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199 Disorganized Attachment: Recognizing It & Shifting It

What happens when you’re terrified of losing connection…and terrified of letting someone too close?

Disorganized attachment can create a confusing push-pull: chasing someone when they pull away, losing interest when they come closer, or suddenly questioning a perfectly good connection once it starts becoming real.

In this episode, we explore where this pattern can come from—and the path toward staying connected to yourself AND another person at the same time.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers — Oct 20

Learn to distinguish a trigger from a genuine relational issue, stay in your truth, deepen trust…

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