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- 0:00Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables Patreon.
- 0:02Speaker 2: This week Hot take of the Week Everyone should build
- 0:05Speaker 2: a personal brand on social media. Your personal brand is
- 0:08Speaker 2: you don't know the potential opportunities, and there's no better
- 0:12Speaker 2: feeling or reward for something that you've built all by yourself.
- 0:18Speaker 2: I keep having sex dreams about my boyfriend's best friend.
- 0:21Speaker 2: That's crazy, magic ladd stop all right. For some contexts,
- 0:29Speaker 2: we're all part of the same friend group. It has
- 0:31Speaker 2: kind of a merged between my boyfriend's group and my
- 0:33Speaker 2: group of high school friends. I have been with my
- 0:36Speaker 2: boyfriend for two years now. We all have friends that
- 0:39Speaker 2: we see more than others, and for me, that includes
- 0:42Speaker 2: a few of my close girlfriends and some of the
- 0:45Speaker 2: boys that we're close from the group. One of these guys,
- 0:48Speaker 2: let's call him James, is one of my boyfriend's close friends.
- 0:54Speaker 2: James is not my type at all, and I do
- 0:57Speaker 2: not find him attractive. I've never had a sex dream
- 1:01Speaker 2: until these dreams started. High key giving myself the ick
- 1:05Speaker 2: with these dreams, but they will not stop. I don't
- 1:10Speaker 2: know what to do, and I obviously can't tell my boyfriend.
- 1:14Speaker 2: I feel so orkies around my group and my boyfriend
- 1:18Speaker 2: and James when they are both there, and I don't
- 1:21Speaker 2: feel like I can talk to my girlies in the
- 1:23Speaker 2: car about this. And if it finds a way back
- 1:26Speaker 2: to James or my boyfriend, I'm dead. What in the.
- 1:31Speaker 1: World this secret is going with you to the grave
- 1:36Speaker 1: if you're staying, If you and your boyfriend get married,
- 1:37Speaker 1: this secret is going with you to the grave.
- 1:39Speaker 2: But if you break up, obviously, whatever, But how do
- 1:42Speaker 2: we get it out of her head? You gotta live
- 1:45Speaker 2: with them?
- 1:46Speaker 1: You actualely do you no option? If she's listening to this,
- 1:50Speaker 1: she might this episode might like make the dreams worse.
- 1:53Speaker 1: I know. And he's not your type at all? Is
- 1:57Speaker 1: it bad? If you're having sex with someone else in
- 2:00Speaker 1: your dreams, it's out of your control. You don't want
- 2:06Speaker 1: to have sex with this person in real life, but
- 2:08Speaker 1: you're dreaming about You can't control your dreams, So you
- 2:11Speaker 1: can't tell your boyfriend obviously, Nah, I don't think you
- 2:14Speaker 1: can tell anyone.
- 2:16Speaker 2: Glass half Full on Patreon.
- 2:36Speaker 1: We're in a new place, we are.
- 2:39Speaker 2: This is a safe environment. The glass half full environment
- 2:43Speaker 2: is all about mindset positivity, making you think in a
- 2:47Speaker 2: different way, turning a gear and shining a light on
- 2:51Speaker 2: potentially a negative situation or a negative word associated with
- 2:56Speaker 2: the said situation. And today, Jake, I wanted to talk
- 3:01Speaker 2: all about rejection because I feel like rejection is such
- 3:06Speaker 2: a relatable thing that everyone has to experience, and when
- 3:10Speaker 2: you're in it, it's so hard to not be overwhelmed
- 3:15Speaker 2: or enveloped by the feeling because it feels like an
- 3:18Speaker 2: attack on you, an attack on your persona, an attack
- 3:21Speaker 2: on everything about you. Yeah, when in reality it's something
- 3:24Speaker 2: that you can't really control. So I have a couple
- 3:28Speaker 2: mindset shifts that I wanted to talk about.
- 3:31Speaker 1: Okay, so glass half.
- 3:34Speaker 2: Full obviously is playing on the metaphor. You can never
- 3:37Speaker 2: look at a glass half empty where you're like, oh
- 3:40Speaker 2: my drinks are almost done, ah damn it, or half
- 3:43Speaker 2: my drink's.
- 3:44Speaker 1: Half full, it's still half full.
- 3:45Speaker 2: Yeah, I got heaps last, let's go. So the first
- 3:48Speaker 2: mindset shift, I can't say that today. Mindset shift, Yeah
- 3:51Speaker 2: that was good is glass half empty would be if
- 3:55Speaker 2: you got rejected I wasn't good enough. Yes, But the
- 3:59Speaker 2: glass half four approach to being rejected is this opens
- 4:03Speaker 2: the door to find someone who's better suited for me.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Oh shit, So rather than dwelling on the fact that, like,
- 4:09Speaker 2: I wasn't good enough for said person. You're like, nah,
- 4:12Speaker 2: fuck that guy. It was his problem, not me.
- 4:15Speaker 1: Facts.
- 4:16Speaker 2: They couldn't realize the person I was, and I'm better
- 4:18Speaker 2: suited for someone else. They're fucking lost, fucking Oarth. That's
- 4:22Speaker 2: the agreed. Yeah, so that's kind of the essence, And
- 4:25Speaker 2: I got a couple more as well. I think that's
- 4:27Speaker 2: one of the valuable lessons I've learned going through life
- 4:31Speaker 2: is your perspective and mindset and the thoughts you consume
- 4:35Speaker 2: really come out through your person more than you know