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- 0:00So what's going on, everybody?
- 0:02Yo, yo.
- 0:02Hey.
- 0:03Hey, dad.
- 0:03How's it going?
- 0:04Back again.
- 0:05Sorry.
- 0:06Well, I mean, feel that energy in the room.
- 0:08Derek here.
- 0:10This guy, me, I'm Derek.
- 0:11Hi.
- 0:12Yeah, I'm Matt.
- 0:14I'm Dave.
- 0:14Do you mean the energy in their room or the energy in this room?
- 0:17Because this one, we're spreading the energy live on camera and through the speakers.
- 0:22That's not how that works.
- 0:23My son does this really stupid thing every so often, which is really funny.
- 0:26He'll come up to me and go, hi, dad.
- 0:27And he'll go, love just.
- 0:32Or like, I hope he sees this someday.
- 0:35So embarrassed by that.
- 0:36That is amazing.
- 0:37I hope somebody he knows sees this.
- 0:39That would be even better.
- 0:40I love when my kids have some weird goofy thing they come up to me and do.
- 0:43That makes me laugh.
- 0:44Yep.
- 0:45I.
- 0:46I found out that recently that we have a young man,.
- 0:53Like, I.
- 0:53Don't know, fifth grade maybe, that.
- 0:56That watches us on a pretty basis.
- 0:58Yeah.
- 0:58Shout out to the fifth grader.
- 1:00What's his name?
- 1:00Do you know?
- 1:01I don't want to like him.
- 1:02Okay.
- 1:03It's a fifth grade.
- 1:04You know who you are.
- 1:04If you're in fifth grade and you're.
- 1:05Watching this is it fifth grade.
- 1:08He might be sixth grade.
- 1:09Might be sixth grade.
- 1:10Oh, man, now I feel bad.
- 1:12Hold on.
- 1:13Yeah, I kind of want to.
- 1:15It's okay.
- 1:15It's.
- 1:15It's.
- 1:16So why don't you go ahead and comment which grade you're in, then we'll.
- 1:18No.
- 1:21Out yourself.
- 1:23No, please don't comment.
- 1:25I'm wondering if it's who I'm thinking that would be interesting.
- 1:28Well, my son's in seventh grade and he got his little map test back.
- 1:32I think it was yesterday or the day before.
- 1:33And it shows that he's in the top 82% of the country.
- 1:36And he's at a 10th grade math level at the moment, which is like, bravo, bravo.
- 1:41Yeah.
- 1:41My daughter is actually right at seventh grade math level and she's in fourth grade.
- 1:46There you go.
- 1:47Yep.
- 1:48I'm pretty sure I'm at a fourth grade math level and I'm 43, so.
- 1:52Yeah, well, my reading comprehension.
- 1:54Actually my reading comprehension is probably pretty good.
- 1:56My reading is not fair enough.
- 1:57So.
- 1:58Interesting.
- 1:58No, it's Abel.
- 2:01How old's Abel?
- 2:02Do you know?
- 2:02He's in sixth grade.
- 2:03Is he sixth grade?
- 2:04Yeah.
- 2:04Okay.
- 2:04My bad, dude.
- 2:06Yeah.
- 2:07Much love.
- 2:07Six owes you an apology.
- 2:09I was thinking he was middle school, but I couldn't remember, so.
- 2:12Yep.
- 2:13But hey, thanks for watching Shout out.
- 2:15To you yeah, he's actually amazing young dude.
- 2:18He is a really cool guy.
- 2:19So.
- 2:20Yeah.
- 2:21All right, so shout out to Abel for being awesome.
- 2:25Being awesome.
- 2:26You know, hey, if you want a hat, swing by and I'll give you one.
- 2:30Yes.
- 2:31But you, you've got to.
- 2:32You got to buy apology at this point.
- 2:34I don't know.
- 2:35Do you know any other ables.
- 2:36I don't think I've ever heard Abel.
- 2:37Well, maybe one time I've heard of.
- 2:39This one in the Bible.
- 2:40There is one in the Bible.
- 2:41Hey.
- 2:41Hey.
- 2:42Do you know why Cain is his.
- 2:46His offering was rejected.
- 2:51Because he killed Abel.
- 2:53Because he wasn't able.
- 2:54I shouldn't have.
- 2:55It's not a joke.
- 2:56I'm just.
- 2:57It was a real.
- 2:58Actually legitimately don't know.
- 2:59Oh, I thought you had like response.
- 3:00No punchline.
- 3:01I was like waiting for the punchline.
- 3:07You're lucky you didn't have a punchline.
- 3:08I didn't realize we were going to go into something theologically deep there.
- 3:10I thought we were keeping it light hearted.
- 3:12Oh, yeah, we're supposed to, aren't we?
- 3:14Dude, it's.
- 3:14It's been a long week.
- 3:15I forgot.
- 3:16What.
- 3:16What are we talking about today?
- 3:17What's.
- 3:18What.
- 3:18What's up, Dave?
- 3:19You.
- 3:19You picked the topic.
- 3:20I don't even remember.
- 3:20I don't even remember I did it last week.
- 3:22It's up to you.
- 3:23What do you got?
- 3:23Adam, Eve and Kane walk into a bar.
- 3:25No.
- 3:26No.
- 3:26Oh my goodness.
- 3:28Only because they were able.
- 3:29We were talking about church phrases that to Christians sound completely normal.
- 3:33Yeah, to Christians sound completely normal.
- 3:36But to the outside world make us sound like we're a psychotic cult.
- 3:40Oh, this will be fun.
- 3:41Mm.
- 3:42So that's what we're going to talk about today.
- 3:45I don't want to get into it quite yet.
- 3:47Okay.
- 3:47What do you want to get there quietly?
- 3:49It's because he hasn't thought of them yet.
- 3:51Oh no, because I'm trying to keep my mind clear so that it's fresh when.
- 3:54Okay.
- 3:55You know, because it's fun.
- 3:58Yeah.
- 3:59So brought to you today by the word transubstantiation.
- 4:03Ooh.
- 4:04What in the world?
- 4:05Should we start doing a word of the week?
- 4:07Look that up and put the definition in the comments.
- 4:09If you're actually paying attention, you'll get it right.
- 4:12All right.
- 4:12So yeah, that's what we're talking about today.
- 4:14What book of the Bible are you reading today?
- 4:16The Bible.
- 4:18What book of the Bible?
- 4:19It's your favorite one.
- 4:20I know it is, but which one?
- 4:22It's your favorite.
- 4:25We're gonna read Psalms.
- 4:27Oh, I love the Psalms.
- 4:28I was gonna say he has 66 favorite books.
- 4:30I don't know.
- 4:31He does have 66 favorite Bible books.
- 4:33I do, actually.
- 4:35He might have, like, what was it, 70 something.
- 4:38I know.
- 4:38I don't.
- 4:39I don't.
- 4:39I don't put the Apocrypha or any of that stuff at the same level.
- 4:43So the book of Enoch, he's an Enoch lover.
- 4:45I.
- 4:46What?
- 4:46Only describing things to him.
- 4:50All right.
- 4:51Although I do have.
- 4:52I never did get into that whole thing, like the book of Enoch and the.
- 4:55Was it like there's supposedly like a book of Mary and they're supposed to be like.
- 4:58It's rubbish.
- 5:00It's rubbish.
- 5:01Well, okay.
- 5:01The book of Enoch is not rubbish.
- 5:03No, that one's.
- 5:04But the book of all the other gospels that are the fake ones.
- 5:09They're all rubbish.
- 5:10Yeah, there you go.
- 5:10Gospel of Thomas is rubbish.
- 5:12Yeah, yeah.
- 5:13There's a lot out there that's not any good, but yeah.
- 5:16Do I do have these 66 books that are like, my favorite.
- 5:19That are your favorite books?
- 5:20Yeah, yeah.
- 5:21He's got one for every topic that we talk about on here, probably, and probably even more than that.
- 5:28So.
- 5:29Yeah, I really.
- 5:31I don't know what I was reading.
- 5:34And one of my favorite ones today, which was the book of John.
- 5:38Yeah.
- 5:39You know, that's my favorite.
- 5:40That is my favorite.
- 5:41Is it your favorite?
- 5:42Yeah, that's my favorite book.
- 5:43Yeah, it's.
- 5:44I love.
- 5:44It's just the best gospel.
- 5:45I'm just saying it's the best gospel.
- 5:48Okay.
- 5:49I.
- 5:50It's the most digestible.
- 5:51Would you say it's the most easiest to understand?
- 5:54I guess it depends on who you are.
- 5:56Well, I think that the other gospels are good for different things.
- 5:58What if your name is Cindy?
- 5:59Like, I think the other gospels are good for certain things.
- 6:02Right.
- 6:04But I think that if you're just gonna read one of the gospels, John is the best one.
- 6:09I would agree.
- 6:10Okay.
- 6:12And I feel like.
- 6:12Mostly because it reads like a.
- 6:15Like a book, like a story.
- 6:16Yeah.
