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- 0:00SPEAKER_01: Welcome to the Aggressively Human podcast where the length
- 0:04SPEAKER_01: of our programs is dictated by actually what's in them.
- 0:10SPEAKER_01: My name is Jessica Lackey.
- 0:11SPEAKER_01: And I'm Meg Casebolt.
- 0:13SPEAKER_01: And today we're talking about our fall programs and not just like what they are,
- 0:19SPEAKER_01: but like why we constructed them the way we did.
- 0:22SPEAKER_01: Why that is part of our method and maybe who it's right for.
- 0:27SPEAKER_01: But before we get into the mechanics of sort of the design decisions,
- 0:30SPEAKER_01: Meg, tell us what your fall program is.
- 0:34SPEAKER_00: Sure.
- 0:34SPEAKER_00: So my fall program is actually just beginning in fall, but it's not just the fall.
- 0:40SPEAKER_00: It is called Signal.
- 0:42SPEAKER_00: It is what I consider a mentorship program,
- 0:44SPEAKER_00: not a membership program because I really want it to feel like I am there,
- 0:49SPEAKER_00: in there with you,
- 0:50SPEAKER_00: guiding you through a process like a mentor,
- 0:53SPEAKER_00: not just open-ended, you're in this group, good luck.
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: And it is a year-long program because I want people to feel like they have a year
- 1:03SPEAKER_00: to get questions answered.
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: And to test things out and come to me with their questions and say, I did this, is it right?
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: What would you do in this situation?
- 1:14SPEAKER_00: Why isn't it working?
- 1:15SPEAKER_00: So that's why I call it a mentorship instead of a membership.
- 1:19SPEAKER_00: It is all focused on AI discoverability.
- 1:21SPEAKER_00: And so...
- 1:23SPEAKER_00: We start from what does AI already know about you?
- 1:26SPEAKER_00: We do some positioning work around what do you want AI to know about you?
- 1:30SPEAKER_00: What have you already created that you can utilize and strengthen and amplify
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: and repurpose instead of always creating something new?
- 1:39SPEAKER_00: We talk a lot about It's like,
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: oh my god,
- 1:43SPEAKER_00: it sounds so boring when I actually explain it this way,
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: but it's like,
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: are you structuring your information in a way that these tools can read?
- 1:50SPEAKER_00: Are you putting them on the platforms that these tools can actually see?
- 1:55SPEAKER_00: And the ways that these AI tools, Google being one of them,
- 2:03SPEAKER_00: The ways that they're processing information is different than it was several years ago.
- 2:07SPEAKER_00: So a lot of people,
- 2:08SPEAKER_00: even people who have been through my previous programs,
- 2:10SPEAKER_00: are sort of adjusting and adapting and relearning and changing what it is
- 2:14SPEAKER_00: that they've already done and created for the way that the new systems are analyzing
- 2:19SPEAKER_00: and synthesizing and extracting information.
- 2:22SPEAKER_00: And so that's why I set it up so that way you can learn from me,
- 2:26SPEAKER_00: but you can also take the time to implement and get support from During
- 2:30SPEAKER_00: the implementation process, because it's not simple and it's constantly evolving.
- 2:38SPEAKER_01: So how is your program constructed related to the amount of,
- 2:42SPEAKER_01: okay, it's a year-long commitment for someone, but that's not all the same phase.
- 2:47SPEAKER_01: Like, so you have,
- 2:48SPEAKER_01: I know I love for your program to know there's some,
- 2:51SPEAKER_01: there's a phase of learning,
- 2:52SPEAKER_01: there's a phase of doing, and then also it does take some time for...
- 2:58SPEAKER_01: You know, AI to like update all its thinking.
- 3:01SPEAKER_01: So how is it structured from a year long experience?
- 3:05SPEAKER_01: What happens at the beginning?
- 3:07SPEAKER_01: What happens in the middle?
- 3:07SPEAKER_01: What happens at the end?
- 3:09SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 3:09SPEAKER_00: So I would say it's basically four, three month cycles.
- 3:15SPEAKER_00: And so the first cycle I run in fall and in spring,
- 3:19SPEAKER_00: and that is a training cycle that is learn how this stuff works.
- 3:24SPEAKER_00: And so I meet with my mentees, if you will.
- 3:29SPEAKER_00: Every week I'll do a one-hour training for 10 weeks where we're able to walk
- 3:35SPEAKER_00: through specific parts of my framework and they are able to ask
- 3:38SPEAKER_00: and answer questions live.
- 3:41SPEAKER_00: So that it's like, oh, when you say this, is that applicable to me?
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: Or how would that work for me?
- 3:45SPEAKER_00: Because I think sometimes when you're just watching pre-recorded videos,
- 3:48SPEAKER_00: it can feel theoretical and not that practical application component of it.
- 3:53SPEAKER_00: And so that is basically fall and spring.
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: I teach this program live.
- 3:57SPEAKER_00: I don't teach it year round because A,
- 3:59SPEAKER_00: I want people to understand the entire system relatively quickly instead
- 4:03SPEAKER_00: of feeling like I'm stretching it out.
- 4:05SPEAKER_00: And B, between the time that I taught the last cohort in April and now in September,
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: things have changed.
- 4:15SPEAKER_00: And so if I were to have to,
- 4:18SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 4:18SPEAKER_00: create something that's evergreen and prerecorded,
- 4:21SPEAKER_00: A lot of it would change by the next time that I teach it.
- 4:24SPEAKER_00: And that also gives me a chance to change the way that I teach based
- 4:26SPEAKER_00: on what I'm learning from each cycle.
- 4:29SPEAKER_00: So that's my fall and my spring are more learning.
- 4:34SPEAKER_00: Direct, hands-on, face-to-face learning or face-to-Zoom learning.
- 4:39SPEAKER_00: I don't know, but synchronous learning, we'll say.
- 4:43SPEAKER_00: And I assign, hey, check out this homework.
- 4:46SPEAKER_00: Here's a workbook.
- 4:46SPEAKER_00: People don't have to do it, but if they want it, they can submit it and get my feedback on it.
- 4:51SPEAKER_00: And then we have fall and summer,
- 4:54SPEAKER_00: I'm sorry, winter and summer are more kind of, this is your time for implementation.
- 4:59SPEAKER_00: So we have office hours.
- 5:01SPEAKER_00: And so you take what you learned in,
- 5:03SPEAKER_00: let's say you learn,
- 5:05SPEAKER_00: you join in September and you learn September,
- 5:07SPEAKER_00: October,
- 5:07SPEAKER_00: November,
- 5:08SPEAKER_00: and then you can spend November, December, January, February, like doing the work.
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: And coming to the office hours and being like, I tried this and I'm seeing these results.
- 5:20SPEAKER_00: What does that mean?
- 5:22SPEAKER_00: Oh, now, you know, ChatGBT understands that I do this, but it's not attributing this to me.
- 5:27SPEAKER_00: Why not?
- 5:28SPEAKER_00: What can I do now?
- 5:29SPEAKER_00: What can I do now?
- 5:30SPEAKER_00: So some of it is troubleshooting in real time
- 5:33SPEAKER_00: that I know you probably taught this back in week two,
- 5:36SPEAKER_00: but I wasn't ready for it then.
- 5:38SPEAKER_00: And now I am.
- 5:38SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 5:41SPEAKER_00: And then the reason that I also run it as a year-long program and not
- 5:44SPEAKER_00: a six-month program is that I want people to go through the trainings twice.
- 5:48SPEAKER_00: For exactly that reason.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: That once you've been through it once, you have a theoretical idea of it.
- 5:54SPEAKER_00: And then you go, you try, you implement.
- 5:57SPEAKER_00: And also like life is happening at the same time.
- 6:00SPEAKER_00: And maybe you take two months off because you just don't have time to do it.
- 6:04SPEAKER_00: You have client work.
- 6:04SPEAKER_00: You have family stuff come up.
- 6:05SPEAKER_00: And like that's okay too.
- 6:07SPEAKER_00: Like you don't have to implement within the three week time period that I say.
- 6:11SPEAKER_00: That's why we have a year is because maybe you don't have time when I have time.
- 6:16SPEAKER_00: And that's okay.
- 6:19SPEAKER_00: You have time to do implementation.
- 6:21SPEAKER_00: You have time to see whether it's working.
- 6:23SPEAKER_00: You have resources at your disposal to figure out whether it's working.
- 6:26SPEAKER_00: You have me in your corner to ask questions to.
- 6:29SPEAKER_00: And then you go through the training again,
- 6:32SPEAKER_00: and it makes more sense because you've already been through it.
- 6:35SPEAKER_00: And when I say, okay, what's your content infrastructure?
- 6:39SPEAKER_00: What's your entity signal statement?
- 6:41SPEAKER_00: That's not new information.
- 6:43SPEAKER_00: You're able to say, yep, I did that.
- 6:44SPEAKER_00: I put it here, here, and here.
- 6:46SPEAKER_00: And now I see it showing up in these platforms and you can see it working.
- 6:51SPEAKER_00: And the first time that I taught it this way was in the spring.
- 6:54SPEAKER_00: And I already have people from my spring group who are like,
- 6:57SPEAKER_00: I cannot wait to go through this again in the fall because now I see it working
- 7:00SPEAKER_00: and I will understand it better.
- 7:04SPEAKER_00: The other part that I do year round is every two weeks I have a content review cycle.
- 7:09SPEAKER_00: So whatever you're working on,
- 7:11SPEAKER_00: You can submit it to me and I will either go through your Google Doc,
- 7:15SPEAKER_00: you know, line by line and be like, this part doesn't make sense.
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: Move this up.
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: Sort of like some developmental editing, some line editing, some infrastructure.
- 7:25SPEAKER_00: Hey, this should be an H2 instead of an H3.
- 7:27SPEAKER_00: That kind of stuff.
- 7:29SPEAKER_00: Or if you have something that's been published or it isn't like a Google Doc
- 7:32SPEAKER_00: that I can edit, I'll record walkthrough videos.
- 7:35SPEAKER_00: I'll do them in Vimeo and just be like, here's what I see.
- 7:38SPEAKER_00: Here's what I think is really good.
- 7:39SPEAKER_00: Here's what I want you to change.
- 7:40SPEAKER_00: And oh, did you notice this on your website?
- 7:42SPEAKER_00: Oh, your footer is a little bit off.
- 7:44SPEAKER_00: This is this part's missing.
- 7:46SPEAKER_00: We talked about this.
