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- 0:00Speaker 1: The Mark Simone Show Live from the War Life Back Studios.
- 0:05Speaker 1: Guest hosting from Mark Today, Here's King Rosato and so
- 0:10Speaker 1: good to be with you on a Friday seven ten
- 0:12Speaker 1: woor the Voice of New York. You know school districts
- 0:16Speaker 1: that are keeping secrets from parents when children socially transition
- 0:20Speaker 1: in school, they're now in for rude awakening. There is
- 0:23Speaker 1: now a lawsuit against the New Jersey school district regarding
- 0:26Speaker 1: student gender identity. Attorney Ronald Berruti filed suit against the
- 0:31Speaker 1: district that was allegedly socially transitioning a child without telling
- 0:35Speaker 1: the parents and without their consent. The school says under
- 0:38Speaker 1: New Jersey State Policy fifty seven fifty six, they have
- 0:41Speaker 1: no obligation to notify the parents and the doing so
- 0:44Speaker 1: would violate students privacy and safety. But saying people say
- 0:48Speaker 1: this is a violation of parental rights. Attorney Ronald Berruti,
- 0:52Speaker 1: good morning and welcome to the Mark Simone Show.
- 0:55Speaker 2: Yeah, good morning, Ken, thanks for having me.
- 0:57Speaker 1: You bet so talk about the main argument in your complaint.
- 1:02Speaker 2: Yeah, so, in the complaint that we have in state court,
- 1:08Speaker 2: a child, a minor child of a married couple. He
- 1:15Speaker 2: is in school and decides that she wanted to start
- 1:20Speaker 2: being called by a boy's name and wanted to change
- 1:23Speaker 2: her pronouns. So the school district then began honoring her
- 1:28Speaker 2: wishes and created a whole separate set of records of
- 1:33Speaker 2: using a petitive boy's name instead of her given name,
- 1:38Speaker 2: and then kept its secrets from the parents, who eventually
- 1:41Speaker 2: found out not from the school. And so the argument
- 1:45Speaker 2: is that the parents have an absolute constitutional right under
- 1:49Speaker 2: the fourteenth Amendment to their parental rights are being violated.
- 1:55Speaker 2: And also they have religious objections to this practice. And
- 2:00Speaker 2: because they did not have an opportunity to opt out
- 2:02Speaker 2: of what is the school wide school district wide policy
- 2:06Speaker 2: promoted by the state. No less, so they didn't have
- 2:10Speaker 2: an opportunity to opt out, their first Amendment free exercise
- 2:14Speaker 2: rights are also being violated.
- 2:17Speaker 1: Now, describe what this is when we're talking about policy
- 2:21Speaker 1: fifty seven to fifty six in New Jersey, and is
- 2:24Speaker 1: that constitutional?
- 2:26Speaker 2: No. Our argument is that it is not. The court
- 2:29Speaker 2: in our New Jersey case has granted a temporary restraining
- 2:35Speaker 2: order preventing the state and the school district in question
- 2:39Speaker 2: to preventing them from continuing on with these policies, depending
- 2:44Speaker 2: a hearing on the merits, which will be held on
- 2:46Speaker 2: September third in the Moonmouth County Courthouse.
- 2:50Speaker 1: I mean, this is along the same lines as we've
- 2:53Speaker 1: heard of school districts around the country who take a
- 2:56Speaker 1: child who wants to have an abortion across state lines.
- 2:59Speaker 1: And this is this is an absolute violation of parental
- 3:03Speaker 1: school trust. You pay school taxes, You put your child
- 3:07Speaker 1: on a school bus, and you assume that the child
- 3:09Speaker 1: will be protected through the day and come back the
- 3:13Speaker 1: child that you left at the school bus in the morning,
- 3:15Speaker 1: and that isn't the case.
- 3:17Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very difficult to deal with this for these parents.