- 6:17Right.
- 6:17I mean.
- 6:18Yeah, I guess so.
- 6:19But you also have like.
- 6:21So for instance, Luke, you know, Luke starts kind of like Matthew does at the birth narrative, all the way to the death.
- 6:27Sure.
- 6:28So that's always like a.
- 6:30A point.
- 6:31Right.
- 6:31Like, they have.
- 6:32They have.
- 6:32They're.
- 6:33There's.
- 6:33They're more directed at a certain audience and thing, whereas John is like, hey, everybody, Jesus loves you.
- 6:41Hey.
- 6:41You know, like, I mean, it's just like that.
- 6:43Yeah.
- 6:43Anyways, so we're going to talk about some.
- 6:46Some things that make us seem like a cult.
- 6:48And we'll see if there any truth to it.
- 6:52So I'll tell you what we're doing.
- 6:53I'll concede and I'll say that John is one of the top four gospels.
- 7:01It's number one.
- 7:02All right, look, guys, I know this is going to be a crazy episode today.
- 7:06We're going to be all over the place.
- 7:08Buckle up, buttercup.
- 7:10Welcome to the truth response.
- 7:33In the noise, in the fire we seek the truth.
- 7:37We climb higher not just echoes, not just talk we walk the path, we walk the wall.
- 7:48Truth in the battle light in the.
- 7:52Loss.
- 7:54What we see Clarity and chaos.
- 8:04Dave, would you like to pray for us?
- 8:06Oh, sure.
- 8:06Why not?
- 8:07All right, cool.
- 8:08Thank you, Jesus, for these amazing people.
- 8:09Thank you for all the opportunities that we have to spread your word.
- 8:13Thank you for this opportunity to spread your word across platforms and across countries and continents and everything else.
- 8:20I pray that you guide our conversation and help keep our own opinions out of this and keep your opinions in it.
- 8:27In Jesus name, amen.
- 8:28Amen.
- 8:30All right, so where are we going with you?
- 8:32You said you didn't want to, like,.
- 8:34You didn't want to reveal.
- 8:35Did you have something unlocking?
- 8:36No, no, no.
- 8:36I want.
- 8:37I just.
- 8:37When you hit it, when you hit, like, hey, what about this?
- 8:39I want to be able to like, hit it fresh because like, when I have too much time to prepare, I overthink it.
- 8:44All right, give us a warm up.
- 8:46A warm up.
- 8:46All right, so let's see.
- 8:49How about like God put you on my heart, right?
- 8:53That's semi okay.
- 8:54But what, what, what?
- 8:55I'm from the outside.
- 8:56I've never heard of God before.
- 8:57You walk up and say, God put you on my heart today.
- 8:59Like, I guess that would be kind of strange.
- 9:01It would be kind of weird.
- 9:02Or let's see.
- 9:04How about that?
- 9:05I'm in a season of pruning.
- 9:07How about that?
- 9:08Yeah.
- 9:09So I'm into botany.
- 9:10Right.
- 9:11Like, that's where your mind went.
- 9:13Right.
- 9:13I'm thinking about some old guy.
- 9:15I'm in a season of pruning.
- 9:16Like guy eating prunes to try to.
- 9:18Stay regular, you know, or taking a bath too long.
- 9:20Sure.
- 9:21I'm in a season of pruning.
- 9:22I really gotten into pruning in the bathtub lately.
- 9:25Like, it just sounds so great.
- 9:26Yeah.
- 9:26Yep.
- 9:27So some weird.
- 9:28Some guy you're working with and like, hey, man, how's it going at the church right now?
- 9:31Like, good.
- 9:31I'm kind of in a season of pruning.
- 9:33Right now, and he's gonna go, what.
- 9:35What.
- 9:36What do you mean you're in.
- 9:36A season of pruning's out in the baptizery all day, you know?
- 9:40So how would you define a season of pruning?
- 9:42How would I define it?
- 9:44Like, for real, explain it to somebody.
- 9:47Who doesn't understand it.
- 9:48I.
- 9:49Basically, it's.
- 9:50It's.
- 9:50It's trying to remove things that you know are not from God or are holding you back from your relationship from God and finding those little areas that.
- 9:59That God helps reveal to you that it's like, all right, this is something that you could be without.
- 10:04This is something that's not helpful.
- 10:05Yeah.
- 10:06And I think that can include the ministries that.
- 10:08That, you know, started to bud and then didn't bloom.
- 10:12Right.
- 10:12Like, things that.
- 10:13That.
- 10:14That are things you thought were the right direction.
- 10:17And then the more you got into it, the more you realize, well, this is like, this is not where God wants me.
- 10:23And so I need to cut that off.
- 10:26Yeah.
- 10:26You know what I mean?
- 10:27Like, honestly, it does work outside of the church, because sometimes people need to do some pruning in their own life.
- 10:31Like, hey, I need to get rid of this.
- 10:32My schedule's too full.
- 10:33But in the church, I mean, it's Christ especially, you know, it's trying to find those areas that they might not be bad, but they're not helping you go forward, and so therefore, you can be.
- 10:44Let them go.
- 10:45Yeah.
- 10:46You know, it's one of the things that.
- 10:48When.
- 10:48I know, when Pastor Nick got hired in Rice Christian Church, he had asked the question, you know, are you willing to give up a ministry that's working for one that's better?
- 10:58And I was like, that's an amazing question to ask because there are so many people.
- 11:02It's like, well, it's not.
- 11:03This ministry isn't bad.
- 11:04Yeah.
- 11:04It may not be bad, but it's not going anywhere.
- 11:08It's not really doing anything.
- 11:10It's just there.
- 11:11So why not?
- 11:13We got to let that go so we can do something better.
- 11:16Yeah.
- 11:16So pruning can be from good things.
- 11:19Right.
- 11:19For the better things, but also, like,.
- 11:22I mean, just getting rid of it.
- 11:24Like, maybe your language needs burning.
- 11:27Mm.
- 11:28You know, maybe you're too harsh with people.
- 11:30True.
- 11:30You know what I mean?
- 11:31Like, you realize that it's like, okay, I gotta.
- 11:34Like.
- 11:35And maybe it's not even, like, the words, but maybe the tone.
- 11:39Right.
- 11:39And you're not meaning to be, but.
- 11:42But maybe it's just like, okay, yeah, maybe I need to work on.
- 11:45On that.
- 11:46And get rid of that nasty tone or be more conscious of that.
- 11:49I would say that's also.
- 11:51Yeah, pruning, you know, Absolutely.
- 11:53Whatever you did, just stop the buzzing.
- 11:55Says, cool, good job.
- 11:56Cool.
- 11:58So, yeah, essentially you could break it down as, say, you're going through a season of changing habits and correction.
- 12:05Right.
- 12:06So you're like, all right, I'm headed that direction.
- 12:07It's not working very well.
- 12:08So same kind of thing.
- 12:09Hey, I'm not healthy, so I'm getting healthier.
- 12:12I'm, you know, using coarse language.
- 12:15So I'm learning to not use coarse language.
- 12:17Yeah.
- 12:17Anything that's not producing fruit.
- 12:20Ooh, there's another one.
- 12:21Right.
- 12:21And plays off of it, which, I mean, usually you can easily tie that to the fruit of the spirit.
- 12:28Right.
- 12:28Like so.
- 12:28Which is what?
- 12:29Which is another part of that.
- 12:32Things that sound out there, which is the fruit of the spirit, are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, self control.
- 12:41I probably missed one, but.
- 12:43And if I missed one, you caught it.
- 12:46Brownie points.
- 12:47Put it in the comments.
- 12:48Put in the comments.
- 12:50But, yeah, so those things, the things that, you know, self control, like that is a fruit, you know, and if something in your life is not, you know, allowing you to be productive in that self control area, then
- 13:03you got to cut it.
- 13:04Yeah.
- 13:05So.
- 13:06Nope, that's true.
- 13:07I went through a pretty heavy season where I had to admit to my wife that, like, I literally have no joy at the moment.
- 13:13Now, I tend to feed off of the energy of others.
- 13:15So to.
- 13:16To, To, To a degree, I manifest joy.
- 13:20In a minute.
- 13:20I show up and I'm like, hey, you guys are happy, I'm happy.
- 13:23And it just tends to kick in.
- 13:25But then as soon as they leave and as soon as that interaction's over, then it's.
- 13:28Well, that's.
- 13:28That's how you know it's not joy.
- 13:30Yeah.
- 13:31I mean, because it went away.
- 13:33Joy is something that kind of hangs out even if you're not happy.
- 13:37They're not the same.
- 13:38Interesting.
- 13:39So there's a big difference between manifest happiness and joy.
- 13:43Inner joy, obviously, is just an inner feeling that just stays locked in.
- 13:46And happiness is fleeting.
- 13:49Maybe.
- 13:52Okay.
- 13:54I'm not disagreeing.
- 13:55I was gonna say that played really well on an audio podcast.
- 13:57So what's another thing?
- 14:01That's.
