multiple arguments because
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: I said babe to somebody.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: I don't like that either, though.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but see, I think I get that from my mom.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: She called everybody baby, babe. That's just... It's just in
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: my vocabulary. I don't mean this person is my baby.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: Like I would say to my significant other. So for
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: a man to.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Get like crazy. I get that, but don't say that.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: See, like, but those are things that you have. Baby?
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: I don't like when we like a server, I don't
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: want you calling her baby.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: See, that's the thing that a man can't do that.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: It's just a double standard thing. It's like a older
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: person talking to a younger person type thing. Because that's
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: usually when I would say it if it's like a
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: younger person. They just, it's a kid. You know what
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: I'm saying?
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: He'll still fuck the shit out of you.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But you know, in relationships, you don't
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: know something's a problem until it's a problem. That's just it.
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: So I didn't know it was a problem until it
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: was a problem.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: I don't like, I don't want you giving other women
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: pet names, but you can say somebody's a nice person
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: and it not be a problem.
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: I won't be like, why you call that bitch nice?
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: That is fucking crazy.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: That's crazy, right?
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Like, you want to suck his dick, don't you? Right. What? Men,
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: that's what they mind, go directly to you sucking somebody's dick.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: They just so obsessed with that.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Because I said his somebody was nice. All right, number seven.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: It will help you be more creative.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: Solitude. Yeah. Go ahead. I guess you got time to
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: sit down and do things that you want to do. Yeah,
• 46:48
  Speaker 2: I could see that.
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. says solitude enables you to think deeply and is
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: crucial for introspective, creative thoughts to come into fruition. Being
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: alone is often a prerequisite for those sparky ideas you
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: might otherwise never have had.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was talking to a friend this weekend and
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: he went to a wedding in Baltimore and his friend,
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: the girl that he's dating basically, she went like, on
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: a little trip by herself. And I was like, she
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: ain't by herself. She got some nigga with her, like
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: fucking with him. But he was like, yeah, she, you know,
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: he basically was trying to say, you know, it's the
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: shit that you would do. Like go out, be by
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: yourself to talk to the trees and shit like that. She,
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: he was like, that's what she doing. So he's okay
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: with her like traveling, going on a little trip alone
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: to get her mind right. Most men won't, won't be
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: okay with that. Not in a real relationship. Like where
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: are you going, bitch? Right. That don't even sound right
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: to me. In that room? In that room? They don't
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: live together, nothing like that. They're just, you know, yeah. So,
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know. That might not be something you could
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: do while you're in a relationship with a man. Go
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: on vacation by yourself. Go on a little weekend, get
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: away by yourself.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: Now, I've seen men and like married couples with children
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: and they all live in a house where their wife
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: go on a staycation to a hotel down the street.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: You know, like, You go there, relax, drink some champagne,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: just enjoy your solitude away from us.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I've seen that, but you getting on a plane to
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: go somewhere and sit by yourself?
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: No, bitch.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: Sit your ass down. All right, the next one says,
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: you actually might be less lonely. It might sound odd,
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: but single people could actually turn out to be far
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: less lonely than those in relationships. This is because, as
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: a general rule, singles tend to have wider social circles
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: and support systems as opposed to those in relationships who
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: often only have one person they feel they can confide
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: and rely on.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: Wow. That's true. And look, that's something I think about. Like, imagine,
• 49:07
  Speaker 2: and I think a lot of relationships fail because of this,
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: You can't expect your significant other to be your all.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? They can't be your best
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: friend for real. Like how your real best, like as
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: a woman. woman, right? Your man can't be your best
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: friend how your actual female friend is your best friend.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: He can't be that for you. So I believe that
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: even in relationships, you got to have that thing outside
• 49:32
  Speaker 2: of your fucking relationship. You have to.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's important to have at least One
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: person that is not in your relationship that you can
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: confide in.
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: Yes. And that's for a man or a woman. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Because, I mean, sometimes when you're
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: having a problem, how do I talk to the problem
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: about the problem?
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Well, you can't, you can't look, I don't, it's important
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: not to look at your person as the problem. There's
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: an issue within the relationship and y'all need to attack
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: that problem together.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: What if he keeps shitting on the toilet? That is
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: his problem. That is a problem he's creating.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: The problem is the shit and y'all need to fix
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: the shit together.
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: The shit came out of him. That's his shit.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: That's y'all shit.
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: Nah, nigga. Yeah, it is. No. What he ate did
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: not make me shit. Okay, so how is that my shit?
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: But if you sat down on that toilet, it's your shit. Girl.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: That's the problem. The problem is the shit, not the man.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: But first of all, why is a grown man shitting
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: on the toilet?
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: Girl, that's some new shit y'all people coming up with.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: We're going to attack the problem, not each other.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: That's important. Motherfuckers be the people making the problem. What
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: are we talking about? Y'all are delusional. It sounds good.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: It sounds good. Okay, we're two. Here's the problem. Let's
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: attack the problem. And not each other. But how does
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: that even work when it's somebody causing the problem? Do
• 50:56
  Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying? Yeah, but he's causing the problem.
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: Let's work on this problem together. But what if the
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: problem is him cheating?
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: How are we going to work on that?
