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DISCIPLINE YOUR MIND – The Secret to Unstoppable Focus and Success · Motivational Podcast

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Speaker 1: Focus equals feeling. Focus equals feeling. Whatever you focus on,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna feel even if it's not true. So guess what,
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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what's true. The minute you focus on something,
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Speaker 1: that's what's true for you. It's like focus equals reality
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Speaker 1: for the individual even though it's not reality and actuality.
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Speaker 1: So learning to control our focus is the second skill
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Speaker 1: that will change your whole life. If you want to
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Speaker 1: feel the way you want to feel, you got to
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Speaker 1: learn about to focus on.
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Speaker 2: It's good that you have really high standards, but you
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Speaker 2: have to understand it's called self discipline for a reason,
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Speaker 2: meaning it's about you. You don't get to enforce that
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Speaker 2: on other people. That's why Marcus Realist talks about being
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Speaker 2: strict with yourself tolerant with others. Cato says, I can
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Speaker 2: forgive anyone's errors, but my own.
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Speaker 3: Mentally strong people have self discipline, and what I mean
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Speaker 3: by that they only do nice things for people who
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Speaker 3: treat them with respect. Write that down.
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Speaker 4: Gratitude erasist negativity. If you wake up in the morning
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Speaker 4: you start having negative thoughts. Man, this say my day,
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Speaker 4: I woke up on wrong side of bed, I'm tripping.
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Speaker 4: I just don't feel myself every time you feel in
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Speaker 4: the middle of the day. If you feel yourself doing that, stop,
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Speaker 4: just stop for a second and start going over in
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Speaker 4: your mind everything you have to be grateful for, not
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Speaker 4: everything you want, everything you already have.
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Speaker 5: I've got a three step plan to build more discipline.
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Speaker 5: Number one, be more aware, Number two, be consistent, and
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Speaker 5: number three you gotta be relentless with it.
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Speaker 6: Nothing's going to keep your focus if it's not meaningful.
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Speaker 7: Right, compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to
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Speaker 7: who someone else is today, because you need to have
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Speaker 7: a hierarchy of improvement, need to be aiming for something,
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Speaker 7: and that means you're going to be lesser than people
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Speaker 7: who've always already attained along that dimension. So the question
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Speaker 7: is who should you defeat in the final analysis, And
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Speaker 7: the answer is you should defeat your former self. You
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Speaker 7: should be constantly trying to do that. And you're the
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Speaker 7: right control for yourself too, because you're the one who's
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Speaker 7: had all your advantages and disadvantages. And so if you
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Speaker 7: want to compete fairly with someone, then you should be
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Speaker 7: competing with you. If you're improving yourself, then what you
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Speaker 7: are doing is competing with your lesser self.
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Speaker 8: The discipline calls for strength and fortitude and will. It
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Speaker 8: won't accept weakness, it won't tolerate another breakdown. The discipline
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Speaker 8: can seem like it's your worst enemy, but the reality
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Speaker 8: is discipline is your best friend. It will take care
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Speaker 8: of you like nothing else can, and it'll put you
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Speaker 8: on that path, the path to strength and health and
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Speaker 8: intelligence and happiness.
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Speaker 9: If the payoff is big enough, meaningful, significant gain changing.
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Speaker 10: This is why people give up on their goals.
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Speaker 6: They give up in their goals because they're not meaningful,
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Speaker 6: they're not significant, there's no life changing result.
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Speaker 7: If you're going to mess around with very complicated and
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Speaker 7: dangerous matters, you should really put your life together. We
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Speaker 7: also know that the higher your conscientiousness, the lower your neurotism.
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Speaker 7: Conscientiousness does seem to keep neuroticism in check, and so
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Speaker 7: I would say and have said this to many people.
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Speaker 7: Clean your room, organize your life, get a routine, get
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Speaker 7: up every day at the same time, go to bed
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Speaker 7: at the same time. Establish disciplined habits that will help
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Speaker 7: a lot.
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Speaker 5: Definition of discipline it's the suppression of base desires and
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Speaker 5: is usually understood to be synonymous with restraint and self
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Speaker 5: control for me. For me, discipline means forcing yourself to
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Speaker 5: do something that you don't necessarily want to do. I
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Speaker 5: mean forcing yourself to do the things that you don't
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Speaker 5: want to do that you know are the right thing
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Speaker 5: to do. To me, That's what discipline for me.
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Speaker 11: When I think about discipline, it's that my mental status
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Speaker 11: when I talk to myself is always apologetic and understanding
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Speaker 11: of things out of my control. My core discipline is
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Speaker 11: I wanted this.
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Speaker 12: To be the case.
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Speaker 13: It snowed.
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Speaker 14: Mother nature said go fuck yourself. I said, thank you,
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Speaker 14: mother Nature. And we got in at three am. I'm
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Speaker 14: not gonna wake up at six am and work out
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Speaker 14: because I'm tired. And it's okay, and I'll pick it
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Speaker 14: back up tomorrow.
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Speaker 1: And that's that.
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Speaker 10: Nothing is permanent but change.
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Speaker 1: Write it down. Nothing is permanent but change.
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Speaker 15: So thats somebody in this room.
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Speaker 1: You fail to test.
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Speaker 10: And you're acting like as permanent you wrote right now,
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Speaker 10: talk to somebody to day like I'm twenty five years old.
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Speaker 10: I had on money back. I said, okay, and did
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Speaker 10: you just hear what I said? I said, what did
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Speaker 10: you just say? I'm groth, I'm aloud to get evicted
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Speaker 10: from my house. I don't have anything. I say okay,
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Speaker 10: and like talk to me like you talking about guess
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Speaker 10: the end of the world. What are you saying? I'm growth, Oh,
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Speaker 10: let's do this. Don't focus on the fact.
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Speaker 11: That you're right.
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Speaker 10: Focus on the fact that nothing.
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Speaker 1: Is permitentent negativity.
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Speaker 4: You can protect yourself from negativity, and that's what stops
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Speaker 4: most people negative thoughts. You can cote your mind from negativity.
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Speaker 4: It's a real simple exercise to do.
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Speaker 16: I do it every.
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Speaker 4: Morning before I walk out the door, so I walk
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Speaker 4: out as a positive person. You know, I get tired
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Speaker 4: sometimes that's different from being negative because I get mentally
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Speaker 4: drained from my job at time. But to coat your
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Speaker 4: mind from negativity, the way you can put a coding
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Speaker 4: around your mind is with one simple thing, raticude.
