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S5 #6 Building Up to Becca · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with our radio Welcome back to Almost to Miss Podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I'm Ben, I'm Ashley, and we are so excited to
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  Speaker 1: have you joining us today. Thank you for listening. We
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  Speaker 1: appreciate you. Um, we have to jump right into it.
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  Speaker 1: We're three weeks away from the Bachelorette actually still in
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  Speaker 1: the tent. How excited are you? I'm okay excited until
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  Speaker 1: the season starts. I don't really like, I don't anticipate it.
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  Speaker 1: Really that you don't miss it? M M? Is that bad? No? Hey,
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  Speaker 1: there is nothing wrong with any opinion that you have
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  Speaker 1: towards the Bachelor of bachel right. Actually I'm interested on
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  Speaker 1: why you don't miss it? Means your life literally goes
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  Speaker 1: from zero to a hundred once the Bachelor start. Well
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  Speaker 1: then maybe that's why. Yeah, perfect, that's a good point.
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  Speaker 1: Tell us ever, tell everybody, like, what exactly you get
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  Speaker 1: involved in once the show starts? Oh my gosh. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so I have obviously this recap, then I have my
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  Speaker 1: Cosmopolitan recap, I have my fab Fit Fun recap um,
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  Speaker 1: and then I have my Access Hollywood recap and that
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  Speaker 1: is on the Live Morning Show and their Facebook they're digital.
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  Speaker 1: What's the best recap? Actually, oh, they're all children to me.
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  Speaker 1: I can't pick a favorite, but of course I love
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  Speaker 1: doing it. It's just, yeah, it's a lot of different
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  Speaker 1: ways of analyzing the show that I have to come
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  Speaker 1: up with to make each one a little bit different
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  Speaker 1: and special in its own way. Interesting. Well, hey, I
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  Speaker 1: got some big news when it comes to Becca season. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: I've gotten a little inside soup so far. What I
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  Speaker 1: hear is Becca is a an incredible bachelort, not for
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  Speaker 1: any other reason other than that she is very attentive,
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  Speaker 1: very caring, loving, She's obviously beautiful. Um, but I guess
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  Speaker 1: from everything I understand, they hit a home run when
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  Speaker 1: it came to finding Becca as a bachelor at that.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think? I mean, that's awesome? I think so.
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  Speaker 1: I think she's probably gonna just relish in the role.
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  Speaker 1: I don't I don't see her complaining about being too
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  Speaker 1: tiring or anything like that. I feel like she's going
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  Speaker 1: to be like the least of diva like bachelor atte
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  Speaker 1: You're right, I mean, so that was kind of the
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  Speaker 1: insight I got was that, you know, she's so like
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  Speaker 1: being a bachelor, so tired, We've talked about this a
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  Speaker 1: few weeks ago. She doesn't complain and I have Actually
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait to explain more about this. I I've
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  Speaker 1: just met up with somebody who was asked to go
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  Speaker 1: home from her season recently. I wonder who was yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And all they had to say was incredible things about Becca,
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  Speaker 1: that she was literally like their dream girl and not
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  Speaker 1: in like a weird like oh I missed her kind
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  Speaker 1: of way, just like man, that girls special. And so
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  Speaker 1: I've pumped to this season. I'm looking forward to it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited. I think Becca is gonna blow the two
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  Speaker 1: other water. How lucky is the Bachelor franchise though we
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  Speaker 1: talked about before, but they haven't had a bad quote
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  Speaker 1: unquote Bachelor at maybe ever. Know, the girls kill it? Why?
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  Speaker 1: Why about that we can take back on guys and
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  Speaker 1: and name a thousand and and you know we're over
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  Speaker 1: five and the last five years, So like, what about girls?
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  Speaker 1: What makes them different? I just I have to go
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  Speaker 1: back to that, like they don't have the subtle desire
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  Speaker 1: in the back of their head to maybe take to
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  Speaker 1: play around a little bit after I don't think the
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor I ever goes Oh, but you know what if
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  Speaker 1: I'm the Bachelor and it doesn't work out on the show,
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  Speaker 1: then I'm going to have the world at my fingertips.
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  Speaker 1: As far as the available men that come to me,
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  Speaker 1: I think guys are some I mean not you, Ben,
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  Speaker 1: And maybe I'm generalizing. I probably I'm probably being um sexist. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: um double standard. I feel like it's very much a
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  Speaker 1: double standard of me to say this, But I do
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  Speaker 1: think that the guys are probably saying, Hey, if doesn't
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  Speaker 1: work out with her, think about all the girls that
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  Speaker 1: will be after me after this. Yeah, I I don't
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  Speaker 1: think you're wrong. Oh good, thank you, thank you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think you're wrong at all. I
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  Speaker 1: think it's very interesting and and that is true. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: once you get off, you know, the girls are waiting,
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  Speaker 1: you know. But it's the question is is it the
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  Speaker 1: right one? And I think the show really offers the
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  Speaker 1: ability to find the right one. But anyway, we're pumped
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  Speaker 1: out here at the almost finish podcast. We've almost made
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  Speaker 1: it through our third off season. That's insane, um and
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  Speaker 1: this is my maybe going to be be one of
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  Speaker 1: the best shows that we've had. But before we get
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  Speaker 1: into Bachelor news, I want to let everybody know that
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  Speaker 1: in what is it actually two weeks? So I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to look at our calendar here. This season starts in
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  Speaker 1: three weeks. We will have a very special guest reveal.
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  Speaker 1: It reveal a ben Bachlorret in two weeks. Right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we'll have her on for a whole hour in two weeks.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's insane what we're gonna talk about. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be nerves I'm gonna be nervous. Oh you are nervous too,
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  Speaker 1: that's a big deal. Yeah, she's gonna She looked at
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  Speaker 1: almost like a Rachel lindsay to me, like, uh, you know,
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  Speaker 1: she's a little intimidating, but she's super sweet and super kind.