- 7:47SPEAKER_00: This is how I would write it.
- 7:48SPEAKER_00: These videos are typically,
- 7:50SPEAKER_00: I don't know,
- 7:50SPEAKER_00: between eight to 12 minutes long for each of these people every two weeks.
- 7:54SPEAKER_00: And so you're constantly getting that feedback and support from me in the process.
- 7:58SPEAKER_00: I'm finding also that I'll talk to people during office hours.
- 8:03SPEAKER_00: Which I have,
- 8:04SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 8:04SPEAKER_00: Tuesdays,
- 8:06SPEAKER_00: sometimes Tuesdays,
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: sometimes Wednesdays, depending on which times when we're talking about.
- 8:09SPEAKER_00: Because I have a lot of folks in Australia, Japan.
- 8:13SPEAKER_00: So I'll do once a month, I'll do an evening workshop for me.
- 8:17SPEAKER_00: So that way they still get some time with me.
- 8:21SPEAKER_00: But they're saying, okay, I want to get your feedback on this during the office hours.
- 8:25SPEAKER_00: And then I want to submit it in time for the content feedback.
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: So that way you can give me feedback on it.
- 8:31SPEAKER_00: And I can start working on it by the time we get to next office hours.
- 8:34SPEAKER_00: So it's this very iterative process of there's still some external support,
- 8:39SPEAKER_00: external accountability where people are saying,
- 8:41SPEAKER_00: by the next time I talk to you, I want to have this done.
- 8:44SPEAKER_00: So I know you, Jessica, I know you love a rhythm.
- 8:47SPEAKER_00: You love a cadence.
- 8:47SPEAKER_00: You love like an ability to check in on certain things.
- 8:51SPEAKER_00: But also like if you miss an office hours, no big deal.
- 8:53SPEAKER_00: It's office hours.
- 8:54SPEAKER_00: If you miss a training, no big deal.
- 8:55SPEAKER_00: There's a recording.
- 8:57SPEAKER_00: So it's something that can work for people's lives because it's built to take time.
- 9:01SPEAKER_00: And even if you do,
- 9:03SPEAKER_00: even if you were to like do all the work in week one,
- 9:06SPEAKER_00: which I would not recommend,
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: even if you were to do everything that I tell you to do,
- 9:09SPEAKER_00: it still would take time to see whether or not it's working
- 9:12SPEAKER_00: because these systems take time.
- 9:14SPEAKER_00: So having,
- 9:15SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: a year to say, oh,
- 9:17SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 9:18SPEAKER_00: I wrote this framework post in And by January,
- 9:24SPEAKER_00: I could see that I was getting cited for it.
- 9:26SPEAKER_00: And by April,
- 9:27SPEAKER_00: I was having people come to me and say,
- 9:29SPEAKER_00: I found your framework and now I want to work with you.
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: That's not abnormal.
- 9:35SPEAKER_00: It can move faster for people who already have some sort
- 9:37SPEAKER_00: of established digital presence,
- 9:39SPEAKER_00: especially a really clear point of view on what it is that they do and
- 9:42SPEAKER_00: who they do it for.
- 9:44SPEAKER_00: But it doesn't always happen quickly.
- 9:45SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't.
- 9:47SPEAKER_00: So I want to give people time to establish themselves,
- 9:50SPEAKER_00: to test their work,
- 9:51SPEAKER_00: to iterate on it,
- 9:53SPEAKER_00: to fix things that like maybe didn't make sense the first time and they can do it
- 9:56SPEAKER_00: a second time.
- 9:58SPEAKER_00: And so, yeah, that is the Signal program.
- 10:03SPEAKER_00: In a nutshell of a 10-minute rant.
- 10:06SPEAKER_01: Who do you find is a fit for your program and who is not a fit and why?
- 10:12SPEAKER_00: I would say that the target market for it is expert-led businesses,
- 10:17SPEAKER_00: whether those are coaches, consultants, service businesses.
- 10:22SPEAKER_00: It tends to be more focused on the informational side of things than product-based businesses.
- 10:32SPEAKER_00: We do have some local service providers who are in the group,
- 10:34SPEAKER_00: photographers, doulas,
- 10:36SPEAKER_00: people who are trying to get found in their local area for
- 10:39SPEAKER_00: a specific in-person service.
- 10:41SPEAKER_00: And then there are a lot of people who are running online businesses.
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: I also find that folks who see the fastest established business results are people
- 10:51SPEAKER_00: who are Comfortable creating content and maybe have a bit of a backlog of content.
- 10:57SPEAKER_00: So maybe they're YouTubers or they're podcasters
- 11:02SPEAKER_00: or they are voracious email newsletter senders that I can go,
- 11:06SPEAKER_00: okay, now publish it, publish it publicly.
- 11:08SPEAKER_00: But like they have a thought process.
- 11:10SPEAKER_00: They have a content production process.
- 11:12SPEAKER_00: They have a body of work that we can hone and play with and sculpt.
- 11:17SPEAKER_00: Um, It's harder to start from zero and say,
- 11:21SPEAKER_00: what is my perspective than to say,
- 11:23SPEAKER_00: what have I already written that I can use to turn into puzzle pieces to make into
- 11:27SPEAKER_00: a larger opportunity?
- 11:30SPEAKER_00: But there are some folks who have sort of not necessarily done
- 11:34SPEAKER_00: that establishing work yet,
- 11:36SPEAKER_00: but they know what it is that they do and who they want to work for.
- 11:39SPEAKER_00: And so sometimes they actually get results faster because we don't have to undo things.
- 11:43SPEAKER_00: The years of, oh, I used to think this and now I do it this way.
- 11:47SPEAKER_00: If they can come out of the gate strong and just like have very clear point of view.
- 11:53SPEAKER_00: But I do,
- 11:54SPEAKER_00: the folks that I work with do tend to be pretty strong writers and have
- 12:00SPEAKER_00: a strong point of view about what it is that they do and who they do it for.
- 12:04SPEAKER_01: Awesome.
- 12:05SPEAKER_01: Is there anything you want to share about the program that I haven't asked you about?
- 12:08SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 12:11SPEAKER_00: I have been running some iteration or variation of a group coaching program
- 12:19SPEAKER_00: since 2017, 2016 maybe.
- 12:22SPEAKER_00: Um, and it has changed and evolved as both the market has changed and the industry has changed.
- 12:31SPEAKER_00: So, you know,
- 12:32SPEAKER_00: there have been times where I've run it and it's been more of a membership and more
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: of a like,
- 12:35SPEAKER_00: we'll do accountability and coworking in the group and, um,
- 12:39SPEAKER_00: Times where people really wanted it to be pre-recorded so they could watch it
- 12:42SPEAKER_00: on their own.
- 12:44SPEAKER_00: And I'm always willing to adjust to what my people need.
- 12:50SPEAKER_00: And I feel like I've landed on something that works incredibly well
- 12:55SPEAKER_00: for this target population,
- 12:57SPEAKER_00: which is,
- 12:58SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 12:59SPEAKER_00: they don't necessarily need me to be there looking over their shoulder and saying,
- 13:02SPEAKER_00: here's when you're going to work.
- 13:04SPEAKER_00: Although I do find that some of them will say I need some support with this.
- 13:07SPEAKER_00: Can anyone else like meet up with me and body double?
- 13:09SPEAKER_00: And they're happy to do that with each other.
- 13:12SPEAKER_00: But I've I've found that for this particular.
- 13:17SPEAKER_00: It's much more how can I individually support people in a group coaching setting?
- 13:22SPEAKER_00: So it really does feel like it's.
- 13:25SPEAKER_00: Personalized attention and I know every single person who's in that room
- 13:30SPEAKER_00: when they show up and that's a really lovely feeling too that it's intimate
- 13:35SPEAKER_00: and it's not too big and I can make those adjustments in real time
- 13:40SPEAKER_00: and say well everyone who's here today is running this kind of business
- 13:44SPEAKER_00: so I'm not going to talk about this part quite so heavily and so I think
- 13:48SPEAKER_00: that I've gotten really good at The leadership side of things and being able
- 13:53SPEAKER_00: to customize things to individual people in a way that I wasn't maybe five years ago
- 14:00SPEAKER_00: or didn't need to five years ago because the rules were simpler.
- 14:04SPEAKER_00: So I like to think about that,
- 14:06SPEAKER_00: too, is the evolution of this into the word mentorship feels important to me.
- 14:13SPEAKER_00: That choice to say it's going to be me for everything.
- 14:20SPEAKER_01: When does your program start and how much does it cost?
- 14:23SPEAKER_00: It starts on September 22nd and it is $1,000 a year or $300 a quarter.
- 14:29SPEAKER_01: Well, I love that.
- 14:30SPEAKER_01: Anything else you want to share with our listener base?
- 14:34SPEAKER_00: No,
- 14:34SPEAKER_00: but I want to hear about what you are doing this fall because I am now back to being
- 14:40SPEAKER_00: a member of your membership.
- 14:41SPEAKER_00: And it is delightful.
- 14:43SPEAKER_00: You have such an active membership and you've got building blocks
- 14:47SPEAKER_00: and you've got foundations cohort and you've got so much going on.
- 14:50SPEAKER_00: So what is it that you are doing this fall, my friend?
- 14:53SPEAKER_01: So this will be the seventh iteration of the Define Your Foundations cohort program.
- 14:58SPEAKER_01: So the membership is a place to do some self-service learning,
- 15:04SPEAKER_01: learn some of my language,
- 15:05SPEAKER_01: but also just do the rhythms that are required to run a business.
- 15:09SPEAKER_01: So Planning, tending, sales outreach and things like that.
- 15:14SPEAKER_01: But Define Your Foundations has quickly become the place
- 15:16SPEAKER_01: to like build your business infrastructure.
- 15:20SPEAKER_01: So it is your business foundations.
- 15:22SPEAKER_01: It is six months.
- 15:25SPEAKER_01: I have about a 30% of people take it twice.
- 15:30SPEAKER_01: It's got four phases.
- 15:32SPEAKER_01: Phase one is Create the space to do this work and set down the shoulds.
- 15:37SPEAKER_01: So what I found is that in the beginning of,
- 15:43SPEAKER_01: normally I would start launching in with clients.
- 15:46SPEAKER_01: Who's your client?
- 15:47SPEAKER_01: Where do we start?