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Speaker 1: We got to change what we focus on from the
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Speaker 1: question of what do I have to do to what's
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Speaker 1: my outcome? What do I want? What's most important to me?
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Speaker 1: What's the result I'm committed to getting that. One change
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Speaker 1: will change completely how you respond in your life, because
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Speaker 1: it will change you from focusing where everyone's demanding your attention,
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Speaker 1: or what you're afraid of or might give you a
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Speaker 1: pleasure in the moment to what's most important to you.
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Speaker 17: And it's the thing that got you to the point.
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Speaker 18: That you are at now, but now we don't value
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Speaker 18: it because we feel as if we've gotten to a
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Speaker 18: certain point. Like adversity is adversity, opposition is opposition. Challenges
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Speaker 18: are challenges, but it's not so much about the opposition
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Speaker 18: and adversity that we face as it is about the
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Speaker 18: perspective that we have about the opposition and adversity that
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Speaker 18: we face. Meaning perspective drost performance. Every day of the week,
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Speaker 18: how you view what you do will always affect how
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Speaker 18: you do.
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Speaker 6: What you doing Daily targets. You need a daily target,
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Speaker 6: what has to happen today that I can measure today
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Speaker 6: in order to stay focused on my goals tomorrow, next week,
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Speaker 6: and next month.
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Speaker 7: Sit down and open the calendar and think, okay, well,
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Speaker 7: here's what I'm going to do. I'm going to design
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Speaker 7: a week of days that I would really like to have.
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Speaker 7: What that would mean is that you would schedule things
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Speaker 7: that you would consider meaningful and productive, you know, on
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Speaker 7: a daily basis, so that you feel that your life
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Speaker 7: is justified by having a day like that and also
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Speaker 7: to schedule enough of your responsibility so that you make
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Speaker 7: progress day by day instead of falling farther behind.
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Speaker 19: You know what you should do, and you know what
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Speaker 19: you shouldn't do to be more successful, healthy, happy, and wealthy.
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Speaker 19: The problem is you aren't doing it. What's the gap
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Speaker 19: in self control, self management, emotional maturity? When you order
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Speaker 19: the nachos even though you're on a diet, When you
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Speaker 19: say yes to the extra drink even though you know
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Speaker 19: you shouldn't, When you respond in sarcasm, anger, or defensiveness
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Speaker 19: instead of compassion and patience, When you excuse yourself from
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Speaker 19: going to the gym because you got too busy, When
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Speaker 19: you excuse making those prospecting calls because you got too busy,
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Speaker 19: When you allowed minor distractions to pull you off your
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Speaker 19: important priorities. All these instances are a result of emotional sure.
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Speaker 20: Anyone has natural discipline, they build structures around them, They
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Speaker 20: build systems around them, They schedule them, and they eliminate
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Speaker 20: the things that take from it, and over time they
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Speaker 20: build this identity where they seem like they're incredibly disciplined people.
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Speaker 12: You imagination took you way off into time and space,
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Speaker 12: and you see.
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Speaker 15: That's where I want to go. You created what you
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Speaker 15: wanted in your mind. Don't ever let it go. That
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Speaker 15: is a frequency. You got to get there, You got
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Speaker 15: to live there.
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Speaker 21: Don't rely on others to support what you see in yourself.
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Speaker 15: Discipline it does start with waking up early, It really does.
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Speaker 15: That is just the beginning. I always say that discipline
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Speaker 15: is the loop of all good qualities, but you have
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Speaker 15: to absolutely apply it to things outside of just waking
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Speaker 15: up early. It's it's everything.
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Speaker 8: It's working out every day, making yourself stronger and faster and.
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Speaker 15: More flexible and healthier.
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Speaker 8: Discipline is eating the right foods to a fuel your system.
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Speaker 15: It's about disciplining your emotions.
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Speaker 22: You're making a lot of progress, so don't quit.
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Speaker 23: There's actually no reason to be scared.
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Speaker 10: And then in that moment, all of a sudden, where
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Speaker 10: you should be terrified, is.
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Speaker 15: The most blissful experience of your life.
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Speaker 10: And God placed the best things in life on the
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Speaker 10: other side of fear.
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Speaker 24: When difficulties come, what will you do? Will you quit
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Speaker 24: and shrink back or will you persevere and push forward?
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Speaker 24: Your answer to that question will determine your legacy on
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Speaker 24: this earth.
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Speaker 25: All I'm saying about vulnerability is that when you are
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Speaker 25: in uncertainty, when you feel at risk, when you feel exposed,
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Speaker 25: don't tap out. Stay brave, stay uncomfortable, stay in the
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Speaker 25: cringing moment, lean into the hard conversation, and keep leading.
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Speaker 26: Stop calling yourselves not for providence, start calling yourselves for
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Speaker 26: impact organization.
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Speaker 1: If there's an opportunity, if there's something I know it's valuable,
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Speaker 1: even though I feel I can do it, wrap it
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Speaker 1: by the hair right now, do something with it right now,
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Speaker 1: to push yourself forward.
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Speaker 11: There is nothing nothing more difficult than navigating your life
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Speaker 11: based on somebody else's opinion.
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Speaker 18: Life is going to place everybody in a position to
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Speaker 18: where you never know how strong you are, to be
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Speaker 18: as strong as only chard you as.
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Speaker 8: If you're so smart, why can't you come up with
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Speaker 8: a quick solution. Why can't you realize that overthinking is
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Speaker 8: actually causing the problem harm, it's not moving the problem forward.
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Speaker 15: So quit thinking so much and take action.
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Speaker 27: In most cases, when people are really successful, at least
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Speaker 27: in some area of their life, they're not just lucky,
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Speaker 27: but they're consistent.
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Speaker 28: Let me say that again.
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Speaker 27: And in some area of life, there's consistency, there's persistence,
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Speaker 27: there's pay since because successful people tend to do consistently
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Speaker 27: what other people do occasionally.
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Speaker 29: I'm gonna keep showing up. I'm not gonna quit. I
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Speaker 29: don't care what happens. If I don't quit, I can't fail. Okay,
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Speaker 29: if I don't quit, I can't fail. If I don't quit,
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Speaker 29: I can't fail. So you got to drop this failure
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Speaker 29: thing out of your your language.
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Speaker 15: Failures, it's a bull code for you.
