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How Breakups Rewire You: What You Carry Into Your Next Relationship
Breakups don’t just end relationships—they destabilize the nervous system. This episode reframes breakups as attachment injuries that disrupt regulation, threat detection, and identity, explaining why endings feel existential even when they’re clearly necessary. It explores how most people mistake relief for healing, use distraction or bargaining to quiet discomfort, and unknowingly carry unresolved attachment residue into the next relationship. The way a relationship ends doesn’t stay in the past—it becomes the baseline architecture for trust, safety, and connection moving forward.
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