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Sittin', Sippin', & Bullshittin': Podcast Glow-Up & Netflix's A Toxic Love Story · Bless This Mess: A Southern True Crime Podcast

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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome to our very first episode of Sitting,
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Speaker 1: Sippin' and Bullshitting' from Blessed This Mess even True Grown Podcast.
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Speaker 2: I gotta say that kind of slow.
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Speaker 1: I know it's a tongue twister, but I love it.
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Speaker 1: I love it. So as you know, if you've been
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Speaker 1: here for a while, we've actually been pretty consistent with those,
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Speaker 1: so I gotta give us some problems for that. We
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Speaker 1: we've been doing shoot the Poo on most Fridays. Sometimes
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Speaker 1: we missed a couple of weeks. You know, we've been
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Speaker 1: doing most of those on Fridays, and we call it
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Speaker 1: Shoot the Poo with Karen ste However, we have been
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Speaker 1: I did not like the name.
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Speaker 2: Is all of you name it flew it flowed together.
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Speaker 1: It did flow together, but I didn't care for the name.
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Speaker 1: And for a while we've been talking about kind of,
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Speaker 1: uh would you say, upgrading or making things a little
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Speaker 1: bit better and more cohesive, little more professional, a little
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Speaker 1: more professional. So we've been working on a new logo,
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Speaker 1: a cover art, which you should we still got the
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Speaker 1: baby in the background. We're not that professional, okay, just
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Speaker 1: is what it is. We have the new cover art,
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Speaker 1: we have new tears on our Patreon. We have the
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Speaker 1: new name for this, which is sitting, sipping and bullshit,
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Speaker 1: because our whole thing was and this might sound corny
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Speaker 1: to something, y'all, but this is what I pictured whenever
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Speaker 1: I was redoing all this. I want everybody feel like
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Speaker 1: we're on a porch. Okay, so you're on the porch.
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Speaker 1: I'm on the porch. The listeners are on the porch.
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Speaker 1: We're just sitting out there, have a little drinky drink
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Speaker 1: out of a mason jar and talking about.
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Speaker 2: True crime, slapping mosquitoes.
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Speaker 1: Slapping mosquitos, wondering when these damn June bugs are gonna
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Speaker 1: stop procreating. People are probably trying to wonder when we're
2:05
Speaker 1: gonna stop pro creating, never as the babies in the
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Speaker 1: background can't Oh my god, we're done pro creating. Our
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Speaker 1: new baby is this podcast do? So?
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Speaker 2: So.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been, you know, around for a long time.
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Speaker 1: We've been around for eight years or so. We've taken
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Speaker 1: some breaks, We've.
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Speaker 2: That was a long two year stretch there, two and
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Speaker 2: a half years.
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Speaker 1: Yes, and so yeah. So we've just all we've just
2:28
Speaker 1: been wanting to just take it a little more seriously,
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Speaker 1: be more consistent and so that's what we're trying to do.
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Speaker 1: So some of the changes that you'll see is one,
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Speaker 1: like I said, the cover art, some of the some
2:39
Speaker 1: people have already seen the Patreon and you'll see there's
2:44
Speaker 1: three tiers now. The first one is Sweet Tea and
2:48
Speaker 1: so that's three dollars a month. You get access to
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Speaker 1: the community board where we can like chit chat with you,
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Speaker 1: and then you have ad free episodes on the day
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Speaker 1: that they normally come out, so that would be Thirsty Day.
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Speaker 1: If you upgrade to the five dollars tier, you get
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Speaker 1: early access, so you get the episodes on Wednesday ad free,
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Speaker 1: and you get the sitting, sipping and bullshit in our
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Speaker 1: Friday episode where we just chat and talk about a
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Speaker 1: true crime documentary. And then if you do the the
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Speaker 1: Moonshine Mason jar that is ten dollars a month and
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Speaker 1: you get after three months, I'm so excited. So we're
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Speaker 1: doing the drinks every week, yes, and we're they're in
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Speaker 1: Mason jars, so we have we're getting Mason jars that say,
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Speaker 1: you know, bless this much mess porch crew. And so
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Speaker 1: after three months of being on that level of the
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Speaker 1: ten dollars a month, the Moonshine, Mason Jar will send
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Speaker 1: you one of those jars so you can drink along
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Speaker 1: with us. And then they're also we're going to have
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Speaker 1: those as available just as like a one time purchase,
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Speaker 1: so look out for that. That's coming. We have that
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Speaker 1: all in the works and so yeah, that's so that's
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Speaker 1: the Moonshine maystar. And then you also get to one month,
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Speaker 1: will put up a poll to vote on which episode
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Speaker 1: you would like us to cover, So we'll give you
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Speaker 1: some options and then you can vote in that what
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Speaker 1: else was on there. There's there's a whole bunch of
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Speaker 1: stuff on that one anyway, So I'm very excited about
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Speaker 1: all of them. As you can see, it's all Mason
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Speaker 1: Jar theme. Drink themed are weekly poor so we're gonna
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Speaker 1: do that once a week. I've been wanting to do
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Speaker 1: this forever where we have a drink that goes along
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Speaker 1: with the podcast episode, and so this week it is
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Speaker 1: our Southern Peach Bourbon sweet tea which we made and
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Speaker 1: I posted, So you guys will get that recipe on
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Speaker 1: Wednesdays and then everybody else will get it on Fridays
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Speaker 1: on like social media. Will we just make a drink
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Speaker 1: me and STU are drinking it right now, the drink
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Speaker 1: that we made, Yes, we are. We're on our second one.
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Speaker 1: So the ideal is that tonight. No, the idea is
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Speaker 1: that the main So the main episodes that if you
4:55
Speaker 1: guys are wondering about, those like our main ones that
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Speaker 1: go up to everybody. Those if if you have been
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Speaker 1: around for a long time, and you recall.
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Speaker 2: We used to partake in quite a few.
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Speaker 1: Drinking yes, yes, but that's not what they're going to
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Speaker 1: be that. No, that's not what I'm trying to get at.
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Speaker 1: That was excessive drinking. We used to research a lot
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Speaker 1: more into the cases because we had you know, no children,
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Speaker 1: no children and stuff like that, and so we used
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Speaker 1: to really get in down to into the details, which
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Speaker 1: was that's a long running joke, is the details, because
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Speaker 1: there was one episode where we said details so many
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Speaker 1: times we've turned into a drinking game anyway.
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Speaker 2: So it was the frog episode.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we are going to be getting back. I've
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Speaker 1: been working the last couple of months to start getting
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Speaker 1: a backlog of episodes that I've been able to really
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Speaker 1: research and get down into all the nitty gritty and
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Speaker 1: the details to bring to bring that to you guys.