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Speaker 1: Quit.
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Speaker 29: Don't be a quitter because if you quit, you will fail.
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Speaker 15: And the reality is you didn't fail. You quit, So
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Speaker 15: quit talking about the failure thing. You gotta quit quitting.
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Speaker 29: You need to quit the stuff that's no good for you,
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Speaker 29: and you need to start the stuff that is good
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Speaker 29: for you.
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Speaker 30: As long as you love it, you have to keep going.
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Speaker 20: You cannot quit.
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Speaker 30: Maybe one day somebody does throw you a bunch of
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Speaker 30: money and you can stop sleeping in your office. Or
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Speaker 30: maybe it's just a slow grind up and it takes
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Speaker 30: you ten years to become an overnight success. You'll never
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Speaker 30: know how long it will take you to be successful.
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Speaker 30: You do know is that if you quit on something
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Speaker 30: that you love, you will end up rereading it for
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Speaker 30: the rest of your life.
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Speaker 1: But you have to fight that urge to quit, because
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Speaker 1: I always say you will win if you don't quit.
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Speaker 23: The next thing that's important to know, yes, it's possible
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Speaker 23: that you can choose your future and direct the course
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Speaker 23: of your life. As you run toward your dream, it's
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Speaker 23: necessary that you have goals, that you write those goals down,
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Speaker 23: that you plan, that you think constantly of how you
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Speaker 23: can begin to improve what it is that you're doing,
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Speaker 23: if it's your presentations, if it's your recruiting skills, whatever
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Speaker 23: that is. It's also necessary that you look for ways
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Speaker 23: to always find a way to pull it out when
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Speaker 23: everybody else thinks you are defeated. That you've got to
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Speaker 23: take personal responsibility to know that in order to become successful,
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Speaker 23: you've got to make it your personal business to do it.
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Speaker 28: Don't you give up on your dream.
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Speaker 31: Every failed experiment is one step closer to six says.
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Speaker 32: If you think, or at tempted to say that you
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Speaker 32: did not have the opportunity, then you are making up excuses,
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Speaker 32: not providing a legitimate reason for your failure to create
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Speaker 32: a successful and fulfilling life.
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Speaker 33: Don't give up though the pace seems slow. You may
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Speaker 33: succeed with another blow. Success is failure turned inside out.
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Speaker 33: It's the silver tint of the clouds of doubt. And
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Speaker 33: you never can tell how close you are. It may
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Speaker 33: be near when it seems so far. So stick to
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Speaker 33: the fight when your hardest hit. It's when things seem
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Speaker 33: worse that you must not quit. You see, the way
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Speaker 33: that you become unstoppable is by refusing to stop.
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Speaker 34: When you get scared. You have fear every a false
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Speaker 34: evidence appearing real. It's amazing when you actually don't see
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Speaker 34: the full picture. You come to these fearful conclusions of
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Speaker 34: what you really should then hope for or not hope for.
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Speaker 34: But when you have faith, fai h full assurance in
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Speaker 34: the ham, no matter what you see, you can still
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Speaker 34: believe in something. And that's where hope comes in.
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Speaker 15: Ninety nine percent perspiration, one percent inspiration.
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Speaker 6: It's not just hard work.
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Speaker 15: It's perseverance is never giving up.
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Speaker 31: So I want you to make up in your mind
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Speaker 31: right now, whatever it is, whether you're planning a sport,
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Speaker 31: whether you have a business, whether it's a relationship that
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Speaker 31: you know is meant for your life, I want you
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Speaker 31: to make up in your mind right now that quintin
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Speaker 31: is not an option. It can't be an option, because
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Speaker 31: if you want to create something great, you want to
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Speaker 31: meet your potential, if you want to make your relationship
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Speaker 31: the best it's it's ever been, that it's supposed to be.
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Speaker 31: If you want to reach that dream and live the
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Speaker 31: lifestyle of whatever, or reach whatever it may be.
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Speaker 10: Right, they don't quit. The reason I'm here to day
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Speaker 10: is because I didn't quit.
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Speaker 35: We can show up as victims, or we can show
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Speaker 35: up as leaders.
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Speaker 7: I will do good no matter what, no matter what
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Speaker 7: happens to me, I will do good, no matter what
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Speaker 7: happens to me. It's absolute rejection of the idea of
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Speaker 7: being a victim. It's like, no matter how much suffering
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Speaker 7: comes my way, no matter how much undeserved suffering comes
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Speaker 7: my way, and I will do good and.
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Speaker 10: Be determined that no matter what, this is my north star.
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Speaker 10: This is what I want to do, This is what
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Speaker 10: I want to come And you don't get it.
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Speaker 15: It's possible, you can do it.
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Speaker 23: It's possible, and that if someone can make that dream
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Speaker 23: become a reality, that it's possible.
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Speaker 15: That you can make your dream become reality.
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Speaker 23: And so as you begin to look at where you
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Speaker 23: want to go, beginning to embrace that it's possible.
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Speaker 15: I'm blessed in holly favor. I've got a lot going
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Speaker 15: for me.
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Speaker 23: I've got some good stuff in me, and it's possible
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Speaker 23: that I can bring my great this out here in
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Speaker 23: the universe.
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Speaker 36: It's possible if you just don't quit, if you don't quit,
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Speaker 36: if you refuse to quit, you will not fail.
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Speaker 1: If I just held on to that the whole time,
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Speaker 1: and if I.
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Speaker 36: Just don't quit and then keep learning, because it's not
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Speaker 36: quitting means I don't just to trying the same thing
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Speaker 36: over and over, beating on the same door, and I
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Speaker 36: need to maybe research some other ways to get there.
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Speaker 28: You will not respect yourself until you follow through. Until
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Speaker 28: something is done. Come hell of high water, tears and
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Speaker 28: struggles and pain, and you go through it anyway, and
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Speaker 28: you show up, and you'll continue to fight.
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Speaker 1: On no man of the circumstances.
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Speaker 28: After a while, something against wither inside of you.
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Speaker 37: Some of us just cried. Some of us don't make
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Speaker 37: excuse this. Some of us don't a winder. Some of
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Speaker 37: us don't give up and give me. What we do
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Speaker 37: with the pressure is we fail. I got to take it.
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Speaker 37: I gotta take it to another level.
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Speaker 11: The truth is going to speak like you're not gonna
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Speaker 11: build a billion dollar.
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Speaker 38: By accident business.
