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Impossible? – Break Through Your Limits and Achieve the Unthinkable · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Impossible.
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  Speaker 2: It's not a fact.
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  Speaker 1: That's an opinion. If you can see it here and
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  Speaker 1: you have the current to speak it, it will happen.
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  Speaker 1: Just because it's never been done doesn't mean it can't
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  Speaker 1: be done. It's your opinion. And I'll say, no science
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  Speaker 1: shows and I say, how many times a science shows
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  Speaker 1: something impossible? Now, science shows is possible to if things
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  Speaker 1: are impossible till somebody doesn't.
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  Speaker 3: You will never learn from people if we always tap
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  Speaker 3: dance around the truth.
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  Speaker 2: We tap dance around the truth by finding the right words.
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  Speaker 2: I don't hurt you because you have thin skin.
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  Speaker 3: No tighten up, people, It's okay, trust me, it's okay.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, it's important not to give yourself boundaries, which
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  Speaker 4: we can do quite easily. Okay, people talk about aiming
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  Speaker 4: for the skies. Sometimes even aiming for the skies is intimidating.
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  Speaker 4: Just don't give yourself boundaries. Your sky and my sky
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  Speaker 4: might be different, you know what I mean, But neither
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  Speaker 4: of us will touch the sky if we give ourselves boundaries.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I mean, Whatever your sky is, whatever
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  Speaker 4: your biggest dream is, I've already touched that, you know. Sorry.
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  Speaker 4: In other words, what sky? Where does the sky end.
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather people.
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  Speaker 4: Go, you know what, I'm not going to restrict myself
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  Speaker 4: to the guy and I can only do this, so
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  Speaker 4: I can only do that. Oh, I have to do
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  Speaker 4: it this right, or I have to do it that way.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's important that people just go lose the boundaries,
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  Speaker 4: lose the conformity, and just go for it.
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  Speaker 2: What are you going to do now? They don't own
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  Speaker 2: your life? How are you going to control that now?
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  Speaker 3: How are you gonna flip it upside down and say,
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  Speaker 3: Roger that now I'm gonna harness.
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  Speaker 2: This ship and you're read about me years from now.
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  Speaker 2: How that's the question. How are you gonna do that?
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  Speaker 2: Thick in your skin? Become more of a human being.
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  Speaker 3: Don't be afraid of the reflection in the mirror, because
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  Speaker 3: that's all you can be afraid of. Once you overcome
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  Speaker 3: the reflection in the mirror, You've done it.
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  Speaker 1: Failure is part of life. I mean the difference for
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  Speaker 1: me though, was I'm look, a failure is a snupping stone. Success,
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  Speaker 1: it's a speed bumble. I know I'm going to fail,
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  Speaker 1: but it's not failure if you learn something and so gosh,
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  Speaker 1: I've made so many mistakes I've spread so many things up,
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  Speaker 1: but every time I do, it just becomes it becomes
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  Speaker 1: away from me to explain to someone else what it takes.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's like, here's what I've done. I think
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  Speaker 1: I have the ability to influence people because I talk
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  Speaker 1: about my failures. I talk about all the things that
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  Speaker 1: mess me up. But I show people that didn't want
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  Speaker 1: it stopped me. And you don't mean it's not.
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  Speaker 5: You cannot invent and pioneer if you cannot accept failure
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  Speaker 5: to invent, you need to experiment. And if you know
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  Speaker 5: in advance that it's going to work, it is not
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  Speaker 5: an experiment. And so that's a very important thing, you know.
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  Speaker 5: It's they are inseparable twins, failure and invention.
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  Speaker 2: So you have to be willing to do that.
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  Speaker 5: And it's embarrassing to fail, you know, it's always embarrassing
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  Speaker 5: to fail, but you have to say, no.
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  Speaker 2: That's not how this works. Visualize.