- 15:48SPEAKER_01: But what that didn't do was give people the space to set down the stuff
- 15:52SPEAKER_01: that doesn't belong to their business model,
- 15:53SPEAKER_01: that sets down all the things that they were otherwise,
- 15:56SPEAKER_01: because no one's coming in with time on their hands.
- 16:01SPEAKER_01: So actually, that's where building blocks came in.
- 16:04SPEAKER_01: So we start with what's your zone of enoughness?
- 16:07SPEAKER_01: What do you actually need this work to do for you?
- 16:09SPEAKER_01: So I know, are we shooting for, you know, a 20 grand a month business?
- 16:13SPEAKER_01: Are you just trying to cover your bills?
- 16:15SPEAKER_01: What season are you in of this business?
- 16:18SPEAKER_01: And then we do building blocks,
- 16:19SPEAKER_01: which is the What time and capacity do you actually have and how do you bucket all
- 16:25SPEAKER_01: the things you've been told you're supposed to do and even all the things I'm going
- 16:28SPEAKER_01: to ask you do in this program.
- 16:29SPEAKER_01: How do you start to segment your,
- 16:31SPEAKER_01: be aware of your time and segment your priorities so that all
- 16:34SPEAKER_01: the work we are doing gets done.
- 16:38SPEAKER_01: Then phase two is defining the business.
- 16:42SPEAKER_01: Who do you serve?
- 16:43SPEAKER_01: What's your philosophy on how you serve them?
- 16:46SPEAKER_01: What is your process for how you're going to serve them?
- 16:49SPEAKER_01: And starting the relational outreach habits because sometimes you want to change
- 16:55SPEAKER_01: who your client is or you realize that, oh,
- 16:57SPEAKER_01: actually selling to this client at this offer and this price point means you've got
- 17:02SPEAKER_01: to do a way more selling, right?
- 17:05SPEAKER_01: So it's the concept of like actually the messaging and the catalytic event
- 17:10SPEAKER_01: that would get someone to hire you looks different if you are selling,
- 17:13SPEAKER_01: for example,
- 17:13SPEAKER_01: if you're a bookkeeper,
- 17:14SPEAKER_01: if you are selling fractional CFO services on retainer,
- 17:19SPEAKER_01: Or doing basic bookkeeping cleanup,
- 17:22SPEAKER_01: both in the financing space, both are going to command different premiums.
- 17:26SPEAKER_01: Both of them are going to say, I need to network in different places.
- 17:29SPEAKER_01: So we start with defining that business.
- 17:30SPEAKER_01: I call it business model Tetris because that all matters.
- 17:34SPEAKER_01: Then we move into building the marketing and sales engine around that.
- 17:39SPEAKER_01: Because again, a lot of people jump into marketing.
- 17:40SPEAKER_01: I'm like, I don't know.
- 17:41SPEAKER_01: What marketing do we need to do?
- 17:43SPEAKER_01: It all depends on who you're serving and how you're serving them.
- 17:47SPEAKER_01: And how many customers do you need?
- 17:49SPEAKER_01: And then only then can we start doing the real like
- 17:53SPEAKER_01: beyond just like basic network maintenance, marketing and sales.
- 17:56SPEAKER_01: Because again, how you sell is dependent on who you serve and the sales process looks different.
- 18:01SPEAKER_01: And then we kind of close with once you've built it, you must run it.
- 18:05SPEAKER_01: So how do we align our time and energy throughout those four phases?
- 18:11SPEAKER_01: Sequence the events so that there's some meaty thinking in design decisions
- 18:18SPEAKER_01: with some of the implementing the habits you're going to need
- 18:21SPEAKER_01: to run your business long term.
- 18:22SPEAKER_01: So, you know, we,
- 18:24SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 18:24SPEAKER_01: when you figure out who your client is,
- 18:26SPEAKER_01: we start with implementing the relationship rhythm system.
- 18:29SPEAKER_01: In month two,
- 18:30SPEAKER_01: I teach you the roots to fruits metrics philosophy because I have
- 18:33SPEAKER_01: to track what you're doing underneath that leads to But like,
- 18:39SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 18:39SPEAKER_01: giving you a template that says track your outreach until we started talking
- 18:43SPEAKER_01: about relationship rhythms doesn't make sense.
- 18:46SPEAKER_01: So it's really a curated.
- 18:51SPEAKER_01: If I've learned in past cohorts that if I front load all
- 18:53SPEAKER_01: the intellectual horsepower stuff to the beginning of like, who's your client?
- 18:57SPEAKER_01: Go talk to them.
- 18:58SPEAKER_01: What's your premise?
- 18:59SPEAKER_01: What's your method?
- 19:00SPEAKER_01: What's your offers?
- 19:01SPEAKER_01: What's your pricing?
- 19:02SPEAKER_01: I front loaded that people felt very behind.
- 19:05SPEAKER_01: So I've spread it out with some like you're going to there's going
- 19:08SPEAKER_01: to be some intellectual horsepower things where you have to like really decide.
- 19:12SPEAKER_01: And then basic business hygiene that no matter what you do is important
- 19:16SPEAKER_01: and doesn't require as much.
- 19:18SPEAKER_01: Decisions as much as it's like it's like we're still doing the work,
- 19:23SPEAKER_01: but we're doing more integration work versus like I have to decide on my method.
- 19:28SPEAKER_01: So I've spread out sort of the media intellectual chunks with more,
- 19:33SPEAKER_01: again, basic business hygiene and maintenance that is not taught anywhere else.
- 19:38SPEAKER_01: It's six months because if it was a year.
- 19:43SPEAKER_01: People wouldn't get to some of the marketing and sales stuff until too late.
- 19:46SPEAKER_01: So it's kind of designed for you're going to go through it all in six months.
- 19:51SPEAKER_01: Some of it's going to click right away and some of it you can come back to
- 19:55SPEAKER_01: if you decide to renew or you'll always get the recorded materials.
- 20:01SPEAKER_01: It's been a nice compliment to have this with the membership because in the cohort,
- 20:06SPEAKER_01: you're putting these things in place and the membership is where you're practicing
- 20:09SPEAKER_01: and doing it all.
- 20:10SPEAKER_01: So that's kind of the four phases of the program.
- 20:16SPEAKER_00: I love that too.
- 20:16SPEAKER_00: And I love that you say,
- 20:17SPEAKER_00: you know, I used to just jump into the intellectual, what was the word you use?
- 20:23SPEAKER_00: Intellectual horsepower?
- 20:24SPEAKER_01: Like the more intellectual decision-making requirements.
- 20:28SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 20:29SPEAKER_00: And like the things that I think as a business coach,
- 20:32SPEAKER_00: you sort of assume, oh, who's your who's your client?
- 20:34SPEAKER_00: But like when you ask enough of these questions, what's your process?
- 20:38SPEAKER_00: Who do you want to work with?
- 20:39SPEAKER_00: What's your pricing?
- 20:40SPEAKER_00: How much money do you need to make?
- 20:41SPEAKER_00: But people don't necessarily sit down and think through all of that as one system.
- 20:46SPEAKER_00: It's more like, oh,
- 20:47SPEAKER_00: I got a client and I charged that person this much for this thing,
- 20:50SPEAKER_00: but it's not necessarily systematized.
- 20:52SPEAKER_00: And so I like that you're like, okay,
- 20:55SPEAKER_00: before we do any of that, like,
- 20:57SPEAKER_00: let's figure out what you need the business to do for you,
- 20:59SPEAKER_00: what your business model is.
- 21:01SPEAKER_00: Because I think sometimes if you don't have that foundation in place,
- 21:04SPEAKER_00: which is obviously why you call it Define Your Foundations, like,
- 21:07SPEAKER_00: or you've followed some guru and the system doesn't work for you
- 21:11SPEAKER_00: because it was their system for their business model based
- 21:14SPEAKER_00: on their marketing techniques.
- 21:15SPEAKER_00: And then you don't necessarily want to do things all that way,
- 21:18SPEAKER_00: or it doesn't work for your neurotype or your lifestyle.
- 21:23SPEAKER_00: So starting from not make all of these decisions,
- 21:27SPEAKER_00: but figuring out when each of those decisions needs to be made so
- 21:32SPEAKER_00: that it doesn't block you,
- 21:34SPEAKER_00: it doesn't hold you back,
- 21:36SPEAKER_00: but you also don't need to front load every decision and then panic
- 21:39SPEAKER_00: if you make one wrong and feel like every domino is now going to fall over.
- 21:43SPEAKER_01: So the program is very much about kind of like learn, build, practice, learn, build, practice.
- 21:49SPEAKER_01: There is...
- 21:51SPEAKER_01: The pre-recorded videos, because again, I'm not teaching you what to do.
- 21:56SPEAKER_01: I'm teaching you how to think.
- 21:59SPEAKER_01: Like how, what are the factors that go into understanding your client?
- 22:02SPEAKER_01: How do you understand what jobs you need your marketing to do?
- 22:07SPEAKER_01: So it's very,
- 22:08SPEAKER_01: there's the videos,
- 22:10SPEAKER_01: the pre-recorded videos are really kind of like foundational principles.
- 22:14SPEAKER_01: And then we talk in the live classes on Thursdays about how to apply them.
- 22:18SPEAKER_01: Um, one of the other features of the program is,
- 22:22SPEAKER_01: um, Monday, Monday, I call it coworking slash laser coaching.
- 22:26SPEAKER_01: Um, I have found that for a lot of people,
- 22:29SPEAKER_01: um, group is not where they ask best quest their questions the best.
- 22:34SPEAKER_01: And, um,
- 22:36SPEAKER_01: sometimes it can feel like,
- 22:38SPEAKER_01: and like a lot of my philosophy, sometimes you're waiting your turn.
- 22:41SPEAKER_01: So what I do is I say, if you have something to work on, work on it here.
- 22:45SPEAKER_01: If you have a question, I'll bring you in for 10.
- 22:48SPEAKER_01: Breakout, 10-minute breakout sessions.
- 22:51SPEAKER_01: So if you want my eyes on something live,
- 22:54SPEAKER_01: you have a question,
- 22:55SPEAKER_01: we get all that addressed to get you unstuck without having an additional call
- 23:01SPEAKER_01: on people's calendars.
- 23:03SPEAKER_00: I love that.
- 23:06SPEAKER_00: I might adopt that.
- 23:07SPEAKER_00: I know that you've had issues in the past where it's like,
- 23:08SPEAKER_00: I get on a call and I think that I'm supposed to ask a question and I have
- 23:11SPEAKER_00: to wait two hours and then they're like, okay, we're done.