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  Speaker 1: But like even when I see Rachel's today, like I
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  Speaker 1: kind of like get a little nervous just because like
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  Speaker 1: she's she is, you know, a lady Boughs. Like they
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  Speaker 1: definitely have a yeah presence about him. All Right, anyway,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna we have to move on here, athlete. What
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  Speaker 1: are your thoughts? Uh? N z K. The production company
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  Speaker 1: of the Bachelor has come out with a new show.
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  Speaker 1: They've tried a couple of shows here recently, not all
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  Speaker 1: of them. More work actually a couple have been very successful.
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  Speaker 1: The one with Andy Cohen called help me on year.
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  Speaker 1: Asked to what's the name of it Andy Cohen Show? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: No that that. He's the host of Anybody connect Love Connections. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's an MP case show that's doing pretty really well. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then they have this one, uh, The Proposal, which
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  Speaker 1: was just not recently. The Proposal is being hosted by
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  Speaker 1: Jesse Palmer. He was the Bachelor at a few years ago,
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  Speaker 1: many many years ago. I don't I don't remember him
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  Speaker 1: as a bachelor. I don't know how many people do.
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  Speaker 1: He's a professional football player. He also worked on Good
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  Speaker 1: Morning America for a while. I don't know if he's
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  Speaker 1: still is it's just a good choice as the hope.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think he's like, um, he's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: great with this. I'm not sure if he's still all
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  Speaker 1: Good Morning America. You're right, but he also does um,
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  Speaker 1: some entertainment reporting for I think it's um, what is
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  Speaker 1: the what is Why am I blanking all these things?
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  Speaker 1: What's that European outlet for pop culture news? Help us
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  Speaker 1: out here? Mark daily Mail? Thank you? Okay, yes, thank
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  Speaker 1: He hosts Daily Mail, which is you know, a entertainment
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  Speaker 1: news program. And I knew Jesse Palmer even before he
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  Speaker 1: was the Bachelor because I'm a Giants fan and he
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  Speaker 1: was the hot backup quarterback. And then then all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden he became the Bachelor, and I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: if I was old enough to go on the show,
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  Speaker 1: I'd be down with that bachelor. Really, I mean, he's
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  Speaker 1: a bachelor. Remember you think he's a great choice to
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  Speaker 1: host the show. He's good looking, he's intriguing. Are you
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  Speaker 1: going to watch the proposal? I guess yeah, I have to.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a n z Ky fan and there's my family basically,
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  Speaker 1: so of course I'm going to watch the proposal. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I had a couple of friends that went to go
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  Speaker 1: to the first taping last week and they say it's
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  Speaker 1: quite something like proposals may happen on this show for real,
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  Speaker 1: and they may only know each other for a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Like what I mean a little bit, I mean less
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  Speaker 1: than we know these people from The Bachelor. Bachelor in
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  Speaker 1: Paradise absolutely crazy. I actually had a friend of mine
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  Speaker 1: here in Denver, Colorado who was going to be on
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  Speaker 1: the show. Actually I helped him film his like casting
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  Speaker 1: video for this show. He really wanted to do it,
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  Speaker 1: it didn't didn't happen. Um, did he end up going
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  Speaker 1: on the Bachelorette? No, he didn't. He didn't end up
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  Speaker 1: going on. It's interesting. I think I don't know actually
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  Speaker 1: for me, these shows do they work? What? What keeps
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  Speaker 1: an audience engaged? I mean, we've had the Married at
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  Speaker 1: First Sight show that's done really well. Um, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we've had some of these, like other dating shows that
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  Speaker 1: that last, but a lot of them also kind of
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  Speaker 1: flutter away. What do you have to see in the
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  Speaker 1: proposal to keep you hooked other than being a fan
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  Speaker 1: of the production company. I guess just just like the
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  Speaker 1: does the small little glimmer of it actually working out?
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  Speaker 1: I think that's what it is on Merit at first Sight. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I think it's like absolutely almost on he men to
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  Speaker 1: just see your husband or wife for the first time
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  Speaker 1: as you're walking down the aisle to them. But then
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  Speaker 1: you're like, wait a second, how crazy would it be
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  Speaker 1: if this works? So I guess there's just that a
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  Speaker 1: little crazy, outrageous factor that you tune in floor but
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  Speaker 1: we forget And I think this is one of the
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  Speaker 1: most interesting things. Uh And I said, and I'll talk
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  Speaker 1: about this other day. We forget that not that long ago. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: and actually in other places in the world today, arranged
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  Speaker 1: marriages are not a forgotten gesture like those they happen,
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  Speaker 1: they're respected, and so they worked so so often. That's
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  Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, is I want to see if
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  Speaker 1: the percentages. I don't have the percentages in front of me,
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  Speaker 1: but I do know they're very high. They work so
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  Speaker 1: so often because the grass isn't greener anywhere else. You
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  Speaker 1: are focused on this is my partner, and how do
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  Speaker 1: I make this work with this person. So the idea
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  Speaker 1: of not knowing somebody for very long or an arranged
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  Speaker 1: marriage isn't one that I'm upset about. Like I actually
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  Speaker 1: kind of wish like I would have just been set
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  Speaker 1: up and this is your wife. You got to build
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  Speaker 1: a life and you're gonna make this thing work. And
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  Speaker 1: I would have said, let's do this thing. I think
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  Speaker 1: would have been I think it would be perfect for
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  Speaker 1: you. You You want to go on married at first sight. Next,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't really think this could work. However,
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  Speaker 1: I know be horrible for me because I am just
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  Speaker 1: it's got to like I can't make something work. It
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  Speaker 1: just has to naturally work. But uh yeah, arranged marriages
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  Speaker 1: they're successful often, and I think it has to do
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  Speaker 1: with maybe the parents, you know, knowing their kids so
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  Speaker 1: well they know who will be a good fit for them.