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Speaker 1: So we're gonna streamline those episodes a little bit because
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Speaker 1: they have been going off the red. Okay, I'll be
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Speaker 1: honest with you, guys. They've been shorter episodes where we
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Speaker 1: just kind of on the surface of the cases just
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Speaker 1: because we haven't had time. But now we've been working
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Speaker 1: the our Yeah, we've been working the last couple of months.
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Speaker 1: I've been working the last couple of months to write
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Speaker 1: these longer episodes, and so I'm very excited because I've
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Speaker 1: already got a backlog. We're ready to go. So we'll
6:18
Speaker 1: start our first one next week. So we will have
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Speaker 1: our normal banter still in there, but we're really going
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Speaker 1: to stick more to the cases of what instead of
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Speaker 1: talking a lot about our personal life in there, We're
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Speaker 1: going to stick to the cases, have a few little
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Speaker 1: bit of banter, but then save most of that for
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Speaker 1: these episodes because when we record those main episodes, what
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Speaker 1: we'll do is we're going to record them and go
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Speaker 1: straight into this sitting, sipping and bullshitting where we talk
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Speaker 1: about our lives and whatever else chaos going on, like
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Speaker 1: me getting too drunk at a wedding or how our
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Speaker 1: children are being terrible right now.
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Speaker 2: Yes, they are watching them on the camera, watching.
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Speaker 1: On the camera in the room, acting a full gonna
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Speaker 1: wake up the two year old and update you on
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Speaker 1: our move and everything. So yeah, that's what we have.
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Speaker 1: It'll still be the same type of show. We're just
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Speaker 1: gonna stick more to the actual crime aspect on the
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Speaker 1: main episode and save a lot of that extra stuff
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Speaker 1: for this episode. And we should be like my thing was,
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Speaker 1: we make the drink. We were making the drink. We're
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Speaker 1: drinking with you guys for the first episode. We make
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Speaker 1: it through the first drink and then by the time
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Speaker 1: we do this sitting sipping and bullshit, we are.
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Speaker 2: On our second drink, on our second bank.
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Speaker 1: No, what is wrong with you?
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't know where you're going with that.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, we just wanted to update you guys.
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Speaker 1: And again, this one's gonna go out to everybody. So
7:46
Speaker 1: if you are not part of the Patreon this will
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Speaker 1: be the only episode you get on the Friday. Sorry,
7:52
Speaker 1: but we do we will have this. Go check out
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Speaker 1: patreon dot com, slash bell Sysmas podcast to get all
7:57
Speaker 1: those benefits and see which tier might work out for you.
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Speaker 1: Which one you think so or if you want one
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Speaker 1: at all, Yeah, or if you want you don't. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: we still have our regular episodes every week. It's it's
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Speaker 1: not gonna be you'll still get that. We also will
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Speaker 1: have a little less Mess. So little less Mess. I
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Speaker 1: was not putting them out that consistently, but that's changing now.
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Speaker 1: They will go out consistently and instead of Sundays, they're
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Speaker 1: going to go out Mondays as kind of like a
8:20
Speaker 1: grab your coffee, let's head to work and let me
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Speaker 1: tell you, like, spend fifteen minutes telling you a case,
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Speaker 1: and it's going to be this. It's the same thing
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Speaker 1: what happened was with the little Less Mess. It was
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Speaker 1: what we offered people who did not want us chit
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Speaker 1: chatting and stuff and bantern and jokes and laughing.
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Speaker 2: That's for people that were wanting me to leave.
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Speaker 1: This well, or they might have wanted me to leave
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Speaker 1: and you had read it. I don't know, but we
8:44
Speaker 1: were doing that because it was already the cases we'd
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Speaker 1: already covered and then it was just me coming in
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Speaker 1: and basically reading the case in a very uh straight
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Speaker 1: matter of fact. So that's what we called them a
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Speaker 1: little less mess. So it will be the same case
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Speaker 1: we cover on the Thursday episode. It'll come out Monday
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Speaker 1: as a little less mess, and it's just a shorter
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Speaker 1: version of it, just me telling the case. If you
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Speaker 1: would like a just a recap of it, maybe you
9:08
Speaker 1: didn't catch everything you want to recap. You can listen
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Speaker 1: on your way to you work, drinking your coffee instead
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Speaker 1: of on with us on the evening one drinking booze moonshine. Yes,
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Speaker 1: I think that's it. Do you how do you feel
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Speaker 1: about do you? Are you excited? I'm very excited about
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Speaker 1: all this. And I know you guys probably think some
9:30
Speaker 1: of this is like cheesy, because I really do. I
9:32
Speaker 1: want to say, like, hey, pull up your rocking chair.
9:35
Speaker 1: It reminds me of that time that Stu wrote that
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Speaker 1: thing about Ronald Gene Simmons and about him hacking.
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Speaker 2: Is some digital marshmallow.
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Speaker 1: Yes, he wrote a whole thing. I was like, this
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Speaker 1: is so cheesy, but here, I here, I am doing it.
9:49
Speaker 1: I want I want it just I just want everybody
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Speaker 1: to feel like we're.
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Speaker 2: Here as I think that was like episode two or
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Speaker 2: three AM. Yeah, we were drinking as well.
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Speaker 1: But I also wrote a Christmas poem about that. Remember
10:01
Speaker 1: I do I do Christmas? Maybe I'll maybe I'll pull
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Speaker 1: that one out of one. Yeah, it does that one
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Speaker 1: off for this year Christmas twenty twenty six, the Ronald
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Speaker 1: Gene Simmons thing, because he did that around Christmas time.
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Speaker 1: So yeah, so that's what's going on, and we really
10:18
Speaker 1: appreciate it. We already had some as since we announced
10:22
Speaker 1: our changes over on Patreon, we've already had some of
10:25
Speaker 1: our That was the thing. If you are already a
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Speaker 1: Patreon and you're hearing this and you signed up at
10:30
Speaker 1: the three dollars level for the early and ad free
10:34
Speaker 1: and the Friday things, you are grandfathered in. No, they
10:39
Speaker 1: just what happens is on Patreon, I just unpublished that
10:42
Speaker 1: old tier and nothing changes it. So if you leave
10:45
Speaker 1: it though, you can't go back to it. But if
10:47
Speaker 1: you just stay in it, you get the early and
10:50
Speaker 1: ad free and the Friday episodes at that the level
10:55
Speaker 1: that you're in, because we didn't want to like kick
10:57
Speaker 1: you guys out and be like, hey, you got to
10:59
Speaker 1: resign up and pay more something for the same benefits,
11:02
Speaker 1: so you you're grandfathered in for that. But just know
11:04
Speaker 1: if you leave, that tier is gone, so you can't
11:07
Speaker 1: get back to that tier if you leave and then
11:09
Speaker 1: you want to come back. You to get the same benefits,
11:11
Speaker 1: you'd have to do the five dollar tier.
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Speaker 2: It's there, yes, but it's not published so you can't
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Speaker 2: say it to access it.