- 23:13SPEAKER_00: So I feel that,
- 23:14SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 23:15SPEAKER_00: that group can be hard and you don't always want everyone to know The details
- 23:19SPEAKER_00: of what it is that you're going through,
- 23:20SPEAKER_00: especially in things that are a bit more sensitive or private.
- 23:23SPEAKER_00: Everything that I do with my clients is meant to be public.
- 23:28SPEAKER_00: So there are certainly times where they come to me and they're like,
- 23:30SPEAKER_00: I don't know that I want to tell this.
- 23:31SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, then don't publish it.
- 23:33SPEAKER_00: But we have to come up with something that you do publish versus you being able
- 23:36SPEAKER_00: to say like, okay, what do your finances look like?
- 23:38SPEAKER_00: People maybe don't want to have that happen in a recorded call on a group call.
- 23:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 23:45SPEAKER_01: And some people just,
- 23:46SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 23:46SPEAKER_01: if they people feel behind or something like that,
- 23:50SPEAKER_01: I want them to have a space where they're like this,
- 23:52SPEAKER_01: this like concept isn't clicking for me or I don't know how to apply it.
- 23:56SPEAKER_01: I also offer, you know, every I started adding some of these things.
- 24:00SPEAKER_01: And now that I have a membership is people submit their worksheets through a form
- 24:04SPEAKER_01: so I can fill them out and respond to things asynchronously.
- 24:09SPEAKER_01: Um, the people are shocked at the amount of attention that they get for the price point.
- 24:20SPEAKER_01: And I kind of want everyone I mean, that's like a homework of all my programs.
- 24:23SPEAKER_01: But I'm like, people are like, Oh, I feel like I'm asking you too much.
- 24:27SPEAKER_01: I'm like, That is my job to triage that, not your job to manage my own energy.
- 24:34SPEAKER_01: They're like, how are you able to pay as much attention to what I'm doing?
- 24:41SPEAKER_01: You have all these members.
- 24:42SPEAKER_01: I'm like, again, not your job to manage my mental capacity.
- 24:47SPEAKER_01: That's my job.
- 24:48SPEAKER_01: And if I tell you,
- 24:49SPEAKER_01: I want people to feel like they can take advantage of the fact that I am here,
- 24:55SPEAKER_01: really invested in their success,
- 24:56SPEAKER_01: which is why it's only limited to 20 people at a time.
- 24:59SPEAKER_01: I'm a nosy as hell person.
- 25:00SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, if you let me put my nose into your business, I will do that.
- 25:05SPEAKER_01: You're like a bloodhound.
- 25:06SPEAKER_01: Kind of.
- 25:06SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 25:08SPEAKER_00: I catch the sniff and I want to go find the problem and fix it.
- 25:11SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 25:13SPEAKER_01: And what I've discovered is also some of the additional,
- 25:16SPEAKER_01: if you do my cohort, you get the additional programs.
- 25:18SPEAKER_01: So you get the additional building blocks program if you want it.
- 25:21SPEAKER_01: You get the nine week relationship rhythms program.
- 25:24SPEAKER_01: Prompts included if you want them.
- 25:27SPEAKER_01: What I found is that not everyone needs them.
- 25:32SPEAKER_01: Some people, the building blocks concepts, like they got it.
- 25:36SPEAKER_01: They just roll with it.
- 25:37SPEAKER_01: Some people, the relationship rhythms, they're like, I can, I can get this.
- 25:42SPEAKER_01: Some people are like,
- 25:43SPEAKER_01: no, actually relationship rhythms is the thing I need the most support with.
- 25:46SPEAKER_01: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 25:47SPEAKER_01: Offers pricing and digital marketing and stuff like that.
- 25:50SPEAKER_01: Sure.
- 25:50SPEAKER_01: We'll cover that later, but I need to focus on this.
- 25:54SPEAKER_01: And doing that.
- 25:57SPEAKER_01: The things that I've added since,
- 25:58SPEAKER_01: you know, adding the membership to be like, this is where you go do stuff.
- 26:03SPEAKER_01: Huge.
- 26:03SPEAKER_01: Rearranging the cohort.
- 26:05SPEAKER_01: I did that for the spring with put building blocks first.
- 26:08SPEAKER_01: Huge.
- 26:11SPEAKER_01: And I've also said,
- 26:14SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 26:15SPEAKER_01: if you haven't worked with clients before, this is not the program for you.
- 26:18SPEAKER_01: Go to the membership, get your feet wet.
- 26:21SPEAKER_01: I didn't have the membership before.
- 26:23SPEAKER_01: And so people who are like, well,
- 26:24SPEAKER_01: I haven't really worked with clients before felt lost
- 26:27SPEAKER_01: because we started like moving.
- 26:29SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, really, this is if you've got a little bit of tread under your tires.
- 26:35SPEAKER_01: But you'll learn the basics of the philosophies and the approaches and the membership.
- 26:40SPEAKER_01: Define Your Foundations is now the place where we put some scaffolding around
- 26:44SPEAKER_01: the patterns you're already observing.
- 26:46SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 26:48SPEAKER_00: And you're getting more intimate support because it is only 20 people.
- 26:52SPEAKER_00: And you are able to go deeper with those people.
- 26:54SPEAKER_00: When you have a membership with hundreds,
- 26:57SPEAKER_00: like you can't intellectually,
- 27:01SPEAKER_00: individually engage with that many people and hold that space for them.
- 27:05SPEAKER_00: Nor should you for $300, $500 a year.
- 27:08SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 27:08SPEAKER_01: I mean, you know,
- 27:09SPEAKER_01: I do pride myself on knowing the members,
- 27:12SPEAKER_01: what they, if they submit their monthly forms to me, I'm paying attention.
- 27:18SPEAKER_01: Wow.
- 27:20SPEAKER_01: Probably more than I should be, but I'm paying attention.
- 27:22SPEAKER_01: Like, I want to support you.
- 27:23SPEAKER_01: I want to know what you're doing and I want to see how I can make connections for you.
- 27:26SPEAKER_01: But I don't get,
- 27:27SPEAKER_01: I don't get to get my hands on your business and I don't get to sort of provide
- 27:30SPEAKER_01: the accountability.
- 27:31SPEAKER_01: Like, you know, I said this in the membership.
- 27:34SPEAKER_01: I said it, I'm going to say to my program too.
- 27:35SPEAKER_01: There's three things that set successful cohort members apart from those
- 27:42SPEAKER_01: who maybe fail to have as much success.
- 27:44SPEAKER_01: One is they track their metrics every month because only with
- 27:48SPEAKER_01: that can we see Why you're not getting the results?
- 27:53SPEAKER_01: Is it a challenge with the plan or is it a challenge with the execution of the plan?
- 28:01SPEAKER_01: And I don't know if I can't see the numbers underneath.
- 28:03SPEAKER_01: And two is they do their sacred sales hour.
- 28:05SPEAKER_01: And three is one build project a month.
- 28:09SPEAKER_01: In the membership, I can't tell if you're stuck.
- 28:11SPEAKER_01: If you're in the cohort and you don't tell me that you're stuck,
- 28:14SPEAKER_01: I'm not necessarily going to go track you down.
- 28:18SPEAKER_01: But if you The people who want to tell me what they're doing, I'm like, great, we'll go run.
- 28:27SPEAKER_01: Update your client, review your method, your premise statements, your offer docs.
- 28:31SPEAKER_01: I'm like, let's go.
- 28:32SPEAKER_01: I'm excited.
- 28:35SPEAKER_01: But those are like, I'm like, people are like, how much can I ask you questions?
- 28:38SPEAKER_01: I'm like,
- 28:39SPEAKER_01: I don't know,
- 28:39SPEAKER_01: as long as you do it in circle and not on voice memo or email, we're good.
- 28:44SPEAKER_00: As long as they put it in a form I can keep track of.
- 28:48SPEAKER_00: Yeah, as long as I know that I'm not missing it and feeling guilty about it.
- 28:51SPEAKER_01: But I really set it up around some, like, interpretation of the business concept.
- 28:56SPEAKER_01: And then I want people to go, like, that's why it's not an office hours call for me.
- 29:00SPEAKER_01: I'm like, I want this to be a time where you do stuff.
- 29:03SPEAKER_01: That's why so much of the membership these days is about, like, doing the practices.
- 29:08SPEAKER_01: Most are, you know, most things are like hot seats.
- 29:10SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, that's fine.
- 29:12SPEAKER_01: I mean, yours are different because they're like hot seats on, like, Particular topics.
- 29:18SPEAKER_01: Like it's not like generally like I need business advice.
- 29:21SPEAKER_01: It's like, no, let's review this.
- 29:22SPEAKER_01: And you're like showing why it works or doesn't work.
- 29:25SPEAKER_01: It's like troubleshooting, not like.
- 29:27SPEAKER_00: It's more troubleshooting than general inquiries.
- 29:29SPEAKER_00: Yeah, it's very different.
- 29:30SPEAKER_01: It's troubleshooting versus passive consumption as building.
- 29:38SPEAKER_00: And I think also like because your program covers so much ground in
- 29:43SPEAKER_00: a fairly condensed amount of time.
- 29:47SPEAKER_00: So when people come to you,
- 29:48SPEAKER_00: they probably come with one specific thing where they're like,
- 29:50SPEAKER_00: I want you to help me figure out my ideal client or I want you to help me
- 29:54SPEAKER_00: with my bookkeeping or I want you to help me with my outreach emails
- 29:57SPEAKER_00: or there's something very specific.
- 29:58SPEAKER_00: Whereas if you did that in office hours, like those people might not be at the same point.
- 30:04SPEAKER_00: And therefore they'd be like, well, I don't really need the relationship rhythms.
- 30:07SPEAKER_00: I've got that covered.
- 30:08SPEAKER_00: I want to be spending my time on the time management stuff or the hour,
- 30:11SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 30:11SPEAKER_00: like they would want to be doing something else versus with mine,
- 30:15SPEAKER_00: the outcome is so much more narrow and the scope of work is much more structured.
- 30:23SPEAKER_00: And so even if somebody is in sort of like,
- 30:27SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 30:27SPEAKER_00: I'm going through and updating my website page and somebody comes to office hours
- 30:31SPEAKER_00: and says, my Google search console is showing this weird error.
- 30:33SPEAKER_00: They're like, oh, well, my Google search console sometimes shows weird errors too.