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  Speaker 1: I think my mom will be able to choose my
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  Speaker 1: sister's husband quite well. I don't disagree with that. Hey
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  Speaker 1: actually have a caller on the line. But before we
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  Speaker 1: go to I gotta run through the rest of these
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  Speaker 1: fast news really quick. Here biggest news I think today
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  Speaker 1: right now is Vanessa Grimaldi dating somebody we don't know who.
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  Speaker 1: Do you have any idea you think it is? And
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  Speaker 1: she talks about it on Dean and Jared's Help. I
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  Speaker 1: suck at dating podcast. Yeah, definitely, she hints at it,
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  Speaker 1: But I don't think that it's somebody that we know.
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  Speaker 1: That's interesting. Do you think, I mean, is he's not
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  Speaker 1: in the back to the world, not in the back
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  Speaker 1: to that world. From listening to the podcast, they sound serious.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think? Are you happy? I mean, you're
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  Speaker 1: obviously happy for her. I mean, how do we do
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  Speaker 1: we dance around this issue? Do we just talk about
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  Speaker 1: do we bring her on sometime to talk about a
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  Speaker 1: new relationship? I mean, this is a big deal, right.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's relatively fresh break up. I think it's fresh.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say they've been dating any longer than two months.
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  Speaker 1: So maybe when she's really ready to be public with it,
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  Speaker 1: we can have her on. Okay, I get it. I
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  Speaker 1: want to respect that because I tell you what, I
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  Speaker 1: get that a public breakup is tough to go through,
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  Speaker 1: and you don't want to go public with a new
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  Speaker 1: relationship until you're exactly ready. I think it's very very smart.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Next news, Ari and Lauren moving quickly. We've
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  Speaker 1: heard it, you know, a couple of weeks ago from
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  Speaker 1: the therapist. They are moving and grooving, uh, in a
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  Speaker 1: way that we've never seen before. They've bought never seen before.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I've never seen this. This is We're not
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  Speaker 1: even starting the past Threat season yet, and these people
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  Speaker 1: have traveled all around the world. I mean, just for them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm jealous, honestly, so if I say something, Negati appears
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  Speaker 1: because I'm just envious of their life. But then they
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  Speaker 1: fought a house. I mean they're not slowing it down. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: they're not. They're in it to win it. As Randy
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  Speaker 1: Jackson would say back in the day, are they going
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  Speaker 1: to be the first. Are they going to be the
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  Speaker 1: first couple to get married you think out of all
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  Speaker 1: this group? Actually, I think they might. And if they
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  Speaker 1: don't do a televised wedding, I could see them just
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  Speaker 1: doing it this summer on their own. Yeah, I can.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I could do it. I just actually I'll
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  Speaker 1: get a picture actually after the podcast there, I just
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  Speaker 1: officially got my ordination in Indiana. I can now illegally
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  Speaker 1: marry somebody in Indiana. My cousin recently has asked me, well,
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  Speaker 1: I could actually transfer to any state in any fifty states.
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  Speaker 1: So if anybody's out there wanting me to, you know,
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  Speaker 1: do the ceremony, just let me know you well, hopefully
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  Speaker 1: actually you can a married fairly soon. And on the
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  Speaker 1: next one, Nick Vile is on General Hospital. Is he
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  Speaker 1: a cast member? I'm reading that he's posting something. Is
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  Speaker 1: this a new career for him? What's going on? He's acting,
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  Speaker 1: but he's playing himself in an acting role, like he
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  Speaker 1: has a script and he is playing the host of
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  Speaker 1: some sort of General hospital ceremony that they have. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how good of an actor he is. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I think he's probably pretty good. I haven't got to
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  Speaker 1: see him other than on his TV role. I'm pump,
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  Speaker 1: I'm pumped. I'll watch in your hospital for Nick. Yeah a.
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  Speaker 1: UM to our favorite segment one that we just love
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  Speaker 1: so much. We're gonna do. Who the heck are you, Jesse? Jesse,
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  Speaker 1: help me out with your last meeting. It's it's sin Fact.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, uh, you know, sinch back, like the trash
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  Speaker 1: bags sin Fact Sinsact. That's amazing, Jesse. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: joining the Almost Famous podcast. Thanks for having us. Ashley
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  Speaker 1: and I are pumped to talk to you. Um, tell
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  Speaker 1: us about life today. What's going on? Um? You know,
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  Speaker 1: the father of three, the husband. UM, have a couple
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  Speaker 1: of businesses that I run and life is busy. Man.
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  Speaker 1: There's not a lot of free time. There's not a
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  Speaker 1: lot of to cut out other than sleep. At this point,
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  Speaker 1: I get it, man. The kids, the kids have to
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  Speaker 1: pass to away on you A bit. It's exciting though,
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  Speaker 1: and you're married, um to and lord looters right, I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind a name right with me? Alright? Is she with that? Right? Now?
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  Speaker 1: She's not. I'm actually running one of my businesses. I'm out.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting in my truck. My god, I was just
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  Speaker 1: looking at me like, hey, buddy, get out here in
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  Speaker 1: the heat and help us. Uh So, okay, Uh I
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: know Astley has a ton of backtord four backtor question.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: She is history nut when it comes to the backlord.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: But I want to know when it comes to your businesses,
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: you gotta promote him a little bit. I mean, if
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: we gotta help you out. Yeah, what are you doing?