11:18
Speaker 1: Yes, but you are in that tier, so it it.
11:21
Speaker 1: That's the tier you're in, just nobody else can join it.
11:24
Speaker 1: And that's just how Patreon works, so you don't have
11:27
Speaker 1: to move, shuffle people around and things like that. But yeah,
11:30
Speaker 1: we did. So we wanted to think the people that
11:32
Speaker 1: have already that were they were on our they were
11:34
Speaker 1: already patrons and.
11:35
Speaker 2: They just upgraded some stuff.
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Speaker 1: Graded some stuff. So we really really appreciated.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Amy, Lynn, Rachel, Tommy, Tom's been around a while,
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Speaker 2: Lisa and Karen, they are all upgrade.
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Speaker 1: We thank you very very much. We really appreciate it
11:51
Speaker 1: and supporting us through all of this. But so on
11:55
Speaker 1: this episode. So that's all all that podcast business out
11:58
Speaker 1: of the way, we are going into If you haven't
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Speaker 1: seen a toxic love story like Stu hasn't seen.
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Speaker 2: It, Oh, I've seen it.
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Speaker 1: No, you're If you haven't seen a toxic love story
12:12
Speaker 1: on Netflix and you don't want spoilers, you might want
12:14
Speaker 1: to pause this and then come back to it after
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Speaker 1: you watch it on Netflix, because I'm fixing to just
12:19
Speaker 1: I'm fixing to tell Stu all about it and because
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Speaker 1: he don't know nothing about it. I watched it.
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Speaker 2: No, Stuve's been doing yard work trying to get the.
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Speaker 1: Yes, we are moving. Just a quick update on the moving.
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Speaker 1: We are moving in three weeks, three little over three weeks.
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Speaker 1: We got tons of stuff to do around the house.
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Speaker 1: We will be recording because again part of the new
12:44
Speaker 1: upgrading a beat near us, the new US is that
12:46
Speaker 1: we are going to be professional and we're going to
12:48
Speaker 1: put things out on time when we say we are.
12:51
Speaker 1: We promise you that. That's why we've been working over
12:53
Speaker 1: the last couple of months to try to get ahead.
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Speaker 1: So we will. We will still have episodes going out
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Speaker 1: while we're moving that we're going to re record to
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Speaker 1: give get you guys. And then so, yeah, we're moving
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Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks. We're clear to clothes. So
13:08
Speaker 1: that's all. That's what they say. So we should have
13:11
Speaker 1: that all in order. Where I had to sign over
13:15
Speaker 1: my power of attorney so Stu could sign for me.
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Speaker 1: And then what's funny is so we're signing the paperwork
13:24
Speaker 1: or whatever and I said, uh, so, I said, which
13:29
Speaker 1: one do we? So we just printed out like a
13:30
Speaker 1: generic one you can get it like Texas dot gov
13:32
Speaker 1: or whatever, and it has all these different things that
13:35
Speaker 1: you initial buy if you want them to have. What
13:38
Speaker 1: do you want them to have access to? We had
13:42
Speaker 1: to pause do show me the kids acting a fool
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Speaker 1: in their room and I'm like, I'm trying to talk
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Speaker 1: and think, okay.
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Speaker 2: Well you're looking at me, like what are you looking
13:48
Speaker 2: at on your phone? That's hot?
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Speaker 1: Yes, So the notary comes over and we're filling it out,
13:52
Speaker 1: and so you initial by all the things that you
13:56
Speaker 1: want them to have access to. That can be basically
13:59
Speaker 1: anything like hell, it could be financial, real estate. So
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Speaker 1: I just was like, So Stu was like, well, just
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Speaker 1: do them all down there, because then you can initial
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Speaker 1: by the one that says oh, you can initial next
14:10
Speaker 1: is oh, and it says all and I was like,
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Speaker 1: I ain't doing that. I said, I've seen this date
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Speaker 1: Line episode. So I just initial to the next to
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Speaker 1: the A, which is real estate transactions or whatever, and
14:23
Speaker 1: I'm like, he ain't trapping me like that gonna have me. Well,
14:26
Speaker 1: then we send it into the title company and everything
14:30
Speaker 1: for them to look at and they come back they're like, oh,
14:32
Speaker 1: you actually need this initial next to A and E
14:35
Speaker 1: for financial transaction as well. So then he's like, well,
14:38
Speaker 1: if you just initial next to oh, for all we
14:40
Speaker 1: would be doing. So I don't.
14:43
Speaker 2: I can't off you right now anyway.
14:46
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to you need me to get you
14:48
Speaker 1: out of here first and then then to get you
14:52
Speaker 1: out of here. No, you need me to get you
14:54
Speaker 1: out of here. No, not without financial runs.
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Speaker 2: Do been there before. I ain't scared.
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Speaker 1: No, we have to. You need me to get you
15:06
Speaker 1: out of here, and then at least one year from
15:09
Speaker 1: when we move, because that's the time limit. If if
15:14
Speaker 1: I lose my job or quit before a year, work
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Speaker 1: makes me pay.
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Speaker 2: All this time, makes me pay all that back, all
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Speaker 2: this back.
15:21
Speaker 1: Not if I'm dead, then they're gonna come for you.
15:25
Speaker 2: Thein coming from me. You're gonna be dead, And I'm
15:27
Speaker 2: sure there's a clause in there that if you croak,
15:29
Speaker 2: they're not gonna be like, Oh, let's go get the
15:30
Speaker 2: family for all their moving cars place I work for.
15:33
Speaker 1: Oh, yes, they want I don't think so, I do
15:37
Speaker 1: think so.
15:39
Speaker 2: So.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's where we are on the move. We're
15:41
Speaker 1: just real busy around here trying to get things done.
15:43
Speaker 1: Stuo's been out in the yard working a whole bunch.
15:45
Speaker 1: I've been trying to work from home.
15:46
Speaker 2: One hundred degrees out there.
15:47
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's so hot up. The kids don't
15:50
Speaker 1: even want to go outside and like swim it's so hot.
15:52
Speaker 1: I mean, I try to get them to go out
15:53
Speaker 1: today and go swimming. They wouldn't even go. No, they
15:55
Speaker 1: just kept putting it off. They're like, oh, we want
15:57
Speaker 1: to swim, and I'm like, no, you don't because you're
15:59
Speaker 1: not actively trying.
16:00
Speaker 2: Now, the pool temperature is ninety degrees and the heater's
16:03
Speaker 2: not on. It's just ninety degrees in the pool.
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Speaker 1: So tomorrow though, I don't care. They're still awake now
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Speaker 1: they're going out in the pool for hours. I don't
16:10
Speaker 1: really care if they want to or not. I'm just
16:12
Speaker 1: gonna lock them out of the house, all right. So
16:15
Speaker 1: that's what we have going on. That's our main thing is.