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: When he's making that conscious decision to cheat.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: So we have to find out if we are in
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: it together and you want to stay with this nigga
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: knowing that he cheats, then you're going to have to
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: find a way to find out why he's cheating.
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: He chooses to.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: And he wants to be in this relationship knowing that
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: it's something that you don't want. That's the problem.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: Man, this is some bullshit. This is some Western civilization
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: goddamn psychology. Let's attack that problem. Whatever. And number 10,
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: the last one, you'll sleep more soundly.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: Now, I agree with that one.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: Just get a king-size bed. I don't see how people
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: are married and they have a queen-size bed in their house. How?
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: That's too close.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: Me too.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: Because I like to cuddle and shit like that, but
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: we already know when you get kind of hot in
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: the middle of the night, get the fuck off me.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: I don't like falling asleep on nobody. My last nigga,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: the same one I was talking about the whole episode.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: That's my only point of reference. He would like me
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: to sleep on him, and he would fall asleep, and
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: when I would move, even though he would sleep, his
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: arm would get tight.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: When I try to move. Oh, hell no. That nigga
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: was a fucking demon.
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: He didn't want your ass to move.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: I could not move. If you awake, he need to
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: be awake. I could not move. Wow. That's scary. What
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: the hell?
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: In his sleep, he would snatch. His arm would go tight.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Like a fist would go tight around me. Like, how
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: the fuck.
• 52:41
  Speaker 2: Do you do that in your sleep? That sounds really insecure.
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: He was like, subconsciously and consciously insecure.
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: But I snore so I don't know even though if
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: you want me up under you like that when I
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: sleep cause you ain't gonna get no rest with this
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: freight train next.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: To you see now I wouldn't sleep with you I
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: don't wanna be with a man who snore too loud
• 53:05
  Speaker 2: cause every night I'ma be rushing trying to go to
• 53:07
  Speaker 2: sleep before you.
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: I go to your own room since you got one
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: exactly I had one nigga He was like, before we
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: went to lay down, he's like, you like astronauts? I
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: was like, what? He's like, I'm about to show you.
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: And he put that motherfucking space helmet on so he
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: could breathe at night. Looking like a motherfucking astronaut in bed.
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: That's so stupid. Do something. Don't get up in here
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: sounding like Darth Vader because I'm going to fuck home.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: If I have that option. I'm not going to get
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: into a long-term relationship with somebody who snores crazy. One
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: thing about me is I'm asleep. And you're not about
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: to disturb it. You're going to get your rest? Yes,
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: I have to sleep well, man. If I don't, my
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: days would be fucked up. Shit, that's why I'm dragging
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: right now today.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: Shoot. I got dumped because of my snoring one time.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: We wasn't like that yet. We were just starting to
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: finally like spend the night with each other. And I
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: just remember waking myself up with the sound of my snoring.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: And I woke up and I looked at him and
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: he was just staring at me like, I really want
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: you to go the fuck home. That's how he looked
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: at me. He was looking.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm so sorry.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: But I was only snoring because his pillows was the
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: size of as thin as a piece of paper.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: Like, where you get these thin ass fucking raggedy ass pillows?
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: Niggas been ain't betting, man. These niggas don't have no... Like,
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: y'all asleep on a goddamn piece of plyboard. Cardboard box. Yes.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: What is that with y'all bedding?
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I had to fold that pillow four times to just
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: have a little piece of height on it.
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: Girl, like, and I'll literally buy your shit for your
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: house so I can be comfortable when I get there. Like,
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: why you got these old ass pillows, nigga? Get you
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: some new pillows, please, sir.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Well, in conclusion, look, y'all, it's okay to If you
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: do find yourself by yourself in your 40s and 50s,
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: there are ways to be fulfilled and not be sad
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: about it. And I hope this list helps any of
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: our listeners who feel lonely or feel alone. Like, girl,
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: it's okay. You got friends. And if you don't have
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: friends out there, you have friends that we talk back.
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: Aww. Girl, ain't nothing like that dick, girl.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: Period.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Stop. What is wrong with you? Don't be doing that
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: shit on our recording. We ain't giving that bitch no
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: motherfucking notoriety over here at We Talk Back. Ew.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: I was just agreeing with your dick comment.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: Just say I agree. Just say I agree. Girl, but again,
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: I'm not afraid to be alone. Shit, if this is
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: how my life's supposed to be, then so fucking be it, okay?
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: I enjoy the company of men for sure. If I
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: get married today or tomorrow, that'll be great. If I don't,
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to die because of it. Obviously, I'm
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: going to live longer. So, hey, we'll see. I'm going
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: to be one of them fine ass, because listen, honey,
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: the 60-year-olds that's on Instagram, them bitches fine. The 50
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: and 60 year olds, like they've been spending the last
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: decade building a six pack. They can have any one
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: of these young niggas if they wanted them.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: They can definitely like, they got options. You always have options.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: Let's be clear. But I don't know. I ain't going
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: to be alone. Knocks on wood. All right, y'all. Hit
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: them with that.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: Hit them with that thing you hit them with.
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: That thing. Listen, if you guys enjoyed this episode, please
• 56:59
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• 57:07
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• 57:10
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• 57:13
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• 57:15
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• 57:25
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• 57:29
  Speaker 1: I love y'all. Thanks for tuning in. Y'all remember to
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: speak now.
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: And never hold your peace. Peace. Bye.