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: I I own a couple of property management companies. I
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: own Colorado home Check based out of Colorado. I owned
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Arizona home Check based out of Scott, Arizona. And then
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: uh I owned Rocky Mountain Deck Company and we build
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: custo decks mostly for a lot of our luxury home
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: clients that we managed home for. And um, I'm I
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: just finished up real estate school and get my real
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: estate license and I'm gonna kind of parlay that all
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: in my you know, the property management real estate business.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: So it'll be good. My wife's gonna join me in that,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: so it should be we'd be a pretty good team.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I think you're absolutely crazy busy. Are you in for Colorado?
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I am here. You talked about Colorado. There is there
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: any connection to Denver? Yeah? Yeah, So I moved from Cleveland, Ohio, Amberston, Ohio,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: thirty minutes lest to Cleveland when I was eight, moved
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: to Record, Colorado, a lot of place, and spent about
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: fifteen years there. I met my wife there and we
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: got married and started having the little guys that girls,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: and her whole family is down in Scottsdale, so we
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: moved down here to be closer to family, and now
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: we're we're down here. We spend you know, yeah, ten
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: months a year down here, and then you know, kind
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: of jumped back and forth when it gets row hot
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: down here to go back to Colorado to enjoy the
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: beautiful weather. They're awesome. I love it. Hey, well, I'm
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: gonna throw this over to Ashley here. Uh, just to
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: give a little background here, you won the final rows
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: in the Napathist Uh back. I don't know how many
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: moons ago dec it was on? How long is that?
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Ten years ago? Ten ten, ten years. Yeah, back pre
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Jason Mesnick. Everybody's who's that guy? And like the guy
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: with the kids. They're like, oh, yeah, I remember him. Unbelievable. Actually,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: take it away, how did your wife feel when she
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: met someone that she really liked but he had one
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: um A bachelorette season? Well, my wife was on Jason
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: Mesnick season, so she kind of gets it. Um. And
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: then I started hosting all those reunion cruises. Not my
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: wife and I kind of met, and uh, when we
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: first met, she wasn't into me, and I think that's
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: why I was so into her. I was the one
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: girl I didn't want to talk to me, and uh,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: you know, I was kind of a loud, obnoxious guy,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: and then ended up working out in the end. You know,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: we have three beautiful children now know us seven, Charlotte
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Floor and hard one and life is good. So you
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: guys are one of the secret bachelor couples. There are
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: so many in this world, apparently that Ben and I
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: have been learning week by week because part in us. Yes,
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: we should be educated on the entire history of the franchise. However, um,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: I mean I didn't start watching it till I was
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: twenty two, So I only know from Ali season on.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, you're a newcomer. I mean, I guess so,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: but you know, newcomer that was eight years ago. It's true.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: It's true. Well, we were back in the day before
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: it was cool to go on reality TV. We went
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: on reality TV. There was no attle. You know, he
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: didn't really get famous from being on reality TV. Now,
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: if you go on and get and sent home on
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: night one, you get like five, you know, Facebook followers.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: You know, it was it was different back then. We
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: I don't even think there was. I don't even think
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Twitter was around back when I was what you are old,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: because you're referring to Twitter and Facebook, Yeah, exactly exactly,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: and now it's like ma chat and all sorts of
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: crazy stuff. Yeah, you guys truly had fifteen minutes of fame.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: Like it was only fifteen minutes. Yeah, no joke. It
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: was quick you blink and see later on to the
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: next season. So I wonder, actually, would that make it
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: easier actually for you to go onto the show now?
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, if if you knew that, like after the
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: show is done, it's forgotten piece of your life. I mean,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: why wouldn't he just do all of these. I asked
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: up the question towards you, why why why wouldn't he
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: do all of these? Or why wouldn't I do all these?
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you do all? I mean, if if you
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: know that the repercussions from this show are very minimal,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: don't you think it would be easier than to decide
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna do it or not. I think it's
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: worse now to be honest with you. So, like, here's
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: what I get called phone calls all the time. So
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: I'll give you guys a nugget here that you probably
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: don't already help. And that is on one the final
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: four our pick. Okay, every yeah, what um? Wait a second,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: you're talking to a bachelor here he knows what how
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: it goes? Wait is this Ben Higgins? Wait? What? Ben?
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Am I talking to you? Ben Higgin? I didn't even
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't even realize that. I'm like,
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: they're like Ben and Ashley, and I'm like, all right,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with Jesse. This makes it all
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: less awkward for us because we honestly have no idea.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Who the heck you are? Perfect? That's awesome, dude. You
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: know how it ghosts on night one. You know, they
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: basically time out? Could we just boss? You're a second
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: realize what just happened? You have no clue? You're like,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: who you were talking to? You? I gotta I got
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: a text message. I got a text message like, hey,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: do you want to go on i Hire Radio with
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Benn and Ashley. I'm like, sweet, that sounds like fun
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I'm all in. Did you think you were on a
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: radio show and not a podcast? Yeah? I had no
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: clue what I was doing. They just you know, I
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: just this is just so good, all right? Anyways, keep going? Yeah,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I know, and you know that I was also on
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: the show, so I I wasn't up there with the
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: top four, but I pretty much know how it goes.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: What actually, what's your last name? I can Nettie otherwise
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: known as I. Alright, fair enough, I like it. I
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: like it. Well, you guys are both nines. Then you
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: already know what's going on random radio hosts that don't
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: know about the show, So that's even better. This is
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: just so funny. This is the best material we've had
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: so far. Keep it organic. Hey, but Jesse, tell us
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: what does happen to the Top four Okay, so you know,
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: you go on your hotel dates, it gets interesting. That's
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: where they separate you. Um, and that's when I don't know,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: for me, I actually kind of realized that I was
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: on a show and it wasn't I don't know, the
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: whole rest of the time that I that I went
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: through the process. It was just kind of like hanging
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: out with friends. Our season, all of the guys were
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: super close, and I think that's what made our season,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: you know, so successful viewership wise, was they could really
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: see the fond um. And so even though the producers
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: were producing a show and creating problem drama solution like
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: they do in every single season, um, the guys really did.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: I mean we when I got married, we had a
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: lot of the guys from my season in our wedding
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: as groomsman because we really were close. Um. So when
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: it went down to final four and they separated the
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: stall and locked the ball in separate hotel rooms, that's
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: when the mind games sort of third because you're you're
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: kind of sitting there and stewing on you know, everything
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: that's going on or what could be going on that
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: you don't know about, etcetera, etcetera. Etcetera. And the producers
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: and the production team do a really good, you know
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: job of trying to distract you. Oh we're gonna you're
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: going deep fishing today, or oh you're gonna do that today,
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: or whatever the case may be. Um, but it really
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: is a mind mender to sit in there and think like, Okay, well,
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I you know, if you're in love with this person,
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: what the heck are they doing with the other guy?