- 14:01How about we're unequally yoked.
- 14:04Well, you know, that's something that happens.
- 14:06Whenever you've got more breakfast than I do.
- 14:08That's what I was gonna say.
- 14:11He got more eggs than you got to it.
- 14:18That's 100% where I was going with that.
- 14:22Oh, man.
- 14:24Yeah, I guess that.
- 14:25Which is really funny.
- 14:26That is really funny because that is not even anywhere near what that actually is.
- 14:31That's not even the reference.
- 14:33Right.
- 14:33Like, that's not the yolk that it's even talking about yolk.
- 14:36The yolk's on you, man.
- 14:39So if anybody out there doesn't know what it means to be unequally yoked, obviously we're talking about people who are in completely different stages.
- 14:48What is.
- 14:49What is a yoke?
- 14:50Right.
- 14:50What is a yoke?
- 14:51What is a yoke?
- 14:52A yoke is a.
- 14:54Oh, my gosh.
- 14:54How do I even describe it?
- 14:55It's a wooden apparatus that would go around two.
- 14:59What they called oxen.
- 15:00There you go.
- 15:01That would cause them to walk the same direction at the same time, thus making the plow easier to pull.
- 15:05Yeah.
- 15:06Right.
- 15:06What's leading you?
- 15:07So if you got.
- 15:09It's very interesting.
- 15:10I'll put it in a practical way.
- 15:11When you have two oxen, right?
- 15:13Even if you have an oxen over here, an ox over there, if what's your lead?
- 15:17It's leading you forward, and what's.
- 15:19What's driving you forward is different, then that's unequally yoked.
- 15:23If you're on the same thing and you have one that's trying to pull against the other one that's unequally yoked.
- 15:28But we want something where both people are going at the same time, it's really important for relationships, both sometimes friendships, but all but most very importantly in romantic relationships, especially, you know, marriage, because you want to be going
- 15:44at the same time, you want the Lord to be pushing you both kind of forward in your faith together, working on it together.
- 15:50And the danger there is that when you have one that's kind of rising about the other, the one will either pull the other one down.
- 16:00Right.
- 16:00Which happens more time than not, which can cause.
- 16:03You know, Or.
- 16:05Or.
- 16:05Or they'll be left behind.
- 16:07Yep.
- 16:07And either way.
- 16:08And so.
- 16:09And that usually is when communication is normal, right?
- 16:16Like, as in, like normal human communication, which is lacking.
- 16:20Right?
- 16:21Yeah.
- 16:21But I think that once when.
- 16:22If you're actually communicating, you can.
- 16:27If you're.
- 16:28If you're.
- 16:28Intentional, I can slow down a little bit.
- 16:32You could speed up a little bit.
- 16:34We meet in the middle, and then we move together at the same pace.
- 16:37You know, sometimes we have to slow down and wait for people.
- 16:40I mean, it just is a thing that's part of patience.
- 16:43Right.
- 16:44I think of like.
- 16:46Okay, so a practical example is I had my students out for pe.
- 16:54I was doing PE on Monday and I'm not usually the PE coach, so.
- 16:59So I had them.
- 17:01Them walking in pairs and I kept telling them, all right, you got to walk together with your pair.
- 17:07Well, when they paired themselves off, they, they wanted to be beside each other, so they stayed in their pairs.
- 17:14But then I had them shift pairs and I just made them all go back one.
- 17:20You know, one.
- 17:21One half of them go back a pair and all of a sudden they did not want to stay together.
- 17:27There was several that were cool, but it was like teaching them like, look, this is discipline.
- 17:34Who you're walking beside.
- 17:36Yep.
- 17:36You need to not run ahead of.
- 17:38But also like, if somebody is outpacing you a little bit, just be aware because sometimes you can catch up, sometimes you're just dragging, you know, so as much as, I mean, yes.
- 17:51In that relationship, that's how we normally hear about it.
- 17:53Right.
- 17:53Is in the relationships.
- 17:55And, and usually it's in reference to a Christian and non Christian who are dating or whatever, you know, But I think that sometimes we, we can look at it in a way that like, all right, I gotta slow
- 18:10down a little bit.
- 18:10Yep.
- 18:11I gotta wait.
- 18:11I gotta wait for this because I, I know that this is the right person.
- 18:15You know, say, you know, I are doing a ministry together or doing a project together or like a podcast or whatever, and you're like way ahead of me on whatever it is.
- 18:26You're like just gung ho sometimes.
- 18:28You gotta slow down a little bit.
- 18:29Right.
- 18:30And then wait for me to catch up.
- 18:32How do you feel this would translate to?
- 18:35Let's say you're.
- 18:36I don't know, let's.
- 18:37Let's say you've got one or the two of you.
- 18:39I mean, this is your job.
- 18:40The full time pastor.
- 18:42Have you had interactions with your wife where she has.
- 18:45And I'm not calling her out specifically, I'm thinking just wives in general or whoever is in the ministry.
- 18:49And the one who's not is.
- 18:51I feel like you're so far ahead of me when it comes to spirituality, I feel like I shouldn't even try to keep up.
- 18:57I feel inferior.
- 19:00Any of that.
- 19:01No, I would not say that to that level.
- 19:04I think my wife and I are very equally yoked when it comes to our heart for wanting to understand the Bible.
- 19:18I might be a little more advanced in understanding and interpretation and such like that, but she is there with me.
- 19:28We know how to love the Lord together.
- 19:30And I have my strengths in it.
- 19:32She's got her strengths in it.
- 19:34But, I mean, our lives, though, are complementary of each other, where we both bring something to the table at every level that evens the other person out and shows us why God created us to be together and be
- 19:47the team.
- 19:47That's why I call her my rib to where, like, she is the perfect helper for me.
- 19:53You know, if this isn't my strong suit, there's a good chance it's hers and vice versa, you know?
- 20:00Yeah.
- 20:00There's times where she looks at me and goes, hey, what do you think about this thing in the Bible?
- 20:04Or something like that, and.
- 20:06Which is not a bad thing for her to defer to, you know, at that moment.
- 20:12But, you know.
- 20:14You know, especially because, you know, we're, as the men, we're supposed to be leading the house spiritually.
- 20:18So, I mean, that's.
- 20:19That's a good thing.
- 20:20But I'm not trying to leave her behind, either.
- 20:22I'm.
- 20:22I'm trying to drag her along.
- 20:24She's usually one of the first people, though.
- 20:26When I get little gold, especially when I'm at home studying, I'll get these little golden nuggets, and I'll be like, oh, my gosh, this thing I just saw.
- 20:32Oh, my gosh, this thing I just discovered.
- 20:34I never saw it before, but I want to tell you.
- 20:36And then I want to tell the world.
- 20:37Sure.
- 20:39And I love it when she does the same.
- 20:41Like, she's going through a Bible study recently, and she's like, oh, my goodness, this thing.
- 20:45I'm like, all right, cool.
- 20:46And we got to talk about it.
- 20:47So, no, I think we've been a little more intentional in some ways about that, and there's times where we'll recognize that we have not been as diligent, But I don't know.
- 21:01I get really jazzed when I know she's, you know, actively studying and.
- 21:05Yep.
- 21:06Well, I remember the reason I brought it up is because back when I used.
- 21:10So I was a painter and a cabinet finisher for a while.
- 21:12When I.
- 21:12When I moved down here, I was working in a cabinet shop, so I had tons of time while I'm in there just spraying cabinet doors and stuff.
- 21:18I have my headphones in, and I think I went through, like, 37 audiobooks in.
- 21:22In a year or something like that, including Bible and everything else.
- 21:26So then I would come home and say, oh, my gosh.
- 21:27So I read this thing, and I went through the entire book of Romans, and I figured this kind of stuff out.
- 21:31And at some point, my wife goes, I wish I had Even a fraction of how much time you have to be able to consume all of this stuff.
- 21:38I feel like I'm just not anywhere near where you are because you have all this information and all that stuff.
- 21:43So I can.
- 21:44I can see how, to a degree, the thought of being unequally ill can possibly make one spouse feel like I'm being left in the dust.
- 21:54So how.
- 21:54So what's a practical way that let's.
- 21:56Let's say we were back in that situation because we're out of it now.
- 21:59But let's see.
- 21:59We're back in that situation where I'm learning all of this stuff and she doesn't have time to learn all this stuff.
- 22:04How can I.
- 22:05How can I practically bring her along with me without just barfing all over when I get home?
- 22:09Learn something new together.
- 22:11Yeah.
- 22:13Go through something.
- 22:14Go.
- 22:14Go through a study.
- 22:16Go through a passage together that you're not working on on your own.
- 22:22And that way she will feel or he will feel like you're on that same page.
- 22:28Okay.
- 22:29You're literally on that same path.
- 22:31Yeah.
- 22:31Creating.
- 22:31Finding a different time to where you can do it together is a wonderful thing.
- 22:37And getting around the awkwardness of it, that was one of the hardest things, I think, that we had to learn was like, I don't know.