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Speaker 2: You just made it sound like you're gonna send some
16:19
Speaker 2: small children out to.
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Speaker 1: The I'm not. I mean I'll be out there with them.
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying from the hours of three pm. Because
16:26
Speaker 1: I gotta wait till the sun's a little bit down
16:29
Speaker 1: a little bit. From three pm to seven pm, they're
16:31
Speaker 1: in the pool outside burning their energy off except for
16:35
Speaker 1: the tea drill. She doesn't have to do that. She
16:36
Speaker 1: can she can come in whenever she wants. She goes
16:40
Speaker 1: to bed, and now she's talk because she won't take
16:41
Speaker 1: a nap. Though she's got her own problems. She stopped
16:44
Speaker 1: taking naps. And then last night she fell asleep watching
16:48
Speaker 1: the movie or whatever we were watching at seven at seven,
16:52
Speaker 1: which is early for her, she fell asleep and then
16:55
Speaker 1: she woke up at like four something. We didn't hear
16:57
Speaker 1: or anything because we were up late because the baby
16:59
Speaker 1: would go to sleep, and so we slept right through it. Everything.
17:03
Speaker 1: She managed to get out of her sleepsack because she
17:05
Speaker 1: still uses a sleepsack, and she's in a crib, and
17:08
Speaker 1: so now we're going to have to transition her to
17:10
Speaker 1: a toddler bed because she got out of her sleepsack
17:12
Speaker 1: and almost flung herself over the rail the rail, So yes,
17:16
Speaker 1: we have that to look forward to. All right, now
17:19
Speaker 1: we've got all that out of the way, let's get
17:22
Speaker 1: into Oh that's the other thing. We will make sure
17:24
Speaker 1: and try to have a true crime documentary to talk
17:25
Speaker 1: about on these each Friday. So it'll be life updates,
17:30
Speaker 1: chit chat, hanging out, talk about true crime documentary or
17:36
Speaker 1: most likely hasn't seen or some documentary. What documentary?
17:40
Speaker 2: Well, you watch that one about the boat that flipped
17:41
Speaker 2: over on a time, you think.
17:42
Speaker 1: That that's technically a crime. Somebody went to jail. Okay,
17:46
Speaker 1: multiple people went to geil over that. We can talk
17:50
Speaker 1: about that one next time. All right, So here we
17:54
Speaker 1: go Flicks A Toxic love story again. If you have
17:58
Speaker 1: not seen it, this is going to be it's all spoilers.
18:01
Speaker 2: You're listening to it now, yep.
18:04
Speaker 1: Okay. So it's about a love triangle that takes place
18:07
Speaker 1: in Anaheim, California. The setup is this, It's early twenty sixteen.
18:12
Speaker 1: There's a US marshal named n Diaz. He meets a
18:15
Speaker 1: woman named Angela on a dating app. They fall fast,
18:20
Speaker 1: and within a month they are married and moving into
18:22
Speaker 1: his condo. He met her at Starbucks. It was like
18:26
Speaker 1: one of those I can't it's like love at first sight,
18:30
Speaker 1: kind of like when you saw me sure, sure, yeah,
18:33
Speaker 1: that's what makes you sleep at night. Yeah. So anyway,
18:37
Speaker 1: so after a month they're already living together.
18:39
Speaker 2: So this is kind of like us.
18:41
Speaker 1: What that is not even though I moved into an
18:44
Speaker 1: apartment near in the same apartment complex, and then I
18:48
Speaker 1: stayed at your apartment all the time, but technically I did.
18:52
Speaker 1: We didn't live together. I had my own place. I
18:54
Speaker 1: only slept it three times. And then I'm yeah, it
18:58
Speaker 1: used to be nice. She used to make me chalk
19:00
Speaker 1: what Martini's used to make me eggs.
19:02
Speaker 2: It used to be nice to me.
19:04
Speaker 1: Well, things change. I used to be able to laugh
19:07
Speaker 1: and not pee.
19:08
Speaker 2: But here we are. Here, we are a napkin.
19:13
Speaker 1: All right. So yeah, so it's a complete whirlwind of
19:16
Speaker 1: a romance. But immediately things start getting dark, and not
19:22
Speaker 1: because of what's happening between Angela and In. There's an
19:25
Speaker 1: outside force if you oh no, So Angela starts receiving
19:29
Speaker 1: these horrific threatening emails from an anonymous account calling themselves
19:33
Speaker 1: Lilith is Truth, and the threats just keep getting worse
19:37
Speaker 1: and worse. The cinder starts attaching pictures of dead bodies,
19:41
Speaker 1: and eventually the cinder creates a fake Craigslist ad posting
19:44
Speaker 1: Angela's face and address. Now this is where it gets
19:48
Speaker 1: really disturbing, and I wonder if that person that we
19:51
Speaker 1: had that trial we had not long ago got the
19:54
Speaker 1: ideal from this. I don't remember this case, but apparently
19:57
Speaker 1: it was real big in the news. What was going on. Also,
20:00
Speaker 1: before we get into the next part, the Lilith whole thing,
20:03
Speaker 1: Apparently Lilith is some sort of character in history that
20:08
Speaker 1: was like temp tried to tempt Adam or something I
20:13
Speaker 1: don't remember. Or she's like basically like the Devil's spot
20:16
Speaker 1: or something.
20:17
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was actually with the devil. She left at him,
20:23
Speaker 2: she was working for the devil, got with the devil,
20:25
Speaker 2: married the devil or something. I don't know.
20:27
Speaker 1: Yeah, So there's a lot of there's a feeling of
20:29
Speaker 1: like biblical undertones to all these emails that this Angela
20:33
Speaker 1: is receiving, with all these death threats, so things really
20:37
Speaker 1: take it up a notch whenever the person post Angela's
20:40
Speaker 1: face and address trying to get men to show up
20:43
Speaker 1: at her house to act out violent fantasies against her.
20:45
Speaker 1: So like rape fantasies, which that's what I'm talking about.
20:49
Speaker 1: Remember that case where that's how he killed his wife.
20:54
Speaker 1: He he killed the guy who he the guy.
20:59
Speaker 2: He found the guy on the on the website.
21:01
Speaker 1: Yes, he posted saying she wanted no.
21:04
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was it himself or he was posting as her.
21:10
Speaker 1: I thought, No, I'm saying he posted as her saying
21:13
Speaker 1: I want someone to come over and break in or
21:16
Speaker 1: pretend to break in and pretend to rape me. That's
21:19
Speaker 1: my fantasy. Yes, and then he got somebody to come
21:23
Speaker 1: do it. Yes, and he kills the guy.
21:25
Speaker 2: That came in, that came in and kills her.
21:29
Speaker 1: Yes, and he went to jail. I think he had
21:31
Speaker 1: a girlfriend on it.
21:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had the Brazilian ou pair or nanny. I
21:35
Speaker 2: was yes, that he was diddling and wanted to get
21:38
Speaker 2: with her.
21:38
Speaker 1: So I wonder when that happened here recently. This was
21:41
Speaker 1: twenty sixteen, So.
21:42
Speaker 2: I'm wondering if he got the idea from him maybe.
21:45
Speaker 1: Maybe he's like heard that, like let me just put
21:47
Speaker 1: it back in the brain and see maybe I can
21:49
Speaker 1: use that because people are sick like that. Yeah, so
21:54
Speaker 1: this is happening for her and uh so In and Angela.
21:58
Speaker 1: They go to the police overall this obviously because it's
22:01
Speaker 1: very scary, and they immediately are saying, we know who's
22:04
Speaker 1: doing this. It's this crazy bitch that In used to date.
22:09
Speaker 1: His ex girlfriend named Michelle Hadley. Well, the thing is
22:14
Speaker 1: is they're saying, well, why would she The police are
22:16
Speaker 1: asking that, why is? Why is would Michelle want to
22:19
Speaker 1: do all this stuff too? Like this is extreme behavior
22:22
Speaker 1: over In and he's not even that cute, you know,
22:24
Speaker 1: Like and so In had just broken up with Michelle
22:29
Speaker 1: shortly before he met Angela, and Michelle used to live
22:31
Speaker 1: in that exact same condo and part of the threats
22:34
Speaker 1: that she was receiving Angela talked about the condo and
22:39
Speaker 1: how that's my house and die bitch and whatever, you know,
22:43
Speaker 1: like really hateful stuff. So it was clear that it
22:45
Speaker 1: was coming from Michelle because that was her condo. So
22:50
Speaker 1: they're at the police department. Like we said, In is
22:53
Speaker 1: a US Marshall, so he has some influence, like he's
22:57
Speaker 1: one of them, you know, one of the cops, and
22:59
Speaker 1: so he really pushes on this whole Michelle thing. They
23:02
Speaker 1: have bodycam footage of them talking to him, and he's
23:04
Speaker 1: talking about how what a bitch Michelle is and she's
23:07
Speaker 1: psycho and she needs to be and telling all these
23:09
Speaker 1: stories about her. So you know, it's like, Okay, well
23:12
Speaker 1: he's got this crazy ex girlfriend and so the police
23:15
Speaker 1: really lean in this and like, Okay, he's one of
23:18
Speaker 1: Like he's one of our people. We got to believe in.
23:22
Speaker 1: They completely run Michelle like they they say she's did it.
23:27
Speaker 1: They plaster her mugshot all over TV like she is
23:31
Speaker 1: painted as this psycho, ex girlfriend, stalker. They expose all
23:35
Speaker 1: these emails she's writing this fate, this rape fantasy thing
23:39
Speaker 1: on Craigslist, which is really disturbing for someone to do
23:42
Speaker 1: to somebody. So yeah, so they basically run Michelle's.
23:46
Speaker 2: Ok cause she's a complete psycho.
23:47
Speaker 1: Yes, because they're saying she's a complete.
23:49
Speaker 2: Do you have her phone number.
23:53
Speaker 1: Anyway?
23:54
Speaker 2: So for somebody whom I want to know.
23:56
Speaker 1: So I knew something was going on because I looked
23:58
Speaker 1: and I was like, man, this is a short documentary.
24:00
Speaker 1: So I paused it and we were only forty three
24:02
Speaker 1: minutes in. There was forty five minutes less. I'm like, oh,
24:05
Speaker 1: things are things must not be as they seem, or
24:08
Speaker 1: Michelle as crazy. She gets out.
24:10
Speaker 2: And she's kills everybody, kills everybody.
24:13
Speaker 1: We don't know, you know, I don't know where I
24:14
Speaker 1: was going. So yeah, so this is where it starts
24:17
Speaker 1: getting completely insane. Like I said, the first half is
24:19
Speaker 1: all being told through the perspective in an Angela. So
24:23
Speaker 1: they are during the documentary, they're they're showing Michelle. We see,
24:28
Speaker 1: we're going to get to talk to Michelle. Like they're
24:30
Speaker 1: showing Michelle in current day, getting at a table, getting dressed, yes,
24:34
Speaker 1: doing her Netflix entry because there's the new trend, there's
24:38
Speaker 1: the trend on like TikTok and everything. It's like preparing
24:42
Speaker 1: for my Netflix documentary. Then it says like something like
24:46
Speaker 1: preparing for my next flip Netflix documentary where I had
24:49
Speaker 1: a true crime podcast and I murdered my husband or
24:51
Speaker 1: something like what I'm thinking that would be my Netflix documentary.
24:57
Speaker 1: And then it shows them like walking in. You know
24:59
Speaker 1: on the Netflix docum, they're always walking in, They're always adjusting,
25:01
Speaker 1: they're looking around, They're like here, I talk here, you know, like.
25:03
Speaker 2: That, putting on their headphones.
25:05
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so back to this. So we get back,
25:08
Speaker 1: we get to the second half of the documentary and
25:11
Speaker 1: now we start seeing Michelle. So some of these officers,
25:17
Speaker 1: they don't Michelle's in jail for this. I mean, like
25:20
Speaker 1: this is serious because there's some of the men that
25:22
Speaker 1: we're gonna rape her actually showed up to the house.
25:24
Speaker 1: They didn't rape the the angela lady or whatever, but
25:28
Speaker 1: they actually were going to, you know, in the course
25:31
Speaker 1: the guy, which the guys we got into this last
25:35
Speaker 1: time with this whole when we talked about that other case.
25:38
Speaker 1: If that's what your fantasy, I guess is and it's consensual,
25:41
Speaker 1: then I guess whatever you know. But then we get
25:44
Speaker 1: a lot of these. It seems like I can't believe
25:46
Speaker 1: this has happened more than once, that people are putting
25:48
Speaker 1: people on craigslists that don't actually want this to happen
25:50
Speaker 1: to them and pretending to be and men are showing up.
25:53
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like there's some due diligence there for.
25:54
Speaker 2: You to, as the man that you ought to make
25:56
Speaker 2: sure that the people you're going to meet are.
25:58
Speaker 1: The Yes, I think you should go to their house
26:01
Speaker 1: at least once and then don't tell them that you're
26:03
Speaker 1: going to break in that day and then go do it.
26:05
Speaker 1: But I think you should go to their house and
26:07
Speaker 1: sit down and meet the person. I don't think we
26:08
Speaker 1: should just be being like, oh, yeah, they said I could
26:10
Speaker 1: rape them, like I have.
26:11
Speaker 2: A cup of coffee and discuss when you want to
26:14
Speaker 2: be raped.
26:14
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like we need some more playing. Yes. So
26:22
Speaker 1: at this point in the documentary, we start talking about Angela.