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Or you know what I mean? It's I gets it
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: really is. Uh, it's difficult, you know what, Jesse, we
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: do know what you mean. Sorry, I'm gonna stop busting
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: your balls right now, so it's all good. Me up.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Then I had no clue and I apologize. I you know,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: you guys, you guys are way to school than me,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: selling up a way better idea of what crafting than
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: if I'm old school. I honestly I have a couple
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: of questions for you here. Mostly I'm impressed that you're
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: so willingly able to give up your time to anybody. Uh.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: That is a social die Heart Radio, So thank you
• 25:35
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• 25:37
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• 25:39
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• 25:41
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• 25:46
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• 25:49
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• 25:51
  Speaker 1: at least, so how much you appreciate our heart Radio.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: We could use that, Our team could use it. Jesse,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I heard something that you said a little bit ago,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: and I'm still confused, and I'm trying to google is
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: we're talking. I'm not finding much. You acted like these
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: reunion cruises where a thing I used to know about
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: and that actually should know about. I don't know what
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: you're talking about. Yeah, well, back in the day, if
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: you go back to the very first Bachelor Path and
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: you watch the trailer to the very first special Pad,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: you will see footage of people like Natalie Gets, David Good,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Jesse Kopak all on a cruise ship. And basically what
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: happened was that's where the Bachelor pad and what is now?
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: What is a Bachelor in Paradise? I mean he's been
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: to so many times over the name he has changed
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: it like three or four times. But that's where it
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: all came from. Was I used to host these reunion cruises,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: so that all previous contestants could get together. I mean,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: we now aren't a part of in a pretty incredible
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: dating pool. Uh, if you think about it, we've all
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: went through a very similar experience. We get one another, um,
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: and it's really cool just to all get together. And
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: I was actually thinking about hosting lants this summer in
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Scott's Sale and this kind of reaching out to some
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: of you new schoolers and saying, hey, there's you know,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: probably five hundred of us old schoolers that you do
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: smartest don't even know. We'd love to meet you guys. Um.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: We love to hang out and share stories and sales
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: and talk about all the producers and all the silly
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: things that we've seen happen over the years. And uh,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: that's kind of how you know it all came along
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: was we're all getting together on cruise ships and having
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: a good old time. And production came to me and said, hey,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: we want to film this, And I said, I have
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: a really good idea. Why don't we put twenty guys
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: and twenty girls in the house like Survivor and do
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: challenges and bring sponsors in and uh, let's call it
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: the Castaways. And you know the next thing I know
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: there's a show on and uh Lowisa Ryecroft co hosting
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: it with Chris Harrison, and they called the Beast for past.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: So it's pretty interesting where you should have got credit,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Like place doesn't give credit to people. Come on, you
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: guys know better than that, Jessie. That was your baby,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: your brain child, no doubt, no doubt. But you know what,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm pretty stoke, good life. I have the most
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: beautiful family, I think, and I don't really follow the
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: show too much anymore, but I think I'm the only
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: guy with three Bachelor fambinos. So I'll just take that
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: ground and walk away call it good. Three Bachelor kids.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: I think you may hold the record right now. Yeah,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I think so. You're you're claiming I just want to
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: get this freight. You're claiming that you are the creator
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: for a Bachelor path. I didn't say I created the
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Bachelor Pad. I said I created the Castaways, And the
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: original idea was to rank twenty guys and twenty girls
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: and create a show where we did challenges like Survivor etcetera, etcetera, etcetera.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: And I did share this idea with production. They came
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: and filmed it because they loved the idea so much,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: and they used the footage from my reunions. You can
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: go watch it in the Bachelor Pad the first you know,
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: before they ever shot the first Bachelor Pad series. Uh,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: they used the footage for my reunion cruises exactly, No way.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Ye wow, Jesse, that's a that's an incredible story. Google facts.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: You can go google that stuff. Okay, so listen, UM,
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I think that what you had was obviously a terrific
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: idea turned out to be a huge part of the franchise.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: I've always wanted to one put Paradise on a cruise,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: so it's like, not in Mexico, but next it will
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: be Bachelor on a cruise because I've been on eighteen
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: cruises in my life and I'm just a huge cruise fan.