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  Speaker 6: This is my biggest tool of life. That's why I've
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  Speaker 6: been able to put myself in cold water, put myself
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  Speaker 6: in one hundred mile race millions of times before I've
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  Speaker 6: done it, and I'm able to go through the race
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  Speaker 6: and see how I'm gonna feel it mouth fifty almost
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  Speaker 6: to the almost to the exact exact feeling.
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  Speaker 1: There is another level. The only reason you keep seeing
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  Speaker 1: the risen is you feel so exhausted about where you are.
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  Speaker 1: But life, the universe of God is just testing you
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  Speaker 1: because the ism of the level. If this is good,
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  Speaker 1: himes up to excellence, shine start good, poor to good
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  Speaker 1: to excellence. There's a level where all your dreams are
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  Speaker 1: real life. There's a level that you've always dreamed about.
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  Speaker 1: It is real, it has not gone away, but it
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  Speaker 1: takes that extra burst when you think there's nothing left,
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  Speaker 1: there's no way. You fight everything ten million times and
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  Speaker 1: you keep going it. It's almost like God is saying,
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  Speaker 1: if you keep hitting this wall enough times, I will
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  Speaker 1: see that you will not stop. That you wire filled
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  Speaker 1: with that level of determination, faith and courage, and then
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  Speaker 1: the door opens and you get to that next level.
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  Speaker 1: But most people don't know is the next level is
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  Speaker 1: just two millimeters above, and it's called outstanding, Ways and gentlemen, outstanding.
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  Speaker 1: It's a level where you are not one of the best,
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  Speaker 1: you are the best. And you know what's amazing. You
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  Speaker 1: only have to be two millionaires more than everybody else
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  Speaker 1: and you get everything. You get the joy, the laughter,
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  Speaker 1: the thought of the family, the passion, the economics, the
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  Speaker 1: freedom of spirit. It's all there, what Jerry Maguire called
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  Speaker 1: the quaw baby, all of it, and it's just two
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  Speaker 1: millions above. And most excellent people give up because they're exhausted.
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  Speaker 1: And there's some people know the harder I hit it,
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  Speaker 1: the more I hit it, sooner later it's going down.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not stopping. And when you do that enough, it
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  Speaker 1: pops open.
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  Speaker 2: The world.
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  Speaker 3: Now, that's so kind. We find a kind way around everything.
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  Speaker 3: Like if you don't look good, I have.
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  Speaker 2: To find a kind way of saying I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Like your shirt.
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  Speaker 2: That's not the approach.
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  Speaker 3: If that's the approach you're looking for it, that book
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  Speaker 3: is not for you.
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  Speaker 2: Can't hurt me is not for you. The approach you
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  Speaker 2: have to take, at least I took. You take what
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  Speaker 2: the approach you wanted.
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  Speaker 3: The conversation had to be a real honest conversation. In
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  Speaker 3: the accountability mirror, guess what I was fat? Don't find
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  Speaker 3: a kind word to say that, you know what, I've
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  Speaker 3: gained some weight.
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  Speaker 2: No, you're fat when I couldn't read, not like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: you know, even learn this book. No, I cannot read
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  Speaker 2: for a fourth grade reading level.
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  Speaker 3: I'm struggling, and sometimes I call myself stupid, not in
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  Speaker 3: a way to put myself down.
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  Speaker 2: So don't take it like my god, those are so hurtful.
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  Speaker 3: You have a hurtful dishonest The conversation has to become
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  Speaker 3: an honest conversation with where you're at mentally, where am
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  Speaker 3: I at?
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  Speaker 2: Mentally?
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  Speaker 3: I look like I feel like I'm not just I
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  Speaker 3: am falling behind in school. I'm lazy. My house is
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  Speaker 3: a mess. You have to look at what it is
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  Speaker 3: and call it what it is. Don't find words to
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  Speaker 3: make yourself feel better, because that's what So we hang
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  Speaker 3: around people that make us feel better, that tell us
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  Speaker 3: what we want to hear, not what we need to hear,
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  Speaker 3: And so we stay away from those people.