26:27
Speaker 1: So remember the Angela's the new girlfriend. He she ends
26:32
Speaker 1: up within three months though I forgot to mention this,
26:34
Speaker 1: within three months of getting together. Within she gets pregnant
26:39
Speaker 1: with twins.
26:39
Speaker 2: Oh Jesus.
26:40
Speaker 1: So they get married of course, within you know, a
26:43
Speaker 1: couple months. So then we start hearing about this other
26:48
Speaker 1: about Angela and this other group of people that she
26:51
Speaker 1: was friends with, and she was dating this guy I think,
26:54
Speaker 1: and she basically faked cancer and all this stuff and everything.
26:59
Speaker 1: So we start to see Angela as a crazy person.
27:02
Speaker 1: But this hasn't been talked about with the police or anything.
27:04
Speaker 1: This is just the documentary kind of building up showing, Hey,
27:08
Speaker 1: Angela's crazy.
27:09
Speaker 2: So she's faking cancer. No, she was fakings or the twins.
27:16
Speaker 1: Too, well, she was faking cancer in a different relationship.
27:20
Speaker 1: This is this new relationship within. She doesn't have cancer
27:22
Speaker 1: in this.
27:22
Speaker 2: Because we did the one about the girl that had
27:24
Speaker 2: the baby that she was.
27:25
Speaker 1: Pregnant, we're gonna get into it. So some of the
27:29
Speaker 1: police officers were just not real confident in all of
27:34
Speaker 1: a sudden this Michelle just goes off the deep end
27:37
Speaker 1: and turns into this psychopath and doing this type of thing.
27:40
Speaker 1: So they started looking into it a little bit more
27:43
Speaker 1: like some things just didn't feel right to home. So
27:44
Speaker 1: they start looking into actually doing their looking into it.
27:47
Speaker 1: Instead of just believing this guy that's a US marshal
27:51
Speaker 1: just because he's a police officer, he's you know, telling
27:54
Speaker 1: the truth, they start looking into, like the IP addresses,
27:57
Speaker 1: log in histories where the email and craiglis list posts
28:01
Speaker 1: were actually coming from, and the trail doesn't lead to Michelle.
28:06
Speaker 2: Inside the house, they.
28:07
Speaker 1: Were coming from side. The calls coming from inside the house,
28:10
Speaker 1: it was back to Angela. So the investigators find that
28:14
Speaker 1: the emails from Lily is truth. All the ones with
28:17
Speaker 1: like I mean like she was sending very disturbing thing
28:19
Speaker 1: like aborted babies. It was, it was a lot like
28:22
Speaker 1: it was very disturbing were sent from IP addresses and
28:25
Speaker 1: devices connected to Angela and to places tied to her family,
28:29
Speaker 1: not Michelle. In other words, Angela was sending threatening emails
28:32
Speaker 1: to herself and setting up those Craiglist ads to get raped,
28:35
Speaker 1: and then of course she was able to stop them
28:37
Speaker 1: before it happened because she knew they were coming. So, yeah,
28:41
Speaker 1: so she's using VPNs, fake accounts, burner phones, she does
28:46
Speaker 1: a you know, the full on ie being stalk performance.
28:49
Speaker 1: She even what kept and what kept got Michelle behind
28:52
Speaker 1: bars for the longest was she claimed that Michelle came
28:56
Speaker 1: into her garage and it attacked her from behind, like
28:59
Speaker 1: choked her and everything. And that's what you know, she
29:01
Speaker 1: physically at that point, or she said that she physically
29:05
Speaker 1: harmed her. So that's when it took it to the
29:07
Speaker 1: next level, because you know, stalking, I mean, you can
29:09
Speaker 1: stock someone all day long, it seems like these days,
29:11
Speaker 1: until they actually do.
29:12
Speaker 2: So she don't trespass her touch them.
29:13
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, well.
29:15
Speaker 2: How they how they get away with that? Just go
29:17
Speaker 2: based on her word?
29:20
Speaker 1: Yes, And so the investigators really that were that found
29:23
Speaker 1: out that these IP addresses, these emails, these craigslists were
29:26
Speaker 1: all coming from Angela. They re looked at all the
29:28
Speaker 1: injuries that she claimed she got from this attack in
29:31
Speaker 1: the garage and nothing added up. For what if they
29:34
Speaker 1: if the investigators who had originally done it had looked
29:37
Speaker 1: at it, they would have seen that the injuries that
29:38
Speaker 1: she had did not line up with what she was
29:41
Speaker 1: telling them.
29:42
Speaker 2: I mean I'm just counting all the money that Michelle
29:44
Speaker 2: is about to get.
29:46
Speaker 1: I know, I hope she got a ton of money.
29:49
Speaker 1: She got a ton of I don't think they mentioned that.
29:51
Speaker 2: I hope she got plenty of money out of us.
29:53
Speaker 1: Yes, So, as the documentary explains, a lot of this
29:56
Speaker 1: seems to come down to a lot of can troll
30:00
Speaker 1: and resentment. So we've got crazy Angela blaming Michelle, who
30:04
Speaker 1: is now not crazy, appearing to be just this innocent
30:08
Speaker 1: person in all this. So now that they found out
30:11
Speaker 1: that Michelle wasn't actually doing all this, it's Angela. They
30:14
Speaker 1: want to understand. Is it just because Angela hates Michelle
30:18
Speaker 1: because she's the ex girlfriend, or is there more to it.
30:21
Speaker 1: So that's when they find out that that condo that
30:23
Speaker 1: Inn and Michelle had there was like a real messy
30:26
Speaker 1: fight between them about like who owned it, how much money,
30:30
Speaker 1: who's responsible for repairs? I mean it was a dirt
30:33
Speaker 1: and like a nasty fight about this.
30:35
Speaker 2: I can imagine. Yeah, because condo is.
30:37
Speaker 1: Not in California, I'm sure, Well, it's not a.
30:40
Speaker 2: Single family home, so there's association fees and all kinds
30:43
Speaker 2: of other stuff to go along with.
30:44
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you have to keep it probably up to
30:46
Speaker 1: a certain standard and everything. So yeah, they start to wonder,
30:50
Speaker 1: is Angela the only one? Is this all just Angela?
30:53
Speaker 1: Because Angela's crazy, She's faked cancer in the past, She's
30:55
Speaker 1: like this crazy bitch or whatever.
30:57
Speaker 2: Or is Anne involved or is an involved?
31:00
Speaker 1: And so they start they rego, they go all the
31:02
Speaker 1: way back through all of the body cam footage of In,
31:06
Speaker 1: and he's really egging on Angela with all this, and
31:10
Speaker 1: he's just really hateful towards Michelle. And like I said,
31:13
Speaker 1: he made up some stuff saying she was crazy and
31:16
Speaker 1: she locked herself in a room and did something like
31:18
Speaker 1: just making up all this stuff, so you thought she
31:20
Speaker 1: was He built the whole thing up that she was crazy.