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: So you guys used to go on cruises just for
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: like our reunion, for yourselves, not not for fans. No. Well,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: so we did do some fan cruises I think one
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: or two um at one point. Um, but we did.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I mean it was awesome because we would go to
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: the cruise line to be like, hey, um, why don't
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: you give us cabins fifty cruise carts um? And They're like,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: why would we do such a thing. And I'm like, well,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I'll get you in People magazine for the next four
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: weeks straight. And they're like, okay, perfect, and they would.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: And so obviously, when you call all your friends in
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: the show and you're like, hey, here's a you know,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: ticket to go on a cruise for five days from
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: you know, l A to Baja back and here's a
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: free booth card, who's gonna say no? Of course, you know,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: we're all single, ready to be going, no jobs really
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: or whatever. And uh so we all went, had a
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: great time and you know, it was cool and we met,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: We met a lot of people, made a lot of friends,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: and you know, I just had a really great time.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: It was it really wasn't incredible experience how I met
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: my wife. I met my wife on the first cruise
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I ever host. Well, I will be calling real curbean
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: after this, just kidding. I've actually already emailed them multiple
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: times about this. Get back to me. You're gonna keep
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: getting your ideas, UHL, and you gotta be careful. Actually,
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I want to know today, uh just to feel just
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: a little bit, uh if you invited a bunch of
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: the newbies on a cruise. Okay, take away the TV cameras,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: to take away any type of parenting or restriction. How
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: wild does that get? I I don't know if I
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: could handle it. So now it's it's so when when
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: we used to do it, we are we were all
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: obviously not married, no kids, and it was a whole
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: different ballgame, and it got my point exactly, my point
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: of pretty incredible. But now, you know, you've got to remember,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: I'm pre Jason Mesnick. Jason Mesnick and I went Final
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: two and Jason became the next Bachelor, and you know
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: I won the season. So that's how long ago it is.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: So now Jason and I, well he had a son then,
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: but now we all have you know, small childer in etcetera, etcetera.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: So if I was to do one, and I did
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: it here in Scott's Dale, it would probably be you know,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: a little let's call on PG maybe yeah, maybe PG
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: thirteen with maybe a evening flash rated are but I
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: think it would be way more chill than they used
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: to be. I mean, there was a long photos that
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: could not get posted to the interweb back in the
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: day because just uh, you know, they just would have
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: gotten flagged immediately. There were a lot of hot tops
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: that had to be drained after I get together. Let's
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: put it that way. Come on, Oh man, Yeah, unbelievable.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: That's you. That's youtubeable too. The there's a video of
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: us after the video of the hot tub guy draining
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: the hot top and he said, this water is spent?
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: Is this? Does this happen in Paradise? Is that the thing?
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: I've never gone in the hot time in Paradise? Proud
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: of it? Oh really, I wouldn't either. You get those
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: weird bumping stuffy Jesse. We appreciate you coming on me
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: and you've been great. Thank you for just coming on
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: a random podcast. You had no clue what you're doing
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: and and uh we're really happy you did. Well. Hey,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: I really apologize. I was unaware that I was in Bachelor.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Uh you know Royalty, So my apologies. I had no
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: clue who I was getting on. You guys are awesome,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: and uh, I really appreciate you guys thinking of me
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: and even having me on the podcast. Uh hey, now
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: we know who you are and you will now I
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: know you guys. Well, we'll have a Facebook page. Hit
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: me up. This is so funny. We loved that part.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: All right, bye you guys, hey Ben, Actually, who the
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: heck are you? This segment is not ending anytime soon.
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: We're gonna keep running it up until SECA season of
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: The Bat Threat with two special guests, one from our
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: season I'm looking forward to that, a newbie as we say,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: and one old bee and one from Lorenzo Lorenzo, I mean,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: we're absolutely killing me with names that I have no
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: clue who these people are. Uh, Lorenzo, we have somebody
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: from his season on right, Yes, that's who we're going
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: to have in the next coming weeks. So we have
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: two really special through the heck are you guys? I
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: know all of you well, all of your thinking, how
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: in the world are you going to sleep? With those
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: two guests coming up in the next few weeks of
• 33:57
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  Speaker 1: How are you hey? Actually? Yeah, where are you at? JP?
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  Speaker 1: all the time when I was a badgel. What are
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  Speaker 1: the normal life. We're just out of the spotlight, working
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  Speaker 1: nine to five, two kids and running around like crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we're just like normal, normal people. I I
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  Speaker 1: was just recently speaking a normal people. Um. I know
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  Speaker 1: actually here uh is a big thing of you both
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  Speaker 1: as well. But I need to ask this, I need
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  Speaker 1: to tell you this. I've stayed a couple of times
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  Speaker 1: go in, nobody mentioned that that's where the two of
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  Speaker 1: you got married. Correct, Yes, where we got married. That
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  Speaker 1: place is so beautiful, unbelievable. Yeah, I don't feel like
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I mean, even though it's been a while since you
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  Speaker 1: two have been on the show, and you know that,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you're the essence of J p N
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  Speaker 1: actually has not left the show. Is very proud of
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: you saying this to butter us up No, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but are you up for one? I don't have much
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  Speaker 1: to get out of there. You came on the podcast already,
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  Speaker 1: So thanks, you're so sweet. We're blessing. Oh it's so funny.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: It is like we feel like old news, like you know,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: we this is like what eight, nine, ten years ago,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: so it's like seven. Yeah it was seven according to deductions.