- 22:45We.
- 22:45We've been in ministry.
- 22:47You know, we've prayed together.
- 22:48But actually intentionally setting aside time to pray and read scripture was weird.
- 22:55Yep.
- 22:55I mean, everything takes some growing.
- 22:57When my wife and I first got together, she wasn't.
- 23:01She was kind of bashful, really, about praying in front of me, you know, and I would.
- 23:07Well, that's weird.
- 23:09I was like, no.
- 23:10Yeah.
- 23:10Oh, this is going to be something you're going to do.
- 23:13And I'm putting my foot down.
- 23:15Well, it wasn't as much that.
- 23:17It was just like, I now have a project, and you're going to pray in front of me at some point, and I'm going to work on this, even if it's suddenly.
- 23:22Does she listen to this?
- 23:24Oh, I sometimes.
- 23:25And I.
- 23:25Baby, you know, project first.
- 23:30Oh, my gosh.
- 23:31I don't know.
- 23:32Ladies, I know you heard that you.
- 23:33Might get the hit this season, but now she does.
- 23:38She prays with me.
- 23:41She prays with me and, you know, and all that stuff.
- 23:43So it's.
- 23:43It's great.
- 23:44So I always want to push it forward.
- 23:46I mean, like, she expects me to kind of jump in front of her some.
- 23:49A lot of times, because, I mean, I get paid to do this, but, you know, I really I think it's important to.
- 23:57Yeah.
- 23:57Set up those times where.
- 23:58And even if you're not.
- 24:00Even if you're not studying the same material, have a time to study together.
- 24:05So even if you're reading your Bible, she's reading her Bible study.
- 24:08And find that way of going, hey, this thing.
- 24:11Hey, that thing.
- 24:12And then talking about it.
- 24:13And that is huge.
- 24:15Although I agree 100 on that.
- 24:18I think that if you're not studying together something, you need to.
- 24:23I think that it's important.
- 24:25And it doesn't mean, like, every day.
- 24:27Of course.
- 24:28Don't forget every day, you know, but like, if you need to have some regular times where you're actually studying things together, because there is something special about that, that you're discovering things together.
- 24:40You're praying with each other together intentionally over these things that you're studying through.
- 24:45I think that's important.
- 24:46I've been blessed to have a wife who was raised like me in the church, chose at a young age to believe and understood it.
- 24:59And.
- 25:00I don't know, we both went to Bible college.
- 25:02She's actually got her master's degree.
- 25:04I just have a measly little bachelor's degree.
- 25:08She wanted me to call her master, and I said no, I can totally.
- 25:12Hear her doing that.
- 25:13She totally did.
- 25:14She pushed it, too.
- 25:14And I was like, I think you should.
- 25:17Yeah.
- 25:19So, yeah.
- 25:20No, but I've been blessed that we're so incredibly different in our knowledge.
- 25:26Sure.
- 25:27Because I am constantly debating, thinking through, you know, processing, like, why's the why's the whys.
- 25:34But she's got all the history knowledge that I do not have.
- 25:38She can be like, oh, well, this person and this person and this person and this person.
- 25:43I mean, I'm not saying that I know everything.
- 25:45I know that sounds like that's what I'm saying.
- 25:47But I'm saying, like, I got the concepts and I understand, like, the.
- 25:51The do's and the don'ts, and I understand the, like, why this practically hits here.
- 25:55And I can.
- 25:55I can even quote.
- 25:57I can't necessarily tell you where it's found all the time, but I can.
- 26:00I know what it says, you know, But I'm so used to the debate and the backing up, you know, the belief and the almost the apologetics of just in Scripture.
- 26:09Right.
- 26:10Whereas she just.
- 26:11She just understands, like, history and she understands the dates and the people and all that.
- 26:17That stuff that I can't ever remember.
- 26:19I'm terrible at history.
- 26:20So we've been a great compliment together throughout our marriage.
- 26:24So you just Got to make sure that when you're having the communication about it, you're not being the dominating force, where it's just kind of like you're not going, hey, honey, did you do your 15 minutes today?
- 26:36We don't want to do that.
- 26:36We don't make.
- 26:37Really.
- 26:38I mean, my wife does that to me.
- 26:39Makes sure I do other things.
- 26:41Sure.
- 26:45You got to understand, my wife is a.
- 26:47She's a holistic practitioner, and she's a nutritionist.
- 26:51And so she'll be like, did you.
- 26:53Did you eat this thing today?
- 26:55Did you eat that again?
- 26:56Like, did you do.
- 26:57Did you take this thing I told you to take?
- 27:00I promise I didn't offer him one of these.
- 27:02No, he didn't.
- 27:02What.
- 27:03What you got next?
- 27:04What's next?
- 27:04How about they say, hey, buddy, what you guys doing tonight?
- 27:08And you say, we're gonna partake of the buddy and the blood.
- 27:11You know, I like this one.
- 27:13I'm gonna let you take this here in just a second.
- 27:15But I like this one because it was even confusing in Jesus's day.
- 27:19Sure.
- 27:19There were people that left following him because they didn't understand that whenever he.
- 27:26Whenever he was like, you know, I tell you, if you don't eat of my flesh and drink of my blood, you cannot, you know, whatever, be my disciple.
- 27:33And was like, oh, we're out.
- 27:35This is weird.
- 27:36No, this just got real weird, you know?
- 27:41So, yeah, take it away.
- 27:42But that's.
- 27:42I love this one because of that.
- 27:44Like, it's.
- 27:45So.
- 27:46It bridges the gap between today and then.
- 27:48Yep.
- 27:48So.
- 27:48Well, I often wonder how many people walked away because of things like that.
- 27:52And then later on, like, years and years and years later, like, somebody comes like, oh, no, no, this is what he meant.
- 27:56And like, seriously, like, my gosh.
- 28:00Well, I mean, yeah, it is kind of strange to be like, we're going to drink some blood and eat some flesh tonight.
- 28:07It's like, what kind of cult are you in anyway?
- 28:10No, but it's.
- 28:11It's.
- 28:11I would love for you to say that from stage with a single spotlight on you and moving darkness,.
- 28:17We're going.
- 28:17To eat some flesh and drink some blood.
- 28:19I don't think I could write it like that.
- 28:20And it's.
- 28:21All right.
- 28:22Anyway, it's our vampire werewolf cult, right?
- 28:24So, yeah, I mean, obviously.
- 28:30All right, so when we.
- 28:31We'll take it back to Exodus, I.
- 28:34Say, you're going to, like, give a whole dissertation on this one instead of just, like, explaining it in layman's terms,.
- 28:42You know, he is the.
- 28:43He's the Exodus, they had a Passover meal, and it was a lamb, it was slain, right.
- 28:50And the blood was poured over.
- 28:52And then they were to eat the lamb in the house that was protected.
- 28:58And he, his blood and his flesh represent the new Passover.
- 29:02And we eat of the flesh and we drink of the wine.
- 29:04And he.
- 29:05He told us, you know, you need to take this on.
- 29:07But with basically taking on what I'm doing for you, right.
- 29:11And keeping it as part of yourself, letting it become part of yourself, to where you are now, connected to me forever.
- 29:18And what's amazing about the taking of our communion, you know, some churches call it the Eucharist or some weird word.
- 29:26So is that culty word, you know, I like saying communion.
- 29:32And I'll tell you why.
- 29:33Because, number one, there's something amazing of having something that you all share both in belief and in physical form.
- 29:42You know, if I were to take an apple and split it into three pieces and give each of us a pair, and we all three ate of the apple.
- 29:49We all have that apple inside.
- 29:51We share that apple together.
- 29:53What makes the parts of that apple that are going to now be part of our makeup, we share in each other in that same way we share in Christ.
- 30:00We are all part of his body, that his body has become part of us.
- 30:04And so that's an amazing thing to share together and have that.
- 30:08But also the idea is that, you know, we're.
- 30:11We're saying as we take part in this in our faith together as one, that we believe in Christ and the sacrifice he's done for us.
- 30:19And when we partake in that, we're saying it as one.
- 30:22That.
- 30:23That is why we're doing this.
- 30:24Yep.
- 30:25So let me, Let me.
- 30:26Let me actually clear it up.
- 30:27I mean, that was good, good dissertation guy over here.
- 30:30But I was gonna say.
- 30:32No, Just, just, just the part that he left out is that it's not actual blood.
- 30:36It's not actual flesh.
- 30:39It.
- 30:39It was originally wine that represented Christ's blood and bread that represented his body.
- 30:47And that is what we traditionally will use or grape juice or something of.
- 30:53Of that type of.
- 30:55It's not actual blood.
- 30:56It's not actual flesh, and it does not turn into actual blood.
- 31:01And it does not turn into.
- 31:02There was that case that has been investigated and considered a miracle by the Catholic Church that there was one guy that prayed in the Eucharist actually turned into flesh with a very particular kind of blood.
- 31:16Just so you know.
- 31:17So let's be careful about how much wear things.