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Speaker 39: I had big dreams. A lot of us have big dreams,
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Speaker 39: big goals, And when you have goals that are maybe
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Speaker 39: outside your reach, you have to know that getting to
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Speaker 39: that goal, you're gonna have a lot of bad days.
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Speaker 40: It doesn't matter what your social status is, it doesn't
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Speaker 40: matter how people perceive you. When when it comes down
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Speaker 40: to how long can you stay in that pool? When
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Speaker 40: it comes down to how far can you run? Comes
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Speaker 40: down to how much can you push yourself past the
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Speaker 40: part where you want to quit? How far can you
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Speaker 40: keep going? There's a purity in that that it did
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Speaker 40: dissolves social order. All that bullshit, all the what people
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Speaker 40: think about you goes out the window. It's what who
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Speaker 40: are you right now?
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Speaker 8: Don't give in to the immediate gratification that is whispering
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Speaker 8: in your ear.
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Speaker 41: Shut that down, Do not listen to that little voice. Instead,
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Speaker 41: go through the motions, lift the weights, sprint the hill,
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Speaker 41: work on the project, get out of bed.
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Speaker 15: As an overall rule.
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Speaker 41: I do not like procrastination. You need to get things done.
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Speaker 9: You need to make goals that are giant.
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Speaker 42: I know you want more I can see the hunger
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Speaker 42: in your eyes.
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Speaker 26: The human brain cannot comprehend the negative.
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Speaker 15: I want to go warri your versus ward. I want
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Speaker 15: to go try versus trial.
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Speaker 24: Set a goal to become a millionaire, then here's why.
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Speaker 21: For what it will make of you to achieve it.
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Speaker 43: Set a goal, it will make you stretch that far
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Speaker 43: for what it will make of you to achieve it.
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Speaker 24: Brand new reason for setting goals.
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Speaker 21: And here's why.
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Speaker 24: The greatest value in life is not what you gain.
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Speaker 44: The greatest value in life.
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Speaker 21: Is what you become.
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Speaker 45: Growth is expected, It's not an option.
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Speaker 46: You got to keep growing to keep going.
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Speaker 6: I'm fifty seven years old.
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Speaker 9: I spent thirty years trying to please people.
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Speaker 1: I ended up with nothing.
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Speaker 28: Man.
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Speaker 9: When I finally said, you know what I'm done, dude,
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Speaker 9: the more energy I spent trying to please people make
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Speaker 9: you happy, them happy, mom happy, daddy happy, I still
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Speaker 9: couldn't make everybody happy. I'm like, you know what I'm done, dude,
19:30
Speaker 9: I'm gonna make me happy. I'm gonna run my gig.
19:33
Speaker 9: This is my life. I want to create the life
19:35
Speaker 9: I want for me. And if you don't like that life,
19:37
Speaker 9: you probably don't even like your life, because that's the people.
19:39
Speaker 47: That end up criticising.
19:41
Speaker 42: And when you have goals and dreams you want to achieve,
19:44
Speaker 42: ask yourself the question who should I count on and
19:47
Speaker 42: who should I count out? And so many people never
19:50
Speaker 42: achieve their goals because they have too many toxic, negative
19:54
Speaker 42: energy draining people in their lives. And you have to
19:58
Speaker 42: have goals outside of your COMFID zone that will challenge you,
20:02
Speaker 42: because in order to do something you've never done, you've
20:05
Speaker 42: got to become someone you've never been.
20:07
Speaker 35: It's the secret of passion is knowing your daily and
20:10
Speaker 35: yearly purpose and even your lifetime purpose.
20:13
Speaker 48: If you show up for work on time and stay
20:15
Speaker 48: there until the appointed departure time, if you do what
20:19
Speaker 48: they pay you to do, and then they pay you,
20:22
Speaker 48: then nobody owes anybody anything. Now, if you want to raise,
20:27
Speaker 48: get there a few minutes early, ask for extra things
20:31
Speaker 48: to do. Be cheerful and positive and optimistic and helpful.
20:35
Speaker 48: Don't goof off and try to get out of work delivered.
20:38
Speaker 48: Let's seek the boss to find extra work, and then
20:41
Speaker 48: I will absolutely guarantee you a raise in short order.
20:45
Speaker 45: What you want to be tomorrow, you've got to do today.
20:52
Speaker 45: You visualize tomorrow. That gives you hope, But that's your
20:57
Speaker 45: motivation and that's your dream. Nothing wrong with that.
21:00
Speaker 46: You visualize tomorrow, but you value today.
21:07
Speaker 9: When the goal is attainable, it's no longer exciting because
21:11
Speaker 9: if you can go get it easily.
21:13
Speaker 11: You're going to take it for granted.
21:14
Speaker 28: I could be.
21:15
Speaker 21: Perfect for everybody in the room.
21:17
Speaker 9: Half the people are still going to be like nice
21:18
Speaker 9: to cockies to this.
21:20
Speaker 47: He's to that.
21:21
Speaker 39: You made this much money. Get back to work. It's
21:24
Speaker 39: time to get back to work. Stop hearing yourself talk,
21:26
Speaker 39: Get off the podcast, don't be on social media too much.
21:29
Speaker 39: Cut out all the noise.
21:30
Speaker 41: Get back to the mental lap.
21:33
Speaker 26: I can't get apart. I can't get apart. I can't
21:38
Speaker 26: get apart right or I can't do this versus I'm
21:45
Speaker 26: going to keep doing this. I'm going to keep doing this.
21:49
Speaker 26: I'm going to keep doing this. It's your choice how
21:52
Speaker 26: you choose to perceive your own career.
21:54
Speaker 1: It's literally perspective.
21:57
Speaker 35: Education is inoculation against disruption. The world belongs to the learners.
22:02
Speaker 35: As you know more, you can achieve more. As you invest.
22:07
Speaker 35: I'll put it to you this week to double your income,
22:09
Speaker 35: triple your rate of learning.
22:11
Speaker 33: Take a simple goal to double your income within the
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Speaker 33: next six to twelve months. That's a good goal, eminently achievable.
22:18
Speaker 33: You're surrounded by people who have done it already in
22:21
Speaker 33: the last twelve months and who are going to do
22:24
Speaker 33: it in the next six to twelve months. So make
22:26
Speaker 33: a decision to be one of them. All right, then
22:29
Speaker 33: make a plan to achieve it. Why aren't you already
22:32
Speaker 33: earning twice as much? And pretty soon if you ask
22:35
Speaker 33: the question, the answer will pop up. And then you
22:37
Speaker 33: start doing what you need to do every single day.