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  Speaker 1: Actually been married by we're year and a half. Yeah,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I guess you're read. I guess it's more like seven
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: and a half. But it's so funny because when I
• 46:35
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  Speaker 1: anyone else, Like I don't even feel like it was
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  Speaker 1: a part of my life, Like that feels like a
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• 46:47
  Speaker 1: being fans. I would agree that. Actually, my question like, actually,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: you've been on the show like paradise and everything. Oh no, sorry, Kendie,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: I guess you have to ask you that right now.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like that too, because I get asking
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  Speaker 1: j pre thing like I'm just a fan now, I
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: don't really like I don't feel like it was a
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: part of my life as much anymore. Really, you were
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: just on the show, and you know February, I like
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: think when I watched it and I'm on it like
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: I did it, But when I'm not on the show,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: I feel very distant from it. I don't feel distant
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: from it yet. Yeah, I think you need a little yea,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: a little more time. I would say two years of
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: no Bachelor air time going to happen. You know, you guys,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: you're the first couple that I felt like I watched
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  Speaker 1: and I truly felt like they found their soul mates.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: Because actually I think here season was the second Bachelor
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: that season I ever watched, but it was like just
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: totally different from what I saw previously. I was like, this,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: this is real, genuine lasting love. Ah, that's so sweet.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: He's driving me crazy every single day of my life.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: I know, but that's part of the fun, right, that's party. Thanks.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: What made it different to the two of you? I
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: mean I think actually I both agree we watched it
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  Speaker 1: and we realized that, you know, you two had something special.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: But what was in your opinion? What was that? What
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: do you want to answer? I mean, I don't really know.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: I feel like everybody asked us was the secret. I
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: think we both went on the show for for kind
• 48:34
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• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Like we had very low expectations. We went on just
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: kind of as ourselves, not trying to achieve anything, with
• 48:46
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  Speaker 1: kind of set up for us, our careers set up
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• 48:54
  Speaker 1: genuine emotions, um, and we just happened. It's just like
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: going through a bar her Like sometimes you go and
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: you meet someone you know, you you you know, you
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: find somebody that you love, or you find something that
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: you connect with. But for us, we're lucky enough specifind
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: someone that we connected with. It was a totally weird
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: environment and then we just flo flourished after we got
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: up the show. I think, yeah, I don't think it
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: really started until, you know, way after we got off
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: the show. I mean that was just the cattalyst for everything.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: And it's just like in life, you know, relationship to work,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: they don't work. People meet the craziest ways, like we
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: just happened to this way, and then we got on
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: with our lives together. And fortunately for us, we grew
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: together a supposed growing upon you know, like GP still
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• 49:52
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  Speaker 1: so we kind of continued on our past. I love that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's good. Actually, all right, I'm gonna have to be clear.
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  Speaker 1: I would love for you at Ashley Gap because I
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  Speaker 1: to this, Well, why are you asking me this? This
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  Speaker 1: Like they can navigate through that. I think men have
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  Speaker 1: a more difficult time, Like there's so many like boots
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  Speaker 1: and sex appeal and lost and I just think they
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  Speaker 1: have a hard time navigating for that. So they're just
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: I said truths I said last time. I love but
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  Speaker 1: I'm totally crossing like a respect boundary when I bring
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: this up. You're a little lustful for Bentley? Oh? I
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: mean that dragged on way more on the show, on
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: the like on the airing than it actually did in
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: real life. In real life, it was like three days,
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: no King, we need to know, and I was like,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: let it go, guys, like, get over it. Yeah. I
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: like to actually love that that you whispered because you
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: felt like you're offending somebody, Like not everybody can still
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: hear you toful of I know. I just like, Eventley,
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: is this this character from the Bachelor past that I've
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: always wondered why hasn't washed up on the shores of
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise because he's such a drama king. Well,
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: you know, I think he's really smart and he just
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: chose to stay out of it because I think it
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: affected his life. I think it really really affected his
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: life with you know, the way that he was I
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: don't know if I can say portrayed or the things
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: he did and how it looks. I think it really
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: affected him. I mean, I don't know. I've never spoken
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: to him, but I think that it really negatively affected him,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: and he wouldn't bring it back into his life. I
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: would be my guests, I wouldn't. It was a positive
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: experience for him. I just think he has a lot
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: to lose if he if he went back. I'm looking
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: at pictures. I just googled kidneys. Have no clue y'all
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: talking about popped up a picture of your Chris siris
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: and standings bide my side. Actually, I you have to
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: google it. Um, Chris Harrison looks so young, yeah, and
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: say looking at this picture and like, honestly, like he
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: had to be like, you're eight, right, I mean he
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: did the same. Oh my god. I think Harrison gets
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: better looking as he gets old. I totally think so too.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. And I also think one thing about Chris Harrison,
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: I when you meet him, he's so extraordinary and charismatic
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: that he's like I love him more in person than
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: I ever did from watching him, you know on the bathroom,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Like there's something about him. He has a spark, he
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: has something I don't know, He's got such swad. Yes,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: that's what it is. Like confidence, These are so cool
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: and funny swear. I love it. Jeez, I feel like
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: I feel gets more loved every year. And I get why.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, I love Chris, uh, but I mean that
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: guy is literally like some of these hosts, you kind
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: of get sick up right, time wears on a bit.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Chris time does not matter to him, And just the
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: older he gets, the more relatable he gets with this
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: next generation kind of coming up through. Um, it's super impressive.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: And I think that's the part of his job that
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: we don't give enough credit for. It's just how relatable
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: he stayed. The vast donation. Yeah, everybody loves them so good, right,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: I gotta quite good word. It really is what Okay,
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: as a bachelor at winter Now you've kind of moved on,
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: but if you could go back to those moments, is
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: it tough for you to watch the show back? So
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't watch the last few episodes, but I think
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: it's at that point, Like I was fine for the
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: for the for the majority of it watching it back,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: but at that point, the two of us that had
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: not seen each other in a couple of months, and
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: the novelty of of of hiding it all and it
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: kind of wore off, and we really just wanted to
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: be together, be at in the open, and move on
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: with our lives. I think the last few episodes I