- 31:21But I will say Though, that the symbolism is important of what we're doing.
- 31:25And it's not really about actual blood and flesh in physical form as it is in our hearts so that we understand why it is what we do.
- 31:34It's okay.
- 31:35So then the.
- 31:35As you call from the layman.
- 31:37So obviously you're sitting here, you're discussing everything.
- 31:40Okay, so the.
- 31:41The.
- 31:41What's the word?
- 31:42The representation, the crackers and the juice, essentially.
- 31:45All right.
- 31:45We even go back to, like, the initial table where he's breaking bread and then giving wine and things of that nature.
- 31:52Why.
- 31:52Why are we referring to it as blood and flesh when we're eating bread?
- 31:56And.
- 31:56Because he took the bread and he broke it, and he said, this is my body broken for you.
- 32:01And in remembrance of what he.
- 32:02Of him.
- 32:03I'm just questioning his lingo.
- 32:05Okay.
- 32:05And he took the wine, he said, this is the.
- 32:07My blood that's poured out for you.
- 32:09And so those are the reasons why we call them these things is that's what he said.
- 32:13Do you think they had any overly practical people at the table of, like, that's not.
- 32:17That's not flesh?
- 32:19I don't think so at that point.
- 32:20And the reason I say I don't think so at that point, because they had been daily walking with Jesus and hearing the way he talked, and it wasn't the first time they'd heard, you know, that phrase because he
- 32:32had spoken it before that and people had left.
- 32:34So I don't think that it was a surprise then.
- 32:38It might have been a surprise to them.
- 32:39Even the first time was like.
- 32:42You might have to explain that one to us a little bit, you know?
- 32:45But I don't think that was a surprise.
- 32:48I don't know.
- 32:49And.
- 32:49And I don't know if that was a normal phrase or something that that was used.
- 32:54It's not a me thing.
- 32:55Remember I just said that.
- 32:56I'm not a history guy.
- 32:58I know certain pieces of history.
- 33:00But I just imagine James, like, handing Peter a piece.
- 33:04He's like, here you go.
- 33:04And he's like, what is this?
- 33:05It's like.
- 33:06It's his body.
- 33:06Like, dude, it's a piece of bread.
- 33:07Like, shh, Listen, He's Jesus.
- 33:09Just do it.
- 33:09Just.
- 33:10His body, man.
- 33:12You're gonna question this.
- 33:13He turned freaking, you know, five loaves and two fish into, like, 12 baskets of food.
- 33:18Dude, that's right.
- 33:19Chill.
- 33:23This is what I feel like I should write spoon.
- 33:25No, we're not cannibals.
- 33:26I promise.
- 33:27Of course not.
- 33:28My goodness.
- 33:29All right, what's the next One, let's see.
- 33:31Well, I always got hung up.
- 33:32One, personally, for me, I used to reference all the time was.
- 33:35I remember I was in a service one time where it was super emotional.
- 33:38They had a big cross up on the stage and they said, if you're struggling with anything right now, just take it and write it on a piece of paper and, and drop your transgressions at the foot of the
- 33:48cross and cover it in the blood.
- 33:50And I was like, the what?
- 33:52It's like, I don't know, 80% of what you just said.
- 33:55I am not a scholar.
- 33:56So now being on this side of it, I can, in context go, I think I know what you're saying.
- 34:02But like, for the layman, like the very first time, this, maybe there was the first service and they're sitting there and there's like, lean over.
- 34:08We're doing what now?
- 34:09Well, and we're obviously talking about a lot of symbolism.
- 34:12Sure.
- 34:12Like that's, that's very symbolic.
- 34:14And it's, it's, it's you giving up the piece of you that you're struggling with to Jesus.
- 34:19That's all it is.
- 34:20And, and letting him deal with it and saying, I understand that I struggle with this.
- 34:25I understand that this is a piece of me that I can't fix, and I need you to fix it.
- 34:30And I want to leave this, you know, at your feet.
- 34:32Because, I mean, that's, that's what it is.
- 34:35Yeah, I'm leaving.
- 34:36I'm giving this over to you.
- 34:38Because in, I think it's 2nd Corinthians, I think it's 2 Corinthians 12.
- 34:45Tell me if I'm wrong, tell me if I'm wrong.
- 34:50Paul talks about how God told him, you know, my grace is sufficient for you.
- 34:55And it was a struggle that I'm assuming that was just keep coming up, coming up, coming up and.
- 35:05Starting to talk like 14 year olds.
- 35:08We hear, you know, him say that, you know, I continue to do the things I don't want to do, but I don't do the things that I want to do.
- 35:17And that struggle, that constant.
- 35:19And God's response to him, instead of taking away, that was like, yeah, my grace is good enough for that too.
- 35:26Whatever that thing is, you know, that we don't ever find out about, necessarily.
- 35:30And, and so it's one of those, those things.
- 35:34It's all right, God.
- 35:36Here you go.
- 35:37You know, I know that your blood is, is, has covered it.
- 35:42And I don't want to do this thing.
- 35:44Sure.
- 35:44I recognize that it's Something I shouldn't do.
- 35:47And yet I keep coming back to it.
- 35:49Please take it.
- 35:50It's so interesting to take those two, that verse and tie it to this in that way, because, I mean, with the verse that you gave, I mean, God's saying to us, like, I want you to recognize where your
- 36:03limit is so that I can show you where I picked everything up.
- 36:07You know, like, when you go, hey, this is as far as I can go, he's like, great, now I can show you what I can do.
- 36:12That's right.
- 36:12You know, in the same way, it's like when we lay it down for him, the foot of the cross, or however you want to word it, it's like, okay, I'm done with this, and I got to give it
- 36:20to you, because you're the one that can take care of this.
- 36:23And he's like, done.
- 36:24It's already done, actually.
- 36:25And so that's pretty amazing, because the one.
- 36:28The thing, we could never do it.
- 36:30And that's the whole point of the gospel, it's the whole point of why Jesus came, is because we could never do it ourselves, right?
- 36:36We could never get ourselves right with God again.
- 36:39So God was like, all right, I got it.
- 36:41I've even seen.
- 36:42I think the most amazing one I saw was in that same service.
- 36:45I saw a guy.
- 36:46He was.
- 36:46He was up front, and he was praying, and then all of a sudden, he, like, looked like he just remembered something, and he ran and he ran away.
- 36:51I'm like, oh, that's weird.
- 36:52And then he comes back with a carton of cigarettes, like a.
- 36:55Like a big old carton.
- 36:56And he walks up and he.
- 36:57He drops it.
- 36:58And then all of a sudden, he just stands there.
- 36:59And then he just started crying.
- 37:00And he said, the minute I dropped it, he goes.
- 37:03All of a sudden, my craving disappeared.
- 37:04And he's like, I never.
- 37:06You know, wild stuff.
- 37:07Do you remember when Nick did the.
- 37:09The sermon about dropping the chains?
- 37:11Yeah, dude, that was intense.
- 37:13So he.
- 37:14He had two wooden boxes built with chains attached to them.
- 37:19And then, like, you.
- 37:21There was a certain thing that you would read, and you insert your own stuff, and you're holding these chains, and then once you're done, you literally drop it.
- 37:29And the sound of it slamming, it just felt releasing, even.
- 37:34Like it was really cool.
- 37:35But that's even something that.
- 37:37I mean, that's similar to what you're talking about.
- 37:38Like, just that.
- 37:39That things that.
- 37:40That we do or we say that that is symbolic of just letting it go to Jesus, you know, like, take this.
- 37:48Yeah.
- 37:49I tell you what, we.
- 37:50So this past trip for MOVE for the high schoolers, they had something that they set up as a symbol, and it was so powerful.
- 37:57So what they did is they took one of these.
- 37:59These really long big bells that you could go and ring the bell.
- 38:03And so what it symbolized is that you were going from life to death.
- 38:08And here's what they.
- 38:09They said.
- 38:10It's like, you know, back there was a period of time where they had to start developing these systems where they could put a rope down into a casket because they kept burying people alive.
- 38:19And so they thought, well, hold on for a second.
- 38:22Ye.
- 38:23This was the strangest thing.
- 38:24It is.
- 38:25They were actually burying people alive.
- 38:26Piece of our history.
- 38:27At what point I wondered, what point did they figure this out?
- 38:30That's what I was wondering.
- 38:31Like, so.
- 38:31But anyway, they.
- 38:32They.
- 38:33Oh, he moved.
- 38:34Okay.
- 38:35Yeah.
- 38:35So anyway, he said they had a rope so that if they were alive, they could ring the bell and then they'd dig him up.
- 38:41And they said, really?
- 38:42Basically, without Christ, we're all dead.
- 38:44We're.
- 38:45We're dead in our sin.
- 38:47And.
- 38:47But when you accept Christ, you can ring the bell that you're alive and you've chosen life over death.
- 38:54And it was powerful because it started slow, you know, but even the first one, you've.
- 39:01The first kid to walk over, and then it was like, wow, that was amazing.