22:40
Speaker 33: And then we learn. Listen, upgrade your skills because you
22:44
Speaker 33: can learn anything you need to learn, and the more
22:46
Speaker 33: you learn, the more you can learn. And I studied
22:48
Speaker 33: this subject exhaustively. Your brain is unbelievable. If you don't
22:52
Speaker 33: use it, you lose it.
22:54
Speaker 46: The reason you start with yourself is because you cannot
22:57
Speaker 46: give what you do not have. So you better start
23:02
Speaker 46: with yourself. Because if you're leading others that have nothing
23:05
Speaker 46: to give them, nothing to share with them, nothing to
23:08
Speaker 46: teach them, then I can promise you you'll never be
23:14
Speaker 46: what you want to be as a leader.
23:17
Speaker 49: What is your goal in life? For some people will
23:21
Speaker 49: say to grow a company, and people will say, get
23:23
Speaker 49: a great job, and then ask yourself why. So whatever
23:27
Speaker 49: you had as your goal in life, you know, ask
23:29
Speaker 49: yourself why, and then people will come up with different answers. Retirely,
23:35
Speaker 49: make money, find a soul me and then ask yourself
23:38
Speaker 49: why again. If you keep asking yourself why over and
23:41
Speaker 49: over again, what's interesting is that eventually everyone ends up
23:46
Speaker 49: with the same answer, and that's whatever their goal in
23:50
Speaker 49: life is, whatever they're pursuing they believe will make them happier.
23:55
Speaker 10: And you can stay here.
23:57
Speaker 37: You could probably have a fam, you can probably have
23:59
Speaker 37: a great life.
24:00
Speaker 18: You can stay here and you can settle and things
24:02
Speaker 18: will probably go great for you. You can pipe down
24:04
Speaker 18: at this point, things will probably be cool.
24:06
Speaker 15: But if you dare to be great, if.
24:08
Speaker 18: You dare to do something that you've never done before,
24:11
Speaker 18: if you dare to go to limits that you've never
24:13
Speaker 18: went to before, they will remember your legacy forever.
24:17
Speaker 41: Humble, not passive.
24:19
Speaker 1: I can because I'm capable. I can do it.
24:21
Speaker 10: I can't because I can, I will because I'm strong.
24:25
Speaker 1: I can get through any obstacle. And my weight of
24:27
Speaker 1: my journey.
24:28
Speaker 10: And I say journey because it's not a destination.
24:30
Speaker 33: This is a journey.
24:31
Speaker 13: I must because they count on me.
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Speaker 1: I must. This is gonna be harder for them to
24:35
Speaker 1: do it if I don't do it. I must because
24:37
Speaker 1: I gotta break that cycle.
24:40
Speaker 45: Boredom is the drug.
24:42
Speaker 9: You need to avoid it because that's where people start
24:45
Speaker 9: making bad choices. Typically, they don't become a drug addict.
24:47
Speaker 11: They become a consumer of garbage.
24:49
Speaker 7: They waste time, they consume excuses.
24:53
Speaker 4: There is no one like you.
24:55
Speaker 33: There has never been anyone like you, there shall never
24:59
Speaker 33: be anyone like you.
25:03
Speaker 1: Therefore, know yourself.
25:06
Speaker 50: Even the richest, most successful person in the world, they
25:09
Speaker 50: have something that they're lacking. It may not be money,
25:11
Speaker 50: but they may be lacking health. They may be lacking
25:12
Speaker 50: in connections, they may be lacking a specific resource. Your
25:15
Speaker 50: goal is to position yourself in that situation to supply
25:18
Speaker 50: that need and come in as what the irreplaceable, most experienced,
25:22
Speaker 50: in demand person, not just to make money, but to
25:24
Speaker 50: capture the opportunity.
25:27
Speaker 42: You have the power to do more than you can
25:29
Speaker 42: ever begin to imagine. Don't underestimate yourself. You don't know
25:35
Speaker 42: enough about yourself to become a cynic, and so you've
25:39
Speaker 42: got to challenge yourself to access that power that you
25:42
Speaker 42: have within you. You're more than a conqueror.
25:49
Speaker 22: Act like the person you want to become. That's not
25:51
Speaker 22: fake it till you make it. By the way, this
25:54
Speaker 22: is intentional. Intentionally act like the person you want to become.
25:58
Speaker 22: Because when you intentionally to act like the person you
26:01
Speaker 22: want to become, your brain sees you taking those actions,
26:05
Speaker 22: so your brain starts to change the way it relates
26:08
Speaker 22: to you.
26:09
Speaker 44: If you want revenge for the bad things that happened
26:12
Speaker 44: in your life, start with the version of you that
26:15
Speaker 44: hasn't lived up to your attention.
26:17
Speaker 1: You hear me clear enough? No more going around.
26:20
Speaker 51: This kid's going to be the best kid in the world.
26:23
Speaker 51: This kid's going to be somebody better than anybody ever knew.
26:27
Speaker 16: In this lifetime.
26:27
Speaker 28: You don't have to prove nothing to nobody except yourself,
26:31
Speaker 28: and after what you've gone through, if you haven't done
26:34
Speaker 28: that by now, it ain't gonna never happen.
26:38
Speaker 1: I want you to work.
26:39
Speaker 10: While you're working, are you hearing me?
26:41
Speaker 52: You have to have a lot of passion for what
26:43
Speaker 52: you're doing, because it's so hard that if you don't,
26:47
Speaker 52: any rational person would give up. It's really hard, and
26:51
Speaker 52: you have to do it over a sustained period of time.
26:53
Speaker 52: So if you don't love it, if you're not having
26:55
Speaker 52: fun doing it, you don't.
26:56
Speaker 19: Really love it, you're going to give.
26:58
Speaker 41: Ups and make your play.
27:02
Speaker 48: If you got a good self image, if you have
27:04
Speaker 48: your goal set in life, if you've got the right
27:07
Speaker 48: mental lattitude, nobody has to tell you go to work.
27:11
Speaker 48: That just follows naturally. So this is what we're going
27:14
Speaker 48: to work on. And you gotta have a desire to succeed.
27:18
Speaker 48: You can't just casually want the good things in life.