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: didn't watch, just because we were really just kind of
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: sick of it all and wanted to move on. But
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: it's from what I did watch, nothing ever really bothered me.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: You were so overconfident because I had been locked up
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: for like two maybe it was week three, but yeah,
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: I think it was a week three game. But it's
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: good one thing that you. I wrote you so every
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: day from what I decided it was going to be JP.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: It was probably a week three or maybe seen the half,
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: but I wrote him a journal entry every single day,
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: like explaining well, why I did this and why did
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: that and how I was feeling. And we still even
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: have that journal. So he kind of was really confident
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: all along and even playing it back like he knew
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: what was going from my head at certain times. So
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like that was kind of easy breezy for
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: us because it was such a clear choice for me. Um,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: I don't love that story. The journal really kind of
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: like it's not that I ever had any out, but
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: you know, just when I thought that maybe there could
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: be about to hand me the journal just kind of
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: to reaffirm all of my thoughts through the entire quote
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: unquote process. It was just, h my god, I'm such
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: a good girlfriend. You were you? That's true. That's so weird,
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: that's lovely. I think so many that's a great idea
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: for the future bachelor and bachelor to do, especially and
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: they've really figured out who their person is and then
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: the rest of it is all just going along with
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: the TV show of it. Yeah, because you never really
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: known you could pick their work for it, but this
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: was just it was just it was perfect. It was
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: kind of love that. Yeah. I got one last question
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: for you guys, who have you loved watching on this
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: franchise since you guys have departed from it. That's a
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: good one too. Yeah, but no, actually I've never yelled
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: at the TV more than at you, Like you're so
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: beautifully of so much going on, like get it together,
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: like walking girl, be confident, like you could be the
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: most beautiful person in the whole franchise. That's like you
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: don't know it, you know what I mean, it's like
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: working girl. Thank you. But to scream over the phone now,
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: oh well, I kind of like that. I haven't out
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: emotion in you. Oh you know, I really loved watching
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: and you'll never guess Ari. Yeah, I don't know, and
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: I still can't put my finger on it. Like every
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: all the past seasons, I've been like, Okay, you know,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I'm just a fan. But with Aria, I was really
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: into it. I don't know, I just liked him and
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: I thought he was really I mean, I thought he
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: was sincere and I loved his the way he responded.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: I felt like he was really listening to them and
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: responding truthfully and sincerely. I mean, unfortunate everything that happened
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: and how everything happened, but in the moment, like I really,
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: I really enjoyed. I really enjoyed this season. That's nice
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: to hear that. Yeah, yeah, that's beg of you to say.
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: It's it's nice to hear because I think, even on
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: this podcast, we've been overly tough on Aria. You know,
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: I think he had his own things that weren't great.
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: But it's nice to be you to be supportive of
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: that guy. Because at this point, as we're talking about earlier,
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: you know, before you all came on, I'm really happy
• 59:06
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• 59:09
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• 59:13
  Speaker 1: hes found one, let's celebrate that. And hey, I want
• 59:16
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• 59:18
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• 1:02:35
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• 1:02:38
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• 1:02:40
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• 1:02:43
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• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: purfing person. I think it is absolutely disgusting. And here's
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: why I really like people, and I find people very intriguing.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: But my issue is that when you burp, it's coming
• 1:03:03
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• 1:03:05
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• 1:03:09
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• 1:03:13
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• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: I get it you need to release yourself. But when
• 1:03:20
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• 1:03:24
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• 1:03:27
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• 1:03:31
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• 1:03:36
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• 1:03:39
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• 1:03:46
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• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: You're just you've got to do it quietly. That's how
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: bathrooms are for I'm speaking smelling what's coming out of
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: your stomach. I don't need to I like, yes, you
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: know why I like that because you didn't take it back.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: There was no sermon. You just hate burping. And I
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: think burping is disgusting too. I think it's one of
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: your life, you know. I don't want to smell what's
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: coming out of your stomach. Well, the same thing is
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: happening when you fart. And I have to say my
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: mom hates it. She was one time listening to the
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• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: she's like, use the F word and I was like, no,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: I didn't. It's PG three. It's like PG and she's like, no,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: you use the word fart. I hate that word. And
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, what I hate that word too. But
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: past gas sounds just as a gross so it's all gross.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: But I have to say that I I'm the farter.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: I am not a burper. H there's also a tuting,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: but I don't like it. I don't look at all.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: But but I'm farter. I barely ever burp. I always
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: say that I maybe four times a year, and the
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: littlest things like oops um. But there is something disgusting
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: about like having a friend who's just like sitting in
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: your family room and constantly burping, and then like you
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: can keep it in your mouth, like you could burp
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: and like have your mouth closed and then you just,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: you know, breathe out your nose. It's just you don't
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: have to make that sound and then blow it out.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: I'm with you, know, so, I think there are two
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: times to people in the world. People actually I heeart
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  Speaker 1: media dot com, email us, let us know who are you?
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: Why are you the way you are? And what would
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: you rather be around? At a room room of starter um?
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: And and there is no neither okay that neither question
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: you you either road outlets there be honest with yourself
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: both of lead are you the far purer? And what
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: room would you rather be in? There's no between here.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: People are going to say that burping doesn't spread the
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: smell as potently. And here's the thing. You're right, but
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: at least it's farting. You can like go to the
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: bathroom like squat down then you get it all out. Oh,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: actually just got to miss a limit to so unbelievable. Hey,
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: actually today's gonna last. I want to throw us quick.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: Thank you uh to to Jesse for coming up. I'm
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: not even trying to stay his last name again. Too
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: much for me, JP. And actually they're awesome, so in love,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: so great to listen to, encouraging for all of us.
• 1:06:39
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• 1:06:49
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• 1:06:51
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• 1:06:55
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• 1:06:59
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• 1:07:01
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