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  Speaker 2: And we stay away from those people like our internal
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  Speaker 2: dialogue becomes that kind it's okay, it's not okay. So
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  Speaker 2: that's where it starts.
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  Speaker 3: It starts with that accountability of it's not okay anymore.
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  Speaker 2: This can no longer be okay, and.
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  Speaker 3: Calling yourself out for exactly what you are and exactly
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  Speaker 3: how you need.
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  Speaker 2: To fix it.
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  Speaker 4: I think my imagination has always kept me going, you
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  Speaker 4: know what I mean. It's like, you know, just to
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  Speaker 4: imagine myself collecting wards. Just imagine myself, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean, getting big parts, imagine myself working with the
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  Speaker 4: greatest actors. My imagination was the one like you know
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  Speaker 4: what I mean, like not overthinking, but you just kind
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  Speaker 4: of like, yeah, I mean, I see myself driving that
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  Speaker 4: car one day and I get that, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean. That's that's part of my inner magic is
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  Speaker 4: that actually, if I can see myself doing it, I
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  Speaker 4: could probably do it a shee car bottled up and
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  Speaker 4: sell it to someone. You either can do it or
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  Speaker 4: you can't.
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  Speaker 2: Whenever I want to change something, whether it's a habit,
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  Speaker 2: whether it's a thought or emotion or behavior, I say,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna work on this for one hundred days, not
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  Speaker 2: thirty days, not twenty one days, not sixty six, which
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  Speaker 2: is read around there.
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  Speaker 3: I said one hundred days, and then I focus all
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  Speaker 3: of my are just on that one thing for one
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  Speaker 3: hundred days. Everything I didn't want to do is what
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  Speaker 3: got me to where I'm at today.
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  Speaker 6: I have the build to see the end before the
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  Speaker 6: beginning even begins. And what that means is I know
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  Speaker 6: that to get to the very end. I can see
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  Speaker 6: it right now. So before I went the Buds and
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  Speaker 6: I was losing all the waste, I saw myself walking
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  Speaker 6: across the stage at one hundred and ninety one pounds.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I had to get to get into the door.
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  Speaker 6: I saw myself six months, a year later, whatever it's
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  Speaker 6: gonna take me to do. I saw myself walking across
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  Speaker 6: those days getting that certificate of graduation from Buds and
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  Speaker 6: I was able to be there at three hundred pounds,
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  Speaker 6: and that feeling that I was nowhere near that feeling.
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  Speaker 6: I was able to put myself there a million times
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  Speaker 6: every day. And that feeling of like, my God, that
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  Speaker 6: is going to feel amazing, That's what made me suffer.
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  Speaker 6: That's what allowed the pain to be real and say
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  Speaker 6: this is worth it. I wanted to feel for this
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  Speaker 6: next eighteen months. It took me eighteen.
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  Speaker 2: Months to find become a navy to find me just
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  Speaker 2: get through butts eighteen months.
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  Speaker 7: Six months took me eighteen That's what woke me up
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  Speaker 7: every morning was I'm gonna put myself through this much
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  Speaker 7: pain and suffering for a few seconds, so it is
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  Speaker 7: a few seconds of joy is so.
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  Speaker 2: Worth it, man, as if people don't get so I'm
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  Speaker 2: able to put myself at the finish.
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  Speaker 7: Line, even though I have no finished line, but at
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  Speaker 7: the finish line of an event before you even start them,
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  Speaker 7: they say, how are you going to feel it.
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  Speaker 2: The end of it? When you change.
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  Speaker 8: The way you look at things, the things you look
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  Speaker 8: at change, you have the most fundamental and made your
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  Speaker 8: decision that you have to make in your life. Is this,
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  Speaker 8: Do I live in a friendly or a hospital universe?