27:21
Speaker 48: It's got to become a passion for you. Your dream has
27:24
Speaker 48: got to be more than just an idle thoughts. You
27:26
Speaker 48: got to be willing to build a foundation under it.
27:29
Speaker 46: And that's for sure what you will do in.
27:32
Speaker 1: Life, what your life's work will be.
27:36
Speaker 16: Want you discover up what it would be, set out
27:38
Speaker 16: to do it, and to do it well.
27:41
Speaker 1: Average, ill, phenomenal, will avery ill phenomenal.
27:46
Speaker 8: Will shoot for the moon.
27:48
Speaker 53: Because even if you miss, you're a lad above the start.
27:52
Speaker 4: Well done, acceptance, congratulations, you did it, you can do it.
27:58
Speaker 47: Let's do it.
28:00
Speaker 1: Be a bush.
28:00
Speaker 16: If you can't be a treat, if you can't be
28:02
Speaker 16: a highway, just be a trail.
28:04
Speaker 1: If you can't be the sun, be a star, Well,
28:06
Speaker 1: this isn't my sign that you win, or you feel
28:08
Speaker 1: you've got.
28:08
Speaker 23: Bess somewey ever, you are view all of the things
28:12
Speaker 23: that happened to you as an opportunity. Now you become
28:16
Speaker 23: an active force in your life. Now you are the one.
28:19
Speaker 23: Rather than running from things as they begin to change,
28:22
Speaker 23: you become a change driver because you know that you've
28:26
Speaker 23: got the power within you to make the difference. This force,
28:29
Speaker 23: this power, this energy that you have that's more powerful
28:33
Speaker 23: than anything that.
28:34
Speaker 28: Can ever happen.
28:36
Speaker 33: Andersonce, I was a kid, everyone said it couldn't be done.
28:40
Speaker 11: In my whole life, people will have told me what
28:42
Speaker 11: I could do and couldn't do.
28:44
Speaker 21: I've always listened to him to even.
28:45
Speaker 1: Do what they said.
28:46
Speaker 21: I don't want to do that at all.
28:48
Speaker 51: The world, in all sunshine and rainbows, it's a very
28:51
Speaker 51: mean and nasty place. And I don't care how.
28:54
Speaker 1: Tough you are.
28:55
Speaker 51: It will beat you to your knees and keep you
28:57
Speaker 51: there permanently if you let it. You me or nobody
29:01
Speaker 51: who's going to hit as hard as life.
29:03
Speaker 15: But it ain't about how hard you hit.
29:05
Speaker 51: It's about how hard you can't get hit and keep
29:08
Speaker 51: moving forward. How much you can take they keep moving forward?
29:13
Speaker 15: What you want.
29:15
Speaker 54: Most people never dare to evaluate really where they are,
29:21
Speaker 54: and you gotta know where you are before you can
29:23
Speaker 54: really determine your chances of getting what you really won't
29:26
Speaker 54: out of life.
29:28
Speaker 11: How many questions the same thing? Put out content, put
29:31
Speaker 11: out a great product, testings, try it all, use data,
29:35
Speaker 11: use your intuition, test and learn, test and learn, test
29:38
Speaker 11: and learn.
29:38
Speaker 1: And this is just insane.
29:41
Speaker 11: Lack of patience and lack of understanding that takes actual
29:44
Speaker 11: skills to actually win is frustrating.
29:48
Speaker 55: A time put in the hard work it takes to succeed.
29:55
Speaker 44: Curse of competence. If you're good at things and have
29:58
Speaker 44: high standards, assume that you should always do well, which
30:03
Speaker 44: means that success isn't a close the celebration, but it's
30:07
Speaker 44: the minimum level of reasonable performance. Anything less than victory
30:11
Speaker 44: would be a failure, and victory itself becomes nothing more
30:14
Speaker 44: than acceptable congratulations. You might be very successful, you also
30:19
Speaker 44: might be very miserable.
30:21
Speaker 39: And that's what it took for me to get here.
30:24
Speaker 39: When you put that practice in every day, you lace
30:27
Speaker 39: them up and now I mean ron it's just a
30:29
Speaker 39: metaphor for life. When you lace the motherfuckers up every day,
30:32
Speaker 39: pretty soon you went. You have the currors and the
30:34
Speaker 39: heart and the dedication and the mindset about everybody, go
30:36
Speaker 39: fuck themselves.
30:37
Speaker 1: I know what I know. I've listened to myself enough
30:40
Speaker 1: to know.
30:40
Speaker 39: I know what I know. None of you can hear
30:42
Speaker 39: what I'm here. And that's what people don't do enough of.
30:44
Speaker 39: They don't listen to their journey. They listen to everybody
30:47
Speaker 39: else's shit. You're not looking at the truth in front
30:49
Speaker 39: of you.
30:50
Speaker 15: The truth in front of you is it sucks.
30:52
Speaker 39: This is what it takes creating another voice and sometimes
30:55
Speaker 39: going at it alone.
30:56
Speaker 16: Number one in your life's blueprint should be a deep
31:02
Speaker 16: belief in your own dignity, your own worth, and your
31:07
Speaker 16: own somebodys. Don't allow anybody to make you feel that
31:12
Speaker 16: you are nobody. Always feel that you count, always feel
31:18
Speaker 16: that you have worth, and always feel that your life
31:23
Speaker 16: has ultimate significance.
31:27
Speaker 51: Then the time come for you to be your own
31:29
Speaker 51: man and take on the world.
31:30
Speaker 1: And you did.
31:31
Speaker 51: But somewhere along the line, you changed. You stop being you.
31:36
Speaker 51: You let people stick a finger in your face and
31:38
Speaker 51: tell you you're no good and when things got hard,
31:41
Speaker 51: you started looking for something to blame, like a big shadow.
31:46
Speaker 55: Every single one of you has something that you're good at.
31:50
Speaker 55: Every single one of you has something to offer, and
31:53
Speaker 55: you have a responsibility to yourself to discover what that is.
31:59
Speaker 39: You have all these voices that are telling you you're
32:01
Speaker 39: fucked up, and this can be hard, but for some reason,
32:03
Speaker 39: you put so much practice into you that you can
32:06
Speaker 39: ignore every one of them. They are telling you you're
32:08
Speaker 39: not going to fucking make it, and still be able
32:10
Speaker 39: to fucking make it because you have put the practice
32:13
Speaker 39: in that you know this is the process. It's such
32:16
Speaker 39: a daunting task that all the voices are saying, though,
32:19
Speaker 39: but you still have the conviction that I.