- 30:36SPEAKER_00: Let me watch what Meg shows this person to do.
- 30:40SPEAKER_00: And there are often things that come up in office hours
- 30:43SPEAKER_00: and I'm troubleshooting outside of the scope of the program
- 30:46SPEAKER_00: because I can't teach everything.
- 30:48SPEAKER_00: But once we get into tracking and metrics, I'm like, OK, you're here.
- 30:51SPEAKER_00: So I'm going to I'm going to give you the answer.
- 30:53SPEAKER_00: And so people will come to office hours,
- 30:55SPEAKER_00: even if they're just like learning through osmosis of I don't have
- 30:58SPEAKER_00: a specific question,
- 30:59SPEAKER_00: but I want to hear the types of questions that people are asking
- 31:02SPEAKER_00: because I haven't thought about them yet.
- 31:04SPEAKER_00: That is such a great way in a program like mine that is more targeted
- 31:11SPEAKER_00: to say I'm going to learn from other business models.
- 31:14SPEAKER_00: Because maybe someday that will be applicable to me.
- 31:17SPEAKER_00: Or I'm going to learn from somebody who's a few steps ahead of me.
- 31:19SPEAKER_00: So that way, when I get there, I have that as sort of a schema that I can learn from.
- 31:25SPEAKER_00: And so, yeah,
- 31:26SPEAKER_00: I can definitely see how each of those different models supports because of the way
- 31:32SPEAKER_00: that the programs are organized.
- 31:35SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 31:35SPEAKER_00: My program.
- 31:36SPEAKER_00: I realized I probably should have also run through like what's when you were like,
- 31:39SPEAKER_00: oh, it has a four step process.
- 31:40SPEAKER_00: I'm like, probably should have walked through what I actually teach.
- 31:45SPEAKER_00: I said it was nine weeks of training,
- 31:48SPEAKER_00: and that's mostly built on my Beacon framework,
- 31:50SPEAKER_00: which I believe I've talked about on the podcast before,
- 31:52SPEAKER_00: but I'll run through it again quickly for anybody who's new or listening for
- 31:55SPEAKER_00: the first time or any time that we talk through a framework,
- 31:57SPEAKER_00: that's a good thing, right?
- 31:59SPEAKER_00: So Beacon is your brand entity,
- 32:03SPEAKER_00: your expertise,
- 32:04SPEAKER_00: your authority,
- 32:05SPEAKER_00: your content infrastructure, your omni-channel presence, and your narrative, Beacon.
- 32:10SPEAKER_00: The idea is that your marketing doesn't have to be scattered.
- 32:14SPEAKER_00: You don't have to be in all the places.
- 32:16SPEAKER_00: Instead,
- 32:16SPEAKER_00: I like to think of people as being more like a lighthouse or more like
- 32:20SPEAKER_00: a radio station where you're in one place and then you're sending out a signal
- 32:25SPEAKER_00: that other people are then able to pick up when they're ready for it.
- 32:28SPEAKER_00: So if you're thinking of it more like a lighthouse and you have that light going on,
- 32:32SPEAKER_00: you're in one place and you're protecting people.
- 32:34SPEAKER_00: And then when they're ready and they're getting closer, they know what to look for.
- 32:38SPEAKER_00: They know how to get to you.
- 32:40SPEAKER_00: If you're thinking of it more like a radio station,
- 32:41SPEAKER_00: it's like you're transmitting something out into the world from one location and
- 32:46SPEAKER_00: then people can turn it on to hear that frequency when they're ready for it,
- 32:49SPEAKER_00: when they're close enough to what they need.
- 32:51SPEAKER_00: But you don't have to be out there with a megaphone all the time.
- 32:54SPEAKER_00: You can stand in one place,
- 32:55SPEAKER_00: have your core content and be found for it because you are so targeted
- 33:00SPEAKER_00: in what you're creating.
- 33:02SPEAKER_00: And that all starts with your entity.
- 33:03SPEAKER_00: I know we did an entire episode on entities, so we can put that in the show notes too.
- 33:08SPEAKER_00: I'm going back to that.
- 33:09SPEAKER_00: But your entity is who you are.
- 33:12SPEAKER_00: It's your brand.
- 33:14SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's you as a person.
- 33:15SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's your business.
- 33:16SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's both.
- 33:18SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's your offers.
- 33:19SPEAKER_00: Jessica, I would say that, you know, Jessica Lackey is an entity.
- 33:22SPEAKER_00: Deeper Foundations is an entity.
- 33:24SPEAKER_00: The Deeper Foundations membership is an entity.
- 33:26SPEAKER_00: Building Blocks is an entity.
- 33:28SPEAKER_00: Sacred Sales Hour is an entity.
- 33:29SPEAKER_00: Aggressively Human is an entity.
- 33:31SPEAKER_00: And so you can go through and I help people in the process figure out what all
- 33:36SPEAKER_00: of their entities are,
- 33:37SPEAKER_00: what all of those things are that they could potentially be found for or known for.
- 33:42SPEAKER_00: And turn them into a hierarchy.
- 33:45SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 33:45SPEAKER_00: Jessica Lackey is the founder of Deeper Foundations and the co-host of
- 33:50SPEAKER_00: the Aggressively Human podcast.
- 33:51SPEAKER_00: And we figure out what all those relationships are between the entities so
- 33:55SPEAKER_00: that they're not fragmented in the AI systems.
- 33:58SPEAKER_00: So if people go, well,
- 34:00SPEAKER_00: they go to chat to BT and they're like,
- 34:01SPEAKER_00: what's this Deeper Foundations thing I've heard of?
- 34:03SPEAKER_00: It can be like, oh, that was founded by Jessica Lackey.
- 34:05SPEAKER_00: And she's also a business strategist.
- 34:07SPEAKER_00: And it has that information about you that connects all of those pieces.
- 34:11SPEAKER_00: Um, The next stage of it is expertise because we want
- 34:15SPEAKER_00: to just say not just Jessica Lackey is a business strategist,
- 34:17SPEAKER_00: but here's what she does.
- 34:19SPEAKER_00: Here's how she does it differently.
- 34:21SPEAKER_00: Here's how she knows it.
- 34:22SPEAKER_00: Here's what her background proves that she has gotten to this point.
- 34:28SPEAKER_00: And then the next one, I actually go out of order when I teach it.
- 34:31SPEAKER_00: I teach narrative next,
- 34:33SPEAKER_00: which is a lot of what we've talked about on the podcast in terms
- 34:35SPEAKER_00: of what's your voice?
- 34:37SPEAKER_00: What's your position?
- 34:38SPEAKER_00: We just had that episode a couple of weeks ago about what's your point of view?
- 34:41SPEAKER_00: And how do you articulate that?
- 34:44SPEAKER_00: And sometimes that shows up as what you're pitching out to other people.
- 34:48SPEAKER_00: And sometimes that shows up as what's your framework.
- 34:50SPEAKER_00: And sometimes that shows up as what's your opinion on things that's different
- 34:53SPEAKER_00: from whoever is in your industry.
- 34:55SPEAKER_00: But that's the way of saying,
- 34:57SPEAKER_00: you know, there are hundreds of thousands of web designers out there.
- 35:00SPEAKER_00: Why would people choose you?
- 35:02SPEAKER_00: Why would AI recommend you?
- 35:03SPEAKER_00: That's a lot of the expertise and narrative work.
- 35:05SPEAKER_00: So really the first three modules are positioning work.
- 35:11SPEAKER_00: They're saying who, and it's a lot of what's in your level too.
- 35:15SPEAKER_00: Who is my client?
- 35:16SPEAKER_00: What's my business model?
- 35:17SPEAKER_00: How do I work with these people?
- 35:19SPEAKER_00: So after people work with you,
- 35:20SPEAKER_00: they can come work with me on how to articulate that and get it out into the world.
- 35:24SPEAKER_01: I think it's really interesting and I will let you get by your other three.
- 35:28SPEAKER_01: So for me,
- 35:29SPEAKER_01: it's kind of like you have a point of view,
- 35:34SPEAKER_01: but that has to connect to an offer and it has to connect to a customer.
- 35:38SPEAKER_01: The wrong point of view,
- 35:40SPEAKER_01: not the wrong point of view,
- 35:41SPEAKER_01: There's a point of view that's going to attract a particular client and a point
- 35:44SPEAKER_01: of view that's going to attract a style of business model.
- 35:49SPEAKER_01: So you have to think not just about what do I believe,
- 35:53SPEAKER_01: but how does it impact who I serve and what I sell?
- 35:57SPEAKER_01: So for me, one of my points of view is there's a couple other business coaches.
- 36:02SPEAKER_01: There's one who does like a six day or six week accelerator.
- 36:07SPEAKER_01: And she goes through her six core systems because she has six systems similarly.
- 36:12SPEAKER_01: And I'm like, that is like pouring like a flood of water onto concrete like it.
- 36:21SPEAKER_01: It's so fast, like her whole thing is fast.
- 36:25SPEAKER_01: And my philosophy is that if you try to learn six full business systems
- 36:31SPEAKER_01: in six weeks, you're not going to retain any of it.
- 36:34SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 36:34SPEAKER_01: So my point of view is not just about like what the systems are,
- 36:38SPEAKER_01: but how it informs the, the, the offer itself and the client I'm serving.
- 36:45SPEAKER_01: And if they want, if they want speed, awesome.
- 36:48SPEAKER_01: My point of view has to, my narrative has to connect to what I'm selling and why.
- 36:54SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 36:55SPEAKER_00: And I think also a piece of narrative that,
- 36:57SPEAKER_00: that comes through a lot is what is the thing that you did before this that informs
- 37:01SPEAKER_00: who you are now?
- 37:03SPEAKER_00: And I think people like to hide that stuff and say like,
- 37:05SPEAKER_00: well, I've just always been a good writer, so I'm a copywriter.
- 37:08SPEAKER_00: And they don't talk about what were the things that you did before that.
- 37:11SPEAKER_00: Or, well,
- 37:12SPEAKER_00: I'm a therapist and therefore all that I can talk
- 37:14SPEAKER_00: about is your mental health versus like, well, I became a therapist because of that.
- 37:18SPEAKER_00: And if you're in a space where you had a business model that did one thing
- 37:21SPEAKER_00: and now you're in a business model that does a different thing, that's good.
- 37:40SPEAKER_00: I talked to somebody in a training who she had done her like PhD or master's thesis
- 37:46SPEAKER_00: in some very complicated math systems.