- 39:05And everybody kind of felt it, that moment.
- 39:08And every time a bell rang, you know, the place would lose their minds and.
- 39:13But it was like, ding, ding, ding.
- 39:15And then over there, ding, ding, ding.
- 39:16Because they had a moke all around the.
- 39:18The.
- 39:18The room, this huge auditorium.
- 39:21And it hit hard every single time.
- 39:27And these kids would ring the bell, and then some of them would ring it, and then as soon as it made the sound, they'd break into tears and oh, my goodness, it was wonderful.
- 39:38And then it was so powerful.
- 39:39And that was one, like night three.
- 39:42And then for the next two days, there'd be a student that, like, suddenly was like, it clicked.
- 39:47And they're like, nope.
- 39:48And they got up and then they'd ring the bell and it could be in the middle of anything, and then the whole place would stop.
- 39:54And just.
- 39:54I think it's important to point out that if you're listening to this right now and you're like, I don't get it.
- 40:01It's okay, because you won't until you do like that.
- 40:04That is just.
- 40:05That's the part of Christianity that is the weird part.
- 40:09I think for a lot of people who don't believe is that like those things that you're talking about, you don't understand until you tell you do, until you experience it, until you feel that.
- 40:22And then it's like, oh, yep, all right.
- 40:26Well, I mean, scripture tells us that it's all.
- 40:28All this is all the gospel, all of the things in the Bible, it's all foolishness to those who are perishing.
- 40:34And until you go from perishing to life and all of it seems like nothing to you.
- 40:38Okay.
- 40:39Until it finally does.
- 40:40Let me do this.
- 40:40I have.
- 40:40I have a gentleman that I know who is an ultimate.
- 40:45Yeah, he's an ultimate cynic.
- 40:47Every time I bring anything up Christian, there's always a rebuttal for it, right?
- 40:51So I want to meet that person.
- 40:53So.
- 40:54So you just tell this amazing story about ringing the bell and that kind of stuff.
- 40:58And I know for a fact his immediate response is going to be like, well, dude, that's what Christianity is.
- 41:02This whole group think, right?
- 41:04It's like one guy does it.
- 41:05And like, I want to be part of that group now, so I'm gonna do it too.
- 41:07Well, now I want of it.
- 41:09And that's where you get like.
- 41:10Even when I remember back at one of.
- 41:13At the church we were at up in Minnesota, I remember there was.
- 41:16They would always bring the altar team out during the second song, and there was, hey, if you need prayer, go up for prayer.
- 41:21And there was always a strategic, like, hey, I need the three of you to be the first ones to go up, because no one wants to be the first.
- 41:27I need you to be the first to draw other people out, which I, to a degree, understand.
- 41:31So there's some psychological stuff that goes on.
- 41:33But how would you respond when somebody goes, dude, when that kind of stuff happens, it's just.
- 41:38It's just group.
- 41:39Oh, I want to be part of it.
- 41:40I want to be part.
- 41:40I don't like that.
- 41:41Okay?
- 41:42I don't like, like the bait, the baiting, baiting things to happen.
- 41:47I don't.
- 41:48I don't like that.
- 41:48Because the Holy Spirit's good enough, right?
- 41:51Like, like you.
- 41:52You are saying that you don't trust the Holy Spirit enough to move in people, and that's on you, man.
- 41:58Like, I don't.
- 41:59I don't agree with that at all.
- 42:00I don't.
- 42:01I don't like that.
- 42:02I don't like using music to manipulate people to do certain things.
- 42:07I mean, I.
- 42:08I don't like shaming people into lifting their hands.
- 42:11I don't like any of that stuff.
- 42:12Like that.
- 42:13That stuff in worship services drives me crazy.
- 42:15Oh, for sure.
- 42:16We can go off on a whole tangent about that stuff.
- 42:18I gotta say, when it comes to people who think like that, I mean, obviously their heart, they're really trying to be hard hearted, which is actually interesting to see them put that much effort into it.
- 42:29But.
- 42:30But here.
- 42:30Here's what it'd be like.
- 42:32You know, honestly, if you are.
- 42:33Like, when you hear those things, if you want to fight against them, if you.
- 42:36If you are one that wants to be a skeptic first and an experiencer second, then I think you need to move those things in opposite order.
- 42:45And what I want to say to you is, come and see.
- 42:48Come and see.
- 42:49Come try it out.
- 42:50What are you scared of?
- 42:51No, no.
- 42:52Yeah, yeah.
- 42:52Because if it's.
- 42:53Because if it is bogus.
- 42:54Yep, you'll find out and you're strong enough to resist.
- 42:57But when I say that, I don't just mean come to church.
- 42:59I mean, come on, come try this.
- 43:01On for a while.
- 43:01Come.
- 43:02No, and do it for real.
- 43:04Come really try this on.
- 43:06Come really put your faith in Jesus.
- 43:08Come, come.
- 43:09Really see if this is real.
- 43:10As the Bible says, taste and see that it is good.
- 43:13I want you to come and see.
- 43:15That was the invitation that Philip gave to Nathaniel.
- 43:18That was the invitation that even Jesus said, come and see.
- 43:22Come and see.
- 43:23Try it on.
- 43:24There was recently a video of this kid who was an atheist, and he said he was just going to try it.
- 43:27He was going to act like a Christian for 30 days.
- 43:30Sure.
- 43:30He didn't even make it days.
- 43:32Yeah, he didn't even make it 40, 30 days.
- 43:34So he said, dude, this is real.
- 43:35And when I say he did it, though, like, this kid actually dedicated himself.
- 43:39He looked up what it would be to live as a good Christian for 30 days.
- 43:43He did all the things.
- 43:44He read the Bible, he, he.
- 43:46All the stuff he was supposed to do, and he didn't even make it 30 days where he said, this is it.
- 43:50And I was like, that's amazing that we need more of that.
- 43:54I need more people that are willing to, you know, recognize that you're fighting against this and you don't even know why.
- 44:00Come and see.
- 44:02Yeah, actually the.
- 44:03Our pastor at our church up in Minnesota always had this phrase.
- 44:06He goes, I want you guys to try Christianity for 60 days.
- 44:09If it doesn't work, you can have all your sins back.
- 44:13Oh, my God.
- 44:15Oh, my goodness.
- 44:16My.
- 44:17One of my favorite stories was there was a pastor who pastors a series of churches up in Green Bay and he said he had this guy on Facebook who wrote him this message that says, like, I can't believe
- 44:26you're spreading this garbage.
- 44:27I'm an atheist.
- 44:28I don't believe in any of this stuff.
- 44:29And you're.
- 44:30You're hurting people.
- 44:32And so he said, I had a little back and forth, but for the most part, just left it alone.
- 44:36He said, two days later, I get a phone.
- 44:38No, I get a.
- 44:39An in person visit from this guy who says, I'm the guy who is fighting with you on Facebook.
- 44:43He was able to track him down.
- 44:45And he said, here's what.
- 44:46Here's what happened.
- 44:47He goes, I was so angry at this interaction that you and I had.
- 44:51He goes, I started shouting at God.
- 44:53I was like, this is stupid and you're dumb.
- 44:55And why would you.
- 44:55Then all this kind of.
- 44:56All of a sudden, it hit me.
- 44:57I was like, why am I arguing with something I don't even believe exists?
- 45:00And he goes.
- 45:01And all of a sudden I was like, wait a minute.
- 45:03It's like, why is this my natural compulsion?
- 45:05And it led him to give his life to God from being angry at a pastor.
- 45:09That's fantastic.
- 45:11The realization.
- 45:12Well, you know, I have this theory, and I think it's true, but I.
- 45:16I have this theory that deep down in every person is the truth.
- 45:21I think every person knows somewhere inside them the truth.
- 45:24And there's just different levels of wanting to avoid it.
- 45:27Mm.
- 45:28You know, and it's.
- 45:29It's wild because some people, when they finally come and they're like, oh, wow, it's really like this.
- 45:34Yeah, it's really like this.
- 45:36You really need to try it on and actually see for yourself that this is.
- 45:39And here's another question for the person that would say, why are you spreading this garbage?
- 45:43I don't believe in it.
- 45:44Here.
- 45:44Here's the serious question.
- 45:46What wrong am I doing?
- 45:48What bad am I doing?
- 45:49How am I hurting anyone?
- 45:51You're influencing someone's decision.
- 45:52No, no, no, no.
- 45:53Because he.
- 45:54He, I.
- 45:54And I believe strongly in this.
- 45:56This is so true.
- 45:57And I've heard it worded similar to this before, and I'm going to use it.
- 46:01Let's see who's wrong.
- 46:02Because if I'm wrong, what have I done?
- 46:05I've led a life that was encouraging to people, that helped give people hope, that helped people get through things, that gave people counsel, that gave people some, maybe, I don't know, happiness at different moments.
- 46:15And I, you know, what have I done wrong?
- 46:17Nothing.
- 46:18If I'm wrong, I've had a Pretty darn good life.
- 46:20But guess what?