31:24
Speaker 1: So when it all comes down to it, they find
31:26
Speaker 1: out that in Michelle or in Angela, we're just so
31:30
Speaker 1: vindictive towards Michelle. Like In got crazy because Angela was
31:36
Speaker 1: already crazy, so it was easy for him to tip
31:38
Speaker 1: her over. There was no twins either. It was easy
31:41
Speaker 1: for Into.
31:43
Speaker 2: Just gonna throw that spoiler alert in there no twins either.
31:45
Speaker 1: Yes, it was easy for In to get Angela to
31:51
Speaker 1: tear to like take down Michelle because Angela was already
31:54
Speaker 1: teetering on the on insanity as it was. And so
31:58
Speaker 1: in the end, Michelle she spent eighty eight days in
32:01
Speaker 1: jail for something she didn't do.
32:03
Speaker 2: Wow.
32:03
Speaker 1: Yeah, And she was exonerated in twenty seventeen. So she
32:07
Speaker 1: spent like a year of her life either being like
32:09
Speaker 1: blasted in the news and everybody on probably Facebook telling
32:12
Speaker 1: her she's a psycho bitch. And then Angelo was arrested
32:16
Speaker 1: the day that they exonerated Michelle, and she pled guilty
32:20
Speaker 1: to forgery, false imprisonment, and kidnapping and was sentenced to
32:24
Speaker 1: five years in prison. Lovely old in the US Marshal
32:29
Speaker 1: He was arrested a few years later and he was
32:31
Speaker 1: found guilty of stalking, perjury, and obstruction of justice and
32:35
Speaker 1: was sentenced over ten years in federal prison.
32:37
Speaker 2: Well that's good, which.
32:39
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention the reason that they re looked
32:41
Speaker 1: into this is because he was a US Marshal. It
32:43
Speaker 1: was the Department of Justice came in to oversee and
32:46
Speaker 1: make sure there wasn't any funny.
32:47
Speaker 2: Business, some hanky panky.
32:49
Speaker 1: Yes, they it was probably supposed to be just a
32:51
Speaker 1: general thing, and they're like, wait a minute, we actually
32:52
Speaker 1: might have found something you know, like very like, Oh,
32:56
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's just above the book.
32:58
Speaker 2: We're just gonna check this out.
33:00
Speaker 1: I'm crazy bitch or whatever. So yeah, so that's the
33:03
Speaker 1: uh A toxic love story. It's a pretty good documentary. Yeah,
33:07
Speaker 1: it's it's I knew something crazy was going to happen
33:09
Speaker 1: when we were forty minutes in and there there were
33:11
Speaker 1: still forty minutes left, Like, oh.
33:14
Speaker 2: Shouldn't be going to jail here and just putting a bow.
33:17
Speaker 1: On this, let me know, because sometimes they get out
33:18
Speaker 1: and like kill somebody or something. Yeah. So but yeah,
33:23
Speaker 1: go check it out if you haven't seen it. Do
33:25
Speaker 1: you have any thoughts on anything?
33:28
Speaker 2: I have all kinds of thoughts on all kinds of things.
33:30
Speaker 2: Would you like to hear them?
33:32
Speaker 1: No, I'd just rather it's getting late on the porch stew.
33:37
Speaker 1: The bugs are coming.
33:38
Speaker 2: That is what I thought.
33:41
Speaker 1: The bugs are coming out.
33:44
Speaker 2: All right.
33:44
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33:58
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34:03
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34:08
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34:11
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34:20
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34:22
Speaker 1: Drink what job could you drink at work? Alcohol?
34:34
Speaker 2: Government employee? Evidently government employee for a while, airline pilots.
34:38
Speaker 1: Stay at home wife.
34:40
Speaker 2: Stay at home Dad's no, it would.
34:44
Speaker 1: Be stay at home husband. You should be Although those
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Speaker 1: earlier in the day.
34:53
Speaker 2: And the girls are going to be going to our meetings.
34:56
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Whenever I'd go to like stuff for
34:58
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35:00
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35:06
Speaker 1: you know, noon, drinking their rose. I was like, man,
35:12
Speaker 1: I made some mistakes in life.
35:14
Speaker 2: Well, I supported those mistakes, Stu, do you think I
35:18
Speaker 2: should go do this? Sure? I know. Do you think
35:21
Speaker 2: I should apply to this company? Yeah? Absolutely? Sic Like,
35:25
Speaker 2: why would you spend all that time in school and
35:27
Speaker 2: not go and apply with this this company?
35:29
Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying, No, what's funny is, Stu, is
35:32
Speaker 1: you would think that he would be, you know, just
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Speaker 1: all the crazy things I come up with, he would
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Speaker 1: which he's on a podcast right now that I talked
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Speaker 1: to him into doing and didn't really really have to.
35:42
Speaker 2: I didn't think I was going to go that far.
35:44
Speaker 2: I thought you were gonna get tired of it and
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Speaker 2: it was going to flop within the first three or
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Speaker 2: four episodes.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. So what's funny is I come up with all
35:53
Speaker 1: these If you guys have been around for a while,
35:55
Speaker 1: you know, I come up with all these crazy things,
35:57
Speaker 1: these crazy business plans, these crazy I'm gonna be a
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Speaker 1: bake bakery, a micro bakery. I'm gonna run I do.
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Speaker 1: I do tend to run them for a little bit,
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Speaker 1: and then is lost.
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Speaker 2: Well think the micro bakery.
36:08
Speaker 1: Well, I was doing bake goods. I did sell those
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Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day and I made like sixty dollars. I
36:12
Speaker 1: thought that was pretty good.
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Speaker 2: All those cupcakes or whatever, the.
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Speaker 1: Cookies I made the little cookies on I like the
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Speaker 1: ideal of it or whatever, but I don't like the
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Speaker 1: execution of it because it's really messy to bake. But
36:27
Speaker 1: I have a new a new business plan. I am
36:31
Speaker 1: not going to tell you guys. You might steal it, Okay,
36:34
Speaker 1: I'm kidding. So we moved. So I did supper club
36:37
Speaker 1: when I was here, and apparently I was illegally selling food.
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Speaker 1: I didn't realize that. I thought I was under the
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Speaker 1: cottage food laws. But apparently you can't sell anything with
36:44
Speaker 1: meat in it under Texas cottage food laws. But that's
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Speaker 1: neither here north there. That was a year ago. I
36:49
Speaker 1: was doing.
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Speaker 2: If you're in law enforcement, statute limitations run.
36:53
Speaker 1: Yes. So I was doing supper clubs. So basically what
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Speaker 1: I did is in my neighborhood. I would meal prep
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Speaker 1: things and I would make a bunch of them and
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Speaker 1: I would sell him to the neighborhood. And I was
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Speaker 1: doing pretty good with it. I mean, I wasn't making
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Speaker 1: tons of money, but it was a lot of work.