- 37:49SPEAKER_00: And then she became a tech editor for like knitting and textile work.
- 37:55SPEAKER_00: And she was like, well,
- 37:57SPEAKER_00: when I search myself in AI,
- 37:58SPEAKER_00: what shows up is like my PhD because that's the academic credentials.
- 38:03SPEAKER_00: And those are going to show up first when you search my name.
- 38:04SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, that's amazing because that makes you a better tech editor.
- 38:09SPEAKER_00: That's what's going to set you up.
- 38:10SPEAKER_00: That's not something that you want to try to erase.
- 38:12SPEAKER_00: That's something that you say,
- 38:14SPEAKER_00: I'm really good at my job now because I have this incredible credential.
- 38:18SPEAKER_00: And the way that I think about math and the ways that knits and pearls go together,
- 38:24SPEAKER_00: I don't really know that much about tech editing or knitting or crocheting
- 38:28SPEAKER_00: in general.
- 38:30SPEAKER_00: I have made blankets.
- 38:31SPEAKER_00: That's as far as I can go.
- 38:32SPEAKER_00: I can do granny squares.
- 38:34SPEAKER_00: But the way that you think about it is different.
- 38:36SPEAKER_00: And it was in a training for tech editors.
- 38:39SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, you're different from everyone in this room because you have that.
- 38:42SPEAKER_00: Let's benefit from that.
- 38:43SPEAKER_00: So a lot of that positioning work comes in and is like, here's how you're different.
- 38:47SPEAKER_00: So I love that you brought up,
- 38:49SPEAKER_00: I do six months because I want time for things to sink in and to become habit.
- 38:54SPEAKER_01: Have you talked about conference infrastructure yet?
- 38:57SPEAKER_01: Did we get to that part of the beacon?
- 38:58SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 38:59SPEAKER_00: That's nice.
- 38:59SPEAKER_01: Okay.
- 39:00SPEAKER_01: You talk about it, and then I'll talk about how that concept shows up in my program.
- 39:04SPEAKER_00: Awesome.
- 39:05SPEAKER_00: So after we get through sort of those three positioning groups, then we do building.
- 39:11SPEAKER_00: Similar to you where you're like learn, build, what's your third?
- 39:14SPEAKER_00: Learn, build.
- 39:15SPEAKER_00: Practice.
- 39:16SPEAKER_00: Practice.
- 39:18SPEAKER_00: So we did three.
- 39:19SPEAKER_00: We did brand entities,
- 39:21SPEAKER_00: expertise,
- 39:22SPEAKER_00: narrative was sort of like our who am I, what do I want to be found for piece.
- 39:26SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 39:27SPEAKER_00: And then we do three trainings all about infrastructure.
- 39:30SPEAKER_00: Because once we figure out who we are,
- 39:33SPEAKER_00: what we want to be found for,
- 39:34SPEAKER_00: what are we doing,
- 39:35SPEAKER_00: who are we doing it for in those first three weeks,
- 39:37SPEAKER_00: then we take three weeks to go, okay, what do I already have?
- 39:41SPEAKER_00: How am I already perceived?
- 39:43SPEAKER_00: What do I need to write or create or change in order to make it something
- 39:49SPEAKER_00: that these tools can understand?
- 39:51SPEAKER_00: And so I do one week of just website as a whole.
- 39:57SPEAKER_00: What does your navigation say about you?
- 39:59SPEAKER_00: What does your homepage structure say about you?
- 40:02SPEAKER_00: What needs to go in your footer?
- 40:03SPEAKER_00: How can your footer do a really good job of explaining to these systems who you are?
- 40:08SPEAKER_00: How do these pages fit together?
- 40:12SPEAKER_00: How are your links working to help these tools know what the
- 40:20SPEAKER_00: Single pages or groups of pages.
- 40:22SPEAKER_00: We talked about hub and spoke content,
- 40:23SPEAKER_00: which a lot of people who are sort of bloggers and content marketers have heard that
- 40:28SPEAKER_00: before.
- 40:28SPEAKER_00: Sometimes it's also called cornerstone content, pillar content.
- 40:31SPEAKER_00: We talk about that, too, because that's a way to say to AI, this is my most important work.
- 40:36SPEAKER_00: This is the thing that I want to be found for.
- 40:39SPEAKER_00: And then we spend a week on tech and marketing.
- 40:44SPEAKER_00: Are there plugins that you should be using if you're on WordPress?
- 40:47SPEAKER_00: If you're on Squarespace, what does that look like?
- 40:49SPEAKER_00: How do we make this work?
- 40:50SPEAKER_00: We talk about schema markup.
- 40:52SPEAKER_00: You were talking earlier about how you sort of inserted your phase one
- 40:56SPEAKER_00: to get people more acclimated.
- 40:59SPEAKER_00: The last time that I taught this program,
- 41:01SPEAKER_00: I put the schema markup in week three and it was too soon.
- 41:04SPEAKER_00: Now it's in week six because I want to give people time to,
- 41:06SPEAKER_00: and I have more workbooks to build up what we need in order to do
- 41:10SPEAKER_00: the technical stuff, but I need them to understand other things first.
- 41:13SPEAKER_00: So That's the other reason that I like being able to teach it live is I can adjust
- 41:17SPEAKER_00: and evolve and see where people get stuck and go, okay,
- 41:20SPEAKER_00: I need more scaffolding myself to get people ready to do some of
- 41:24SPEAKER_00: the more technical pieces, which aren't difficult, but they are technical.
- 41:29SPEAKER_00: And so what can I give them to make that step feel less overwhelming?
- 41:35SPEAKER_00: So that sort of that middle phase is the building and what's happening on your website.
- 41:41SPEAKER_00: And I think of this as like If we're thinking of this as a radio frequency,
- 41:46SPEAKER_00: the first three weeks are, who is this for?
- 41:50SPEAKER_00: What music are we going to play?
- 41:51SPEAKER_00: What are the DJs going to sound like?
- 41:53SPEAKER_00: And then the next three are,
- 41:55SPEAKER_00: we're actually building the radio station and the antenna that's going to go up so
- 42:00SPEAKER_00: that way we can broadcast this
- 42:02SPEAKER_01: out.
- 42:03SPEAKER_01: So we talk about those as well in my program.
- 42:06SPEAKER_01: They are meant for less about discoverability and more about commercial reality.
- 42:11SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 42:12SPEAKER_01: Method, your process should be how the cornerstone of your offers.
- 42:18SPEAKER_01: And so, um,
- 42:20SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 42:20SPEAKER_01: you come learn your method with me, you come construct your offers with me.
- 42:24SPEAKER_01: That should be what you then as you use your infrastructure content organization for Meg.
- 42:30SPEAKER_01: Um, I talk about pillar content, um,
- 42:32SPEAKER_01: as far as the authority loop concept,
- 42:34SPEAKER_01: which is like,
- 42:35SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 42:36SPEAKER_01: you, you, you have the conversation, you deliver it, you turn it into tools.
- 42:39SPEAKER_01: Um, You're posting it on the site to be discovered.
- 42:42SPEAKER_01: And I'm saying, hey,
- 42:44SPEAKER_01: take that and like ship it to people as part of your relationship rhythms,
- 42:49SPEAKER_01: authority building process.
- 42:50SPEAKER_01: So we're coming at it from like the same angles,
- 42:54SPEAKER_01: but different same concepts, different use cases, which I think is really.
- 42:58SPEAKER_00: But mine builds into yours next.
- 43:00SPEAKER_00: So I'm glad that you brought that up.
- 43:02SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
- 43:02SPEAKER_01: And then,
- 43:03SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 43:03SPEAKER_01: speaking of tools,
- 43:05SPEAKER_01: I have come up with some better worksheets and tools to say,
- 43:08SPEAKER_01: you know, really,
- 43:10SPEAKER_01: All of the positioning work for me distills into a referral one pager
- 43:15SPEAKER_01: because you have to know who you are,
- 43:18SPEAKER_01: who you serve,
- 43:19SPEAKER_01: who you don't serve,
- 43:20SPEAKER_01: why you're different,
- 43:21SPEAKER_01: what are the angles you talk about, when to call you, general high level offers.
- 43:25SPEAKER_01: So like that's kind of like the big artifact of the first three months so
- 43:31SPEAKER_01: that you're like super precise and then you can say like,
- 43:33SPEAKER_01: oh, now I can go build those things.
- 43:34SPEAKER_01: So I've kind of developed some new tools to help.
- 43:37SPEAKER_01: Speed up some of that process to be like, this is your capstone phase one, two, like artifact.
- 43:45SPEAKER_01: You know, those are some things that I'm working on.
- 43:47SPEAKER_01: I'm using AI to help me with some of those.
- 43:48SPEAKER_01: Like I have like,
- 43:49SPEAKER_01: instead of a tool and we're doing pricing,
- 43:52SPEAKER_01: I made an AI tool about the zone of enoughness so that you could say basically,
- 43:56SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 43:57SPEAKER_01: what does this mean for like how many clients you're going to need to have?
- 43:59SPEAKER_01: How many sales calls you need to have?
- 44:01SPEAKER_01: How big does your audience need to be?
- 44:03SPEAKER_01: So there's some new tools that I'm rolling out to support those concepts.
- 44:09SPEAKER_00: And I love that it's like once you have all of that positioning work done and sort
- 44:15SPEAKER_00: of like knowing what your business needs to accomplish,
- 44:17SPEAKER_00: then you have the one sheet that you can use for the referrals and therefore do
- 44:21SPEAKER_00: the distribution work, do the outreach and the networking.
- 44:26SPEAKER_01: It's like we're two peas in a pod helping people get found and discovered and then,
- 44:30SPEAKER_01: you know, helping them go to the market.
- 44:32SPEAKER_01: It's like we should be doing this together.
- 44:34SPEAKER_01: I'm just kidding.
- 44:35SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 44:36SPEAKER_00: Well, I think also it's different to where you're doing a lot of the same work
- 44:40SPEAKER_00: and making it legible to humans so that way they can refer,
- 44:44SPEAKER_00: which is super important and making it legible on sales calls so
- 44:48SPEAKER_00: that way people can hire.
- 44:50SPEAKER_00: So you're doing it at that sort of like one to one or like relationship marketing level.
- 44:56SPEAKER_00: Versus when I get to that stage where I have,
- 44:59SPEAKER_00: okay, we've figured out who you're working with and who you work for.