- 46:21If I'm right and you're wrong, you have made a huge mistake that you can't come back from, whereas I'm perfectly fine.
- 46:29So you need to really think about the consequences of what's really going on here.
- 46:33I'm not doing anything wrong, but you just might be right.
- 46:37That was super intense.
- 46:38I, I, I was waiting for this.
- 46:40I don't, like, I don't disagree.
- 46:42I'm sorry.
- 46:42I was calm the whole time.
- 46:44Listen, listen, you touched a nerve.
- 46:46That's, that's something I don't necessarily disagree with.
- 46:48I don't generally like that way of going about it, but you might not.
- 46:53Like it, but it's true.
- 46:54The depth of it is this.
- 46:55Like, the truth is important regardless.
- 46:58Right?
- 46:59Regardless of what the truth is, the actual truth is important.
- 47:02And that's why I don't have a problem challenging somebody that, like, like, okay, if I'm wrong, I want to know, you know, if I'm wrong about this God stuff, I want to know.
- 47:14So come show me.
- 47:16Yep.
- 47:16Because I know the truth, right?
- 47:20And the truth has set me free.
- 47:22And there's another one, right?
- 47:25Truth has set me free.
- 47:26You know, people say it all the time, don't know what it means, but, but seriously, like, I don't, I don't foresee anyone being able to prove me wrong.
- 47:36And not because I, I just believe to believe, but, like, because everyone who tries to prove it wrong ends up dying in the midst of it or, you know, becoming a believer.
- 47:49You know what I mean?
- 47:50Like, it's one of those things that every time you try to prove it wrong, it's like, okay, I was literally.
- 47:54Waiting for you to be like, you.
- 47:56Got to put like, November 21st, Madison Square Garden, you and me.
- 48:01No, I don't mean like, I don't necessarily mean like, let's debate it.
- 48:04No, I mean, shoot, I will just.
- 48:06Like, show me, show me.
- 48:07No, but here's the thing.
- 48:08I mean, even those people are like, people are wasting their life.
- 48:11How, how are they wasting their life?
- 48:13Well, you know, bettering themselves.
- 48:15I'll tell you how the, why people go that route, though.
- 48:18It's, it's, it's simply because people have misrepresented Christ.
- 48:21Sure.
- 48:22Okay.
- 48:22And that's why, but that's, that's because.
- 48:24They don't understand, though.
- 48:25But the whole thing is that they don't properly understand what a Christian life is actually supposed to look like.
- 48:29And because here's the thing.
- 48:30If you actually are, that's what I'M saying, even if what we believed was false, which is not, but if it was.
- 48:35And so you live a Christian life.
- 48:37So you decide to live a life full of morals and.
- 48:39And helping other people and caring about other people, maybe visiting people and.
- 48:43And being there and all those kinds of things.
- 48:45You've lived a pretty darn good life.
- 48:47What is wrong about that?
- 48:48That's a wonderful way to speak against such things.
- 48:51There are no laws.
- 48:52Exactly.
- 48:53And so what is it then that you are trying to hold on to?
- 48:55What are you being influenced by?
- 48:57What are you being told that you need that you don't get from following Christ?
- 49:01What is it?
- 49:02Well, they don't understand the.
- 49:04The.
- 49:04What's the whole point?
- 49:05They don't understand.
- 49:06They don't come and see what's really like.
- 49:09What they don't understand is a lot of.
- 49:11Now you're getting me riled up.
- 49:12Hang on, hang on.
- 49:13Calm down again, Cal.
- 49:15And the thing that they generally don't understand is.
- 49:18Is the same thing a lot of people makes up about everything.
- 49:21Right.
- 49:21You can't judge Beethoven by somebody's bad performance of it.
- 49:27Sure.
- 49:28Right.
- 49:29You judge Beethoven by the original.
- 49:32Right.
- 49:32The original piece.
- 49:33And so you.
- 49:35You.
- 49:36You can't be like, beethoven was a terrible artist because, you know, because this guy played a very bad rendition of it.
- 49:43You know, you can't do that.
- 49:44And that's something I stole from somebody, too.
- 49:45Just so you know.
- 49:46I'm not original on that.
- 49:47But.
- 49:48But seriously, like, okay, yep, yes, I let you down.
- 49:54I failed at being a good Christian.
- 49:57But you know who didn't?
- 49:58Jesus and the Bible.
- 49:59That's right.
- 50:00Like, look at that.
- 50:01And then come call me out.
- 50:02That's part of this thing.
- 50:03Right?
- 50:04Like, tell me where I'm.
- 50:05I'm missing.
- 50:06Yep.
- 50:07So that I can fix.
- 50:08I think a lot of it is literally just their subconscious reason they're upset is because you're.
- 50:15You're forcing yourself on me.
- 50:18Right.
- 50:18That's.
- 50:19The other argument is just kind of like, why do you feel like you have to push this agenda?
- 50:23And it's like my.
- 50:24The argument is like, if I see you physically walking towards a cliff that you are going to fall off of and die.
- 50:30How irresponsible would it be of me to not say, watch out, you're about to fall off a cliff?
- 50:35Well, my agenda is I love you.
- 50:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 50:38Like, so.
- 50:39I mean, that's the agenda.
- 50:40What they.
- 50:40And going off of what you said.
- 50:42Here's the part that gets you me.
- 50:44Okay.
- 50:44Here's the part that gets Me is that they, they, they base how they can follow Christ off of his church instead of who Christ is.
- 50:52You've taken your eyes off of what we've all need to keep our eyes on you.
- 50:55You're looking at the wrong thing.
- 50:57It's not about the people who are trying to follow him, which are all flawed and need him in the first place.
- 51:01Failed a lot, all right?
- 51:03However, no, that's not how you base him on.
- 51:07Don't judge him by his followers, judge him by Him.
- 51:10And he is flawless.
- 51:13You need to come and find out who he is for yourself and call.
- 51:17Us out when we misstep like that.
- 51:19I think that's important if you're a Christian or not.
- 51:21And you can be like, look, you're not living this.
- 51:25In my opinion, that's the Holy Spirit going, hey, you need to tell him that he's not living this.
- 51:29Yeah.
- 51:30And if you, if.
- 51:30Let me tell you something.
- 51:31Oh my gosh, I'm getting, Let me.
- 51:32Tell you something, brother.
- 51:34Seriously.
- 51:35Getting round up.
- 51:35I am, I am.
- 51:36Because here's the thing.
- 51:37If you're one of those people that if, if, if the people who are trying to follow Christ are the ones that are going to keep you from him, then your eyes were never on him to be.
- 51:44They were only on the people.
- 51:45And in the same way, if you are so hurt and broken that you have to walk away from your faith because a pastor or a leader of a church goes down and that happens.
- 51:53Unfortunately, it happens.
- 51:55But if that's what happens, then your faith wasn't in God.
- 51:58Your faith was in those leaders.
- 51:59And once again, in the wrong place.
- 52:01It is about Him.
- 52:02Don't put your eyes on anything but Him.
- 52:05Put him and his kingdom first.
- 52:07Yeah, I'm a big words have meaning kind of guy.
- 52:10And, and the definition of a hypocrite is not somebody who screws up.
- 52:15It's.
- 52:15It's somebody who says one thing and intentionally does another.
- 52:20Like, and lives that life.
- 52:21Right.
- 52:22Like somebody who says, oh, you shouldn't drink and then is a drunkard by their lifestyle.
- 52:27Right.
- 52:28Like that is a hypocrite.
- 52:29A hypocrite is not somebody who says, you know, don't get drunk and then they had a little too much one night and it's not their lifestyle, it's not what they normally do.
- 52:39That's not a hypocrite.
- 52:40Hypocrite is a lifestyle.
- 52:42It's a thing that you are actively saying this and then doing something else with no regard for, for any of it.
- 52:50Yep.
- 52:51So I Just want to clear that up if we're talking to the people.
- 52:53Okay.
- 52:54You know, you know what I mean?
- 52:55That's, that's one thing.
- 52:56That's my, that's my thing.
- 52:58What's the next one?
- 52:58Nope, Stop it.
- 53:00All right, I'm good, I'm good.
- 53:01What's the next one?
- 53:02I want to touch on what you said, that the whole truth will set you free thing.
- 53:05So here's, here's a, here's a psychological question that will go with it.
- 53:08It is, let's say, like, like a subject of you're adopted.
- 53:13Or let's say, for example, that, let's see, hey, your mom and I didn't wait till marriage and we fooled around.
- 53:22We don't want you to make the same mistake.
- 53:23You got a 12 year old kid who asked you flat out, did you guys wait until you got married?
- 53:28It's like, no, the truth will set you free in those situations.
- 53:31Some would interpret that and say, okay, well, you should just be honest with them.
- 53:34Is a 12 year old capable of healing that?
- 53:36Where's the line between, I want to be honest, but I'm not going to tell you the truth?
- 53:40To your question, how would you guys handle it?
- 53:42What is the truth?
- 53:44Jesus.