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Speaker 2: Paid for the groceries.
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Speaker 1: It paid for the My goal was for it to
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Speaker 1: pay for the groceries each month. So and then the
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Speaker 1: great thing was about if you had extras, you just
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Speaker 1: put them in the freezer and you have food, you know.
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Speaker 1: I mean, there was no real downside to it.
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Speaker 2: But then I got I didn't hit it.
37:24
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that is true. Some of them. I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I don't want that.
37:27
Speaker 2: I know who made that. I don't want it.
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Speaker 1: Oh, shut, that's not don't even say that. I am
37:32
Speaker 1: very clean when it comes to all stuff. Anyway. So
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Speaker 1: I was doing supper club and I was doing pretty
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Speaker 1: good at it, but then I got I was pregnant.
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Speaker 1: I got tired, and then I didn't pick it back
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Speaker 1: up again. But now that we're moving, I'm not pregnant anymore.
37:46
Speaker 1: The kids are, or are you? I am not pregnant.
37:50
Speaker 2: You were at that wedding and that waiter was very hot.
37:54
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was trying to get him with the
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Speaker 1: other girl. Other girl I was doing and some some
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Speaker 1: work for her, and I think it worked.
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Speaker 2: That's what you say.
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Speaker 1: I'm too embarrassed myself though, to go ask her if
38:07
Speaker 1: she hooked up with them or whatever, because you embarrass myself.
38:15
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, daily.
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Speaker 1: Yes, I was telling Stu. I was on a meeting
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Speaker 1: we'll save that for the story behind the patron because
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Speaker 1: that was about the someone at work. So we'll save
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Speaker 1: that for next time. When I turned myself into a
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Speaker 1: cow when I was moving, every time he talked, zoom
38:36
Speaker 1: meeting anyways, Okay, we'll talk about that next time. But
38:39
Speaker 1: what was I going to say?
38:42
Speaker 2: I supposedly we're trying to hug the other girl up.
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Speaker 1: No, no, we're moving on from that my business plan.
38:48
Speaker 1: But what's funny is that anytime I come with something
38:50
Speaker 1: too is like he's like, oh, yeah, we'll do that.
38:52
Speaker 1: He just he never even tells me like, this is
38:54
Speaker 1: a bad idea. This is not gonna work.
38:57
Speaker 2: A lot of times you don't want to hear it's
38:59
Speaker 2: a bad idea. Though.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so you think my current ideal is a good ideal.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so I wanted to be.
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Speaker 2: I just I have very little involvement in it.
39:07
Speaker 1: Well, you are going to be involved. You're going to
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Speaker 1: be my soushev.
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Speaker 2: This is a terrible idea.
39:11
Speaker 1: Okay, So when we move, I'm start already starting. I'm
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Speaker 1: practicing my recipes. Now I am going to be. I
39:20
Speaker 1: wanted to be known, so I decided I was like
39:22
Speaker 1: instead of my supper club, I'm going to pick one
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Speaker 1: thing and be really good at and I've decided it
39:26
Speaker 1: was going to be Lasagno. So I was going to
39:30
Speaker 1: be the Lasagna Lady. And I'm just going to name
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Speaker 1: my business the Lasagna Lady, so you'd be like, hey,
39:35
Speaker 1: it's the Lasagno Ladies. So then I start googling and
39:37
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I can't actually sell meat in as
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Speaker 1: a cottage food law. So I started thinking about it.
39:44
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm going to be the vegetarian Lasagna Lady.
39:48
Speaker 1: And I feel like we're moving down to the Houston area,
39:50
Speaker 1: so I feel like there's a lot of big, broader
39:52
Speaker 1: group of people that would be more open to a
39:54
Speaker 1: vegetarian option and not be asking me every other week
39:57
Speaker 1: can we add meat doing or whatever. So it's gonna
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Speaker 1: be like artisonal Lasagna, but instead of Lasagna Lady, h
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Speaker 1: I'm Lady Lasagna. And my logo has a crown and
40:11
Speaker 1: it's very regal. And so I'm making seasonal Lasagna's vegetable design.
40:17
Speaker 1: So I have my base one terrible idea and then
40:20
Speaker 1: what so I'm making my the harvest. It's a harvest, uh,
40:27
Speaker 1: lasagna the for fall, because I'm gonna start selling these
40:31
Speaker 1: in October we get there, So I'm practicing the recipe
40:34
Speaker 1: to mars. I'll let you guys know how it goes.
40:36
Speaker 1: I made my sauce today, I let it simmer. I'm
40:39
Speaker 1: making all the sauce homemade. Was so good, so we'll
40:42
Speaker 1: see how it goes. Yes, if this takes off to you,
40:44
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do the prep work, chopping, terrible simmering,
40:51
Speaker 1: but there won't be any meat involved, that's.
40:55
Speaker 2: What I hear. All right, Well, no, that's probably the
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Speaker 2: one nobody goes.
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Speaker 1: No one take this for me. Don't be copyrighting Lady
41:04
Speaker 1: las on you. And if you're in the housed area,
41:06
Speaker 1: come buy one of my sonias in a couple of months. Okay, anyways,
41:12
Speaker 1: but if you find out my address, don't send.
41:14
Speaker 2: Any Craigslist please fantasy.
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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, Well I think that's it for us.
41:24
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thanks for sitting with us, same porch,
41:27
Speaker 1: same time next week.
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Speaker 2: By one, that was cheesy.
41:30
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm I don't care where the porch
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Speaker 1: crew is do okay, don't run my new tagline.
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Speaker 2: I'm running it. I will step off you're.
41:38
Speaker 1: Still going to say by everyone. Oh, I'm yeah, get
41:44
Speaker 1: your Let me try it again, guys, give me another.
41:46
Speaker 2: Shot, no, take two, take twenty three.
41:49
Speaker 1: Thanks for Oh you should have seen me trying to
41:51
Speaker 1: film that drink.
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Speaker 2: Oh I was I did? I heard you. I didn't
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Speaker 2: watch it. Thank god. I had secondhand embarrassment for you
41:59
Speaker 2: and nobody else could even see it from me.
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Speaker 1: Oh, I can't wait to tell that story. Whatever, we're back.
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Speaker 1: But this isn't going out to the other story about
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Speaker 1: my secondhand embarrassment for somebody else, the same person that
42:09
Speaker 1: I am. Oh yeah, the moving Okay, all right, let's
42:13
Speaker 1: try this again.
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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm ready.
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Speaker 1: Thanks for us, Thanks for sitting with the same porch,
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Speaker 1: same time next week. Bye everyone, say bye sty Do.
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Speaker 2: Don't you know it's bad to be SUPERSTI shots by
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Speaker 2: napping else it's working, it's learning sick, it's worthy. Can