- 45:02SPEAKER_00: We have your website set up so that way these tools can understand what it is
- 45:06SPEAKER_00: that you do and who you do it for at scale.
- 45:08SPEAKER_00: Then that's when I start to move to distribution.
- 45:12SPEAKER_00: So my first six weeks,
- 45:14SPEAKER_00: my first four pillars,
- 45:15SPEAKER_00: if you will,
- 45:16SPEAKER_00: are all about knowing who you are and getting that on your website and building that
- 45:20SPEAKER_00: as your core hub of content.
- 45:22SPEAKER_00: And then my next two weeks are all about the kind of the distribution and the collaboration.
- 45:27SPEAKER_00: So my O in Beacon is omni-channel presence,
- 45:32SPEAKER_00: which is reinforcing what you've already done in other places.
- 45:36SPEAKER_00: So it's not, oh,
- 45:38SPEAKER_00: we need to go get on social media and come up with
- 45:40SPEAKER_00: an entirely new different social media calendar where we post on Facebook
- 45:45SPEAKER_00: on this day and Instagram on this day and blah, blah, blah.
- 45:47SPEAKER_00: No, I don't want you to create anything new.
- 45:49SPEAKER_00: What I want you to do is Repurpose and redistribute.
- 45:53SPEAKER_00: We'll just say distribute.
- 45:54SPEAKER_00: It's not even repurposing.
- 45:55SPEAKER_00: You're distributing what you've already created.
- 45:58SPEAKER_00: So if you have a pillar piece and you want to go through and say,
- 46:01SPEAKER_00: OK, I have a pillar piece on my website.
- 46:03SPEAKER_00: Let me record a podcast about that.
- 46:05SPEAKER_00: Let me record some YouTube videos about that.
- 46:07SPEAKER_00: Let me break it down into LinkedIn articles or one LinkedIn article
- 46:11SPEAKER_00: that I can repurpose for my website and say,
- 46:13SPEAKER_00: oh, I originally published it over here first.
- 46:15SPEAKER_00: And here it is again.
- 46:16SPEAKER_00: And now I'm going to take that LinkedIn article and break it down into posts
- 46:21SPEAKER_00: that people can engage with.
- 46:22SPEAKER_00: But it's all going to be the same consistent, coherent messaging.
- 46:26SPEAKER_00: What you really want to do is reiterate what you've already done on the channels
- 46:30SPEAKER_00: that you own,
- 46:31SPEAKER_00: because that is something that these AI tools can pick up and go, oh,
- 46:35SPEAKER_00: so Meg's saying the same thing on Love at First Search,
- 46:38SPEAKER_00: that she's saying on Aggressively Human, that she's saying on her LinkedIn.
- 46:41SPEAKER_00: That looks like a real person, that she's creating the same consistent language.
- 46:46SPEAKER_00: And I'm not on LinkedIn talking about,
- 46:48SPEAKER_00: you know, my dog issues because it's not relevant to my business.
- 46:52SPEAKER_00: My dog doesn't have issues.
- 46:54SPEAKER_00: Don't worry, anybody.
- 46:55SPEAKER_00: He's fine.
- 46:56SPEAKER_00: He's totally fine.
- 46:57SPEAKER_00: But, you know,
- 46:58SPEAKER_00: like being able to have the same messaging,
- 47:00SPEAKER_00: it makes all of your marketing easier because you don't need to create anything new.
- 47:05SPEAKER_00: You need to be consistent.
- 47:06SPEAKER_00: And I always say boringly consistent across the channels that you own.
- 47:13SPEAKER_00: Go ahead.
- 47:14SPEAKER_00: I know you're dying to get in here.
- 47:16SPEAKER_00: Which, by the way,
- 47:17SPEAKER_00: means that if you're
- 47:18SPEAKER_01: using the same content,
- 47:19SPEAKER_01: that makes sure you have more time for relationship building.
- 47:24SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 47:24SPEAKER_01: Which I think is how you get your N, right?
- 47:26SPEAKER_01: No.
- 47:28SPEAKER_01: No, damn it.
- 47:29SPEAKER_01: Where's the thing where you go on other people's podcasts and stuff like that?
- 47:31SPEAKER_01: Authority, that's next.
- 47:32SPEAKER_01: Okay, finish that one.
- 47:34SPEAKER_01: No, you're all good.
- 47:35SPEAKER_00: And you know when I was coming up with the Beacon Framework,
- 47:37SPEAKER_00: like, A year ago, I was like, what should the end be, Jessica?
- 47:41SPEAKER_00: And you were like, network, network.
- 47:42SPEAKER_00: So I think you always want to get it there.
- 47:45SPEAKER_00: And to an extent it is, right?
- 47:47SPEAKER_00: It is network.
- 47:49SPEAKER_00: Before I leave Omnichannel behind,
- 47:51SPEAKER_00: I thought you were going to say something else,
- 47:53SPEAKER_00: which is you may also be writing newsletters.
- 47:59SPEAKER_00: And newsletters are not legible to AI, but it's often some of your best intellectual property.
- 48:04SPEAKER_00: So I'm going to also say,
- 48:06SPEAKER_00: I'm going to encourage you to publish your newsletters if there's something in there
- 48:09SPEAKER_00: that isn't in a blog post that isn't anywhere published.
- 48:11SPEAKER_00: That could be, you know, LinkedIn articles that you call the LinkedIn newsletter.
- 48:15SPEAKER_00: I'm not a LinkedIn expert,
- 48:17SPEAKER_00: but I'm pretty sure that LinkedIn newsletters are just LinkedIn articles
- 48:20SPEAKER_00: that they distribute for you, right?
- 48:21SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 48:23SPEAKER_00: I'm sure it's more complicated than that.
- 48:25SPEAKER_00: I'm not going to get into that right now.
- 48:27SPEAKER_00: Or, you know,
- 48:28SPEAKER_00: a Substack somewhere else where you take your emails and you make it something
- 48:32SPEAKER_00: that can be publicly indexable to these tools and not something that only lands
- 48:39SPEAKER_00: on people's inboxes.
- 48:41SPEAKER_00: And then the last of my beacon framework is authority.
- 48:45SPEAKER_00: And authority is when you are co-collaborating and sometimes getting co-citations,
- 48:51SPEAKER_00: but it is this collaborative experience of go be on someone else's podcast.
- 48:57SPEAKER_00: Get somebody else to talk about you.
- 48:59SPEAKER_00: Go be on someone else's podcast.
- 49:00SPEAKER_00: Be a guest expert in an industry publication.
- 49:04SPEAKER_00: Go write for it.
- 49:05SPEAKER_00: I was just talking to a web designer yesterday who works with interior designers,
- 49:09SPEAKER_00: and she's pitching the interior design forums and going into those places
- 49:14SPEAKER_00: and saying, can I write guest expert posts for you about website design, right?
- 49:20SPEAKER_00: Going into the places that have already established audiences and getting them
- 49:26SPEAKER_00: to mention you, talk about you, cite you.
- 49:30SPEAKER_00: And also just like becoming well known enough that people mention you and cite you
- 49:36SPEAKER_00: without you needing to do the work on it.
- 49:39SPEAKER_00: And that's something that you can't always generate
- 49:41SPEAKER_00: through your relationship outreach,
- 49:43SPEAKER_00: but it happens over time because your authority has compounded.
- 49:47SPEAKER_01: I think it can't start without networks.
- 49:50SPEAKER_01: Like there's this adoption threshold concept, uh,
- 49:53SPEAKER_01: Chloe Nwangli talked to me about,
- 49:55SPEAKER_01: but like you have to be well known enough through your networks and with something
- 50:00SPEAKER_01: to say, go listen to one of our last episodes on the topic.
- 50:03SPEAKER_01: You have to,
- 50:04SPEAKER_01: there has to be enough people who kind of know about you for word of mouth
- 50:09SPEAKER_01: to spread.
- 50:10SPEAKER_01: You have to be known for something.
- 50:12SPEAKER_01: Enough people have to talk about it enough to really kick the flywheel off.
- 50:16SPEAKER_01: I don't think it just happens.
- 50:18SPEAKER_01: I don't think it happens algorithmically anymore.
- 50:22SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I agree.
- 50:23SPEAKER_00: And I think you need to have other people talking about you,
- 50:25SPEAKER_00: even if you have the best content in the world on your website
- 50:29SPEAKER_00: and your YouTube channel and your LinkedIn.
- 50:31SPEAKER_00: If nobody's engaging with it, nobody else is talking about you.
- 50:34SPEAKER_00: AI doesn't trust you.
- 50:36SPEAKER_00: And that's maybe the hardest one to fake,
- 50:38SPEAKER_00: the hardest one to replicate, the hardest one to choose the timeline of.
- 50:43SPEAKER_00: This might be like,
- 50:44SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 50:44SPEAKER_00: going on quoted or source of sources and pitching yourself to magazines
- 50:48SPEAKER_00: when they have journalists requests.
- 50:50SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 50:50SPEAKER_00: So this can be something that you can control.
- 50:53SPEAKER_00: But a lot of it is what you always talk about, which is relationship building.
- 50:57SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 50:58SPEAKER_01: And protecting time to do this work.
- 51:00SPEAKER_01: So, Meg, if people are like, how do I choose between these two amazing programs?
- 51:06SPEAKER_01: Do Jessica's first.
- 51:08SPEAKER_00: Do Jessica's first thing come to me because you'll be so much more prepared for mine.
- 51:11SPEAKER_00: I mean, I guess that's the trite answer.
- 51:13SPEAKER_00: I think it's more what are your goals?
- 51:15SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 51:16SPEAKER_00: if you already have an established business and you want to be found for the things
- 51:19SPEAKER_00: that you do and you have a clear idea of what it is that you do and who you work
- 51:22SPEAKER_00: for, then come to me.
- 51:24SPEAKER_00: But if you're like,
- 51:24SPEAKER_00: I'm still really struggling to figure out how to get this business in place
- 51:29SPEAKER_00: and I don't necessarily care as much about the AI itself.
- 51:32SPEAKER_00: Recommendations as I want to just like establish the business,
- 51:34SPEAKER_00: get the relationships in place,
- 51:36SPEAKER_00: make the time for doing the work,
- 51:38SPEAKER_00: stop doing the things that aren't moving the needle for me, then go to Jessica.
- 51:42SPEAKER_01: I would say even if you have an established practice,
- 51:44SPEAKER_01: but if you're like,
- 51:46SPEAKER_01: I feel like I have an established practice with the wrong price point,
- 51:49SPEAKER_01: value proposition and offer structure.