- 53:45Right?
- 53:46I mean, seriously though, right?
- 53:47Like, I mean, the truth is.
- 53:49No, we did not wait.
- 53:50Okay, okay, but there's something.
- 53:53No, I'm saying the truth will set you free.
- 53:54Jesus.
- 53:57Yeah, well, you know, here's the thing with those situations where, yeah, you're trying to tell your kids this is how you should be living your life, and they look at you.
- 54:04Is that how you did yours?
- 54:05And you have to admit, no, it's not.
- 54:06And then they'll look at you.
- 54:07It doesn't make you a hypocrite.
- 54:08No, it makes me someone who learned from a mistake.
- 54:10And I'm trying to stop you from making the same mistake that I've recognized was a mistake.
- 54:14I got you.
- 54:15So that's not hypocritical.
- 54:17That is someone who's actually willing to recognize that they're in the wrong.
- 54:21Pumped.
- 54:21I'm still pumped.
- 54:23Well, and also, also, also any lie is not of God.
- 54:29Sure.
- 54:30So if you're not going to tell them the truth, then the best thing you could tell him is I'll tell you when you're older.
- 54:35Chip?
- 54:35Sure.
- 54:36Okay.
- 54:37How about, how about I'm like a super.
- 54:38If you caught that, I did comment.
- 54:40A crazy super fit.
- 54:42Yeah, right.
- 54:43On a crazy superficial level.
- 54:44I'm trying to keep this secret from my wife.
- 54:46I'm throwing Her a surprise party.
- 54:48And she asked me flat out, are you throwing a surprise party?
- 54:50And I say, no.
- 54:51Is that.
- 54:52Am I lying?
- 54:52Am I breaking a covenant?
- 54:54Am I.
- 54:55You know.
- 54:57I know.
- 54:58Why do you say that?
- 54:59Why?
- 55:00See, there's a way to answer without lying.
- 55:01First off, if somebody says, are you throwing a surprise for me?
- 55:04If I was, I wouldn't tell you.
- 55:06Right.
- 55:07Well, you're doing it, aren't you?
- 55:09I wouldn't tell you if I was.
- 55:11Right.
- 55:11That is my favorite thing.
- 55:12That's ridiculous.
- 55:13My students are like, you know, don't you?
- 55:15I'm like, what?
- 55:17And they're like, oh, you know.
- 55:18And it's like, well, if I did, I would not.
- 55:21And they just like, they're like, oh, so it is.
- 55:23You did.
- 55:24It is the.
- 55:25And it's like, I wouldn't tell you.
- 55:27Like, I.
- 55:28That is the.
- 55:28That is a perfect answer.
- 55:30No, I mean, that is the perfect answer.
- 55:31What you get me for my birthday.
- 55:32I got your gift.
- 55:33What is it?
- 55:34A gift.
- 55:35I'm not going to tell you.
- 55:38Why don't you.
- 55:39That would ruin the surprise.
- 55:41I don't know.
- 55:41You said licking, you know, like, don't lick a horse.
- 55:44There's a way to answer that is completely true and maintains the secrecy of the situation.
- 55:49Yeah, for sure.
- 55:51You know, I think that.
- 55:54I think that too often we don't slow down before we speak.
- 55:59Right.
- 56:00If we're quick to listen, slow to speak, we won't come up with a lie.
- 56:05We'll think of things like, well, why would I tell you that?
- 56:08You know, like, if I.
- 56:09If I was, why would I tell you?
- 56:11It would be a surprise, you know?
- 56:14But like, ah, we're so quick to just shoot something back and defend.
- 56:19Or you can even say something like, oh, this is my.
- 56:22I don't know if I know that or not, but I.
- 56:24Or whether I knew that or not, I wouldn't tell you.
- 56:27And I would not confirm whether I knew something or not because I wouldn't tell you.
- 56:31And so therefore, then have them sitting there figuring out, I don't know if.
- 56:35Clearly you can't choose the cup in front of you.
- 56:38Right?
- 56:39Was that line from.
- 56:40Was it like Shrek?
- 56:42I was like a check when.
- 56:43What's his name?
- 56:44When Pinocchio.
- 56:46They like interrogating this.
- 56:47Oh, my gosh.
- 56:48I may or may not know where he may or may not possibly be.
- 56:51It's like he's just dancing Canon.
- 56:53Can I know where he's not?
- 56:56All right, let's.
- 56:58Let's wrap up.
- 56:59We.
- 56:59We've been these Guys are tired of us talking at this point.
- 57:03What's your closing thoughts?
- 57:05If anybody knows how to AI render him into Hulk Hogan, that would be creative.
- 57:09Yeah, brother.
- 57:13Closing thoughts.
- 57:14I like what you said right there at the end.
- 57:17If you just take a beat.
- 57:18Stop trying to be so quick to respond to everything and saying, I'm not sure and I'll get back to you is a completely acceptable response.
- 57:27And most people are respected for it.
- 57:29Yeah, my closing thoughts.
- 57:32Taste and see.
- 57:33Come and see.
- 57:34That's right.
- 57:36That was what I was gonna say.
- 57:37Come and see.
- 57:38Okay, if you need me to go through it again, just rewind.
- 57:41I don't want to get all riled up again.
- 57:43Woo.
- 57:43How about you, Derek?
- 57:46Yeah, this is great.
- 57:48I think this is a great conversation for us to have had and maybe we can do some other ones like it.
- 57:55Because it's so often that we get caught up in churchy language and sound all cultish that we don't take a moment, slow down, right?
- 58:06To just be like, hey, this is what this means, even to new believers.
- 58:12You know, people who are like, yeah, I choose this Jesus thing.
- 58:15Whoa, what was that?
- 58:16You know, like, so I think it's good.
- 58:19I think this is a good thing.
- 58:20I also think that.
- 58:22That Jesus loves you guys.
- 58:24And if nobody told you that today, we're telling her to tell you Jesus loves you.
- 58:29I'll back him up on that.
- 58:30And, and also, like, you know, hang in there.
- 58:35Yeah, you can do this.
- 58:37I believe in you.
- 58:38Believe in yourself.
- 58:39100.
- 58:40Yeah.
- 58:41So, so subscribe like Patreon.
- 58:48What's going on with this, by the way?
- 58:49We told you a bunch of comments.
- 58:50Oh, this?
- 58:51Yes.
- 58:52I think we've got our final one in.
- 58:54But we're.
- 58:54We're gonna wait, just wait just to make sure.
- 58:57But we got a new one.
- 58:59And, you know, if you're sending these in, we love it.
- 59:04It's hard to pick a winner.
- 59:07We don't know who you are.
- 59:09So when we pick the one, and if we pick one that doesn't have a name on it and we show you, you're gonna have to be responsible for contacting us and telling us what you wrote on it.
- 59:17And we'll give you two weeks to do so.
- 59:19Because if not, we have to draw another one.
- 59:23I mean, somebody's got to win the stuff.
- 59:24So what day we drawing it again?
- 59:26We're doing it on the next.
- 59:27A week, Two weeks.
- 59:29Give it a week.
- 59:29One.
- 59:30We have a week.
- 59:31One week.
- 59:32So we're drawing it next episode.
- 59:33We are drawing it next episode.
- 59:35All right.
- 59:36You better move it.
- 59:37I mean, this was within time.
- 59:38This was September 30th.
- 59:40We are.
- 59:40We are at six, it looks like.
- 59:43Okay.
- 59:43Up to six.
- 59:44So.
- 59:46Yeah, lucky number seven is out there some.
- 59:48Abel, don't forget, come see me if you want to have.
- 59:51Yeah.
- 59:51And listen, I might have gotten.
- 59:53Send us a postcard and you get a bunch of stuff.
- 59:55Yeah, I might have gotten a little excited back there.
- 59:57Okay.
- 59:58I know I might have gotten a little, you know, crazy.
- 1:00:00And I apologize, you know, because, like, I like to keep it kind of mellow sometimes.
- 1:00:04And apparently there's certain things that, you know, you get me wrapped up.
- 1:00:09That's right.
- 1:00:10You know, and so you get riled up for Jesus.
- 1:00:12It's okay.
- 1:00:12I start acting kind of.
- 1:00:13Next time on the Truth Response, we will talk about politics.
- 1:00:16All right.
- 1:00:16Just kidding.
- 1:00:19Was Jesus a Republican or a Democrat?
- 1:00:21Definitely not having.
- 1:00:23He was a socialist.
- 1:00:27Communism only works with God.
- 1:00:29But that's monotheism anyways.
- 1:00:32Theocracy.
- 1:00:33That's a theocracy, right?
- 1:00:34Yeah.
- 1:00:35Yeah, theocracy.
- 1:00:37So whatever.
- 1:00:39Thanks for joining us on this trip down this roller coaster we call the Truth Response.
- 1:00:45And we love you guys, and as always, God bless.
- 1:00:49Peace out.
- 1:01:32Truth.
- 1:01:32In the battle light, in the loss, what we see, clarity and chaos.