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Am I Unlovable? Healing the Fear That No One Will Stay · A Capture Deep Vibs A Positive Space For Inspiration And Embracing Of Heart

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  Speaker 1: Have you ever had a nagging thought in the back
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  Speaker 1: of your mind asking, am I unlovable? What if no
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  Speaker 1: one ever truly loves me? If you felt that way before,
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  Speaker 1: you're not alone. A while back, we released a video titled,
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  Speaker 1: Why Some Men Feel Unlovable. And many of you asked,
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  Speaker 1: can you do one for women too? We heard you
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  Speaker 1: and we're glad you asked. So many women, smart, kind,
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  Speaker 1: strong women struggle with feeling unlovable. And maybe you've carried
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  Speaker 1: it for so long that you stop noticing it's even there.
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  Speaker 1: It's not always loud. Sometimes it just whispers. Don't get
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  Speaker 1: too close. Don't ask for too much. Don't expect to
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  Speaker 1: be chosen. But that fear didn't come out of nowhere.
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  Speaker 1: So many women find themselves as the emotional caretakers in
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  Speaker 1: their relationships, often putting others' needs before their own. Today,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to explore where these feelings really come from,
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  Speaker 1: the real experiences that shaped them, and more importantly, how
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  Speaker 1: to start healing from them Let's begin. You were taught
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  Speaker 1: to be the caretaker, not the one cared for. From
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  Speaker 1: day one, you were conditioned to care for others, siblings, parents, classmates, partners.
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  Speaker 1: You became the emotional support system before you even understood
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  Speaker 1: your own emotions. Eventually, you believed your worth came from
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  Speaker 1: what you could give, not who you are. This is
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  Speaker 1: called parentification, taking on adult caregiving roles too soon. It
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  Speaker 1: teaches you, my job is to give love, not