32:22
Speaker 15: Know I can do this.
32:25
Speaker 38: If you want to create a new life, a new
32:27
Speaker 38: personal reality, you got to change your personality, which means
32:31
Speaker 38: you better start thinking about when you've been thinking about
32:33
Speaker 38: and changing it. You begin to become conscious of your
32:37
Speaker 38: unconscious actions or habits or behaviors and modify them. And
32:41
Speaker 38: then we have to begin to look at the emotions
32:44
Speaker 38: that we live by every single day. Got keep us
32:47
Speaker 38: connected to the past and decide do these emotions belong
32:51
Speaker 38: in our future?
32:52
Speaker 43: Empty your mind a formless, shadeless like water. Now you
33:00
Speaker 43: could water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You
33:04
Speaker 43: get water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle. You
33:06
Speaker 43: put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now
33:10
Speaker 43: water can flow, how it can crash the water? My friend,
33:16
Speaker 43: accept the pain, Smile at the pain, Embrace the pain.
33:22
Speaker 33: Pays.
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Speaker 16: The gate keeper of destiny pay is there to ask
33:26
Speaker 16: you one simple question.
33:28
Speaker 33: Do you really want to achieve your words? Or are
33:33
Speaker 33: you just a talk?
33:35
Speaker 54: What we do in life that goes in eternity?
33:42
Speaker 8: Work hard, make things happen.
33:44
Speaker 50: Pick a task, sit down and do it.
33:48
Speaker 8: You're worthy and you matter, and make sure to go
33:51
Speaker 8: out there and do something great.
33:55
Speaker 47: You you what?
33:59
Speaker 53: You definitely good.
34:00
Speaker 13: The point is the story continues.
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Speaker 1: The story continues.
34:04
Speaker 13: So if you fail on Monday, the only way it's
34:07
Speaker 13: a failure on Monday is if you decide to not
34:10
Speaker 13: progress from that right.
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Speaker 1: So to me, that's why failure is not existent.
34:14
Speaker 13: Because you know, if I fail today, Okay, I'm gonna
34:16
Speaker 13: learn something from that failure and I'm gonna try again
34:18
Speaker 13: on Tuesday.
34:19
Speaker 12: Ask yourself, am I living the way I really want
34:23
Speaker 12: to live?
34:24
Speaker 6: I'm dedicated to this what I'm obsessed with it.
34:26
Speaker 1: That's your moment. That's your moment. It's not that all
34:30
Speaker 1: is lost.
34:31
Speaker 36: When you're feeling the most trapped and down and nothing
34:35
Speaker 36: can't go right. I feel like those are the moments
34:37
Speaker 36: that define you.
34:40
Speaker 43: Your greatest enemy isn't the one standing in front of you.
34:44
Speaker 43: It's the one staring back at you in the mirror,
34:47
Speaker 43: the one who knows every move before you make it,
34:50
Speaker 43: the one who can defeat you with a single thought.
34:54
Speaker 43: You know who I'm talking about, don't you That voice
34:57
Speaker 43: in your head right now, the one telling you you're
35:02
Speaker 43: not good enough, not ready enough, not strong enough.
35:07
Speaker 21: That's your opponent.
35:10
Speaker 56: I was so hard to see the good if you're
35:12
Speaker 56: only seeing the bad. Like, there's so many people that
35:15
Speaker 56: struggle with their version of successes because they're looking at
35:20
Speaker 56: someone else's. There's so many people that struggle with their
35:24
Speaker 56: world or relationship because they're judging theirs based off of
35:28
Speaker 56: someone else's right. And when you're constantly in the space
35:32
Speaker 56: of not realizing or noticing your world, your reality because
35:38
Speaker 56: you're living in what appears to be someone else's.
35:41
Speaker 1: Rest at the end, not in the middle.
35:44
Speaker 11: He stands for patience. Way too many people in this
35:47
Speaker 11: space are not patient. Everybody's like, why isn't it happening.
35:50
Speaker 11: I've been doing this for six months.
35:51
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?
35:52
Speaker 11: You're building a business. The next point is, ah, hustle.
35:56
Speaker 28: You need to know your stuff.
35:57
Speaker 11: Don't go to space you don't understand because whend is
36:00
Speaker 11: going there at some bull crap?
36:02
Speaker 41: Do what you know.
36:03
Speaker 12: Keep reminding yourself that you have tremendous reservoirs and potential
36:06
Speaker 12: within you, and therefore you are quite capable of doing
36:09
Speaker 12: anything you set your mind to.
36:11
Speaker 10: You really can.
36:13
Speaker 12: I don't care what the set ex tell you.
36:15
Speaker 21: Quit listening to some of your peers.
36:17
Speaker 12: Now, all you must do is figure out how you
36:19
Speaker 12: can do it, not whether you can or not. When
36:23
Speaker 12: are you going to do it? When are you going
36:26
Speaker 12: to do it? You've got to create a sense of urgency.
36:28
Speaker 12: I'm going to do it right now?
36:31
Speaker 1: What am I going to do? Now?
36:32
Speaker 36: How do you respond to that? And thinking your way,
36:36
Speaker 36: feeling your way, working your way through those things on
36:39
Speaker 36: the other side, or you're the closest to getting what
36:42
Speaker 36: you want is you don't have to focus on what
36:45
Speaker 36: you can't change the fact that you're here now and
36:48
Speaker 36: that you made a.
36:48
Speaker 56: Decision to get clean to turn your life around. It's
36:54
Speaker 56: never too late.
36:55
Speaker 47: Thoalent without work is nothing, and work without tholent is nothing.
37:00
Speaker 47: So I think the both mix up.
37:04
Speaker 1: You have to work hard.
37:05
Speaker 27: It's the work we put in when nobody's watching that
37:08
Speaker 27: really mattered.
37:09
Speaker 57: How you gain mental toughness, how you become a person
37:12
Speaker 57: you want to be is constantly facing the things that
37:16
Speaker 57: you don't want to face. If you constantly run away
37:18
Speaker 57: from things that you don't want to face, how is
37:21
Speaker 57: their growth.
37:23
Speaker 24: Success is not about being the smartest person in the room.
37:27
Speaker 24: It's not about having the most talent or the best opportunities.
37:31
Speaker 32: No.
37:32
Speaker 24: Success is about out working everybody else. It's about being
37:35
Speaker 24: willing to do what others want.