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  Speaker 8: Which is is it a universe that is filled with
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  Speaker 8: hostility and anger and people wanting to hate each other
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  Speaker 8: and people wanting to kill each other?
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  Speaker 1: Is that what you see?
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  Speaker 8: Because when you see the world that way, that's exactly
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  Speaker 8: what you will create for yourself in your life.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you and I both know intelligence is a
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  Speaker 1: pretty damn valuable tool. But there are a lot of
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  Speaker 1: very smart people who can't fight their way out of
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  Speaker 1: a paper bag. And then when you find somebody has
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  Speaker 1: that hunger, the hunger that doesn't go away, that hunger
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  Speaker 1: to be more, to do more, to give more, that
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  Speaker 1: hunger that never ends, you know, that's how you get
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  Speaker 1: these people that are the best in the world at
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  Speaker 1: whatever they do, and so if you can. I think
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  Speaker 1: everybody has that hunger, but for some people it's been
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  Speaker 1: asleep for a long time because they're afraid. They're afraid
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  Speaker 1: that I'm gonna get hungry, I'm gonna try, I'm gonna fail,
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  Speaker 1: And so it's human nature to protect yourself from the
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  Speaker 1: fear by just lowering your expectations. But one of the
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  Speaker 1: things I've learned is you get what you tolerate. You
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  Speaker 1: get what you tolerate yourself. You get what you tolerate
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  Speaker 1: in your life, and sooner or later, we sometimes get
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  Speaker 1: a point where we say, not another day, not another hour,
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  Speaker 1: this is done. I'm not walking, I'm not talking this way,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not living this way. I'm not gonna be in
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  Speaker 1: this relationship anymore. I'm gonna change it. And when people
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  Speaker 1: do that, that's the beginning of a breakthrough.
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  Speaker 9: I got my work ethic from was the hours I
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  Speaker 9: had to stand learning this.
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  Speaker 3: When you sit down and you're not smart, and you
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  Speaker 3: have a disability, and you.
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  Speaker 9: Still want to be at the top of your class,
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  Speaker 9: I didn't want to get by. When I realized that
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  Speaker 9: I can learn through hard work, and I can beat
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  Speaker 9: the valed Victorian school. But I got put in ten
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  Speaker 9: hours more a day than he does.
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  Speaker 3: You know what kind of strength comes from that When
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  Speaker 3: you're sitting down that guy, that valve of TOI is
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  Speaker 3: thirty for an.
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  Speaker 2: Hour, and you know I caught you.
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  Speaker 3: I caught you, and I am dumb, but I have
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  Speaker 3: the work ethic to catch you.
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  Speaker 2: That's where David Gaga's got really invented. Was at a
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  Speaker 2: kitchen table when twenty.
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  Speaker 3: Spiral notele that were empty and then three months later
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  Speaker 3: they were full.
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  Speaker 2: And when you can go through that, that's what have
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  Speaker 2: in my stories. You and you go through these spiral
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  Speaker 2: notebooks of your life and you're like, this is how
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  Speaker 2: I learned. This is unbelievable. There's no miles. It's not
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  Speaker 2: about the miles.
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  Speaker 3: It's that having a discipline every day to say, for
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  Speaker 3: me to learn this one math problem, it's gonna take
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  Speaker 3: me ten hours. And that's where it and you realize
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  Speaker 3: do hard work you can do. You can outwork anybody,
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  Speaker 3: no matter how bad as they are.
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  Speaker 2: But that's the part people don't want to dive into.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of us don't believe that we can achieve
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  Speaker 2: the impossible, the absolute impossible.
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  Speaker 9: You'll need great parents, you don't need like a private school.
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  Speaker 2: What you need is a brutal work ef he has.
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  Speaker 2: You have to be lunch about it to work. Everybody
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  Speaker 2: in the world, every.
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  Speaker 8: Generally we can now let the name, but that it can.
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  Speaker 1: Chuck it
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  Speaker 8: Hm