- 3:23Speaker 2: I have three of these cases right now, and I
- 3:25Speaker 2: know of others that are percolating. The parents are really
- 3:31Speaker 2: they don't they can't believe that this is happening to
- 3:33Speaker 2: their child typically and that they've been not been able
- 3:37Speaker 2: to get help. I have another case where a parent
- 3:39Speaker 2: was helping the child, you know, and I had no
- 3:42Speaker 2: problem with the child deciding to transition once she was
- 3:47Speaker 2: eighteen years old, But while the child was eighteen years
- 3:52Speaker 2: under eighteen and under his roof, he wanted to be
- 3:55Speaker 2: able to work through things with the child. Because truth
- 3:59Speaker 2: is brains aren't fully reformed until the mid twenties, and
- 4:04Speaker 2: children need their parents guidance. Fit parents, that is, you know,
- 4:07Speaker 2: we're not talking about abusive parents. We're talking fit parents.
- 4:10Speaker 1: Right, And that's one of the arguments I guess that
- 4:12Speaker 1: the districts were making was that, you know, in these cases,
- 4:17Speaker 1: these kids could be subjected to abuse at home if
- 4:21Speaker 1: the parents knew that this was happening at school. But
- 4:24Speaker 1: if that were the case, there are other laws that
- 4:26Speaker 1: are being violated if the parents are being abusive, right,
- 4:29Speaker 1: And that's a separate and above and beyond this.
- 4:32Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely, And no parents should be abusive, and no
- 4:36Speaker 2: parental abuse should be tolerated, and it's not by law.
- 4:41Speaker 2: But we're talking fit parents. And look, the story I
- 4:45Speaker 2: hear from parents who have gone through this is not
- 4:48Speaker 2: that they're angry at their child. It's that they are
- 4:52Speaker 2: so sorrowful that they were not able to talk to
- 4:57Speaker 2: their child and speak to the child and try to
- 4:59Speaker 2: work through with their child and try to understand what
- 5:02Speaker 2: was going on with the child. It's a loss of family.
- 5:05Speaker 2: It's a complete really, it's a destruction of the family.
- 5:08Speaker 2: It's not a matter of being angry with the child.
- 5:10Speaker 2: The children have all sorts of issues, and parents are
- 5:15Speaker 2: supposed to play the primary role in raising children, be
- 5:19Speaker 2: it for educational or for medical issues.
- 5:23Speaker 1: But again, the idea that the parent sort of has
- 5:26Speaker 1: a feeling of having one pulled over on them, that
- 5:29Speaker 1: the only one who the secret is kept from is
- 5:32Speaker 1: the parent, and yet the parent is the one forced
- 5:35Speaker 1: to pay the school taxes, the parent is the one
- 5:37Speaker 1: forced to care for the child, and yet the parent
- 5:40Speaker 1: is the one that the secret is kept from, is
- 5:42Speaker 1: just infuriating.
- 5:44Speaker 2: Well, that's actually an interesting point because one of the
- 5:46Speaker 2: issues is, look, these school administrators, none of whom is
- 5:52Speaker 2: none of these people are educated in any kind of
- 5:56Speaker 2: psychotherapy or anything like that. There's school administrators, people with
- 5:59Speaker 2: teaching degrees, iministrative degrees. They're not professionals, and they're doing
- 6:03Speaker 2: this transitioning and at some point the child leaves the
- 6:07Speaker 2: school and those people are out of their lives. The parents, though,
- 6:11Speaker 2: are still going to be responsible for paying for all
- 6:15Speaker 2: the psychiatric treatments, the medical treatments, anything that comes up.
- 6:22Speaker 2: The parents are forever going to be on the hook
- 6:24Speaker 2: for these things. And there are plenty cases where where
- 6:29Speaker 2: there are children who have transitioned and as adults, they
- 6:34Speaker 2: want to they wish they hadn't done that, They wish
- 6:36Speaker 2: they could transition back that because they made a decision
- 6:40Speaker 2: too early in their lives. There are many people who
- 6:43Speaker 2: transitioned and they're happy, and God bless them. To me,
- 6:47Speaker 2: that's not something that I'm against. If they're emotionally able
- 6:54Speaker 2: to do that and want to do that, that's their business.