37:37
Speaker 8: You don't get disciplined from your parents. You don't get
37:43
Speaker 8: disciplined from your parents, from your grandparents, from.
37:46
Speaker 41: Your older brothers and sisters.
37:48
Speaker 8: You don't get disciplined from an external source.
37:52
Speaker 41: You have to get it from you. That's what self
37:55
Speaker 41: discipline is. You get it from yourself.
37:57
Speaker 15: You get it from you.
38:00
Speaker 47: You have to challenge yourself to be consistent. I repeat
38:06
Speaker 47: sometimes it's hard. It's what many people say. You like
38:11
Speaker 47: to go to the gym every day. Of course not.
38:14
Speaker 1: It's not true.
38:14
Speaker 47: Nobody likes to go to the gym every day.
38:17
Speaker 1: But you have to do it.
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Speaker 53: Probably yes, because your mental strength is coming from that,
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Speaker 53: from that moment that, in a hard moment, you know
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Speaker 53: you should do it.
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Speaker 24: It's about killing that lazy voice in your head that
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Speaker 24: says I will do it tomorrow. I'm not lazy, I'm
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Speaker 24: just unmotivated. Well, let me tell you something. Motivation is
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Speaker 24: a myth. You don't need motivation, You need discipline. Motivation
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Speaker 24: is fleeting, It comes and goes like the wind. But discipline,
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Speaker 24: discipline is what gets you out of bed at five am,
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Speaker 24: when every fiber of your being is screaming to hit
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Speaker 24: the snooze button. Do you think successful people always feel motivated?
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Speaker 58: Purpose is that feeling that you are a part of
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Speaker 58: something bigger than yourself, that you are needed, and that
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Speaker 58: you have something better ahead to work for. Purpose is
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Speaker 58: what creates true happiness.
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Speaker 21: Do you know that the harder thing to do and
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Speaker 21: the right thing to do are usually the same thing?
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Speaker 21: Nothing that has meaning is easy. Easy doesn't enter into
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Speaker 21: grown up life.
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Speaker 17: You have to know what matters to you. You have
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Speaker 17: to know what you truly care about, like, what is
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Speaker 17: your true norse in life? The question I often ask
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Speaker 17: people is what does your ideal day look like?
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Speaker 1: At age eighty?
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Speaker 17: Truly visualize and imagine what your ideal day looks.
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Speaker 43: Like looking into the sun. Once you see it, you
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Speaker 43: can never unsee it.
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Speaker 11: Hustle for your monetization. Nothing's going to come to you.
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Speaker 11: Don't act and let somebody else do it for you.
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Speaker 11: You need to hustle for yourself, especially in the beginning.
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Speaker 17: Phasis are you actually taking actions today to create that future?
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Speaker 17: Because what happens is most people will say, my ideal
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Speaker 17: day is sitting with people I love, feeling healthy of
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Speaker 17: body and mind, thinking about things that I care about.
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Speaker 17: Friends coming over, and then you ask them what they're
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Speaker 17: doing on a daily basis, and they're basically chasing. They're
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Speaker 17: chasing money, they're drinking, they're partying things that actually are
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Speaker 17: not leading to that end that they say they want.
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Speaker 17: It's like the adage of don't tell me your priorities,
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Speaker 17: show me your calendar. Are your actions actually creating the
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Speaker 17: future that you are trying to create? Be honest with yourself.
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Speaker 17: But those things that we want are remarkably similar. But
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Speaker 17: our ability to take actions on them in the present
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Speaker 17: is very different.
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Speaker 44: If you work really, really hot and you blow up,
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Speaker 44: as in get the big exit or a chief the
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Speaker 44: level of success and you never need to work again,
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Speaker 44: or oh, you've got some sort of a business that
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Speaker 44: allows you to really really step back. You're driven person.
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Speaker 44: You're just going to turn yourself inside out trying to
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Speaker 44: find new challenges to do. So that's if it goes right.
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Speaker 44: But if it goes wrong, you're burned out, and maybe
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Speaker 44: you kick yourself out of the game because if you've
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Speaker 44: damaged your health, or you've damaged your motivation, or you've
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Speaker 44: lost passion for whatever the industry was that used to
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Speaker 44: be in. So the biggest lesson that I've learned from
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Speaker 44: Chris is emotions, to embrace them, to listen to them,
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Speaker 44: and the bravery to be able to open up to
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Speaker 44: a partner about them. He's the king, He's the absolute
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Speaker 44: king of it.
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Speaker 1: If you give your all every day, your gifts will
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Speaker 1: make room for you, and it's like having a knowingness
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Speaker 1: that things are going to be fine. And then there's
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Speaker 1: the next level, which is you start to know who
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Speaker 1: you are and you're not trying to prove it to
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Speaker 1: yourself or other people. You just want to help, You
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Speaker 1: just want to do things. It's a difference between what
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Speaker 1: I would call push motivation and pull. Push is I'm
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Speaker 1: going to make this happen, and it takes tremendous willpower,
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Speaker 1: and I know you have plenty of willpower. I do
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Speaker 1: as well, But there's a limit to willpower, but there's
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Speaker 1: no limit to pull. Pull is when there's something magnificent
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Speaker 1: that you want to serve, something that you've got an
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Speaker 1: obsession for to create or to do or make happen.
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Speaker 1: You don't lose that energy, you don't lose those components,
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Speaker 1: and you're able to laugh and enjoy it along the way,
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Speaker 1: as opposed to if I don't keep doing this. And
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Speaker 1: I used to believe that too. It's like, I gotta
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Speaker 1: is so intense every moment.
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Speaker 44: Conspicuous busyness is much more societally rewarded than quiet effectiveness.
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Speaker 44: We want other people to see how hard we're working.
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Speaker 41: It's always the hardest.
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Speaker 1: It's always the feeling.
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Speaker 36: When you're getting ready to you know, people give up
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Speaker 36: right before they get what they've always wanted to get.
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Speaker 36: People quit and they give up, And I will not
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Speaker 36: be the person who quit before I got what I
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Speaker 36: wanted or what I needed, or what I felt I
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Speaker 36: was supposed to have.
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Speaker 41: And if that wasn't for me, it wasn't for me.
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Speaker 36: I'm gonna keep grinding. I'm keep knocking on the door
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Speaker 36: until I get what I feel. That's been something I've
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Speaker 36: always felt.