- 51:52SPEAKER_01: Boom, come to me first, because then we can say, how do we elevate?
- 51:56SPEAKER_01: I'm going to quote Nick and Erica on this, but how do we elevate the problem?
- 52:00SPEAKER_01: Elevate,
- 52:01SPEAKER_01: make the commercial proposition more legible so that
- 52:06SPEAKER_01: then you can make it more legible in AI.
- 52:08SPEAKER_01: Like, let's not get you known for the wrong thing.
- 52:11SPEAKER_00: Yeah, so true.
- 52:13SPEAKER_00: You can definitely undersell yourself.
- 52:18SPEAKER_00: In your own content,
- 52:20SPEAKER_00: if you haven't done this sort of work of where do I belong in the market
- 52:24SPEAKER_00: and what is my value proposition?
- 52:26SPEAKER_00: And that's not necessarily the work that I'm doing.
- 52:28SPEAKER_00: I sort of come to it from what are people searching for?
- 52:30SPEAKER_00: What do they need from you?
- 52:33SPEAKER_01: Well, I'm kind of both sad I'm not in your program because it sounds really great.
- 52:38SPEAKER_01: Although I once paid you for advisory services
- 52:41SPEAKER_01: and I think you just never kicked me out of the program.
- 52:43SPEAKER_00: That might have been Sheena being like, should we kick out Jessica?
- 52:46SPEAKER_00: I'm like, no, I'll tag her in things.
- 52:50SPEAKER_00: And I know we talk about it all the time.
- 52:52SPEAKER_00: We kind of want to spy on each other.
- 52:54SPEAKER_00: I know that you love,
- 52:55SPEAKER_00: I'm like,
- 52:55SPEAKER_00: I'm always like,
- 52:56SPEAKER_00: look at your own paper and you're like secretly eyeballing what else is going on
- 53:00SPEAKER_00: in other people's places.
- 53:02SPEAKER_01: I spend so much time looking at people's papers.
- 53:04SPEAKER_01: Meg, if they want to check you out before your program starts, how can they do that?
- 53:09SPEAKER_00: Sure, you can come over to loveitforcearch.com.
- 53:12SPEAKER_00: This particular program is at loveitforcearch.com slash mentorship.
- 53:16SPEAKER_00: But get on my email list because I am running some free webinars in the month
- 53:19SPEAKER_00: of September about this program.
- 53:21SPEAKER_00: And yeah, I'll have those on the website once I have those dates too.
- 53:25SPEAKER_00: And Jessica,
- 53:26SPEAKER_00: what if people want to work with you in the membership,
- 53:29SPEAKER_01: in the Define Your Foundations cohort?
- 53:32SPEAKER_01: If you've got questions and you're like,
- 53:34SPEAKER_01: I want to be in Jessica's world,
- 53:36SPEAKER_01: just send me an email and we'll have a conversation about it.
- 53:39SPEAKER_01: At deeperfoundations.com.
- 53:41SPEAKER_00: All right.
- 53:42SPEAKER_00: So let's wrap up today.
- 53:44SPEAKER_00: What is Aggressively Human in your world?
- 53:47SPEAKER_01: So Ted Lasso Season 4 is back.
- 53:51SPEAKER_01: And it has come out on Wednesdays.
- 53:53SPEAKER_01: And my husband for the past two Wednesdays has had,
- 53:56SPEAKER_01: we've had stuff at the city club and then Thursdays is his, uh, running night.
- 54:00SPEAKER_01: So it's Friday and we haven't had a chance to watch the episode of Ted Lasso.
- 54:05SPEAKER_01: I'm like, oh man, we're watching it together, which means I can't watch it right away.
- 54:09SPEAKER_01: I have to wait two whole days.
- 54:11SPEAKER_01: Womp womp.
- 54:12SPEAKER_01: But, um,
- 54:13SPEAKER_01: so far I'm enjoying,
- 54:14SPEAKER_01: uh, the, the, you know, the Lady Greyhounds for anyone who's up on Ted Lasso.
- 54:20SPEAKER_00: I am not up on Ted Lasso.
- 54:21SPEAKER_00: I completely missed season three.
- 54:24SPEAKER_00: So I'm like way behind on Ted Lasso to the point where I'm like,
- 54:27SPEAKER_00: I don't know if I can get back into it, but I did love seasons one and two.
- 54:29SPEAKER_00: So I'm glad that you're enjoying it.
- 54:31SPEAKER_01: Oh man.
- 54:31SPEAKER_01: I mean, you know that I went,
- 54:32SPEAKER_01: we went to England,
- 54:33SPEAKER_01: we went to Richmond so I could go to the pub where Ted Lasso was filmed
- 54:37SPEAKER_01: and like take a picture in outside of Ted's door.
- 54:42SPEAKER_00: I love that.
- 54:42SPEAKER_00: And I probably would do the same thing if I were in London,
- 54:44SPEAKER_00: even though I haven't even watched the last two seasons,
- 54:46SPEAKER_00: because I feel like that's just such an iconic street to be on now.
- 54:49SPEAKER_00: I bet it's part of
- 54:49SPEAKER_01: the tour.
- 54:51SPEAKER_01: I mean, there was no tour of it.
- 54:51SPEAKER_01: It was like just cold and rainy, but you know, So Meg, what is Aggressively Human for you?
- 54:57SPEAKER_00: Okay, so sometimes we do Aggressively Human, sometimes we do Aggressively Canine.
- 55:00SPEAKER_00: We once did Aggressively Feline.
- 55:02SPEAKER_00: I have a new one today.
- 55:03SPEAKER_00: I had to look up what the family group is, which is Leporidae.
- 55:09SPEAKER_00: Leporidae.
- 55:11SPEAKER_00: Leporidae.
- 55:12SPEAKER_00: Leporidae.
- 55:13SPEAKER_00: Do you know what this is?
- 55:16SPEAKER_00: Aggressively Leporidae is bunnies.
- 55:21SPEAKER_00: Bunnies, it must be bunnies.
- 55:23SPEAKER_00: We already recorded an episode about Muffy the Vampire Slayer today,
- 55:26SPEAKER_00: and it hasn't come out yet,
- 55:27SPEAKER_00: so this is going to be out of order,
- 55:28SPEAKER_00: but I don't care because I need to scream about bunnies when we talk about this.
- 55:32SPEAKER_00: We have had two, not one, but two, what are they, barons?
- 55:38SPEAKER_00: Like burrows, burrows of bunnies in our backyard this summer.
- 55:42SPEAKER_00: We have an 80-pound pit bull who lives with us in a fenced-in backyard
- 55:51SPEAKER_00: The first set of the bunnies was like three feet from my house.
- 55:54SPEAKER_00: And I was like, guys, you are just so dumb.
- 55:57SPEAKER_00: These are like what rabbit is like.
- 55:59SPEAKER_00: This is right next to a human house and there's a dog in the backyard.
- 56:04SPEAKER_00: I'm going to lay my babies here.
- 56:06SPEAKER_00: And those babies, as far as I know, none of them made it because comma dog.
- 56:12SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 56:12SPEAKER_00: And it was it was a hard cleanup.
- 56:15SPEAKER_00: It was an emotional thing for me.
- 56:17SPEAKER_00: But we got over it, and I was like, okay, the bunnies figured it out.
- 56:20SPEAKER_00: The bunnies have not come back.
- 56:22SPEAKER_00: And then we went on vacation, and we took the dog to a boarding facility.
- 56:28SPEAKER_00: And so there was no dog in the backyard.
- 56:30SPEAKER_00: And we asked the neighbors to mow the lawn, and they didn't get around to it.
- 56:33SPEAKER_00: And that's totally fine.
- 56:34SPEAKER_00: I don't care.
- 56:35SPEAKER_00: But our backyard got very long.
- 56:37SPEAKER_00: And so yesterday, I was mowing the backyard.
- 56:42SPEAKER_00: And I did not run out.
- 56:45SPEAKER_00: I ran over the bunnies, but I did not kill the bunnies.
- 56:47SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 56:47SPEAKER_00: Let's just say that straight, straight up.
- 56:50SPEAKER_00: I ran over the bunnies and they were fine.
- 56:52SPEAKER_00: I didn't even know they were there.
- 56:53SPEAKER_00: And then I went to,
- 56:54SPEAKER_00: cause we, the yard was so long that I raked the grass and I was like, Oh God.
- 57:00SPEAKER_00: Oh my God.
- 57:01SPEAKER_00: Right in the exact center of our backyard now.
- 57:05SPEAKER_00: And so then we had to,
- 57:06SPEAKER_00: and now that I know that they're there,
- 57:08SPEAKER_00: but the dog does not yet know that they're there because I covered them up with
- 57:12SPEAKER_00: the grass really quickly.
- 57:14SPEAKER_00: Um, I took the kids like climber that they used a lot when they were preschoolers
- 57:19SPEAKER_00: and now they're kind of outgrown it,
- 57:21SPEAKER_00: but it's really big and I should just put it on the curb and I haven't yet.
- 57:23SPEAKER_00: So I put that over the buddy hole and then Ben came by
- 57:28SPEAKER_00: and he took our like hammock holders and put that over the thing.
- 57:32SPEAKER_00: And we're just hoping the dog just like doesn't notice that in the exact center of the lawn.
- 57:39SPEAKER_00: Like, could not be more,
- 57:41SPEAKER_00: like, could not be more in the exact center of the lawn, not covered up at all.
- 57:46SPEAKER_00: We have these baby bunnies.
- 57:48SPEAKER_00: And I'm really stressed out about it because I want the bunnies to live.
- 57:50SPEAKER_00: But also, like, so dumb, Jessica.
- 57:54SPEAKER_00: Aggressively, aggressively, um, liporade today.
- 58:00SPEAKER_01: Bunnies, it must be bunnies.
- 58:03SPEAKER_01: All right, with that, shall we wrap today?
- 58:05SPEAKER_00: Yeah, I'll give people an update on the bunnies if they're curious.
- 58:10SPEAKER_00: I don't know if anyone actually listened through the end of the episodes to hear
- 58:12SPEAKER_00: about the bunnies.
- 58:13SPEAKER_01: I think they do.
- 58:14SPEAKER_01: I think so, too.
- 58:15SPEAKER_01: Well, we'll be back next week with yet another episode of Aggressively Human.
- 58:19SPEAKER_01: Bye, y'all.