- 6:57Speaker 2: But for a child, the child is the business of
- 6:59Speaker 2: the parent, and the parents have absolute constitutional rights, and
- 7:03Speaker 2: it's the parent ultimately who has to bear the burden
- 7:08Speaker 2: of how the child turns out in terms of happiness
- 7:14Speaker 2: and psychological impact and frankly physical impact as well.
- 7:17Speaker 1: Yeah, we're talking with attorney Ron Burruti, who is in
- 7:21Speaker 1: the middle of several lawsuits. Actually, one we're talking about
- 7:24Speaker 1: right now is involving a New Jersey school district where
- 7:27Speaker 1: children are allowed to be in the school district transitioning
- 7:31Speaker 1: socially and the parents are not told of this. So
- 7:34Speaker 1: this is what the lawsuit is about. You have two
- 7:37Speaker 1: other lawsuits. Talk about the federal lawsuits if you can. Yeah,
- 7:42Speaker 1: So I.
- 7:42Speaker 2: Have one case that was pending for a few years now,
- 7:47Speaker 2: which is a similar tale of a daughter of a father,
- 7:52Speaker 2: a single father whose wife had died when the child
- 7:57Speaker 2: was four years old, and as she had suffered obviously
- 7:59Speaker 2: through with lots of trauma. Also, you know, someone on
- 8:03Speaker 2: the spectrum for autism, which is the school district's really
- 8:10Speaker 2: really go after those kids because a lot of them
- 8:12Speaker 2: feel out of place already because of their autism. But
- 8:16Speaker 2: this girl was actually had spoken to her father about this,
- 8:21Speaker 2: and she was undergoing various therapy and you know, nothing
- 8:28Speaker 2: to try to dissuade her, but to try to help her,
- 8:30Speaker 2: to make sure that she was, you know, feeling the
- 8:33Speaker 2: right way and that she was not just being impulsive.
- 8:36Speaker 2: And that was the situation again where the father was said,
- 8:39Speaker 2: at eighteen, if you want to do this on your own,
- 8:41Speaker 2: that's your business, but you're under my roof right now
- 8:43Speaker 2: and I want to help you. But still she told
- 8:47Speaker 2: the school she joined the club and told the school
- 8:49Speaker 2: that she'd like to be called by a boy's name.
- 8:51Speaker 2: And it was months after the fact that the father
- 8:54Speaker 2: learned and he was just really taken aback this was
- 9:00Speaker 2: happening behind his back, that school officials would call him
- 9:03Speaker 2: use his daughter's name as a female, but at all
- 9:07Speaker 2: other times would refer to the daughter as by a
- 9:10Speaker 2: boy's name, and the child was leading a double life
- 9:15Speaker 2: and was really struggling psychologist, psychologically because of it, and
- 9:23Speaker 2: we sued for him on grounds of parental rights, alleging
- 9:26Speaker 2: that this was unconstitutional.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Ron, do you see this going to the Supreme Court?
- 9:32Speaker 2: Well, the interesting part is that the United States Supreme
- 9:34Speaker 2: Court has already ruled on this issue, at least temporarily
- 9:39Speaker 2: in California that had the same types of policies. Supreme
- 9:43Speaker 2: Court recently ruled that there's a likelihood of success on
- 9:45Speaker 2: the merits that California an injunction would be issued against
- 9:49Speaker 2: California from engaging in these practices. But New Jersey, among
- 9:54Speaker 2: other states, still does this and still has these policies.
- 9:58Speaker 2: And we're now relying on upon that case in the
- 10:01Speaker 2: Supreme Court that came out of California in support of
- 10:05Speaker 2: our case here, and with that ruling, we feel that
- 10:09Speaker 2: we have a tremendous chance of success on any and
- 10:12Speaker 2: all of these cases that we're taking with regard to parents' rights.
- 10:16Speaker 1: All right, Ron Baruti, attorney, please keep us abreast of things,
- 10:19Speaker 1: let us know what happens with these cases. And thanks
- 10:22Speaker 1: for being on the mark. Simone Show. Thanks so much
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